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It doesnt apply to us - not because "most men bad", but because we really shouldn't care about these dumb ass opinions in the first place. Yes, bad men exist, nobody is denying that - but seeing something this dumb written down should automatically make you know it doesnt apply to you (edit: typo)
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 10:25 AM
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To a degree, this is true - just not in a way that was said here
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 08:24 AM
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What the fuck. These people are sick in the head
/r/MensRights14/08/24 07:53 PM
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I dont like how "the time wasted' was compared to what men could PROVIDE in that time, but yeah, the point was driven throigh nonetheless. The post was made for the general public after all But these are heartbreaking stats
/r/MensRights06/08/24 06:15 PM
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Morning wood actually comes from a hormone (i forgot the name), which is sometimes released during REM sleep (it allows blood flow into your Johnson) - which is the "transition" stage of sleep between being awake and deep sleep, so it happens in the morning
/r/MensRights18/07/24 10:06 AM
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Oh, shut up. If you're upset that women chose the bear, you're part of the problem! /s
/r/MensRights11/06/24 08:24 PM
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Thats what we like to see. Stay reasonable, the real world aint as bad as social media wants you to think
/r/MensRights22/05/24 01:34 PM
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"But its men, doing it to other men. Women need a safe space from men, not other women" /s
/r/MensRights22/05/24 12:34 PM
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Oh, for sure. A female friend is a complete dumpsterfire of emotional impulses and bad decisions and gets offered company, gets asked to hang out by people, is taken seriously, etc. And similar is true for other women i know, but she is an extreme example (we're no longer in contact, bc fuck that) When i had depression / self-esteem issues and didn't even try to make a big deal out of it, i was talked down to, shunned, avoided, etc. I basically pulled myself up by my bootstraps and at least now …
/r/MensRights22/05/24 07:26 AM
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Suck it up, keep doing your job well and next time she belittles you, tell her to eat shit (assuming you're doing your job well, of course. Otherwise you'll look like a freeloader)
/r/MensRights10/05/24 06:53 AM
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Sorry, as a man, i havent gone through my mandatory 40h of rape training yet, so i cant speak on the topic
/r/MensRights04/05/24 06:17 PM
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Can you send a link to that please? Not that i dont believe it, i just need the source for when its brought up again
/r/MensRights04/05/24 07:36 AM
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Actually, tigers, worldwide have only killed 55 people (edit: per year), which is much less than bears, while the sightings are in the thousands - which makes a really low statistic. But that wasnt even my point. Im flipping yout script by saying "im alone, hiking in the woods. I'd much rather just meet a tiger than a woman, because at least the tiger might kill me, altho a low chance, but women are unpredictable and she might nake up ALL sorts of stories about what i did to her, which can ruin …
/r/MensRights04/05/24 07:18 AM
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Thank you, so what you're saying is that this whole thing is sexist as fuck! Thats my point! You're starting this whole thing off by assuming the man will do somwthing awful to you. Its sexist as shit, dehumanizing and reduces men down to aggressive, violent rapists. How do you not see the problem in this?
/r/MensRights04/05/24 07:01 AM
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Except that you said that you dont "need anyone else for cooperation or survival" - stating that it's better to meet an actual bear than a man, because you dont need their help. So in an equal scenario, i'd rather meet a mobster than any random individual, because i dont need help with directions. Or, that i'd rather meet a tiger than a woman, because "at least the tiger wont falsly accuse me of rape". And if my comparison sounds sexist and bigoted, thats because it is. I've literally just flipp…
/r/MensRights03/05/24 09:43 PM
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The assumption there is that i think the pastor's statement is fine. Its not. Its equally disgusting. And when you say "bears dont give a fuck about people", are you implying that men... do? And the problem is that they do in a bad way? Like, the first instinct is "that man will do something awful. That sounds like a predjudice based on gender, which by definition is misandry and it pretty messed up if you see all men this way. Statistically, bears are more dangerous worldwide than men and even …
/r/MensRights03/05/24 09:39 PM
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Now you're plain ignoring my points entirely lol. I have you actual statistics and did the math.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 08:18 AM
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Says the person who avoided 4 other talking points of mine, even when i brought it back to YOUR argument on the US statistics about bears, even though globally, they are more dangerous than men. Your head seems to be really far up your ass, respectfully.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 08:14 AM
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0.01* And please stay on the thread where i present a multitude of other points on why this conclusion is immoral.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 08:08 AM
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Is it not a fact that domestic violence stats are pretty equal between the genders? Is it also not a fact that a lot more is talked aboit women's safety than men? That stories like "husband abused wife for years before killing her" get much more traction than "woman cuts off a guy's dick and makes him eat it, because he liked another girl's instagram post"? Would is not be safe to assume that women are MORE afraid of men, simply because they're told they need to be afraid more? Is it also not a …
/r/MensRights03/05/24 07:38 AM
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National coalition against domestic violence (NCSDV), the domestic violence hotline, centers for disease control and prevention, etc. The stats are pretty consistent
/r/MensRights03/05/24 07:22 AM
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Interesting you say that because in 2023 in japan, the number of attacks were 193, compared to the 19192 bear sightings, which results in exactly 1%. Not everything revolves around the US and thats what i meant when i said the data varies. Im not the one who is arguing in bad faith. Most men are good people and its sad that people like you cant accept that. Nobody even considered that a man in the woods could be a great source of protection and a survival buddy. Everyone defaults to rapes and mu…
/r/MensRights03/05/24 07:16 AM
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For the most part, at least on my homepage, the general consensus is that its crazy and insulting and the general public seems to agree that people who choose the bear are cronically online and unreasonable, so thats a good thing
/r/MensRights03/05/24 07:06 AM
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So argument #1: "its lower than 1% because of my personal story". - the numbers vary from place to place, the type of bear, people's behavior, distance to the bear during the sighting, etc. And while attacks are uncommon by percentage, its much higher than men. If you saw as many bears as you see men, you'd be killed by now. It absolutely IS insulting and demeaning. If every 6th guy or something had the potencial to kill you, i'd understand the fear - but its NOT. By FBI's records, it's 0.01% of…
/r/MensRights03/05/24 06:54 AM
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....and most men would? Remind me how every 100th man you see on the screet molests you? You're equating men to mindless, violent animals.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 04:42 AM
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When im out at 10PM for those last groceries, i dont need help asking for directions, i already know where im going. So instead of running into a kind citizen, i'd rather encounter a mobster gang. Because that's completely reasonable.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 04:40 AM
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The vast majority of bear encounters are not fatal or injury inducing If its as low as 1%, thats still 100x higher, based on FBI's criminal statistics (0.01%). Its an insult to the 99.99% of us who wouldn't hurt a fly. This trend literally reduces all men, and half the population, down to animalistic tendencies, horny, rapist murderers and somehow that's okay. Swap the word "men" to "jews", "black people" "asians", "women", "gays", etc. If the statement became bigoted, congratulations. Thats wha…
/r/MensRights03/05/24 04:34 AM
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If you see a bear, you'll die in 10-20% of the cases (altho apparently its a bit lower than that). If you see a man, thats 0.01%. Wouldn't you say it's both unfair as well as incredibly insulting to the 99.99% of us that arent complete psychopaths to say that you'd feel safer around a LITERAL BEAR? That statement is sexist, incredibly divisive and absolutely STINKS of misandry. I cant believe how many people actually think this is an okay thing to say
/r/MensRights02/05/24 08:42 PM
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That was pointed out to me a lot and honestly, i might have done shitty research on that (i looked at several sources and averaged the numbers i was seeing, but apparently its lower than that) But even if it's something like 2%, its still 200x higher than the 0.01% of men who murder and rape
/r/MensRights02/05/24 07:00 PM
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Sometimes im tempted to drop all seriousness and reply "hold on, guys! I know it looks bad, but i can fix this! Ehm.. "man bad"."
/r/MensRights02/05/24 06:40 PM
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Last few days have been incredibly blackpilling, to be honest. Both from real life interactions as well as in dumb internet arguments like the bear thing
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:54 PM
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By doing that, the numbers are even worse. Since 0.01% of men are violent criminals, but not every 1000th man who you see on the street kills you. For the bear sightings, 10-20% of sightings resulted in an attack. Even if that % was 1, the stats are HEAVILY in favor of men
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:53 PM
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If you meet a man, 0.01% of them will kill/rape you. If you meet a bear, 10-20% will kill you. You'd have to be either stupid or brainwashed to reasonably conclude that a bear is the safer option. If your argument is "fear", 1 in 4 men have been abused by the opposite gender (as opposed to 1 in 3 for women), so does that mean that men should fear women? Should we just stop talking to each other and fear each other because of a small handful of psychopaths, because the news and social media hyper…
/r/MensRights02/05/24 01:30 PM
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Im currently under fire for saying that "comparing an average joe, who represents 50% of population to a 700kg apex predator is sexist" And saying that while 1 in 3 women above the age of 16 have been abused by the opposite sex, so were 1 in 4 men, so should men also feel safer around a bear than a woman? Apparently im the bad guy for pointing it out
/r/MensRights02/05/24 12:08 PM
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I think TheTinMan posted FBI statistics a few months back in a debate and that number stuck. I did verify it back when it was posted and now i also went to check the bear attack statistics, which are 10-20% per bear sighting. So 0.01% vs 20% = "bear is 2000x more dangerous than man", but that doesnt matter, because "man bad".
/r/MensRights02/05/24 09:58 AM
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Of course, more than 50% of these cases come by the hand of an acquaintance. Anf i just looked up the bear attack statistics, which are 10-20% for all the bear sightings. So you've got 0.01% (murderers) or 0.005% (50% come from the people the victim knew) vs 10-20% with a bear. Gotta love that feminist logic Because "man bad". At this point they should actually just go to the forest and leave us alone
/r/MensRights02/05/24 09:53 AM
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Except that bear encounters, which resulted in physical injury are between 10-20%. I can't believe you actually compared a dangerous apex predator without the ability to communicate with you to a member of your own species. Are we really that brainwashed? Because being in the forest with a ton ball of muscle and an instinct to kill is better than a fellow human being. Always remember, "man bad".
/r/MensRights02/05/24 09:51 AM
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Lets take a look at the stats honestly. 0.01% of men did the killings, and even if we're extremely generous that only 5% of people who encountered a bear got attacked, thats still 500x more Thats just dumb
/r/MensRights02/05/24 09:41 AM
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The "man vs bear" thing is great! Its so incredibly stupid that the general population is becoming aware of the normalized man-hating
/r/MensRights02/05/24 09:05 AM
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The gym is indeed great advice. Being healthier, feeling better, being stronger, looking better and being confident are some of the benefits. A lot of the disregard for the redpill movement comes from (i think) that they're just as shallow as the toxic feminism that created it. "Money and status, then you're allowed to cheat and have as many partners as you want bc you worked for it and you're the prize". Thats not healthy masculinity. As men, we should work on ourselves, get strong, form strong…
/r/MensRights29/04/24 11:49 AM
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No, its totally the mens faults. They organized a "men's mental health awareness" event like a bunch of sexist bigots. Thank god the feminist movement shut it down repeatedly, called those men names and publically shamed them for the vile act of "raising male mental health awareness". Stupid men. /s
/r/MensRights28/04/24 06:30 AM
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You know, sometimes this place feels like an echo chamber, but then we see healthy perspectives like yours, which are overall, upvoted and well-accepted. Thank you for making the world a less-divided, more reasonable place
/r/MensRights26/04/24 05:00 PM
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I'd assume in her head she thinks "im not accpeting help from a MAN. Im independant and he thinks im fragile." While my honest thoughts would be "why tf is she making this harder for herself, while i'm LITERALLY right next to the door? Some people are just strange asf" and i'd avoid interacting with her until forever. Lady, i have no agenda. Im just being kind, like i would to anyone. No, im not "offended" by your "boycott of the patriarchy" (refusing help). Being helpful to anyone is my default…
/r/MensRights26/04/24 04:54 PM
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Here's some tools, its 40°C outside, car broke down, AC dont work, fix it or stay stranded. Here's a 50T oil rig, operate it or everyone stays without energy. Here's some materials, turn it into a 300ft building in scortching heat. Here's a shirt that both you and your sister like, try not to kill each other over it. "Women are superior to men".
/r/MensRights20/04/24 08:47 AM
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On the bright side, at least the comments are standing up against it
/r/MensRights02/04/24 03:54 PM
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I appreciate your attempt at reasoning, but i straight up have to disagree with you here. It's no secret that the majority of men find the majority of women attractive, but the reverse is not true. I believe that hypergamy exists, altho it's been depicted way out of proportion due to social media. I believe there are good women, as well as good men out there, but the majority is downright bad - (while a "good partner" is subjective, the majority will always be bad, because subjectively, you like…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 07:23 PM
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I'll say that 9 times out of 10, i'm treated like absolute garbage by the women i approach. Older and mature people love me (bless their soul), my guy friends say im great to be around and my female friends say that they wish there were more guys like me out there. So when i say that the vast majority of experiences with women i have, feel absolutely dehumanizing and depressing, i think it's safe to say that i don't need a study to conclude that the majority of women don't find the majority of m…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 07:08 PM
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Not at all, its just that girls are capable of being huge jerks, just like the men. And oh boy, is it awful out there. Don't know why you'd assume such an extreme thing from me
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:56 PM
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No, it's just experience 💁‍♂️
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:52 PM
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You're awesome ans we love you too! I bet you treat your men well :)
/r/MensRights29/02/24 09:11 AM
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This one right here made me feel things i dont really like
/r/MensRights29/02/24 08:32 AM
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I could have told you that without a study
/r/MensRights29/02/24 08:29 AM
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IMAGINE going to the women's room, saying "theres nothing here i havent seen!" Jesus christ, always flip the gender on them
/r/MensRights26/02/24 06:09 AM
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23M here - none of our teachers were crazy liberal, but you could always sense some sort of dismissiveness as a man. Guys getting blamed and pinoshed while girls were guarded, etc. I once even got a lower grade than my female classmate, after we gave identical answers. Been out of school/college for 2 years now, working at a job that appreciates merit over anything and they really like my productivity. It worked out in the end, but not everyone gets what i got
/r/MensRights23/02/24 10:13 PM
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Honestly, i had a depressive episode a few days ago, which lasted several days. Went to the gym and took it out there - that has helped me so much more than any therapy i've done in my life. I felt GENUINELY happier, calmer and at peace. I believe men were built to be physical. Run, jump, lift, etc. There's a reason the brain rewards you dopamine for it
/r/MensRights16/02/24 05:59 AM
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23, physically pretty fit and considered attractive by a lot of people - been single for 3 years while actively trying. Its hard (and lots of walking red flags)
/r/MensRights10/02/24 08:52 AM
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You, sir. This comment. I did not expect that. I tip my hat to you
/r/MensRights07/02/24 06:15 PM
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Im so sorry this happened to you - your "friends" sound crazy and it feels lonely and isolating, not sharing the same beliefs as the rest of the group (and worse, be treated like shit for it) Thanks for seeing men as people and i hope you find the right circle where you get to express freely and not be treated like crap for it. As far as this sub goes, everyone is welcome and it's an open discussion (even though it's called "men's rights", it's actually eligitarian - meaning equal rights for bot…
/r/MensRights04/02/24 09:29 AM
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So FBI is lying in their data? That 80% of victims of violent crime are men - they're all part of a global conspiracy of the "patriarchy"!
/r/MensRights04/02/24 07:49 AM
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I mean, they're constantly told that "men and women are equal", that "men cheat and are soulless providers and nothing else" and most women with that mentality dont see many penises So i guess it all checks out
/r/MensRights30/01/24 09:50 PM
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Cant be sexist towards mindless animals /s
/r/MensRights30/01/24 08:56 PM
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Yes! The oppression is clearly systematic! /s But really, comparing actual oppression, human rights and slavery to an oscar winner in a completely different category.....
/r/MensRights27/01/24 06:05 PM
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It was still nominated for a whole bunch of other rewards, including "best moving picture", which is one of the HIGHEST awards. And because she co-wrote it, she DID get nominated for an award - an even higher one. So people are bitching because barbie wasnt handed absolutely EVERY reward?? Correct me if i'm wrong, but there was also another woman, nominated for the best actress, so a woman still got that. So.. they're saying that a patriarchy - a system where men are in power and women are activ…
/r/MensRights27/01/24 05:58 AM
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Personal opinion - it's division of labor, making use of the better quality of both sexes (theres exceptions, obviously) I personally think it's a good thing, and it's made things work since the beginning of time - almost like a natural outcome of our nature. Certain eras had their share of faults with the system, but in it's very core, "we both do our jobs, i wash you, you wash me and we respect each other for it" it's great. It's a shame they're being broken and undefined, leaving many people …
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:57 PM
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Dw, we all got feelings and stuff, but the logical advice i can give you is to simply not take it to heart. You're there for yourself, not them. You're just using the equipment and not doing anything illegal or anything, so however people react, is their problem, not yours. Asking someone to move a bit isn't a crime and any sensible person would say "ok shit, sry" and move on with their day
/r/MensRights12/12/23 07:09 PM
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Homestly, i'd say that maybe you're overreacting and overthinking the girl's response, but i've had that happen to me way too many times and totally get it. Women can be extremely hostile for no reason and even though they're a total stranger, whose reaction doesnt affect you at all, being treated like a criminal over and over just feels like shit I suggest you either look for a new gym, or just dissociate yourself as much as you can. Who cares if they think you're an asshole? All you did was as…
/r/MensRights12/12/23 06:39 PM
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But men ARE more aggressive, they certainly go to jail more /s
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:36 PM
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I've been in your shoes, man. Homestly, leaving was the best thing i could have done then. Save yourself, it mever gets better, it only escalates. Its not your fault and it never will be. You're not responsible for other people's actions, so look after YOURSELF, and this relationship is harmful and toxic asf. What happens afterwards isnt your fault or your problem Don't be a doormat for the sake of peacekeeping, you deserve better
/r/MensRights07/12/23 05:22 PM
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I see it as two extremes. While this group is more reasonable than the feminist ones, it has it's fair share of nutjobs as well. But the reality is that men and women need to cooperate. Both have their fair share of very real problems, my hot take is that men's problems are often shut down, silenced and overlooked, and feminists scream about non-problems that get highlighted - but thats not the reason to overlook ACTUAL problems that women still face. Talking about one doesnt take away from the …
/r/MensRights30/11/23 10:40 AM
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Idk why you're being downvoted, you're right. And i'm doing that by being respectful and in most cases just minding my business and not approach women. But i think that makes life distant, isolated and lonely, definitely not something our brains have evolved for and i hope that the social dynamic shifts into a more open and friendly space
/r/MensRights30/11/23 09:23 AM
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"Women, think about yourself and your comfort, even if you look like a bitch doing it." "Men, please consider everyone else's feelings before you breathe, you're making people uncomfortable" Story of my life
/r/MensRights30/11/23 05:57 AM
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Oh, your response was pretty emotional, i was implying that since men's mental health always gety mocked, bullied, shut down, etc., if it was your first time hearing about stuff like this Not trying to be demeaning or anything, but this is just a regular wednesday
/r/MensRights08/11/23 05:51 AM
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First time?
/r/MensRights08/11/23 05:45 AM
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I've noticed more of an awareness about men's issues as well in the last year or two Most of the time when it's brought up, it's also respectful on both sides (men and women), and a mutual topic occurs in a pretty healthy manner, which is also really good Apart from a few circles where men are demonized into oblivion, i don't think we're getting rid of that any time soon. But for the most part, it's not looking so bad!
/r/MensRights31/10/23 11:40 AM
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How dare you?? Typos are mysoginistic by nature!
/r/MensRights24/10/23 06:41 AM
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I've got 2 female friends :) The downside is listening to their drama, but so far they've also had my back when i needed them. I dont waste my money on them and relationships are off the table completely. We live in a somewhat traditional country and we've been doing good for around 8 years or so? Its good company and they usually have better ideas for hanging out apart from just "getting coffee", as i always say. Plus they have their own friend groups that are pretty chill, so we sometimes hang…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 01:08 PM
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Get yourself 2 friends you REALLY chill with. Those are the ONLY 2 people i see outside of work (if you dont count a visit to my family every few weeks), but let me tell you, those 2 friends make a big difference
/r/MensRights21/10/23 02:32 PM
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Well actually Anger is still seen as admirable in men but unacceptable in women. It’s time to end the tyranny of gendered emotions They said it's admirable for men to get angry, so let's trash her house down 💁‍♂️ (obviously /s)
/r/MensRights16/10/23 02:13 PM
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Anger is still seen as admirable in men but unacceptable in women. It’s time to end the tyranny of gendered emotions Where have you been in the last decade???
/r/MensRights16/10/23 02:11 PM
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The first line of the paragraph actually helped. I thought for a second there's shit going on, i'd definitely be stressed the fuck out. Im in my prime, career, apartment, connections, opportunities, etc. The implication of a draft would definitely feel devastating to say the least
/r/MensRights15/10/23 02:58 PM
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Guys, this sub is great, but the comments in this specific thread concern me. I get that women can be toxic, but have we forgotten the amazing traits that healthy women have? Things like keeping in touch with extended family, or decorating your house (turning a house into a home and all), doing things you like, like taking that class you always wanted, or leaning how to cook, their hospitality, how they cooperate have each other's backs, etc. There's plenty of things we can learn from healthy wo…
/r/MensRights11/10/23 08:47 PM
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Underrated comment. The culture wars have divided us, but there's genuine things that each gender excells at that we could learn from each other. We stand against toxic feminism and systemic inequallities, and not women in general. Thanks for keeping the internet less divisive
/r/MensRights11/10/23 08:42 PM
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I came here to say just that. One simple logic-shattering line
/r/MensRights10/10/23 08:02 AM
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This literally.has nothing to do with the movie lol The convention is breaking the civil rights of men, for hosting a job fair and hiring by discrimination based on gender. It's something that the same people fought for when they were convinced men have it easier, but when the table flips, they scream it's unfair that men can also apply. It's not only a double standard, but quite literally a violation of civil rights they technically fought to establish, because this time it's men that benefit f…
/r/MensRights08/10/23 08:22 AM
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Almost like physical attraction is a thing. I understand where she's coming from - "he likes me better now, he's so shallow, only wants looks, he's a sexually-driven animal", etc. But its normal to be attracted to physical traits (and so are women) and being upset about it is immature. To be fair though, he should also get in shape, as i'm sure the wife would be happier as well. Always good to have a good-looking partner you're attracted to! Edit: typo
/r/MensRights07/10/23 03:28 PM
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This is literally breaking title VII of the civil rights act of 1964 on the basis of anti-discriminatory laws. It's literally a violation of men's civil rights. How are we lost? Lmao
/r/MensRights07/10/23 06:40 AM
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You worded that nicely, i like it
/r/MensRights07/10/23 06:33 AM
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Some of the attendees said they felt like the organizers had prioritized profit over people, registering more attendees than they had the capacity to handle, then subjecting women and nonbinary workers to a familiar feeling of needing to compete with men. "You're basically paying hundreds to do the same thing that you're experiencing in the industry, trying desperately to get your resume everywhere," So basically. "I wanted to get a job without competition from more capable people! I wan't my st…
/r/MensRights07/10/23 06:25 AM
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Focus on yourself. You want a certain type of girl, get to that level (pick good clothes, get a good job, hit the gym, etc.), and don't "settle" for someone below that. I believe in bettering yourself and demanding what you're worth. If they insult your mating status, they've already told you everything you need to know. Head up, king 💪 Edit: a really dumb typo
/r/MensRights02/10/23 05:34 PM
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( I don't know why virgin is an insult ) Because for most of these women, "sex" is the only value they can give, so that's the deepest insult they can throw
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:47 PM
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Feminists sure talk a lot about power. EVERYTHING seems to be aboit power to them... i just wanna live my life, man, who's really after power here?
/r/MensRights29/09/23 11:33 AM
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"People cam be rude to guys too." people atart hurling insults The irony is incredible
/r/MensRights29/09/23 04:59 AM
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When you have female friends, you'll realize that women are the problem. Don't get me wrong, i love them to death, but sometimes their behavior is absolutely DISGUSTING and they see no problems with it. As soon as emotions overflow them, it's over. Leaving a friend somewhere without a ride, over a petty argument? Check. Breaking a lifelong friendship over a disagreement in the current topic of conversation? Check. Spending all their energy, trying to look amazing in front of people they hate, un…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 02:49 PM
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Oh fuck, brain fart..
/r/MensRights24/09/23 04:00 PM
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"Women have to deal with so much bullshit", and men dont? If she's afraid of men, that sounds like anxiety, not your personal obligation to go out of your way to accomodate for her. You were friendly and she took it the wrong way. Im not saying there aren't creeps out there, but does that mean that every man on the planet has to walk on egg-shelves? Of course not. It's up to her to "read the room and take appropriate measures", which she did, even though you werent a threat. It's her issue, not …
/r/MensRights24/09/23 12:35 PM
14

