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Yes and happily so lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 02:40 AM
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Story time. One time I was on my way to bed, and I told my boyfriend (later husband) that there was a slow drip under the bathroom faucet, but I put a bucket underneath. I asked him to tighten the joint or turn is off if unsuccessful. He came to bed and I groggily asked “did you fix it?” He said “yeah, all done” In the morning, I put my feet down onto the carpet from bed into a massive flood. I ran splashing to the washroom to find paper towel wrapped and hanging from the pipe! That was his fix;…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:15 AM
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The courts will give any father 50% custody of children, whether or not he is a good father. If he claims that his wife is blocking his access, he is lying! My ex-husband had an open file for child abuse for years, and he still got 50% custody. The child services worker said that even drug addicts get 50% custody of children because addiction is considered an illness. Therefore, no access means that he did not want access=deadbeat dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 05:42 PM
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Pheromones and the fat distribution associated with hormones including follicle-stimulating hormone do indicate fertility, or a lack thereof. This is evident in odour when ovulating (or not), as you wrote, as well as the shape of the body and face with the distribution of fat. There is a definite difference between a woman’s fertile body, and a post-menopausal body, and both are beautiful. 💪🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:08 AM
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The narcissistic mother passed the baton to the narcissistic husband. I’ll bet anything that the narcissistic mother also approved/approves of the husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:42 PM
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I also noticed that Apple didn’t automatically capitalize the day as a default when I sent greetings out to my friends🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:54 AM
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Off topic but, 4 men plus... 1 other female? When are women going to stop calling each other females? Or girls? It’s bad enough that the men call full grown women girls, and women females, but we don’t have to do it to ourselves. Back to the regular post topic; I’m reading responses 😄 Also: Thank-you for the award! I love them and they are always appreciated ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:13 PM
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Super efficient vetting strategy for me. Following fitness/thirst trap/bathing suit posters makes me automatically disinterested and gives me the hardcore ick. I’m just not compatible with men who consume media like disgusting pigs. I prefer refined men and those men aren’t it. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:57 PM
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Men helping other men to get away with hurting women. It’s a story as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:31 AM
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You ask about a woman and he says that “she is just a friend”. If she were just a friend you would know her, and your internal alarm wouldn’t be sounding! Countless women on fds have found a man cheating with the woman who was “just a friend” after the man swore up and down that it was that simple. Clue: he will like her pics first, several in a row (thirsty or not) on social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 10:27 PM
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That’s a perfect day❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:23 PM
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They suck. Get it?🤣 But in all honesty, they suck and this is sad. Her husband sucks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:44 AM
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So basically he wants you to do all the work. 👎🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:17 AM
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It costs nothing and men don’t even need to shave daily, just trim it a little. For older men, beards hide the marionette lines at the sides of their mouthes. Beards also guard against ultraviolet ray skin injury completely for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:15 AM
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Thank-you Lundy for bringing attention to this, and thank-you slayeroftruth for posting this. Happens daily and it is incredibly heartbreaking💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:03 PM
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They forgot dumpster diving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:29 PM
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Even just one of these things is awful to experience. I’m sorry that he is your father :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:04 PM
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That’s queen energy right there👸👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:46 PM
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Ugh I’m sorry, that’s so disappointing. I’m not sure what I would do in that situation because it’s just plain awkward. Certainly if the topic of porn ever came up I would use that opportunity to bring awareness to him, but I can’t see that happening topic arising in daily life. You could perhaps weave it into conversation whenever you see exploitation in life, I.e., sex workers on the street, strip clubs, trips to sex tourism destinations etc. Maybe make it an ongoing campaign until he hopefull…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:51 AM
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Couldn’t agree more writingthrowitaway. The amount of people who turned a blind eye, and pretended it never happened was astounding, so if someone even acknowledged that it happened I would be so happy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:58 PM
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As someone who escaped domestic violence, I would take this as a positive and supportive comment. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:13 PM
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I call these gross men who shoot their shot the Nothing to Lose men. They already are starting at the bottom, so it’s only up from where they are. They are running a numbers game to see who has had enough trauma to take the bait. These men know that they’re unattractive in so many ways, and they are okay with that. I just say no and keep it moving😄, but part of me is always like really?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:17 PM
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Gross man who can’t compete with the hvms: Most of us are are disgusting, so you might as well settle. Line up ladies! FDS: F-off, we don’t need you or want you. We’ll wait for the hvms or nothing, thank-you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:42 AM
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A compliment or voiced respect from a nvm/lvm is almost never a compliment, and often manipulation. If you are getting a compliment from one of these men, you should see it as a red flag that you might be getting used and/or manipulated in some fashion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:18 PM
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I told my ex that I was going to have a street party if I ever divorced him, but then it happened during the pandemic. I liken the feeling to better than the first day of spring, or being released from prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:30 AM
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The organ would be hidden within several layers of tissues, deep within a cavity usually. The surgeon typically has at least one surgical assistant/dr, and that person was probably the only person to witness the engraving. Everyone else would have to be directly over the surgical incision, sterile gown on, and tall enough to see inside of the cavity and beyond all of the surgical retractors. There is another rumour floating out there of a retinal surgeon who faced litigation after lasering his i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:38 PM
