99corsair Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	What does everyone do to keep their mind off their ex? The person you're loving no longer exists, and hasn't for a long time.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/24 07:54 AM
5	So, dating from experience. Everything from dishes to laundry to just can you afford to pay someone to come a few times a week? use that free time to date, go out for drinks, meet friends, join clubs, hobbies, etc. You shouldn't partner with someone just because you need help around the house.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 11:40 AM
5	Ex is saying she’s depressed If you feel like your children is not safe (self-harm, etc) tell your lawyer. It may help you get custody if you want that, then she can get her shit together, also keep in mind you're not her emotional pillow anymore, let her deal with her shit like any adult.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/24 12:17 AM
2	Fighting the urge to text my wife Then you might need to consult either your lawyer or the police. She cannot prevent you from seeing your kids, and you need to document this ASAP, before alienation is added to your case.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/24 11:05 PM
1	Fighting the urge to text my wife How does your lawyer feel about her not respecting custody agreements?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/24 11:02 PM
0	Ex moving in with new boyfriend Literally have no idea how I'm supposed to feel or what to do. this is the most important part. sit down, grab a beer and have a few hours to yourself. write down or type how you're feeling, not how you're supposed to feel. List the emotions, and allow yourself to feel them all. It's normal to feel, and cry if you have to. Don't listen to anyone about how you SHOULD feel. As for her life, it's a normal part of life to date other people, she's not doing anything wrong and you need to understand a…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 12:09 PM
6	Missing something I almost feel guilty why? you're single.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 10:47 AM
6	Saw the ex today for the first time since the judgment giving me primary custody. fuck her metaphorically	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 09:30 AM
0	Wife and lover not working out short version: bruh.. long version, courtesy of chatgpt but I agree with all points: It sounds like you're in a complex situation, and it's completely understandable to feel conflicted. Trust is a fundamental aspect of any relationship, and if your ex has a history of cheating and dishonesty, it's reasonable to be hesitant about giving her another chance, especially considering the pain she's caused you in the past. Here are a few points to consider: Trust: Trust is essential in any relationship…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 11:00 PM
1	Taking the plunge why would it be in your head? do you not look at attractive women? you should invest a bit in therapy, your low self esteem will make you go back to the old lady, and that's not something you want. please book an appointment and start with this part.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 01:39 AM
1	I need help. people always say it's the best thing, and you'll understand why as soon as you go for a few weeks. try to pull through those and you'll feel so much better mentally. you got this!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/23 06:08 PM
10	I need help. if you don't have any friends OP, go to your nearest bar, tell the bartender you're buying a round because you got divorced, you'll make some friends for sure.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/23 06:36 AM
3	What did you do with your ring just FYI, you can get any ring you want to wear on whatever finger you want.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/23 12:43 PM
1	I’m scared therapy would be a good start. other than that, the usual: gym, go out with friends, reconnect with old friends.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/23 07:45 AM