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I have a friend who is quite traditional, and she recently told me that most of the successful relationships she sees are traditional. As my own rich husband what can I do? Go back in time to my LVexes and force them to perform so they “can take care of me”? I took care of myself and I am very successful and I’m not going to cook and clean and take care of some man who isn’t worthy of my time and energy. No sis. I have a list and it’s fucking long. No drugs No smoking No drinking No liars No men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:02 PM
68

TinyCrumbMeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:12 PM
106

I bring more to the table than any of my former scrotes, NVM exes. I also didn’t bring domestic violence, drug addiction, alcoholism or mental illness/laziness to my table. I did more than my share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:41 PM
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It totally drives me crazy… I’m Mrs HisName. Ok so whats your name lady? At a function, I’m with My Guy. Honestly not even once. Im Mrs Warrior in Charge of Myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:27 PM
271

This is a common dismissal strategy I’ve had done to me. Every woman’s accomplishment is luck and chance. Every mans accomplishment is logic, hard work, dedication. I’ve been “lucky” in business for 25 years apparently, I’m sure it’s just coincidental. So much luck because we all know when you have a vagina all the logic, hard work and dedication just fall out and the penis keeps it in. This is not sexism. It’s just gravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:41 AM
108

Warriors are too busy sharpening their swords to take care of menbabies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:32 PM
150

I’m a warrior not a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:25 PM
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I’m not having my son go see his dad at a homeless shelter. It’s either put up with it or pay him spousal support enough to maintain another household and I don’t make enough for that. Plus the courts are not working around here Better to have him get the full time work, not traumatize my son, and not pay him spousal support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:01 AM
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He has no friends or family because he’s an asshole and he’s a hoarder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:33 PM
42

Oh god I’m going on 2 years post break up trying to get my ex to move the fuck out. He had not had a job in 13 years so he had to get a job and then he couldn’t afford it. Recently he got a good paying job, but it’s part time until September. I look forward to freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:05 PM
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I don’t know how to say this, but anyone who knows my name can easily find out who I am where I work Nd what I do for a living, I’ve been in countless newspaper articles, on Tv and on social media. What I do is not popular at any time and even more unpopular now. I’ve done some things that could definitely make me a target for some very bad people. My friends have suggested I go on OLD but they don’t have any idea about the threats and crap I deal with already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:34 PM
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Actually he was the epitome of Low Value, and the furniture was more than good value to get rid of him. After many years I gave him some work from my business and I kind of laugh a little because when we worked together we had a big business and I eventually quit because of his drinking, and he lost it all. I started from nothing again and built another business that is doing well. He still lives in a basement apartment and he’s currently dying of prostate cancer. I leveled up and he’s just hims…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:28 PM
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I had one like this. 0/10. Would not recommend. After 7 long years of alcoholism he did sober up, and left me for another woman and took all the furniture while I was at work one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:11 PM
6

This is already me, I miss cuddling up to someone, waking up next to them, having sex. My ex was dead bedroom, and I’ve been alone for over 2 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:41 PM
8

I could not take the pill, it made me bleed or nauseous or crazy and that covers the 3 different hormones the pills are based on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:46 PM
33

I need to say, my boobs are big, but when they are out of a bra, they hang, so pretty sure men don’t like that either, and really want fake boobs. I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman with big boobs where they don’t hang down due to the effect of gravity over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:29 PM
6