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No comparison whatsoever. My ex would “clean” by throwing favourite toys in the garbage, and jamming everything else in the closet. Dinner for the kids was popcorn. No dental care for the kids whatsoever morning or night. Hours upon hours of cartoons which the children lapped up with him because I had a daily one hour screen time maximum for the children. He would have the kids nap for many hours so that their bedtime was thrown off. Then I would overhear him talking to his friends about how ama…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:10 PM
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Exactly throwawaynevermindit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 02:48 AM
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I couldn’t agree more londochig. Right after I got married, I literately said to myself “you’ve been sold a lie AAlegend”, and I felt a sense of doom. Let me tell you, it didn’t get better, and he got way worse. Throw some age on that lv/nv and you have an old, fat and ugly man living with you for years. Every time I would see him somewhere in the house I would think “are you still here??” 😂Hard pass now. Also: thanks for the award! Always nice to get and very appreciated:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:29 AM
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Pandora lovers might get defensive about OPs post, but I 100% get what she is saying (my disdain for Pandora aside). Queens, you are worth real gold and real jewels, not bought as an afterthought a few days before Christmas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:32 PM
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🙌🏻👏🏻Very satisfying!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:16 AM
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My ex dumped all of the childcare on his new fiancé. He tells her that she’s so much better than me, and that she’s an amazing mother, and she believes it😂. Meanwhile the children are asking me when they are old enough to never see their father and her again. I’m not going to hate on pick-me women, but man did he pull the wool over her eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:09 PM
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Scrotes have to realize that they can downvote to hell and send DMs, but the FDS messages and opinions are still being read and registered by hundreds of thousands of women. We KNOW when things are being downvoted by men, we aren’t stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:09 AM
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My go to tests: Do his pants fit like a woman’s in the crotch? (micro) Does he have thick thighs (big d) Slim hips can be a clue too (thin d). The first test had never let me down. Be wary of big testicles though; they can make a package look bigger but he’s all ball. Height seems not to have anything to do with it for me personally though, because my 5’ 8” ex was packing, and my slim tall man had a needle dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:48 PM
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Nailed it warinmymind94👏🏻!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:23 AM
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Heroic_nincompoop just posted something on man babies, and I think her points might hit home with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:13 PM
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The 24 hour news channels here have long sports segments every 20 minutes. I as a woman am 100% not interested in hearing sports news every 20 minutes while trying to follow world events and politics. Also, women’s sports leagues are not mentioned whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:12 PM
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We get negged instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:33 PM
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Excuse the formatting, those lists were supposed to be in list form, not typed straight across lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:02 AM
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Agreed! We seem to wait too long, giving men the benefit of the doubt that they have positive intentions. Meanwhile they have no problem wasting our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 02:16 PM
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Well, you just revealed skilled f-boy strategies. Hopefully this saves a few women from falling for the deliberate and advanced f-boy. Thank-you for taking the time to include details; this post definitely has me thinking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:18 PM
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Not everyone will be at the same point in their journey to high value, but the the issue with these types of friends is that they will pull you down. Think of the type of advice a jealous friend will give you. What kind of head space she will put you in. Life has highs and lows too; will she strike/advise poorly when you are down and not thinking straight? We aren’t a charity with men, and we shouldn’t be a charity with women. It will be in your best interests to make more friends so this one ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:07 PM
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I don’t know how to link it😂It made my mouth water (as in pre-barf) Reveal of cum on her toaster strudel came out of nowhere after a seemingly innocent title, which hit harder🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:04 AM
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Struggle love= teaching good, kind women to eat shit for life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:08 PM
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Personally I only like cum on a toaster strudel. (Still haven’t recovered from that 🤢😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:24 PM
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Unpredictable aggression, and abusers thrive on it. That would have been funny to only him and his nvm friends. Men like this who casually hurt women/children are not to be trusted, and avoided at all costs. We are already looking over our shoulders, and now classmates are are a threat too?! And no, it’s not funny, that is assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:41 PM
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Yep. I’ve been physically attacked, sexually assaulted, and been yelled at more times than I can count. When I was 11 one exposed his genitalia to me. I’m terrified to say no to any requests for money, and if they feel like addressing me in public I feel forced to respond lest they attack. Men just don’t seem to have the same fear of homeless men, funny enough 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:14 AM
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Never explain/prove yourself to a man who challenges you. That automatically puts you in defence mode with a man who just revealed himself as low/no value. His opinion and validation of you is worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:34 PM
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Sex will become a chore with him if he isn’t good at it. Throw in a full-time job, a breast-feeding child, and a wide variety of annoyances and you’ll have a dead bedroom. Take bad sex very seriously. Also why shouldn’t you have good sex? It exists, and it should exist for you. Do you really want to commit to not orgasming from desire and skill for life? That’s a huge sacrifice in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:27 AM
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Guaranteed that there are at least 5000 men who read that and believed that it was real, or could be true for one of them. It’s actually terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:23 AM
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This kept me with my horrifically abusive ex for another 9 years after my son was born. He told me that if I left him, he would go for 50% custody of my infant son. After 9 years, and many graphic videos of physical abuse of me and my son were presented in court to a WOMAN judge in Newmarket, Ontario he got 50% custody and no child support. I don’t know how that judge lives with herself; she should be ashamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 04:14 PM
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Closed mouth smile, beware🎃Those teeth might be stained/randomly placed and he might have horse gums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:25 PM
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Idk, but my horrifically abusive ex did this constantly, sooo🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:07 PM
