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| 1 | Getting the indirect game wrong: I'm coming across like a gay man?You aren't telling a girl why you like them. Back when Mystery had the only real method and a large following this would happen a shit tonne to many, many men. People always focus on the indirect aspect, forgetting that the third step of his method is MALE TO FEMALE INTEREST. You have to show interest in her and get sexual at some point. I would look into building sexual tension and properly qualifying her so you can show that interest. | /r/seduction | 10/03/16 08:42 PM |
| -3 | I'm going to an RSD Freetour in my city. How can I make the most of it?Go out and meet women instead. Your welcome. | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit. It's Tony D. After teaching pickup for six years I finally made an infield daygame video. I hope it helps you.No, I genuinely believe what I write. However, I'm happy to agree to disagree. If you found it helpful that's great. I'm a bit busy working on some stuff right now, but happy to Skype = easier than writing. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 10:14 PM |
| -1 | The real reason you aren't getting "results." (For intermediate guys)The advice he gave was plain bad. I'm sorry if that upsets you, but honestly, I've seen enough guys give up after working for months and years at an intermediate level because they've bought into "Do more = results". That's preposterous, you can go swimming every day for ten years and still be as good or bad a swimmer as you were when you started with a marginal increase as your fitness improves. Maybe do some research between correlation and causation and actually give advice that isn't essenti… | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Wanted: Guys who really suck at game to test out course.No problem, just do it when you can. I'm probably looking for around 20 guys, because from experience 50% will drop out or never follow the advice. :) | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 06:46 AM |
| -6 | The real reason you aren't getting "results." (For intermediate guys)I'm sorry you gave bad advice. :P Also, look up social anxiety disorder. Some people have it even when not approaching a woman. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 06:43 AM |
| -8 | The real reason you aren't getting "results." (For intermediate guys)Erm, ok so your logic is very silly. Let's say I approach 6 girls wit: FUUUUUUUUUUCK MEEEEEEEEE BAAAAAAAABY! By your logic, all I need to do was keep approaching more. Until I eventually find a girl who's so fucked up or down she's like: "Fine." No thanks, I'll pass on this ridiculousness. Maybe try qualifying your statements. Addition: Most intermediate guys suffer from sexual anxiety, an inability to push past their comfort zone and an inability to determine where their errors are. RIDICULOUS … | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Hey Seddit. It's Tony D. After teaching pickup for six years I finally made an infield daygame video. I hope it helps you.I don't want to spend the effort typing it. If you wanna get on Skype I'll go over it. PM me. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit. It's Tony D. After teaching pickup for six years I finally made an infield daygame video. I hope it helps you.Your welcome. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit. It's Tony D. After teaching pickup for six years I finally made an infield daygame video. I hope it helps you.Karisma PUA from Denmark, or Royce PUA day game in San Diego. Both v. Good. One is night other is day. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit. It's Tony D. After teaching pickup for six years I finally made an infield daygame video. I hope it helps you.I expected that after my 'rant' people would just write me off as a hater. If you want I'm happy to write the issues that I see as prevalent. | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit. It's Tony D. After teaching pickup for six years I finally made an infield daygame video. I hope it helps you.I agree with you, of course. | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit. It's Tony D. After teaching pickup for six years I finally made an infield daygame video. I hope it helps you.My absolutely favourite footage for day game is by a guy called Royce. Sadly I don't think the footage is online anymore, but he has phenomenal game. | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 06:34 PM |
| 14 | Hey Seddit. It's Tony D. After teaching pickup for six years I finally made an infield daygame video. I hope it helps you.Guess I'll go against the grain here. Video is OK, I have no idea what Tony teaches and I've met infield coaches that are awesome at teaching and are just OK infield and vice versa. That said to just say haters gonna hate probably doesn't do justice to the flaws that people are seeing in the approach and the strong feeling that it is ultimately a flaky interaction. Ultimately with everyone pushing to be crazy authentic in all their interactions these days, it makes sense that guys who aren't get… | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 10:51 PM |
