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Discussion8copiesofbeemovie/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:40 AM
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5

What a weird take. Are we gonna ban everything that “enhances” people’s looks? Skin care products? Beard care products? Conditioner? Shapewear? High heels? Those fuckin inserts that guys put in their shoes to appear a few inches taller? What a slippery slope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:12 PM
3

Sometimes people are shitty. Some women think “my money is my money, his money is out money” and “he needs to pay the bills bc he’s the Man of the house and that’s HIS responsibility” and some men think “if she asks for any money at all she’s a gold digger, even if I don’t have a job and am living off her” or “my wife is a stay-at-home mom who doesn’t bring in income- therefore, I can use it how I please and she has no right to ask for anything.” People are WL I usually at their worst in their r…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/24 02:16 AM
3

I fully support men calling themselves kings in the same way that women call themselves queens, everyone deserves to have a good sense of self esteem. Calling yourself a prize, however, is a bit much, no matter the gender. Goes too far past confident and into arrogant.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 08:15 PM
5

If you decide all women suck and there’s no point, then of course no woman will want to be with you. If you see women as individuals like men and treat them with respect regardless of whether they will put out, there is a much greater chance of them putting out. In any case, anything is more than 0, which is what you get if you just write off the entirety of the female population
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 02:20 PM
1

Not having empathy or being selfish are gender neutral toxic behaviors. Both genders exhibit it??? And it fucking sucks no matter what the gender of the person is. I’d just as quickly dump a woman for that shit as I would a man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:43 PM
1

Oh dude gross, just say you hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:35 PM
17

Thanks I love penises 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:20 PM
24

I never get the ick from guys portraying 'feminine' behaviors. I do get the ick from things like him being unempathetic, or super selfish, or temperamental, or stuff like that. Red flag stuff. I love that my fiancé isn't afraid to do 'feminine' stuff cuz he's not insecure about his masculinity. That's one of my favorite things about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:51 PM
1

Alexander Hamilton?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:05 PM
5

If I could pick a good man making 100k or a shitty man making 200k, I know what I’d pick. Both would provide stable living situations, and at that point, if basic needs will be fulfilled, I am much more interested in literally everything else about a man other than what number is on his checks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:04 PM
2

I find a man who is financially stable and able to financially take care of himself to be very attractive. Extra money is hot like big ol titties are hot-they’d be a good bonus, but no one is getting married just for the titties. It’s possible you’re getting “attracted to rich men” confused with “UNattracted to broke men”. I’ve dated a few broke men in my life, and having to take care of them financially, along with sexually and emotionally, just ain’t it for me. The love of my life brings in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:02 PM
5

Yes, lots of doofs on every side making wacky and widely generalized accusations at each other
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:49 PM
4

Having sex with men men doesn’t force you into the subservient and stifling role of “wife” in Japan so that’s probably why they’re doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:10 PM
8

Being childfree fuckin rocks there I said it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:43 PM
17

Well, probably the reason people like OP aren’t able to have sex with people that they deem “equivalent” or “a little below” is because they’re not very good at hiding the “yeah, I guess you’ll do” attitude. Maybe people have settled for me, but I’m not about to touch a guy that makes me FEEL like he settled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:52 PM
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I wouldn’t want to have sex with someone who “settled” for having sex with me, so i think that might be the main issue with y’all acquiring sex. Ain’t nobody getting wet over a man looking at you and going “yeah, I guess you’ll do”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:54 PM
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Sorry 😬 if it makes you feel better I’m objectively not great looking 🤷‍♀️ I’m just a rly supportive gf and he’s really into that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:30 PM
0

I’m about 220 at 5’5 (working on my weight) and my boyfriend, who is quite lean, is OBSESSED with my body. He makes me feel SO beautiful at whatever size I am (in the time we’ve dated I’ve bounced between 200 and 230). He tells me there’s something about a skinny guy and a plus sized lady that just fits together really well in the bedroom 🤷‍♀️ obviously we all have different preferences, but that’s my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:32 PM
1

