9NinetyOneNine Archive

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1	“On the inside, I am a lesbian.” Spanish Soldiers Change Genders From Male To Female To Earn Better Benefits, Extra Pay Conservatives ask that because they have been raised in a gendered system that tells them men should be dominant and commanding and women submissive and caring, then they build from that a whole set of prejudices that they project onto sex, as if they were natural. Also they want to keep things this way, so they look almost constantly to dismiss any initiative to change the system, because they are the defenders of this system. Sex doesnt matter when it comes to investigating rape, and biases ag…	/r/MensRights	14/03/24 07:10 AM
1	“On the inside, I am a lesbian.” Spanish Soldiers Change Genders From Male To Female To Earn Better Benefits, Extra Pay ok and how to tackle the so called gendered jobs "military, police, fire department, nursing, caretaking, teaching etc" to transform them into gender neutral jobs? Once patriarchy is removed, gender does not exist anymore, only sex matters. Gender is the ideology that patriarchy uses to sustain its domination. Gender prescribes that you as a male should be, behave and act in a certain, predeterminate way, which doesnt necessarily align with your nature. The same applies to females. What should m…	/r/MensRights	14/03/24 06:42 AM
1	“On the inside, I am a lesbian.” Spanish Soldiers Change Genders From Male To Female To Earn Better Benefits, Extra Pay That should be decided through central planning of the economy, and having workers as the center of this economy, catering to their needs, instead of a benefit driven society like the one we have now. In such a place, men and women would be equal politically in every sense, and kids would be raised by the community, so nobody would have to sacrifice their lives for it. Hopefully, also technology to reproduce without the need for women to gestate, something that greatly strains them, and somethin…	/r/MensRights	14/03/24 05:12 AM
1	Can men live a happy life without female contact? Ah yes, I've heard this rhetoric, there's a name for it, its called Schrodinger's feminism. You also claim there are many currents of feminism, so, a fragmented ideology? Usually a fragmented ideology is an indicator of internal issues. Its an indicator of debate an that its not an echo chamber lol. You are trying to frame difference of opinion as something bad? But they call themselves feminists, and they might not call you feminists. Internal infighting, such is the case of a fragmented ideolo…	/r/MensRights	14/03/24 12:15 AM
2	Is there a name for logical fallacy, when radical feminists say they argue for women's rights, but they actually argue for misandry? Then you don't seem to be paying much attention to the ideology if you don't think they're misandristic. I wouldn't say that the belief is built on it, but it's close. I dont pay attention to the people, I read the authors and history of feminism. One of the first feminists in history was a man: François Poullain de La Barre. He made a criticism of how men viewed and treated women. Then you get another very famous and influential feminist, also male: John Stuart Mill. He wrote an excellent essay…	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 11:57 PM
1	“On the inside, I am a lesbian.” Spanish Soldiers Change Genders From Male To Female To Earn Better Benefits, Extra Pay people earn the same per hour in almost any field but men work more hours under worse conditions... There are masculinized jobs where rarely women are let into, as they are very disuaded to get in them, and discriminated when they do, and then there are feminized jobs where rarely men are let into, as they are very disuaded and discriminated when they do. Its patriarchy under capitalist conditions; Men should do XYZ things related to power and dominance, and women should do XYZ things related to…	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 11:45 PM
-2	Is there a name for logical fallacy, when radical feminists say they argue for women's rights, but they actually argue for misandry? I have, and I consider myself one. Marxist feminist, particularly. I mostly disagree with you guys, I agree on a few things though, but I post here precisely for that, for contrasting ideas. So how would you answer my questions?	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 05:06 AM
-10	Is there a name for logical fallacy, when radical feminists say they argue for women's rights, but they actually argue for misandry? Misandry is just a consequence of realizing your whole sex has been subjugated for most of history by the other, to present times where most of the planet still does it, and still is to a degree, even in liberal countries. You should not be surprised it happens. Its akin to when Nietzsche deals with the issue of nihilism, an inevitable consequence and the first stage of having abandoned religion, which could also result in hate of religion. That being said, none of the major feminist currents ac…	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 12:21 AM
-8	Can men live a happy life without female contact? You are confused because you think of feminism as a monolith, and it is not. There are many currents of feminism. All you are detailing here is usually the opinion of liberal feminists, who are pro porn, pro prostitution and all of that, which if you ask me, I would not call that feminist, but their current does exist and is the one that has more affinity with capitalism. On the other hand, sex should be withheld as power to have leverage over men. Not even liberal feminists have ever stated thi…	/r/MensRights	12/03/24 03:16 AM
