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Red Pill TheoryADarkerNight/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:06 AM
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ADarkerNight/r/trpGAME09/06/14 04:17 AM
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Red Pill TheoryADarkerNight/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 11:05 PM
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For me, oneitis is focusing on one girl to the exclusion of all others. At it's worst it manifests as pining for a woman that you will never have. See plenty of posts in asktrp for examples. But it also manifests as the belief that one woman is better than all the rest. The second is far more insidious to me, because of the slow creep that makes adopting this belief difficult to catch. You start with a plate, who you think is great, eventually upgrade to a LTR, drop the plates, and focus exclusi…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 01:10 AM
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"We don't have to take everything too far" is policing tone. Instead of whining on a bunch of other LTR threads that complain about the woman they are in a relationship with, I decided to make a post about why being in an exclusive relationship is oneitis. You on the other hand, decided to come to the thread and debate with us about why spinning plates is "taking things too far." TRP is for the extremes. Maybe too extreme for some people.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 12:45 AM
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I'll refer you to the recent mod post on policing tone. Speaking in absolutes, generalizations, hyperbole, and analogy are all ways to communicate a basic set of concepts. The context of /r/theredpill already implies that generalizations are generalizations, we do not bother with or care for the standard disclaimers that make women studies majors and transgendered what-nots with bits and pieces of whatever fucked up sex they wanted feel fuzzy inside. If you cannot read a piece and attempt to und…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 12:31 AM
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I urge you to try it. May solve the problems you're having with "disrespect" in your LTR.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 12:21 AM
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You make a lot of great points. Sometimes I wish your posts were broken up so I would be able to respond to them all, but I'll highlight the one that stood out to me the most. In essence the more worn and experienced a woman becomes, the less feminine she becomes, whilst a more battle-scarred and experienced man becomes more masculine in the process. This and the following point you make about men preferring younger woman because they lack the jaded attitude of their older peers are spot on. Und…
/r/AlreadyRed20/07/14 07:41 PM
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"Always"
/r/askTRP10/07/14 06:20 AM
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Actually, taken chicks are just playing the game, and as chicks come, they are the least effort per orgasm you can get. That's the hard red-pill truth right there. Everyone's mad in comments, concern trolling for your health. You clearly said if the dude is going to be a threat to your personal safety you wouldn't tell him. Blue-pill types are often so self-righteous and have their heads so far up their asses they can't even see when their girl is stepping out on them. Hide and seek is a lot of …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 03:11 AM
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The statistics say that the average person is better off. Compare the average wage, average quality of life, average lifespan, or most any other statistic related to wellness and you will find that we are far better off as a species than even 100 years ago. Sure a few people control the vast majority of wealth, but this is no different than it has always been. Now we just have more people, creating more value, and a system that has become increasingly efficient at transferring that value into th…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 03:04 AM
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How many messages is a "few;" 5, 10, 20? I'd see how few messages it takes to get face to face. Shoot for 5 maximum. There's also no downside. Worst case they stop messaging you.
/r/trpGAME09/07/14 02:09 AM
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I'd say that your "worst of times" mentality is what is keeping you from enjoying life. Doesn't matter if you are after women or not, by virtue of being on this forum you also have access to the tools to get what you want out of life. If you are satisfied with being average, and fine with staying mad at others instead of improving yourself, then by all means continue. If you aren't satisfied, it's time to make a change.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 02:04 AM
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What you say is true, but it misses the point. Firstly, yes there is more wealth concentrated in less hands (as a percentage) than ever before. But there is an overall greater number of people that have access to this wealth. Second, people have greater access to the tools to create wealth than ever in human history. Third, the vast majority of people, even including those below the poverty line, are better off than the average person from human history. The unwashed masses have access to resour…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 02:00 AM
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Hence, there is no time, really, in which reality was wholly favourable. Merely things are as they are and you adjust yourself accordingly to the prevailing reality in order to enjoy life as much as you are able. This is why a common theme on here is not to make women a crucial part of your life or your destiny, for your own happiness is dependent on yourself and your ability to adjust to the conditions you are faced with, whereas the people you surround yourself with can only exist to augment y…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 01:48 AM
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This is the whole point of the post. It is easier than ever to be proactive and make yourself a part of the 20%. It is also easier than ever to rest on your laurels and be satisfied with an average life, a life that will still be better than the average man's life throughout history.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 12:40 AM
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Real life experience is the best teacher. You will get shit tests and rejections if you approach women. Deal with those to build your game. There is no substitute for actually going out and doing things.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:52 AM
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Kudos to you. I'm still not convinced that having a family necessitates having a marriage.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:36 AM