I really like thick men. Love that teddy bear energy 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:55 PM
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What is “high” by your standards? At what point is a woman definitely going to cheat on you? 5? 10? 20? Body count is so subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:19 PM
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I’m so confused as to why that’s a problem, why OP needs women to be dependent on men to feel “worthy”
/r/MensRights24/03/23 05:54 PM
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Why do you need women to NEED men to survive so desperately????
/r/MensRights24/03/23 01:10 PM
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Probably just cuz it takes more work to make a woman cum. Tho I wouldn’t say it’s a man’s responsibility to MAKE me cum (my orgasms are finicky and sometimes it’s just not gonna happen) but If you care about the woman you’re being intimate with, it’s for sure your responsibility to give it a good, honest try. Maybe that’s just me, though. I’m an “it’s the thought that counts” kinda bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:43 PM
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It’s nice that women are able to support themselves without the help of a man, allowing these men to Go Their Own Way. I’m glad we’re all getting the freedom we deserve
/r/AntiFeminists10/01/23 04:32 PM
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Money’s money, no matter how fishy the customers smell!
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 04:01 PM
13

Did it say somewhere in the article that the women interviewed were SAHM/at-home wives? If that’s the case, it certainly would be unfair
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 09:55 PM
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This is the hottest take I’ve seen all week
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:23 PM
1

I’m on relationship-advice all the time, and I prefer “true off my chest” rather than the other one. But I’m sorry that my opinions upset you
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:29 PM
1

That’s true. Not rly male ones, but this one specifically. The algorithm really helps with that. I was pretty interested in this sub for awhile, so I’d come here, and now my feed has a mensrights post every 5 posts lol
/r/MensRights01/12/22 08:34 PM
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I’m here bc FDS won’t let me comment on their shit 🤣🤣🤣 trust me, if they did, I would have A LOT of opinions on the bullshit that’s going on over there. at least the mens rights subreddit will let me actually comment my opinion on things and have genuine discussions with people about gender politics, lolol
/r/MensRights01/12/22 07:25 PM
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Yeah, man hating on some subs, woman hating on other subs. Wish we could get past the “man bad” “woman bad” bullshit on these subs that SAY they want equal rights 🙄🙄🙄
/r/MensRights01/12/22 06:35 PM
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I think they might be on the wrong subreddit them lmaooooooo
/r/MensRights01/12/22 06:27 PM
2

Are those women saying “maybe someday” to them, or are they just…. Being friends with them and not dating them?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah well “women expire like milk” is a gross way to put it
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:15 PM
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Sounds like a great attitude to fight for mens rights
/r/MensRights01/12/22 03:18 PM
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If we don’t want people to think a man’s most valuable asset is his wealth, we shouldn’t perpetuate a woman’s most valuable asset being youth/beauty.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 03:05 PM
-2

I could have sworn they both agreed that no one needed to pay child support
/r/MensRights01/12/22 02:05 PM
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I think this sub puts all women in a box that says “gold digger slut” the same way FDS puts all men in a box that says “uncaring narcissistic abuser”. Sometimes men are good guys, and sometimes women are good ladies. Women don’t have to be an otherizing “THEEMMM” in your life
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:58 PM
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yikes let's not imply that women's most valuable asset is her youth. If we're working for equality between the sexes, that rhetoric does not help
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:34 PM
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Definitely not owed marriage, but it's definitely unfair if a man leads a woman on through years of dating, keeping her on the hook saying that maaaaybe they'll get married, and then never do it. I think that's where the "wasted my time" stuff comes in. If you don't want to get married, you need to be open about that with the person you are dating
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:32 PM
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it definitely matters in court
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:05 PM
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Men should be able to financially abort in the same way that women should be able to physically abort. Unfortunately, neither right is taken very seriously in the good ol US of A right now
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:54 PM
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Yeah, same way it’s rape to slip off the condom halfway through. Unfortunately, people don’t take either side of reproductive sexual assault very seriously
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:51 PM
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What? He pimps out women he dates, using them to take money from vulnerable and lonely men, and is getting rich from it. Who the hell is he providing for exactly?
/r/MensRights07/11/22 12:11 AM
1

