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CMVA1Dilettante/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:06 PM
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I was too generalizing, but my point stands. Peterson appeals to frustrated men who lacked guidance and purpose, hence part of his rise to Internet popularity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/25 02:01 AM
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Yeah, but its affect on men isn't nearly brought up enough. We all know about women with daddy issues. But what about dudes? It's just assumed men will grow up and figure out life on their own or go into the military. Given how lost a lot of men are today, it's obviously not the case.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/25 03:22 PM
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The lack of father figures, for starters. It's startling to see how many dudes lack competent and emotionally invested fathers growing up. And I'm not just talking about dads who walked out. I mean those who were in the picture but hardly engaged with their sons in any meaningful way. I think the popularity of Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, and other manosphere grifters stems from men's need for a father figure-- someone to instill discipline, direction, and dignity in them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/25 02:28 PM
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Make of this as you will, but I tend to be more 'on' than 'off' when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:40 AM
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but if women can't support an average man, I don't think the gender differences are resolvable. Support the average man in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:35 PM
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8/10 it's themselves. Fear or insecurities of being judged. Also, there is the vulnerability element. It's pretty scary be assertive and aggressive for many women. Negative reinforcement doesn't help either. I had one lady tell me she broke down and cried after trying cowgirl for the first time with her husband. He didn't like it for some undisclosed reason and jerked himself off while she ran out the room in tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:06 PM
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They know what they need and are capable of doing it. But when given complete access to the body of a man they find attractive enough to be intimate with, they just freeze up. Of course they freeze up. That would mean needing to be brave enough to go against the norm and own their sexual desires to grind vigorously against the man's thigh, tease the shit out his dick with outercourse and hold his head down while he eats you. All of this does not fit into the conventional idea of sex (foreplay, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:43 PM
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For a guy, sex is a performance and he has to know how to perform. For a woman, she just has to be there. Be there and look pretty while the man performs on your body without a fucking clue.. uh huh. Teaching and learning are genuine skills you bring into sex, whether people are aware or not. A woman not guiding her partner on what she likes and expecting him to know what to do beyond basic consent is a lousy lover. Any man not willing to learn from, listen to, or guide their partner is just as …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:21 PM
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Exactly but we live in such a rigid system that the only two life paths are wage labor or child rearing 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:29 AM
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I don't want to take care of them. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:10 PM
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Once again, men shoot themselves in the foot for treating women like shit for daring to make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:52 AM
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Women do go after what they want sexually and romantically in their own way, if not aggressively. How? By dropping subtle hints that go right over men's heads?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:16 PM
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Women who do go after what they want are labelled "easy". Guys who think that shoot themselves in the foot. Women who think the same are just petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:14 PM
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I think it sucks how guys are expected to ask out and chase women. It's 2024 yet this norm still persists, especially among some women who just deem it unfathomable to approach a dude. Like it's so beneath women to go after what we want sexually and romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:14 PM
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I mean this all checks out to me, but at the end of the day you're still dealing with inherently flawed human beings. When you're involved with someone, you are ultimately taking a leap of faith no matter how much logic or common sense you applied while dating. And you better have the patience and heart for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:57 PM
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Your best bet is probably school or through family/friends. Maybe work but it's risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:44 PM
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That's the power of charisma. It finds a way to engage others in an otherwise one sided conversation. I wonder how innate it is vs learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:30 PM
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What things would you rather talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:48 AM
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The average man isn't anymore entertaining. If it's not about sports, talking shit, or games, they literally have fuck all to add to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:12 AM
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I like reciprocating, kind, and unconventionally beautiful men. I don't think that's a tall order, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:52 AM
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Nah I just don't need to waste my time making sure everything is perfectly clean. I wipe down and straighten up stuff as the mess is made, no weekly cleaning schedule needed. The only thing I bother putting off is vacuum, washing bedding, and dusting as to let it properly build up so I don't waste water and electricity to clean barely nothing. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:22 PM
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You're still going through the trouble of changing out sheets that properly aren't that dirty to begin with. Unless your skin is dry as sand on a hot day and you sweat buckets overnight, your sheets won't be filthy after a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:57 PM
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Lived in Florida for years. Still wasn't an issue since the bedroom was also well ventilated from letting fresh air in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:44 PM
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I'm not the neatest woman, but some dudes make me look like the neat freak because their standards don't even exist. Dishes don't exist. Grim is just backdrop.They can't even bother to half ass it because the mess just doesn't cross their radar. At least my lazy ass can acknowledge it and begrudgingly clean it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:49 AM
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If you keep a good bathing routine, skin cells and sweat in your sheets shouldn't be an issue. Not one that requires changing them weekly at least. That seems excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:41 AM
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It's crazy how research keeps saying 2 married parents gives children the best chance at life when it's clear mothers are doing most of the work. Moms can't do it on their own, not without suffering greatly. Dads can step up and help, but you're gonna need more than two people to care for a kid. 2 parents maybe the minimum but it barely cuts it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:10 PM
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I have a guy friend I get high and talk spirituality with. Still going platonic after several years. I can't tell you what we're doing right besides being ourselves and smoking good herb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:00 PM
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Or maybe people just suck and we don't have the time to deal with others shit when we're working overtime just to make rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:37 PM
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Like I said, it's foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:05 PM
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Probably not but men aren't independent from women or this sub or any of the pills wouldn't exist. Society is built on interdependence. To think men or women exist freely without the other is foolish. We're all in this together for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:47 PM
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Okay but if your name's on the lease it's kind of hard to just up and leave. Not without fucking up your credit and moving back home. Best to not jump into such a commitment with a slob in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:30 PM
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Quit as in stop doing the dishes or break the lease and leave? Both aren't ideal when you're cohabitating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:21 PM
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Yes and no. I knew two kinds of mean girls. Those who would talk shit behind your back and those who would do so to your face. The former were goodie-goodies who never touched a boy in highschool. They went on to marry their college sweetheart. The latter were a mix of promiscuous and weirdly conservative. They get with players, break up, trash talk them, rinse and repeat. Some would go on to find God or a decent career as they mature. Probably cynical, but more down to earth unlike the goodie-g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:03 PM
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I don't think it's required, but I rarely get horny over love and trust alone. That's just me though. I think love and trust things fuel good, committed relationships, but raw/carnal desire often fuels sex. Of course that desire fades as soon as it appears, so you're ultimately left with the foundation of love and trust. I think as long as that's there, you can continue having sex with your partner. It might not be as lustful, but definitely bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:13 AM
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It means to find someone sexually appealing. The sex desired from that appeal is carnal and sensual in nature. Still loving, just more raw I guess. It's not all dressed up in wholesomeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:42 PM