My exes good lord, 1-Psychopath 2-Drug Addict 3-Alcoholic 4-Depression & Anxiety & Social Anxiety It’s a legacy of failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:37 PM
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1 - dead bedroom and bad in bed. 2 - lazy didn’t work at gainful employment for 13 years. 3 - terrible at cooking healthy food 4 - never wanted to do anything like exercise 5 - dirty around the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:13 AM
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Also want to point out that I did in the past have success when I was younger. Now, I'm invisible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:16 AM
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I'm guessing you're not an overweight 47 year old, I'm 2 years on waiting for anyone to ask me even for a coffee. I'm a professional woman, make good money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:11 AM
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As a person who’s ex is still living in my house 2 years after split up because he was a Stay at Home Dad for 13 years and refused to work, and Hes now making minimum wage and can’t move out because he can’t afford an apartment where we live, i can assure you part of the problem with support after split up is that it’s twice as expensive to live apart than live together. Most people just can’t afford to support a stay at home spouse in relative comfort with a regular job. Finally as the outside …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:28 AM
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Within reason, if either partner doesn’t want to have sex with the other for an extended period of time but still wants to be in an exclusive relationship, that’s extremely unfair. Sex is an integral part of a loving relationship. If both partners agree to not have sex that’s one thing but if one partner arbitrarily decides that they have sex once a year or less, there needs to be some agreement. I didn’t sign up for a sexless relationship, and honestly if I had cheated, he had no reason to judg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:34 AM
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Well sex is not a need like oxygen where you die if you don’t get it, but at least for me, in my 14 year dead bedroom situation it destroyed my self esteem and I ended up having sex with myself damn near every night. Even without a scrote to ask me out on a date the last 2 years I still got to take care of my own business. I wish I had no sex drive. So just like having people care about you and give you hugs is a need sex is a bed. And honestly being in a relationship where you don’t have sex is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:39 AM
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In my age group these events are full of husbands and wives. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I have assets and make really good money. Even my sister the other day. Hey is know this guy he works and is very decent. He doesn’t drink. All sounds good. Except he quit drinking 2 weeks ago. I told my sister if he’s still sober in 2 years I might date him. I’ve been with one drug addict and one alcoholic that’s quite enough for me. Both were sober when I met them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:11 PM
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It’s been a couple years and I could sure use some sex I’m 47 and not one person has even asked me out in 2 years. I’m not on OLD and I don’t even have any game left. So. While FDS seems very nice and all, plentiful and low value. I’m just not seeing the plentiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:29 AM
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Well my ex also did this. We went to 2 marriage counselors who were both male and both ended up kind of being on his side when he had some very serious issues. 1 - he did not want to have sex with me for years. 2 - he did not want to have another child even though we had one son together 3 - he never worked in 13 years 4 - he is a hoarder and a unhygienic person Anyways one of the counselors told me I might have premenstrual dysmorphic disorder. The other therapy sessions I would attend and I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:05 AM
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I make a very decent income and I definitely make more than 99% of people, makes it hard and most of the people I come in contact with are on my payroll. I’m not sure I’m attractive anymore, my bf was not interested and no one has asked me out in two years. I miss the smell of a man and their nice fur, guess I could hire one for a couple hours but it would be better if they liked me for myself. So there’s that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:59 PM
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The girls are not the problem. She needs to take out the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:57 PM
9

I’ve been with drug addicts and alcoholics and one of my exes is dead from drug abuse. I’m also not into 12 step program people. I don’t drink or do drugs by choice and want the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:08 PM
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So I was pulling a gas stove up the stairs to a house and a man helped me. It was super heavy too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:33 PM
3

