TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

A1Horizon Archive

View 0 posts and 257 comments by A1Horizon on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Yeah, there’s no real consequence for failure and it might work, so why not
/r/seduction24/05/26 11:49 AM
1

What? Why not?
/r/seduction09/05/26 08:18 AM
3

The same way you get over your fear of plane crashes, understand it’s a very real possibility, but that odds are low enough that you shouldn’t stop yourself from taking that action
/r/seduction24/04/26 02:09 AM
2

Almost every time I’ve been really busy with life/work and became a bad texter, I’ve been called out for it. Everyone is different
/r/seduction15/04/26 02:12 PM
2

Man idk where this take comes from, maybe it’s my location but I definitely wouldn’t consider myself top 2% and I’ve pulled some good looking women from the apps
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:46 PM
19

You ask. Whatever answer she gives you, you assume she’s telling the truth
/r/seduction06/04/26 03:27 PM
6

I think this is a myth. You’ll get much more practice sleeping with one person 15 times than you’ll get sleeping with 15 people once
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:18 AM
1

Honesty
/r/seduction24/03/26 02:00 PM
1

You’re 23 what do you mean lol
/r/seduction22/03/26 07:30 AM
1

Nah, shit can literally change tomorrow if you go out and put the work in. Only thing I will say is don’t be overly enthusiastic about volunteering information about your lack of experience and you’ll be fine
/r/seduction15/03/26 09:29 AM
3

Don’t waste her time man. Don’t use her to learn if you have no intention of learning for her sake and for some potential future woman instead.
/r/seduction05/03/26 04:02 PM
1

Self fulfilling prophecy. If you line up potential women in case of a breakup, you’re gonna end up breaking up
/r/seduction05/03/26 04:01 PM
326

By the time the girl is spotting earrings at your sink I feel like you’ve already sealed the deal no?
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:22 PM
5

I think it means don’t be afraid to poke fun at her, push boundaries, be comfortable around her like you’ve known her forever
/r/seduction02/03/26 05:56 PM
5

Be willing to walk away at a moments notice
/r/seduction02/03/26 09:50 AM
1

Yeah, just a consequence of bad planning and conflict resolution I’ll be completely honest. Try to date multiple people to stave off oneintis One or two of them might be a bit clingy which in all honesty I don’t completely hate Even though I enjoy most of their company I now have to respectfully break things off to lock in with one person Some of them usually don’t take it the best especially when I pop out with my new woman on social media. I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong, but it’s inevi…
/r/seduction25/02/26 07:38 AM
9

Not true, the info on the tea app isn’t necessarily gospel. Very easy for to someone to say for example that OP gives out weak dick because he chose not to get into a relationship with them in favour of somebody else, or because he wanted to split the third date instead of paying 100% again
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:20 AM
2

Me personally I wouldn’t do it, because if shit goes left you still have to live with her, but the logistics are all in your favour tbh. Ask her if she wants to watch a movie one night, and get close. See how much physical contact you can make and see if she reciprocates
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:48 AM
3

You know what this does sound like it would work for like 90% of people
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:59 AM
1

Ok that’s pretty interesting, how can it cause phobias in some people? I know speaking from my experience I tended to dwell on each interaction less if I had another interaction to concern myself with in a short period of time. The only issue I found is when it came time to lock in with one person, all the awkward conversations I had to have letting people down easy left a bad taste in my mouth because I’m not a fan of ghosting.
/r/seduction20/01/26 10:26 AM
2

Volume. Playing the numbers game is the quickest way to desensitise you to the outcome
/r/seduction20/01/26 09:29 AM
4

Just see what happens tbh. Keep searching in the mean time, if you get a text, great, if you don’t, at least you didn’t sit around waiting for a week
/r/seduction17/01/26 04:40 PM
3

Once every half decade lmao
/r/seduction07/01/26 07:45 AM
6

Have higher standards for yourself man
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:48 PM
1

Nah I’m saying I wouldn’t do what the post says, but how insecure you look getting assurance depends on how you do it
/r/seduction05/01/26 03:40 AM
2

Depends what reassurance means. As a guy asking “do you like me” is definitely a no-no, but asking “so are we gonna see each other again” won’t always go over badly. I personally wouldn’t make it the last thing I ask someone, I also wouldn’t ask it that way, I’d be a bit more sure of myself and be more playful with it. After some kind of positive interaction (a kiss, she laughs at my jokes etc.) I’d say “I guess that’s the second date secured then” and gauge her reaction.
/r/seduction04/01/26 12:27 PM
1

Abundance and time. I can’t really explain how and why it happens, but date enough people, especially simultaneously, and your capacity to care about the outcome with each girl will severely diminish
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:43 AM
1

No shit, no real person would enjoy hearing a stranger whisper that in their ear
/r/seduction27/12/25 09:25 AM
1

Man what?
/r/seduction27/12/25 03:09 AM
42

If you self describe someone as a 7, you don’t find them unattractive. If he said “most people would think she’s a 7 but I think she’s a 4”, that’s a different story
/r/seduction26/12/25 03:20 PM
1

Yep I’ve faced that before, when I’m genuinely grinding and being productive I get less passion in return than when I’m texting and calling all day. Completely threw everything I thought I knew out the window
/r/seduction23/12/25 02:33 PM
2

Flings sure, relationships no
/r/seduction17/12/25 08:39 PM
17

Exactly, is this not the whole point of seduction? To create your own version of easy mode, logistics is part of that
/r/seduction07/12/25 10:58 AM
1

Me personally I don’t care at all how desired she is. Attraction always has an absolute value, it doesn’t change relative to other people’s attraction (not since I was like 13 anyway).
/r/seduction05/12/25 09:56 PM
0

I’m recently “out” of the game (seduction is still factor in relationships imo) but I’m gonna stick around and give advice to people in the comments. I don’t make posts, but yeah a lot of the posts I see show up are pretty bad. Either incoherent, way off topic, shilling or written by AI.
/r/seduction29/11/25 08:05 AM
2

Reading, running, gym, watching and playing basketball, coding, walks with my friends
/r/seduction27/11/25 04:30 PM
4

A little bit of delusion until you find success ngl. Go into every interaction thinking, “she’s rooting for me to be her person”, you’ll eventually shed that adversarial mindset that allows anxiety and self-doubt to creep in.
/r/seduction24/11/25 01:30 AM
14

Man I genuinely wish you all the best. But as a virgin, its gonna fighting off that unattractive “always available” energy when you have no job to keep you busy throughout the day unless you can build an extensive roster
/r/seduction23/11/25 08:51 AM
4

