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Lifestyle992702050602/r/seduction23/03/22 07:27 PM
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I’m not going to agree, and I’m not going to disagree necessarily but I would like to add some points in the negative. Onlyfans subscribers are predominantly men. Whether the creator is a man or a woman. Women just don’t typically pay for stuff like that, some do, but its just… mostly men. So to say that is the “ideal” for women is kind of biased because what you’re looking at is still typically the male gaze, a gay man gaze, but a male gaze. Now, this isn’t to say that the female gaze is not mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:30 PM
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I have plenty of guy friends that I fully recognize are physically attractive that I am not personally attracted to. Beauty is absolutely in the eye of the beholder. I have friends who specifically like “bear” guys. Hairy, big, beefy men. It is their type. Their best friend though, specifically like skinny, thin, almost frail looking men. I know what my friends like, and it is not necessarily coterminous with what I like… sometimes not at all. In a way, it’s kind of like… you can fully recognize…
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:44 PM
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I don’t have a single role model. My journey is mine alone. I make my own goals, I get advisement from people I trust but ultimately, I make my own decisions. Public figures lead drastically different lives than the one I lead. I can enjoy and appreciate their content and their public personality, but at the end of the day, our situations are totally different so how could I be guided by a public figure? My day to day activities are heavily guided by my own ambitions, my income, and my duties. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:46 PM
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Does he have STIs? No? I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:32 PM
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The first option is the equivalent of getting a puppy. A handsome cutiepie who never had an owner before you, but will be endlessly loyal to you. He doesn’t care about anything that you did before and he will probably never betray you. He worships you endlessly and you are essentially a god-like being to them. It’s a great feeling, lots of people have pets and love them dearly. Outside of sex, there isn’t anything that this person can offer that is better than a pet. Getting a sex toy and a pet …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:30 PM
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So with this assumption, the most successful, high-achieving men are with the most beautiful women and replace them when they’re no longer young and beautiful like Leonardo DiCaprio. Men who are successful, regardless of age, should be capable of getting young and beautiful women and since those are high-value women, those are the women they should pursue. As beautiful as Michelle Obama is, she’s not exactly the most beautiful or young person. I would say that Barack Obama is quite successful, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:11 PM
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Leagues are a bullshit, childish measure created by middle school mentalities to make you feel insecure about your crush. You could ask out a girl you think is unattractive and leagues below you. The possibility that she’s not into you is still possible. A girl who’s crazy physically attractive but has the personality of wet cardboard could ask you out and you might not want to date her. Leagues aren’t meaningful. Attraction isn’t a perfect science and it’s not purely about physical appearances.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:02 PM
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Men tend not to have the same emotional support systems women have. Obviously this is just my opinion, but I think men are often raised not to show emotions to one another, not to do the types of things women do to connect with each other and it leads to men not really having the same kinda of friendships women tend to have. This is not to say that male friendships are less close or meaningful, just that they don’t operate in nearly the same way. I feel like when men don’t have a partner, they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:35 PM
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If you’re looking for examples of the straight female gaze, look into boys love (BL) or yaoi. There’s a giant description on the internet somewhere about the 1997 George of the Jungle and how it captures the female gaze. I also find the idea of female gaze really interesting. Here are some themes and ideas I’ve noticed: Non-threatening white men. Timothee Chalamet. Pete Davidson. Noah Centineo. One Direction. The Beatles. Women are friends or enemies. There is no inbetween. If a movie heavily ut…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:51 PM
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I want my future children to be happy. I feel like generally speaking, this means that beta hubby type is more desirable because generally speaking, men in long-term relationships are happier. Plenty of studies show this. However, if my son is truly happier sleeping around with lots of women, as long as everything is safe, consensual and he’s not actively trying to deceive people, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:04 PM
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Yes. We had a class together in uni. Walked up and asked. He was very handsome and he seemed really friendly. Didn’t seem like a cold approach, I thought he wanted to be friends until he msged me asking me what sexual position I liked was. I did not like that question, but I’m a little awkward, and my friends are often a little awkward, so I let that go but then he continued to do a lot of weird and creepy stuff. Nothing happened and we stopped talking entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:50 PM
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I find these questions very compelling. Firstly, what is the definition of maturity? Independence would probably be one that men would think of first, and if you’re a straight woman looking for a significant other because a lot of us are socially conditioned to think that a man must be a provider and that must then be the mark of maturity. A boy is to be provided for, a man does the providing. But there is more to maturity, especially in modern society, at least in my humble opinion and it’s oft…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:41 AM
