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DiscussionAConcernedParent/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:16 PM
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Lol “olden day dating”, pre-2012?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:53 AM
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Wanted. Needed is cheap and that need can be filled elsewhere if a better option comes along. However, I want to be wanted for the right reasons and that’s an important distinction to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:42 AM
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It usually happens if the veil slips and I figure out they have deeply ingrained learned helplessness and are looking more for a butler and handyman than they are a partner. Looks and good sex can’t even prevent that ick. I’ll be single before I’ll be an easy button.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:22 AM
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All you’re doing is revealing your dogshit reading comprehension. At several points I said my evidence was anecdotal. Try not to drown in the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:09 AM
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No toxic chuds like yourself, that’s for sure. Stay mad pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:26 PM
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I have a feeling you aren’t friends with any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:34 PM
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No. It’s still a callous act and if people are unhappy they should just break up. However, in my experience men can be in entirely fulfilling relationships with wonderful women, and they’ll still cheat. The women whom I’ve known who have cheated only did so because they were very unhappy in the relationship. Of course, this is anecdotal evidence but the motivations seem to be different. It’s still a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:48 PM
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Borderline “poor” rich doesn’t exactly yield my sympathies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:57 AM
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They have vexations, not struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:43 AM
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Rich people are pretty fucking boring, especially if they come from generational wealth. They don’t appreciate the leg up they’ve had in life and trying to relate to them on virtually any level is a chore. If someone hasn’t had their character tempered by a degree of struggle it’s a no from me dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:02 PM
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I’m in this boat. I’m fine being single until I find someone I really click with. I’ve had some prospects but due to lifestyle or value differences things didn’t progress, and that’s totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:59 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:56 AM
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You can be up front with your intention while also getting to know someone on a deeper level. I’ve dated people I had hooked up with a handful of times without really getting into the people we were and then finding out we had sweet fuck all in common past the physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:52 PM
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Totally. That’s why you ditch the apps because they’re thieves of time, energy, and joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:27 PM
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I really wish we’d stop conflating dominance with confidence. “Dominant” men reek of insecurity and fragility. Confident men don’t need to puff out their chest and fill the room at every given opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:08 AM
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You do realize you can have layers of metaphor, yes? Of course the movies have spiritual and metaphysical undertones, but the biggest allegory is the trans one. An overarching theme of the movies is the mind transcending limits of the body. Neo starts by being in a reality that doesn’t suit him and never has. He initially rejects this, but when shown what he could be, starts to explore it. As he breaks free from this reality to assume his new identity by eventually taking the red pill, he experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:35 PM
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And yet, here you are with the myopic claim that the Wachowskis couldn’t have possibly embedded some pretty heavy trans metaphors in their films despite ample evidence to the contrary, including the creators outlining it. Your argument centres around two things: Because you haven’t looked for it, or noticed it, therefore it can’t be present. You’re an occultist, and therefore your personal belief system and biases trump the creator’s intent. This is what’s known as conjecture, plain and simple. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:09 PM
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This is the third time you’ve posted something along these lines with that same picture. I’m gonna bet you just got dumped or ghosted and you’re extra sour over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:43 PM
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Not one for metaphor, or allegory it seems. They’re there if you care to look for them, which you clearly haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:36 AM
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Art is for the artist. If a creator defines their art, it isn’t up to the viewer to refute that and tell them what did or didn’t mean. If the matrix represents spirituality to you, cool. To the wachowskis, it represented a trans allegory. I still will get a kick out of watching chuds short circuit over that, along with the realization the guy who initially came up with the “alpha/beta” concept spent the rest of his career debunking it as it was based on flawed data.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:05 AM
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I dunno, their explanation of it is pretty thorough. Though, the 4th movie was hot garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:50 AM
