Man asks girl if she would like to have sex. Girl says no. Man keeps "gaming" her throughout the night, and eventually she relents and has sex with him.
No, it's not hard for many guys. I'm all for the playful chase. It's sexy. You should be able to tell when she's enjoying it (giggling, squirming, etc.) But if you're begging and she seems legitimately disinterested and not into it at all, let her watch TV or eat ice cream or whatever she's trying to do.
If I, as a man, proposition a woman for sex and she turns me down, is there ever an appropriate amount of time after which I could ask her again while still maintaining her boundaries? Yes, I read the question.
If you have to keep begging her for sex, maybe she isn't the right partner for you. Find someone that's comfortable doing it with you instead of coercing people into it.
But that's what you're doing right now. You're personalizing my comments and taking offense to things that are not offensive. I don't see anything uncivil in this thread.
You need to stop with the civil comments because nothing about that comment is uncivil. I feel like you just want to ban me because of a personal problem, but as a mod, you should keep your personal problems out of this and be professional. :-)
I know my life and what's going on in it. A delusional man on the Internet is not going to tell me I have a swarm of betas. That's just not gonna happen. I do not make anything difficult for guys. You, and all of your baggage and delusions and personal problems, need to sit down.
If you think women have swarms following them around, I think you guys have the problem and not us. No, I don't keep a herd of 'betas' around to do chores for me. That's not how real life relationships work.
Because wanting women to be protected and not get raped is moral, and it shouldn't be a moral obligation to have sex with someone? Maybe that's why. I cannot believe you just typed all that. Incredible.
Try to see it from a woman's point of view. To us, having dick 'readily available' does not mean we are spoiled. It means 'ew, get away from me'. If you think most women want to prostitute themselves, you are crazy. To men, prostitution is a dream job. To us, not so much.
No, they are not. Unattractive people date unattractive people. Those who don't either whine because they can't, or brag about dating a more attractive person. Which is why you are sitting here spewing that bs right now about fat women having high standards.
Hmm, maybe I'll do it to this boy in front of me who has been awkwardly staring at me for the past couple of days. XD Indeed. My school is full of fuckboys.
I'm shy and I rarely get approached. A part of getting approached is showing men that you're open and you won't reject them. Otherwise, they will be scared to approach you. I don't smile/make eye contact or any of that. So I don't get approached, unless it's by a loud/douchey kind of guy, and those are rare.
Yea, I mean after the teacher calls me out for having the highest grade or whatever, people start asking me for help. But before that, they just assume I'm dumb.
If you're only buying meals with the expectation of sex, don't buy the fucking meals. Chances are it's not going to happen on the first night. Bare minimum. LOL. It's the bare minimum for you to get me an appetizer and a dessert.
No it doesn't. I got blush, concealer and eyeliner at the store this weekend for $160. For 3 things. (I didn't pay for it but whatever) Quality makeup doesn't come cheap...
Yes :) Without the physical attributes we still look prettier. I was looking in the 'average man/woman' thread and for the pic of the average guy I was like 'ew!' but the average woman looked pretty. Women's faces are just prettier. If you look in nature, generally males are prettier than the females, like those colorful tropical birds. Humans were made to be the opposite, I guess.
Wahhh! Wahhh! Why does anorexia exist then? Why are girls constantly crying and picking over their looks then? I would know. Literally every girl at my school calls themselves ugly/fat, even the pretty ones.
The average woman is prettier than the average man. We are more concerned with how we look. Men will just leave the house looking like anything. That's unattractive. :)
The average woman works harder than the average man to look good. Makeup, pedicures, nice clothes, etc. The average man dresses plain, looks plain, and does nothing to attract a mate whatsoever.
I'm a virgin. The average thing may be true, but pretty much everyone I talk to tells me that, so...I believe I'm pretty. Idk my BF percentage but I'm 5'3 110 so...yeah.