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Amused Mastery She's your brat little sister (in-law), treat her like one.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:33 AM
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From Chateau Heartiste's 16 Commandmants of Poon: V. Adhere to the golden ratio Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more. When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. When she emotes, you emote less. The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold — it establishes your greater value by…
/r/trpGAME08/07/14 04:36 AM
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I don't know man, if OP dives headfirst into the friendzone at this point, it might have the exact opposite effect of what you are saying. G1 is going to think it's cause he is more into G2, and G1 is going to ramp up her game if anything.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:13 AM
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You fucked up by not letting all of your passive-aggressive tension out in an extended session of hard fucking. Then you would have avoided fucking up again and loosing frame by starting an argument. You would also have avoided fucking up a third time by sounding like a passive-aggressive incel with your retorts. You might have even avoided leaving the damn house, which was your fourth fuck up. Yeesh, OP. Don't apologize. Go home and fuck your girl, that's what you wanted this whole time. Bang t…
/r/askTRP08/07/14 03:18 AM
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This seems like a case of the classic affliction that befalls many a man who has recently swallowed the pill. It works so well, and he sees such an improvement in his interactions with women, that he settles for the first decent girl that he finds. He sees this as the end goal, for what is the pill for if not to aid him in finding a suitable woman. Problem is, the recent initiate to RP wisdom has had neither the time nor the experiences to fully internalize all that he has learned. Unknowingly, …
/r/askTRP08/07/14 03:08 AM
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Here's the three things I've found to be important for "dates," a word I hate btw, because "dates" kill tingles, and remind me too much of hiring a prostitute. Oh, and hiring a young slut here is cheaper than a dinner date, and the girl will bring friends. No need to pay to have girls in your life in my mind, unless you are paying for the girls themselves. /rant The three important things for dates: Casual atmosphere conducive to light conversation. An element of excitement A reason to end at ei…
/r/trpGAME08/07/14 01:27 AM
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It's a pretty pointless question to ask. Similar to asking if MGTOW are alpha... Is putting yourself first and pursuing your goals alpha? Maybe so. Is refusing to deal with modern Western women's shit, and keeping them out of your life completely, alpha? Could be. What the questions "is this alpha/beta?" really ask is the question: "Will this action help me or hinder me in creating the life I want for myself?" Problem with this question is that it has everyone is going to answer differently. I a…
/r/askTRP08/07/14 12:50 AM
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unfortunately, you kind of are. whatever your "thing" with this girl is, it is not enough to keep her from maintaining her stable of "just friends" guys. Are they "just friends" with her in the same way you are "just friends"? Probably. Then you make your position worse by falling into the classic trap of getting mad at male competition. That's a tingle killer, because if you have to get mad, in her mind you are not a good enough candidate to keep her. This girl is doing everything except tellin…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:27 AM
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The best way to learn game is to go out and do it. Try, fail, repeat, succeed. No amount of reading TRP (or any other resource for that matter) will be a substitute for hard experience.
/r/trpGAME06/07/14 08:34 PM
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Point to your feather boa and say "Duh, I'm Mystery"
/r/askTRP06/07/14 08:28 PM
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It's funny because in literary history Gatsby is a cautionary tale filled with red-pill truths.
/r/trpGAME05/07/14 06:43 PM
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Yeah OP has it a bit backwards. Men have to do all this because they are men, not because they are working to appease a woman. That's what it takes to be attractive: taking control, being The Man. The men that try to appease women, those are the needy ones. Those are the creeps, weirdos, losers, etc. I approach with confidence and communicate with a woman because it pleases me to talk to girl things. If said woman wants to continue to enjoy my company, she is the one that has to appease me.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 05:36 AM
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Watching? No, I'm not just watching; I'm participating, and, often, enjoying. decadence. moral or cultural decline as characterized by excessive indulgence in pleasure or luxury. excuse me while I go luxuriously self-indulge
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 02:43 AM
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Kind of like she's worried. Probably she is. It's a weird kind of dread game in a sense, the thought that she might loose her side action. Way harder to find that kind of situation after she is married, compared to continuing the one she has with you. I've had it go different ways with different girls. Some, doing their thing with her bf, after they're married I never hear from her again. Some don't even bring it up. Others say they aren't going to keep seeing me after they are married, then I h…
/r/askTRP13/06/14 01:43 AM
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In her head, she's getting the best of both worlds. She gets to have her cake and eat it too, no consequences. Had a friend-girl, similar thing. She had a fiancé, one day I was like "not sure we should keep this up after you get married," she fucked me with reckless abandon after that, not knowing if I was cutting her off. Didn't cut her off, continued fucking well after they got married, they moved, but we've stayed in touch. She keeps me updated on her extra-curricular activities, and sometime…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 11:52 PM
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Seriously, girls in LTR are less maintenance. You get the best parts of the relationship, without the relationship. There's close to zero drama, cause she knows what's good with the whole situation. She'd rather keep you around and have her fun, then have to worry about finding a new side piece and all the danger for her LTR that entails. Better to have a "bestie" her bf is oblivious to, and he'll drop her off so she can get off.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 11:21 PM