I don’t see how this is a win for you. I like the idea of grounded persistence and what you stated about how that looks, but to me you let a bullshit excuse slide and let drama with another dude come between you and a woman you were pursuing. I’m glad you had a good time with her, but to me that’s still people pleasing. Her ghosting you for a month is strike one, but fine, shit does genuinely happen. Her cancelling on the second date and not rescheduling within a week or two is when you call it …
/r/seduction22/11/25 01:53 PM
2

Just keep going. Periods of feast and famine happen. I try not to switch up because whatever brings the famine also seems to bring the feast
/r/seduction19/11/25 11:16 PM
1

What’s the difference between the two?
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:32 PM
3

I mean kinda, a fuckboy doesn’t get his name for his upstanding behaviour, and the term ‘situationship’ is built entirely on that premise. That doesn’t mean it’s not possible, more fulfilling and eventually more effective to do the same thing through honesty and improvement as a person
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:29 PM
1

Facts, it’s probably the authenticity even more than the accent
/r/seduction16/11/25 03:59 PM
8

Sounds like avoidant attachment to me
/r/seduction12/11/25 09:20 AM
2

sorry to bother you Assuming you’re bothering her already puts you behind the 8 ball I’m sure a lot of men come up to you and tell you this Pedestalising You’re very pretty If plenty of men say it to her, and none of said men are around right now, why would you do better saying the same thing? I’d say one, don’t start your approach by apologising, two reduce the formality, and three comment on something about her outfit or just the environment you’re in rather than calling her pretty
/r/seduction09/11/25 10:21 AM
2

The fuck sort of way of thinking is this? Action through negative reinforcement is only gonna lead to begrudging action. “I have to do this or I’m gonna miss out” it’s gonna lead to half hearted action
/r/seduction31/10/25 07:32 PM
13

A taken woman that’s willing to engage with you is never the one
/r/seduction30/10/25 09:06 AM
1

I feel like you’re trolling, but I’ll respond honestly anyway. That “sexual familiarity” is only built up through mutual experiences. If you think you can fake that connection to calm your nerves, sure, but I can bet any money it’ll have the opposite effect
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:43 PM
3

That shit will have the opposite effect lmao
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:47 PM
14

Best thing to do is make them look like theyre strange, or make them give an explanation for what they’re doing. Move his arms away, look with a slightly confused expression and ask “yo, you good?”, or “you need help with something?”
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:57 AM
2

My swipe to match rate skyrocketed (probably because they’re not sending my profile to the back of the line anymore) also it’s helpful to be able to see all my likes at once instead of having to make a decision on whoever’s at the top of the pile
/r/seduction23/10/25 05:30 PM
6

Premium hinge has worked pretty well for me
/r/seduction23/10/25 01:02 PM
29

I was at a glow stick event a night club and she ripped the ring of glow sticks I had around my neck off from behind me and disappeared into the crowd. I caught a glimpse of her as I turned around but I thought nothing of it. Later on as I was leaving she tapped me on arm and asked why I didn’t chase her because she would’ve given me her number. I’ll be honest I kind of stared at her dumbfounded that she thought that’s how I was supposed to take that interaction. I thought she just farmed me for…
/r/seduction21/10/25 10:39 PM
2

You’re never out of options, never. Just when you think everything’s dried up someone new always comes along What are your views on “being together forever”? That’s a lot to put on someone on a dating app, especially if you haven’t met yet Hanging around someone who’s in a relationship, hoping they’ll end it for you, even if it’s a long distance one is kinda scummy. If you wanna know if she’s interested, ask her out and if she turns you down, MOVE ON. Your way of referring to people’s “aesthetic…
/r/seduction19/10/25 08:08 AM
2

Start by asking people why they think that. If you notice a trend amongst the answers, work on that
/r/seduction19/10/25 01:02 AM
12

You’re focused on the girls too much. You say you’re having fun, but you’re consciously noticing no female attention. Here’s what I’d advise you do. Hit the club a few times with the expressed purpose of NOT picking up girls. Tell yourself I’m not leaving here tonight with anyone except my friends, and try to have fun under those circumstances
/r/seduction05/10/25 12:20 AM
2

I might need some tips too, because my way to deal with rejection has been to not process it by just moving onto the next, but when things slow down all the rejections hit me like a brick lmao
/r/seduction03/10/25 09:53 PM
3

Yeah. “What to do when she won’t sleep with you” move on to someone that will
/r/seduction03/10/25 07:09 PM
1

Yeah for sure there’s probably recipes everywhere
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:57 PM
2

Nah most people are familiar with the concept of mocktails so it would be hard to hype one up by comparing it to alcohol, but you can learn to make a mocktail yourself and hype up that skill instead
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:03 PM
3

Absolutely. I did have this weird situation recently though where I was making heavy eye contact with this woman on a date but I felt nothing. She confirmed the next day what I was feeling too when said she didn’t feel any romantic connection, but I can’t figure out what made me feel nothing, especially since I did find her attractive
/r/seduction29/09/25 12:39 AM
3

When the energy isn’t equal
/r/seduction26/09/25 05:57 AM
11

Good point, I think Ive only seen it once recently and that was like a year ago. Dude got shot down but I respected him for it
/r/seduction10/09/25 11:53 PM
10

Honestly I’m mostly against chatgpt for interacting with people, I think it atrophies your real life skills if you rely on it too much, but for coming up with a good reply on the fly it’s not bad. I think a better way to use it though would be to come up with your own reply then use chatgpt to workshop it, and use that as a learning experience. You might not go with the final result, but it’ll get your brain thinking about what are the good and needs work parts of your texting game
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:04 PM
1

Literally just pretend it doesn’t matter. If you pretend for long enough, eventually you’ll realise it actually doesn’t
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:13 AM
1

Nah the UK
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:45 PM
0

Maybe it’s just where I’m from, but even at work for example, asking someone “how their journey in was” is a casual way of asking about their commute. Idk if I’d call it tryhard
/r/seduction04/09/25 05:11 PM
0

Lol I see what you’re saying, can’t come up with a good replacement word. Travel?
/r/seduction04/09/25 04:47 PM
3

Just smile and hug them as you walk up (I don’t see any reason not to hug them), say something really simple like “hey, how are you doing?” If they give a short answer you can keep the conversation going as you walk over to where you sit down by asking “how was your journey over here?” Then I guess once you get past that pre-amble you can launch into conversation like you normally would
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:26 PM
1