Well of course people in society, and bad feminists I guess, say that men SHOULDNT have emotions, but that’s a terrible take and most of the feminists I know agree that for equality to happen, mens emotions need to be taken JUST as seriously as womens.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 12:24 AM
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WHO TF IS RUNNING AROUBD SAYING MEN DONT HAVE…. checks notes EMOTIONS??? Jesus Christ that’s the hottest and worst take I’ve ever heard
/r/AntiFeminists02/11/22 09:19 PM
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This feels more like an example of sexism against women? The idea that this woman has to give up the baby and keep it a secret or else she’ll be dishonored by her family and society for having sex out of wedlock.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 06:14 PM
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I think that’s a bit much. Criminal records follow and affect you no matter what. It’s in your paperwork, your background check. People always know. I’m pretty sure people will read “felon” before they read “man” or “woman”
/r/MensRights21/10/22 04:55 PM
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Obviously this woman had a huge, ridiculous overreaction, but I do see her side. I never really thought about anything wedding or proposal related before being with my partner, and now that it’s on my mind in examining my preferences. I don’t care about the ring as long as it’s sparkly, I don’t care about having a huge elaborate wedding, but I did realize that when I imagined my proposal, I imagined it with friends and family, maybe in a public setting. I told my partner that, and he will probab…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 08:44 PM
1

You seem to have a lot of opinions that you really need someone to hear
/r/MensRights16/10/22 04:52 PM
1

Also, it sounds as if you won’t read any of my opinion or views as something to consider, b it rather as something to automatically refute in order to bolster your own beliefs that I’m pretty sure will not change no matter what anyone says. You’ve made up your mind, it sounds like.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:38 PM
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What would you consider as “winning” a debate? I’m curious
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:35 PM
1

All right, well, it sounds like your opinions are pretty much all set in stone so…. I wish you luck on this interpretive dance thru life 💃💃💃
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:15 PM
1

So American feminism is bad because women in your country used to have it worse? You know women couldn’t vote, or easily leave abusive partners, or work, or own their own money, in America before American feminism, right? Wave 3 has its issues, sure, but the roots are, in my opinion, based on some pretty real problems in history
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:32 PM
1

Wrong from the roots? Care to elaborate? I’m hooked honestly
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:02 PM
7

Sounds like people are just going off of their own personal experiences and adjusting accordingly
/r/MensRights13/10/22 05:28 PM
1

That’s a bit of a reach my dude. I’m pretty sure that most feminists care about feminism in other countries
/r/MensRights10/10/22 09:29 PM
1

Damn bro who hurt you
/r/MensRights10/10/22 07:55 PM
1

Not in some countries 😬😬😬
/r/MensRights10/10/22 07:54 PM
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Oof bud this is a bad take
/r/MensRights10/10/22 07:50 PM
1

Well anyone can “grow up” cuz that’s a thing all people do, but if you wanna get technical with it, only half of people on this earth can “be a man” lmaooo
/r/MensRights05/10/22 02:08 PM
1

“Grow up” is much better than “be a man” in my opinion- still rude to say to someone though, lol
/r/MensRights05/10/22 12:32 PM
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Mens issues and womens issues intertwine and feed off of each other so much more than I think a lot of people think
/r/MensRights04/10/22 11:26 PM
5

I know people will hate this, but the “be a man” “men shouldn’t show emotion” “men can’t cry” etc is literally toxic masculinity. There’s not just one way to be a man, there are many, and your masculinity is NOT contingent on your level of emotion, emotional intelligence, sensitivity, or frequency of crying. You’re a man if you feel like a man. Society trying to define your manhood can go eat a big fat butt 🖕🖕🖕
/r/MensRights04/10/22 08:36 PM
1

I feel like that idea wouldn’t be equivalent when the woman has to grow the Trojan horse in her own body? In my opinion a baby would feel more like mine if I grew it myself rather than if it came from my egg.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 04:04 PM
1

The pendulum swinging too far in the other direction is my guess. It’s the affirmative action of sexism lol
/r/MensRights01/10/22 06:33 PM
2