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For me it is. Girls know what kind of guy I am, I make it very clear, especially after they've spent any small length of time with me. They know what it means to come kick it at my house, share a bottle, and watch movies. They are following the tingles. They also know that they don't have to commit to me, that I'm not going to rat them out, that they can leave and not worry about how I feel. It's a quid pro quo. I'm not trying to date any of these chicks, I'd much rather kick it at my place and …
/r/askTRP12/06/14 10:49 PM
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It sounds like she might be interested in exploring your chemistry, but she doesn't want to feel like a slut. You have to make her comfortable to reduce that "I'm a slut for sleeping around" feeling. In her head, she's not like other girls. She doesn't sleep around and cheat, she doesn't place herself in ambiguous situations that might be pushing the boundaries of her LTR. You have to make that comfort for her. So that she can say, "oh it just happened" and not feel bad. Girls in relationships a…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 07:37 PM
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"Good my plan is working" "That's just where I like you" "Yeah you're sooo dominant after I tell you to get on top" etc, etc. Agree and Amplify, or just play it off like she made a funny joke. Really though, if you are fucking her, it doesn't matter much what she thinks. She's obviously into it. I'll let girls think whatever they want, they know what's good when they are getting it from behind screaming for you to ravage them.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 06:51 PM
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The jakes had a post where he had a good metaphor. To catch a butterfly, you can be a cage, or a flower. Be the flower, wait for the cage to get to constricting. The flower doesn't try and trap the butterfly, it just sits their looking pretty and inviting. Maybe the butterfly comes to rest for a bit, maybe it doesn't. There are other butterflies that will come to the flower. The only way to make sure another butterfly isn't taking your flower, is to be the one on the flower at any given time. Ma…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 06:44 PM
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Yeah listen to this guy, if the girl wants you badly enough, she will bend over backwards to get in the same room as you, bend over some more to get you two alone, and then bend over on your balls. I usually actually forget something, so it's not completely deceptive. Plus I like to get girls used to the idea of bouncing back to my spot, even if we don't stay. Builds comfort, proves I'm not some serial murderer, maybe we stay maybe we don't, but it lets her feel safer in my presence regardless.
/r/trpGAME12/06/14 06:27 PM
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Yeah well what you think his upsides are don't really matter. Maybe he blows her mind in the sack. Maybe she just uses him for emotional/physical validation. Maybe she has a troubled past and the dark, treats-her-like-shit personality is appealing to her. Maybe they have a completely shitty relationship and she is just waiting on you to make a move when she complains about her bf. Regardless, there's no point in focusing on "what does he have that I don't." Instead, make yourself irresistible, a…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 06:19 PM
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It really is that easy. Even though you spent all that time trying to make a plan, etc, a simple "come now" worked best. Oh, and nice job flipping the script on the "I'll let you know" she gave you at first. Solid work OP.
/r/trpGAME12/06/14 06:15 PM
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He may be low value in your mind, but he's not in hers.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 06:44 AM
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You notice how people are reacting. Once you see that the girl is annoyed, you can laugh in your head about how this guy's antics are failing to have the desired effect. Nod and smile, play the perfect mildly interested guy part. Every once in a while whisper in the chicks ear about some random sight across the street, or ask her if he always gets this drunk. Then eject you and her from the situation, escape the drunk dude, and you'll be the nonchalant hero that saved the night.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 09:46 PM
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Don't invest too much (dinner, movies, etc, etc) because she already flaked on you once. It's not the best to have her set the schedule of when you are hanging out. Tell her to meet you at a park near your house. Bring girl wine, chat for an hour, back to your spot to "get something you forgot." Close from there.
/r/trpGAME11/06/14 09:38 PM
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I don't know man. Your text game: a bit too compromising, a bit too supplicating, maybe there's enough to keep her interested but... Here's my breakdown. "You'd be surprised" Great line, she took it well (surprised questioning), but then you didn't follow that thread at all. You asked about some random question when you could have referenced your book smart knowledge of Kama Sutra or 50 Shades or something. She doesn't know how to respond to the question (oh no what if I say the wrong thing, in …
/r/trpGAME11/06/14 09:32 PM
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Srsly OP good job. Got the number in less than 10 messages, solid work. I always push for the picture right away. Normally under the pretext of getting them to prove they are not a catfish. I'll think up some random everyday object and have them send a picture of them holding it or something. No girl wants to be thought of as a catfish, so they are usually pretty quick to send some kind of qualifying pic. Just like you don't stop pushing until you get the F close when in person, I don't stop pus…
/r/trpGAME11/06/14 05:38 PM
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Take notes kiddos, OP has textbook perfect Tinder game, flawless transition game, and pretty good middle game. OP: I would get her to send you a picture over text. I would have been done that after you whole spoon thing. Which was great btw. She was loving it, all like: "perfect little spoon size" this and "I'm so small compared to you" that. You could have been like, "send me a pic of you spooning a pillow to prove it." Basically you're transition game is on point and you were doing great, but …
/r/trpGAME11/06/14 09:49 AM
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OP says no intimacy, no anything. I'm thinking OP has a short definition of intimacy: sex. Anything can be intimate if you make it. But since OP is fixated on the end goal of sex, he's having a hard time getting there, missing all the rungs of the ladder.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:39 AM
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Get in the game or STFU! we are talking about different sports here. Maybe I just have an abnormal love for female company. Some of my most entertaining girls are the ones I LJBF from the start. They're the man-eaters, and the super trouble ones, and the ridiculous prudes. They all get friendzoned. Then the sexual tension just builds and builds until they are jumping your bones. Their boyfriend drops them off after work to "hang with their bestie." He comes and picks her up the next afternoon to…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:36 AM