Ignore them
/r/seduction29/08/25 11:47 PM
5

So here’s my thing, this has always worked for me, juggling multiple girls is the easiest way for me to stop myself from being over-invested in any single one, but at what point do you cut them off? Because I feel like by the time you’re hitting date 3 with one person it becomes a little unethical to string the others along, but once I cut the others off I’m liable to slide back into bad habits because all of that energy gets refocused into one person
/r/seduction28/08/25 12:01 PM
1

Yeah I don’t see the problem with that. I’ll make sure she has a way to get home safely, but if she plans to get an uber or public transport there’s no reason for me to leap at the chance to pay for it. But if she’s coming to where I live, now the logistical responsibility falls entirely in my lap, including getting her home from my place.
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:35 PM
1

Gotta go cold turkey and just not contact her at all. If she’s down she’ll reach out again
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:19 AM
1

First date, especially if you asked her out, sure. I’d only go so far as to pay for everything we do while we’re together though. I’m not paying for her transport to and fro unless it’s to my place. Beyond the first date when you start to get familiar with each other, no
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:01 AM
1

It sounds like you need to learn to have better sex
/r/seduction16/08/25 11:25 PM
35

Yep, sex has to be a consequence of a connection, not a goal you’re trying to force a connection to achieve
/r/seduction31/07/25 01:13 PM
4

I think it’ll be a fad that disappears, the leak didn’t help
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:29 PM
2

Why’s that the conclusion you’re coming to? It sounds like you want to validate the negative thoughts you have about yourself in your head. Guess what, if she truly found you repulsive, she wouldn’t have even given you a peck. Yeah it’s not great things didn’t go the way you planned, but all hope isn’t lost, these things happen, you just move on to the next
/r/seduction20/07/25 04:48 PM
2

No it doesn’t man, it just means you didn’t do anything during the date that made her think “I could sleep with this guy/I could be in a relationship with this guy” When I say friendly vibe, I just mean you spoke to her the same way a friend would, probably no deeper teasing, no touch (until you went for the kiss), etc. As long as you look like your profile, have decent hygiene, and didn’t say anything wildly offensive, I doubt she found you repulsive
/r/seduction20/07/25 04:43 PM
2

“Which basically means you’re repulsive and have no hope” Man who the fuck told you that? It just means the vibe was more friendly
/r/seduction20/07/25 04:30 PM
1

Bruh
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:48 PM
25

The simplest way to boil it down that I feel like makes people understand the concept better is “don’t be a nice guy, be a kind man”
/r/seduction16/07/25 09:07 PM
1

Jesus, what kind of results do you see from that?
/r/seduction14/07/25 09:28 PM
7

Like all internet content I just assume it’s scripted, but let’s take it at face value: His approach wasn’t the best. I’m definitely not launching into calling someone beautiful that quickly, regardless of how good they look. You’re automatically putting her over you. Case in point, she latched onto that and boosted her own ego. Fair enough at this point you can’t take back what you said, but why would you then call out her ego for recognising the same quality in herself that you just compliment…
/r/seduction12/07/25 09:44 PM
16

Because both take effort and you can typically get by with one or the other
/r/seduction10/07/25 10:35 AM
2

Being seen as friendly isn’t a bad thing, so I wouldn’t try to change that, but to beat the gay allegations, without knowing you, I’d say intent of your words and your dress sense. As stereotyped as it is, first thing that makes me question someone sexuality is how they carry themselves. Looser fitting clothing almost never gives off gay vibes.
/r/seduction08/07/25 12:11 AM
3

Do NOT consider someone “the one” before you even meet them
/r/seduction04/07/25 10:59 AM
1

Glad to hear it 🙌🏾
/r/seduction24/06/25 09:19 PM
7

Only advice I’d give is, don’t randomly launch for it. Gauge the situation by initiating some sort of physical contact first (hand on the inside of the thigh is your best green light). Good eye contact, occasionally glancing down at her lips, the rest will do itself
/r/seduction22/06/25 01:27 PM
3

Might be completely anecdotal for me, but the type of texts I get at night are very different than during the day. Lot more flirtatious energy
/r/seduction21/06/25 10:25 AM
1

Level of maturity imo. IG is cool, phone number is even better, but for someone like me in their mid 20s, snap is starting to become a reddish flag
/r/seduction19/06/25 04:05 PM
1

Tbf I don’t know what a good response to that would be. I’d probably say “shit they might be right” but that feels a bit canned
/r/seduction14/06/25 09:07 PM
1

Tinder’s infested with bots and Bumble isn’t fit for purpose anymore, Hinge has always been my go to
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:25 PM
1

Nah
/r/seduction08/06/25 10:33 PM
2

I know, but I think it’s a logical extension thing. If you spend a ton of time letting ChatGPT make you appear smooth over text, you won’t develop the quick thinking required to appear smooth in real life
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:32 PM
3

I think that’s the point, if you’re relying on ChatGPT for your game, what’s the plan when you’re on a date? Pull out ChatGPT?
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:15 PM
1

I feel like this only makes sense for a very specific type of city. As a Londoner for example, fuck no I’m not dropping an extra 1000 a month just for slightly better dating logistics. I’d imagine it’s the same for anyone living in states with expensive metropolitan areas like California, New York, Florida etc.
/r/seduction03/06/25 10:04 AM
2

I don’t think seduction stops once the relationship starts
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:44 PM
18

people are getting laid Ok? And billionaires are riding around on private yachts while you aren’t. Why are the going’s on of other people your concern? Control what you can control. Shifting your focus away from others will reduce your frustration
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:37 PM
16

“Couldn’t get the boys to come out but I didn’t want to stick up inside” Easy
/r/seduction16/05/25 04:52 PM
2

I have a pic from 2022, but my face hasn’t changed at all lol, my beard is just a bit longer
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:13 PM
10

Not saying you shouldn’t still talk to her, but a 12 year old would know what’s going on lol. They’d just feign ignorance out of awkwardness
/r/seduction09/05/25 11:01 PM
1

You were thirsting over your auntie??
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:10 AM
2

I think people are far too concerned with this whole “nice guy” thing, to the point where they trip over themselves over the smallest things. If she hasn’t responded it’s most likely two things going on, she opened the message and planned to respond but forgot to (happens to me all the time) or she’s actively choosing not to respond. In either circumstance your best move is to do nothing
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:57 AM
21