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While it’s certainly subjective person to person, I have noticed the common denominator of the women I know cheating was that they were emotionally disconnected from the relationship and their partner well before cheating. They almost all felt bad afterwards. Men, however, did it because the opportunity presented itself, not because they were necessarily unhappy in their relationship at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:44 AM
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This is less of a woman thing and more of a math and logic thing. 80% of app users are men 20% of app users are women However, at any given time, upwards of 90% of active users on any app are men. It’s pretty common for women to create a profile, swipe for a day or two, and then delete the app without actually deleting their profile. Doesn’t matter how many times that profile gets super liked or swiped on, it will never yield a match. Women also use apps on aggregate far less than men. Most wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:28 AM
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My favourite is that it’s actually a metaphor for transitioning genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:22 AM
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It’s not very rare. What you’re doing is projecting. I’m done with this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:21 PM
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Again, not all women who wear makeup work in male dominated spaces. Example: the multi-billion dollar beauty and fashion industry populated by primarily women and queer people. I was quite literally the only straight man at the school I went to. I’m typically the only straight man on set at fashion gigs. The only time I’m around other straight men is when I’m doing sfx work, and the women I work with in that area are mostly gay. At no point is anyone wearing makeup to appeal to the male gaze. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:53 PM
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Yeah, because every woman is straight. No woman wears a sheer foundation to even out skin tone, or colour corrects blemishes, or uses concealer to hide the bags under their eyes because they’re tired. Etc. For a “philosopher” you think in some pretty myopic, black and white terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:37 PM
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With a good partner life is better. Everyone knows how absolutely soul sucking it is to be with the wrong person. I know too many people who monkey bar from relationship to relationship and truly don’t know who they are as people because they’re always chasing the idea of “if I just meet the right person, then I’ll get to all the self-actualization I’m so desperately due for.” Even though they’re in their mid 30s this still hasn’t happened, they’re very unhappy, but they will not allow themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:34 PM
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Women don’t always wear makeup to look good for men. Typically, they wear it for their own benefit. But hey what do I know, I’m just a makeup artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:08 PM
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My favourite is when dudes show me pictures of women “not wearing makeup”…and the woman is absolutely wearing makeup. It’s not for you, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:19 PM
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By this logic any aesthetic bamboozle is for “fake” people. Beards for a weak jaw, shirts with tight sleeves and chests to give the illusion of muscle tone, only working glamour muscles, etc. TLDR angry young man makes pointless observation about the world because he got hurt. Shit isn’t gonna change pal, best of luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:52 AM
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This doesn’t track, fetlife is 56% male. Porn is also very male centric, as in it’s most of the time man as subject, woman as object. Same goes for bdsm/kink in general, women are most of the time the sub, men are most of the time the dom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:11 PM
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I’m friends with enough women to know this isn’t the case. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:37 AM
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B-b-but what about height and jawline?? /s Dating sucks for everyone for different reasons but I don’t disagree with you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:54 PM
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Have a shared account for your mutual costs: rent/mortgage, bills, and an “oh fuck” fund you dump into every month. Then keep separate accounts your paycheques are deposited into, and don’t share savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:36 PM
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I’ve always been a big dude and fit your criteria of what women allegedly consider to be an ideal. I also had your attitude through my early 20s and was absolutely repellent to women because I was such a sad sack. It wasn’t until I went to therapy and pulled my head out of my ass and let go of all of these insecurities that things changed for me. I’m currently sitting in a soup shop surrounded by couples. One white guy is bald, one guy is black and bald, another is about 5’6 and pretty scruffy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:57 AM
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You’re not a leftist bud. That shit isn’t gonna fool anyone. You’re socially conservative and economically liberal. At best maybe a neo-liberal by definition. Good luck on finding a regressive tradcore woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:06 PM
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You have a very transactional expectation of friendship with women, OP, if you can even call it that. Go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:34 AM
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Countries that have legalized prostitution have seen higher rates of sex trafficking. The way to make it “safer” is by criminalizing buying it, but not selling it. If one wants to make it “safer” still, maybe build a society where people aren’t compelled to sell their bodies to make ends meet. Miss me with the “sexwork is work” shit, all work is exploitation and the global sex industry is one of the worst offenders. People aren’t entitled to sex and having a class of largely women in place as hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:11 PM