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Am I the only one that thinks they were flirting with OP? They were definitely trying to get at OP. OP actually did good with the "Well fuck you too" cause then the better looking girl apologizes. But then OP is too mad to recover. Amused Mastery, Agree and Amplify, they are your friends. They are whispering about you even after you stormed off. You could go up to them at school and say "There's a rumor going around that you two are competing for me" and they would probably swoon.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:27 AM
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This is why texting is great. You can agree and amplify with complete ambiguity. It doesn't have to be funny, it's deadpan. They don't always know if they should take it seriously, so the default is to laugh and try and figure out what you're about. It's a game. Get her to go grab a sharpie and send you a picture. Have her write PenguinSkateboarding all over her chest. Girls eat this stuff up, texts are girl crack.
/r/trpGAME11/06/14 09:18 AM
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OP's RULE is fuck me or gtfo...
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:08 AM
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I agree. The thing with MGTOW is that it seems they can't get what they want from women, even when they try. So they would rather not go after them at all, the reactionary inverse of giving so much and getting nothing in return. Maybe they are deluding themselves about what they really want. Or not, in which case more gene pool for me.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:07 AM
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"Lol, you want me to pencil you into my agenda?" Perfect chance for an agree and amplify: "just write PenguinSkateboarding on every page" "Bye Felicia" Joke from Friday. OP had no sense of humor though. ""I guess you're more book smart than street smart huh..." She's trying to be funny. Maybe not very well, but OP could at least joke back.
/r/trpGAME11/06/14 04:40 AM
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I'm allergic to dates. I might as well go buy a hooker here. They are cheaper and way less trouble. Better to go somewhere fun and interesting, good experiences are cheap. Something that gets her blood pumping, the adrenaline flowing. Something dangerous, a little forbidden. That kind of stuff doesn't cost money. Maybe we'll get a snack or some street food. Maybe I'll pay, maybe I won't, depending on my mood. Back to my place for movies. If we are doing dinner, she's cooking. If I'm trying to sp…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:32 AM
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lol this girl is flirting with you over text, but you think you're fucking up First she invited you to come over, you lied and send you had other plans. She's set you up for like 3 jokes, but you missed all those opportunities. Ok, maybe I see how you're fucking up. She's still trying though... might as well get some practice in. "Never seen Friday, let's watch it at your place"
/r/trpGAME11/06/14 04:26 AM
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"Take a Sharpie and write PenguinSkateboarding all over Thursday"
/r/trpGAME11/06/14 04:19 AM
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I don't particularly care for rules. You can get plenty of benefit from women without fucking them. The orbiting, beta bucks, one-sided relationships, etc. don't happen because there is no reason to continue a situation without benefits. Thinking that the only benefit that women can offer is sex, that's a pretty narrow viewpoint. Not being able to appreciate girls for anything more than a few fuck holes is indicative of a toxic overall mentality towards females. It's no wonder MGTOW and the rest…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 04:02 AM
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Amused Mastery
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:52 AM
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It's great that guys spend hours playing board games that hone their strategic mind and enhance their natural logical capabilities. Of course they never bother to apply this same strategic thinking to the sexual marketplace. No dude is going to sit playing chess using the same strategy if they are continually loosing. Yet they will repeat the same failing actions with women until they take the pill. We've been taught that strategy doesn't apply to relationships while women have known from the st…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:01 PM
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Yep. Now that the majority of men have been subsumed by the feminist frame, they collectively put women on the pedestal. In theory this is great for women. In practice it is detrimental to all of society.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:58 PM
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It is this struggle for dominance that pushes evolution forward. It is the competition to have the fittest offspring with the fittest mates. This is what drives both men and women to try and maximize their own sexual strategy to the detriment of the other. It only becomes antagonistic when false expectations create the disney ideal that men and women should work harmoniously towards the same goals. Can't happen because men and women have completely different, often opposing goals, when it comes …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:56 PM
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Rollo saves the day again.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:49 PM
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Women understand that sleeping around is not in their best interest. That is why you see the cognitive dissonance in the feminist articles that advocate sleeping with the bad boys, but have trouble accepting that they won't find security and provisioning that way. What current feminism is trying to do, is to shift the definition of slut to exclude women that once fell under the categorization. Now if a woman sleeps around a bunch during college, she is just "exploring her options" or "enjoying h…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:48 PM
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As long as there is no guilt assigned to the women, by herself or others, she lives to fight another day. That's why it is usually pointless to try and argue with women. They won't argue to make logical points and convince you of their side. They argue to maintain, or improve in their favor, the power structure of the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:45 PM