I’d say that’s pretty normal, no reason to stop talking to other people until you’re in a relationship. If she’s jealous when you talk to other women that’s her issue, you sound equally jealous that she’s talking to other dudes. You both can fix that having a conversation and going exclusive
/r/seduction02/05/25 12:00 PM
1

Keep getting the girl
/r/seduction02/05/25 11:52 AM
10

I think the peak of status beats the peak of looks. An ugly ass sports star is probably doing better than a 10/10 bum. But for the average person, depends what you mean by status. What does above average status look like for a normal person? Is it your job? Is it the size of your social circle? Your perceived romantic ability by the people that know you?
/r/seduction30/04/25 12:06 PM
107

I agree, you’re right, but I think most people’s issue with the modern dating market is that they can’t even make it to the bed lmao. That being said I don’t think good skills in bed are gonna up your numbers, but they do make you more likely maintain healthy relationships
/r/seduction29/04/25 03:42 PM
6

Introduce them to each other and when the world doesn’t explode you’ll realise you had nothing to be uncomfortable about (the world won’t explode but don’t actually do this)
/r/seduction18/04/25 10:47 PM
28

Organise another date and continue where you left off. For what it’s worth, I don’t think you fucked up. You missed an opportunity for sure, but not every first date has to end with sex. I can almost guarantee if she says yes to another date it’ll go further than the first one.
/r/seduction14/04/25 07:34 PM
60

Last sentence took me out bruh 😭
/r/seduction11/04/25 07:42 PM
1

18, been very inconsistent with it though
/r/seduction10/04/25 08:25 AM
1

I think it’s everything. Nothing matters more than being present
/r/seduction09/04/25 10:26 PM
7

Issue is it’s only been dudes lmao
/r/seduction06/04/25 11:41 PM
21

I honestly have no clue. I’ve always thought the concept of shit testing is overblown because it’s never happened to me (either that or I’m completely oblivious to when I’m being shit tested) and I don’t think I’m super attractive. I’ve been called good looking by random people, but I’ll admit I’m still working on self confidence issues since I started shaving my head, so I don’t have a good grasp on how attractive I’m actually perceived by the opposite sex
/r/seduction06/04/25 08:57 AM
1

I feel like one is more goal-oriented while the other is just a style of conversing. Yeah and like you said one-sided vs. mutual. I think you can choose to flirt in the same way you choose to speak formally to a boss, or choose to speak casually to a friend.
/r/seduction25/03/25 05:40 PM
1

False
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:17 PM
4

Nah too much sass. Honestly “yeah” is enough
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:30 PM
1

I mean your chances are higher than not asking her out again, but they’re still so low they might as well be zero and I wouldn’t bother
/r/seduction05/03/25 12:50 PM
1

I agree with the top comment but I’d say just family is where it’s at. Everybody’s relationship dynamics are different, but just being cold hard honest, if I brought a girl around my friend group that doesn’t mean she’s staying around, my friends are my age, we all know the game. My family however, they’d expect to be seeing this girl on a semi-regular basis, I’d have to be kinda serious about her to bring her around them.
/r/seduction03/03/25 11:41 AM
3

That’s the operative part though “a guy they liked”. But on the flip side, you’ll never know if you’re the guy they like until you make that approach
/r/seduction25/02/25 11:59 PM
8

Hope you have fun never building a meaningful connection with someone lol
/r/seduction17/02/25 10:39 PM
2

Idk, I think it shows good calibration if you can get rejected in a place you’re both in a lot and it’s not weird after that. Extra points if you don’t get rejected
/r/seduction16/02/25 12:44 PM
21

What’s stopping you?
/r/seduction12/02/25 01:35 PM
1

That was actually surprisingly fun and well made lol. I think I’m usually bad at shit tests but I’ll take 80/70/70 for my first try lmao
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:03 AM
13

Nah I think you’d be doing too much. “Hey no worries at all, you have a nice day” and then leave is enough
/r/seduction06/02/25 06:22 PM
12

I can’t speak for everyone but I’d say eye contact and a smile. If I see a girl that’s obviously trying to look away from me, I’m instinctively gonna assume it’s not a good reason she’s doing that. Eye contact with no smile is very 50/50, you could be interested in me, but I can’t really tell, how long you hold eye contact might help, but it may start to get awkward at a certain point. Eye contact with a smile is always a good move. Especially if you make eye contact first and smile after it’s d…
/r/seduction04/02/25 12:09 AM
9

Don’t dance around it, you don’t need to set up some situation, if you claim she has a crush on you, and you claim to like her, just invite her to do something outside of work
/r/seduction02/02/25 01:16 AM
1

No problem my guy
/r/seduction31/01/25 02:50 PM
2

wants us non European immigrants to pay for their fun time. Awful mentality bro. Idk what part of Europe you live in, but you have to start by getting off the apps and meeting people irl. Yeah you’re always gonna be more likely to match with single mothers on dating apps because they’re craving stability in their lives so they need a more reliable way to screen people that are gonna be around their kid. The people with more freedom are gonna be looking for fun, so go out, do fun things, be a fun…
/r/seduction31/01/25 01:23 PM
1

Mostly IOIs, how long does she hold your gaze, how close does she get to you, how much does she laugh around you, is she readjusting her clothes and her hair a lot etc. For the hookup/relationship thing, it’s just the vibe tbh. I’d say avoid bringing it up at all until she does, unless you’re actively pursuing a relationship
/r/seduction29/01/25 10:38 PM
2

Yes to both your questions
/r/seduction29/01/25 10:30 PM
1

Anger (especially being angry at being ignored) at least indicates they care
/r/seduction29/01/25 01:05 AM
24

The point of shit tests is an attempt to weed out who you are as a person. Why not instead of trying to give the correct answer give the honest one? Just say yeah and see what happens.
/r/seduction27/01/25 08:16 AM
1

Ah, can’t say much about the US, I’ve only visited NYC and Philadelphia and never ran game in either
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:20 PM
10

Idk about top 10 but I can tell you for certain London is in the bottom 3 for major cities. Never realised how prudish people are here until I tried running game elsewhere on holiday
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:15 PM
1

Probably seems cool for now, but when you realise your real life interactions don’t go as smoothly as with the AI over a long term period, you’ll start to become more reclusive as you opt for what’s “better”
/r/seduction20/01/25 06:30 PM
3

you can’t be too forward with a modest woman Definitely not true
/r/seduction18/01/25 09:46 AM
2

I don’t think it’s a big deal, we all know what the game is, it’s ok to play it
/r/seduction11/01/25 01:28 AM
2