I went to check the original post and it looks like that comment was a one-off nutjob and the vast majority are supportive. Faith in humanity restored
/r/MensRights21/09/23 05:11 AM
3

"BuT tHeY hAd It sO hArD!" I don't care, jessica. They're a grown ass person. What happened to them is tragic and not their fault, but what they do to others absolutely is.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 04:57 AM
1

But it's cool....
/r/MensRights20/09/23 09:14 PM
1

It's such backwards thinking, since it also applies that women can't do it on their own and need their hand held. I'd be insulted as a woman. Do you want to empower me or infantize me?
/r/MensRights20/09/23 09:30 AM
11

But discrimination is very legal, thanks to diversity hiring. Companies have to hire a certain % of female workers in the name of inclusivity, so more competent men are turned down, so a company can check a box. Its 100% legal if it's against a man.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 06:52 AM
11

What exactly is the benefit, apart from excusing paternaty fraud??? There is NO other benefit, the french government is trying to cuck you and make your raise another man's kids --> and giving women an easier time to cheat...
/r/MensRights18/09/23 06:37 PM
17

So as a kid, i was very whiny. Dad, altho present, wasn't very "active" in raising me, so the disciplinary fogire wasn't there, but my mom was, who catered to me a lot. And so when things got tough, i'd cry a bit, mom would shield me from it (because that's what mothers do), and frankly, i grew up thinking life is unfair to me and i have it worse than others, people bullied me, etc. (Altho in hindsight they treated me very similarely to others, and my whiny response provoked actual bullying late…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 07:50 PM
5

"The Patriarchy" by definition, is a system, where men thrive and lead, by a legal and social deficite of women. If such a system hurts men, it's by definition not a patriarchy. Given that women have more rights than men (bodily autonomy (genital mutilation), vote without the obligation of a draft, opting out of parenthood, etc.), and men face longer prison sentences for the same crime, family court is biased, men and their preferences are openly shamed, future is female, kill all men, etc., the…
/r/MensRights16/09/23 06:13 AM
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Im using that one
/r/MensRights14/09/23 08:35 PM
52

Now I understand girls go through a lot more trauma and danger when meeting with strangers. So I understand this response 80% of violent crime victims are men and from the female victims, more than 50% of the assaults are done by a close friend or family member. They're not in bigger danger, they're just constantly told that they are. It's only natural they're more scared
/r/MensRights11/09/23 04:50 AM
27

Feminists say "oh this is patriarchy hurting men to", Doesn't.... that... defeat the meaning of the word itself?... what the fuck??? "The wealthy oppress us all", say literally anything else! This sentence is "armless man has 2 arms", it's contradicting and it makes zero sense. "Patriarchy", by definition is a social system that benefits men at the expense of women. If such a system hurts men, it's NOT a god damn patriarchy.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 11:24 PM
9

There is hope!
/r/MensRights27/08/23 05:15 AM
1

Was never a guy for that, and its hard leaving your entire life behind, friends, family, house, job, etc. But i'd lie if i haven't fantasized about it before
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:02 PM
22

Humans need to be put in check if you want fairness in society. We need structure, rules and consequences. Good etiquette? Nowhere to be seen nowadays. Consequences for shitty behavior? Bruh, it's 2023, "dont judge, dont shame!". Monogamous relationships with a strong intimate connection? Nope, "run wild while you can", "hoe phase", "situationships", "ons and fwb" What the fuck happened?????
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:34 AM
10

I'm 23 right now. My body count is 4 and even THATS high. The average nowadays is 10. I kid you not, i dont know a SINGLE person irl, worth marrying, except for 1 - she is 6 years older than me and happily married to this great dude. Apart from her, every other woman nowadays just feels masculine, entitled, very short-tempered and disagreeable, dominative or has a high body count. Cant remember the last time i was "taken seriously" by a female, since if i took a more feminine, chill approach, i …
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:28 AM
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Because feminism talks about "toxic masculinity" and how it's the source of all evil, but women ACTUALLY want a masculine men, because we've biologically been wired for each other, surprise surprise. Men are afraid to be "creeps" and "predators", so they act more feminine, and women aren't really happy with that, despite the fact they kept saying it. They marry a feminije guy, because "he's not toxically masculine", and during the course of the marriage, they see a masculone guy and are attracte…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:20 AM
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No consequences, no social expectations, no shamimg bad behavior, no rules or boundaries People just do whatever they want and everyone is like "welp, cant judge, just act like an animal, break families and run wild, it's 2023, slayyy" Its so detrimental, there's no discipline or healthy values, people have just gone crazy with 100% freedom and no punishment for behaving bad (apart from the legal stuff, which has also been pushed back, especially for women, as we've discussed in this thread and …
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:15 AM
3

How tf did that happen? I hate it here
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:06 AM
2

Exactly how much do we have to coddle women again?? A team of professional female athletes lost to a bunch of 15 year olds and the city literally built the women a statue in honour... Idk about you, but a statue is a pretty big deal? And they got it for getting their ass kicked by a bunch of kids?... women are expected to be treated like fucking 6 year olds
/r/MensRights23/08/23 09:50 AM
24

This is the same as the "universe 25" experiment and thats horrifying
/r/MensRights23/08/23 07:14 AM
2

Where have you been?? She was like a godess to these people before all her recent controversies started coming out, and even now they defend her (after literal sexual assault and body-shaming her own dancers)
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:34 AM
12

I like this guy's vibe. Jazz is Krazy!
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:25 PM
15

My body, my choice. If you look, you're a disgusting pervert
/r/MensRights18/08/23 01:56 PM
4