In my opinion mens and womens issues are so much more entangled than anyone would like to think. One encourages the other and vice versa. Wish we could all come I together to fight gendered issues 💖💖💖
/r/MensRights01/10/22 03:46 PM
1

We don’t anymore, but for a long time (and the remnants still remain) women were forced into VERY tight expectations to be the “right” kind of woman. Thankfully we’re getting away from that, and hopefully we can start working on showing men that there’s no one “right” way to be a man, there’s a lot, and you are valid as you are.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:42 PM
4

Toxic femininity is real as shit. Career women looking down on SAHMs, SAHMs looking down on career women. Assuming that YOUR brand of femininity is the best, and other women are too slutty, too prudish, too submissive, too domineering, too loud, too much of a feminist, or not enough of one. I think both toxic masculinity and femininity is assuming that your version of either is the only correct version. There are lots of ways to be a man, or a woman, and they’re all valid.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:40 PM
0

Toxic femininity is hating or gossiping about other women who don’t fit their standards of being a “woman” being prideful in their feminine appearance to the extent that they look down on others, looking down on career women if they’re a SAHM, looking down on SAHM if they’re a career woman. Basically assuming their behaviors and choices to be the peak of femininity, and people with different behaviors and choices are wrong, unfeminine, gross, lazy, or any other words that women use to gossip abo…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:35 PM
2

Absolutely. Toxic masculinity leans towards aggressive, and while female toxicity leans passive-aggressive. We probably see more toxic masculinity stuff since the pendulum has swung so far in the other direction from demonizing toxic female traits to demonizing toxic male traits. Used to be legit illegal for a woman to talk back to her hubby lmao. Look up “scold’s bridal”. Now that was a HARDCORE way to punish toxic femininity in the old days.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:26 PM
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Eh, there’s toxicity, and then male-centric toxicity, and also female-centric toxicity, the latter two being based off of societal expectations. In my opinion.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:21 PM
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King shit
/r/MensRights23/09/22 05:08 PM
10

I absolutely do, and it can get frustrating at times, as my partner can get touchy when I’m not in the mood and has a relatively higher libido than mine. Some men wouldn’t take as kindly to my verbal no’s, as well, they way my very respectful partner does. I suppose I’m projecting my relative luck in love onto the general problem, lol.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 01:08 PM
0

The only spouse related rule from Mike pence I can think of is to call the spouse “mother”
/r/MensRights14/09/22 12:36 PM
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The trick with my and my partner is that I learn to verbally say no to his non-verbal cues. He can get “gropey” with me, and if I’m into it we’ll have sex, and if I’m not into it I’ll say “no thank you” and he’ll stop, no questions asked
/r/MensRights14/09/22 12:30 PM
2

I feel like a lot of the uptick in divorces (usually initiated by women) comes from the societal change of women not NEEDING to marry a man in order to be a functional and respected member of society. Easier to end it when you know you can retain societal respect and financial freedom. The divorce courts may have just not caught up to those changes yet. Hopefully we're getting there!
/r/MensRights11/09/22 06:10 PM
1

It’s a shame that you seem to be convinced that women are 100% at fault for modern gender issues while men shoulder little to none of it. I happen to believe it’s much more nuanced than that, but I guess we’ll have to agree to disagree ❤️
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:58 PM
1

https://stopstreetharassment.org/resources/statistics/ https://www.ilr.cornell.edu/news/faculty/street-harassment-statistics Dude some men harass women on the street, just like some women shame other women.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:38 PM
1

Wait, so assuming women shame other women for being topless in public is the truth, but assuming men harass women for being topless in public is a sexist assumption?
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:20 PM
1

Do you think assuming that women were doing the shaming of the topless women was a sexist assumption?
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:15 PM
1

BIG FEEEEEEEEEEEET
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:05 PM
0

Well I was talking about the hypothetical men out on the street with women who decide to go around topless
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:05 PM
1

When the feet swell, a lotta times they stay bigger forever 🥺
/r/MensRights01/09/22 09:49 PM
2