No need to add the compliments, “I wanted to take you on a date” make it known that you’re interested early on, and if you still want to keep an element of fun, flirt after that now that your intentions are clear
/r/seduction08/01/25 02:49 PM
6

Exactly, only way to win this game is not to play
/r/seduction05/01/25 10:29 PM
1

Gonna go back and read the whole thing but just to give my own summary, first date shouldn’t be high cost anyway, so you should be fine paying for the both of you. It reflects better on you and since you probably asked her out anyway it’s the courteous thing to do. Second date is something you can’t have a strict plan for in my opinion, it requires a bit of self awareness as well some observation. Ask yourself if you think you’re being used, and ask yourself if you’re planning to pay for her aga…
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:42 PM
52

Is that her assessment of you, or just your assessment of yourself? You might be really good at something that you’re overlooking because it’s as natural as breathing to you, but without you your wife would be lost in that area
/r/seduction01/01/25 08:38 PM
10

And lots of people don’t. Whether you make this another chapter in a line of unsuccessful attempts or realise you have your entire life ahead of you and change your mentality is up to you
/r/seduction31/12/24 05:31 PM
2

Yep, even if he doesn’t have feelings for the girl
/r/seduction30/12/24 10:13 PM
3

Does he though? Even after his political shift I haven’t really seen anyone thirsting after him, if anything he just appears even more awkward and lame than he did before
/r/seduction28/12/24 03:33 PM
1

I didn’t apply any superiority or demonisation to what I said. There’s no need to pity or champion one group or another because certain parts of our lives are more difficult. It seems simple and fair to treat every situation like they’re all equal and we all struggle the same amount in every facet of life but the truth is that’s not the case. Women struggle with their appearance more than men, they have more difficulty advancing their careers than men. Same way men struggle more with emotional a…
/r/seduction23/12/24 12:21 PM
4

100% disagree. I’ve never been a gender war/men have it so much harder in life advocate, but if you just ask each gender on the whole what they look for in their partners (as well as the type of partners they end up having, because those are two different groups) and then took an aggregate of what that partner is, I think the typical female partner is something you can arrive at much more naturally than the typical male partner which requires more active effort and improvement. I think the only …
/r/seduction23/12/24 04:27 AM
73

Eye contact. Intense eye contact with a smile can melt a guy if you’re his type
/r/seduction22/12/24 12:35 PM
4

On the point of mentioning the date early, I can say absolutely do it from my own experience! First time I learned about it a few years ago, I kept throwing the idea of different dates out there not really intending for any of those ideas to be the actual first date, so when I came to organise a day and time to meet her (I didn’t even mention date that time I just asked “you free to go to x café on x day”), her response was “are we finally going our date I’ve been hearing so much about, if so th…
/r/seduction19/12/24 06:42 PM
57

Facts. She called me bro before we had sex > probably best to go onto the next. She called me bro after we had sex > It doesn’t matter what term of endearment she uses at that point lol
/r/seduction19/12/24 11:00 AM
1

Too much pmo?
/r/seduction16/12/24 04:05 PM
1

During imo. Pasta steak and red wine is like the best cooking date meal to make together because it’s not super involved but you’re also not waiting around in front of an oven either. Tease, flirt and joke around while you’re in the middle of cooking and things should just escalate from there. Just don’t leave the kitchen halfway through boiling pasta or cooking the steak lmao
/r/seduction15/12/24 10:17 AM
23

Yep, leading with money is the #1 mistake for dating any type of woman
/r/seduction13/12/24 11:55 AM
1

If it’s a complete stranger then I’d say it’s not smart. Otherwise it just depends on familiarity
/r/seduction09/12/24 10:21 AM
1

Yeah I thought I had an idea what he was getting at but the last sentence confused me
/r/seduction04/12/24 06:28 PM
7

Yep, especially if you’ve never met him before. Best way to find out if he’s normal before deciding what to do next
/r/seduction02/12/24 12:33 AM
6

That’s shame. It’s not a bad thing, shame is what keeps you being a well-adjusted member of society, but too much shame directed in the wrong area will make you do things like worry about how others view your innocent actions
/r/seduction01/12/24 10:55 PM
4

First was constantly talking to myself positively. Reminding myself that if people didn’t want me to speak they wouldn’t be listening to me intently. If people disliked my presence they wouldn’t give me the opportunity to be around them etc. Obviously those thoughts never fully go away, I can still look at someone’s face and see annoyance, boredom, confusion etc. where it might not actually be there, but ignoring it and focusing on enjoying the interaction has gotten way easier. The other thing …
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:24 AM
35

Yep, as someone who’s dealt with anxiety before (not saying this guy is but it might be the case) your brain has a tendency to interpret neutral expressions as negative ones. It’s a safety mechanism to fill in the details you don’t have
/r/seduction30/11/24 10:17 AM
4

What’s happened when you’ve tried it in the past?
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:20 PM
4

What do you want them to do other than compliment you? It sounds like you want things to escalate to a date, so if you’re talking to dudes who at least see you as attractive enough to throw out compliments like that, why not flip the script and ask them out? If it was gonna fizzle out anyway you have nothing to lose. That way you can even aim higher because you’re taking the ball out of their court and putting it into yours
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:14 PM
2

You think you should leave her because of your low opinion of yourself, but she chose you despite the things you criticise yourself for? Guess what bro, regardless of how much you work on your anxiety and financial situation outside of a relationship, you can’t “fix” your height, and you can’t “fix” your baldness (for cheap). Those things will be there regardless of how much you improve yourself. As someone who’s been single for a while, having someone who’s in your corner while you think you’re…
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:53 AM
2

Why be inauthentic ? I don’t go out of my way to shit on it, but I won’t fake believe it in either. I’d tell them I think it’s silly but indulge in it anyway just to have some fun with the convo. “How compatible are our star signs?” “They aren’t” > “See this is why astrology is silly to me, because we clearly have chemistry” “They are” > “I still think it’s silly, but maybe I’ll pay more attention to it in the future”
/r/seduction24/11/24 01:34 AM
3

Yeah it’s definitely annoying asf because the standouts tend to be a tier above the regular profiles. I’d say maybe every one in 10/15 normal swipes I get one on that level, but that’s the thing about standouts. Hinge can’t tell how attractive someone is, they’re only there because other people are liking them a lot, even if you’re an 8 or a 9 you’re still just a face in a crowd.
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:05 PM
15

I’ve never used a rose on hinge. I feel like you’re just setting yourself up for failure because you’re starting off the interaction by pedestalling her. Same with super likes on tinder
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:01 PM
2

