| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Male versus female socialization | Discussion | 8ritt8ee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Should men have a sex strike against feminism? | Discussion | 8ritt8ee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 05:04 PM |
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| 1 | Women are not divorcing good and hard-working husbandsMaybe the one’s who go to therapists actually have bad marriages and the one’s who just get bored and leave don’t feel like they need therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/20 06:50 PM |
| 3 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?My partner is a foot taller than me but I’ve also been with one the same height as me (5’2”) for a few years so it’s not like a requirement. I think it kinda just amplifies sexual dimorphism, like, opposites attract? I’d want a guy at least either taller than me or wider than me lol. Now I’m curious, would most men ideally want a woman to be that much shorter too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 August 2020)Found a video where Dr. Grande reviews the scientific literature to evaluate two sides of the debate. Thought I’d share https://youtu.be/M1R_pRxj9Zg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Men Scoring Higher on ‘Man Box’ Scale are Prone to Violence, Mental Illness. Men who harbor more harmful attitudes about masculinity—including beliefs about aggression and homophobia—also tend toward bullying, sexual harassment, depression and suicidal thoughts.Amazing how men who believe in using violence to get respect would be more prone to violence. Who woulda thought. Almost like they designed the “man box” to get the results they wanted to use to demonize men in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | This says a lot about societyUh or maybe men decided it was a good idea to be strong, stoic, and rational because that’s just part of being a functional adult. If anything women should try that more, not men less. (I’m a woman btw.) They can’t be seen as robots and still have to punished for showing emotion all at once, that makes no sense. Also this whole “men/women are seen as” or “expected to” narrative that pops up all over the place, I’m convinced it just gives people a neurotic complex. “Society” doesn’t “see” or “exc… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | This is somehow a joke. How does having posters of sexy fictional characters makes someone sexist?Oh my brain glitched out mid-sentence and I forgot the original point of adding I. Yeah, balti beats anything I can come up with. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/20 11:33 AM |
| 1 | This is somehow a joke. How does having posters of sexy fictional characters makes someone sexist?I just had to google balti but all it came up with was curry dishes. So idk what you mean? | /r/MensRights | 17/07/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | This is somehow a joke. How does having posters of sexy fictional characters makes someone sexist?That is in “LGBTQIA++” but ive heard lot of intersex people object to being grouped in with the other letters | /r/MensRights | 17/07/20 10:10 AM |
| 8 | Boy, 16, was given estrogen for behavioral disorder while in L.A. juvenile hall, suit allegesSimilarly, the hormone blocker Lupron used to be given to kids as a quack treatment for autism mostly because it lowered testosterone and made boys easier to deal with. https://www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/health/chi-autism-lupron-may21-story.html | /r/MensRights | 17/07/20 04:22 AM |
| 18 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightI think the problem is framing it as “women are increasingly sharing a smaller number of men” makes it sound like a change that women are assumed to be actively driving even though it could be something they are just passively affected by. In that chart, the percent of women in the 18-24 range with 2 or more sex partners has been pretty consistent across time regardless of what the men are doing. Even if the change is primarily because of women, it might be that more women are having fewer sex p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Does the number of sexual partners your bf has had bother you?I didn’t care until I read some studies saying the more partners men have the more likely they’ll report not being happy with their marriages and more likely to be divorced. (I’m not gonna go look for these studies again myself because I’m not trying to prove a point. It’s just something I remember and is the thing that made me go from not bothered to slightly worried.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Male versus female socializationOh, OK. The other antics seemed only directly related to the violence question, that's why I was confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Male versus female socializationNo? You said "yes, basically" to the comment asking if you're saying women have as much desire for violence but less ability and then you said "that's why..." to a number of things. (Sorry if I'm paraphrasing something incorrectly, I'm on mobile and can't see) It makes sense that they are more often violent in less severe ways because they are weaker. It makes sense that they would resort to manipulative tactics more often because they are weaker. And the etc. But I don't see what it has to do w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Male versus female socializationWait a sec, what does it have to do with women initiating divorce more? Maybe I'm missing something but it sounds like you're implying they wouldn't divorce as much if they could effectively beat their husbands instead.