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The friendzone doesn’t exist dude. Stop trying to lead women on with promises of friendship when all you want to do is fuck. Be up front with your intentions and stop hurting your own feelings. Believe it or not, you can actually just be friends with women, and they’re the best wingmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:00 PM
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Pal, if you can’t even be friends with a woman, you likely aren’t gonna be able to maintain a relationship with one. Quit feeling sorry for yourself. Time will pass you by regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:33 AM
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Women want funny, kind, and authentic. Taking care of yourself and being a decent cook goes a long way. Source: being a dude with several women as friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:30 AM
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I have a good friend who has experienced nothing but heartbreak his entire life. Decent enough dude, but he also chases hot, objectively terrible women. He sees the looks and only pays attention to the red flags until it’s waaaaaaay too late. There is no thought towards shared values, common goals, lifestyle, or if the woman in question is fundamentally a decent person. Time and again, he gets his heart shattered, but time and again, he always goes for the women everyone warns him about. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:47 AM
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Why do I need to do this? It’s not my preference. It’s my friend’s. The guys she dates have always been yolked, with boyish features bordering on feminine. I don’t know where she finds them but she does. I get what you’re saying but it also has nothing to do with the point I was trying to make - different people like different things. You’re arguing something else entirely by implying this doesn’t exist and are asking me for reference pictures to support my friend’s preference in men? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:26 AM
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I’ll agree with this. Most of the open relationships I’ve seen has one person suffering in silence while the other person dates around without a care in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:30 PM
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Short of the rampant misogyny and blaming women for all their problems, the self-care stuff they tout should be common sense. Be active, groom yourself, focus on creature comforts and hobbies, don’t obsess over “getting sex”, etc. Like…fucking duh. But even then, most of the men who claim being in the MGTOW community just wallow in self pity and do nothing to advance themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:28 PM
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That one can’t be jacked with a baby face. As I said, she has had no problem finding that, regardless of your feelings on the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:58 PM
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Not really. She likes yolked dudes with boyish faces. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:02 PM
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She manages. Her last man was like 6’8 and yolked with the face of a 14 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:21 PM
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Lol. I’m 6’2, it doesn’t get me nearly as much traction as my sense of humour does. My above mentioned friend is 5’10, a model, and her man is 5’6. Different strokes for different folks dude. Looks might get your foot in the door but if you have a shit personality it won’t be there for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:20 PM
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Different people like different things. As an example, I have two good friends who are roommates, one likes short ginger farm boys with beards, bald heads, and dad bods. The other likes the jacked Adonis type but despises facial and body hair of any kind, and prefers them to have boyish if not feminine facial features
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:12 PM
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Yup. The majority of my close friends are women and we have a blast doing random shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:45 PM
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Not necessarily, because everyone is different. Just because one partner likes being jack hammered doesn’t mean another will. It’s also an absurd stance to take because it implies either one stays single and chaste, with the only option for intimacy being in a relationship. Why the black and white thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:29 AM
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This implies you lose sleep over someone’s body count. Just gnaws at you eh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:57 PM
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Glad it worked out for you. I’m not going to judge any woman for a body count when I’ve been around the block myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:57 PM
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I actually talk to women in real life. Go better yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:45 PM
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If y’all want someone who is bad in the sack and unsure of what they even like, yeah I guess obsess over a low n-count. However, the dudes who are bent out of shape over this shit also have low n-counts and are objectively bad in the sack so it tracks they’d project.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:42 PM
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Yes and no. Stupid people still fuck like rabbits, urban professionals not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:12 PM
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Maybe it’s because I’m in the alt community but it really seems like women are ditching do-nothing men in favour for other women, so it seems like most men unless they step their game up are gonna be lonely, paying for it, or both. The bar is in hell but a lot of guys can’t even rise to it. Human sexuality can’t really be applied to market economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:54 PM