23, quite a lot of guys here think the same way
/r/MensRights15/08/23 10:20 AM
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Friendships are very important and isolating yourself from the people you love could be very dangerous, loneliness can cause you to spiral. But on the other hand, it's not worth it. I'd start distancing myself and whenever someone asked, i'd tell them i don't wanna hang out much as long as they talk about all that and make me walk on egg-shelves around them. Speak up and their reaction will tell you if it's worth staying or not
/r/MensRights14/08/23 09:58 AM
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They had SUCH a perfect opportunity in the end, where they could say "you know what? Patriarchy is bad, but so is the matriarchy. Why don't we realize that both sexes are awesome and we should work together?" Instead, men go back to being second class citizens and EVERYTHING is perfect again. Honestly, the movie would have been amazing if that were the case, now it's just more feminist propaganda. But the WORST part is, none of the feminist stuff was marketed. They sold it like a harmless, goofy…
/r/MensRights11/08/23 05:16 PM
7

Not gonna lie, if a woman told me DIRECTLY and openly flirted with me, i'd probably think it's a prank or she's joking, that's where it's gotten
/r/MensRights10/08/23 05:10 PM
3

You want to talk about voting rights? How about the fact that they got them without having to draft, because we couldn't let women join the army? How's that for oppression, when we literally gave them more rights and cleared them of the responsibilities that come with them, simply because we can't imagine seeing them suffer on the battlefield? It has always been such a stupid argument to me. "Women got rights LATER!" Well YES, because the condition was a draft and we kind of care about you. In t…
/r/MensRights10/08/23 04:08 PM
8

The challenge is finding them
/r/MensRights10/08/23 03:27 PM
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Opening up to a woman has consistently, with a 100% statistic lost her respect in me. She tries to be supportive, but you can tell she's acting differently and things start going downhill till you break up. Women want to feel safe, and when men show emotions, they're percieved as "weak" and "unable to protect". It's a turn off for women and that's happened every single time in my relationships, relationships with my male friends AND i've heard several stories from my female friends, saying how w…
/r/MensRights10/08/23 02:54 PM
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Thats why i stopped approaching altogether. The power dynamic is so skewed, so either they approach, and we'll see where it goes, or we can both awkwardly glance at each other's direction and never see each other again. The risk/reward ratio isn't worth it in this climate.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 02:45 PM
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Set up a system that rewards women for divorce, 2. Have 25% of men grow up with single mothers and turn out like shit (pure statistics), 3. Shame, demonize, mock and openly hate all men, expect them to do more on every front (ever, single stage in courting, maintaining the relationship, earn more, do more in the work force, etc. While all you provide is "emotional support" and "being a queen"), 4. Tell men they need to do better. Today I've learned that someone can read something ad stupid as th…
/r/MensRights08/08/23 05:14 AM
12

She did the ultimate virtue signaling, hit all the buzz-words and got "credibility points", because they'll believe a woman
/r/MensRights08/08/23 04:53 AM
4

He might be "a man", but sure thinks and acts like a woman
/r/MensRights08/08/23 04:48 AM
8

60?? Can you cite a source? If this is true, it's insane
/r/MensRights07/08/23 02:25 PM
8

An ACTUALLY strong and independant woman. Ladies, take notes
/r/MensRights07/08/23 02:14 PM
17

For 99% of history, men and women lived together, worked together and respected each other, being only oppressed by the rich and powerful (men and women, royalty, land owners, etc.) Since feminism started, there's been this false narrative that men abused women, etc. Etc. Its partially true, because abuse was always a thing, but they skew actual data into propaganda - like how "men could legally rape their wives" in the 60s. False. "Rape" wasnt seen as possible in marriage, because they were see…
/r/MensRights06/08/23 06:18 AM
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It's even infiltrated Europe. I really wish i could say we have it better here
/r/MensRights06/08/23 06:08 AM
15

Thats not a priviledge, thats biological reality
/r/MensRights05/08/23 07:26 AM
3

Oh my god, i love this
/r/MensRights04/08/23 05:37 AM
7

Yeah, like i've said, the cult mindset is harming everyone - men and women, and those who believe in it or not. We're all affected Im just glad to know there's still good men and women out there
/r/MensRights03/08/23 01:27 PM
10

I made my statement sound like i'm stripping away accountability from these people, my bad. What i meant to say is it's the ideology we should consider "evil", it's followers are just confused and deranged - although old enough to "know better" and take accountability for their toxic and malocious actions. I am in no way justifying what they do, nor calling them victims, i worded that poorly
/r/MensRights03/08/23 07:14 AM
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Dont blame the feminists, blame the ideology. These people have been lied to and manipulated and both sides suffer as a result
/r/MensRights03/08/23 06:48 AM
7

Why would i sign a contract that literally rewards the other party for breaking it, at my expense??
/r/MensRights30/07/23 07:15 AM
1

Had an abusive ex that made my life a living hell. She was a piece of shit, but to be fair, i was the one who chose her and tollerated her behavior for way too long, so i had it coming. People can suck, but it's up to us to notice the red flags in advance and take accountability. I truly understand your situation, as i've lived through the violence an abuser can bring, but blaming everyone else is pointless - men or women. Take it as a learning experience and realize it was a bad person, not a b…
/r/MensRights26/07/23 07:53 AM
1

Notice how it wasnt the strangers, who got violent, but exes - people she got to know, personally chose and spent time with. Random people dont just get violent, especially not towards women. An aggressor is usually someone close, and at that point you could have known better
/r/MensRights26/07/23 05:39 AM
3

That last sentence sounds like "moving the goal post" and its absolutely terrifying
/r/MensRights24/07/23 10:29 AM
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"Lady, what the fuck? Mind your business" Who tf has the ENERGY to control or CARE about random stranger's lives? What a dickhead. Really shows how they see the movie as "a message". Like they get off to that shit or something, and every man has to "learn" from this, to the point where you shout at strangers for looking down at their watch for a second? I'd immediately stop paying attention after that, purely out of spite (given that i dont really care about the movie, ofc.). They have this fant…
/r/MensRights22/07/23 07:48 AM
12

Lost to the world as they perish in flames
/r/MensRights21/07/23 07:15 PM
0

Hey, some of these statistixs are better than i thought, lets go, boiz! All jokes aside, this is fucking awful....
/r/MensRights20/07/23 12:21 PM
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Like i've said, it's insanely out of control. We agree. Instead of the 6/10 Joe Schmoe from the neighboring village, the average Jessica now wants 11/10 Chad Thundercock generous masculine millionaire. I've also said it's a breeding ground for narcissism and entitlement and nothimg screams that more than overvaluing yourself
/r/MensRights20/07/23 04:53 AM
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It "assures" that the woman in question finds a quality mate that treats her well, and progress the gene pool. You wouldn't want your daughter to bring home a total bum, so it makes sense But the fact that social media and dating apps have effectively eliminated geographical limitations, women are now going for the absolute top percentage of men in the world, instead of Joe, from the next village. At it's core, hypergamy is an evolutionary advantage (women carry the child for 9 months, and men d…
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:22 PM
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Hypergamy is a good thing, but its INSANELY out of control nowadays
/r/MensRights19/07/23 04:51 PM
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Keep her alive, but make it miserable
/r/MensRights17/07/23 10:36 PM
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Of course, we dont make them happy, so they leave /s
/r/MensRights16/07/23 09:26 PM
1

Personally i'd do the same. If your partner thinks you're replacable from the start, what does she think of you? That doesnt sound respectful at all. Why are you dating me? I'd dig and poke and deconstruct. As biased as i am for the guys, i'd NEVER say that men could just "replace" women. Physically we could. Take over their roles and do their jobs. But it's not natural or balanced. There are 2 sexes for a reason and we co-depend on each other. So if my partner came at me with such a stupid and …
/r/MensRights14/07/23 05:02 AM
4

Jazz, you"re Krazy
/r/MensRights13/07/23 01:19 PM
15

"If you're really with us, you should let us take over everything" What is this power-hungry mania, disguised in victimhood? If we're with you, we'll treat you like equals, which the vast majority of us already do.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 11:41 AM
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"Hey babe, i came home from my 12h shift at the nail factory, i nearly lost my arm, saw a man get torn apart by heavy machinery and i lost 3 liters of sweat today, what's for dinner?" "WHAT!? You want me to cook both of us a meal with the money and house you provided?! You oppressive, woman-hating pig!!"
/r/MensRights12/07/23 04:53 AM
3

Then please, educate me. How is this man bad?
/r/MensRights11/07/23 02:34 PM
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A boundary could literally mean "i dont like when you drink water". What matters is how it's presented and whether or nor it's enforced, or the freedom is given to the other person. The guy who hates drinking water is a weirdo, probably needs therapy, but he was respectful about it, even complimented them on drinking water, explained the situation and then removed themself. He wasnt controlling or abusive or a garbage human, like people are claiming about this dude. And im PRETTY damn sure not w…
/r/MensRights11/07/23 04:58 AM
13

They have some sick, twisted "bad boy" fantasy??
/r/MensRights10/07/23 10:23 PM
10

"At this point any man who needs sexism and misogyny pointed out to him doesn't want to see it." Was one of the responses. What the fuck? If that's misogyny, her bit is also misandry. In fact, she's complaining that men are doing something and he's accepting that women do the same thing - she's trying to shut him down, and he's happy living in the reality. Its just misandry
/r/MensRights10/07/23 10:13 PM
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Where tf did he say that? He listes his boundaries, said it's ok if she needs that, but he's not the man for her. Show me the text where he said that. Show me where he demanded she stopped.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:07 PM
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Literally the only two places where i've seen MEN shame other men for being "weak" is 1. The movies, and 2. Those "AlPhA mAle" circles. Not even people in the military will shame you for being "weak", and they're supposed to be "the manliest of the men" or something. It's usually the women, and the majority of time they're talking about emotional/mental weakness, because you didnt do what they want. Or a frequent thing they'll do is rephrase your words to make you look bad, you correct her by sa…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:05 PM
23

He didn't tell her to stop doing it. He said "its fine if you need this, but im not the man for you". And yes, i'll be leaving this reply on all your other comments. You sound really riled up to shame this man for a personal boundary and healthy communication.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:59 PM
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He didn't tell her to stop doing it. He said "its fine if you need this, but im not the man for you". And yes, i'll be leaving this reply on all your other comments. You sound really riled up to shame this man for a personal boundary and healthy communication.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:56 PM
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He didn't tell her to stop doing it. He said "its fine if you need this, but im not the man for you". And yes, i'll be leaving this reply on all your other comments. You sound really riled up to shame this man for a personal boundary and healthy communication.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:54 PM
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He didnt tell her to stop doing it tho He said "if you need this, its fine, but im not the man for you" Ya'll will really defend women from normal, rational statements and demonize the guy for saying it
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:51 PM
1

My guy. I'd say the same thing for dudes. You've said it yourself, guys repetitively get told it's wrong, girls dont. They have the mentality it's okay - like i've said, they think they're doing nothing wrong, they're confused. I'm not downplaying or excusing their actions, they're predators, i'm aware of that. I'd say the same thing about germany's former Führer. He was REALLY fucking confused and probably needed years of counceling. That's not justifying their actions, that's pointing out ment…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 12:21 AM
3

Realistically, there's 2 reasons a woman would do this. They're socially awkward and cant read the room. I've personally done things that could be percieved as "creepy" before, simply because i didnt have many social skills, or was completely oblivious as to "what women like", etc. Look, until the age of around 25 (?), we're all fumbling around, nobody really knows what they're doing, and imo, saying that "all women know EXACTLY they're predators because they can get away with it" is a much more…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 03:26 PM
12

Thats just sexual harassement....
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:24 AM
2

"Someone who cant attract a woman, so he starts hating them", basically
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:21 AM
8

How delusional can people get?... inductrination is a scary thing
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:20 AM
7

An "incel" is someone who can't attract women, and in turn, turns aggressive towards them and hates them. "Incel much", is like saying they're "getting those vibes" So, when in doubt, attack a man's sexual value, because those women know it's the only thing they can offer themselves
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:19 AM
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In my head, all i can imagine is these women being socially awkward and completely unable to read the room. How to flirt? Uhhh... you just grab stuff! That works! He doesn't like that? Ugh, he must be a fucking weirdo.. For some reason i find that hillareous
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:12 AM
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So, their sexual value - they attack it, because they have nothing else to offer themselves, so it matters a lot to them
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:09 AM
11

Though a bit much, your lady sounds nice :)
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:06 AM
17

Women dont give a fuck? Well, thank god they keep telling us that, or we wouldn't have known
/r/MensRights06/07/23 05:01 AM
4

Da ba dee, da ba da...
/r/MensRights06/07/23 04:57 AM
6

Because to call someone an "incel", means they have no sexual value - and those women have nothing to offer, but sex
/r/MensRights04/07/23 02:52 PM
2

The reason it's a victory is that men are no longer feeding into the toxic system. Its been like this for years and men would continue getting screwed over, now there's an impact when men dont want to play anymore, the public is noticing and NOW is the time we can be heard. If nearly half of all men refuse to get married, something has to be seriously wrong. It's a victory because in a way, we're finally being heard, not because people are actually not marrying
/r/MensRights02/07/23 12:32 PM
6

The post is about the decline of men, wanting to marry, due to the systemic disadvantages that brings them, and the men's rights movement has been advocating for men to stop marryimg for a while. The post is a response to the movement directly and the commenter said something along the lines of "how do they expect us to keep marrying if most guys cant even get a date?", implying the ever-growing demands placed on men's shoulders, which ties together to the systemic ajd legal disadvantages when i…
/r/MensRights02/07/23 10:40 AM
3

Literally nobody argued against that, we all know that. Original comment said the average bloke has no chance
/r/MensRights02/07/23 10:21 AM
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He's talking about hypergamy. Unless you're in the top 5% of men, your chances of getting a date are thin. I wish i was exaggerating but im not - a lot of people would say im good-looking, kind, charismatic, etc., i have a great job and salary, i can cook and have my life in order. I've been trying to find a date actively for 2 years now and i've been met with so much hate, rejection, insults and narcisism. 95% of women think they deserve the top 5% of men. Nobody ever said we're owed dates, bec…
/r/MensRights02/07/23 08:31 AM
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So women are servants to the men, doing heavy physical labor for a minimum of 8h per day to bring food to the table, because they have to clean their homes? Makes sense Edit: not to mention its THEIR home as well....
/r/MensRights30/06/23 02:20 PM
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Because everything is for women. If women do what they want, they're empowered. If men do what they want, they're mysogynistic. Men are born to be servants for women and women are born to do what they want, its just how it is /s
/r/MensRights30/06/23 02:19 PM
2

With pleasure, im a bit of a nerd
/r/MensRights29/06/23 05:51 PM
8

Wow, a lot of people don't understand AI... So ChatGPT, specifically, was trained on a collosal data set from the interner, gathered up to 2021 - it doesnt know anything after that (until they train it again). How it works is basically a big neural network, where after you ask your question, it throws "rolls" for every word. It assigns a number in binary for each word in the dictionary and throws rolls for the highest probablility that word will be placed next in sentence, based off the stuff it…
/r/MensRights29/06/23 03:41 PM
-2

Thats... not how AI works
/r/MensRights29/06/23 11:15 AM
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If course, it was trained on garbage mainstream feminist data. All it does is summarizes what it read online, prior to 2021
/r/MensRights29/06/23 04:25 AM
8

Let them fear, its not my problem. Live your life as if nothing happened. If they want to spend their time and energy trembling, so be it 💁‍♂️
/r/MensRights26/06/23 05:17 AM
3