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There are a million nvm doing this so it’s everywhere you turn. Of course if you ask them and those they associate with, they will tell you it’s normal. What are they going to say? You caught me; I’m a disgusting pervert and I should know better? Yes I want to bang that woman at work and this is my way of signalling interest? Take that action exactly for what it it, a giant, blazing red flag. Plus they are gross👎🏻🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 09:04 PM
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I 100% agree. It was never your fault, and you didn’t have a choice or chance to get away or at least spend your time doing better things. The courts need to stop this practice of ignoring the needs of the children and treating children like assets that need to be divided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 11:53 PM
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You just explained why I didn’t feel emotional intimacy with any of the men in my recent history. I couldn’t figure out what was missing! They really never knew me, even though I was trying to know them, in earnest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:30 PM
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He looks like the crypt keeper. One foot in the grave. Bet those balls are in the toilet when he pees. His jowels are dragging down his lower lip. His mouth is trapping flies like a ghoul. That poor woman, nothing is worth being with that man😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:52 PM
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It’s hard to force feed misogynistic propaganda to intelligent women for long without us eventually questioning it. That’s why we are all here. Also: good work modernmedussa. I should just follow you already lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:55 PM
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It’s such a sad and heartbreaking situation for domestic abuse victims and children. Society has truly let them down, and you’re absolutely correct in your summary of how they are treated. Thank-you for the post hereforthefreefoodok❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:28 AM
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They live life on easy street while you work and stress yourself into an early grave. Makes me so angry😡. Nice of you to take the time to give those coming up this valuable warning, thank-you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:38 AM
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1) where are his guy friends? Does he even have any? 2) he wants to be with either one of the friends but can’t, so he’s forced to date someone else. He’d be down to have sex with his friends given the chance, which he’s just waiting for (their moment of weakness).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 03:19 PM
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He looks like an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:13 AM
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Living with someone who is incompetent and dangerous puts a whole new level of stress on a woman, agreed. When you know for a fact that everything is on you, and that the man can and has hurt the children with incompetence, or has damaged the house, or has forgotten to pay bills and damages your credit score can kill a woman with stress. 100% it’s abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:28 PM
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That was a nice long read, thank-you. Please get a divorce. I don’t say that to many people, but I really want you to. You write intelligently, with some real genuine insight into your situation. You are dying on the inside, can’t you see it? You can do this, I believe in you nobodywantsurPP❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:41 PM
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Lvm/nvm giving advice. Consider the source before you entertain anyone’s advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:04 PM
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Another good post from you modernmedusaa, filled with good points and thoughtful arguments🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:27 PM
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He walked in, long testicles swinging wildly between his legs, while his limp candlestick jumped around with every step. It looked so unfortunate that I could almost picture a little apologetic frowning face on it. A waft of garlic and ball sweat punched me in the face. “Are you going to shower before you come to bed?” I asked. “Why, I don’t smell, you do” he laughed. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:12 AM
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One time I went through a man’s OLD matches and saw match after match of high quality women; educated, beautiful, fit. I was so perplexed as to why he kept swiping until I read number 6. Thank-you for solving the mystery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:33 PM
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Because we are things to them. The thing (womenkind) that is supposed to give up sex when you put coins in isn’t working; it’s defective. They feel entitled to sex like the rest of the males, and so they complain. If they saw us as human, they would understand that we have preferences just like they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:42 PM
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much respect ✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:32 PM
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Insightful and mature realizations. We call that personal growth and we are super proud🙌🏻!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:44 PM
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Fully and completely in agreement! Don’t reclaim it, change it! Please, please hard-working, dear moderators, put this as a rule in the handbook🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:03 PM
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You know what you saw ginnnnnie. Don’t doubt yourself and also give him the benefit of the doubt. Do you want your confidence obliterated in no time flat? You’re better than this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:23 PM
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I want to know how to as well. I can’t reconcile what I know with voluntarily exposing myself to emotional and/or physical harm. I’m still waiting for a man who brings something positive without hurting me badly or deceiving me. Plus who can make me orgasm, and who can afford to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:41 AM
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My daughters’ favourite movie of all time❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:35 PM
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The dilemma is that now that we know the truth, we can’t pretend that we don’t see it! That’s why I’ve turned my focus to friends who make me laugh, my career, and my children (pets for those who aren’t having children).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:25 PM
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Married women will drop “my husband” this, and “my husband” that. Mrs, your husband was checking out my ass yesterday, and you couldn’t pay me to marry him. No envy here, you’re not part of an exclusive I Got Picked club. Now go inside and pick up his dirty underwear off the floor. A little humour here but I feel sorry for 95% of married women. Not their faults that they were sold an illusion. Still 100% in support of all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:46 PM
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Round of applause!!! Nailed it nikkirosex3, well done!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:36 PM
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Does laughing during sex count? At one point I started laughing out loud because it was like getting poked with a mini-golf pencil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:44 PM
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Fds hand book material right here. I can’t stress how important this post is sisters, this queen knows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:20 AM
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I dated an introvert for 3 years while in uni, and let me tell you, that man could talk in private! It grew tiresome going anywhere in public with him though, because the onus was always on me to carry conversations with family and friends. I was, and am, an extroverted introvert. It wasn’t bad, but not optimal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:10 AM