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I think a lot older women are just projecting their own regrets/trauma from being with older men onto young women in an infantilizing effort to protect them. Think Carrie mother's but less religiously driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:45 PM
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Glad I'm not married then. I don't want to live to 85. Where's the achievement in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:36 PM
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Well for the sake of consistency, I hope you keep your pits and groin hair free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:26 AM
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Head hair sweats out too, especially in hot weather when there's a lot of it. Hell, just doing some chores can do it. Your logic doesn't check out is all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:42 AM
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By that logic, women should shave their head as well. But oh wait shampoo and water exists. It's called washing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:44 AM
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I wonder what combo of the Big 5 produces a dominant woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:49 AM
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Why are you saying best friend so much? Is it a way to break away from the stifling archetypes of husband and wife, because that's still what you are no matter how wholesomely you try to sugar coat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:56 AM
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Listen, if you don't want a likely lifelong level of commitment, you're a fool to mix finances and give your partner a permanent key to your private sanctuary. Period. Get your prenup, make your changes to the default rules if you want. Definitely don't invite some random person into your living situation without some sort of permanent, legal plan. We don't mix finances. That's for people who think business and love should mix. We can live as independent adults in love without confusing commitme…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:34 AM
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You know you can live together without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:10 AM
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There's no point of arguing. Dude clearly has no conception of the Madonna-whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:45 PM
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Social validation. There's literally no other reason when you get down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:15 PM
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Validation to the male ego. Everything else is in service of that purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:57 PM
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You can approach a woman and talk about the weather as a way to then carry on into asking her out, but the first move would be that transition away from "hey the weather sucks today" to "can I have your number/will you go out with me". That is making the first move. Yeah, I agree. I like to think I made the first move on my guy. I did write my number on his hand after asking him on a the first date. It's definitely not the norm for a young lady to lay it on that thick, but I grew up around a sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:31 AM
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If I may, what is making the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:42 PM
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My brain needs stimulation. Unless we're doing shrooms in the backyard, being with a shut in is gonna get old real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:34 PM
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Thanks for sharing that. I love the stray cat metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:00 PM
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Good Christian boys have their own set of issues and the genuinely good one guys are always snatched up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:50 PM
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Damn. Flip the sexes and I swear my mother could have wrote this. From her experience, men were needy like children, even the most successful ones. Given that she was already a mother, she wasn't missing out on much if being with a man entailed another little shit on her tit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:02 AM
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My mother believed people were more trouble than they were worth in terms of monogamous relationships. Now she wasn't a misandrist or an asexual. She had many colorful friends and colorful encounters throughout her life and continues to to this day. She was extremely close with one of her older friends though. She kept her company until she died and ugly cried at her funeral. Suffice to say, there's no shortage of fulfilling, enduring love out there in the world. Romantic relationships are not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:32 AM
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A strawman as well. The discussion is often about wanting a relationship yet people attack this desire by saying a relationship won't solve all your problems when no one claimed it would. It's assumed wanting a relationship = holding someone responsible for your life. I get where that assumption stems from since romantic relationships are over idealized, but a lot of times wanting a relationship is just that. Having this wonderful person to grow and share experiences with. You don't need to perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:17 PM
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You don't need to be perfectly happy alone, just a functioning adult with some semblance of stability in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:42 PM
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I think it's about solving "not having a companion to share life with" problem, not every issue in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:41 PM
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I think most dirty talk is cringe-inducing honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:51 AM
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I find it hard to believe it's just nature being nature after religion has successfully sexually repressed women for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:48 PM
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Men are still responding to some stimulus whether from their imagination, an idea, or something visual though. The same could be said for women. I know when I see an attractive guy, I get hot and bothered and need to get a second look at him. I will give the accelerator and inhibition concept credit though. I think that's where the difference between the sexes is evident. I think women are prone to braking more, hence many women don't act on their attraction to the hot guys they see in the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:36 PM
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Also, women don't really act on that attraction generally speaking. They don't pursue the guys they're actually attracted to. It's still a man's job to initiate and get the ball rolling. They usually settle for mister good enough and grow to love them for their personality as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:17 PM
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Pity sex. That's the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:13 AM
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Love is a choice dude. Emotions and hormones are fickle. Conviction and action are concrete. I rather base love off the latter and not neurotransmitters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:43 AM
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Why would I kill you for screwing my SO? You're not the one who said all the sweet shit about me being your one and only. You didn't put sex with each other on a pedestal only to turn around and fuck someone else. You're not the hypocritical partner. I'd kill my SO before I touch a stranger. They're the ones who lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:35 PM
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I don't know about you, but a Tuesday night and a beer is very meaningful to me. It's not worth making a big deal about though. That's not to call it trivial. It's just one of life's many pleasures. I don't hold it above the others, but a lot people seem to hold sex above a Tuesday night and a beer as if it was sacred (almost like the religious zealots modern society shuns). I just find it ironic that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:54 AM
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They aren't trivial, but stressing about body counts and how many people you can sleep with is not a healthy way of reconciling with those issues. As the kids say, go touch grass every once in a while instead of devouring pill manifestos on the Internet. Pill forums will not be your salvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:04 AM
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For wondering if anyone here actually stopped to wonder why they're so hung up on shit they should have moved past after high school? Like are people actually exercising they're freedom to fuck or just trying to rebel against something to make a point & validate their lonely egos?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:07 PM
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So it rules your entire life? That's what I was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:57 PM
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Hot take, all this obsession over body counts and hook-up culture reminds me of the repressed Christian kid rebellions I witnessed down south. They would cut loose and sleep around making a big deal about their sexual liberation or body count. It was about shunning Jesus and proving religion no longer had a hold over their genitals. Little could they see it still had a hold of their minds. As for the religiously ambivalent and atheists, sex was just a Tuesday night and beer. No big deal, but nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:52 PM
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If they did their research, they ought to get married if they want to build a life as a couple without consulting lawyers. Marriage is one hell of a legal bundle deal for family planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:49 PM
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Yes because every adult over 25 is just a shining beacon of maturity and rational thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:55 AM
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I'm just stating the status quo. I'm not advocating for it. My hat goes off to you for maintaining what you have despite all the negative connotations. I agree it does take the right type of person to understand, but they are kind of rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:09 PM
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The thing is though people do get hurt even if you're trying to be true to yourself. That's not me saying what's right or wrong either. What I said came from observing personal relationships and mainstream media. The narrative favors being one with somebody else. It's about finding the one and becoming a single unit for some reason. I'm not saying that's how it should be. That's just how it is and breaking that narrative is bound to breaks some hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:02 PM