Oh no, i'm picky. I have a lot going for myself and i think i deserve someone on the same level. It was the comment he made about "just do what you want, the outcome is gonna be the same anyway" that made me awe
/r/MensRights25/06/23 03:37 PM
13

Damn, your second paragraph is great
/r/MensRights25/06/23 06:47 AM
2

The last paragraph, i totally agree with. It truly feels like that sometimes, dating as a guy is like walking on a minefield (because women want THE PERFECT man for them, since globalization gave them all the options, so they're all that pickier now) But coming from a more traditional country, your sister has a point. The best kinds of relationships start as friendships. You're friends first, you know each other really well and still enjoy each other's company, its a perfect relationship formula…
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:00 PM
5

Hey dude, i recently got a job i love and pays well, my own place, i'm fit and a lot of people would say i'm pretty handsome and charismatic, sounds like i have a lot going for me, but the only women who are attracted to be are obese and narcissistic. I know exactly how you feel - i think i should be worth more than this? How in the F are others doing it? Its been so long, am i really that bad? What the hell am i doing wrong? Or is there really something wrong with me? The way i tell myself this…
/r/MensRights24/06/23 07:49 AM
16

Because men are deprived of attention, so "any attention is good attention" Ifs become normalized to the point where guys dont see its wrong and they'll just "take what they can get". Thats also where the "men are hornier than women" myth comes from - in reality we're the same, but women have more options, so they just dont think about it as much. Their needs are fulfilled and they have a less obsessive attitude towards it, while men are starving for it and start to "think with their head". Like…
/r/MensRights22/06/23 06:36 AM
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The one that affirms, rather than treats - which a lot do nowadays, sadly..
/r/MensRights20/06/23 10:06 PM
1

Not that I give a damn, but basically you agreed with most of what I said. Yeah, my point was you're being an ass, not that i disagree with you - altho you sound like women haven't done anything to deserve today's priviledges of "having a job". You know for the vast majority of history, men and women were equal peasants, right? We all worked our asses off and treated each other respectfully, i dont get where the spite comes from. He who lives a coward's life receives a coward's rewards. Says a d…
/r/MensRights19/06/23 01:40 PM
31

Obviously?? You're a man, so you deserved it! /s Sorry that happened to you, its really shitty...
/r/MensRights18/06/23 02:41 PM
66

I personally went through that and i didnt have the guts ro leave for 2 years. She "blocked off" all exits and completely isolated me. Every day was a walk on eggshelves and every moment was a ticking time bomb without a proper reason. She could literally explode because i said 'hi' to her brother on the hallway, it was bad
/r/MensRights18/06/23 02:20 PM
2

She said she makes more than her husband, you said "thats only because MEN gave you this priviledge". She said she's independent, you said "MEN gave you independence" I mean... valid point? But who tf asked? Did you PERSONALLY do it? Did she PERSONALLY get those priviledges from men? No, it was our ancestors, who none of you personally knew or dealt with. Its like responding to a "nice shirt!" Comment by saying "it was made by child labor on the exploititive grounds of unregulared capitalism". W…
/r/MensRights18/06/23 11:56 AM
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This isnt even a conversation about the corrupt rich, playing their control games. This lady gave an example of a healthy relationship with mutual respect with her husband. This has nothing to do with the matrix, but social relationships. Lets say "the elite" control that narrative as well - this lady gave a healthy example, why crap on her? Because she's "technically" not independant, because she relies on her boss to pay her? In that case, who is truly independant? Nobody, unless you live off …
/r/MensRights18/06/23 09:39 AM
3

Hello from across the pond! ...its not just america, it's the dating climate.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 08:30 AM
5

Dude, what the fuck?
/r/MensRights18/06/23 08:27 AM
10

I used to work in healthcare and let me tell you, for the amount and kind of labor we did, the "benefits" were quite sad. Only the guys protested for higher salaries, women just complained, but never said anything Now i work in 3D production (something i graduated in) and granted, i dont get benefits anymore, but salary is higher due to the amount of technical lnowledge required for the job. Women being paid just as much as me, and even more, having different positions and staying at the company…
/r/MensRights17/06/23 01:05 PM
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Less hours, worse paying positions due to interests, maternity and sick leaves, less-competitive and less likely to ask for raises Whereas men work more hours, harder jobs (oil rigs, garbage collectors, etc) that keep society afloat, which often comes with a "risk bonus" on the paycheck, men often pick up EXTRA work when their wife is on maternity leave to support his family, men are competitive and efficiency-driven, do their best and fight for deserved promotions. The classic way that business…
/r/MensRights17/06/23 11:39 AM
1

We had a teacher who didn't believe that the girls broke the cabinet, because "girls dont do that", and because we all collective said the girls did it, as we SAW them do it during recess (it was an accident), ALL the boys got detention, because we're "wild and uncontrollable" plus because "we would try to frame something like this on the women". I was also graded by a different teacher in high school, where she was orally grading 3 students at a time. Me and this one girl gave IDENTICAL answers…
/r/MensRights16/06/23 05:09 PM
0

A great way to point it out is simply flipping the genders in any situation. If you'd treat the guy (now girl) better tham before, that's internalized misandry and the "women are wonderfull" effect. We're naturally biased for women (men having an "out group bias" and women having "in group bias", very often resulting in men being treated worse, and that treatment feeling justified on gender alone. I'm not gonna lie, i have internalized misandry and let me tell you, its REALLY difficult to get ri…
/r/MensRights16/06/23 02:30 PM
9

I used to work in healthcare and not only was there no conversation about father's day / men's day, but on mothers day, my female coworkers went all "WhErE aRe My FlOwErS??" On me It genuinely made me mad
/r/MensRights15/06/23 05:10 AM
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As a man who mostly had female company most his life, i cannot fathom the shalowness most girls gossip about. Not all of them gossip, some aren't too different than any other guy, but a great portion of them do, and the ones who do, are so incredibly insecure, and compete in the most absurd ways. A single side-eye can ruin their week, they spend hours stalking the people they hate and find every possible subtle little way to justify their hatred - "she wore a crop top to fucking mcdonalds? She's…
/r/MensRights14/06/23 03:08 PM
5

Or men at all?
/r/MensRights14/06/23 02:59 PM
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Ikr, its almost like it was framed in a way to make it seem like women had their beauty priviledge taken away by the online classes, while men continue to enjoy it The patriarchy strikes again!! /s
/r/MensRights13/06/23 10:07 PM
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Men should work wirh feminism, who protested the idea that men can get raped, charged more for the same crimes, not have reproduction rights or even dating preferences. It's in men's best interests. /s
/r/MensRights09/06/23 11:55 PM
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I was once a photographer for a normal party. It ended with me, being held at gunpoint and saving 4 people and a woman getting hit by a car. Sometimes opportunity simply finds you
/r/MensRights08/06/23 05:10 AM
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Sadly enough, it was pretty common - at least in my parts "He offed himself and brought pain to the people he knew, he was a lesser man". "He escaped like a pussy". "Only cowards choose suicide". "Cant believe he did this to his wife", etc.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 05:05 AM
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I mean, they ARE "independant" after all.. 💁‍♂️
/r/MensRights06/06/23 05:03 AM
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Im sorry about what happened to you... but if it helps, suicide is not genetic, its purely psychological. The reason we often see it repeat with descendants is because when someone is suicidal, there's lot of things in their mind, they're going through stuff, and it shows on the outside. Kids are observing and learning those patterns - especially if one of the parents ends up comitting it, its a huge trauma to the child, which - through years of manifestation and not being addressed properly, co…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 05:01 AM
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I believe this mentality is just as harmful as feminism. Wanting to "tear down the system because its bad" - while it would be objectively harder to start from square one, imagine the hardship without having the basic infrastructure of society. All the pain and suffering. I know it sounds tempting to say "screw everything" and walk out, but i believe the answer is simply to "not entertain such women". As dire as it seems, there are still good women in the world, and the internet and social media…
/r/MensRights05/06/23 06:59 AM
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Worst part is if we sue them, they'll manage to blame the patriarchy, saying we're oppressing them by not letting them defame us
/r/MensRights04/06/23 09:31 PM
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Luckily, my case didnt go into a false accusation level, it stayed between rumors about manipulation and violence, things i've said and did, that i obviously didnt do, but its impossible to explain that to people Then 3 years later, a girl i've been with for 2 and a half years, threatened to falsely accuse me of rape, because i hugged her when she wasnt in the mood, so there's that. Never went through with the accusations tho, thank god...
/r/MensRights02/06/23 02:33 PM
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The double standard and misandry is so plain obvious. Part of me wants to believe they REALLY are oblivious about it and its all indoctrination, however its hard when its THAT direct and obvious
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:45 AM
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What the fuck, dude?
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:43 AM
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I hate this so very much and i know how you felt
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:42 AM
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Well, in his actions, he was born male, so it was all deserved. /s
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:39 AM
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It's like if I beat up some random person because of something someone else did to me Correction. Its like you beat up some random person because of something someone else did to someone random and none of you actually knew these people
/r/MensRights01/06/23 06:28 AM
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I agree, we're simply debating that men are severely overlooked when it comes to it though. Like it's a bottom line - if you do it, its normal and nothing special and if you don't, you're "less of a man". Gender SHOULD NOT be a factor, but as men we're expected to do it, while not being appreciated enough for it. I once risked my life with a drunk, rage-fueled maniac with an assault rifle, i saved 4 lives and i pretty much got nothing in return, because i was "expected to act"
/r/MensRights28/05/23 06:07 AM
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Im fairly certain they got their fair share in the last 20 years.... A woman made it into a news article last week, was labeled as "a hero and a genius" for "discovering a jacket". (Basically putting a jacket on while traveling to her next destination to "avoid unwanted looks". Meanwhile stories like that kid, who started a bracelet-making business to earn money, so he could pay off his lunch debt and the debt of his other classmates went completely under the radar. Point being, people dont appr…
/r/MensRights28/05/23 05:45 AM
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An upvote is more than enough. I just want people to stop seeing us as creeps, i dont need a fancy badge for it
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:17 PM
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Quite the opposite. Creeps are a really small minority of men, we've been saying "if you're getting unwanted attention, cover up to avoid it" (because if we were in that spot, we'd do the same), but somehow our words were sexist or something Now this woman did it, and its okay, because it's her idea, not a man's idea. We're here talking about it because of the stupidity - congratulations, you've invented a jacket. It's in our interest for women to dress more modestly, in fact. Firstly, there'll …
/r/MensRights24/05/23 07:56 AM
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My ex threatened to falsely accuse me for hugging her (to calm her down, after she had a mental breakdown because I said our future children won't be staying in the same bed with us until they're 7) Needless to say, i'm glad i didnt have any kids with that woman.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 07:39 AM
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I just learned that i've been raped before! Also, apparently i think all women are ugly
/r/MensRights23/05/23 05:50 AM
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But we're transparent about it
/r/MensRights22/05/23 11:19 AM
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I think they're either the sweetest people ever or the nastiest I have yet to see an in-between
/r/MensRights22/05/23 10:52 AM
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When was the last time a 31 year old man raped a 13 year old, had a child with her, faced no jail time, had custody of the kid that the girl's mom had to fight for and will probably sue for child aupport in 5 years?? Down with the patriarchy!! /s
/r/MensRights20/05/23 02:37 AM
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Come on, dont SAY that (sexually assaulting you).
/r/MensRights18/05/23 02:26 PM
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Dont quit, man. Your kids will see all of it when they grow up and they'll love you for it and raise more healthy offspring of their own. Stay strong, your boys will make it all worth it
/r/MensRights17/05/23 09:02 AM
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What on earth are you on about? Circumsission is a big thing and topic, as well as little boy slave camps in lesser-developed countries where they're mutilated and enslaved for pleasuring purpouses. What makes you think its a female-only issue?? Opposing it (gor both sexes) is egalitarian, yes. You're calling for equal treatment Also, your take on rich vs poor people implies an apex fallacy. Yes, some of the most successful peolle in the world are men. But also some of the people who have it wor…
/r/MensRights16/05/23 05:15 PM
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Mainstream feminism is for equal treatment Mainstream feminism didn't do shit about the sexist laws the "radicals" pushed for, yet they rallied male-oriented events. "Mainstream" feminism is just as bad as the "radical" one. Same movement, zero accountability. Feminism is different everywhere I dont live in the US. Its less radical where i'm from, but slowly there's an emerging pattern of "kill all men" and pushing towards sexist laws based on the persumption that men are shit. I have a few "act…
/r/MensRights16/05/23 03:11 PM
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All you gotta do is take a look at what feminism is fighting for (men are "priviledged", so women need special treatment in societ, such as: 60% shorter jail times for the exact same crime committed, redefining the word "rape", making it gendered, hence men are legally impossible to be raped in many placed of the world, diversity hiring - where an incompetent woman will get hired above a competent male, in order to fit the diversity quotas, marching and protesting any sort of event where men wan…
/r/MensRights16/05/23 02:17 PM
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Ive seen few such posts lately and i browse quite frequently There's also fresh feminist accounts joining, writing bullshit and then they screenshot and post to TwoX to make us look bad
/r/MensRights15/05/23 05:05 AM
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I only noticed after, i generally had good grades and i couldnt be bothered arguing, as she could just flat out deny everything
/r/MensRights15/05/23 05:03 AM
4