-58	“On the inside, I am a lesbian.” Spanish Soldiers Change Genders From Male To Female To Earn Better Benefits, Extra Pay Im Spanish and this is bs. Dont believe it, no one except 2 or 3 retards will do that, and women are not paid more than men, they all earn the same.	/r/MensRights	12/03/24 03:08 AM
-5	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Male loneliness stuff is very easy to be fixed. Just gather with other males, make a community, engage in a friendship as strong as a brotherhood, take care of each other and love each other. No sex required or marriage. You could also connect more with your family, your cousins, siblings, father, mother... Stay close to them. You can also do volunteer work, build connections with people there, or even if you are religious, use that as a way to find community. CRISIS SOLVED. But is it that what …	/r/MensRights	12/03/24 01:34 AM
1	Never forget that "Feminists" actually created the women's branch of the "KKK", a "White-Supremacist" terrorist organisation, hellbent on preserving White female power, undermining the human rights of other women as a result. Incorrect, the women in the above organisation were awoved "Progressives" and "Feminists" who also participated in the fight for female suffrage. Of course, they always do this tactic to confuse and manipulate women. Nothing new as I said. It is notorious that suffragettes were racist and threw minority women under the bus for their own selfish reasons. This a lie, suffragettes were not racist, SOME were, which is VERY different way to present the information. Actually, it was mostly women who w…	/r/MensRights	09/03/24 10:44 PM
1	Never forget that "Feminists" actually created the women's branch of the "KKK", a "White-Supremacist" terrorist organisation, hellbent on preserving White female power, undermining the human rights of other women as a result. Every fascist type organization has a female branch, where they are teached how to behave "appropiately" as women, that is, to be submissive to towards their husbands. But you are confusing that with feminism for some reason.	/r/MensRights	09/03/24 04:44 AM
-1	I Hate The Term "Male Dominated" The moment you believe there has been any actual matriarchy where women held all the power and men submitted to them, is the moment YOU proved too ignorant to take seriously. To think I wasted braincells replying to you. But worry no more, these are the last braincells im willing to spend with such a dishonest bro.	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 10:26 PM
1	Don’t be groomed into believing you owe your romantic or sexual partner anything more than love or sex. Don’t let media convince you otherwise. Yes. A transactional relationship is one where you sign up for a determinate reward, where you are thinking strictly about yourself and what you are going to get out of said relationship, the RELATIONSHIP ITSELF. In said a relationship, partners remind more of merchants interchanging goods than a genuine care for each other. In other words, a transactional relationship is a COMMODIFIED kind of relationship. A non transactional relationship is one where you are genuinely concerned for the well be…	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 09:33 PM
1	Don’t be groomed into believing you owe your romantic or sexual partner anything more than love or sex. Don’t let media convince you otherwise. I disagree.	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 08:41 PM
0	The disposability and dehumanization of men I agree with this in the link you provided: D. instead of directing their efforts towards criticisms of and activism against capitalism, nationalism, patriarchy, and other oppressive systems that are the cause of those issues, they simply blame women and feminism for their problems This the problem I see with MRA as a whole, in a very sweeping generalization that of course in detail can be further nuanced, but this is just heuristic. btw idk why you insist on mras "instead of individual people" …	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 08:15 PM
0	The disposability and dehumanization of men Feminist communism: Raising of children done by society at large, not nuclear families or extended families, but by the commune. Reproduction done in artificial manner, which would liberate women from being reproductively exploited. Abolishing all of patriarchal structures, along with its super structural basis: gender ideology. Patrarchy is the original gender ideology, which transgenderism is just an epiphenomena of it. This is my answer in the most simplified way I can to your concerns.	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 08:08 PM
-2	I Hate The Term "Male Dominated" The idea that men provide / protect women is a myth. Women have been historically discriminated against from working in 90% of jobs, discriminated for living alone, discriminated for not wanting to marry / have kids and pushed to do so etc and the way to do this, apart from flat out violence, has been economic coercion. If, as a woman, you are unable to do anything because you are barred from it, how can you support yourself autonomously? You cant... Well thats what men been doing to women. So t…	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 08:04 PM
0	I Hate The Term "Male Dominated" You are a lost soul.	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 05:27 AM
-2	I Hate The Term "Male Dominated" Why do you think American minority men, for instance, have the highest rates of state violence enacted against them? Welly welly seems someone got very triggered arround here... I said continously, but BACKED by violence. Read again. That is something you will need to substantiate, as 'patriarchy' is classically a cultural family sorting structure, not a political one. Wrong. It is political and has always been. Your conceptualization is backwards; you should read more social histories. You shou…	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 05:22 AM
-1	I Hate The Term "Male Dominated" Then why are you posting here in the first place?	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 05:08 AM
-8	I Hate The Term "Male Dominated" What I rarely hear in these conversations is how for a cultural standard to exist, the women must be willing, enthusiastic participants, especially in the current age of western society Patriarchy has a foundation and a super structure. You first force yourself to power, but then whats most effective is convincing people that your have to be in power, so you dont need to enact violence continously, as this is not optimal (although you have violence to back yourself with). This is basically the r…	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 04:34 AM
-7	Why is there female only gyms but not men’s only gyms ? Female only gyms sounds backwards. Its like male only bars. There are very few spaces that are reasonable to be segregated (sports, changing rooms, prisons), but trying to extend it beyond that? This could lead to a very problematic situation. Some people want segregation from others, while at the same time preventing others segregating from them, which is a double standard. Ive also heard men trying to ban women from their gyms, which is just as pretentious, and if we combine both wishes we end…	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 03:11 AM
-14	I Hate The Term "Male Dominated" You have numerous misconceptions about this issue. The first, the idea that patriarchy is presented as a conspiracy of XYZ guys. It does not work like that, and nobody said it works like that. Patriarchy is how the structure of society is defined, and its beyond individual power. It, as a structure of society, has escaped individuals themselves, and is not in direct control of them, albeit only people themselves are capable of changing this. There are men who have more power than others that act…	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 01:41 AM
7	Don’t be groomed into believing you owe your romantic or sexual partner anything more than love or sex. Don’t let media convince you otherwise. I think you guys got this wrong... Should not it be... More like... You dont OWE anyone sex or love? Should not a relationship be built onto parameters that dont go by OWING? And should go more on things like TRUSTING? KINDNESS? EMPATHY? OWING sounds like a transactional relationship, not one based on caring and trusting. The article is bullshit, as it falls into the very same ideas of transactional relationship I just criticized.	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 01:22 AM
-2	The disposability and dehumanization of men both men and women are apathetic to men's issues. this isn't just a man against man issue. When you raise people completly differently just because they have ovaries or testicles, and assign completly different scales of value to them, you can expect this result. Men dont care because they are taught not to be emotionally open, stoic, sentimentally hardened, specially to other men. This is done for a reason, we as males are raised to be ready for war. Curiously, is in situations such as wars whe…	/r/MensRights	07/03/24 11:52 PM
-3	The disposability and dehumanization of men We have no way of knowing that, but it is not women who are at the top right now (specially not in places like eastern europe), so its certainly not them who are to blame neither for spreading this idea nor for inventing it. Men use other men for their wars, higher class men see lower class men as tools and pawns. Patriarchy is inherently hierarchical, and with its hierarchy comes a kind of violence and resource competition channeled through accumulation of wealth in certain hands at the expense…	/r/MensRights	07/03/24 04:29 AM
-2	The disposability and dehumanization of men No, im trying to insinuate that is MEN atop the hierarchy that you should blame for MEN lower on the hierarchy dying in their wars of profit and ransacking.	/r/MensRights	07/03/24 03:24 AM
1	Why didn't MensRights do much? KaliTheCat "mod of askfeminists" (topic - what mra get right) I think many of their complaints are legitimate-- that poor men are often exploited for dangerous, cheap labor; that there isn't much social or cultural support for male victims of sexual and domestic violence; that hegemonic masculinity can be stifling and fragile; that men and boys are lonelier than ever before; that male infant circumcision is still legal and widely practiced in some areas; etc. However, instead of directing their …	/r/MensRights	07/03/24 02:15 AM
1	"they tell us...." narrative and my answers - Do you have any idea what is expected of men? Just ask yourself who is it behind men's expectations. Who expects men to be a certain way. Who is it that rules and manages society from top down? No matter what society, all are structured in bias of a certain sex being in power, through history and geography. Its them who you should focus on blaming.	/r/MensRights	07/03/24 01:26 AM
-3	The disposability and dehumanization of men The Ukraine situation is a great example of this. Men are banned from leaving forced to go to war and die while women get to flee the country safely. This is a very strong example of how disposable men are in the eyes of humanity. Ask yourself the following questions: -Whats the sex of the people who started the war in the first place? -Who are the ones banning men from leaving the country? Whats their sex? -Who are the ones pushing women to flee and not letting them join the war as much? Whats …	/r/MensRights	07/03/24 01:10 AM