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That's not the norm though. Happily ever after implies building and sharing a life together. Interdependence basically. Having a relationship any other way is consider half-assed, uncommitted, and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:37 PM
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You know what I like you. Sorry for being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:29 PM
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Good for you, making your own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:27 PM
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Would you rather me call you were a moron for getting with a 34 year old? Not every 18 year woman old is that stupid. Somebody obviously failed you if you were so ill-equipped to see a predatory relationship a mile away. The world is brutal and someone should have taught you that growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:14 PM
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Yes it's brutal out there. Welcome to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:08 PM
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I'm sorry you regret the decisions you made young, but you live and learn. No amount of bumping up the age of consent will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:04 PM
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And that was yours to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:44 PM
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It's because young women are infantilized. People don't look at a young lady and think yeah that's a fully grown adult capable of making her own adult decisions and dealing with the consequences. They see a child with tits they need to protect for her own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:29 PM
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Question for all the nay-sayers: what about the metaverse makes socializing any more superficial and commodified than it is in real life? In the U.S. alone people aren't as authentic as they appear. We're all embodying avatars, moving through a world dominated by corporations. I'm not knocking face to face interaction, but let's not act like everybody is just being themselves out in the "real" world. I've met some of the fakest people out there who hides behind as many filters and circle jerks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:35 AM
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There's nothing sexy about chores. That why men don't complain. I bet if washing the dishes were critical to a boner, this would look like a very different subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:40 PM
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Don't kids need a stable home with stable parents to have the best start at life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:09 PM
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Maintaining a healthy, thriving relationship or is that not cynical enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:41 PM
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Point proven. Thanks for the laugh. Seriously though I might as well go with fuck boy, but I still expect him to make history instead of sulking about how oppressed he is on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:12 PM
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You're in PPD. There's always a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:07 PM
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What exactly is this question trying to prove? As far as I'm concerned fuck boys and betas are two sides of the same coin. They both make their lives about women, whether it's hooking up with as many as possible or settling for whatever comes their way. I would want better for my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:03 PM
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You said no in between, not neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:57 PM
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Neither. I don't want my son's life revolving around chasing pussy or clinging to it. He is to make a mark in this world and go down in history (for better or worse).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:54 PM
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Yeah he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:39 AM
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Pretty much, but he didn't get down on his knee or anything. It kind of a casual 'hey wanna get married since we've been together for so long' thing. We had a lot conversations and debates about it after I declined. It wasn't a deal breaker or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:10 PM
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I've only been with one guy so far, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:20 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:12 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:10 PM
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Because I told him to fuck off with that bullshit and let's just be together without all that. Maybe when we're 60 so we can collect on the benefits, but it's not necessary when we've lasted longer than a lot of marriages out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:14 PM
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Define great sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:24 PM
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Beautiful bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:13 PM
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You know talking about the places you been gets boring after awhile too. I can't tell you how many trips to the grand canyon or fucking Mexico I've listened to. It's always the same of descriptions and stories. "It was unlike anything I ever experienced." "It was so eye opening." "Such a great vacation." Like yeah and so was Cheryl's. I think it comes down to people being terrible story tellers or going to conventional tourist attractions honestly. I'll take a poorly told tale about your trip th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:22 PM
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Fair enough. Must be hard being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:15 PM
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Right? Try a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:04 PM
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But I thought men were such rational, logic creatures compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:55 PM
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Pray you live in a place with Romeo & Juliet law.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:54 PM
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Good question. Apparently there were two North Carolina teens who were charged back in 2015. According to another source they took the plea bargain. Update: They were both 16 at the time. A better case is probably this one but it's from 2011.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:53 PM
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PSA for the youngin out there: Scrub your phone clean of any and all nudes you got and took in high school. Your high school hook up maybe 28, but their 16 year old tits or dick is still considered child porn. Same thing for your own as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:29 PM
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You probably won't hear from her again because she's heartbroken. The better the love, the more painful the break up is. A lot of people don't get back together after that and I don't see that as a negative thing. It's best to move on for everyone involved. With that said, I understand what you're saying. I would definitely have my ego stroked if my man broke up with me, remembered how hot our sex was, and came crawling back. I don't think it would in his best interest, but whatever. Got laid ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:16 PM
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Yes I know. Why do you bring this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:02 PM
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I think a lot men here believe being a playmate or human dildo is the highest honor a woman can bestow a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:56 PM
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So sex will make you feel like number one. You know sex = love right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:48 PM
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Sex is something you share with someone and isn't always an indication of desire or love. You can be with the best man ever, give it up to him on the first date, and still not give a shit about him. A woman could be so good to you, you don't realize she's gone emotionally. I think men really overestimate the value of sex, hence why women continue to manipulate them with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:45 PM
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You don't have to. Don't settle for being less than the best, but don't try to be equal the guy before her. Be the best she ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:35 PM
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No you aren't equal because no two people are the same dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:26 PM
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Well if he rushed into a committed relationship with all his exes, I would think the rushing bit had something to do with why they're exes in the first place. I think slowing down would be an effective change of strategy. Not sure how that ties into women waiting to have sex, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:23 PM
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His subconscious will tell him you preferred the other guy. And how is that any woman's problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:17 PM
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I say we're practically soulmates. I'm sure we'll both enjoy swapping war stories and gushing about our chaotic upbringings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:21 PM
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Wow 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:01 AM
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It's not about failing, it's about falling out of style. The children of gen z women aren't gonna be on TikTok in the future. That shit will be for old people just like Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:05 PM
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I wouldn't call it suppression when western media simply caters to the shrinking attention span of it's audience. You only get 5 seconds to make an impression. Mr. Tate obviously left his it seems, but I doubt he'll be relevant by the end of the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:58 PM
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But it is. You saw how fast Vine came and went. Social media platforms hit the wall too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:52 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:05 PM
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Shit you're right. Got my colors mixed up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:03 PM
1