Nah, why forgive and waste your life someone with who’s willing to betray your trust like that?
/r/seduction20/11/24 05:59 PM
3

Solid, doesn’t need to be any more complicated than this
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:18 AM
2

I was reading through this going, “hmm makes sense, makes sense” then my jaw just dropped on the second to last paragraph
/r/seduction15/11/24 04:33 PM
2

Definitely something I get caught out with on Hinge a lot. Girl likes your pic without leaving a comment, go to check the profile, there’s not much to work with now I’m stuck for an opener
/r/seduction15/11/24 07:44 AM
16

OLD fumble when I was 18. Hit it off pretty well with this 10/10, and she didn’t respond to me for a couple days, so I dumped a paragraph and the next day she came back saying sorry she was just off the app but it was sweet. I instantly realised my mistake and that cringe reminds me constantly that neediness is never the way.
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:08 AM
2

Just move on. If you’re letting them go specifically hoping they come back, you’re still interested. In which case, you should be upfront in that situation. There’s no point playing games to try and get the outcome you want, life’s too short for that
/r/seduction11/11/24 11:39 PM
2

Exactly, once you remove your emotions from sex you’re basically just using another person to masturbate
/r/seduction11/11/24 09:31 PM
10

Yep, on the subject of just announcing your feelings: that’s exactly right; you’re dumping all the time and thought you’ve spent ruminating on your own feelings onto someone that hasn’t had the adequate time to process everything. Expecting someone to match that energy is ridiculous. You have to build up some sort of “non-friendly” rapport already. If you find yourself catching feelings for a friend, just ask them out without attaching too much emotional weight to it even if you do feel a lot fo…
/r/seduction11/11/24 02:30 PM
1

Maybe, idk. I don’t pay much attention to what people are doing before I interact with them. Might be a bad habit but I get tunnel vision on my own shit too much
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:21 AM
-2

“Birds of a feather flock together”
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:43 PM
16

I feel like this is good advice, but the video demonstration made it seem so forced lmao. “You seem like you like dominant guys, especially in bed”. The bedroom comment makes it feel like you’re pushing too hard in that direction
/r/seduction09/11/24 11:26 AM
6

Yep, a lot of women say they’re annoyed the bar for men is so low, a lot of us don’t do the bare minimum etc., but the standard for women has always been even lower because desperate mfs can’t stop thinking with their dicks
/r/seduction31/10/24 02:17 PM
12

You’re being taken for a free babysitter man
/r/seduction29/10/24 10:18 AM
3

All day everyday. From beginners to dudes who’ve had success using bad practices, it’s a great way to completely reframe your mindset on seduction
/r/seduction27/10/24 11:00 PM
6

Bald mfs:
/r/seduction23/10/24 12:02 PM
3

I’m not gonna sit here and act like I’m some expert in game, but an example for groups, you just need something that gets everyone involved at a base level, that one person can choose to expand on, or maybe multiple people will find commonality in etc. You know how at work/school they do those shitty icebreakers that everyone hates, but they somehow never fail to increase the vibes in the room/get people talking? Just do a really simple version of one of those. “Ok, everyone give their favourite…
/r/seduction21/10/24 06:30 PM
3

Exactly lmao, you present yourself as a friend, she says let’s be friends, and you say ok. At that point it’s on you buddy
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:21 AM
-1

Per day?
/r/seduction11/10/24 05:43 PM
17

Could be 7, could be 700. You won’t know unless you keep going
/r/seduction06/10/24 12:26 PM
7

Nahh I disagree on the emoji. I’ve always seen it used as an ioi (even in non-flirtatious situations). But the touch your skin comment was definitely a mistake. Could’ve saved it if he didn’t go “would you let me” afterwards, doubling down on it
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:00 AM
2

I can’t say exactly what you did wrong without seeing how she reacted, but a better response would’ve been to just say what you were enjoying about the club despite not being gay or a woman
/r/seduction21/09/24 11:53 AM
7

I don’t want to dismiss your efforts but you didn’t try hard enough then. A good diet and consistency in the gym will slim you down
/r/seduction17/09/24 12:47 PM
0

I’d say trim it similar to how someone like Duke Dennis does it. That way you can keep the stache but not in an outdated style
/r/seduction15/09/24 11:14 AM
12

You know how people always say men have two boxes, women they’d sleep with but wouldn’t date, and women they’d sleep with and date? Women have the exact same boxes just with different criteria
/r/seduction05/09/24 09:20 PM
14

This is the one of the few things motivating me personally. That person has to be underneath the surface somewhere, I just need to deal with all the inhibition stopping him from being around all the time
/r/seduction04/09/24 06:19 AM
1

It’s not a term I use lol, I just borrowed it to show why that guys frame of thinking is wrong
/r/seduction02/09/24 01:26 PM
2

I think it can though. The more you improve yourself the larger percentage of those fertile age women you could have a successful encounter with. But even for a natural 10 that percentage will never hit 100% due to circumstances outside of your own control so persistence is necessary
/r/seduction01/09/24 09:29 PM
3

Key thing to remember is, straightforward logic needs to go out of the window entirely. Whether or not this person actually looks like someone you know/have met is completely irrelevant. It’s just an innocent way to start up a conversation. An example for the first one: “Hey, I feel like I know you from somewhere” “Really? Where?”, or “I don’t think we’ve met”, or “You might gotten the wrong person” etc. etc. “Yeah you remind me of this girl I met while I was [doing X activity or in X location]”…
/r/seduction01/09/24 07:06 PM
3

“I feel like I know you from somewhere” / “Your face seems familiar” / “Have we met before”
/r/seduction01/09/24 01:09 AM
52

Jesus Christ
/r/seduction30/08/24 05:55 AM
1

Exactly, you said it a lot more concisely than I did
/r/seduction27/08/24 08:55 PM
7

I’d say be careful with how much you internalise from each “lesson” you learn from a woman though. Something that may work for one might be setting you up to fail with others. Work on being the best version of yourself and allow that to self-select the types of women that are attracted to you. You’ll end up in healthier happier relationships for it
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:11 PM
3

100% agree, I feel like people have always been willing to give me more time of day once you exercise basic politeness. And this isn’t even something I specifically do to try and get some, it’s just the way I was raised and its not gender specific either. (I’m not gonna hold a door to let a man walk through first, but I’ll hold a door open behind me if I see someone a few steps behind). You’ll get a decent amount of straight eye contact and genuine thanks for behaving with common decency. Even f…
/r/seduction25/08/24 09:26 PM
-1