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Nicely written! I’m convinced! I believe you’ve just won your case (you deserve a legally blond quote; which is a very nice compliment from me, and not bestowed on just anyone;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:07 AM
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I ❤️the essays on fds, just saying. I live for this truth dropping, and it’s so good when my old perceptions and ideas are challenged! Great post as usual modernmedusaa🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:43 AM
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The amount of annoyance that I get with performance whistlers is out of this world. Never seen a woman doing it though🧐. Screaming sneezes annoy me too lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:23 AM
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100% if I could I would have saved the over $100 000 and counting that I spent/am spending on lawyer fees fighting my children’s deadbeat dad, and put it towards a sperm bank and child care. I regret procreating with my ex daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:40 PM
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That’s like saying “I sit and nod very well”. Is there a test after? Is there closed-loop communication? Idk, I have to agree with you here swatir24, good observation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:22 PM
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This post is truth and wisdom. Listen to this poster ladies, she knows!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:19 PM
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Sorry Okami-Sama, I can feel your disappointment. That sucks that you’re hurting:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:48 AM
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Lil’ d*ck boys are all in a rage😂. Big boys are like she knows what’s up (get it? What’s up?😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:44 PM
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There was recently a post on mixed signals which could be of value. Mixed signals=he doesn’t care or he is using you. Couple that with if he wanted to, he would, and you have your answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:22 PM
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I have friends who are single women, so I notice this a lot less than with my partnered friends. Then I also have other areas where I have friends groups, like my school friends, my work friends, my writing group friends, and my mom friends. My partnered friends don’t seem to matter as much when I have all of these other friend groups going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:48 PM
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If they wanted to they would. Men don’t care if we orgasm, or care enough to try. Or they try to their limit of caring, which often amounts to two minutes of ineffective stimulation. There was this one man who actually made cunnilingus painful by sucking like a high-powered vacuum but that’s another story😂. That guy was just unfortunate because he genuinely didn’t know what he was doing. Huge d though😍so I let it go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:18 PM
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No faster way to kill all attraction than parenting a grown man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:54 PM
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Madonna/whore complex at play here, or if you’re not the Madonna, you’re the mother to him and the kids, and he’s keeping you at arm’s length.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:41 PM
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Oh yeah so gorgeous 🤭🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:23 PM
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Every path to a big mistake down the road started with a woman ignoring red flags early on. You know the answer, you just don’t like the answer because it hurts (it would hurt anyone). Sometimes you have to be brave in the beginning to save yourself an even bigger injury later on, and remember how incredibly precious your time and youth are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:21 PM
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I’m sorry for your disappointment, but so proud of your decision not to gaslight yourself!❤️This is a real example of FDS working in the wild, folks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:12 PM
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Because it’s misogynistic propaganda. Sad part is, many women adopted it, but in a nutshell it is hate directed at women. Now any time a woman (not men) has a valid complaint and voices it, she risks being called a Karen and so is effectively gagged by the men who made that name up. Mission accomplished, males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:38 PM
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You’re more likely to be saved by your pet dog. Edit: Or your cat. Tons of brave felines out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:36 AM
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Those with boundaries or self-respect need not apply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:10 PM
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Do your job nanny/bangmaid! Wtf is wrong with you?! It’s so hard to get a good wife appliance these days, they don’t make them like they used to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:46 PM
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My ex did 90% of these over 16 years, and it actually blows my mind that I was so trusting of a truly bad person. But he was my husband, right? 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:09 PM
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That would be a dealbreaker for normal people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:07 PM
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Normally men don’t need to try with a pick-me, and this is what this man has experienced for a lifetime. This “date” would normally have worked, except this woman wasn’t a pick-me, and there were consequences to his no/low value behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:54 PM
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Every time I’ve tried to force something or talk myself into something I’ve regretted it. People have a type, and I’m not saying that you can’t have another type, but it shouldn’t take convincing yourself to feel something. There was my first boyfriend who was a slow burn, but I was amused by him from the start so there was something to grow from:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:23 PM
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I’m at number 8. Nice recap of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:38 AM
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It’s body oil like an otter or water dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:20 PM
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I feel like I need to watch it because apparently there is a shower scene with a very big d*ck. It will be with a very critical eye though Junior-Lion. (Sounds pick-me/lv/nv from what you describe though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:24 PM
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For a moment there I thought that they’d punch the bouquet or slap it down. Either one would have worked for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:55 PM
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Would he say this to a man? All answers point to he’s being creepy/gross, and misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:27 PM
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They just love wasting our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:19 PM
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My gut is telling me no on this one 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:08 PM
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Someone recently posted about the lack of feminist dating literature written by women. I would like to see an fds book published that I can give to my children, including my son. I also think this post should be included in the content, as I’ve read it three times and I think that i just had a mind shift!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:57 PM
89