Yes. I miss a lot about having a man in my life. Lots. I haven’t been on a date in the last 2 years since separation. No one asks not even LVM. I can’t even go on OLD because I’m a target due to my work. I sleep with a pillow either side of me to pretend someone is holding me or I’m holding someone. My girl friends say I’m pretty but the men are intimidated? I dunno.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:13 PM
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I have the same problem. I own my own company and make good money I don’t want a drinker or smoker I want a mentally healthy happy optimistic guy. I’m leveling up by increasing my fitness. Recently my friend told me I need to be more pretty and feminine. I went shopping. Apparently the trash is taking itself out before it even has the nerve to ask me out for a meal or even coffee. At the age of 47 maybe I’m only attractive to 70 year old scrotes but they all have dementia and are hospitalized I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:52 PM
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HER MOTHER took the photographs. Wtf. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:02 PM
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My point is withholding intimacy, sex and affection for long periods of time is also abusive and it happened to me so I’m qualified to say that. I’ve been to marriage counseling for years, and my own therapist. My ex avoided said he was sick and all kinds of excuses to not have sex with me. He though I was gross and finally told me after 13 years together. I’m still struggling to see myself as attractive because I was rejected so many times for so long. I wouldn’t wish this situation on anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:01 AM
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Right I went 5 years between sex acts once. Wtf. You’d better bet I was trying to get some. Is that manipulative? I was desperate and then some. It’s easy to judge these situations and if people have low sex drive sure they don’t want sex at all. If that’s the case let their partner go find someone else and stop torturing them. It’s easy to say the partner is to blame for the person’s not wanting to have sex with them, and create all these scenarios in which sex would be possible when it’s reall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:13 PM
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I go out alone a lot, night walks but it’s been a couple years alone now. I just miss physical contact and company. I haven’t been on vacation alone yet. I spend so much time already on my own at least work is distracting and keeps me busy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:34 PM
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Honestly as someone who has had to endure a relationship with no sex or intimacy because my ex wasn’t into it for years, HVM or not it’s simply not fair to the other person with the mismatched sex drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:11 PM
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I heard of the song on a twitter thread by Dr Jen Gunther who was mocking Ben Shapiro because he used his own wife who supposedly stated that to have a wap you would have an infection. I’m not a fan of Cardi B but we really do need to normalize normal female bodily functions. We can only hope going forward that every woman has a wap when having sex because that means we’re enjoying it. Do I agree with all the lyrics ? No. I love sex, haven’t had any in years, and hope to hell I need I need a mop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:41 PM
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Sorry not sorry. I’ve been with a psychopath who beat me, a junkie who is now dead, an alcoholic who got sober, and my latest ex a man who is lazy entitled hasn’t worked in 13 years who suffers from anxiety and depression and is on all kinds of medications that affect mood and sex drive. Nono Nono no no fucking hell no. I would rather set myself on fire rather than go to work every day to support someone who can’t work. Because their excuse/mental illness equals more work for me. So I don’t care…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:11 AM
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It just shows a profound lack of respect. Properly if you are meeting while still on the way if you get delayed by traffic or some unforeseen event there is no reason not to text to say “hey there was a traffic accident” or whatever. It can happen, but if they don’t even text or call gahh. And even if they did have an issue, 30 minutes is the max I would wait to be honest, maybe reschedule if the unforeseen event hits the news lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:42 PM
9

Playing sports is good tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:36 PM
15

My ex was so sedentary I kept thinking one day I would come home and dust him and he would be stuck to the couch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:17 PM
10

Omg my ex didn’t do any of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:13 PM
6

Not to mention if you want kids the clock is ticking. If you wait 5 years and he still has you waiting, you’re going to be rushing. Not assuming that’s one of your plans or anything just a fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:51 PM
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Agreed. Fortunately a lot of other people agree including my accountant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:40 PM
4

Well once you have a kid together it’s more difficult. I’m still stuck with him though because he’s trying to get me to pay him spousal support, but I need him to get a job so he can move out of my house. I’m in the process thought. My life is like an example of what LVM will do to you. Good thing is I’m already high level. Just got to shake off the leech and I’m good. Also the courts are closed so everything is stalled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:29 PM
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My ex was on antidepressants and seemed to think I agreed to a sexless life. The straw was one time he said I was gross. I thought thanks for finally being honest about your feelings towards me. Unfortunately it took 13 years for him to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:34 PM
2

I guess she never met a man like my ex who wants full spousal support and never worked a day in the last 13 years, also wants custody of our son, and is a hoarder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:54 PM
10

My ex would get nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:47 PM
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She’s gorgeous and young and he’s a groddy old pervert man baby. Who watches these shows?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:01 PM
31

Another man baby what a shocker. My ex doesn’t wear diapers but he still needs a mommy to take care of him. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:25 AM
12

Me three 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:39 PM
1

Well lots of kids wake up in the night and sneak into their parents beds, some can’t fall asleep unless they are with mom and dad. Sometimes the partners like to have the kid in bed with them because then they can avoid having sex without having a conflict. I only say this because me ex husband would do anything to avoid sex and this was just one of the many ways he did it for 13 long years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:58 PM
21

Yes this. That’s why he’s afraid the son is going to walk in on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:33 AM
5

Sounds like my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:31 PM
8

Persistence. Just keep going improve a little but every day. Luck comes to those who work hard and try to position themselves in a wise way. Those who gave up and went home, will not be around to collect their luck when it comes around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:14 AM
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Self sufficient, independent, funny, witty and successful. She should have her own money and assets and take care of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:43 PM
6

Lazy lovers. Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:21 PM
14

I used to get severe abscesses, which I never connected with shaving but after my latest ex stopped having any type of sex with me, I didn’t bother and the abscesses disappeared. I’d probably trim if I ever got a date but the horizon is completely clear at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 03:59 PM
7

Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:15 PM
6

If I’m doing something particularly formal I do a bun. At this point I’m fairly well established so I really could wear a sweatpants and tshirts that say FTW but as I said it makes a big difference in how people treat you. My family shops at thrift stores and I don’t remember my mom ever giving me dressing tips except picking my clothes. There was no learning about how to dress or fashion except maybe to mock people who spend way too much on clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:29 PM
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My hair is naturally curly so I wash and put a leave in product in. Hair cut every 3-6 months no dye and I have greys now. I go to the same guy every time and let him pick. In short nothing fancy. Makeup is eyeliner mascara and lip gloss. If I dye my hair it turns to straw and I’m allergic to most makeup it makes me itchy and break out. Most of it is learning what works for you to amplify your look. Someone else would have greasy gross hair if they followed my hair routine. One thing for sure ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:15 AM
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I have noticed a big difference in how I am treated as I now work in a legal field and I am always dressed up. I actually had no idea how to dress, so I tried to think of a female lawyer who dresses well that I admire. Not slutty but not fugly either. I went with Amal Clooney, I noticed she has a bit of a formula. Either black with a colored blazer or black pants and blazer with colored shirt. Makes a big difference. But I’m also wearing like $1000 worth of clothes on the daily. Appearance matte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:57 AM
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I would say it depends on their peer group. The definition of success for different people changes as you age. If all the gentleman in question are students who is a successful student and exhibiting HVM traits? Same with working people just starting out, who manages to have some coins still at the end of the week, doesn’t treat his friends like crap, doesn’t screw around on his gf. In short the cream rises to the top. You want the cream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:08 PM
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Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:41 PM
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I’ve met short fat guys that were sexy because they had confidence in themselves. The idea that you can put yourself up by putting other people down is just a loser type thing My ex is 6’4” and he still thinks it’s ok to have a diagram of how to load the dishwasher “helpfully” posted to assist me and that’s the kind of passive aggressive BS that sent him packing. Except he didn’t pack because he has no job and nowhere to go and is still my problem. So my point is it’s about attitudes that make p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:29 PM
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No he was on antidepressants, or he was the most careful guy I’ve ever seen, he didn’t get caught in the 13 years we lived together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:26 PM
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Yeah my ex blamed me for his lack of desire. Complete dead bedroom. He’s just not into me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:58 PM
1

I’m not sure that’s the answer, my son is one of the great joys of my life. And I’m not against staying at home to raise the kids either until they go to school, but you can still be committed to being an interesting person, making money, doing things and stuff. After the kids go to school there’s no reason to stay home, I honesty don’t know how people who stay home all the time don’t die of complete boredom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:17 AM
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He is generally a pretty good guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:15 PM
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Unfortunately part of the problem is our own patriarchal conditioning. Men are not raised with princess dreams of someone taking care of them and pretty dresses. We can all hope and dream for a HVM but independence is essential. When I was a young girl we had a neighbor, very lovely couple with a child, he went to work and took care of his wife and she stayed home with their son and took care of him. He took care of her. One day he went driving and got into a head on collision. Had he died she w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:14 PM
13