I don't think legit is the right way of looking at this. Someone else here mentioned how sexual attraction is an additive to friendship. They mention how it adds a new layer to inside of subtracting from the friendship. Perhaps sexual attraction adds a new flavor or color, thus changing the dynamic. Let's say friendship is blue and lust is yellow. Mixing those two together is going to give a whole new color, thus a new relationship dynamic. Things aren't purely blue anymore, but if you and your …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:26 PM
1

Okay I get it. I definitely didn't drop any hankerchiefs and don't just roll with every idea my guy has, so I'm hardly as feminine as your ideal. Still, I think being playful, affectionate, and chaotic softens the masculine tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:32 PM
1

How do define too much confidence? Going by your example, I say modern women are far from what you think. Most won't even step out their comfort zone to initiate the first hello, let alone a date. I agree being masculine in making the first move is ballsy for a woman, but from my experience it payed off. It never took away from my feminity either. I just knew the man I wanted and pursued. I made him feel desired because surprise I desired him. No need to play coy and passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:59 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:52 PM
2

I think it just depends what types of problems you would rather deal with. I don’t think one type of woman is necessarily “better” than the other in society itself because as you said we’ve all got crosses to bear, but I do think people are more compatible with certain types of problems than others. Agreed. We're not everybody's cup of tea, but there are people who won't mind what we're brewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:50 PM
1

I think this type of skittishness and avoidance is more an indicator of early childhood trauma and/or mental illness than it is of sexual promiscuity and those effects if that makes sense?? You're right on the money, however, I wouldn't consider a person with that background any better than someone who's sexually promiscuous. I am a super low count woman who feels and makes an intentional effort to be extremely present in my relationships. Same, but my intentional efforts don't stem from not sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:30 PM
1

Women who have lower body counts are more discerning and practical, more present in relationships, less likely to wander, and more likely to place value on their relationships / invest in people rather than hopping to the next ill fitting human when something doesn’t work out. Assuming she's not the avoidant, loner type. Low count women can be just as skittish and flighty as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:57 PM
2