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So I want to preface this comment with it will probably hurt your feelings? Because it hurts mine. You can’t really make your feelings of self-worth exclusively internal and rejection will always hurt when you don’t get what you want. You will always wonder why. But you’ll never really get an answer because it’s not about you. Life gets in the way. Some small part feels off. It just happens. You are not undesirable because this happens to everyone. The most beautiful, intelligent, funny, amazing…
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:44 AM
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It’s normal to want validation. I want validation. It makes me feel socially worthy. If you put it in playground terms… we are all kids that don’t want to be picked last for dodgeball. It feels good when you are picked first. It feels good when you are picked near the beginning. That feeling is a given for social animals. We are afraid of being left behind. We can try to deny it, we can try to convince ourselves that it’s not true… but most of the time it is. We want to be liked and accepted. We…
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:48 AM
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Uhh I mean I don’t know for certain why. But if I had to guess it would probably be pretty animalistic instincts. Social competition is ingrained, I would say in this form, especially in women. To me, if I am not enough, then people will leave me. As a social animal, I require social relationships. This probably also relates to human biology. If you bring it back before modern society: I can only carry one baby for nine months. I need the baby to have the best chances of survival, meaning I need…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:13 PM
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Can you explain it into details if possible? What might make those women get attracted to streamers? Or perhaps those males are sexy? Oh baby. I’m about to bust a nut from you asking me this question. I’m so excited to answer this, but I don’t know how. Looool. Its a long ass answer. We can dm if you want. not just so called “pick mes” You’re right. It’s a thing amongst most women. It’s an underlying problem and like I said, I’ve never met a woman who never had that, not even myself. It’s a form…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:21 PM
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I feel like there’s two parts to this question. The more physical, tangible aspects and the more abstract personality aspects. I have no problem with my equivalent in terms of my background, my wealth, my education, my prospects, my level of physical attractiveness, etc. But I’m a hot fucking mess in terms of the abstract. I am stubborn, argumentative, headstrong, introverted, neurotic and easily bored. I don’t think I would necessarily dislike my equivalent in terms of personality, but we would…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:32 PM
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I’m slowly realizing I’m probably closer to agender but I feel like due to socialization and how other people perceive me, I can still speak as a woman. I think the most frustrating thing is, in psychology terms, benevolent sexism(BS). I don’t entirely blame men for this, it’s socialization. But I don’t need someone come around and open a door for me because I am a woman. I would love for anyone to do that for like an elderly person or something just because I think its a kind thing to do, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:14 PM
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Honestly, I think the biggest problem with large age gaps are just weird power dynamics that often come with age. Even being only a few years older than my sister, there’s a dynamic there. I am older than her. But obviously as we’ve grown, that dynamic shifts. I also have good friends that I don’t treat like a child around her age. It’s a matter of the relationship you have with the person. I have friends that I will always treat like a younger sibling because I can’t help but see them as naive,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:04 AM
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Not liking being alone, and being afraid of being alone and settling for any interaction is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:13 PM
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Ah. See, I didn’t understand the purpose of this post whatsoever. But yes, I do agree that it’s an unreasonable basis for an argument or stance in a general debate. It is designed to shut down discourse. I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:37 PM
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I think that you’re right but most people don’t mean that “no one” is like that, but generally mean that most of the people you know, will meet, or generally encounter in some type of meaningful way, will be like that. I also think that you are a little nit-picky about the language people use, it’s a bit of an exaggeration but idk. With this, I believe there could be people that some people might disagree, and take what they say very literally because it is difficult to conceptualize how many pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:30 AM
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I… genuinely… debated… on whether or not I should post this. But average girl means there’s gonna be girls who have no insecurities which means my weird outlier should be included in the stats right? I had written about being self-absorbed and I know it. I’m insecure about it too, but I took it out and then felt guilty. I am writing paragraphs of text. I’m insecure about it but I’m still doing it because this post is asking about my insecurities as a woman. Worst thing that can happen is that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:13 AM
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Yeah, if someone said that to me I might not even notice it as a compliment.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:49 AM
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I wrote some ideas in an earlier comment.
