92friendlessvirgin Archive

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1	A womans lack of effort is not a sign for you to try harder. You must be very attractive. Being passive and waiting for women to show interest in me first throughout my life is how I ended up as a 33M virgin. I guess the question is: What's better, dying a virgin who is not attractive enough for women to chase them, or being the average joe who has to pursue women? I feel like most people would still take the 2nd, no? After going on dates for the first time in my life this year, I've realized women overwhelmingly seem to prefer traditional gender roles wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 05:36 PM
4	Men are never going to believe that virgin men are not respected as long as they are told not to mention it I've gone on dates with 12 different women this year and nearly always get previous relationship questions on the 1st and 2nd dates. But I don't get dates with women looking for casual, only with women looking for LTR	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 03:23 PM
8	Men are never going to believe that virgin men are not respected as long as they are told not to mention it Nah, at this point I've just accepted I have to lie to women on dates about having past relationship experience. I just try to make it as much of a white lie as possible (ex: saying my last LTR was pre-Covid and I've been focusing on myself since then). Trying to find older virgin women in a similar situation would be ideal, but as far as I can tell from dating this year has about the same possibility as discovering other planets with life in the universe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 12:17 PM
15	Men are never going to believe that virgin men are not respected as long as they are told not to mention it As a 33M virgin I myself acknowledge that I'm a walking red flag because I don't know what I'm doing in either a relationship or sex. It sucks, but it is what it is. The societal pressure to have sex and get a relationship at some point is extremely strong no matter where in the world you're in, so we are justifiably seen as losers in society UNLESS you are genuinely asexual and can convince people that you're secure in being asexual. Its similar to if someone in their 30s has never had a job an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 11:58 AM
7	for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship? Resentment no, but envy and a feeling of missing out, of course. As a 33M virgin who has never been in a relationship and starting dating for the first time this year, I've realized I will never have that "finding myself" phase of dating where I get to take things slowly and find out what my actual dating preferences are. The only women who will go on dates with me are looking to settle down and get married ASAP and see me as a stable provider basically. They've all had a bunch of exes, of cours…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 02:11 AM
12	Does virgin-shaming exist? I’m 33 and went on dates for the first time in my life this year, I present as normal enough so all the women I went on dates asked me questions about former exes/relationships like it went without saying I’ve had them before. I lied to all of them except for one who was shocked and then started pressing me about what happened in my life to be 32 and never had a gf, she ghosted me after the date. Even the one woman who asked me when my last relationship was and I said “5 years ago” as a white li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 11:36 AM
1	Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids? I can't and shouldn't speak for all men, but as a 33 y/o KHV its extremely accurate that I am content existing on the bare minimum (stay inside my dirty empty apartment, order takeout everyday, play video games and watch media, go outside to take a nature walk few times to a month) unless I start thinking about women. A large reason of why I am a KHV and never even bothered approaching women through most of my life is because I was aware of the monumental amount of work I'd have to do to overhau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 08:52 AM
1	Dear women of PPD, for those of us who are older (30+) virgins, what do you actually want us to do? What if I'm neither of those but was just fucking depressed through my late teens and 20s?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 09:08 PM
1	Dear women of PPD, for those of us who are older (30+) virgins, what do you actually want us to do? As a 33M gfless virgin, I started going on dates with women for the first time in my life this year and the experience gap between me and women in my normal dating age range (late 20s - early 30s) is absolutely enormous. Its incredibly hard to bring up that I have no relationship experience, because the women I go on dates assume that I have as much relationship experience as they do and am ready to settle down like they are. I lied to all of them except one which ended up in the most awkward si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 09:04 PM
1	Does the behavior of online incels make you less willing to give a chance to a virgin man? As a 33M gfless virgin, I started going on dates with women for the first time in my life this year and the experience gap between me and women in my normal dating age range (late 20s - early 30s) is absolutely enormous. Its incredibly hard to bring up that I have no relationship experience, because the women I go on dates assume that I have as much relationship experience as they do and am ready to settle down like they are. I lied to all of them except one which ended up in the most awkward si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 08:58 PM
3	Does the behavior of online incels make you less willing to give a chance to a virgin man? I'm a 33M gfless virgin and started going on dates for the first time this year, the majority of them asked me about my non-existent past exes/relationships (when was my last LTR, what was my last breakup like, did I ever argue with my exes, etc.).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 08:51 PM
6	Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sex out of STEM I strongly, strongly regret doing a computer science degree over doing a liberal arts major in college, I was interested in both but went with the "safer" route. Its not even just sex/relationships, its just being in a much more socially healthy environment/lifestyle throughout school/career around more well-adjusted people versus spending most of your time coding away on a computer, being around engineers who don't like talking much, mostly prefer to play video games in their free t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 10:20 PM