Yeah, the problem is the pregnancy part. I think guys may have a tendency to underestimate how taxing pregnancy can be. But if the man wants to go for it, hell yeah! It would make a spectacular documentary seeing these guys being the first men growing a baby in an artificial womb.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 08:53 PM
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Easier said than done. Inadequate sex Ed and the instinctual drive of Man (aka the human race) to fuck are a recipe for disaster!
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:22 PM
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God that would fix the ENTIRE abortion debate (minus the questionable morality of bringing an unwanted child into the world) I am so in! You want the fetus?? Come take it out of my womb so I don’t have to endure the trauma and possible danger of pregnancy! Win win!
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:19 PM
5

Turns out the abortion restrictions have actually made it more difficult on men as well. What a world.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:16 PM
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I don’t think men are doing the shaming, they’re doing the harassing. So it’s a twofold issue, dealing with the harassment (men) and the shame (mostly women). Sounds like a big price for going topless to me lol
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:22 PM
1

Might be the historical context of the men/women thing. Men historically have had more power, so when women are hateful (obviously bad btw) it’s considered punching up, as opposed to men, who are considered to be punching down with women hating. Kinda like how you can call a whites person a cracker and it’s like “oh that’s rude” but if you call a blank person the N word it’s a way bigger deal, bc of the historical context. Thanks for the reply!
/r/MensRights13/08/22 04:15 PM
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FDS is chock full of misandry, and I see people complaining and dunking on it all the time (me included). I think people will go a little far claiming misandry (and misogyny, to be fair) but that sub truly is the poster child of “I hate men”
/r/MensRights12/08/22 06:24 PM
0

Well it’s seems like the logic didn’t work, based on the roe V Wade decision. So congrats on that i guess
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:26 PM
0

I think it’s more like “if you are physically unable to be forced to deal with the consequences of this particular lack of bodily autonomy, perhaps you should not be coming up with those consequences”
/r/MensRights06/08/22 03:54 PM
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In my mind it's (and of course just like you i know this is fucked up) not as bad as it is with a woman when a man is forced to penetrate someone, but it IS just as bad, if not worse, when a man is penetrated by force.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 10:33 PM
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I wonder why the girls have a lot of .5's in their ratings and the mens all have full numbers. I should have gone to school for psychology.
/r/AntiFeminists06/01/22 10:03 PM
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FDS is a big Russian roulette game for me. Half the time the posts make me go “oh hey, that’s true, that is a problem I’ve dealt with, maybe I do deserve better!!!” And the other half of the posts are like “Jesus Christ could you take it down a couple of notches, ladies? Men Are People Too™️”. Big old hodgepodge in that sub.
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/21 06:24 PM
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I’m pretty sure drafting ANYONE these days is gonna make for a pretty shit army
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:52 PM
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Men be like “his should look like mine, right?”
/r/MensRights04/10/21 01:54 PM
1

Um I want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:39 PM
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I mean men get fat too, bb
/r/MensRights23/12/20 10:11 PM
2

I mean, marriage is just a social and cultural construct. If society is moving away from it, well.... that’s that. We’ve braved a whole lot of other cultural changes as a human species
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:33 PM
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It’s A factor, but by no means is it THE factor. I gravitate towards tall men on first glance, sure, but I also notice shorter men if they have features I find attractive, and putting aside first impressions, I’m sure as hell not dating a man unless I’m attracted to their personality, nor have I ever. My dating history has a pretty even variety of height for men, ranging from my height (5’5) to 8 inches taller than me. Just like weight in women, it’s A factor, not the only factor, and certainly …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:36 PM
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Someone who is financially irresponsible. I'm fine if you're still trying to get on your feet, if your job doesn't pay you that well, if money is tight for some reason. But if you're broke because you're spending all your money on wants, and then has no money for needs, forcing me to let you borrow money for bills, or drive you around because your car got impounded, or make sure you get fed because the question "Do you have any food in the kitchen" is answered with laughter. This has been the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:21 PM
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I generally skip on people that have kids (though I'm usually just on tinder- thanks pandemic- so it'd probably be different if i was meeting them in person) but I'm 23 and do not at all have my life together, so I feel like if I was older and more grounded and stable I'd have much less of an aversion to it. I can't be any sort of equivalent to a mom right now, whether it be stepmom or dad's girlfriend or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:59 PM
2