Man.... that hurts...
/r/MensRights14/05/23 08:18 PM
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Oh man, i havent seen that video, but imagining this made my chest hurt, thats fucking horrible..
/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:40 PM
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Anti feminist and anti women are very far from the same, i think you missed the point
/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:30 PM
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Ive seen time and time again (with consistency), people calling out ACTUAL misoginy or bad ideas. I'd say this place is pretty regulated and composed
/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:26 PM
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Sadly, the loud ones are the ones who push sexist, oppressive laws and the "silent majority" isn't stopping it or doing anything about it, which makes them just as bad. They fought against changing the official definition of the word "rape" to be genderless (currently it describes "penetrating a vagina with a penis without consent" in many places in the world, making men legally impossible to be raped), a man in purtugual got jailed for 23 weeks for LOOKING at a woman and she felt uncomfortable,…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:17 PM
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Teacher graded me and a female classmate at the same time, we gave identical answers, she got an A, i got a B
/r/MensRights14/05/23 06:38 PM
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He was literally sitting on a throne, talking down to the audience about what he does is good for the mental health of young boys and started promoting his stuff. It was bad.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 02:30 AM
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He did, im a shitty, self-preaching apology video
/r/MensRights12/05/23 08:12 PM
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Again, its extra social damage. Its not "proof", its just rallying up the people against the alleged rapist by blasting his name publically (sorry for misspellings, im not a native)
/r/MensRights12/05/23 06:17 AM
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As a man, it doesnt exist in the feminist world
/r/MensRights12/05/23 02:43 AM
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Okay, first, they address the stigma, so they're aware of all the damage it does to an individual (man), yet they're doing it anyway??? Second, how does this help anyone? At all? Even if the accused is actually guilty, how does it help the case, having blasted his identity everywhere, apart from inflicting more social damage?? This is just malicious from the ground up
/r/MensRights12/05/23 02:37 AM
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Hey, i work in healthcare too! Except here, women are very traditional and value men a lot - they know we have it hard and work their best to keep their husbands happy, and the husbands do the same for them. Just the other day, there was a 15min conversation on the terase during lunch break about how men are hard working and responsible and how they do their best to match all the value their men bring them. It was really wholesome and it brought me back some hope for humanity! Just wanted to sha…
/r/MensRights11/05/23 11:22 AM
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Ive never said that All im saying is they're capable of the same evils as men are, and it sounded like you were opposing that
/r/MensRights08/05/23 12:44 PM
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Dictatorships were a big thing in the past. Political powers granted them essential invincibility unless they screwed up the country so bad that the people overthrew it and killed the government. Its a very common pattern throughout history Again, im not sure how your argument stands up... is it so hard to believe that gender doesnt play a role in how bad a person is? Im honestly sick of the "man bad" argument, and when a woman does something bad, it was "obviously" a man manipulating her or "ma…
/r/MensRights08/05/23 12:26 PM
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Men were raised to be "strong" and stoic. It was literally a common global dilemma of soldiers all around the world saying "where is the greatness i was promised?" "These were the lives we've been sold and all we got was suffering" If anything its sad that men were reduced to expandable "cannon food", as thats the only way to be valuable. "Men must fight and be strong", thats how you get value. And its sickening. You seem to demonize men on the basis that they were manipulated to sell their live…
/r/MensRights08/05/23 12:20 PM
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She is literally the ruler of the entire country with nobody to contest or oppose her, what do you mean? Can you not see the bias in your statement? Its literally never the woman's fault
/r/MensRights08/05/23 12:15 PM
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If you've got 10 female leaders and 100 male ones (example), and 7 female leaders are aggressive while 40 male leaders are aggressive... Technically there has been more aggressive men and damage caused by men (because of the numbers), but women were still 40% more likely to be aggressive, making men more peaceful, statistically. What part of the data confuses you?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 07:44 AM
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That "man bad and aggressive" and "woman saint", as it's clearly not true, nor has it been in the past. 70% of domestic violence is instigated by a woman. Yes, men can suck. But so can women, so we gotta hold everyone to the same standards.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 07:41 AM
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As far as the man getting arrested in Portugal - that's definitely not okay, but I am referring to the US and have been in all of my comments. They have a completely different governing system from us Im looking at things globally - as i'm not from the US myself, but this is an occuring pattern in all parts around the world - just like the legal definition of rape, being gendered in many parts of the world, making it legally IMPOSSIBLE for men to be raped. If thats not discrimination, i dont kno…
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:34 AM
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As I stated in other comments, the patriarchy isn't about giving ALL men power, it's about the rich white ones that are already in power staying in power. It's a systemic issue that stems from a capitalistic society founded with patriarchal ideologies. The ones that have the money have the power, and they use that power to stay in power, and majority of those in power are What part of that makes it a "patriarchy", rather than a corrupted rich class, playing games to stay in power? Majority being…
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:34 AM
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When the "patriarchy" is giving women more legal power than men, how is it still considered a patriarchy? Male homelessness, lack of support shelters for male victims of abuse, 60% longer prison sentencing for the same crime, diversity hiring favoring less capable women overqualified men, because they fit the gender requirements, 90% of divorces started by women and 80% of alimony/child support being paid by men, woman now having the majority of college degrees and college enrolments, men paying…
/r/MensRights05/05/23 07:00 AM
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Menchildren exist (and so do womenchildren?) But the point is, men are being labeled that way for not wanting to marry. "He'd rather watch porn and play videogames than marry a real woman". So I have a few points to make: Why am I being shamed for not wanting to do something? Marriage doesnt make you more of a person than anyone else. Its a choice you can either make or not. Why are people shaming men into getting divorced, if the man clearly doesn't want to do it? If men would rather "watch por…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 12:17 PM
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We dont do allies here. You're not a second class citizen, you're part of the group
/r/MensRights04/05/23 03:58 AM
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Well, everything male is bad, so why would they be given any attention? /s
/r/MensRights03/05/23 12:29 PM
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I get what you mean, but all of this is internal. All the "status" stuff is me, kicking my social anxiety in the nuts, by telling it "im a good, hard-working person, so fuck off" People HAVE also started treating me better as well, but i'm not sure if that's because the "status" (which is invisible to others, unless they know me), or if projecting confidence is subconsciously respectable - probably the latter tho
/r/MensRights01/05/23 09:29 AM
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I've felt the same way before and got the same treatment. What helped me gain confidence sounds cliche asf, but i worked hard, got good grades, a "respectful" job that pays pretty well (nursing home), got myself my own place, etc. This way, im telling myself that i'm a productive member of society, i've got a difficult and important job, and i do it well (confirmed by coworkers AND the elderly residents), i pay my bills, got a big place to myself and nothing to hide. There is literally nobody wi…
/r/MensRights01/05/23 07:24 AM
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I work in a nursing home and a lot of the old ladies would compliment me, some would flirt and some would even slap my butt. Compliments make me feel warm, the flirting makes me laugh my ass off and say something stupid back (flirting/cat-calling - i turn it into a joke and they generally laugh with me, and its a positive experience) Now the slap on the ass makes me uncomfortable. Cat-calling is fine (personally), but crossing that boarder to physical touch makes it uncomfortable (and even then …
/r/MensRights01/05/23 07:18 AM
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My opponent is bettet than me, he deserves that money and i have to "earn" it, not just get it for losing. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 06:47 AM
2

Nah, there's 2 images
/r/MensRights28/04/23 06:04 AM
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First one is for men, women and handicapped, second ome for women and handicapped. Handicapped people getting 2 restrooms is fine, but women getting 2 and men only having 1? Why not just make both of them gender-neutral then?? Or keep pne for men and handicapped and one for women and handicapped. It looks like someone went out of their way to inconvenience men
/r/MensRights28/04/23 06:02 AM
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I do. Everytime a man is using a bathroom, women have another one to use. Every time a woman is using one, there's a 50% chance the man will have to wait outside, before using the men's room. Its a small thing, but imagine someone telling you to gtfo of your room, so you can only use it HALF of the time, because they want ANOTHER room to live there. Fuck me, am i right?
/r/MensRights28/04/23 05:58 AM
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Here's the source: link
/r/MensRights27/04/23 09:02 PM
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ALSO, when a woman answered "yes" for more than one category, they rallied up the votes by counting each "yes" as a different person, meaning each participant would be counted 2 or 3 times! (There was a post about this a while ago. If you want the sources (which are very credible, with tons of extra links), i'll go look for them)
/r/MensRights27/04/23 06:46 PM
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It's so worrying the effect this has on young boys when they see this sort of nonsense, essentially being told from a young age they don't matter and the world has no place for them. Hello, i spent the last 8 years working on my self-esteem and i still feel the impostor syndrome and isolation whenever i try to talk to women - even lifelong friends of mine. I've let so many people (moreso women) walk over me and i still sometimes do, despite knowing i deserve better. After all this self-work, i s…
/r/MensRights27/04/23 07:22 AM
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Thats so sarcastic, provokative and passively aggressive and honestly sounds like something i'd do myself to nail the coffin to an idiot
/r/MensRights26/04/23 01:02 PM
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https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/double-standard
/r/MensRights26/04/23 01:00 PM
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Sadly, many other places too
/r/MensRights26/04/23 12:49 PM
5

Just yesterday i had a conversation with a friend about "how men and women should treat each other". Men and chivalry, 100%. But then she said "if a man takes me out, he pays." But strangely, not on the first date, but every date afterwards. She then said "if a man takes me to a dinner and he pays, i'll later take him to a bakery and its fair play. And she failed to understand why i was getting upset about it. How does a 40$ dinner equal to 2$ bagels in the bakery?? If you MADE the bagel, thats …
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:28 AM
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Just this year on valentines day, all the female coworkers received flowers and chocolates and special attention. (Some even saying "where are my flowers??") We had talked abour Martyr's day, but when it came, total silence for the dudes
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:20 AM
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And... women dont? I fail to see how that negates what i've said. Im talking abkut statistics here, and women are capable of the same horrible things as men. Gender literally doesnt play a role here (the % is so minimal it csn be accounted to margin of error) Almost like gender doesnt play a role in "being a good person"
/r/MensRights23/04/23 03:14 AM
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ChatGPT said thats a form of oppression And wben taking into account non-physical abuse (manipulation, threats, screaming, etc.) Women commit 70% of it. Just because its not physical doesnt make it less serious - its something most men have gone through and can seriously fuck you up for years even after its over
/r/MensRights23/04/23 03:02 AM
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Oh, women lack representation in leadership makes it a form of oppression? Women also commit the majority of domestic abuse, is that a form of oppression too? If my sentence sounds sexist, i've proven my point. But its your words, not mine
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:51 AM
4

Yeah, you said it better
/r/MensRights21/04/23 07:55 PM
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The situation and the treatment is misandrist as fuck and im sorry you had to go through that, but i'm really glad she came to justice and your name is cleared Wish you the best of luck moving forward, man
/r/MensRights21/04/23 05:56 PM
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Faith: restored.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 01:50 PM
7

...is that a quote from the article?.... he's describing feminists, right?
/r/MensRights07/04/23 12:38 PM
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They are being failed by this very mindset of how they're worse and being treated accordingly. Girls very much also vandalize and get into "bitch fights" as we called them, but they manipulate, lie and bully. Boys are more physical, and girls are sneakier and backstabby Its like comparing beating a man up, or locking him up for 10 years over a false accusation. Imo, destroying someone's reputation and social status is worse than drawing a penis on the desk or getting in a fight during recess and…
/r/MensRights05/04/23 08:20 AM
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Ok, I'm calling this out. Have you been in a classroom in the last ten years with teenage girls? They are absolute fuckwits and this article is misandrist as fuck. Yes, i have been in the classroom with boys AND girls in the last 10 years and let me tell you, they can be equally shitty. You stink of misandry
/r/MensRights05/04/23 07:15 AM
1

I think you're confusing "being a real man" and "being masculine"
/r/MensRights04/04/23 10:50 PM
33

Thats INSANE! Imagine sueing a woman for keying your car and you end up being prosecuted for daring to make her feel uncomfortable.. This is starting to sound a lot like jews vs the aryan race, or white vs black people in times of the KKK. This is seriously messed up and honestly terrifying... they are quite literally placing women above the law and removing any and all resources men have to stand up for themselves and defend themselves. Defending yourself is your human right. They are witholdin…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 10:39 PM
3

Apparently it's "not a man's issue" to be paid less than women for the same type of work. The wage gap looks are the median earnings from men and women. It doesnt take into account job titles, different positions, etc. And looking at it blankly like that, men earn more on average, yes. They work more dangerous, higher paying jobs, they are usually more competitive and fight for promotions, they dont take maternity leaves, they work extra hard when their wofe is on maternity leave, etc. These peo…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 08:05 AM
7

Haha. Men bad. Upvote.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 07:28 PM
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"There was smoke everywhere. They let the women out and the migration staff, but it wasn't until the firefighters arrived that they let the men out," she told Associated Press news agency. She also said that the men had been protesting because they had not been given any water while in custody. Even an updated list of casualties still contained erroneous information, further heightening the anxiety among those waiting for news, Ms Corona of the Jesuit Refugee Service said. The relatives also que…
/r/MensRights30/03/23 02:52 AM
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In what world in what circumstances is the man in the wrong in any way, shape or form here? What the actual fuck??
/r/MensRights28/03/23 11:04 PM
2

If you're a homophobe, they're accountaphobes lol
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:55 PM
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Wow, she sounds like a piece of shit. Im sorry this happened to you...
/r/MensRights28/03/23 02:43 PM
13