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There in lies the difference between someone you’d sleep with, and someone you’d date, the person you’d date captures your mind as well as making you stiffer than board.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:20 AM
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The post was interrogating the perceived taboo of an age-gap relationship, not flings which is why I made my comment. Plenty of young women express interest in me, don’t get me wrong, they’re just typically kinda boring to be around for extended periods of time and that’s why protracted relationships don’t always work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:18 AM
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Speak for yourself friend. There is a difference between people I would date and people I would sleep with. If someone is a consenting adult and wants to have a romp, whatever, but the standards for a relationship are significantly higher and maybe this is anecdotal but I haven’t yet met an 18-22 year old who doesn’t bore the hell out of me before too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:30 PM
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That’s not a relationship, that’s a transaction. I like being able to have a conversation with a partner. Hang n bangs are one thing, but those don’t usually evolve into a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:47 PM
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You’re missing probably the most important part - how do people so far apart relate? Anyone younger than 5 years from me is probably not gonna get most references I make, weren’t aware of the world the same way I was, and have an entirely different lifestyle (usually). Like I’m 33, I have zero business trying to date a 23 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:52 PM
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Except they don’t. Humans are much more complex than being broken down into two subcategories my dude. When you leave the bro science behind and start dealing with people on a case by case basis this becomes readily apparent. Furthermore, you’re already using said debunked wolfpack theory in your argument. It was ported over from that original “study” and repackaged to poorly fit human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:49 AM
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You do realize the whole alpha wolfpack thing was debunked by the same scientist who initially theorized it yes? This post comes across as an insecure projection of a very young man. Elon, for all his money and relative celebrity, is no one to look up to. He’s not even an inventor. The guy buys innovations created by much brighter minds and remarkets them as his own. If anything, he’s a very successful middle man, nothing more, and we will see him fall as Tesla’s market share shrinks as more and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:54 AM
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Elon is an alpha lolololol wat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:42 AM
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Most men have zero idea what women find attractive and buy into a narrative that makes them ridiculously insecure and it creates a negative feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:32 AM
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Depends. I’m turned on by getting my partner off and if they want me to do those things, sure, whatever, fuck it. Same for if the woman in question likes things on the more vanilla, tender side. I’m not going to shame anyone for their preferences as long as they don’t encroach on my personal boundaries. I draw the line at degradation and humiliation though, as well as any sort of impact with a closed fist, and nothing above the collarbones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:10 AM
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Men are just as delusional with their perception of dick size importance. Big dick does not necessarily mean good dick. There’s a guy back in my hometown who has always advertised his endowment, and while he isn’t lying, he also doesn’t get too much repeat business. Why? Because talking to the women he’s been with, he jackhammers away for 3 min and then rolls over and falls asleep. Despite muscles, tattoos, and an objectively large peen, he’s good for 3 min and that’s it. If y’all wanna change y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:39 PM
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Why stay in the relationship then? Why not break up with the bitchy and high maintenance woman and be alone to fap away at their leisure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:41 AM
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Join the vasectomy club! Best decision you will ever make, and in two little snips you’ll do more to lessen your environmental impact short of eating a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:26 PM
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Lol watch me. Shootin blanks, sayin thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:29 AM
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[angry old guy noises intensify]
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:37 PM
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What a TexasNorth thing to say! Overt racism, how angry old guy of you. I’ll give it to you, you never deviate from the script, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:37 PM
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TexasNorth, that you? I didn’t think you had 5 IQ points to spare, the last two must be working overtime thinking of ways to keep you relevant. Another angry old dude NPC spitting the same script as all the other angry old dude NPCs. Keep on owning them libs, ya fucking putz.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:18 AM
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Why does your profile say offending <insert left wing group> since 1995 then? Wouldn’t it be 1971? You’re LARPing as an over the hill bitter albertan but you’re almost assuredly mid 20s. Guys in their 50s don’t post the way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:31 PM
