ACR96 Archive

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0	Dates priority is to having fun not to get to know each other(because is foundation to start a friendship or relationship). Thoughts on this hypothesis If you spend some time talking to them prior to setting a date, you’ll get an idea of what they like and that’ll help you set a date that’s enjoyable for you both. Then you can spend the actual date getting to know one another without worrying about the fun part, because it’ll come naturally. Go without any agendas and just try to connect with the other person. You’d be surprised at how effective that is. Try taking them out for drinks in the evening, but choose a nice or unique place instead of…	/r/seduction	15/03/21 12:18 PM
2	Does anyone else hate having casual sex? You might be a demisexual, look it up. I was kind of in the same spot a few months ago. Had a couple of hookups and then had my first relationship, which lasted a while. Every hookup I’ve since then hasn’t been even remotely enjoyable, so I did some research and realised I’m a demisexual. Made sense to me because I never enjoyed meaningless sex, although I’ll still have one night stands sometimes because I enjoy the thrill of the chase, but not necessarily the act itself.	/r/seduction	16/01/21 06:16 PM
1	Girl from 5-6 years ago wants to meet me again but do I look different now? Haha couldn’t tell why. Thought it was just a change of style tbh. I mean the facial stuff is fine. It’s definitely been easier to gain weight this year and the dull skin can easily be cleared with a good skincare routine. No problem, man. Hope it was useful	/r/seduction	31/12/20 01:42 AM
1	Girl from 5-6 years ago wants to meet me again but do I look different now? Besides your hairstyle, I can’t notice anything that much different tbh	/r/seduction	31/12/20 01:36 AM
1	Girl from 5-6 years ago wants to meet me again but do I look different now? Hey dude, you honestly look great! People obviously change over a period of time and 5-6 years is quite long. From what I can tell, you’ve got nothing to worry about. Whether it’s for a catch up or if she’s asked you out, think you’re good either way	/r/seduction	31/12/20 01:29 AM
9	Going on my first date tonight, little nervous. Any advice? Don’t worry too much about your date. You’ve clearly done enough by yourself to get a date, and she wouldn’t have said yes unless she liked you too. What you need to remember now is to just be yourself, and by this, I mean don’t try too hard to impress her, or be the funny guy or anything of the sort. Just talk to her like how you’d talk to someone you’ve known for years and you’ll be fine. Show up fresh, though. Take a shower, use deodorant and maybe a nice cologne or perfume. Just enough to sm…	/r/seduction	30/12/20 11:12 PM
3	I think it’s best that I just give up on all forms of dating Maaaannnn you can honestly turn things around looks wise. Speaking from experience! When I was 18, I was fat, had a haircut like a knock-off Beatle and an atrocious dress sense haha. Think I started dating at 19, and only had my first relationship at 22. Looks do matter, but you’re overly prioritising them over other qualities. Making someone laugh is honestly a great quality. Also, work on your confidence because if you’re comfortable with who you are. If you don’t work on loving yourself, you …	/r/seduction	27/12/20 11:49 PM
7	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? That’s quite a single minded approach, my guy. No one likes having their time wasted, and texting to confirm merely ensures that both parties are still free, nothing else. I usually text the morning of the date and that’s all you need, really. Sometimes people might need to reschedule for whatever reason, and I’ve had to do that on a couple of occasions myself. It’s fine. Life can creep up on you, and sometimes emergencies might pop up, which is where the confirmation text comes in. I mean....id…	/r/seduction	27/12/20 01:59 PM
43	What are your best flirting tips? Compliments go a long way, for both girls and guys. But guys don’t get complimented nearly as much as girls do, so even a subtle comment about their outfits or haircut can make their day. You don’t have to throw one in every five minutes, but one or two during a date is enough. Pair that with the usual physical contact, eye contact, maybe even buy them a drink. You honestly don’t have to flirt a lot. Try too hard, and it becomes evident and also a little uncomfortable. So keep things simple and …	/r/seduction	26/12/20 10:18 AM
3	How To Overcome Feelings Of Inadequacy & Avoid Burnout Thanks, man. Honestly! I love the banter and insults we throw around, but you gotta throw around the love as well. No time for all that toxic masculinity bs. ♥️	/r/seduction	28/11/20 02:37 PM
17	How To Overcome Feelings Of Inadequacy & Avoid Burnout Thanks, friend! As someone who’s currently in this position, this really helped and I’m certainly guilty of doing this to myself, despite having accomplished a lot of good things recently, which I realised after reading this. Thanks so much, and I hope life brings you the best!	/r/seduction	28/11/20 02:07 AM