Criticizing feminism and hating women are two very different things
/r/MensRights23/03/23 09:29 AM
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Others have already said the important stuff (suicides, family court, the thanklessness, zero value outside of what we produce, false allegation, demonization..), so i'll talk about a personal pet peeve that im sure a lot of men can agree with. I'm 5'10 and most people would say i'm pretty handsome-looking. I've been single for a year and a half, but i've been actively looking for a partner. I've been unsuccessful because women's standards are through the roof. Statistically, 90% of women are go…
/r/MensRights22/03/23 08:51 AM
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Every man i've ever spoken to has had this happen to them (yes, me too)
/r/MensRights22/03/23 08:21 AM
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But they dont despize it. They actively shut it down
/r/MensRights19/03/23 07:02 AM
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Its so insulting to compare single men to cavemen. "No smash? Then I smash!" grabs a wooden bat Im sure thats their exact thought process and none of them really understand "consent" or anything. Simply because they arent getting it, they start hating women altogether and they even get violent. Yup. Even literal cavemen were more advanced than this. Do better.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 06:03 AM
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Hey, fun fact. 53% of journalists in the US are women.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 07:22 PM
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In fact, that was extremely brave of her. She deserves a raise and 2 million dollars.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 03:54 AM
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Chris hanson would like a word with you
/r/MensRights13/03/23 03:53 AM
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Actually, "the red pill" is far more common here. People dont necessairily know about the red pill, but the mentality is there. People call out double standards and feminism isn't too popular (probably the result of all the discrimination boys face)
/r/MensRights12/03/23 10:47 AM
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Yes, in every way imaginable. These are all real stories. Something got broken? Boys gotta clean and pay, girls get a pass (or flat out "girls dont do stuff like this, it was one of the boys"). PE class? Boys running the 5km run for the 4th time this year, girls are LITERALLY taking a stroll through the city. Grading? I literally got a lower grade, but my answers were identical to my female classmate, who was graded with me. Sick day? Girls get excused, boys get "non-excused" hours, which they g…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 09:08 AM
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"We have it because we need it" "can you imagine growing up with that kind of freedom?" "I never realized i was living in fear" Thrratening bouncers to get into clubs, popping people's tires, shutting off power grids and going mad with power. Yup. Poor women. Thats freedom, thry can finally live the way they wanted.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 08:46 AM
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You do realize that saying "the system waa built this way" / "its the patriarchy" throws out any possibility of us having a normal discussion? Because any evidence i provide can easily be dismissed by blaming the patriarchy for it. If that's true, why would men design such a shitty world for themselves? Men have a higher chance of being a victim of violent crime (4 times higher), higher rate of suicide (6 times higher), less likely to get hired (3/20 applications as opposed to 14/20 in women), p…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 06:40 AM
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I mean...you said it yourself. "So many men didnt know about the side effects of BC". Doesnt sound like oppression, it sounds like shitty sex ed
/r/MensRights10/03/23 06:33 AM
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....lack of education on birth control isnt opression... its shitty sex ed
/r/MensRights10/03/23 06:30 AM
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Why do so many women want to walk around alone at night?? I've tried it and its fucking terrifying
/r/MensRights10/03/23 06:23 AM
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Oh yeah.. im a bit of a history nerd and the majority of the horrific stuff in the trenches like rats, lice, infections, diarrhea, etc. - on top of the constant danger, stress and PTSD Isnt even generally known. Its literally hell on earth
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:47 PM
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Yeah, but women flee and have to seek shelter with no food or stability. Those men have food and resources on the battlefield /s
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:50 AM
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I agree with the second half of your statement But for the first one - there seems to be a lot of scurmish on personal experiences (and im guessing you dont live in a western country). In that case, let's look at the international level. Massive coorperations storm to support women's day, google makes a special doodle, news articles, blogs in support of strong mothers and deals off in bigger companies etc. Men's day doesnt get such attention - not even a doodle. You'll hear small local store own…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:15 AM
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OP said the double standard is disgusting, not the day itself. We have mothers day, women's day and most of valentine's day is benefited by women. Sure, we have fathers day and men's day, but they're not celebrated even close to women's holidays. All my coworkers were saying "where are my flowers?", as they expect to be celebrated, but theres never a mention of men's day. The holiday isnt disgusting, but "if you cant show appreciation towards the men in your life on men's day, i wont bring you f…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 07:11 AM
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Bro's acting like celebrating holidays is a zero sum game lol Op: "i wish men's day was as celebrated as woman's day." Comment: "If more people knew about men's day, people would start hating women's day"
/r/MensRights09/03/23 06:38 AM
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You have to be a troll. If thats the way you think, i dont think you'll be having a 20 year long "healthy" relationship. Any sane person would first ask the question what is wrong? What is the reason you're not having sex anymore? And communicate and work together towards fixing that. Not say "fuck me or im out" lol Your wife isnt a sex factory, nor she owes you sex - as goes for guys. Im all about men's rights, but your way of thinking is just messed up
/r/MensRights08/03/23 02:24 PM
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"Have sex with me or in gone" makes it so conditional and transaxual, the opposite of what sex was supposed to be. Its not an act of love, its an act of one-sided please. If we cant get back to having sex in a healthy way, im out. But i'll never flat out say "if we dont start having sex again, this relationship is over". How on earth will you ever know if she's actually into it, or just slaving herself to keep you happy? Idk about you, but the latter makes me not want to have sex with this perso…
/r/MensRights08/03/23 02:06 PM
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I mean... obviously. But blackmail shouldn't be one of the things to come to mind. If that was the ultimatum - have sex with me or im leaving, theres no pleasure in sex. Its forced, theres no enthusiasm. I'd work on reigniting the spark, etc. If they dont reciprocate and sex is dead, i'd break it off, saying we're not compatible, but never FORCE someone to have sex with me, thats just wrong
/r/MensRights08/03/23 01:59 PM
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Idk, but im pretty sure saying "i'm leaving you if you dont have sex with me" is rape? Its blackmail - you dont want it, but you did it anyway to avoid negative consequences. Of course, the wise move would be to just not have sex and ditch the toxic partner, but that sort of blackmail is fucked up... is that rape??
/r/MensRights08/03/23 09:22 AM
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TIL that things like "do you worry about others", "do you volunteer" and "can you keep a conversation" are valid points that make men date-able, while "take care of your health" and "be approchable/agreeable" is pretty much the entire list for most guys - yet apparently guys have higher standards for women than women do for guys. This aint www.buildahunk.com
/r/MensRights08/03/23 04:09 AM
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I think its disgusting how they stalk everything for "safety", but i think you're the one who messed up by investigating everything on your date as well - its creepy either way. Now unless she completely stalked you, and THEN you drop all that info and she got pissed, its a different story
/r/MensRights06/03/23 09:50 AM
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Hacks are a different thing - its like saying "our country is safe", but a war breaks out (it doesnt just happen, its an anomaly) medical and personal data is encrypted and for the most part safe and not abused? You go to the doctor and all that data HELPS you. Surveiling your relationships would definitely be abused and is invasive of your private life without many or any benefits. My point still stands The guy in the post clearly has reasons to be suspicious. Sister told him something. Either …
/r/MensRights05/03/23 09:56 AM
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A test can be done later in life if it’s medically needed. It doesn’t need to be done at birth for what you have described. After the father and child are already attatched? After they spent years together? After all the time, money and energy the dad spent? Why not get the test at birth and spare both of them the heartbreak, and dad's time, energy and wallet? I would be very offended if my husband asked me for a test. I wouldn’t fight him he could certainly have one, but he could enjoy seeing a…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 09:36 AM
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7/10 guys are not having paternity fraud. That’s well over the majority. To test everyone would be one thing because then it wouldn’t be an accusation. Paternity tests are relatively cheap to conduct and can help with genetic diseases and medical procedures later on in the child's life. A paternity test should be mandatory at birth for all kids, period. To accuse your wife on the chance that she is in the minority (3/10) of people who Would do this seems like you have a greater chance of ruining…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 09:07 AM
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This should be higher up. Why doesnt the father of HIS OWN CHILD have the right to get a DNA test, which is also beneficial for medical procedures later on in life?? Because your ego is so fragile, you'll be insulted that he didnt trust you from the get go. You've slept around with men, you already know the child is yours, he doesnt and has every right to the test.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:51 AM
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People are usually betrayed by the ones they trust. You already know the child is yours, he doesnt. Paternity fraud is seriously messed up and child support is expensive asf. I dont see a single reason why THE FATHER of the child wouldn't have THE RIGHT to a DNA test, which is also beneficial for medical procedures later on in life. You sound very insecure, paternity tests should be mandatory at birth
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:46 AM
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Except im not searching your room, im glancing at your phone as you're scrooling at memes. The paternity test wont i convenience her in any way, she doesnt even need to be present.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:41 AM
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sex is a biological fact. gender is a social construct. What the fuck is this now? Did i miss a page? Thus when people are speaking extremely precisely, they will refer to "female-bodied" people instead of "women" when discussing the population of people receiving prenatal care. There are people with female bodies (sex) that have a male gender (social construct). What. The. Fuck. Excuse me? Is this how people think?? Jesus christ, im not surprised we're in this mess if this is what people are be…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 04:13 AM
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Ive heard the argument that they do before, but im honestly not surprised with anything anyone says anymore, reality is a parody of itself at this point
/r/MensRights26/02/23 04:10 PM
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Oh, the "same pay" demand is just stupid, i agree. It simply doesnt generate enough viewership and revenue. But you have a good point with the temporary measure/permanent support. Not sure why i got downvoted Thanks for the reply tho!
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:52 PM
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Ahh, that makes a lot of sense. I thought it was more of a kind gesture of the NBA, but technically it's the wages of men, which are funding the WNBA so they can play
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:11 PM
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Is the WNBA sexist/misandrist? Why is NBA paying the WNBA anti-male? Am i out of the loop?
/r/MensRights26/02/23 01:08 PM
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I'd like to know too, what happened? (If you dont mind talking about it, of course)
/r/MensRights25/02/23 06:47 PM
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Tears actually serve a purpouse. They quite literally flush out endorphins and hormones that make you feel in pain or sad - so crying does actually help Before we are male, we are human. Social structures or not, we need to cry just as women do.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 11:04 PM
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Its a neural network. It "understands" the data it collected and presents it in an organized manner. It feels almost conscious, its different than regular computers, its "smart" (yet predictable, as its in pretty early stages). It read more feminist articles and it took that as the ground truth, then it debates it using it's knowledge about language and debates, etc. (Oversimplified) Again, theres no manipulation or malicious feminist superpower controlling it, its just a relatively smart robot,…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 10:47 PM
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Like ive explained - the AI isnt biased. The people who trained it arent inheretedly biased either. Its a lot of data and "social studies" isnt a big focus - the creators probably took the mainstream articles (heck, it was most likely automated to pick the most popular data) and thats simply what the AI talks about. Nothing is "being controlled", the AI is simply reflecting society's mainstream narrative. Source of my claim: im an AI enthusiast and im familiar with the training process
/r/MensRights23/02/23 09:03 PM
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Im 90% sure the people at OpenAI who fed ChatGPT with biased data, dont know its biased data. This thing was fed MILLIONS of articles, news sources, papers, blogs, social media posts, etc. Im pretty sure they just picked the mainstream stuff, which happens to be pretty darn biased and thats that. Cant really blame the AI, cant really blame OpenAI. The AI is a reflection of the mainstream society, which makes it sad how biased it is against men
/r/MensRights23/02/23 10:45 AM
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The teacher always gave you your tests back face down, didnt she?
/r/MensRights23/02/23 08:17 AM
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Asking the exact same question for men and criminals in general. Asylum and lots of therapy and mental work. But do.we have the resources to aod everyone? And since its obvious we dont, who deserves to get them?
/r/MensRights18/02/23 05:11 PM
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Ive tried this twice and it never gave me any jokes for men or women.. The only thing it DID say that was worrying is that feminism "is needed" in today's society to "balance the inequalities" and started talking about the wage gap and things like that - since it was trained on the data from the internet. It said the MRA is a good movement, but mentioned that "some anti MRA critics think it's problematic and could promote mysoginy" But to be fair, it said the critics think this way, not that its…
/r/MensRights15/02/23 09:16 PM
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In that case, our countries handle this very differently. The procedure itself is more difficult for women, due to the compelxity of their reproductive organs, but here, its a lengthy process for both sexes - as if neither are capable, or "sure" in their decision I was going off my personal examples, sorry about the ignorance
/r/MensRights12/02/23 10:58 AM
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Where do you people come from? It's an equally difficult decision and process for men as well, and it's in place to put you on solid ground. You're making a permanent decision and doctors want to make sure you're not gonna change your mind and you're fully aware of the consequences. Why do you think it takes so much time, conversations, checkups and papers to get it done? But it has to be "the patriarchy". Men get it instantly for free, and women struggle to get it, since the decision really rev…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 08:18 AM
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Some posts tap into it a bit as well
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:45 AM
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Our teacher was verbally grading us on a subject. She asked the 3 of us the same question, waited for the answers and then graded us. The guy on my left didnt know much, but me and the girl on my left gave identical answers. Anyway, my grade was lower than hers. That, plus teachers saying that boys are smelly and lazy and reckless, and girls are more "good, smart and elegant", boys always getting in trouble for the dumbest stuff, like spilling some water on the floor (had a 5min lecture and we h…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:16 AM
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You literally reduced people to animals, women to their genitalia (calling it a commodity) and men to their "primal nature to fuck". Idk about you, but that sounds like some andrew tate shit. If you simplify something so much, not only do you completely dehumanize everybody involved, you also lose a lot of the important information, often coming to false conclusions. Furthermore, you claimed the problem wasnt there in 1950, because "every guy got pussy" and "men nowadays are bitches. While i agr…
/r/MensRights06/02/23 09:45 AM
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How you came up with that twisted logic lol
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:13 AM
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What the fuck are you on right now
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:02 AM
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Technically, men were allowed to "rape" their wives, because the state believed the husband and wife are one in marriage, thus there was no such thing as martial rape. However, the man was still charged with sexual assault, as it was illegal. Charges were in place, it just wasnt rape, nor was it legal.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/02/23 05:39 PM
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Why doesnt the mom ever pay child support? Its her child too. Why is it always the man's financial duty, but not the mom's? Is it due to wage gap? Will smith being turned into a meme when emotionally on his lowest is a prime example of how much respect society has for men's feelings. I dont give a crap about will smith, personally, but your emotions should never be a joke for others
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:03 PM
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You're taking the problem and saying "men should fox that". When society is saying "men dont cry", society will actively ridicule men who cry. "Men should just cry anyway" is not the answer. Will Smith crying over his wife, literally got turned into a meme for laughs all over the internet, you cant say thats an issue that "men are letting society rule their lives". Same with emotional support. Wr dont get support, we get told to man up - unless you're lucky enough to find good friends, which i w…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 12:19 PM
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If you censor the word, you're the one giving it the meaning. As often as we call each other "cunts" among friends, the word has completely lost it's meaning. Its just a word and it should be treated as such. Diversity hiring has very much been a problem and its present in all sorts of companies, except the ones that keep society running - infrastructure maintainance, power grids, construction, garbage collecting and dangerous jobs are 99% done by men. I have gotten a job, ran by an incompetent …
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:42 AM
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Unless you're talking about third world countries, this makes zero sense. Diversitiy hiring lets minorities get hired with less qualification than cis white men, for example. Theres also much more social tolerance towards their toxic actions, because "they're oppressed" and society is compensating for that, while in western countries, black people are in no more danger than any other group of people. Except that you see black people making openly racist statements against white people without an…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 09:58 AM
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I'd love to hear what issues
/r/MensRights02/02/23 07:26 AM
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You're talking about a specifc kind of movie. We have plenty female heroes, as well as male heroes nowadays. If we're talking about this specific genre, there's nothing wrong with a bitter-sweet victory where flaws are acknowledged, while the hero (non gender specific) still gets rewarded, because flaws are human. A movie like interstellar talks about cooper, the astronaut and his dauther, the scientist, who unknowingly work together in cooperation to save the human race - with an important fema…
/r/MensRights31/01/23 10:03 AM
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It makes men feel like they HAVE to do all these things of they want to ever get a girl And it makes girls feel like they're just trophies. Damaging to both sexes.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 09:52 AM
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"Where's the equality in that? That sort of media is intensely damaging to both sexes"
/r/MensRights31/01/23 09:45 AM
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I work in a retirement home. Been here for a month and i cant count on both hands the amount of times old nans were acting inappropriately because im a young man in my prime
/r/MensRights27/01/23 08:59 PM
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Idk, but it should, honestly. I wanna look at this as unbiased as possible, and altho i downvoted the first comment, this is 100% valid
/r/MensRights19/01/23 08:29 PM
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Lets ask ourselves why that is so? Certainly not the demonization and the lack of support And thats a reason to fear all men? She was told all her life by her aunt and grandma that men are evil, how's that not manufactured? Ur being ridiculous
/r/MensRights19/01/23 03:52 PM