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It is society wide targeting. On one had you have feminists working to convince males that sluts, fatties, and past-wall women are desirable. On the other you have feminists convincing women to openly pursue BB/AF. Of course it looks like brainwashing. Hence we have TRP, and the various matrix analogies. TRP works to counteract the brainwashing of modern day feminism and the general attitudes it has created in society towards sexual interactions.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:43 PM
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I didn't pass AP Bio or anything, but if I understand this right, that's an extra half year shorter that an isolated woman lives compared to an isolated man. That would be a good portion of a pregnancy term, or in other words, an additional potential offspring. So marginal is pretty relative here. Further, this marginal difference would be increased during the thousands of years where this social response actually developed. The thousands of years before 1965 where this data comes from. Shifting…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:21 AM
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So I would say that woman are naturally Seducers/Strategist/Manipulators This. Women are naturals, men have to learn and study strategy. A man who studies strategy (ie reads TRP) is going to be able to counter natural female strategy. The average male doesn't learn sexual strategy though, so the average women runs circles around him. Women are wired for covert action, men for overt action. Women are expert manipulators, a necessary skill to maintain security without the physical prowess of males…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:59 AM
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Women and men have different brain wiring. Women for social skills and memory, men for perception and action. Rational Male has a bunch of source material to this effect.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:55 AM
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Believing your own lies makes them seem true to others. Yep. The dominant narrative is the one the most people believe. In other words, history is written by the winners. Ultimately it doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong once the social group decides who is getting blamed. A woman is not ever going to accept the blame, or concede your point in an argument. She can't because to do so would go against every evolutionary cue to preserve her social standing. Women with a bad reputation (ie …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:48 AM
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Exactly. Reputation is even more important for woman than looks. After the wall, it is basically all that is left. Negative reputations are social death for females, so it makes sense they would do anything to protect it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:38 AM
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It's less about convincing themselves and more about setting the narrative. For example, a woman who cheats, knows exactly what she is doing. The hamster justifications (he's not the same, I just need excitement, I'm just exploring the options) are simply a way of telling the story to shift blame away from the woman. This mitigates the brunt of the negative social repercussions by reducing her exposure. The hamster is just an evolved response to prevent these adverse social consequences. By sepa…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:37 AM
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Chances are, 50 guys haven't hit on her. Most are like you and are too busy mulling over what to say in their head. Meanwhile, you can walk up, smile, and say hi, beating them all out and drawing her into a conversation. It really is that easy.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:46 AM
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Women live with a mental condition in which they never remember themselves being wrong or at fault. This really is an evolved biological response to being less physically dominant and part of a species of social animals. Seriously, woman can't help but spin situations to make themselves seem in the right. It is a tool that evolution has given them to make sure that they don't get tossed out of the tribe to die in the harsh wilderness. Men can deal with social isolation far better than women. MGT…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:43 AM
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Most men don't know what they are. Which is all of the problem. Years of external sources telling you this and that, they loose the ability to listen to their inner voice and pursue the things that they actually want out of life. It is less about being beta or alpha, and more about do you know what you want and do you work to get that from life. I'd say a small portion of men have an idea of what they are working towards in life. The rest are listlessly floating, pushed here and there by the wav…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:36 AM
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Males that are not fit enough to end up spreading their seed to a willing mate deserve to help the rest of the human gene pool prosper. If you are going to raise someone else's child instead of having your own, knowingly or not, you're probably better off not passing on your genes. Plenty of people understand on a fundamental level that their genes are not worthy of continuing, so they willingly bow out of the gene pool. Trying to impose monetary or legal penalties on these issues is just asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 02:53 AM
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This is life. It is about passing on your genes in a way that will ensure the survival of your offspring to reproductive ages. Really humans like to sugar coat this fact to make themselves feel better. Yet when it comes down to it, we all know that life is all about getting ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 02:48 AM
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Game theory 101: create the rules while breaking them for your benefit Basically what feminism and women do in general in relationships. Let's be honest, most females are way better strategists and manipulators than the average male. Marriage: rules based on life long commitment and fidelity and resource sharing....until one party (usually the woman) decides that to break these rules. Of course, once the rules are broken and the marriage ends, the benefits are highly skewed towards the female. L…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 02:43 AM
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A winning strategy never gets old
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 10:45 PM
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He may have been trying, but he was failing pretty hard. Your girl was saying how "nice" he was by the end, so all that effort didn't really translate into success. Since you came out on top, there is nothing to gain and everything to loose by being mad and continuing to mate guard. My friends and I are always joking around and flirting with each other's girls. The girls know which guy they are after, and if they don't that is just more fun for the wolf pack. Of course, there is major eskimo bro…
/r/askTRP09/06/14 10:43 PM
4

