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It’s the connection loss. You will meet someone who just bring out the good morning and goodnight texts. I have a solid connection in a long distance thing. We meet up, but we have great connection. I don’t have that here. People are different and while I’m dating I’m kinda happy I don’t have a deep connection close by. That’s just me tho. I’m not fully healed, but I get lonely sure, but my connection will come for me again. I’m in a weird spot too.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 12:13 AM
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Yep, no small talk. Fwb. Walk in get the releases, leave, thanks see you next week
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 03:23 PM
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Once I got into no contact, other than divorce topics… she’s completely off my attractiveness list. Happens fast actually
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 02:59 AM
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2nd wife absolutely
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 01:26 AM
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It’s all attachments. I tried to keep us alive too. Now, I’m happy and alone. She’s in a world of repair and thinks I’m mad. No, I just have no reason to talk to you except for dissolution.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 12:19 AM
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Think that why open marriages exist. Variety when you are bored and tired of trying even tho you already won them.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/26 10:29 PM
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Yes.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/26 10:27 PM
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No, everything is broken.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 01:22 AM
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That people will bail without even expressing anything is wrong. And they will move on before you even know. Your best friend, your lover, your person means nothing and you can be discarded.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 12:16 AM
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I still feel it’s missing sometimes. A lot like forgetting my watch or something. You will get used to it. So much that I currently have no idea where I put it and don’t care.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 10:08 PM
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It gets better. I’m currently where you are. Wife cheated, got pregnant, left me and step daughter is a human shoulder shrug 🤷‍♀️. Baby is born, divorce ain’t final, barely started cuz mail lost my certified letter…I’m at a place of indifference and moving on. Another good woman will help you heal. I’ll pray for you. I really will. Who will join me??
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 01:43 AM
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Because most people don’t hold them accountable.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:22 AM
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Going through that now. Sadly, she’s virtually unaffected. Her dad is strong in her life. We were close when she was little, but once she approached teen years I barely existed. I tried to stay close, but it’s super hard since they moved away.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 03:29 AM
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Find a hobby. Definitely something that either gets your blood pumping (exercise). Workouts at the gym stretching, weightlifting, rowing anything that will boost confidence. Getting outdoors is super helpful for your mood. Even just walking the dog and playing fetch…it all helps.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 12:35 PM
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I love you. I want to be you when I grow up. Getting ready to file after wayward spouse got pregnant.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 04:41 AM
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She crossed known boundary and got defensive. 100% n the wrong and she’s either walking down the path or is cheating. Infidelity has already started by her taking time for another person.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 04:11 AM
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Gives me hope.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 11:23 PM
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She just told him I’m not happy. Time for OP to do a personal inventory and if she’s getting what she needs. As someone who never got a warning or list, I asked so many times, I was just leveled, discarded and surrounded by ashes.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 03:06 PM
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Sorry. I’m spiraling today. Baby daddy just met my FIL yesterday on the move to his state. I just can’t believe I’m living this and she still has such a hold of my heart. She has everything. Finally getting her 14 year old for whole school year and not splitting custody 50/50, gets a new baby, new baby daddy to help, and Baby daddy’s family for free daycare. She even has a damn interview for a job Monday she will likely crush. She always moves up in life. I guess love doesn’t compete with pragma…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 02:39 PM
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Is there anything that should cause such a betrayal? I have my flaws. I would say they are mostly domestic. Don’t cook, only grocery shop occasionally, crappy sleep hygiene. I clean as much as I can. I’m paraplegic. She had a list of grievances or issues. But, she told herself they weren’t worth mentioning even tho she did ponder divorce. She never said anything, well nothing like I’m sad feel alone. Things I did great? I provided all money for past year. I also did 95% of school runs for step d…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 01:44 PM
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I’m still in shock. I trusted her 1000%. She was moving to get sorted early as she was finishing her teaching degree and wanted get my step daughter to move up before high school. But a long time friend of hers drove the truck up there with her, and emotional gymnastics happened resulting in pregnancy. Then she took her sweet 2 1/2 month time to tell me once she knew officially and likely beyond miscarriage. To finally come clean and add she was moving to X. Not I’m pregnant I’m sorry I can’t te…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 12:43 PM
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I’m less than 2 weeks from finding out my wife cheated and is 2.5 months pregnant. Without talking to me about it she decided her fate and is actively across many states to raise the baby with AP…just a friend. I didn’t sleep or eat for days. You need friends and distraction. I’m finally eating once a day. Still only sleeping a few hours a night. I don’t work so I have to find distractions and just try to exercise. I’ve had zero say and I’ve discarded. My last years have been wiped clean. I’m st…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 05:46 AM
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