I'm not a bottom feeder, and I go good with french fries and hush puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:27 PM
1

Like I get the intention of friends first, but it feels like beating around the bush. Like you can go out with a man without hooking up or be exclusive right away. Dating is the getting to know each other period. It's about getting friendly/flirty, not being friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:53 PM
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All I know is if my guy came to me wanting to put a bullet in his head, I'll make him some tea, and we trade stories all night. Negative emotions, hard times, and dark days don't scare me. Shit happens. People fall apart, men and women. Of course, I wouldn't tolerate putting holes through walls or him cussing me out. Who the hell wants to endure that when we could be doing donuts in an empty parking lot to blow off steam? Jokes aside, I go with ye because life is hard and sometimes people had ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:49 AM
13

D. Marriage is a scam for both parties and it doesn't take a red pill to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:24 AM
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"Friends first". Nah if I want a guy, we date. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:19 AM
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I didn't say it first because what the fuck does a 16 year old know about love? Seriously though, love confessions are too Disney. Just say it as causally or endearingly as you want when you want. What matters more is the dedication and actions behind your words. It's not enough to say or feel it. You gotta be willing to put that person before yourself and hope that they will do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:36 PM
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True, but maybe that speaks to the difference between how both sexes initiate. I like to think I went against the grain by asking out my boyfriend, but given I didn't cold approach him like a man I guess it doesn't matter to OP. I personally see nothing appealing about the cold approach. It's like barging into the room and demanding your presence to be known. Maybe that's a solid strategy for men, but I think women are a bit less hot and heavy. I suppose this is where the "friends first" advice …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:16 PM
2

What about a guy they are friendly towards but is completely disconnected from their social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:56 PM
2

Define guy they already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:28 PM
2

Yeah I agree with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:36 PM
4

So do black women, but that's just a product of living in obesity central USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:34 PM
2

Care to elaborate or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:29 PM
4

Or black men. While there are some outliers, a lot of black dudes tend to stay in good shape as they age. Black don't crack after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:23 PM
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Oh men have a wall alright. I'm in my mid to late 30's and every other dude my age looks worn the fuck out and pushing 45. They clearly let themselves go just as much as the women by their side. I don't wanna blame having kids and settling down too early, but I know doing those two things tend to really age men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:22 PM
1

Yeah but are any two sessions the same though? Should they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:11 PM
2

I mean are two orgasms ever the same ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:13 PM
5

No the manosphere just wanna fuck but get pissed when women beat them at their own game. The way they shit talk women is almost comparable to how rabid sports fans shit on rival teams. Promiscuous women are the competition and they'll be damned if they let those pieces of shit steal their home team's championship. Their ego and pride can't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:47 PM
6

I was the exception. I asked his ass out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:33 PM
3

Personally, fit and athletic. Generally, it's probably built fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:11 AM
1

Yes, I'm American and yes I took my education into my own hands because of how piss poor the education system is. Sadly, that's not the case for most of my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:16 PM
1

Women know very fucking well when they're ovulating and shouldn't be surprised when they consent to unprotected sex that they get pregnant. Bold of you to assume Sex Ed and women anatomy was that extensive in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:05 PM
3

I like the slow, tender type. Great seducers. Even better seductees.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:34 PM
1

I personally find mate guarding kind of endearing. Taken too far it's stops being endearing however. It's suffocating and possessive. There's a fine men walk with mate guarding I admit. It don't take much to come off as the crazy jealous guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:10 AM
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It makes you look controlling and the west, ironically, hates controlling folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:22 PM
1

Yeah try living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:03 AM
1

Tall but you got this Professor of Dark Arts thing going. 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:54 PM
1

No, but what's wrong with decompressing and relaxing alone sometimes? Don't you guys wanna chill out without being around your girl every second?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:37 PM
1

That's a 10 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:28 PM
1

Washing is my time to decompress and zone out. I'm always on when someone else is around. Showering alone is my time take off the mask and turn off. Surely you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 09:33 PM
2

I'm trying to wash my ass, not bond. There's 24 hours in the day and I can't have 5 minutes to bathe in peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 08:54 PM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:51 PM
0

Probably. Why else do guys watch pro-wrestling?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:45 PM
2

Just make sure it's clean you animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:42 PM
9

Yeah the whole Boy Scouts letting girls join kind of undermines the whole point. It's not like we don't have our own scouting association.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:10 PM
2

Soaking in a tub together is way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:51 PM
8

Hot take: showering together is not cute or romantic. That's invaluable me time. We can play around afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:46 PM
3

No bigger crime than Better Call Saul doing the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:40 PM
2

How can a woman be a slut for a certain guy if sluts, by definition, sleep around with tons of guys? She might act freakier for certain guys, but it seems impossible to hoe around if you're just fucking one dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:16 PM
1

You mean accept him for who he is and not try to change him? Yeah no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:44 PM
3

Fishing, lifting, gaming, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:00 PM
1

No wonder I love a good Christian boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:57 PM
0

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:40 AM
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Not career-oriented. I don't dream of labor, but I am quite competitive. I want a man who can keep up but isn't afraid to be my Disney princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:02 AM
2