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Practically and appropriately for what, swilling rodeo warm Budweiser at O2s on Jasper and making passes at servers who wouldn’t give you the time of day if you were a clock? I don’t follow trends guy, I buy what fits well and goes with my personal style. If you want to be a cookie cutter Albertan, go hard. Please. Fade into the background like the NPC you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:24 PM
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You’re arguing with someone who is cemented in being a frump and has endless rationalizations for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:13 PM
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A few decent outfits are a worthy investment my dude. I save the band tees and sweatpants for lazy days around the house, and the beat up jeans and grungy sneakers for chore days. Seriously, would you wanna talk to anyone who looks like they threw on the first few items they picked out of the laundry basket?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:49 PM
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Nope. Loneliness is far more common than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:58 AM
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You’d struggle to pour water out of a boot with the instructions written on the heel. As per your god, wearing clothing of different materials is a sin. Enjoy hell buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:05 AM
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You’re so fucking dense. Legally and scientifically speaking, before 28 weeks a fetus cannot survive outside the womb, does not have consciousness, and is not deemed a human. Therefore a woman can and should have the right to choose to abort or not. That is not the same as killing a child outside the womb regardless of your conjecture. Like did you stretch before you did those mental gymnastics? Why do you keep talking about dicks in buttholes? Are you gay? Doesn’t your god hate that? Aren’t you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:54 AM
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Still can’t spell hypothesis, and for someone who claims to speak four languages that makes this more amusing. As to your weirdly homoerotic false equivalency, I didn’t grow your hypothetical shrimp dick in my ass the way a woman grows a fetus in her womb. It’s not even a comparison. You didn’t win shit other than presenting yourself as a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:30 PM
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Buddy you can’t even spell hypothesis. You’re a hilarious religious zealot stereotype logical fallacies and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:05 PM
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Before 28 weeks a fetus is an extension of the mother’s body and she can choose to excise it should she feel the need. Hell, I feel late term abortions should also be allowed under whatever circumstances. You gonna cry cuz mean man on internet won’t buy your disingenuous virtue signalling?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:28 AM
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Remember that very few women pay for tinder and as such have a limited amount of swipes. They also don’t use the app nearly as frequently. Compounded with the ratio of men to women on really any app, don’t jump to the conclusion it’s your looks. I’ve swiped right on people and then a month later they match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:26 PM
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You can’t afford me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:15 PM
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Do you keep a diamond grip on your dick cuz no woman will touch you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:10 PM
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Abortion isn’t murder. Your personal take on the matter is irrelevant, this is a detail that has been ironed out for decades. If the fetus can’t survive outside the womb, it’s not a living thing. End of story. Furthermore, if you claim to be pro-life, where is your support for the child after it’s born? Typically non-existent. Own your garbage attitude - you aren’t pro life, you’re anti-sex and anti-woman. Personally I won’t date someone who is anti-abortion. It speaks to how they generally view…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:05 PM
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Lol okay. I’ve dated women that look like that who weren’t geared up. That’s what training 6 days a week and eating boring ass food look like, and I as I said before probably clenbuterol. But hey, keep telling yourself that bullshit, the only person you’re convincing is you. Edit: you need to eat and get some exercise, you look like a heroin addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:11 AM
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She doesn’t have the traps or shoulders to be on gear. When women do steroids they start looking very manly. That’s just a lot of hard work, though maybe some clenbuterol to get that shredded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:48 AM
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Lol wut. I have a better time out with the women in my life than I do the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:29 PM
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You’re arguing against what the creator of the matrix says her films were about vs a fan theory on the basis her and her sister are simply pandering to progressives. That’s mental gymnastics. Go back under your bridge troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:44 AM
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Hope you stretched before doing those mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:42 AM
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https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/news/matrix-trans-metaphor-lana-lilly-wachowski-red-pill-switch-sequels-a9654956.html%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:40 AM
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If the creator of something has clarified what their meaning was behind their creation, that’s the canon. You can bastardize it all you want, just makes you look like a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:52 AM
