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ABoxOfPain/r/askMRP02/07/21 01:42 PM
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Goal: 10% BF 1)Lift more. 2)Eat less.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/22 08:22 PM
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9 33,6'4, 205 20% I stopped being true to myself. At some point over the spring last year I hit 190 and felt very good about myself. New wardrobe, all the asspats for losing weight, I let my head get full of horse shit and I started slacking on tracking. No problem, it had been six months straight of eating the same thing every day and I knew what I needed to keep going with my program. Got sick and had to skip a day at the gym, which turned into two, which turned into 3. Now at the beginning of…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/22 05:06 PM
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If you can love yourself genuinely (with honest critique, authentic appreciation, and healthy challenge), yourself provides you a kind of mental and spiritual squat rack you always have with you Something I have been genuinely struggling with my entire life. Something to develop. A new skill to learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/21 09:11 PM
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32yrs 6'4" 196lbs DL:230 bench: 135 squat:255 I acted like a faggot over at askMRP but it ended up helping me realize that I haven't made any progress outside of losing weight and lifting. At all. I have spent the past two decades of my life smoking, drinking, snorting, and injecting whatever I could get my hands on to fill a hole inside of me. I am addicted to validation. I spent too long feeling sorry for myself for getting molested, when the hole I was trying to fill is the love or security I…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/21 08:26 PM
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That was a dumb question. I was happy for my buddy when he got his M760, I drove him out to the dealership so he could take delivery. I was happy for another when he became lead weldor. I cannot celebrate a man who spent the past five years sitting on a couch staring at a TV. Talking without action. All the negative traits I see in myself.
/r/askMRP03/07/21 04:35 PM
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Sounds like a good guy, how did you end up here?
/r/askMRP03/07/21 02:58 AM
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You should be able to celebrate other men and their journey even if it doesn't match yours. Why?
/r/askMRP03/07/21 02:57 AM
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I can see why you would think that.
/r/askMRP02/07/21 05:00 PM
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By eight I was able to outrun my mom, took me another decade until I was big enough to hit back when my dad started drinking. It was worth the stitches but i would have rather not taken the beatings to get there. Speaking of OYS, it's still the most useful tool on the subreddit. You should try to get over there and make a post when you get tired of trying to have sex with grandmas. We would love to have you.
/r/askMRP02/07/21 04:36 PM
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I already have children. I don't remember seeing you in OYS. Sacrifice? When is the last time you read the sidebar?
/r/askMRP02/07/21 03:25 PM
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Obviously, this is low stakes and the timing was terrible, but it made me take a step back and think about whether I could trust myself. Not there yet. Moving forward I have to ask myself when I make decisions I know will cause conflict if I'm willing to promise myself to stand up for them and own the consequences. Is that really the lesson here? You wanted to be tan and you got a tan. The problem is #1 you're in her frame. Who gives a fuck if she had cancer as a kid, you don't share genetics. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/21 02:24 PM
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Rumination is never helpful but my brain doesn't ever shut the fuck up unless I'm lifting. How did you stop? Meditation? It's simple to STFU when it comes not engaging with others, but my own mind is the problem.
/r/askMRP02/07/21 02:08 PM
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All women are capable of it. Goes hand in hand with Good Girls Do.
/r/askTRP02/07/21 12:18 PM
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The context is that you're an egotistical faggot who talks too much.
/r/askMRP02/07/21 12:04 PM
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Not just a gun safe, firearms education begins as early as two. The safe is for when you're not home to educate and correct.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/21 11:52 AM
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Why not wash your hands of it? Is the money a requirement? I'm not down with original sin, I don't know why the American Left is dredging up Old World models. Actually I know exactly why, control. It's not enough to stay in your lane and mind your own business anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/21 12:21 AM
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Not get married. Get his LTR killed by Eastern Europeans. Fuck dudes. Take your pick.
/r/askMRP01/07/21 02:43 PM
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What ways are you getting out and practicing? That's a failing point for me. I say hello to everyone that walks by out on the streets of our small town, but most people are in their own worlds. Had an old lady open on me the other day, and had a great conversation with her. All of the 70+ crowd is great to talk to, but I don't feel like I am improving, just maintaining my skills when I talk to them. You know what I mean? I still feel really uncomfortable cold approaching at bars.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/21 01:38 PM
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I personally wouldn't consult my fiance about the purchase of a fire extinguisher. Is it really your problem if your wife becomes hysterical in the presence of an inanimate object? Why is it a conversation? "I purchased a handgun to protect our home. This is where it is located, it is always loaded, and this is how you shoot it." end of conversation. Stop being afraid of your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/21 01:07 PM
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6'4 203# 20% D:220 S:230 B:130 Number 7 This week had a healthy reminder that I can only be accountable for myself. Had a consulting job fall through that would have been a good chunk of change for me. Thanks to doing 60 DoD earlier this year, I have enough money to maintain an abundance mentality, it doesn't worry me like it would have used to. The course study has picked up a little bit, still not interested in it, but I would be dumb not to follow the money. Been fucking a lot recently, Im st…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/21 01:01 PM
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the rest doesn't matter There's a reason that the stay plan is the go plan, you are destined to fail unless you are truly willing to burn everything.