There's nothing dishonest about biological imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:29 AM
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Nah, it's when women do something out of character to shatter that manic pixie dream bitch in their heads. Watching a chick get into a scrap fight, hang from a rope, give birth, or piss/shit herself will surely ruin that vision you have in your head real fast. But of course none of those things are pleasant or pleasurable to see, so you insist sex I what changes your perception of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:43 PM
2

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:44 PM
6

But do you go out of your way to lick them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:41 PM
1

As a chick with BPD who's been in therapy for over a decade, sure why not? It's not like society ever got over its fear of mentally ill or disordered folk. I think this idea is brilliant. Really let's society show it's true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:40 PM
12

Humility from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:06 AM
5

Low: Going at it less than twice a week without masturbation. Sex barely occupies your headspace. You're hardly ever in the mood and it probably takes a lot of effort to get you there. Med: More than twice per week with masturbation. You're thinking about sex, but you might be strapped for time or have other shit to deal with. You're a bit frustrated, but you can manage by rubbing one out. You may or may not end up hornier afterwards depending on the day, though. High: You're marathoning day aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:57 PM
2

But is she attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:19 PM
10

High risk, high reward I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:17 PM
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Waiting around for a man to ask you out is a waste of time especially if you like him. If you want that man go get your man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:06 PM
5

Our current culture is making women suburban white chicks less feminine. Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:37 PM
3

We really do : )
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:54 PM
1

If it were me I would opt for euthanasia. Spare me the bullshit of a pitiful caregiving relationship while he fucks someone on the side. No thanks. Put my ass down so he can move on with his life. I hope he'd feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:33 PM
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I love men, but I swear they will pull anything out of their asses to justify their preferences. Just admit you guys don't like women who sleep around. Stop using science and evolution to rationalize your purity fetish. Just own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:52 AM
1

So men truly are slaves to their biology? Shit I'd be bitter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 11:31 PM
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No they should keep it as is for entertainment purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 11:24 PM
1

Go to church dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:36 PM
5

I know what you mean, but to be fair society's been falling apart since forever. Can you really recall a time where having a family was easy? Perhaps that brief period after the first two world wars, but those probably were pretty rare exceptions in time. A lot of average folks struggled to get by. Not every child survived to adulthood. The only things that probably kept them going was religion and survival instinct. Outside of that life was pretty fucking bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:27 PM
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For you and all the family oriented folks it's fulfilling. I'm not knocking it either. I'm sure raising a family is very fulfilling, but we all find meaning in different places. I find tutoring little Timmy, making bank from it and growing my plants on my off days very meaningful. If I was a dude I'd find the same fulfillment in these things as well as the fun company of mature ladies. Why knock a lifestyle just because it's not your cup of tea? Nobody's calling you an joyless puritan for wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:58 PM
10

And the average Joe and Jane stand a chance birthing the next messiah?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:47 PM
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No. It's called picking up a textbook and seeing for yourself. I mean look at Walt Disney. Dude created an entertainment empire. I know I wouldn't build anything close to what he did, but I'm not gonna bullshit myself by having little shits to carry on my memory. Nine times out of ten, I'll be forgotten in three generations. Best believe they'll know who uncle Walt is though, but hey be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:47 PM
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Children are a poor man's excuse for a legacy. You wanna build something lasting? Ditch the family life and actual create something that everyone and their irrelevant descendants will remember. Nobody important in history is remembered for their kids alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:39 PM
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I guess so if you feel young women aren't interested in a serious relationship. I don't know. You narrowed your own pool so you figure it out. All I know is if I was a guy, I wouldn't discriminate. I'm not interested in marriage or children. Why not have fun with the older, mature ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:28 PM
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Hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:17 PM
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Who said I'd be pursuing young chicks as a dude? Older women are less uptight and forward than their young counterparts. Unless I'm on a college campus or work, I doubt I'd get a single 20 something number in a general public setting. Young women have their guard up and are quite antisocial behind their initial politeness. Besides most are too busy with their lives to be bother outside of traditional social settings like school, bars, parties, or work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:37 PM
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Dance class of the partnered variety like tango, salsa, etc. It puts you in an vulnerable yet fun setting where you're actively doing something while interacting with others to help each get better. It makes for a relaxed social setting to meet and get to know women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:45 PM
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I never saw the appeal of tall men honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:58 AM
1

Sustainability is a value, not a general perquisite for a meaningful life. Just because something's not sustainable doesn't negate it's impact on or meaning to a person. For example, the way we live in the modern age is hardly sustainable in the long run, but I bet most us find meaning in our unsustainable lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:39 PM
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Not saying I disagree, but why can't you find meaning in sleeping around? Waking up to take the kiddies to school isn't everyone's idea of a meaningful life. It's all subjective at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:27 PM
2

Yeah I know. What's appealing is always in flux.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:17 PM
7

Thanks for the laugh. I needed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:43 PM
4

Not a bad idea if I was still insecure about being off putting to others. I appreciate the suggestion though. I'm just in my head about my looks because grass is always greener you know? I know in reality a "better" body wouldn't really change anything internally. I'd still have problems if not entirely different insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:25 PM
4