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Sounds like your fear was manufactured. The vast majority of men are the sweetest people i know and most of us find value in being kind/helpful. Unfortunately, toxic men exist as well (just like toxic women) If you want to avoid the path of your grandma and aunt, learn to recognize early signs of an abusive person (red flags) and step away. That's pretty much the solution to all your problems. 90% of violence is done by people thr victim was close to, so theres very little reason to fear strange…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 04:34 AM
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Reading this as im leaving my apartment at 5AM to do physically-heavy labor in winter
/r/MensRights10/01/23 04:06 AM
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So you told her you're not in the mood and offered it later (on several different occasions), she gets physically and verbally violent, destroys your stuff, claims you should be wanting that all the time, refuses to apologize and blackmails you to only fix the damage once you "do your job". Im sure a sane person would react that way. Collect evidence and get out.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 01:08 AM
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As others have pointes out, they cant legally be enforced, so it doesnt matter at all But most people respect it anyway, bc they think its like the handicapped spots
/r/MensRights05/01/23 11:59 AM
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No, im pretty sure we're talking about the same thing here. Hormonal cycle is very much a thing in men
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:58 AM
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But... men do have hormonal cycles?? Theres no period, but we got hormonal cycles that influence our emotions just as much as women - i believe it's also way shorter than women's hormonal cycles
/r/MensRights03/01/23 09:56 AM
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When i see a test like that, im instantly out. Dont need that in my life
/r/MensRights03/01/23 12:54 AM
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I dont know whether i should say "im sorry", or "welcome to the club" haha But one thing is for sure, we gotta watch our backs more (in general) and support each other. We need a stronger support system, so we're harder to manipulate and tolerate abuse
/r/MensRights27/12/22 06:06 PM
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Highest % in lesbian couples, lowest in gay couples. Heterosexual couples are in the middle - almost like women cause all the problems. Not because of their biology or anything, but just the entitled way we're raising them due to the feminist influence... the statistics are there
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:01 AM
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Im a 5,10 dude myself and ive been harassed multiple times by people, and crackheads trying to ask for money and some tried to rob me. Men AND women (and somewhat 50/50 ratio). Especially in the city where i live, theres a common area where this happens and im uncomfortable and avoid it, despite the fact that its really public. Gender doesnt grant you immunity. I appear calm and collected, but im scared shitless of these people
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:56 AM
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Wait, so women who transition into men are encouraged to be treated as real men, enter male only spaces and so on, but men who transition into women are a threat to female only places? How in the earth does she not see the blatant hypocrosy, sexism (misandry) and discrimination? Literally everything about men is bad even after they transition, because deep down they're filthy rape-driven animals or something? Something about that just screams "nazi ideology", except its men and not jews. What th…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 09:48 PM
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First link to the post contain links to articles and studies, second image contains a source and third one is one of the sources for the second one Edit: typos and clarification
/r/MensRights23/12/22 02:10 PM
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There we go While looking at this number alone is pretty frightening, we must also take into account the other factors at play, such as false accusations being more common than actual rape cases, which add up to the number of cases, and the studies, showing that rape might be even more common for men, when taking into account a gender neutral definition of rape - meaning the definition doesnt require you to have a penis in order to be a rapist (im not making this up, a lot of places in the world…
/r/MensRights23/12/22 01:59 PM
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"I think" is not a reliable source of data for a debate like this
/r/MensRights23/12/22 01:22 PM
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...the publisher lists a few examples from individual men.... not statistics or reoccuring problems, but a list of 9 things that very specific men did, like "he thinks licking his girlfriend's face is sexy", says its a shortage of men, says all men need to be cancelled and the apocalypse is here... What the fuck did i just read?
/r/MensRights21/12/22 11:28 PM
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If you wamt to be a healthy example of a man, you have to arm the strong and aid the weak (in it's most basic, primal function, as seen all throughout the animal kingdom and a bog contributor to our survival as a species) Whoever puts weak down is nothing more than a worthless scum and a parasite on humanity's foreskin - if this is the language you understand
/r/MensRights20/12/22 09:29 PM
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They're already empowered /s
/r/MensRights17/12/22 01:13 PM
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You guys dont seem to know how AI development works. The AI is trained on existing data - sexism isnt programmed, its literally taught in the samples it looks at. Now, its possible to cherry pick the samples the AI trains on, but given the number of required samples, thats an unreasonable amount of work. So if anything, this isnt an indicator of a misandrist developer who made a sexist AI, its an indicator of the prevelance of misandry in society, which taught the AI that its ok to be sexist tow…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 12:03 PM
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As much as im following and supporting men's rights activism, i actually never thought about how many s*icide attempts from men go unreported... I just thought women attempt it more and men succeed more and thats that. But just like SA and domestic violence, men would underreport due to lack of support, kind of crazy
/r/MensRights14/12/22 01:44 AM
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Idk why this is getting downvoted. Its not harmful or false, its just a confused young man, asking questions and reaching out. My wisdom for you is "who gives a crap about labels"? You're respectful to your women, as well as men. You said you treat people in an eligitary fashion (idk if i spelled that correctly). So to say you're a "MRA" or "feminist" is stupid. You'd be an eligitarist (or however its spelled), but even that is pointless. Why would you even label yourself? Just be a reasonable a…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 11:46 PM
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No worries man, thats what the /s is for haha Theres a lot of useful sources that gets posted in this sub that includes sources to each claim, those sources include more sources for each claim and those sources contain links to papers on it, as well as a breakdown of the experiment and links to results of all studies, to show exactly how they isolated each factor of the study to come as close as possible to an objective result. Whenever i see those posts, i just save them and keep a backup every…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 11:23 AM
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Because deep down im still trying to make them understand its not about us, oppressing women, but we're genuinely fighting for equality in basic human decency
/r/MensRights12/12/22 11:16 AM
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Its funny how as soon as i saw the downvotes, i knew exactly what you were going to say + fail to provide any sources to back up your claims. Is there a script they teach you in the feminist circles? You guys sound like broken records at this point. If you want to counter an argument, especially on something important, like support for abuse victims, which happen to be born with a penis (a.k.a. 50% of the population), you need to cite sources that have been backed up by research, which can valid…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 10:36 AM
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What about left wing extremism??? They're literally shutting off one party, how in the world is this happening?
/r/MensRights12/12/22 01:02 AM
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Panther greeting
/r/MensRights10/12/22 01:55 AM
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That one actually made me chuckle Sadly it might not be far from the truth
/r/MensRights08/12/22 11:25 PM
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A female basketball player who spoke against the US in the past being traded for a dangerous weapons dealer, responsible for an unspoken amount of deaths?? Thats pretty stupid. Its worse when the other option was an ex us marine who fought for his country. So yeah, it kind of is very unfair and in a way oppressive. Imagine the big fat middle finger when you risk your life to fight for your country and they say "lol no, you dont matter" and pick a D-fame level basketball player over you for, agai…
/r/MensRights08/12/22 11:14 PM
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Oh my god, that sub is disgusting... what have you uncovered?
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:33 PM
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I mean, in a one time scenario, thats pretty reaaonable, defending yourself is valid But staying in an abusive relationship where you both abuse each other is just messed up - first time it happens, i'd defend myself and gtfo
/r/MensRights04/12/22 01:58 PM
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Idk why this is getting downvoted, thats a pretty reasonable argument
/r/MensRights04/12/22 11:43 AM
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Her records were literally erased. He was charged with "sex outside of marriage" (still not a worthy punishment, but its something), and he had to flee the country to avoid punishment, while the teacher was perfectly fine and safe, doing what she was doing. What separates polanski from the average man is the money and connections he had, meaning he could "get away" from all the bullshit, while most men's lives would have ended right there and then.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 10:06 AM
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Oh no no no, hold on. Both of these are terrible people and by what i've heard of polanski in this conversation, he's a scum and a piece of shit. The stuff he did was 100% not okay and he deserves all the punishment he didnt get and worse. Dont put words in my mouth. Im saying the woman got off easier than him, thats all i'm arguing. Its been like this since the dawn of feminism and its still very prevelant today. Thats it. Not defending polanski, i even stated it multiple times in this conversa…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 10:02 AM
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If it's been more than 10 years, his criminal records were erased, because thats how the law works. I dont know enough about him to know how long he was abroad, but if they simply ignored his records, this is the only thing that comes to mind. However, he wasnt just "excused" like this, had he stayed and not abused the hole in the system. Again, im not justifying it in any way, but his reprocussions were obviously worse, even though he got it off easier than he should
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:52 AM
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...he got charged tho?? (Rightfully so) He didnt get his license back and continued his job, he had to flee the country. Im not defending him, he was a shitty person, but his actions had consequences that changed his life. Its shocking that his charges were reduced, had to have been a really good lawyer. But nonetheless, he faced consequences that our female teacher did not
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:40 AM
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Polanski has nothing to do with this. She was seducing a 17yo, got charged and the charges were dropped and she was able to continue teaching. In no world would that happen to a man. As soon as he'd have the words "sexual assault" or "p*dophile" associated with him, he'd serve 15 years and had his license removed for life. But thats not even the main part, she pushed towards removing a legal age of consent. Doesnt that kind of show her true motives, giving us a fair reason to believe that the "a…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:26 AM
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Well, she WAS trying to seduce a 17yo, based on which her parents reported her, but the charges were dropped, as they do, as long as the perpetrator is a woman, looking at the statistics
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:19 AM
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Are we in the same sub???? You have to be trolling. Point me to ONE of those posts. I have never seen one
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:17 AM
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To comment on the topic itself, you got yourself into a conflict and now you're doubting the discussed material "(if it was true)", in a way to downplay the situation, but you havent provided any counter source of any sorts. "She got her license back, because it wasnt as clean cut". Then tell me what it was like? I cant just take your word for it, you werent there. That'd be dishonesty. Granted, i didnt go around looking for another source myself, but im not the one trying to disprove this. You …
/r/MensRights01/12/22 08:53 AM
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I have a feeling you arent really familiar with this sub, based on your 3rd paragraph. Most of the posts in here are links about passing laws or moves by feminism, which impact men in a negative, often oppressive way, and THAT is what we criticize. (Example: passing a law in portugual, granting women the permission to sue for sexual harassement for looking at them if they dont like it - theres no way to disprove it at all, its messed up) Often times you'll find comments encouraging people to not…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 08:49 AM
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She was a teacher who seduced her 17-y-o student (teacher-student is a no go, and even though 15 is the age of consent in a lot of countries nowadays, its still frowned upon to prey upon a person below the age when they receive the rest of their human rights (aka, turning 18), especially when you're in your 30s). The girl's parents rightfully reported her (meaning it WASNT okay even in their time), she lost her license, but got the p*ssypass, bc she just got it back?? And she was pushing towards…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 08:38 AM
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My exact thoughts. But if women were raping women, they'd do something to prosecute the rapists and protect the poor women. The "its men doing it to men" argument is nothing but misandry. Criminals have to be stopped, regardless of gender, why is the divide here even necessary?
/r/MensRights29/11/22 11:36 AM
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Because dad never agreed to be a dad to begin with, and mom was 100% on page that that will not happen. They agreed not to become parents, but then mom said "fuck you, you're gonna be a dad now" with dad being completely unable to do anything about it, and now it's his fault. The woman has a 100% say in this, and if men dont comply with this and completely change their life,work longer hours and devote themselves to this child they never wanted or agreed to at all, they're irresponsible and shou…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:52 AM
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Then i'm really happy for you, as you're extremely lucky to have a somewhat healthy upbringing despite the circumstances. Majority of unwanted kids or kids who grow up in a financially unstable homes have it really bad tho. Parents, who aren't educated in how to raise kids, are often abusive, poverty, etc. (I know a lot of cases here irl, they're constantly reliant on financial aid, while the parents fuel their addictions) And while i completely agree with your proposed solutions, i still think …
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:40 AM
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Thats a shitty analogy. You're implying that it's solely my own responsibility, hitting those cars (having sex im this case), and you exaggerated by having 7 of them. A car crash can be pin-pointed to one person, who didnt follow the rules, or messed up, or lost control of the vehicle, etc. Now idk if they havent told you this yet, but MAKING A CHILD REQUIRES 2 PEOPLE, AND BOTH ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE (unless it was straight up r*pe, which this clearly wasnt) How are you even making this compari…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:31 AM
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I would much rather get aborted than live a life where my parents cant properly support me, growing up Or worse, hate me and abuse me / project their anger onto the child. No thanks. Abortion wouldnt have harmed me (as a fetus), but a broken family VERY much would.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:24 AM
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I think you misspelled "i couldn't"* take responsibility. I did not consent, i took active measures to prevent it, my partner and I had an agreement to prevent it, as none of us are capable of having a child, nor are we capable financially. My partner gets pregnant despite all the odds, decides to keep it, despite our agreements, and i'm forced to pay child support despite the lack of my consent and my financial situation. The guy literally did not have a say in anything at all, having the respo…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:21 AM
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No, dont. They'll make you pay child support
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:13 AM
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As a former fetus, i can assure you that i wasnt aware of anything, nor was i conscious and i would have zero idea, nor would I care if i was aborted.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:12 AM
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Talk about hypocricy...
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:03 AM
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These people dont like that tho
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:14 AM
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Groping, touching, invading personal space, no? When everything is sexual harassement, nothing is. The man was looking in your general direction, come on
/r/MensRights21/11/22 02:03 PM
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"Its a bad world and we all know it" There's your problem. You're going in with a negative attitude, looking to be victimized. People are much more friendly and well-intentioned than you think. Stop looking for enemies, look for friends instead. He could have been zoning out, or just looking without a second thought, looking at someone is not sexual harassement, altho it can be uncomfortable. Just say it and dont make a big deal out of it
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:53 PM
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So the blind person is sexually harrasing you for unknowingly staring at you. Thats some mental gymnastics right there Have we become so divided? We're all people ffs. If you look for the light, you'll often find it. If you look for the dark, thats all you'll ever see
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:46 PM
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So the blind person is sexually harrasing you for unknowingly staring at you. Thats some mental gymnastics right there Have we become so divided? We're all people ffs. If you look for the light, you'll often find it. If you look for the dark, thats all you'll ever see
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:46 PM
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"I didnt come here to be stared at!!" "What? I'm blind.." "i'm getting the manager!" Vs "Hey, could you please not stare at me?" "Oh, sorry, im blind, i wasnt aware" "oh, i'm sorry, i'll just move aside a bit" Theres a big difference with being reasonably vocal and cautious and being a dick.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 12:12 PM
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To be fair, the guy shouldn't have taken up your space because of this - leaning on the other side is perfectly reasonable, not to invade other people's space. If you're being squished, it's probably the guy's fault.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 12:08 PM
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Happy men's day!
/r/MensRights19/11/22 06:28 PM
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I guess getting a different job isnt an option? Even a job that doesnt require a field of expertise? I've worked minimum wage before, stacking boxes or working at a construction site. Its not pretty, but if you need money, you'll find something. Im also assuming you've been stabbed before? Considering this is off your personal experience? I dont wanna come off as insensitive, but going from "being assertive" to "that gets you stabbed" is a collosal jump. Do you live in 3rd world brasil or someth…
/r/MensRights14/11/22 04:49 PM
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Well, great job on memorizing the talking points, the indoctrination must have worked. Assertiveness at work is a thing viewed positively and literally all of my friends, male and female, who are successful at work are assertive and have respect from their peers, as well as most of their bosses - sometimes it causes arguments, but having reasonable boundaries usually results in a positive outcome. And if your boss fires you because you wanna be treated as a human being, you're better off without…
/r/MensRights14/11/22 04:15 PM
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Personally, i feel like you're describimg a situation where a woman tries to be kind, but not firm. I'm not justifying the reaction, but i can see how the lack of direction can seem misleading at times. On the opposite side, "incel" is now an insult to be frowned upon and a one direct way to shut down a conversation, because an incel's thoughts "arent worth hearing". At the end of the day it comes down to "treat others with respect", but also "grow a spine" to put it raw. Be assertive, but respe…
/r/MensRights13/11/22 04:21 PM
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Never said that I said they shouldn't be bashed and shamed, but treated as people. There are mature and respectful ways to set boundaries without being a dick
/r/MensRights13/11/22 04:08 PM
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Call it communication noise then. But i think its fairly safe to say we're on the same page when it comes to rape. Remember, its not "you vs me", its "us against the problem", in this case, the handful of idiots who allegedly commented stupid shit We're not bad people, you know, i think we could genuinely get along without this pointless pressure
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:14 PM
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You're looking at the wrong question right now. "They said mean things about me when i shared my traumatic story", answered with "can i see the post?" Isn't Ill intentioned. It could be a case of "some idiots posted stupid things, but got heavily downvoted, so its okay" (which does happen, but their comments are rejected by the community, which clearly shows the nature of this place), or a misunderstanding overall. Its pretty common that men like to focus on solutions when women just need empath…