I understand why you are mad, but the reality is you have this on lock, and continuing to get angry in these situations is going to sabotage you. It is clear from the interactions and responses from your gf that you are the prominent male in her mind. The try-hard, work-hard, get-this-girl-to-like-me mentality that your friend had was never attractive to your gf. She saw it for what it was, a drunk guy trying to build attraction and get in her pants. While you were stewing about how much he is c…
/r/askTRP09/06/14 09:25 PM
2

Doesn't really matter what other people think if you're seeing results and you feel good about what you're doing. Girls like to laugh, just like most humans. Funny light-hearted conversation will get them to enjoy your company more than talking about most other things. On the flip side, it is good to mesh with the overall energy of the group and place where you are. A great way to work groups is to fall in with the main conversation, adding choice tidbits of your knowledge as other people talk a…
/r/askTRP09/06/14 09:05 PM
2

Drogo died because Dany's idealism got in the way of her seeing what the witch lady's real nature was. Of course the women whose life you just destroyed, people you killed, and children you raped, is not going to be the one that wants to help you. She thought that by saving the witches life, she would be on her side, but it was far too late because at that point the witch was already scheming against her. Contrast this to her later conquests, she turns the people against the leaders and is able …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:02 PM
6

anyone who deludes themselves with any sort of naivete or idealism meeting a grisly end at the hands of those who can see the world for what it is This, this, and more this. Every time a character starts down the path to idealism instead of ruthless, calculating pragmatism, they are destroyed by the other players in the game. In the Game of Thrones, you win or you die. Baelish, even though he seems to have oneitis, is way more cunning than the average character. It is a main part of his story, t…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:00 PM
3