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Are women romantic? Are men more romantic?Do you like her to be the more romantic one or is it more like unnecessary effort in your view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Male versus female socializationI started with the same view on gender neutral parenting, but then I started wondering, maybe men and women are really naturally predisposed to a different set of strengths, and if so, maybe it's not so bad to at least nudge them in the directions of developing those more. If not, maybe it still wouldn’t be a bad idea because opposites attract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Male versus female socializationBut, apart from good role modeling, if you were a parent to both a son and a daughter, what would you consciously do differently with them? (I edited wording of the question, and btw I agree patriarchy discourse has not been helpful) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Guys how common have you jerked off on a bus in front of someone?It’s also a criminal offense. Indecent exposure at least, if not something more serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Sorry ladies, you aren’t entitled to men’s commitmentI am a woman and I am pretty sure there’s a much better than average chance of finding a decent man among the ones who actually listen to what jbp says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | How attractive do you find him on a scale from to 10? (he's 6 foot 9).Haven’t you heard of female intuition?!?! Lol. Studies also show men somehow manage to find women more attractive during the ovulation. So don’t worry; y’all got psychic powers, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you find Ben Shapiro physically attractive?I think there was a twitter account or something dedicated to hot pics of him lol but I don’t know how popular it was. I think he’s very good looking but his voice brings overall attractiveness down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How attractive do you find him on a scale from to 10? (he's 6 foot 9).Working on natural instinct, he doesn’t need to just have good genes in general; women can sense via smell which men have immune systems different enough from hers to mix into getting the healthiest offspring out of the deal. There’s also a range of genetic similarity to difference compared to her that she wants him to fall in between. So, if you take a genetic outlier like that you can’t really be that surprised a lot of women don’t find him super attractive no matter how good his genes are on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Enforced Monogamy Is CopeKinsey was trying to normalize perversion and his research was corrupt. A disproportionate amount of men surveyed were already sex offenders. He’d counted prostitutes living with pimps for a year as normal housewives. Etc etc. Not to mention, the report on male sexuality had clinical descriptions of child sex abuse experiments like it was no big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Women with an OnlyFans account should be flogged in the town squareI don’t see how a case to be made for E. It’s not like they are going door to door tempting no fappers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Is a man always using a woman when he has sex with her?I mean it’s really badly not obvious satire even for someone already familiar with him. Worth checking out though. I’m a woman and really haven’t found much objectionable (mostly listened to classroom lectures.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Is a man always using a woman when he has sex with her?The quote is also satire and he says the opposite of everything in it during the interview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Is a man always using a woman when he has sex with her?Uh... That's satire, yknow. All the links are evidence of the opposite of what the article says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Debate - Are there normal non-crazy men who avoid porn use?What happened on this thread was someone said there's a statistical correlation between porn use increasing and rape decreasing, therefore there's reason to think porn use makes someone less likely to rape. Then the sex offender thing was brought up to show that sex offenders who use porn are more likely to rape. So in the first case porn is indirectly shown to hypothetically be a factor in making rape less likely, whereas in the second case, by sex offender's own admission, the opposite happens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Can we create a non amatonormative society where singleness is normalized?Well with that I meant life as portrayed in Brave New World. But yeah I'd say raising your own family and having permanent relationships and overcoming the obstacles and potential pain and suffering of trying to do a good job with all that for the sake of people important to you is bound to give you a greater sense of meaning and purpose in life while getting through existence than, alternative, self-indulgence, soma, fucking anyone on whim, and looking after endless rounds of lab grown babies a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Why is single motherhood so prevalent, when women know the consequences of it, and when it seems so easy to avoid in this day and age?If you position things right there can be clitoral stimulation during intercourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Can we create a non amatonormative society where singleness is normalized?Yeah, here's some fiction to start with: Brave New World. Everyone belongs to everyone else. Family doesn't exist. Babies grown in labs. Life is shallow af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | If sex is a need, why dont more guys just go to hookers?The Nordic model keeps buying sex illegal but selling sex legal/decriminalized. This way prostitutes can get help if they need it without legal battles and criminal records keeping them stuck. "Legitimizing" it, on the other hand, will increase the market demand for prostitution since it's seen as acceptable, and therefore also increase trafficking to meet the higher demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: Why don't older women find younger men attractive?They are to be seen and not heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 05:02 AM |