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:59 PM
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Man, I am also shy and awkward. Girls are not completely put off by these qualities, especially not as a friend. Allow yourself to be shy and awkward but also be brave and try things anyway. The worst thing that can happen is basically you don’t work as friends. In an earlier comment I have a bunch of things as to how to make friends. But you don’t need to get over being shy or awkward to make a friend, it might help but it’s not a necessity. Trying with it it is more important than any advice y…
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:57 PM
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This is really unfortunate, I’m sorry. I think it does take a certain level of maturity and self-awareness to stay friends with people an individual is attracted to, and I’m sorry you weren’t able to find women who were comfortable staying friends. I don’t think that all women do this, and I would still think its worth pursuing female friends. But obviously, thats a difference of opinion. If/when you ever think about befriending women again, I think maybe pursuing a female friend with a mutual i…
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:18 PM
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Hi! So I do believe that some gyms offer yoga classes for those with certain types of membership? I wish I could be of more help, but those are generally the yoga classes I take, and in high school (which I’m assuming is not the age group of girls you want to be friends with) also ones based in community centres. I think occasionally during nice weather, cities have outdoor based yoga classes. But… I would like to make it clear that you should be aware of yourself in that situation just because,…
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:09 PM
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That’s fair. I guess this post is generally more geared to avoid cold approaches, because I don’t imagine them to be particularly effective with men. But like you said, you don’t have that problem, and you enjoy the benefits of cold approaches more than dating within your social circle. I mean, I don’t love the idea of my boyfriend being super close to female friends that try things with him knowing he’s in a relationship but I also trust my boyfriend enough to know he’s a big boy who knows how …
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:48 PM
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Friendship chemistry isn’t necessarily the same as romantic/sexual chemistry. There isn’t a good equivalent, but I guess in a way, for some platonic friendships, it would be like fucking my siblings. Gross, at least to me. I wanna get along with my siblings or cousins and we can watch movies together and have a fun time but I don’t wanna fuck them and it disgusts me. With a friend it might not be gross, but the idea is still not something that appeals to me. I appreciate your criticism, though. …
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:39 PM
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My current boyfriend is an attractive man and he used to have crush on his current beautiful female best friend. No I would not be comfortable if his friend suddenly whipped a tit out but then there would be boundaries. Did he shut it down? Yes? Then I don’t care. He can decide to navigate that interaction however he chooses. Its only in the circumstance that he escalated those types of interactions would I be upset. You are also free to prefer not having female friends. This subreddit is about …
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:26 PM
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Her opinion hurts peoples feelings. I recognize that. But it absolutely contributes to the general concept of seduction. She is providing her thoughts when men try to seduce her and they don’t have female friends, she is less likely to respond well. She is the literal proof here that it is harder to seduce her, and women like her, when a man, who’s specific goal is to seduce women as this is what the subreddit is for, when they don’t have female friends. It is perfectly on topic. It is also rela…
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:18 PM
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Thank you, yes. I do want that to be clear. I personally just don’t find cold approaches especially effective at seducing women. I just think that if we were to lay out the stats, you might be able pick up one in a hundred women through a cold approach if you’re not some kind of genius at it. I think that if you’re looking for results, social circle is generally more effective with less specific cold approach-based skills. I think general social skills are easier to learn, and more effective wit…
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:05 PM
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Yeah, I agree that it is difficult to find a genuine connection. I don’t think that this is necessarily a female-male/heterosexuality problem though. I think to a degree, genuine friendships are just more difficult to form and most people are more comfortable approaching friends they’re used to. E.g. a girl that is more comfortable with girl friends, less likely to go out of her way to form guy friends, vice versa. Just like I would assume couples who are used to being friends with other couples…
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:25 PM
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Alright, that makes sense. I will change my tune. Breathe. She is just a girl, like any other. She’s my friend, so we probably have a fairly similar sense of humor. Try something silly that worked to make me laugh. This will not work every time, but I think this can be a start. Banter/Flirting. Body language is everything. If you don’t feel in control of your physical surroundings, ask to step away for a minute. Go to the washroom, wash your face, relax, come back. You’ll want to know you’re abl…
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:54 PM
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Thank you for your commentary! These conditions are not, in my opinion, self-imposed. It’s just reality to me. You can’t really expect a group of friends where one of the friends is interested in X, for a different person to be set up with X. I’m sure it’s uncomfortable in any group of friends. Even with male friend groups, I can see this being a problem? These conditions exist as a social thing? Also no, the guy doesn’t only get one chance, but there are limitations to what I am able to do. mea…
