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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 39 | Crosspost from r/funny. Wish ihad this type of relationship with the ex. | ACEsFather | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/21 05:08 PM | |
| 3 | Divorcing wife with sole ownership of house in my name (Texas) | ACEsFather | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/20 08:10 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | Is it normal to trash your spouse amongst friends?Those are absolutely red flags. It won't get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Stayed for the Kids?Do not do it! I thought it would be for the best, too but your kids will pick up on your unhappiness. Since i left my kids tell me they have never seen me happier and my time with them is better quality than when i stayed with my ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Snooping on ex, resisting the urge?Be careful with snooping. It could lead to a rabbit hole that may put you in a bad place mentally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/21 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Trying to decide if I give my wife another shotI had the same relationship. I should have left earlier than I did. She never tried to get help or therapy for her behavior. I put up with it for years. People like that don't usually change. As someone said in another comment DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT!!!!!!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/21 03:00 PM |
| 4 | If divorce takes a year.. do you end up having to pay a years worth of child support?Best not to move out until the judge orders you to. We had a temporary judgement since we didn't agree on anything at the beginning. The temporary orders had me paying a lower child support while paying the house note. I left and stayed with family until she decided to move. The house was mine anyway since i bought it before we married. This was in texas. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | What happens to my house?Get a good lawyer. Seems obvious but I went with one that a friend recommended and wasn't impressed. By the time I realized I could've had better it was too late. Shop around. Also, since you don't have kids it should be really easy to cut your losses and never have deal with her again. You shouldn't be in too bad shape. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What happens to my house?I just got divorced in with the same situation in Texas. Since the house was bought in my name before i was married so I'm the only one on the deed. Refinanced while married. She was only entitled to 50% of the principle that was paid on the house while married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 15 | XW (36) reached out to meI had the exact same scenario happen to me except for the cancer part. Unfortunately I did wind up marrying her again like a fucking moron. I really missed my kid though. For the first year she was fine and nice. Then, she started being her old abusive self again. I feel like the biggest idiot in the world believing her when she told me she changed and wouldn't act like that anymore. So after divorcing her for the second time, I'm out a whole lot of money and paying crazy child support. Very exp… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/20 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Child support(Texas)I think by law only 20% for one kid | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/20 06:42 AM |
| 5 | Child support(Texas)Texas only looks at the numbers. They will base your child support on your total income. Almost zero percent chance of getting around it. I work in a refinery and my base pay is half of what I make with overtime hours, which I've worked a lot lately due to turnarounds. I told the judge that my overtime isn't guaranteed or steady. Didn't matter. He saw the numbers and made me pay max guideline child support. I pay $2300 a month for 2 kids. If I don't get any overtime, that's about half my check. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Put her name on the house deedHer lawyer will not win that battle. They are saying that as a tactic for negotiation. Like, "we'll give that up if you agree to this" type thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Put her name on the house deedI had to provide mortgage statements that dated back to the time we got married and took the difference in the principle balance from then to the time of separation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/20 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Put her name on the house deedI'm going through the exact same thing. I live in Texas. My lawyer says she's entitled to half the equity from the time we were married. Now I wish I hadn't made all this extra principle payments. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing wife with sole ownership of house in my name (Texas)Can that actually happen? I thought it was hard to get the kids to not live with their mother. She isn't a bad mom so I figured it would be impossible to have the kids live with me. I would love to have the kids stay at the house with me, though. I'll definitely talk to my lawyer on that. Thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing wife with sole ownership of house in my name (Texas)I figured its going to be damn near impossible to get the kids because of my shift work schedule. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/20 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Divorcing wife with sole ownership of house in my name (Texas)Good point. Thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/20 08:48 PM |
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