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:06 PM
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Lets assume there's no prejudice present here. If somebody asks you for a source to validify the claim, the only reasonable thing to do is show it to them. The source contains no such information, therefore the person making the claim is sttaight up spreading negative misinformation. I thought we are fighting for truth? Now if you enter the same scenario with the mindset that "the other side is evil", of course you'll take it as an attack of disagreement. The funny thing is, the source was found…
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:47 PM
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How on earth is that a bad faith question? You said something bad about a group i havent experienced yet and i want to make sure its true. Im not attacking anyone or calling anyone out, i'm trying to validify the data, which is pretty rational if you ask me. In return, my comment gets removed and we're labeled as a hate group? Makes no sense
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:35 PM
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No you havent, she didn't have a penis /s
/r/MensRights04/11/22 08:25 AM
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Statistically, women swipe right only 5%, while still getting a 63% match rate, so im guessing they felt called out by your comment. The numbers are heavily stacked against guys and they dont want to change that. They can be as shallow and picky as possible and still have a more than 60% guarantee to find a partner
/r/MensRights04/11/22 07:21 AM
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"Pack your fucking toothbrushes and toilet paper. Ask your moms and girlfriends for tampons to use as bandages. Carry your own asses, because we cant do that for you!" ~ Russian sargeant, speaking to a group of young recruits. They're literally not even provided toilet paper and bandages. Those men arent given shit
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:03 AM
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Imagine not being taught proper socializing by your parents, then not finding friends with your peers or really socialize with women, get alienated and bullied for years, rejected and evoke disgust from women till the point you resent the gender as a whole and downgrade them to arm candy and domestic servants. What these people need is a lot of help, not more alienation and slander.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 03:03 PM
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Because MGTOW wont have the double standards, and feminists feel entitled to them, because they genuinely believe there's a patriarchy, they're being oppressed and they deserve to be treated better than men, to compensate for that and give them "an equal outcome" (even though as a result, in most countries women now have MORE rights than men, yet they still believe in the opressive, patriarchal society)
/r/MensRights31/10/22 11:02 AM
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Imagine calling someone who can't find a meaningful relationship and struggling with loneliness "unworthy of being loved" and telling them to "just get a hooker" Jesus christ the lack of empathy or human treatment
/r/MensRights31/10/22 10:58 AM
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The stats were all over the comments, but since you didnt bother to read, allow me to jump in with a more "organized" list of articles with additional links to studies as well as detailed explanations on how those studies were done to prove a clear, transparent, unbiased answer. Enjoy. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/x0bdcw/links_on_womens_violence_against_men/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:34 AM
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Not much about women, but a lot about feminists. They're saying that women are incapable of pulling their weigth and need to be babied to make it. I wonder how they dont find it insulting? They want to be treated as kids, essentially, yet claim they're "strong and independant"
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:07 AM
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Gotcha man https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/x0bdcw/links_on_womens_violence_against_men/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/MensRights29/10/22 10:13 AM
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Its really difficult to find an example on youtube without added commentary by others (original sources), but all you have to do is search up "fat phobia" on youtube, twitter hashtag, google, any news article or literally anywhere else online. I can guarantee you 100% that you'll get tons of results and i can guarantee you that you'll find all of the things i've listed above. Before you say i "couldnt even provide a link", as you people usually do, i'm on mobile, waiting for my turn in the bathr…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:06 PM
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"Plus sized women refuse to date overweigth men" - double standard + the wording You've got "curvy" women who refuse to date anything but a perfect man. You've got "big boned" influencers who promote the idea that their followers should go for skinny, athletic and "the top of the hierarchy" men, because "women deserve the best, its only natural that they go for the best mates, because it's in human biology", which is true, but "men are bigoted, discriminatory and 'fat phobic' if they refuse to d…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:21 AM
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I wouldn't say "good" https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/x0bdcw/links_on_womens_violence_against_men/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:10 AM
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What do you mean? Thats literally everywhere
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:08 AM
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all men are stupid (even the well-established characters like bruce banner, who has been through a LOT of shit, has been dumbed down to make the female characters appear "better") main character is entitled, rude,, impatient, aggressive and overall unlikeable. (Thats a great thing if you wanna show character development, except that there is no development, the character is "perfect the way she is and the world owes her shit, because "she's been catcalled"") - which is quite literally sending a …
/r/MensRights25/10/22 07:44 AM
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I complimented a girl's outfit
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:15 PM
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We're not going to war with other tribes anymore. The reason for the evolutionary "expandable-ness" is not there anymore. Therefore it's unjust to be treated as expandable
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:12 PM
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List of resources. And additional links to where those resources came from, as well as detailed explanations on how the studies were conducted to avoid any form of bias. There isn't a single reality where you can deny the existence of misandry or it's significance and/or normalization in today's society. You wanted data, i hope that will do.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 10:28 AM
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I love how this place is kept in check from becoming an echo chamber Sure, the situation sucks, but theres not much to be done about it
/r/MensRights22/10/22 10:30 AM
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Long story short, OP is upset over a bunch of heavily downvoted comments, projecting that onto the group as a whole (source: read a lot of the comments) Second point is "what are MRAs doing to combat homophobia?", and the answer is "there's nothing to combat, we're not homophobic" and "we treat it like a normal thing and dont make a big deal out of it instead of loudly parading it" Thats all you need from this post
/r/MensRights20/10/22 09:39 AM
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Maybe ONE LAST thing i'd add is "be empathetic towards his emotions" - try to understand what he feels and what he's going through and never do anything to him that you wouldnt be okay with being done to you. I hope that helps
/r/MensRights16/10/22 10:26 PM
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The nuances are very nit-picky and they almost sound "pathetic" in a way, but it's little things that show what your dynamic is in a relationship, but alright. I could summarize it by saying "talk to your bf the same way you talk to your girlfriends" - obviously dont talk about fashion and guys and gossip, unless he's interested in that, but what i mean is "treat his thoughts and emotions with the same value you'd have for women". This is extremely situational, but here are some examples i had w…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 10:24 PM
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The fact that you made this post shows that you're in the right direction Dont let yourself be disrespected and value yourself as a person and pretty much apply that to him as well. I could go on about the minor nouances, like "how to reply when he's being genuine to valuate his feelings", or the bigger things like double standards in emotional/physical abuse (lets hope it never ever comes to that in anyone's case), but at the end of the day, if you adapt the mentality of "we dont owe each other…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 10:41 AM
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Not in their narrative
/r/MensRights15/10/22 04:32 AM
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You're definitely on the right track, stay a bro 👊
/r/MensRights07/10/22 08:04 PM
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I love this response, you're a great guy :)
/r/MensRights07/10/22 08:01 PM
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You're not rapists. You're not murderers and criminals. Your emotions matter just as much as anyone else's. You're not just emotionless, work-driven sex robots. You have value outside of what you can provide. You aren't white supremacists. You aren't expected to be either perfect or a failure. Theres plenty of those
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:36 PM
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I mean, technically you could do that and if you own a private company, you have all legal rights to do so, but it still rubs me off the wrong way I think you should be hiring based of characteristics and skills instead of gender, but that's none of my business Good luck to you
/r/MensRights26/09/22 04:37 PM
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I needed this post
/r/MensRights26/09/22 03:17 PM
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Having a bad experience and taking a "break" from talking to women is okay. Never interacting with them and avoiding them because of some bad experiences is just downright unhealthy. The healthiest thing to do is knowing that some are awful and some are great - just like guys (gender literally doesnt play a role in what kind of an asshole you are) and spotting the red flags before you give them a chance to hurt you and that's that Turning away from half the population because of bad experiences …
/r/MensRights26/09/22 10:30 AM
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Of course, i never implied he's all great, i disagree with a lot of the things he has to say, but he makes some really solid points on the matter as well, its important to stay critical of everyone and imo, a golden middle is a grest place to be in most cases
/r/MensRights15/09/22 11:38 AM
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Matt walsh would be proud, sir
/r/MensRights15/09/22 07:57 AM
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Now define female
/r/MensRights15/09/22 07:00 AM
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I mean, if a toddler runs around with untied shoes and trips, you'll "victim blame him" by saying "i told you we gotta tie those shoes, now you saw what happens" He didnt jump on his face, but he increased his chances for that happening. Now, rape is different, bc the shoe laces have no thoughts or morality and the rapist shouldn't fucking do that - but telling a criminal not to do crime is as effective as putting essential oils on a tumor to make it disappear. Im not letting rapists off the hoo…
/r/MensRights15/09/22 06:57 AM
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Its almost like gender doesnt play a role in what an asshole you are 🤔
/r/MensRights13/09/22 09:49 AM
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Hey, ban me too pls!
/r/MensRights13/09/22 05:45 AM
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80% of publications for housing in my area specifically say "looking for a FEMALE resident!" With all caps Like gee... i've got a female roommate right now and she's messy as hell, while i keep things pretty sanitized
/r/MensRights13/09/22 05:40 AM
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Wow, the comment section is not what i was expecting, but its a pleasant surprise. Im glad we can discuss men's rights and not be incels, theres some really good advice in here, im proud of you guys!
/r/MensRights12/09/22 11:36 AM
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Which highlights the issue imo, its not just one dipshit, its literally in the law Edit: typo
/r/MensRights09/09/22 09:49 AM
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"But it's ok when women break the law and do the exact same things they victimize themselves over"
/r/MensRights09/09/22 06:04 AM
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I would definitely get the police involved. They're threatening to hurt you, which is illegal, and the school is not doing anything. From your story, you're all mostly 18 by now, so they're legally responsible for their actions and threats are punishable by law You did a stupid thing (kissing a taken girl and helping her in an immoral act of cheating), but what happened to you was an injustice, which is greatly affecting your life and putting you in danger. I suggest you call the police station,…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:30 AM
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The only correct answer
/r/MensRights05/09/22 11:09 PM
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Im having a really hard time understanding this one
/r/MensRights05/09/22 08:55 PM
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No problem, just wanna clarify, not everyone deserves the shade from these general statements Thank you for voicing your opinion, have a great day!
/r/MensRights05/09/22 11:19 AM
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I think it's a consequence of having a "no ban" policy (this sub rarely bans anyone in belief of free speech, which is a good thing), but it could turn into an echo chamber very quickly I personally see a lot toxic comments downvoted into oblivion, but there are some that slip through - its inportant to keep a critical eye and know that the majority of people in here and genuine and healthy, every community has a loud and persistent minority and its our duty to call them out on it. I hope you fi…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:33 AM
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Thank you so much for your service, however, i think we should definitely be bothered by "anti-women" posts. We're about men's rights, not misoginy. We should voice out against terrible women, not just women in general
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:27 AM
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Oh my god.. this entire interaction is just disgusting Im in shock
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:58 AM
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What the actual f.... how is this a thing? Can i see the scene? I wanna verify my frustrations
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:36 AM
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..excuse me, WHAT?
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:34 AM
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And people will explode, how can you possibly justify arresting someone for ignoring you? Thats basic human rights Feminism will lose support as more and more people see how messed up it is. Either that, or im optimistic. But im happier not worrying about it too much, i'm going my own way
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:38 PM
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Is it bad that i kind of want this to go too far? Bc then literally nobody will dare to approach women and they'll see how stupid this whole thing is and the "power imbalance" will reverse - women will be deprived of male attention and things will go back, surely
/r/MensRights01/09/22 10:24 AM
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The bar should not be lowered because you dont make the cut Kind regards, a medic in a volunteer fitefighter unit
/r/MensRights31/08/22 10:14 AM
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Man, i used to work at one of the biggest TV stations in our country that was run by women. I know not all women are the same and there are some amazing women out there, but never tell me that a woman isn't capable of being a complete garbage of a human being. Gender has nothing to do with whether or not you are a parasite on humanity's foreskin
/r/MensRights29/08/22 07:21 AM
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Good advice, much approve
/r/MensRights25/08/22 08:46 AM
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Dude, i am so sorry for you.. this sucks
/r/MensRights23/08/22 10:02 AM
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It was never a "me vs you" situation, it was a "we coexist, but im drawing a line somewhere" Best of luck to you, stranger
/r/MensRights22/08/22 07:19 PM
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I can agree with you on a lot of the points, except the echo chamber thing. Compared to the female subs, there's a lot more room for discussion here - if i made your first comment on a feminist sub, i'd get banned instantly - we got plenty of examples of men asking innocent questions or questioning their beliefs that resulted in bans and threats in DM I honestly do believe that most feminists (that arent radicals) are perfectly reasonable and say things with a good intention - the problem is the…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 06:54 PM
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I mean, if you're going to deny the longer jail sentences for men for the same crimes, child support, family court, more tolerance (and often even incouraging) towards insulting men, but defending women, the pushing for "gender diversity" in workplaces despite the lack of experience, while most risky and hardworking jobs are still strictly done by men, while they're drafted and women aren't, then yeah, you can expect some backlash. It's a sad reality we live in and the fact that people dont even…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 06:27 PM
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How does feminism not include misandry? They shut down and cancel anyone and everyone that doesnt agree with them, including other feminists. Men's opinions automatically dont count bc of their gender while this sub values opinion over gender or labels and point out blaint misoginy from other guys, its honestly a really healrhy and reasonable group - unlike what i've seen from any feminist group Give me examples or articles or anything i can see first hand, simply words dont do it here
/r/MensRights22/08/22 05:54 PM
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I'm just gonna plop this here
/r/MensRights22/08/22 06:46 AM
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What. A. Read.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 06:33 AM
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This comment makes me angry
/r/MensRights22/08/22 06:13 AM
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Look at op's post history though Sadly it's true...
/r/MensRights21/08/22 05:35 AM
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I think "misinformed" is a better term I know you're upset, but you gotta see them as human as well. I believe their realities are heavily distorted, biased, unfair and straight up degrading towards men, but calling everyone "dumb asf" isn't going to get us anywhere
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:35 PM
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I just had an impossible conversation about that with a friend yesterday and let me tell you, this is the right way to have a conversation. That was just a huge, unreasonable mess without listening to any of my points, while i was sitting there, nodding
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:55 AM
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"The bar is the literal ground" Oh boy....
/r/MensRights20/08/22 09:39 AM
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Comment section isnt even hateful towards OP, they're literally just arguing counter-points If that's your definition of "hate", it makes sense why nobody agrees
/r/MensRights13/08/22 09:08 AM
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I dont think you should be proud for taking it away, nor i think you should give her everything just because of the fact that she's your girlfriend. You should be careful with these things, because its easy to make it seem like you're taking revenge - only give and take things away from people based on your relationship, communication, comfort and trust, not their status in your life (ex: "we're no longer dating, you've lost your priviledges" type of deal) That girl was 100% taking advantage of …
/r/MensRights10/08/22 10:33 AM
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You dont, they're clearly trolls Dont mind them, thanks for posting :)
/r/MensRights10/08/22 06:21 AM
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This is reassuring
/r/MensRights07/08/22 08:00 AM
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You dont have to get disrespectful, we're having a discussion. Nobody called for aggression. If you're got strong communication, planning, organization, logic skills and good upper body strength, working at a construction site makes sense (im not generalizing the entire gender) I know i'll be 100% rejected if i apply for a preschool teacher position simply because im a man, because people dont trust men with kids. Its sexist, but im not equipped to handle that, so i dont mind. Ive got male frien…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 06:13 AM
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You didnt get born into college is what i mean, you've been raised/brought up by someone, gained certain qualities that are useful in certain fields, just like myself - i'd SUCK as a preschool teacher for example (which is an extremely female dominated field btw - for a reason, as well as a really important one - those kids are our future) We got different strengths and its dumb to push against that, thats what im trying to say
/r/MensRights04/08/22 06:00 AM
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"—- 90/100 times, they hire a man. If you want same treatment as a woman. It should be 50/50." I disagree. It's got a lot to do with how we were raised, but if you've got a job that requires an interest in a niche, being aggressive on the market and shark-fighting your way to the top, while you have one gender being raised to suit this position better (because sadly, boys and girls are being raised differently), a 90/10 field makes perfect sense, and forcing a 50/50 split position, you are in fa…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 05:53 AM
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...the label is not the point tho? The values matter, who gives a crap about the label, she even talked about how its just as bad as it being called masculinism You missed the point here
/r/MensRights04/08/22 05:42 AM
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No problem, good luck on the project!
/r/MensRights03/08/22 07:16 PM
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Men having value outside of "bring useful/productive", that one hits home
/r/MensRights02/08/22 05:54 AM
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