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-Demonstrate value -Engage physically -Nurture dependence -Neglect emotionally -Inspire hope -Separate entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:48 AM
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You do know the creators of the matrix have clarified the whole red pill thing as an analogy for transitioning genders yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:45 AM
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Redpill ideology only further isolates those men, which is my general point. It reinforces toxicity and only lends to men feeling alone. Ditch the RP bullshit and grow. Or don’t and stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:45 PM
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And I’m saying that despite all the reasons men don’t want to see a therapist, they should because they will be all the better for it. Can you come up with a single reason why therapy is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:15 PM
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I’m not diagnosing you with anything. Where did I say “you have x disorder”? I’m giving you a resource in which you can determine where to start with a therapist so you can stop braying like a horse’s ass about how alone you are and how that’s the root of all your problems. Or keeping pointing fingers and playing the victim. Up to you snowflake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:57 PM
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It’s actually super easy. You find one, book an appointment, and go consistently until you’ve worked through your shit. I had fuck all for a safety net and brought myself out of drug and alcohol addiction and did the legwork myself. It was so fucking worth it. You don’t sound like you’re alright. Go to therapy. No one is gonna help you if you aren’t trying to help yourself. Or just keep telling yourself “I’m alone, I’m alone, I’m alone” and see how well that works out for you. If you can spend h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:16 PM
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“Men are alone” isn’t a reason for not going to therapy and actualizing on one’s life guy. That’s just a catch all excuse to not invest in one’s self. Once you sincerely start doing that you will see dramatic changes in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:25 PM
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I said most men. Why don’t you answer all those questions for yourself? I also didn’t say lazy, I said useless, and right now you’re being a useless tit. “No, it‘s women’s fault I can’t be a decent human being, surely no responsibility or accountability falls on my shoulders!” Chase your dreams and people follow. Chase people and your dreams will stay in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:02 PM
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Lol I spent 14 years working my ass off in order to have passive income so I could pursue something I was interested in. No help, no seed money, didn’t come from an affluent family, lots of set backs. If anyone is dicking around it’s you. ✌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:41 PM
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There are dozens of you! Dozens! So successful the entire subreddit got quarantined. Surely it had nothing to do with the unbridled misogyny, toxicity, and creepy ties to the alt-right. Who cares how much you make if your soul is broke. Self-care to be the best version of yourself isn’t a RP concept my dude, but it was certainly coopted by those tools in order to grift the insecure men who glom onto the rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:02 AM
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No one’s drinking that koolaid but you bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:38 AM
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You’re putting words in my mouth. If you were making 50k/y and had a decent work-life balance, you’d have time to put energy into finding and maintaining a relationship. Hell, if you were doing your current job and had a work-life balance you have time to find and maintain a relationship. Examine what your core values are. What are your ambitions? You sound deeply unhappy and that will radiate off you no matter where you go. If you’re consistently drained from the job, no amount of swiping right…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:36 AM
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Okay, how does any of that make you a decent person to be around from a woman’s perspective? Great, you’ve managed to reach the bare minimum requirements for adulthood - schooling, job, exercise, and you brush your teeth. You aren’t owed a partner because you do those things. Are you funny? Are you compassionate? Are you empathetic? Can you carry on a conversation? Do you prioritize your passions? Are you generally pleasant to be around? If you were a woman, would you be interested in a man who …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:17 AM
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I addressed the majority of OPs points. Your reading comprehension sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:56 PM
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Red Pill ideology is categorically the worst advice any young man can get. Think, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:55 PM
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Useless men, and people, are blamed for their lot in life, as they should be. I can’t count how many dudes I have known throughout my life who bitterly complain how how they can’t achieve X thing…meanwhile making zero concerted effort to actually try to improve themselves or their lives in any meaningful way. I’ve heard “I can’t, it’s too hard, what if I fail, what will my friends think, etc”. Sounds like a them-problem, not the world’s problem. Movements are problematic because they’re heavily …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:57 PM
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Maybe you wanna ditch that drivel especially since it’s referencing something that has been clarified to be an analogy for transitioning by it’s creator. Furthermore, RPs are by far the most useless of men. They adhere to debunked wolfpack theory, they are incapable at true self-care, they lack critical self-awareness, and continuously point fingers at women and society in general for their personal failings. The sooner you deprogram yourself from that bullshit rhetoric the better off you will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:43 PM