/r/askMRP01/07/21 12:14 PM
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If you actually believed any of this you would have posted your height, weight, body fat, and lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/21 10:31 AM
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Are you sure that's what it really is or are you hamstering? When my current relationship was new I fucked my woman during menstruation. It's been years since I did that and I turned it down the other night. I thought it was because I don't desire her, which is true, I'm less attracted to her than I used to be, but the real reason is that I still haven't killed my need for validation. Jerking off gives that quick dopamine hit in a week when you're not being validated sexually, at least for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 11:40 AM
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You're right. You only have two hands anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 11:15 PM
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That's not a main event, that's just a series of shit tests that you failed. Get her skittles next year.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 08:19 PM
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He wouldn't be able to without fucking it up and proposing to her beforehand. She had him rightfully pegged as BB.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 07:54 PM
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Glad to hear you're kicking ass, some of your posts from a couple of years ago have been very helpful. No homo
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:58 PM
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Number 6: Went out for a walk, ended up at a local dive. Got hit on by a tranny as soon as I walked into the bar, fucked me right up. Great opener too, I want to have that confidence. Too much of a pussy to walk around and talk to the women there, I watched some of the fight and left to keep walking. My previous hookups outside of Tinder were mostly women I knew in passing, I have probably cold approached with sexual intent a handful of times in my life. Linked to my fear of failure, it's the sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:53 PM
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Always good to plan for a Bosnian civil war. The last year still hasn't convinced people that we're always a week away from chaos, despite the run on various items. What happens when the lights go out? What happens when they don't come back on? Gold and silver aren't the only metals for investors.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:40 PM
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we decided You need to hit the sidebar. Specifically year one of the rational male and pook, you can read pook in one sitting. Y1 isn't that long either but you will revisit both of them a couple of times. NMMNG and WISNIFG will take a few hours each. You aren't the only guy over 60 to do this, but all those guys shoot pure cocaine into their penises.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 09:47 PM
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I don't care how rich she is, she looks like Ted Cruz in a wig.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 01:19 PM
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In my experience, if a woman is into you she will make an effort to pay for things. If a woman is really into you, she will buy you things with her husband's money.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 11:44 AM
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5 32 engaged, toddler. 6'4 199 21%USN bench: 120 zpress: 95 squat: 185 all 5x5 Deadlift 225 1x5 I downloaded an app after the Time to Fuck post and didn't realize how much of a shit test that post was until I was swiping past heifers with bull rings through their noses. Made me realize that only thing I ever wanted from women was validation through sex and how little I have actually traveled the right path. I still don't "get it" I reacted to a reddit post in a way that could have put undue pres…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 10:47 AM
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OYS:4 32 engaged, toddler. 6'4 199 21%USN bench: 120 zpress: 95 squat: 185 all 5x5 Deadlift 225 1x5 Had a great time acting like a cranky asshole because I got flustered about being late to dinner, and then trying to get parking. In retrospect I don't even understand why I was upset about being late for a dinner reservation. It's been a problem my whole life. It's my fault for letting someone else dictate my time frame and me getting assmad about it. The topic of marriage was brought up and I to…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/21 03:55 PM
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I dumped all my fatbody clothes and work out in the nude. To answer the question: I am always dressed to go because if I don't shower and get dressed in the morning I feel like a dirtbag. I don't even own sweatpants and have one pair of khaki shorts. His part about envy was spot on about my old mental models, it's funny how obvious it is now. I always thought that leather jackets were for douchebags but in reality I was a envious little bitch who didn't think he was cool enough to wear an item o…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/21 12:05 PM
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Thanks for the information. I didn't have a goal bodyweight, just wanted to hit 12% BF and figured the best way was just to eat less.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/21 11:42 AM
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6'4 199 21%USN bench: 120 dead: 220 zpress: 90 squat: 185 all 5x5 I want all eliminate all of the self-sabotaging behaviors, negative thought patterns, and limiting subconscious beliefs that I have, they're holding me back. Adding 5-10 pounds each workout, no room to do OHP, hence the Z press. I already lost 70 pounds but going from 200 to 190 is taking longer than I want. Eating 1,600 on off days and 1,800 on lift days. It was easier to lose weight when the goal was a lower number, now trying t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/21 12:17 AM
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What have you been doing to prepare for the domestic violence charges that will be coming your way the next time your wife gets bored?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 11:33 AM
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Entry 2: early 30s, engaged, 1 toddler DL:230 Bench:120 reading parts of WISNIFG Made plans for every day we have off together this month, taking kid to zoo, couple nights away just us together. Had one overnight in three years. It's long overdue. Old me would have discussed these plans in great detail, asking questions, trying to pawn of coordinating onto my fiance. This time I just decided to book a bunch of stuff to do and told her not to make plans because we're busy. I'm not giving out plan…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/21 02:39 PM
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Mental health: I'm a fucking mess. Reading NMMNG opened up some early childhood wounds that I thought I had successfully suppressed. I started in before bed one night and I read it straight through. Sobbed quietly like a little bitch in bed as I realized how much ignored hurt is inside of me and how much of a piece of garbage I am. Started to set some strong boundaries, starting with my father. He asked me via phone call to come over and change his girlfriend's headlight bulb because he couldn't…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/21 02:50 AM
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Early 30s 6'4" 204# Bench:130 5x5 DL:150 1x5 BF:20% USN (has to be wrong, the deadlift doesn't lie) engaged to late 30s woman, 1 toddler. Self-improvement month 4, MRP month 2. Mission: Respect myself. Health: bought a bench and bar with some 1" plates for a song in January, got corona and didn't exercise for a month. It's been over six weeks since I smelled or tasted anything, it's never been easier to lose weight. Disappointed with my numbers, never lifted before this week but I know those are…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/21 11:40 PM
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