I would like to unroll this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:28 PM
38

He’s planting the thread of doubt in everything that you do. It’s manipulative as Phoenix said, and also abusive. Eventually the thread of doubt works on its own, as it will be built into your psyche. You will second guess everything, question yourself. This also helps him gaslight you at a later date, or tell you that he told you so when things statistically don’t go your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:45 PM
36

Like looking for a mushroom hidden in moss. Odds weren’t in your favour Platipus (or his favour)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:36 AM
146

My two exes who had the smallest penises had one thing in common. Their jeans fit like women’s jeans. No bulge in that area, no wrinkles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:42 PM
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Until there are actions with these displays, all of the shows and words are almost meaningless. I want to see 50% women employed on all positions from president down in companies. I want to see equal pay, and benefits to support women to have children without getting penalized in the workplace. Men need to stop getting away with the literal rape and murder of women and children. There is literal terrorism going on against women, and we are getting posters and banners. Women should start directin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 12:14 PM
27

Are 25-34 year olds considered young men really? To me a young man is up to 25. Beyond that they are simply men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:49 PM
56

It’s a beautiful fantasy life for some, to escape life for whatever reason. It probably feels nice to connect with someone, but it’s not the most real relationship someone can have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:49 PM
81

Well written piece! This is why fds is so important! If you are surrounded by pick-mes, they will help you gas light yourself. Surround yourself with high-value women, and you will get great wisdom. Why do we give the benefit of the doubt to men who have largely proven themselves to be deceptive and untrustworthy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:39 PM
52