Tips for spontaneity?
/r/seduction22/08/24 06:52 AM
5

No time to start like today. As someone who was 20 lbs over my ideal weight when I started doing cardio, I never looked fat, but the dropped weight just made life easier. More stamina, less random pains around my joints etc
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:21 PM
21

Yeah but I wouldn’t consider it gaslighting if you’re having lighthearted banter with each other and it’s pretty obvious what the actual truth is
/r/seduction19/08/24 08:23 PM
21

It’s not a serious interaction so it doesn’t really matter
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:48 PM
1

I don’t think you should ever ask someone to have sex if you’ve never had sex with them before. You should be aiming to build chemistry and create a one thing lead to another kind of situation. Be light hearted and flirtatious Initiate light physical contact Eventually be in a location where you guys could have sex and are 1 on 1 with each other. Keep the physical contact going If she’s down, one thing should lead to another from there
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:20 AM
8

Take this as a good opportunity to improve your attention span
/r/seduction15/08/24 09:34 PM
1

Me personally I only think age gaps are bad for relationships. Clubbing and other casual interaction is no big deal. If I bagged a milf I’d be mad as fuck if someone tried telling me she’s a pervert. Nah I’m fully aware of what I’m doing 😂
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:29 PM
2

Much appreciated insight btw. But yeah you pretty much hit the nail on the head with why I feel like my answer is wishy washy, there’s no solid conviction behind it. Nobody’s ever pressed me on it, but I’m giving an answer I personally don’t feel happy with. I think out of all your prepared responses your first response fits me best, but I’m gonna be more playful about it that definitely fits my style best
/r/seduction15/08/24 05:15 AM
4

Question for you bro. Still in my early 20s with no LTR experience but some flings I wouldn’t consider relationships. How do you answer the question of “how did your last relationship end?/why are you single?”. Because I feel like “I’ve never had one”, or “I’ve had a series of short term flings with people I didn’t see a relationship with” both present themselves as red flags. I’ve ended up giving wishy washy answers about not being able to find someone I was compatible with (which is kind of tr…
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:09 PM
1

Yeah I just tried the GPT4o version, feels a lot more dynamic. Funnily enough I got the number and date secured a lot quicker but the cold exterior is more brutal to deal with early on
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:50 AM
15

Facts
/r/seduction12/08/24 08:55 PM
6

Good bot, but holy shit I felt like I was being harassed with questions after a while 😭 “what’s your next move”, “what’s your next move”. After I while I said fuck it lemme just close on the date and make my exit so she stops pestering me. I’m probably not even gonna show up tomorrow if that’s how it’s gonna be smh
/r/seduction12/08/24 05:20 PM
2

“Online community” yeah I think I know why I’m single now
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:04 PM
0

I’d say seduction doesn’t stop when you get her. All the techniques you employed to draw her in, keep using them to keep her around
/r/seduction06/08/24 07:59 PM
6

It’s a few things working in tandem: Most women don’t approach period. You’ve kind of answered your question yourself as well. If she’s interested in these men, they’ve already exceeded her standard, so the reason she doesn’t approach must be something else, not that they don’t meet her standard. Choosing signals is their low risk way of trying show interest without having to get potentially shot down or make a fool of themselves by initiating a conversation. (Hot take, women are as badly social…
/r/seduction05/08/24 12:00 AM
1

No because you’re holding yourself to an invisible standard you think she has in your mind.
/r/seduction04/08/24 11:26 PM
1

Is using your hands when you talk a good or bad thing, because I do it a lot lmao
/r/seduction04/08/24 11:25 PM
2

Are there? I think you’re either underestimating how much other men lie about how they pull or you’re greatly overestimating how attractive the two women in these threesomes are
/r/seduction29/07/24 07:30 AM
1

Well where are you looking for doors to open? Do you have hobbies that give you the opportunity to meet and maybe pursue people you might be interested in? Because even if you build platonic connections people will be very willing to put you in contact with their single friends if you seem like a well adjusted person
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:57 PM
6

I 100% hear what you’re saying, but what kind of situations do you find yourself in where people demand experience? Because it’s extremely rare a woman is going to straight up ask you how many exes/previous partners you had. You may get the occasional, “how did you last relationship end”, or, “how has your dating life been like over the last few years.” In those situations, if you have no experience, you have to learn how to be vague or playfully dodge the question. The only other situation wher…
/r/seduction27/07/24 09:05 PM
14

Funny, the older I’ve gotten the less I believe that’s the case. I think a 5/10 can get into any door if he has his life together and can hold a conversation well
/r/seduction27/07/24 08:27 PM
6

I personally use Spotify so I’m throwing the links down here for anyone else that does too: https://open.spotify.com/episode/23hZAlfjZ0eiXleBQMpMch?si=4_1siVvzRt6Ureq5Ky9HCg https://open.spotify.com/episode/2dcVTEwmJanG5lFFCgLqbL?si=PYmQxgCcSeKjn5vS-uopaA
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:48 PM
2

The reason why is because the man you are on approach 1 is not the same man you’ll be on approach 100. Every time you try fail and learn your odds on the next try go up. Same thing with everything in life. And if your thought is, well why do it if you’re guaranteed to fail each of the 100 approaches? Nobody’s limited to 100 approaches in their life time. You chalk it up to the game and use all of that experience on approach 101
/r/seduction17/07/24 10:22 PM
4

I’d say you have to spend money wisely. Nothing is life is free, but more money spent ≠ higher chance of getting laid. If you can cover the basics with as little money spent as possible; hygiene, health, style, transportation, location. The rest you can do with your own skills for free, any more money you decide to spend beyond that point should be your own personal choice and not because you think it puts you in better standing
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:03 PM
2

No, because I always tell myself if I can’t control my own sexual impulses how can I without being a hypocrite ask for partners that do the same? Delaying gratification has always served me well that doesn’t change for sex
/r/seduction06/07/24 08:26 PM
1

Yeah. 90% of the time I’d say cheating is external
/r/seduction04/07/24 10:40 PM
15

I think that’s part of my issue too. My social skills aren’t bad enough to stop me from getting laid, but the longer I have a conversation with someone the worse it gets. I don’t even know where to start when it comes to fixing things lol. I have what people would consider a fulfilling life but I feel like I’m meandering through it to the point where I don’t care anymore
/r/seduction30/06/24 09:36 AM
2

Yeah I feel like 99% off those snappy one-liners just don’t hit in practice, hence the cliché, “that sounded a lot better in my head”
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:59 AM
10