You know why divorces are expensive? Because they are worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:41 PM
6

Try going without for years like I did and am still doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:53 AM
66

Worse cause you have 2 kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:38 AM
112

My ex is a “victim” in his own eyes. The idea that men are responsible for themselves and their actions is profoundly disturbing to them. Like last week, he told me he left a promising career to be with me. And now he hasn’t worked in 13 years and it’s all on me, when I’ve literally asked him to go get a job for years. However if it was a traditional marriage the house should be clean instead of a hoard pile and I come home and the dishes smell because they haven’t been done in a week. I even mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 05:48 PM
57

Omg. If you read the thread he also asks her if she can have kids because her eggs aren’t getting fresher. Anyone who has a child with him is pickme10000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:26 PM
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I do drink once in a blue moon but I don’t want a man who drinks... I just don’t care, feel the same about weed and other drugs. Same with antidepressants. I might get some flack for this, but seriously I’ve dated one psycho, one drug addict, one alcoholic, one guy who married a virgin (silly man they can be reused lol) and one guy with anxiety and depression who didn’t work or do his fair share. If they’re on meds they don’t want sex. I’m just not into it. If you need a substance I don’t care. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:42 PM
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Nah. He was from another country, I got pregnant and he did the child care initially but then he just stayed jobless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:28 AM
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Nope. I wish. I’m the original pick me. Now I’m splitting with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:19 PM
12

Love the way you lie is one of my favorites. Reminds me how my in the process ex who won’t move out treats me. Anything by R Kelly. Not surprising he’s in jail or whatever he’s at in the process of getting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:26 PM
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I think most of the problem is our training. If friends come to your house and it’s not clean it’s always the woman. It’s internalized into us. Frankly I love a clean house but with my brutal work schedule, I just can’t really sacrifice the time. So... I hire one and do more of what makes me mucho dinero instead of cleaning dishes and swabbing the decks. This last guy, my sons father, doesn’t work and hasn’t and he’s a lazy slob. We’re in the middle of splitting up and he’s trying to get a job f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:19 PM
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I work with a legal team and we collect money from deadbeats and evict difficult tenants. Like if your tenant breaks your other tenants jaw and you’re afraid to go there you might hire me to manage the process. 👍🏻 I’m very popular at parties as you can imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:08 PM
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Men are generally trained from early childhood to suppress their emotions. This includes empathy. Men in my experience are just not that emotive not comfortable feeling strong feelings. They’ll joke and divert. Male empathy looks like “They just show up for you” no big deal, no talking, but they clear their schedule when you need them without making a big deal of it. It’s not magic, it’s work, they didn’t just show up and attend you putting your dog down because they had nothing better to do. Su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:08 PM
4

Definitely possible. There are honorable men out there who will not fool around on their wife. I have a male friend who is close to me. We are definitely attracted to each other but we are adults, we work together, and wouldn’t risk losing what we have to play grab ass. Furthermore I wouldn’t even try to seduce him or tempt him, because I care about him and splitting from your family is painful and I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. I respect him, I respect his marriage. He respects me. I’m there f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:47 PM
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I was in a dead bedroom for years. I did not find what you are saying to be true. I was immensely helped by that sub. I suffered years of rejection, man or woman, that is so destructive to your self esteem you can’t even imagine it. I’m currently breaking up my family, to escape the dead bedroom. I have an 12 year old son, I am 46 years old. If you as a partner withhold sex for periods of years, you are really destroying your spouse. They either have to step out and cheat, or just ??? It’s about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:36 PM
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