How much do you want to bet that this guy gets off scott free?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:02 AM
3

There isn’t any debate here. This is part of misogyny in media, via article messaging to make it appear normal and factual. Finding a few pick-me women to interview isn’t hard. They need to ask high value women and publish that, but they won’t, will they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:03 PM
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Oh wow, you know when you read something and you can’t possibly agree more?! These are all ways in which society encourages us to settle for less, and to gaslight ourselves. There are people winning, and believe me, they aren’t following these mantras. You’ll get taken over and over if you believe these and you’ll be confused why things aren’t going your way! Personally, in the past year I have implemented a new rule, whereby if I invite a friend somewhere and he or she doesn’t answer, or answer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:29 AM
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A predator hunted you and used you until you figured it out; don’t be too hard on yourself Twerk. I hope that this beautifully crafted letter brings you some healing, and I know that you hope it helps other unaware pick-mes come out of the abusive fog. I’m actually certain that it will! Nice high value woman action!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:18 PM
36

Yikes, okay that’s worse lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:25 AM
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My ex got our children’s, names, birthdays and place of birth wrong on three separate court documents. He actually inserted a WHOLE OTHER NAME in for my middle daughter. Just some random name! This is for the court case that I lost when my ex claimed parental alienation and the judge refused videos of abuse. I paid his court costs, and he got out of child support. I’m looking at you judge woman in Newmarket, Ontario.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:13 PM
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I never understood why women praise men heavily for asking for a full grown woman’s hand in marriage from her father. It always felt to me like it was a transfer of property agreement. I would prefer to see something like a family approval, or at the bare minimum both parents (if they are not narcissistic, and mentally sound). The transfer of property is further perpetuated at the wedding ceremony, where the father walks her down the isle and “gives her away”! Then the groom unveils the woman li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:04 AM
16

This made me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:14 PM
66

I think that women who are okay with small penises just haven’t tried a big penis. Big ones are so much fun and feel fantastic, but if you are content not to try, that’s a woman’s choice I suppose. It would be a crying shame to never experience one though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:48 PM
415

Can I add deadbeat dads and abusive fathers please? The list looks a little light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:40 PM
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Let me tell you, it’s hard. I feel extremely negative when I warn my daughter about men, and educate her on misogyny, and I’m sure that my son feels like I’m critical and attacking him when I tell him what his kind is responsible for. It’s hard to tell the truth without hurting either one, no matter how hard I try to buffer it with positive messaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:38 AM
16

By females, you mean women. I get what you’re saying though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:06 AM
19

Beautifully written, intelligent post eveloe! My brain keeps on changing female dating strategy to feminist dating strategy and I’m not changing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:03 PM
49

My ex told me that he would jump off of a building if I went through with a pregnancy. I went alone and aborted, completely against my will as I didn’t want to be responsible for his suicide. I was completely capable of supporting myself, and had my own house at that point, but I couldn’t think straight and couldn’t tell anyone. I later went on to marry this abuser, and had kids with him but I never forgot that baby. I wish that fds was around then; the decision breaks my heart to this day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:12 PM
59

This seems far-fetched and hard to believe but it is 100% true and it happened to me. Listen to this poster! I didn’t even know that fake parental alienation claims existed, and wasn’t prepared. To the woman judge in Newmarket, Ontario, shame on you for refusing my videos of child abuse as evidence, and having me pay my ex’s court costs (losing the case).You knew that this was a thing. Absolutely disgusting, I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I did this to another woman who experienced ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:48 PM
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This feels like a public hoover, victim style. She will feel vindicated, go back, only to have him press repeat on the whole thing. Stay gone sis; it’s always the correct answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:43 PM
4

Nursing is a great career, and men are everywhere; can’t avoid them. Don’t let it stop you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:52 PM
4

It’s a downtown hospital in Toronto. These things happened while we were unscrubbed. The up against the wall assault was in the sterile core while I was quietly picking supplies for the next case and a new grad, all of 23 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:42 PM
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As an OR nurse, I’ve been pinned against a wall and grinded against to the point that my feet were off the floor for tens seconds by a doctor who I had only exchanged two words with a week prior. A cleaning man touched my breast in slow motion while putting up a safety bar while smiling at me. Another doctor put his hand on my breast “to get my pen”, and last week a doctor screamed and pointed two fingers two inches past my face because he was tired from doing a case that he literally did not sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:40 PM
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