Nice to know that I'm a failure because I can't get a man to stick his penis inside of me. Being socially awkward does not make any woman a failure. I don't care what you have to say. I'm smart, I'm beautiful, and I have value outside of my vagina. You know what makes a man a failure? Having to resort to reading books and looking at a fucking online forum to get his dick wet. That's a failure. If you want to be on the topic of failures. You know what makes a man a failure? Focusing on what a wom…
Well, no it doesn't encourage it. The point of feminism is women's rights. Liberating women to do as they please. Women have been encouraged enough in the past to be housewives, they don't need a progressive movement to do it.
Feminism DOES NOT SAY being a housewife, feminine or whatever is BAD. It's liberating the women that DO want to pursue a career and be independent. The main goal of feminism is female autonomy. Doing what you want to do.
If a woman leaves the house with her hair not done, clothes hanging off, smelly, etc., that shit is not attractive. What is so hard to understand about that?
Indeed, it's horrible. I too got interrupted to do something when I was about to cum, and every little thing turned me on. It felt like I was going to explode. Not a pleasant feeling when you're trying to get something done x)
I don't think 22% is a groundbreaking amount. It doesn't represent most men. But yes, getting free things is nice :) No thank you to the women part. I want something nice and hard to rub against. :3
Omg, all the time. I hate being interrupted :(( it makes me want to cry...especially when I'm in that stage close to orgasm. It's like a mixture of anger and sadness. Ruined orgasms are especially distressing. Like...I'm almost there ;-;
If you're maliciously doing it, that's not okay. If you say it's because of their environmental conditions and not because they're inherently dumber than whites, it is okay.
If that's the case thre would be no buzz about sexual harassment. You have probably never been to a club yourself, so if I were you I would be quiet. :-)
Of course not. Men aren't either. There are some men that are down for it, but the majority are not. But the difference is, we are physically weaker. Would you like to be an oil rig worker? No.
women are not entitled to equal income because they are women then. No, we're not. You're right. We are entitled to it because we work equally as hard and do the same amount of work as men, and it makes no sense to get paid less.
sigh TRP is considered a hate sub because of some of the scornful things said about women throughout the sub. Saying a group of people 'lacks empathy' or has a 'childlike brain' is not exactly a loving, tender thing to do. And that's among other things. What will it take for you people to realize this is not ok?
Um, no. You're wrong. I know many people who found their spouses/SOs online. Just because there is a lower success rate doesn't mean there is none. Offline relationships have the exact same success rate.
This thread is messy xD I don't know if this is a "hot" perk, but I can literally get away with doing anything in class (doing my makeup, playing games, eating, etc). The teachers jump on everyone else, but they never call me out on it. So that's pretty cool. :D
You people talk like we have some kind of sinister plan to "make" men buy us stuff. If a guy offers to take me to lunch, I'm going to take the offer. No bad motives here. :-)
My life is pretty much like a normal person, I just get away with more stuff because people think I'm innocent, and I get free things sometimes. I still have enemies and people who treat me poorly, so my life isn't 100% sunshine.
No it doesn't. People are literally in my face every day at this new school and I don't know how to keep anyone's attention for a long time. I feel like such an outcast.
Attractive people get away with doing nasty shit. And women are not only attracted to 10/10 men. Tinder is a hookup app. Who wants to give up their goods alone to an ugly man on an app where you look at a picture to see if you want someone? But that doesn't represent real life.
What's wrong with that? Are we supposed to date an ugly man? The average woman gets like 30 messages on these sites...do you really expect us to pick an ugly man? I don't understand.
Yea, look at how they're acting in this thread with a woman that linked some unconventional dating sites. It's impossible. They're stuck in that mindset.
That's what emotional abuse does. She felt like he was the only one that would ever love her. The fact that you would turn this into some disgusting alpha/beta story is just downright foul. Also, the child turned out to be a very sweet and kindhearted boy with a love for animals. Not a demonic offspring.