| 3 | If a guy watches porn because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him, does she have the right to be upset?That's not true about rejection. 1 Corinthians 7:3- 5 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 02:02 PM |
| 1 | If people marry for love (now), then why are divorce rates higher then ever?You know how they used a matchmaker in Fiddler on the Roof to find spouses? I watched a YouTube video once where Rabbi Mannis Freidman explained the benefits of that, but I’m not sure which one it is now because he has a lot of videos about marriage that I think are worth checking out. But anyway I remember one thing he said was, to paraphrase “love isn’t important. It’s appropriate. Love is appropriate for those who are important. You get married to your spouse, not to love”. You can still get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men : Would you ever consider taking part on a romantic relationship that doesn't involve sex?I’m not a man but I think the reason why there would be no sex is important? Like I’ve had three guy friends tell me about relationships where their partner might not or wouldn’t have sex. In one case the woman was a rape survivor and was still having a hard time mentally with penetration. Another woman had vaginismus and penetration was painful physically. They both were overall happy with the relationships though and did other sexual stuff. In the last case the guy’s wife wasn’t into sex much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 02:14 PM |
| 9 | Are you submissive to your man?I’ve noticed no one calls it submissiveness when men do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to learn to have Self-respect and self-empowerment just like women are doing. Step one? Saying NO when you realize you are merely a "backup plan" in a relationship.So if you’re being treated like a back up plan, the solution is to find your own person to treat like a back up plan... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is “sexy-ugly” a thing?My list would be John Goodman, Tim Curry, Marc Maron, Christopher Loyd, Alice Cooper (and a few others already mentioned) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Me IRLI can never find pants that aren’t too long, even in the petite section. Usually costs $5-$7 to take them to a tailor to hem them where I am. Probably the same for shirts. And even if you have to buy less expensive clothes, you look much better in cheap clothes that fit exactly right than expensive ones that don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 10:10 PM |
| 6 | We are always discussing 'female nature' of hypergamy and women wanting to date up. What are some examples of 'male nature'?Well I’m a woman in a LTR and I definitely find other men attractive, but I’ve found it’s to my own benefit to deliberately avoid dwelling on it when I see one. Instead, I think to myself that they may be attractive but that’s probably just a pretty veneer over all kinds of crazy faults that I really don’t want to be in a position to find out about (because everyone has something crazy about them) and then I take a few seconds to think about how I’d rather be with my partner than anyone else. Ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Why is fidelity expected from men in relationships?https://www.google.com/amp/s/relay.nationalgeographic.com/proxy/distribution/public/amp/animals/2018/12/california-mice-monogamous-vocalize-after-infidelity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Why is fidelity expected from men in relationships?I’d have to google around again to find that thing about the mice but I’ll look tomorrow. I didn’t mean that as in hypergamy, I meant having flings on the side to diversify the paternity of her offspring while still keeping one male to help her raise all of them. While we are on the subject of hypergamy though, I know its considered hypergamy when women “trade up” for a man with more success and resources but is there an equivalent term for men’s tendencies to “trade up” by leaving their partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: Why is fidelity expected from men in relationships?Whoops, you’re right i didn’t read that. Ok, well I don’t think women’s natural mating strategy is monogamous either so I don’t think that men are giving up more of their sexuality. Women are attracted to different types of men depending on the phase of their menstrual cycle. They don’t have a refractory period after orgasm so they can have more partners in a shorter time span than men. And women’s sex drive goes down more without variety. Therefore it seems likely to me that their natural insti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4A: Why is fidelity expected from men in relationships?You realize the natural purpose of mating strategy instincts is to produce offspring, don’t you? Even if you aren’t in a relationship, not leaving a trail of unfathered offspring everywhere you go is just part of being civilized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 02:47 PM |
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