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This begs the question - what are you doing to increase your advantage in dating? Do you engage in proper self-care? Have you sought out therapy to unpack any trauma? Do you hold objectively questionable views on women and dating in general that could be re-examined? Or are you sitting behind a screen on your couch/bed wringing your hands over how hard done by you are? Men love to talk about the “realities of the world” and ignore the reality that most men are by and large useless tits who want …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:16 PM
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You can be the sweetest peach and some people just don’t like peaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:09 PM
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Uhhhhh where are you getting your information from? You’re thinking estradiol, not estrogen. Two similar but different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:23 PM
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Well it’s technically a metaphor for transitioning as per the creators of the matrix but that doesn’t line up with the groupthink.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:31 PM
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Guess I’m a super whore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:59 PM
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Men whining outwardly about their luck with women is a sign they haven’t looked inwards to do the work required to improve their luck. I know waaaaaay too many men who live like they’re in their mom’s basement and literally cannot fathom why they’re alone. These same men do not know how to cook rice or do laundry. For fuck’s sake pick a day to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:53 PM
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It boils down to “if you don’t love yourself how the hell you gonna love somebody else?” which is not bad advice. I know from my own experiences that stopping drinking, partying, and hanging out with shitty people did wonders for my quality of life. Piling on regular exercise and hobbies added to that quality of life. It’s absolutely true that if one chases their dreams, people will follow. That’s less of a mgtow concept than common sense though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:20 PM
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I feel like people get into relationships thinking one will solve their extraneous problems when it is absolutely not the case. Self-improvement can sometimes be a years long process I’ve noticed most aren’t ready to commit to, way easier to force a relationship and be miserable I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:38 PM
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I feel the lie came from just how difficult what I said is to actually achieve. I know way more people who absolutely should not be together, and yet they are. That being said, I know a few very long time, happy as fuck “power couples” who are made for one another. But that’s like...8 people total.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:24 PM
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Crazy I thought mutual respect and shared values kept people together, not the omnipresent fear the more attractive person will cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:45 PM
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Dude, there is no such thing as the friendzone. There is only men leading women on with promises of friendship when all they want is sex. As if having women as friends is a bad thing. Pro tip: if you’re legitimately friends with women and you’re a good dude, they’ll introduce their friends to you. To be clear, I have no problem getting laid. I just don’t clue in to the “obvious” signs a woman is interested in me because of how I’m wired. As an aside, you’re parroting bro science and it’s a bad l…
/r/seduction09/04/21 01:46 AM
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I really appreciate direct women as I’m on the spectrum and hints go waaaaaay over my head. I’ve made dinner for and talked the ear off of what are now platonic lady friends who apparently made all the right moves and I sent them home at 11, completely oblivious it was anything more than dinner, and they eventually gave up.
/r/seduction09/04/21 12:51 AM
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Dude, I’m a 32 year old not parent having seen men all my life chase bullshit, arbitrary standards that ultimately harm them. You got banned from a subreddit for a reason. Maybe re evaluate your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:19 PM
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You’re confirming my point dude. You don’t have to do any of the regressive shit popular culture tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:12 PM
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Why do you feel you have to perform a certain set of behaviours just to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:33 PM
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Chauvinism, or toxic male gender roles, are absolutely a cause of male depression. Maybe educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:13 PM
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I assume you’re in the states and that fucking sucks. I’m in Canada and it was as simple as getting my doctor to get me a referral to a shrink who formally diagnosed me and gave me a script. Seriously though, pursue it. You won’t regret it. Think about how much you could get done without all the clatter and clutter and self doubt in your head.
/r/seduction07/04/21 04:17 PM
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Man I tried to manage this with exercise, routine, diet, and coffee, and still couldn’t rid myself of everything you initially listed. Thought I could just man it out, and that it was all in my head. Enter Concerta 18mg and my life was literally changed. My depression is gone. My anxiety is gone. My intrusive thoughts are gone. My get up and go is ready to get up and go. Seriously, don’t do yourself the disservice of thinking this is just something you have to live with.