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:46 PM
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Not most girls. Just like there are shallow men out there, there are women who care about that sort of thing but generally speaking no. Acne is not the end all be all, friend. I know it’s difficult, but honestly, and truly, confidence. Most girls will make exceptions to ANY “rule” if the guy is confident. Girls that say, oh I don’t date guys under 6ft? Date guys under 6ft with that 9ft tall, big dick energy. Approach girls any way. Fail. Try again. Confidence can be learned, you need to slowly e…
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:35 PM
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Thank you for your respectful input.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:29 AM
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Yeah no, I wouldn’t know how to give advice on that outside of the specific situation either. It’s so heavily based on body language and reading social cues and reactions which completely differ from one situation to another.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:21 AM
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Thank you for this comment! Im going to treat it like a question. It is highly, highly individualized, as people are highly individualized. I would start with where you spend the most of your time? Work? School? Etc. Are there any women in those environments that you enjoy spending time with? Invite them out in a group or something like that so they don’t think its necessarily a date (if you don’t want it to be a date) and they can get to know you. Next, I would probably go with hobbies, backgro…
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:15 AM
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A lot of people can’t handle the truth. Personally, I will tell my close friends that this is what I do generally and if they tell me, no I would prefer you tell me the truth, I will. I just default to this option because it eases tension.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:48 AM
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I mean if you want to hook up with your female friend, and she wants to hook up with you. Then that’s the relationship that the two of you are choosing. I’m just saying that you can have platonic friendships that lead to alternative positive things in your life besides having sex with that specific female friend. So do you want to be just friends with a woman who is interested in you? Or alternatively, do you want to become friends with women who aren’t interested in you?
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:47 AM
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Okay, yeah man. You do you. I’m not shaming your choices lool. I just want you to be aware of what I believe you to be missing out on. But if you don’t feel like these additional benefits of having specifically female friends is worth making female friends that’s your choice.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:44 AM
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Girl ❤️ yes. I also don’t like the generalizations. I don’t like that I have to use them in my own posts and comments here. But its really hard to be able to give general advice/input/thoughts without generalizations. You know what I mean?
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:41 AM
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Yes. Thank you. I appreciate this comment so much. I want dialogue. I want the men here to comment. I want them to question me. I want them to critically discuss. I want them to say hey. This doesn’t make sense to me because I see the world and women differently than you do, or I’ve never experienced this, why? I want other people’s perspective, and I want people to understand that… a lot of women share a different perspective too. I just want people to understand that sometimes, female friends …
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:38 AM
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I never said I didn’t have female friends. I was speaking in the royal you, as you were defending men that don’t have female friends. simply because they don’t have friends of the opposite gender. This isn’t a simple thing you know? Like the idea that there are so many women out there, and for some reason not a single one appeals to example man as a friend? It’s odd. would not consider something like this a red flag. I’m sure there are women who would not see it as a red flag, I’m sure there are…
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:30 AM
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Alright, that’s fine. You don’t need to have female friends if that’s the choice you want to make you know? But I’m just saying in choosing not to be friends with women, there’s a crap ton you miss out on and it impacts your reputation with women in general. If you still don’t want female friends, that’s your prerogative.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:08 AM
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Lmao. i stg, men on this subreddit cannot handle women telling the truth. Regardless of your actual reasoning for not having a female friend, this is how you come across? I know there are plenty of men that don’t have female friends because they don’t want to for whatever reason, or they struggle to maintain female friends that have the same interests etc. But when you don’t have female friends, its a red flag. You will probably need to explain why to the next girl you wanna chat up. Not every g…
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:05 AM
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Yes. This^
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:17 PM
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Yeah lmao I can see what you’re saying. In my opinion its because men completely misinterpret when I am honest with how women act and react. For example, be nice and respectful because for some reason when I say oh tease them a little bit it suddenly becomes be a complete jerk and its so cringey like… guys that were cool and interesting suddenly become… fucking disasters. Its way better to say oh be nice than tell them anything that could lead to them completely screwing everything up. Saying be…
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:01 PM
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