I treat ignoring attractive women that would otherwise put me in a bad situation like eating healthy. Yeah that bag of sweets looks enticing as fuck and I’d definitely enjoy eating it, but probably not best to give into every desire put in front of me. I’d ask you to put yourself in the same situation but as a married man. How do you cope with seeing an attractive person but knowing you’re married? You don’t cope, you just continue living your life, you won’t die if you don’t pursue them
/r/seduction27/06/24 08:09 PM
41

Is that even a myth? I’ve never heard anyone really say women have their summers planned out with parties and events. Hell if I happen to invite a female friend out somewhere at max it’s a week in advance. Maybe one week long/10 day holiday + a concert is planned in advance but I think everything else is just spur of the moment
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:08 PM
3

I wouldn’t say this is advice for picking up women though, it’s just a woman stating what she likes. Us as men are very quick to believe women when they say like men who are 6ft+ and make 6 figures, why is it so much more difficult to believe when they say they like quick replies?
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:09 PM
16

Yep, not gonna say dating apps are representative of women in general, but the amount of profiles I’ve seen that say they like quick replies makes me think trying to play the long game isn’t a recipe for success
/r/seduction14/06/24 01:31 PM
27

Exactly, if you take a step back and they drop the bitchy attitude now you know they were putting up a front to try and play hard to get/shit test you. If they also pull back now you know they just weren’t interested
/r/seduction10/06/24 02:24 PM
28

Finally got the chance to put this into practice as someone who doesn’t usually touch people I’m not familiar with. I’ll be honest it made me feel uncomfortable the entire time, funnily enough she was quite receptive to it, (never pulled back, touched me a few times) but every time I did it I felt like I was invading her personal space, probably something I need to work through but idk how. Don’t get me started on whispering in the ear lmao. The conversation was flowing well but I couldn’t think…
/r/seduction08/06/24 09:08 AM
4

Shared interests and goals, I feel like the quickest way to learn about someone is to see where they wanna be in life
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:38 PM
5

If you decide to study for an exam then you do well in that exam, would you say you’re faking being a smart person or did you actually become a smart person by putting in that work?
/r/seduction07/06/24 03:36 PM
2

If someone invited me over to their house for a date without any additional clarification, I wouldn’t automatically expect sex, but I’d believe sex is on the table. So be clear that it’s not happening
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:32 PM
0

I’ve never just looked at a person and thought that, but if I had to describe the type of person I imagine would be better in bed, I’d say literally just a physically fit person. Just get in shape and muscular enough to where it looks like you could lift the average woman, but not too muscular to where it looks like you respec’d all your stamina points into strength lmao
/r/seduction29/05/24 01:00 AM
4

I mean I don’t think that’s a fair comment to make. Autism does increase your barrier to entry for this sort of thing, and if he was just trying to make excuses he wouldn’t be here looking for a solution to improve
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:46 AM
3

I’ve never been a cold approach spammer but a lot of these conversion rates don’t seem that good. But maybe I’m just saying that as someone who’s only pre-selected from people already in social environments, or people who’ve expressed some kind of interest either verbally or non-verbally. Because 18 dates into two lays actually doesn’t seem that bad, but 931 conversations into 125 numbers seems crazy low. So my answer is I think I could do better but the reality is I have no way to tell
/r/seduction22/05/24 05:52 AM
49

I’ve had zero luck with hinge and I genuinely don’t know what’s off with my profile
/r/seduction18/05/24 11:13 PM
2

Show intentional interest early. As long as you’re not weird about it, either it goes further, or if it doesn’t, there likely was nothing you could’ve done anyway so nothing lost
/r/seduction16/05/24 05:47 PM
15

How do you navigate that situation once you clock the vibe? I have a bad habit of going into “I’d rather be anywhere else but here” mode when I have to start forcing things
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:19 AM
5

What’s the experience been like? It’s not a country I ever planned to visit but work might have me out there soon
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:32 AM
1

Yeah timing is everything. You ever seen those jar of notes/words of affirmation that girls love to show off? Nice gesture for your girlfriend, creepy as hell to bring to a first date.
/r/seduction30/04/24 02:30 PM
1

I’d say don’t try to impress her. If you want to do or say, do it. Don’t do what you think she wants or say what you think she wants to hear to try and score points
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:14 PM
6

I’d say the easiest point to break the cycle is step 3. If you feel the need to press for a decision, take a step back, start talking to someone else. That period of radio silence from you will give you the answer to your question without having to seem needy by asking it. Either she doesn’t message again and you didn’t waste your time, or she starts trying to get your attention instead
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:40 PM
1

I’d say as a general rule no it doesn’t happen Nothing is impossible, but there’s nothing you can really do (besides fundamentally changing yourself) to make someone regain interest in you. It usually only happens because peoples options narrow so you comparatively look better than the other now available options. You don’t want to be someone’s fallback option
/r/seduction27/03/24 01:40 PM
1

Have you ever lost interest in a girl then regained interest later? If the answer is no that should probably tell you what your next course of action should be
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:02 PM
15

I like this one 😂
/r/seduction28/02/24 02:01 PM
3

What’s that saying? “A person who thinks all the time has nothing to think but thoughts” that would apply here, I think
/r/seduction24/02/24 08:31 PM
3

Looks like a great site, I’ll definitely give it a read when I have time
/r/seduction20/02/24 07:18 PM
31

No matter what you do I’d always advocate for maintaining professional integrity
/r/seduction19/02/24 12:35 AM
3

Same with being in engineering
/r/seduction18/02/24 01:04 AM
10

More friends are always good, seduction or otherwise
/r/seduction02/02/24 09:14 PM
25

I feel like all the other comments are trying to mind games this too much. If she’s willing to set up a time and place she must be at least a little bit interested. Just have another date idea and time prepared to fire back at her if she does end up cancelling or trying to back out of this one.
/r/seduction28/01/24 02:13 AM
9

Honestly I don’t think you need to be that good of a dancer to ‘dance well’ in a club, just kind of vibe with the rhythm and don’t make too many exaggerated movements. If you’re really conscious about how your dancing looks though, practice by listening to some music on your own and just stepping side to side to the beat (if the music is pretty uptempo step to each second beat). Once you’ve got that down you can bring the rest of your body into it and even freestyle your steps a bit. The key is …
/r/seduction29/08/23 11:51 PM
9

My advice, try to frequent places where it’s more acceptable to strike up conversations with random people
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:57 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter