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To my understanding initiating failure was meant to mean starting procedures but that's up to OP to clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:52 PM
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I am explaining OP POV which btw in the case of marriage and divorce is I believe very common among men. I don't imagine any woman thinks "one I will get married and then divorce when I feel like" but from our point of view marriage is something women want more and divorce is also something they want more so it's an option that has some risks. On the other hand everyone is getting more and more broke these days so I don't think this fear is relevant from anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:58 PM
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I believe it's a reference to a divorce statistics that divorces in heterosexual marriages are initiated by women and that they benefit the most from divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:46 PM
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Dude I wouldn't mind something like height athletic anatomical shoes but high heels woman fashion is dumb if you see their bags clothes and shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:45 AM
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This is hilarious attitude to opposite gender problems. US women stay away from men and you won't have to worry about access to abortion. Actually this can be said about almost any gender specific problem. (From the extreme to the closest comparable in theory not paying childcare should be)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:51 AM
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25 years is too much. Other than that based I also love how gendered problems are downplayed by the opposite gendered to which we are men guilty as well. The comments talking about abstinence or be like more important opposite gender problem as if one stops you from solving the other
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:40 AM
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Using state mental health of a feminist country is like talking to a company's HR according to the stereotype. DON'T and if you have to say what they want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:25 PM
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This kind of post is the reason I joined here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:35 AM
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My interpretation agrees we op but I like this observation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:53 PM
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Empowering but inhuman apart from homosexuals we need them and they need us. Few people who say they don't need them are sane
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:44 PM
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Anyone who lived alone doesn't need a woman to clean and cook We need them for emotional reasons and sex The thing is we tend to have a different view on how many chores how often and how should be done
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:23 PM
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Read my comment again. You get to want whatever you can imagine. Sometimes what you want contradicts what the beliefs or ideological system you claim to follow. THIS OK to most extent we are not our ideas but more complex. It's a low effort but valid god you thought to people who would preach and force their ideas to others And because you have no image about the person describing she was (not judging negatively btw) talking about a big conservative religious wedding with Barbie and Disney eleme…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:11 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:14 PM
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Abortion is lethal here although I see the point (Relationship safeguard through marriage)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:57 AM
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Its not even that strategic. She was like talking about it romantically. Her boyfriend is not richer than her. If you talk to her she is socially progressive and fits some stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:40 AM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:26 AM
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Power is relative and subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:15 AM
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Meanwhile very few women are actually feminist in terms of gender roles and in my circle I can't think of any girl who would like that type of relationship. EVEN MOST PROGRESSIVE WOMAN FROM A MORE ALTERNATIVE FRIEND GROUP that my girlfriend was hanging out at one point SHE WANTED MARRIAGE I don't know why What you will get as a man if you don't set boundaries is tradmasculin AND modern feminist expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:07 AM
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Then don't be SAH parent what is the point of this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:40 AM
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A stay at home parent spouse is (in theory) entitled to more than a working spouse Depending the place and circumstances this maybe different to how true are how fair given the risk of not working is but what is the point?? Don't do anything because internet says so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:22 AM
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Greece
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:28 AM
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Ironically having kids maybe more reliable than some failing counties systems in terms of pension (not saying is a good reason or even true always)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 05:36 PM
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They are entitled from money from the husband even after he dies along with (my country) national pension (its very low and everyone after an age qualifies) they can keep husband's pension (usually it's always bigger) This was the case from my grandmother, she raised two kids didn't work other than home and got a very good pension because my grandfather had a good job I am not telling to do it or it is better than having a normal job but even for your country (probably US) it is exaggeration But…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 05:34 PM
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We don't owe pensions...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:12 PM
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What is hilarious?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:42 PM
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Elaborate, It's a team sport so the woman and the man (provided they are willing to please listen and try) are as good as their partner guiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:12 AM
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These thinks make sense if they are communicated and agreed upon otherwise we can cheat and think later reason why we did right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:58 PM
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No The only scenario is if this person is in a monogamous relationship with me I expect exclusivity romantic and sexual unless they dump me or having me accept that they will sleep with others In the condition you describe its kinda over (break up or open marriage) not infidelity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:04 PM
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If you deprive your spouse from sex your relationship is problematic and either needs to fixed or lead to break up As long as you don't break up with them and they don't break up with you monogamy is expected (at least if that was the relationship at first) and playing the field without breaking up or even disclosing it to your partner is cheating. I am just a random guy snd this maybe wrong because it's harsh but to me cheating is on the person who cheats you are not forced to stay in a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:41 AM
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As a man who fears getting married because of fear of dead bedroom I will give all the empathy you want (exception to cheating- talk try break up its a valid reason) Relationships rules are made by the couple and it's perfectly valid to have no sex or no sexual satisfaction as a deal breaker. My empathy will be a bit less because since you are a woman it's kinda hard to please you. In fact in my experience it either happened spontaneously at the first stage of relationship and then after a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:29 AM
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Good luck have fun and wish you success!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:52 PM
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Every person is different so every good path is different. As someone who don't knows you Your health (all aspects of it)> financial freedom (if possible, like emergency fund, spent less than you earn save and invest)>appreciate what you probably have (could be family could be free time could be anything>>>> all else literally All the rest either they will come or they will not matter (Obviously having even one good friend makes a difference in health and relationship give you a boost in mood ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:02 AM
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Important unless the people are part of daily or weekly routine hard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:55 PM
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One physically attractive and charismatic. He hasn't stop in all cases now he has a serious relationship but in the past for many women they were 50-50 or they paid. He is the outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:04 AM
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It is!! women/men say they want x behaviour then they reward y behaviour but somehow people get uncomfortable or defensive when you point that out. For me this is red pill (umbrella term generally)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:59 PM
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Welcome to the female equivalent of red pill your observations are valid although not universal (the same you would tell me if I said red pill talking points at girls) btw male in relationship I wish you find what you are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:17 AM
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Casual sex but was honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:31 PM
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Because of the word deserve I am purposely mean. The elites of the super power among 2 Ocean deserved apparently a lot more than most men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:30 PM
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Guy 1: Says to you what you want to hear. Get's casual sex Guy2: Is honest about his intentions. Filtered out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:28 PM
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Why though??? Someone who wasn't honest got what the honest one didn't deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:26 PM
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I am man but not exactly claimed that but will answer because I sense b8 It's a spectrum kinda of thing for me it would be 20-30 but this is generalisation. There are women in 35 40 50 and 60 who would be attractive and the elephant in the room women in 18 17 15 who would be attractive. It's just a smaller percentage and attractive does not mean suitable or appropriate for sexual or romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:27 PM
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Can't speak for Thailand but people generally don't like or choose to be slaves Where I live in theory we are first world in practice there is not optimism for future low salaries terrible work conditions housing market crisis and ridiculous corruption I would love to have a large traditional family (man in stable relationship) but the prospect of poverty with kids and my kids future being slaves or sex workers for the rich is not appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:52 AM
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So fucking true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:12 PM
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They very very very much do. Companionship and love is the reason to be in a relationship with a woman otherwise it's non commited flirting and sex. And before you say no commited relationships with woman and especially marriage do not increase sex if not decrease it. The reason for anyone (I believe it's true with women) to put up with someones flaws and put time and in case of men resources is Romantic love appreciation family creation or in bad cases insecurity Source Anecdote by a man in a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:23 PM
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I wish you the best and mutual fulfilment in all aspects of your life especially then relationship ones. I wish to feel how amazing it is to have sex good sex how it positively affects your relationship mood life even small things get better I wish you appreciate and for that matter any woman the amazing horniness the carefree ness and what a good fuck makes someone feel . Men indeed are not women and people vary as well as sex drives and libidos but I like to thing when I hear from a woman she …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:01 AM
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Short answer No Long answer Assuming it's mature consenting and fairly paid adults who weren't forced into it it is ok . In theory there should be nothing wrong with this profession but in practice it is dangerous and has the potential to negatively affect the mental health of the workers while it is in most of the world taboo. To say something is 100% ok is something you would do and since I am a guy, would be comfortable your girlfriend mother daughter do (Not really, I hope sexbots make this …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:20 AM
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All of us will grow old and generally most qualities can be corrupted. Status to be lost money to be lost etc. We are shallow all of us some more than others but I would like to think that my bond with my girl is a bit more than that. I have been thinking randomly how would I support her in extreme challenges in life or how she would me Ultimately you will never know unless you have to and most likely we don't wanna know but imagine rotting away with someone that love each other care for its oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:50 AM
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I mean love languages one of them material things are the only way to communicate love Other than exchanging love languages you have no way of feeling being loved and other than expressing love languages my partner wouldn't now how much I love her and in practice I believe the transmission of our individual feelings is less than 100% accurate (I hope not too inaccurate though)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:33 AM
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I am genuinely curious what it would say about me to bad you have to pay Btw I agree with you it's creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:25 AM
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Say what you like the conclusions will and should be drawn by your partner choice and the general choices of women in our circle To my understanding is physical appearance charisma perceived success (you could be broke but dress well have fun life considered popular or having a good future etc) then being at least equal or higher in socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:58 AM
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It's just isn't appealing and if I had a to choose between that fantasy and the opposite I would choose the opposite Who knows why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:35 AM
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She doesn't want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:14 AM
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That's a whole different perspective. I feel worthy of love sex friendship opportunities. But the mentality at least in theory (despite having an income I am leeching to my family) is that you want something you either get or you don't. You kind of ask it sometimes but not from your girlfriend I have a relationship and some times I tend to spoil her. If she used the word worth I would be put off. I mean she worth it because I love her and has a nice character but saying it or demanding it is kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:13 AM
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Better answer than I could think of as a guy who gets the " ick 🤣" on that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:24 AM
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It's not my woman's business to get these things for me. In theory men exist like that but it feels extremely awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:23 AM
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Man assuming she doesn't put me into debts or demand more than I feel like providing I couldn't care less
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:00 AM
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This guy's cant afford to be broke or at least more broke than the average person if we want a somewhat normal life. Tried once to explain to friend of me who is feminist and she complained about the pay gap (*) and I told her that the incentives are different and even if you managed to forced it most likely you would make half of the women not liking their men. She denied it is that important for heŗ. Part of me wanted and wants to believe it those who say that the other part she their actions …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:56 AM
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I bet it's because men don't care about partner's income (*) And at least around my age group (25+) and were I live few women I know seem to seriously consider children . So so far it's other reasons (although to be fair so far I know one and maybe 2 cases of girl dropping a man because of income and profession. However Idk a girl whose bf doesn't make at least similar to her)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:39 AM
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You are wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:49 PM
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Υes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:38 PM
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Because indirectly they damage the "market" As people they could be happy but I see them as victims I am in favour of sex work (with certain requirements) . Yes I believe part of hating it is exactly or making it socially weird is because of the similar market reasons (at least for people who think it makes sense to use sex as a bargain for other relationship stuff) .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:13 AM
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It's a bit different although not mutually exclusive Simps are low maintenance for any gender Not all low maintenance people are simps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:06 AM
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As a guy I low key hate simp men guys who pay for porn OF and have no standards and self respect even if they are happy because indirectly they shift the balance of expectations against all others thus causing harm In theory I wouldn't stay for long with a high maintenance woman (in practice one man's maintenance another man's minimum effort while love does exist and tends to affect me a lot). That said I understand their bitter for the same reason I feel disgust for Simps (indirectly harming th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:44 PM
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You will not be a burden to someone if they love you (care giver burn out exist but it's different and it probably needs some special advice but if you are transparent about your flaws it is on the other person ) you as everyone should be loved and I wish you get that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:31 PM
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Not necessarily. The war usually takes a way a great deal of healthy and relatively young men. Yes you can use random people at the "bottom" of society as cannon fodder but the fighting forces are mixed This outcome is better for the men who survive or avoid the draft Also it's the 21st century and the social contract is broken. Look at Russia. Unless directly me my girlfriend or my family are harmed I am not fighting for free. And the amount of the benefits society could give compared to what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:14 PM
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Men need to literally take care of themselves other things don't matter From women expect nothing and give as much as you are inspired and be comfortable to lose (maybe follow your culture's politeness rules or at the very least the fucking law if the inner asshole is too asshole and if you feel like it invest as much emotion time and money you want just know it's likely she will leave you and you shouldn't care too much) CARE Accept and love yourself work on your mental health don't let anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:39 AM
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Wtf is that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:18 AM
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The negotiator Ass for ass 🥺😨
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:14 AM
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Underrated comment and basically it sums up I would only add that not every specific need will be met and either logically or emotionally you will decide if your relationship is good for you The guys who wrote that they have the need to know they would be her first option regardless her period of her life and that is valid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:55 PM
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I am not claiming that low smv women don't have problems similar problems to smv men and some special problems I am claiming that (anecdotally and to my observation) Their less likely to compromise their standards they are more likely to overestimate their smv (essentially 1 2 you said about men ) compared to theirs male counterparts . For guys it's a meme at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:20 AM
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Both aren't a compliment but long term being low smv woman as well as being the time of man who attracts gold diggers is better than being incel (they have chances of that change)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:13 AM
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Yes we agree They do and generally they (my perception and observation) tend to have very few basic if any expectations If if they don't desire sex they (I believe) desire attention flirt and what comes before sex which in comparison men don't get ( low smv male has no sex attention flirt and chances to do something about it a low smv female will have people flirting and wanting her attention and even if most of these are from low quality to malevolent the numbers favour her)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:31 AM
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1 and 2 are waaaaaayyyyyyyy more common in women and why wouldn't they be being single for them doesn't exclude access to sex intimacy romance attention and the "sexual market" favour them 3 Is indeed a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:49 AM
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They can fall with anything they say Tesla fell in love with a pegion (probably different weird case but you get the point) They ugly woman loses in that she will be noticed less approached less and all the negatives that a bad appearance can do for you in terms on how you act and how they treat you and all these give less chances
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:35 AM
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To my understanding the wall means that women won't have the same appeal and attention they had before a certain age It doesn't mean they won't have men into them sexually or that would fall in love or who would want a relationship. Now if a woman is used to the attention of multiple men or squeezes the leverage women have by default in dating and early relationships while not being a good partner she will have fewer and fewer men into her and she will have to do more as the older you get the pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:30 AM
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My best guess they don't know or care or have alternative std and pregnancy protection
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:52 PM
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That's could be also part of a vetting process I am a guy I love sex like any man and ideally without a condom but if I know you for a few months or even days and we are not in a committed monogamous relationship it's a no no and ok don't mean to judge but a partner who lets me get in raw without knowing me to much isn't she informed? Does she trust me that much??? Does she not care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:10 PM
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It was an example to tell you that you are sexist and that feminist rhetoric is no different than any different bigoted ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:28 AM
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Replace men with a racial or ethnic group and you have racism This is one of the most basic examples of why feminism is inherently sexist towards men and crypto misandrist or shameless misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:14 PM
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I like it take my up vote
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:50 AM
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Men are not hiveminds teams or social classes men don't care or promote the interests of other men specifically because they are men this is a feminist delusion The people in power who most of men are men promote their self interests these of their families offerings allies/clan/team/friends and do things according to their values
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:47 AM
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NO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:45 PM
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Know your worth king don't settle for anything less where are all the real women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:28 PM
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We just IN MOST CIRCUMSTANCES don't care about the wealth or status of our partner Why we care about gold diggers?? Imagine if a guy only is in a relationship with you for your looks or to take something from you You want to be loved for your character and you want to feel your partner is attracted to you and considers you a duckable loveable huggable and a person fun to spend time and be with I believe this is universal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:22 PM
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Well they are given many names to differentiate from gender equality definition feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:29 PM
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I guess that would be the origin story of why some them permanently or at point in their life hate men and are excessively feminist (My perspective at least)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:22 PM
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Then don't believe it I guess I definitely felt demonised now even if they were to blame me for oppression or violence I wouldn't really care The affected my life part is hard to tell it definitely made me extremely suspicious to anything progressive although nowadays we have the opposite problem maybe it affected my relationship but it's to distant to tell. It affected me enough to feel negative about it . Even if it did affected me like in very serious ways like not get a job or refused some k…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:57 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:40 PM
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Really???? I am not comfortable sharing too much information and this feels disingenuous but Greece mostly online spaces but also in western online spaces a dozen times in physical spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:38 PM
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Feminists words Feminism Dating strangle, any mental health problem they either downplayed or blamed patriarchy which was also at times us, difficulties in education and in the job market, literal prejudice when it came on the treatment of men and boys When we had a problem it wasn't a problem it was our fault and we need to step up do this and that when they had a problem it was our fault and we had to do this and that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:32 PM
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Replace in their words the words male man with any ethnic group or race and you get hate speech It disregarded denied or gave bs reasons for our problems It treated us like we are responsible for historical and current problems of women and like we somehow have it better and took something from them It's a label that attracts toxic people (there are expectations some of which are friends of mine and one who is my girlfriend)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:11 PM
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Maybe my anecdotal personal experience and that of half my male friends (they were the ones open about it) is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:55 PM
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Not sure if I qualify as boy (25 years old) It does and it when I was a teen (Yeah it's a big spectrum and umbrella term for a variety of people but still)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:45 PM
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I wish you the best and a happy life life is full of mostly bad but also good surprises!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:35 AM
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Valid anecdotal personal account 25 moderately good life I have a job me and my girlfriend have similar incomes I had no success in education and currently not a desirable future (these issues I can't and won't blame on society)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:06 PM
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At least one of us misunderstood the other Nature is full of survival of the fittest the strongest rule violence etc Yes they happen in human societies we don't and shouldn't want them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:23 PM
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I am all for making the way men are raised better but we need to stop having unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:20 PM
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That's a fallacy many bad things we wouldn't like happen in nature
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:09 PM
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Your take is dangerous (you will be disappointed) your wife is not a support system if you hear of the relationship complaints from woman is that they have to support their boyfriends I am in a relationship I believe there is mutual love but I wouldn't risk using my relationship as emotional support Friends are to cry and whine women are to flirt court hug and bang
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:58 PM
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As a fellow guy both things can be true and no contradictory My experience support your claims (money status looks can literally make people get away with lots of things and make women change a lots of opinions btw this true for guys) The internet is not reliable but when many women talk about similar things generally believe them. They don't understand our problems but we should try understanding theirs so as the solutions whatever may be have answers to their problems as well otherwise one day…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:48 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:18 AM
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Sry what? I find it extremely hard to empathize with one Let me get it straight The fear of the husband buying the wrong gifts Maybe its something deeper than that and psychological ad fear Like if you want a certain gift say it or communicating if fails try again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:08 PM
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That's a good damn answer but it begs another question why do we give oaths like that till death with no strings attached Like till death do us apart as long as Mutual respect Emotional intimacy Physical intimacy Etc And why is it so important to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:39 AM
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I believe this is universal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:32 PM
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As a man I hate the 2. I can only hope for the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:31 PM
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The basic premise is to be able establish that financial support will be denied to a child before the child is born. Yes In LTRs all you would have to do in theory is to make aware both your wife or girl about your intention and the state In hook ups or other types of relationships I guess it could be the same but practically it would never happen. Maybe if a guy could make again an official statement for the state and it would be public in a data base that could be searched by his name???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:54 AM
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What you describe is not financial abortion Since it doesn't exactly exist to my knowledge I imagine it to be an official statement preferably before having casual sex or the most a week after a positive pregnancy test that " I don't want to become a father if she wishes to keep the kid I am not eligible for financial support"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:38 PM
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In theory the whole spectrum from anti abortion in any case to pro abortion in any case supports or should support that as it solves the problem same with the financial abortion crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:33 PM
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Legal discounts for people who are on a date Legal extra one day a month for people who can prove they are dating or married or in relationship Sex education (the normal one but also lessons on how to make women orgasm, and men although easier). Kind of media literacy lesson in schools so as to not be radicalised or into weird ideology pipe lines (pills and ... Imo most types of feminism) Other than that you can't do much ( I am not properly informed but I think I am right) if you think about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:08 PM
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A marriage can end with decision of one partner and should be easy and with no hard feelings (very ideally) Family NO wtf is that supposed to mean the moment you start a family you are connected with the other parent by obligation and rights (co parent is different from a relationship) That said I haven't experienced it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:37 PM
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Yes I do Only reason not to would be if I barely or could not provide and if her reaction of valuing me providing didn't match what I anticipated (I hope it makes sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:04 AM
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This is because of biology all the problems you mentioned are biology and a bit society (the time you lose from your job) The man is responsible for the kid to grow up but not to compensate you for being a mother Imagine if hypothetically a man were to raise a kid and then demanding compensation (not child support) from the mother (Assuming you have control on being a parent , most men and some women don't) It makes as much sense as it makes to demanding it from the child or from society Also th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:44 AM
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Different kind of entitlement ( Having the right to see your kids isn't comparable with seizing an asset) Your comparison makes sense to me if the man hasn't contributed financially or with parenting other than that in most families I know fathers contribute for their kids. Financially and raising them (never a hard 50-50 but usually at least in older generations the father contributed more financially for the kid more ) What you would be entitled to is child support If you were to get someones …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:14 AM
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And what is the alternative or alternatives to increase his bargaining power??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:41 AM
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NO source I am a man It can be an act of dominance it can be an act of giving pleasu it can be an act of comfy cozy connection it can be a game it can be nothing like just hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:28 PM
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I am guy I have a relationship maybe one day I get married and I would hate get cheated on but obviously... It's the fault of the person in relationship who cheats
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:38 AM
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One woman friend of me was complaining about wealth inequality among men and women and I stated to her (with examples from her life) that your preferences are from equal to way better off. You do realise that for a mans happiness the incentive for power and money is way larger
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:13 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:15 AM
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HARD AGREE Some of my thoughts over the years as a guy were The state to freeze theirs eggs in order to increase the age window or help others women State guarantee about the education healthcare day care and food of the kids for free The more kids a couple has the less taxes the pay or larger pension Equal mandatory parental benefits (paid leaves) so as to make gender discrimination pointless (I remember women in my country saying that employers would be asking if a woman wants a kid- also it p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:13 PM
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The one is mandatory (in my country) the other isn't The proof would be the collapsing birthrates I am all for giving benefits honour etc to women who give birth same or more than service men unironically it's going to be needed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:44 AM
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Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:53 PM
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A percentage of them yes a percentage of them no As guy in a relationship I value Mutual commitment effort attraction and feeling. Similar love languages Similar libidos Similar values These things go for both sexes The only aspects similar or mutual goals (family house experiences) is affected by her career etc but it is not my partners job to contribute to my goals. I want something? If I can I do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:52 PM
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I believe this way of judging is flawed in short because of correlation/= causation issue but also because of unique circumstances Even if among the population of fat unemployed uneducated women 90% were dull with no ambition you lose the possibility of a 10% that is not dull and with ambition and while it's dating you don't have and can't give everyone a chance good matches might be lost due to arbitrary in my opinion standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:32 PM
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Why would I be with anyone that makes me feel like I don't want to? No matter who you are it is kind of unreasonable. A relationship to me is mutually making each other feel like the want to and sharing their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:23 PM
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Assuming she puts me on a pedestal while I don't have at least somewhat similar feelings why would I be with her at any term And I this is not what my comment means I didn't say anything that excluded what you write And that was the case with the previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:09 PM
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I don't want her to see me anything else apart from sexually attractive and generally awesome I say her income work and success is irrelevant WITH THE CONDITION I could take care of her needs assuming she chooses to rely on me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:07 PM
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I couldn't care less if my gf was uneducated unemployed broke (my plans for long term plans for happiness with or without her don't include her paycheck) I would mind though if she was relying on me for things we couldn't afford and consider unnecessary I tend to believe women would care (not only from this sub from my circle) My not conventional for men standards are that I don't want a big age gap ideally and while I would mind every negative attribute high body counts get (infidelity not happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:30 PM
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I think more people need to talk about this. I am mid twenties and had to be in a relationship to even consider female arousal is different still figuring it out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:52 PM
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Womens ego benefits because they have options Consumer products and benefits that have to do with improving your value to women (scam PUA valid gyms fashion) Employers because I have never seen girls being attacked to unemployed or low income people so you have people trying to make money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:16 PM
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I wish you recovery and the best in life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:38 PM
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Enjoy the decline is a cope that is perfectly valid if you can't do anything about it If "catastrophic scenario" you have to lose a good partner an easy life your status stability or your financial success or even your health. A friendless sexless broke individual doesn't have any of this so why would he care. In my worst days of life I would see such things as a chance for a change something to make life less boring and was very hard for me to care Ever since I got into a relationship I kinda c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:37 PM
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Made me realise that if you look for negativity we find it and same goes for positivity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:54 PM
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I have no opinion on the subject (I am a guy from a western country with other influences with no significant interaction with no western people) But boy this sounds soo true 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:00 PM
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24 Μ to answer your question extremely ugly people or women will get my attention (not exactly invisible that id probably for average people) the thoughts or feelings I have for them are something like pity and being uncomfortable The behaviour you describe being mean to them attacking them etc is something I consider indecent and due to bad treatment as a teen for similar reasons by women is something I strongly oppose and even among guys I know I would be kind of surprised to see that. Althoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:43 PM
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24 Μ nothing bad. Although she will have to be patient an ok with the process of discovering her and her partners body as most of the times the woman knew more than me and guided me on how to please her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:59 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:26 PM
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I usually don't comment here Similar experience in terms of experience ("every time I was told to hide sth...") I am not relevant to the field and I haven't even tried it but I strongly agree with your comment It is never about solving the problems of lonely men pour people generally the unfortunate in life (this sub is about dating relationships and interactions between sexes but it is true for many other sectors) or whatever most people will not admit it but it's easier to dismiss demonise or …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:55 PM
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