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It's our mannerisms and vocabulary. And how excited we get when we meet someone who accepts us for us, or so we think at the time. And the other idiosyncrasies, the individual ones because not one autistic person is identical to another. We also see the world quite differently from those who are, ahem, not on the spectrum. I can tell when someone is lying to me or deceiving me when I don't know them, but as soon as I develop some sort of attachment, that all goes away and I'm blind to it. Yeess!…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 08:07 PM
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VERY WELL SAID! I, too, am Autistic and have trauma and I understand everything you said. I've even had similar experiences with other traumatized people (similarly believing I'm out to get them and all I can do is just cry and stare in awe). I was very similar to that girl you mentioned above, but I did actually go get help. That place she's in is a very scary place. You're not even yourself. With me, I didn't even remember being that person. I was dissociated and out of it. A completely differ…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 04:53 PM
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Is English even your first language? You're trying to quote me and make it seem as if I'm saying all Red Pillers are bad, which I'm not. If you do not do the behaviours I speak about, then there is nothing to be concerned over. Even if I was making fun, then it's still only towards the ones who do certain things (like doubling down on the correspondence bias). And what pseudoscience? I literally put my resources and a disclaimer at the bottom that says I'm trying to detox because of my toxic Red…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 04:37 PM
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Doesn't fucking matter. That was never said. 🤣 Go away.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 03:21 PM
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Can I answer this as a woman who has found out and called out many of my friends using these things on me when we weren't even dating?
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 07:44 PM
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The women that do write them are not mentally well, obviously. They clearly are attracted to dangerous men, but that doesn't mean all women are. I personally have no desire to do that even with my own mental health issues. I would rather stare googly-eyed into Ryan Reynolds dressed like Deadpool than give anyone in prison the time of day. Even then though, it was only hundreds of letters and women, not tens of thousands or millions. That's clearly not even close to majority behaviour so it can b…
/r/ExRedPill11/11/22 07:23 AM
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"Unfortunately, so many people assume on a regular basis which causes them to become upset and disappointed with other people. These feelings are based on an illusion that what they are assuming is true. One of the most significant lessons to remember is that you don’t ever know for sure what someone is thinking." https://aspiremag.net/never-assume-you-know-what-someone-else-is-thinking/
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 06:45 PM
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https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/ad-hominem Nein. Your video is off-topic and has little to do with my post. You then created a false position for me of which I declined to take, attacked that, and then you make comments regarding my empathy level because I won't take ownership of the position you pushed on me, of which you're not able to accurately discern via text. The question at the end is also not my regarding my points. This whole conversation you've created is in bad faith. I don't waste …
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 06:16 PM
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https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/strawman
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 04:36 PM
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Are we really PUBLICALLY discrediting people based on action figures that are probably just decor? What a low bar. Sad.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/22 09:58 PM
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It's not as simple as that. It's being hurt and choosing to then take that hurt, triangulate others into their misery, maybe even "expose" others for their behaviours that are similar to their hurt further ruining lives, and then sell programs based on that hurt so the other hurt people can hurt others. Everyone gets hurt, but what is the healthy way to deal with that hurt? It's not what they teach.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/22 01:36 PM
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This is for those who are on the Autism spectrum and seem to be attracting only people who Red Pill is often talking about. I struggled with this myself for many years until I finally got the right help from a professional who taught me about the things that make me susceptible to toxic or abusive partners. I thought I would share for others who keep questioning this as well.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/22 12:40 AM
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Ah okay, so she's incapable of feeling empathy? Did she have heavy trauma? Unfortunately that causes hundreds of millions of people to detach from their emotions and they can no longer feel what the other person feels.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 08:59 PM
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My homie, just don't. It's strongly recommended that you don't. I had that same mentality after one of my exes who was a covert narcissist quite literally destroyed my life behind the scenes and then tried claiming to be the best boyfriend ever and the victim in all of it. It's created a legal headache that I don't wish on others and it's not worth it. Sometimes you can't win with them. Stop digging the whole, climb out, and just walk away. Revenge is digging two graves. 'Be unlike the one who c…
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 08:06 PM
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It's a lot of projection in many cases. They don't like themselves and so they put that pain on others to knock them down to make themselves feel better. It's honestly just like that 5th grade school bully but someone who never grew out of it. A lot of this stuff would stop if they got proper mental health care and worked on their traumas. https://www.everydayhealth.com/emotional-health/psychological-projection-dealing-with-undesirable-emotions/
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 07:29 PM
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I don't have time to read them quite yet, but I traced back the studies for those interested. Reference Sources: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352250X14000104?via%3Dihub https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-46657-001 https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2012-03207-013 https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1986-21992-001 I unfortunately do not have access though, so if anyone can post better links, please do.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 01:52 PM
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I simple Google search reveals the source article: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201905/can-love-survive-without-passion
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 01:36 PM
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Dread (verb): anticipate with great fear Game (noun): a form of play or sport So therefore, "dread game" is using their target's/victim's emotions as a game or sport to create great fear. It's usually done in combination with other emotionally abusive tactics to leverage their victim's emotions in their favour. This often causes mental breakdowns because in many cases the dread gamer lets the power corrupt them and they end up abusing that power over their victim to the point where it quite lite…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 12:25 PM
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