/r/seduction07/04/21 04:08 PM
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Uhhhh from what you listed, you absolutely have a high likelihood of having it, and it really sounds like it’s negatively affecting your life man.
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:46 PM
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Dude go cruise r/adhd. You sound like one of us. That might be it.
/r/seduction07/04/21 04:00 AM
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You absolutely have the obligation of backing up a claim you make friend. It’s just conjecture without. You’re also saying this from the perspective of a puritanical American, so acknowledge that bias. The sex education or lack thereof your education system provides is decades behind the commonwealth countries. I’ve had more than a few awesome, casual but caring flings with people and was no worse for wear. Communication and clear expectations are key. Toxic long term relationships did way more …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:36 PM
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Two rules: 1. Be good looking 2. Don’t be ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:13 PM
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Can you support that statement with anything but conjecture?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:24 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:01 PM
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Make friends with women. If you’re a legit, decent dude, they’ll introduce you to their friends.
/r/seduction05/04/21 10:33 PM
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The gag being I’m sterile without children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:30 PM
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You wanna have women interested in you as a man? Here ya go: Drop all redpill bullshit and get into therapy to deprogram yourself as soon as possible. It is all lies and repels women. Train for mobility and functional strength. Divorce yourself from heavy lifting and the toxicity that goes with it. Your body will thank you in your 40s. Stop watching porn and realize that it is not reality. I’m not saying don’t jerk off, because self-love is important, but use your imagination instead of a screen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:19 PM
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Men are, simply put, lazy as fuck. Sure, I have my chore days where my I’m wearing sweats and a stretched out t, but I’m also not leaving my building, I’m doing laundry and cleaning. It’s not that women care more, it’s that men largely just don’t care and legitimately think everyone should be okay with how gross they are. I know guys who won’t wash their ass because they think it’s gay to get anywhere close to their own asshole, and these same guys are angry women won’t give them the time of day…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:57 PM
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This is a really fucked up and puritanical view of people and sex. Last I checked, sex is fun. Provided it’s performed safely, who gives a fuck how much one has of it? I personally do not care how many people someone has been with, in fact I’d prefer they knew what they liked in bed, and how to fuck in general. You are correct though, this negative perception men (and sometimes women) have of someone who has engaged in “casual sex” is largely a projection. Man or woman, if you don’t take care of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:46 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:09 AM
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Cool rationale. High value people don’t cheat. End of story. You’re trash if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:40 AM
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Bullshit. I earn well over 200k/y and I feel like infidelity is for low value, trash people who can’t respect others. I’ve been cheated on and it’s the worst feeling in the world I would never subject anyone to. I would sooner break up with someone than cheat on them if I’m that unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:05 PM
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Debateable. Back on topic, don’t let your lack of hair kill your confidence. Women do not care nearly as much as you think, and any woman who does you can shut right down with a “don’t body shame me, I have no control over my hair growth”. Those women you likely don’t want in your life anyway. Confidence comes from character my man. Do the character growth and you’ll be a-ok.
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:59 PM
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Guy I’m not stranger to the gym. I do half the OPM routine as a warm up.
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:56 PM
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I mean, it’s a pretty decent regimen
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:49 PM
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It’s been a few years since I’ve watched it
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:48 PM
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Just run 5k, do 100 push ups and sit ups, and eat right
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:38 PM
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One punch maaaaaan
/r/seduction02/04/21 02:38 AM
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Try actually being friends with women. If you’re a good dude they’ll introduce you to their friends. If not, you have work left to do on yourself.
/r/seduction31/03/21 06:43 PM
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Even the staunchest RP dudes I have met come across as insecure as fuck and only half believing the shit they spew. If they spent more time in therapy to rinse themselves of their anger, they’d feel less “oppressed”. It’s been over a decade since I was that angry at the world and women to consider the RP viewpoint. That got exhausting, I went to therapy, and got over it. If one spends their time doing the required character development on top of hitting the gym, one’s overall performance in all …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:36 PM
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