8ballkilroy Archive

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2	I secretly enjoy rejecting myself I agree, but also the more you beat yourself up for failing to act, the more it becomes a source of anxiety and a self-fulfilling prophecy of failure. Using the idea of outcome independency should be to give you some levity and perspective of the situation.	/r/seduction	17/07/18 11:01 PM
3	I secretly enjoy rejecting myself Everyone experiences this, even the most seasoned veterans of "seduction". As humans we want to avoid discomfort and our brains do everything in their power to make that happen. One way to minimize your brain yelling at you "YOU'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH" is to practice focusing on what I call the "ultra-present", that is, clear your mind of everything except saying "I like your shoes" or whatever stupid opener that pops into your mind. The rest is see-what-happens mode. I'm sure you've heard it before…	/r/seduction	16/07/18 09:45 PM