"Dude" and "man" yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:13 PM
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Maybe it is how I carry myself, but I don't really consider myself masculine. Maybe in the way little girls are before someone tells them to grow up and act like a lady, but I'm definitely not trying to be one of the guys. If anything I've taken notes from them on how to be more chill and in the moment. It helps quiet the insecurities in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:09 PM
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So you want a pragmatic, stoic woman then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:56 PM
1

With how taboo and hush-hush sex is growing up, I'm not surprised about how overhyped it is. I think you put it best when you spoke of forces that limit its supply and visibility in the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:52 PM
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And that's like their opinion man. I don't find petite or slim sexy alone. I know plenty of guys fall over themselves gushing about tiny chicks but I don't buy it. There's nothing to really grab or even look at honestly. Guys at least want something on a chick to compensate for what she lacks be it a pretty face, smooth legs, tight snatch, bubble butt, etc. It's not enough to be a runt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:09 PM
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It help me realize why old dudes like Jordan Peterson are so popular amongst young guys. They really don't have a fucking clue how to navigate this crazy ass world without some messiah-like asshole trying to sell them some dogma and the promise of 72 hoes. All the stuff TRP pushes has been stated before by more insightful, disillusioned men for centuries. The alpha is nothing but a watered down parody of Nietzsche's ubermensch. Speaking of which, that dude was redpill way before all these baby b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:52 AM
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My poor excuse for boobs and body. The insecurity isn't as bad as it used to be when I was younger. I damn near had body dysphoria back then. Still though, I am a tiny thing who could pass for your twelve year old sister on my off days. No part of me screams sexy, fuckable, mature woman. Dressing provocatively is out of the question. I don't have the full perky bust, thick ass, or curvy body to pull it off. Any amount of ass or curve I managed to aquire over the years was through exercise and di…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:16 AM
3

Looks like nature's losing her hold on us then. I consider that a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:07 AM
2

Neither. They're still both slaves to their biology. Nature compels a man to breed so he chases pussy. He chases pussy because nature demands he spread his seeds. What kind of winner mindlessly obeys such a senseless calling? The kind that champions nature? The very force that could give less than a fuck if he dropped dead? Men are a dime a dozen in nature's eyes. As long as a enough of her pawns reproduce, she'll always be the real winner. Not man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:12 PM
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I wouldn't mind as long as they aren't opposed to shaking up the dynamic from time to time. I'm a pretty girly chick but I wouldn't hesitate to ask out a man if I was interested in him. I'll be cute and laugh at their dumb jokes. I just wanna be proactive in my initiative you know? I know what I want so why wait around for the man to make a move? The way I see, if he turns me down, well no need to waste time yearning for him. Take the L and move on. If he accepts, however, well I'm eager to spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:33 PM
4

So a woman asking you out on a date to the park would negate her feminity in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:01 PM
3

And guys aren't terrified either? Rejection sucks, but if you like a guy why let fear hold you back? Go get your man girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:52 AM
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Dignified work? Like retail or office work? Please. Both are still soul sucking bouts of labor where people still treat you like garbage. Are they better because you keep your clothes on or something? I rather someone find my sex tape and have a good laugh than see footage of me getting cussed out by a dumbass customer or client and pity me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:16 PM
1

Forcing yourself to be happy in a relationship you cannot escape. Now that sounds miserable. Or is it Stockholm syndrome-lite?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:00 PM
2

True. We can only try, though, as hard as they may be. Change doesn't come easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:58 PM
3

Yet she was still out of the kitchen, involved in politics, and fighting for what she believed in which were all socially unacceptable things for women to do during her time. Yeah she was a conservative against ERA but she was a politically active woman nonetheless. She was involved and not staying in a woman's place. Whether she knew it or not, she was doing the exact opposite of what conservatives expect from women-- being a leader. I don't agree with her politics, but I respect her resolve in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:53 PM
1

You wanna know what my view is? Men and women are paper in society's hand, always folding under pressure no matter how strong, alpha, independent they think they are. I think both genders should have the courage to question and reject the bullshit lifescript society pressures them to conform to. I think we ought to encourage each other to do so whether it's women to women, man to man, or across genders. We'd all be a little more free if we did away with the bullshit, but perhaps people don't rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:13 PM
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Alright first off, we're on the same page dude. It's dumb how those fish let society and it's scrutiny dictate their life's decision. I'm just not gonna be disrespectful and call them weak, because that's not gonna convince any chick to seriously question themselves and their desire for marriage. Maybe guys get more mileage out of shaming each other for weakness, but ad hominem makes for lame arguments and appeals. Second, their pool of prospective husbands aren't drastically reduced. "Beta buxs…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:47 AM
1

And I'm calling out that bullshit requirement and dissecting it. As u/merlinscalculator said, there's a social pressure on women to marry. Everyone expect us to marry and desire it. Any chick opposed to the idea is met with scrutiny or disbelief, because what women doesn't want to get married? Now I could stand on my soapbox and profess how anti-marriage I am til I die, but you like so many wouldn't give a shit. I'm an outlier. I don't count so I won't bother challenging the generalization. I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:16 AM
1