Certainly wasn’t the height that caused the breakup, that much I can promise you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 07:21 PM
0

If they meet other criteria important for a relationship, then sure. My last boyfriend was 5’7
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 04:34 PM
5

Perhaps the vast majority of women specifically looking for “red pill” men, but not the majority of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:51 PM
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I’m pretty confident in my ability to find a loving and long-term partner. Maybe not if I had high standards, like only wanting to date “Chads” or men with a high “SMV” but I don’t. Thanks for the concern though!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:26 AM
3

Ever heard they phrase “hit the wall”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:23 AM
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I suppose so, but I don’t really see how not being traditionally beautiful is going to stop me from growing, changing, or any of the things you just mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:03 AM
3

I expect, and try to live, a healthy life with a rewarding job, active hobbies that make me happy, and wonderful people that I love and who love me for who I am 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:28 AM
1

Best point of the thread so far, thank you for your input. You are truly the wiser of us all 👌👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:25 AM
5

I was absolutely beautiful at 18, and utterly miserable as well. Partly due to some depression issues, but also due to putting so much of my own personal value in my beauty. Now that I’m older and don’t put much of my personal value on physical beauty, I find I’m generally a more self-confident person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:22 AM
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Those are factors in long-term health, not short-term beauty, the first of which I try to work at and find pretty important
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:21 AM
5

I find myself more attracted to people that aren’t traditionally attractive, for this reason exactly. They’re, in general, more interesting, more personable, and more kind. Maybe the reason I don’t find those attractive physical qualities important for myself is that I don’t find them important in the people I date. Thanks for the input!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:20 AM
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That’s a good point that I’ve seen brought up. My problem is that beauty, even as a young person, in the way that society wants, takes time and effort. So why would I put the time and effort in to acquire said bank account, only for it to disappear in 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:41 AM
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I quite like your answer. Thanks! I generally find that the men that I’m intimate with share my desire for a relationship based mostly on emotional attraction, or at least find me attractive the way I am. Granted, none of these guys are “chads” but I don’t really find myself interested in the chad type in the first place. Another woman on here said she stayed beautiful to attract the “chads” she wanted to be with, which is a valid point. Maybe if I had those physical physical requirements for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:38 AM
1

That’s a very valid point. Thank you for the input! Always fun to hear different points of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:26 AM
2

Fairies!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:15 AM
18

That’s generally my mindset, I’ve just seen A LOT of posts on here talking about how men always prefer women in their twenties, no matter their age, and that got me thinking about how temporary of an asset my “beauty” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:10 AM
10

Very good advice, thank you for caring ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:03 AM
6

Wonderful, my pulse is strong and steady!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:03 AM
1

I draw for myself, because it gives me joy and feels rewarding the better I get. Your point is fair, though, if you need a Hottie McBody to get to orgasm, that’s a very good reason to maintain beauty. I personally find my attraction is based 90% in personality, so I can reach climax with pretty much anyone that I vibe with emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:02 AM
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While I don’t agree with your first point, outside of physical ability, I’ll respect your opinion on the matter. The question is why would I pour effort into something that’s only a temporary asset, rather than focusing on things that can be a permanent asset no matter how old I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:59 AM
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It’s fun once in awhile, when my friend does some wacky colorful makeup on me, or if I’m going somewhere fancy, but generally I only maintain aesthetics to the point of societal acceptability. Anything more and it just feels like a bore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:57 AM
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Not giving them commitment is fine. Calling them “cum dumpsters” and implying that they’re worthless because they didn’t want to fuck you is pretty bad. Women can definitely sense that attitude, and most will avoid it. Seems like all women in your eyes are one mistake or decision YOU are unhappy with to become a “cum dumpster”. I sure as hell don’t want to date someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:59 AM
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Bullshit bitch!!! Just say you want to be raped and go!!
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