ABitterPanacea Archive

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2	I'm [20] going on a date with an older woman [44] this Thursday for the first time. What are some differences between dating older women compared to younger women? Convo would go like this (After heavy kino, making out, hands wandering and flirting) OP: "Want to get out of here?" Cougar: "I thought you'd never ask!" OP: " I can't bring you over to mine, but will The Marriot (or any other hotel chain) keep you happy?" Remember keep it light and use teasing language too. I'm assuming you don't have a place of your own which is why I reccomend a hotel room, but if she offers her place or you have your own go for it. Just remember to have fun and don't over th…	/r/seduction	09/10/19 07:19 PM
1	I'm [20] going on a date with an older woman [44] this Thursday for the first time. What are some differences between dating older women compared to younger women? You dont know her living situation; might have kids, might be working on being separated. Unless she offered her place I think staying at a room at a hotel would be smarter and smoother than trying to figure it all out	/r/seduction	09/10/19 07:10 PM
9	I'm [20] going on a date with an older woman [44] this Thursday for the first time. What are some differences between dating older women compared to younger women? She already decided to bang you; don't mess it up. Don't mention anything in regards to kids/family/past history unless she brings it up to converse. Don't act intimidated, but don't over compensate. Don't be afraid to establish kino very early (a nice strong and firm hug with some squeezing at the waist and a kiss) . Expect the date to be short with around 2-3 drinks and some small apps before getting finally to the point of getting out of there to bang. Don't ask to go back to hers, I'd reccom…	/r/seduction	08/10/19 02:06 PM
3	Badasses of seddit, what mindsets/mantras did you use to turn from a boy/"beta" to a real manly man who is on top of his sh*t? Everything is conditional and there is nothing you cannot recover from. Embrace taking the loss, embrace humility and modesty and don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Don't try to rush it because this way of thinking is only achieved through compounding experiences and self reflections. Most importantly, enjoy this change. It's not like you can flick a switch a bam, you are some don draper mother fucker. It takes the expanding of a broader scope of life. Some things to keep in mind: No mon…	/r/seduction	15/06/15 02:58 AM
1	Seen as a bad boy from girls, and a goof from my friends. Same as you. Basically what they're saying is this: I don't want my attraction to you to be blatant, however the inability of you going in for the kill when many opportunities were present makes me feel like you get around, since you don't appear that invested nor have any urgency on escalating with me. You're thinking too much about it. Literally just start being more of a sexual being, you're fine but know when to touch them. Rewire your thinking. Its OK to touch a women when you share a laugh…	/r/seduction	29/10/14 03:23 AM
1	How do you get an abundance mentality mindset when you don't actually have anything close to abundance? Alot of people here have touched on what abundance is but haven't gotten to the actually principle behind it. Abundance mentality is simply the following: You are an awesome and valued individual in your own respect. How you come to that validating realization is independent of the women you interact with. Since validation is seperate from your interaction with women, closes, rejections, and f-closes are a bi-product of your ability to properly present the best current version of you to this wom…	/r/seduction	12/05/14 09:15 PM
1	9 months into a relationship. PUA skills fading. Happened to me except I was going through military training. Realize these things. She fell for who you were but that doesn't neccesarily mean she will stay for who you become. Leave time for the things that made you whole. During training I lost things I identified myself with (music, photography, philosophy, etc) and couldn't relay and immerse in these passions. This led me to seeking this inner rush for these things via my girl. She should not be your anchor, not yet at least. Also there are …	/r/seduction	09/05/14 06:33 AM
3	Using Pheromones sprays Alright I'll give you some levity since I am well versed in both subjects. First, pheromomes DO work to a certain degree. I havent used those specific products you listed but pheromones steer situations and conversations to your advantage and depending on what kind of pheromone you utilize. You can increase the sexuality of a conversation, to increase your value however you have to do the rest of the work. Imagine it like this, pheromones are like wearing a new, fitted suit. Yes initially you'll…	/r/seduction	26/04/14 01:36 PM
2	How do you deal with academic/life confidence killers? As a soon to be officer In the military, I can't help bit relate to how you feel. When you're put in a position of such high stress that demands so much from you, the way you perceive things becomes a bit "wonky". You, just like me, are grouped with an outstandingly bright and gifted bunch of individuals. What you have to remember however is no matter how you preside within thay group, you yourself are part of an ELITE and dedicated percentile that will be soon be able to call themselves Doctors…	/r/seduction	11/02/14 05:51 AM
3	How do you get back your game after a break-up? If i wasn't a broke college student, I would give you gold. I needed this. Also lessons learned from my break-up (3 months too) is NEVER put your source of happiness all in one person. Seriously, that is unattractive and leads to clingy traits, not to mention all the pressure. So as much as it may suck, live life, enjoy, no contact, etc. You're in college my friend, just start talking to girls again and it'll all come back. Especially let your friends know how much you need them if its a hard br…	/r/seduction	22/01/14 07:47 AM