| 79 | Sorry for the delay! As promised, the texting book is finally up on Amazon and I’ve made it free for the day for Seddit to grab itYou'll have to learn to read... | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 09:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm 21 and I haven't even held a girls hand.Find someone you trust, get some coaching and get this resolved. Stop making yourself the victim, you're not. A lot of people here have the same problems you had, but they are here and taking action. Go get some coaching and start learning to get better. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 12:24 AM |
| 3 | I see many inner game posts. What are some (general) fundamentals to outer game?Good Body language Push Pull Self amusement Winning over the whole group Increasing your value or lowering hers (depends on your school of thought) Tactical building of compliance Attract > Lock In > Qualify > SOI > Comfort > Sexual Talk > Moving her around the venue Note the above order can change based on calibration You basically asked, "hey what is an encyclopaedia got in it..." a lot o' shit. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Any books on how to small talk?I'd check out the blogs on http://www.charismaarts.com | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 08:27 AM |
| 1 | My own little private hell.... Getting checked out all the time but I don't know what to do!Yea, the sidebar is pretty much your best bet to start with. It'll give you a good overview, just don't read it all and practice none of it! | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 08:26 AM |
| 1 | When seduction is a sore subjectYes, but it's got nothing to do with me. It's a program I went through that changed my life completely. BTW, everything "costs" something. :) | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as "text game"?Both, text game is real, but it don't mean nothing without a good connection. http://survivewomen.com/text-to-win/ Has my views and a list of Seddit phone and text game resources at the bottom. | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Dont know what I can do.Hey buddy, hit me up: [email protected]. I'm interested in knowing more about the situation. I'm sure it's just how you're approaching, focusing on things such as looks isn't the answer. Looks are a bonus. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 09:49 AM |
| 2 | So I just accidentally used a line and want to find out if it isn't working just for me.I enjoyed this, funny. Although I feel like it's not something I'll be trying. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 09:45 AM |
| 3 | 18 years old, never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl.You're psyching yourself out, confidence isn't this thing you have or you don't. It's purely situational and it's a built skill as you become more comfortable. I wrote an article a while ago about how virginity in guys seems to be a mental label they can use to stop taking action, it's here: http://survivewomen.com/virginity-lack-of-experience-mindset-challenge/ Take action, learn one thing at a time and put it into use with women! | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 09:39 AM |
| 1 | I am an awful conversationalist, how do I improve?It shouldn't! Give it a go and join the Facebook group to get some questions answered too. It's delivered via e-mail and you can sign up at: http://www.survivewomen.com/free-attraction-course/ | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 03:52 AM |
| 1 | I am an awful conversationalist, how do I improve?Honestly, if you're as bad as you say (controversial advice here) I would start with material. You want to think of it as a map, but not a complete one. The material allows you to test out assumptions and understand the paths human conversation can and can't take. It's your rosetta stone into understanding people, not to say it doesn't come with it's own unique pitfalls (not listening to her because you're trying to say something pre-planned) From there you'll notice you start to spot what's goi… | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Request: What do you want more of on a Podcast?Cool, thanks guys. It seems that daily advice / answering questions in 15 min segments seems like the way to go. | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis - Could You Actually Get Her?The reason to do it this way is because guys with no game and no experience are going to mess up in real life. They need a buffer to create a good first impression. That buffer is online. However, if you are not a newbie then the advice probably doesn't apply to you. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Los Angeles Seddit Lair (Any Interest?)Ok, send me an e-mail with your deers: [email protected] | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Los Angeles Seddit Lair (Any Interest?)Ok, send me an e-mail with your deers: [email protected] | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Los Angeles Seddit Lair (Any Interest?)Ok, let's get this started! If you're interested e-mail me a name and number: [email protected] | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 08:43 PM |
| 11 | Only attracting men...but I'm a straight male. Why?You might have overly effeminate body language. Other obvious thing is you take care of yourself really well, to the point where people think you're gay. My money is on effeminate body language though. | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Los Angeles Seddit Lair (Any Interest?)Hell yea, the more the merrier! When it comes to this I'm thinking around central LA. WeHo, Culver, Santa Monica & some Downtown but anyone from OC is always cool to come up. | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Why Just Growing Balls & Approaching 24/7 Isn't The Answer...I'm not sure you actually read it. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 01:42 AM |