Love and affection isn't bullshit, but marriage is. There are no guarantees in life, yet people wanna act like marriage is the end all be all of love and commitment. Women and men flock to it thinking it's makes their relationship the real deal or some shit when it's no different than any old long term relationship. I hear chick and dudes going on about their emotional reasons for marrying as if they those things aren't present in a good relationship before the license. Anyway, marriage is no gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:55 AM
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It's only beneficial because of the incentives. Take away the incentives or stop caring for them, there's no reason for a woman to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:18 AM
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I understand that most women aren't antisocial rebels who could careless about what others think of them, but wasn't feminism about doing the socially unacceptable thing in the name of freedom? Why backpedal so hard when it comes to relationships? Women have real power to challenge this institution. You're telling me us chicks can't dismantle this bitch if we wanted? Make it so social acceptance is based on love and not a glorified pinky promises?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:05 AM
1

Because men aren't fucking dogs we need to train.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:45 AM
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Marriage is about sharing a life with someone. It means being there for each other no matter what. Even when one of you are down and out, together you'll pull through for better days. Marriage isn't a piece of paper. It's a commitment to love. No wait, that's just a loving relationship. What's the point of marriage again? Oh right benefits. Those things that are for whatever reason locked behind the marriage paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:27 AM
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More like polite, but I see what you mean. Still, do many women go out there way to talk up a stranger? Maybe older ladies or eccentric chicks, but your average woman? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:08 PM
7

You'll probably get the same answers, albeit with women being more standoffish. People just aren't that social around strangers they aren't into.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:57 PM
3

Women = dogs men can legally fuck basically. They don't call us bitches for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:41 AM
1

My poor broken heart
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:40 PM
1

You know what you're right. I'm gonna do the sophisticated, ladylike thing and disregard all your nonsense. Good day kind sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:09 PM
1

I'm sorry but what the fuck are you talking about? Not every women wants children man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:07 PM
1

I'd definitely strike up a conversation with guy 2 about music and booze over the other two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:14 AM
1

I don't think there's anything missing honestly. Everything is caring on as designed (either by nature or our own doing). Sure we're miserable, but when has humanity ever not been? We're a species constantly in flux, forever struggling to adapt to our environments and rationalize the bullshit they devolve into. Man killed God by the turn on the 20th century via enlightenment and industrialization. What we lost in the form of tight knit communities and self-sufficiency under the Lord was replaced…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:37 AM
1

Ah, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:36 PM
3

Like all licenses, marriage should be renewable. I don't understand why we're still doing the til death do us apart bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:34 PM
6

What exactly makes a woman approaching a man easy? She's merely taking the initiative in the dating game. Nothing about asking a man out for a drink implies jumping his dick immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:21 AM
1

We were freshmen in high school and acquainted with each other thanks to him hanging around my neighborhood with his friends. We got to know each other better during a group project. I think it was after spring break I asked him for ice cream. I chickened out before the break, because of course I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:39 PM
1

Wow haven't heard that song in ages and yes I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:05 PM
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Jake Gyllenhaal. It's those eyes I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:19 AM
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If men were just as chained up, why go back to the good old days? Seems like people are deviating from traditionalism because it sucked. The problems we see today is just people sucking at adapting to change like always. Women and men want to have their candy and eat it too these days, but everyone needs to get with the new program.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:10 AM
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Yes when you get down to it, but I don't see it as a negative thing. Love and sex reenforce each other. Take one away and the relationship suffers. The thing is though, I think taking away love diminishes the significance of sex within the context of a romantic relationship. I mean think about. If I stopped caring about my boyfriend as a person and started treating him like some random lay, the sex won't be as special. It would mean as much as a one night stand. Still hot, but he's just another …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:50 AM
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Why does sex make your relationship special though? I doubt it's the sex itself, but the exclusivity of the act and overall emotional connection you forged with your husband that gives sex it's significance. Take those two things away then sex is about as meaningful as a hug with your nana. Sweet, but not all that unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:26 AM
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Masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:10 AM
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I scored 106 for masculinity and 96 for feminity. About a 10 ten point difference. Seems pretty accurate, but I'm not sure what these scores really says about a person. I still feel like a woman. I guess I have some masculine leaning tendencies from how I was raised I guess. Still an interesting assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:07 AM
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No I don't. I think they just want to lick their wounds and wallow in their collective pain and rage. That's not to put them down, however. I've been there. Not over dating, but still. I find myself pulled back to that place more often than I like, but I know rage and despair is a poison that will ruin you if you let it. I avoid the Internet or anywhere that will enable that madness, because those things aren't worth losing my self to. I understand seeing no other way but to give in. I really do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:25 AM
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Just don't talk about it like it's your religion. Make it sound like some wild thing you read about but found interesting enough to share. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:21 AM
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If people really wanted what you said, subreddits like FDS and Redpill wouldn't exist. I think people just love stewing in their own misery while trying to make sense of an uncaring, nonsensical universe with other like-minded, miserable people. Suicide maybe the logical answer honestly, but humans aren't logical, so we'll actively avoid any and all rational choices. Instead, we'll continue to flock to our pill of choice and chug on just as nature intend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:07 AM
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According to evolution, in the strictest sense, yes those effects are natural. All our naturally evolved instincts didn't just happen out of no where. As you know, our environment shapes our habits and it morphs our instincts so we adapt to it accordingly. What's happening now is more of the same growing pains our ancestors endured in the past. It's part of the game of life honestly. It's up to us to adapt or perish. Despite how dreary the dating game seems, as long as a good chunk of us are sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:26 PM
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Men and women are equally shitty and deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:21 AM
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Until they don't according to your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:13 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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