Because they think all single mothers got impregnated by a bad boy and now they have no empathy for them. The truth of it is, everyone is different. My friend said her bf was the sweetest guy in the world, then he started to emotionally abuse her, got her pregnant, and didn't claim the child.
The teacher pretty much just gave us cross sections of cubes and spheres and then said 'Now it's time to make a car!' and gave us the materials and I had no idea what to do. But everyone else did. Building things is very hard for me. I used to hate things like arts and crafts where I had to fold and cut paper to make shapes. Something about it doesn't work in my head. I can think of the basic functions of cars, like...there's a motor inside that moves it forward. But too much explaining makes my…
I didn't know what was going on. It was so confusing. Everyone else was making mini-cars and trucks for the project, and I just had a stick with wheels. And that's because a guy did half of it for me because he saw me struggling.
Why would what someone said reflect their personal belief about that matter. .-. Personally I refuse to do the snowflake thing with TRP because of AWALT xD No sympathy here. 100000 threads full of nasty and unnecessary quotes about women and I'm supposed to pay attention to the 1 or 2 terpers saying it's not okay? ...nah.
Because men are nasty and will stick their dick in anything. Women aren't that nasty and also, there's a pressure for us about sex. So because of that, we try to only give it up to guys we're attracted to.
Why do people keep saying this? For a below average/socially awkward man, yes it's hard. Don't bring the other 70% of the male population into this pity party.
Mostly out of nowhere. Pretty much every girl I've been in contact with for a short while. At the mall, at lunch, makeup stores, buying cupcakes. Always girls. Never guys.
I honestly don't know XD it makes me angry that that many people would lie to me. I've thought I'm ugly for years and im just now climbing out of that. And the lies aren't helping me to think better at all. But I'm not about to let people who don't know what I look like tell me I'm ugly XD im sorry. Hold eye contact XD im not confident enough for that.
first of all, you don't know what I look like, second of all, I see ugly/fat girls complain of being approached all the time. So even if i am ugly, that's not the case. Yall are delusional and think only hot girls get approached, but that's not true. I don't get approached because I'm unlucky, not because I'm ugly.
Family members (of course), and random girls, like girls at shops or at school and stuff. Girls in my class. No boys though. I'm a boy repellant. Yeah, I see it a lot too. Everyone but me.
Indeed! I want to make top chef type stuff. I want to be the auntie that does yoga, has a six pack, and makes a buffet worth of food for dinner every day XD The one that everyone wants to stop by the house just for food ! Ahaha :D
Calm down. I'm pretty much attracted to anybody that gives me attention (like, say, asking for help on homework or something), the problem is actually getting something to work with them, which never happens .-. I was attracted to a fat guy with pimples once, but he never returned it.
Lower my standards. I don't have any standards, no one talks to me so how can I have standards if I don't have anybody to shoot down? What the fuck is wrong with this world?
Male incels have to work harder than the average guy .-. so they just give up, like me. What fun is that? Drooling over a guy that doesn't want you? .-.
I kind of feel like you right now. Getting laid is hard enough, might as well do that and hope a relationship can come out of it XD Getting a vibrator is illegal for me.
I look good enough right now, I mean I am trying to get in the gym and wear waist trainers but I think I look good now. I'M shy so no thanks on game and whatever.
Requirements for a woman to find a good man: Don't be too fat. how do you explain all the 30 year old women on facebook that can't find a good man then
Then don't marry a gold diggin bitch I know what I'm sayin. Cuff a bitch that can cook and do shit and won't suck the money outta wallet. If you too stupid to see the difference that's when u don't get married
I just logged in to say AMEN AMEN, PREACH it's some messed up mafackas up in here. Got folks starving themselves crying every night to look like a skeleton. It's not right. You're supposed to eat normal portions, exercise, and live life happily. I'm not a stick but I still get love. Lots of it. ;D Church.