| 109 | [Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this.If you haven't ever done stupid shit or got regrets you've probably got a screw loose. Don't beat yourself up for it, just accept it happened. It's obviously not right for you, so avoid doing it again. Forgetting never works, accepting it happened is the key. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 06:50 AM |
| 1 | I started reading fine literature because of this video giving good reasons and it enhanced my life extremely! Reading has a greater impact on your life than you probably think.I love the Crash Course videos, great find! P.s. Audio books are great for commutes, take that reading to the next level! | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Differences between good chasing and bad chasing?If it's texting that's the issue then these are the resources you might want to look at: http://insidepickup.com/text-women-keep-engaged-pua-texting/ http://www.reddit.com/r/trpgame/comments/2670zc/text_game_cheat_sheet/ | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Confirmation bias or cultural differences, is pickup in the Netherlands unviable?I have several friends in the Netherlands, pick up is more than possible. In fact I found the women to be very friendly, although a little more conservative at times. Everyone speaks English so there's no excuse not to go out and start making new connections. | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Differences between good chasing and bad chasing?The whole chase thing might not be the best way to look at your situation. Instead you may want to look at it more through the lens of: 'how can my amazing crazy personality and lifestyle make her addicted to me?' They say that a good question is half the answer. Now you can find the answer for yourself, good or bad chasing behavior won't make any difference without a solid impression of you, of how you make her feel. To compare this to your analogy, Apple or Microsoft might do the interviewing … | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Where to find older women?Hotel bars, I went to one to visit a friend recently. Sooooo many cougars, and a lot of them down for something as they weren't in town for long. Don't choose the fancy hotels that are famous, choose the ones that are really nice, but not that well known. | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Looking for advice on texting gamehttp://insidepickup.com/text-women-keep-engaged-pua-texting/ | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you get past being a virgin?http://insidepickup.com/pua-advice-losing-your-virginity/ | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Blushing and turning red in social situationsHonestly, it's not as big a problem as you think and most people won't call it out. Just keep pushing out of your comfort zone and it'll stop on it's own. | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 07:33 PM |
| 11 | Tomorrow I man up.All I could think of when I read the post title is: Tomorrow never comes. | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 07:32 PM |
| 0 | The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshitWow, this whole thread went downhill fast. | /r/seduction | 18/09/14 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Would this be a good way to start practicing seduction, being comforterbal around women, and boosting my confidence?Tinder is superficial but as good a place as any. Thing is I'd still recommend in person practice because that's where all the important stuff is going to happen. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you get past being a virgin?I gotta give you props on just being upfront with us and acknowledging this label is creating problems from you. Here's what I'd tell you. The label is just that, it's a reason why you are allowed to not try. It creates a big excuse that allows you to avoid responsibility. That's not good or bad, it just is what it is. It's also in your power to stop it. If you remove that self imposed obstacle what's left is you are unsure what to say around women. Good news! There's a million and one things yo… | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What videos would you suggest I watch?Would be good to tell us what you need help with. Otherwise we all just recommend what spoke to us. No two guys learn the same thing in this gsme. Everyone needs something different. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 01:54 AM |
| 5 | having trouble moving things sexualThe big mistake guys make IMHO is that we think being sexual is all physicality. If you know how to verbally build tension it's just a million times more powerful because her imagination does a lot of the work for you. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 09:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The story of a first date and creating our own little world.Hmm, bringing her into your reality is great but only to a certain degree. Too much and it starts to preface a relationship and if you just aren't at the point where you want one then you can send out the wrong signals. Something I always try to avoid when I can. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 09:02 AM |
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