This whole rape culture thing is a lot of doublethink, coupled with some actual problems that people refuse to look at solutions for. When I walk home late a night from a friends, in the middle of the city, I am on very high alert for signs of danger. This is despite being far above average in height, weight, and general body composition. This happens when I am at home or traveling. I make sure to be aware of my surroundings, because I know that if I fail to do some, some bad shit could happen t…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:48 PM
8

A solid pipeline for girls will make your game way more solid. As you said, it's very similar to sales. You don't need to change your approach for one specific girl, instead tweak the overall workflows for best results with the maximum numbers. It is easier to have a set plan for escalation, especially one you have field tested and experimented with to get the best results. The jakes really drilled this point home for me with some of his posts from SE Asia. His basic pipeline was club, motorbike…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:39 PM
2

Live TV really is the best practice ground for body reading. A little observation, a little empathy, makes it easy enough to see how the person might be feeling when they get hit with that less than stellar joke on the morning talk show. The look of hurt and desire for revenge that appears for a split second before they get it under control, priceless.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:11 PM
0

Hm, I like this pen idea. The man with the least skin showing at the end of the night wins. Also having lots of phone numbers written Memento style across your body would be great preselection.
/r/trpGAME09/06/14 05:58 PM
1

You right, I should make long ebook, website with lots of marketing lingo, sell the bits for $19.99. Could have all the right grammar stuffs and everything.
/r/trpGAME09/06/14 05:29 PM
-4

If it works for you kiddo, I won't knock it.
/r/trpGAME09/06/14 05:26 PM
1

Reduces choice, which raises value of the few women that do get chosen. Leads to attitude of overabundance for reduced supply. Huge demand for small supply will lead to a price increase. In other words, fat women (and the men that allow it) means bigger bitch shields for everyone. Places where there are less fat women, the girls are much nicer all around. Very few bitch shields to be had where thin girls abound, because of course there is much more female competition and you cannot get away with…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 11:22 PM
2

Almost everyone makes unconscious body movements that betray their underlying feelings and thoughts about a situation. One of my favorite things to observe in social settings. It seems like the vast majority of people are slaves to their own body language. Even when people try and control their facial and bodily reactions to things, there are split seconds where they reveal their true feelings. After years of observation, I feel that most humans make more or less the same motions depending on th…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:35 PM
1

The benefit of a loud environment (club, concert, etc.) is you can speak right into a girls ear without it being weird. If a girl is receptive to your dancing (she's grinding on you or w/e) then it's time to move her. Take her hand lead her to the bar, outside, back to your place. Doesn't really matter where, but if you just stay around and dance till the girl gets bored you've missed the opportunity she is giving you. I would hit the town during the day. Make your objective to find some fun loc…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 08:51 PM
2

This is AR afterall, and this is a place where we are blunt as fuck with nothing less than extreme honesty. There are a lot of crabs in the main sub. AR is for people that left the bucket behind.
/r/AlreadyRed26/05/14 09:23 PM
2

She decided that she would rather just spend the evening with me. Seems like you did fine.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 11:05 PM
9

There was no reason to do all the escalation just to slam the door in her face. You were already making out with her at the party, fucking her really wouldn't have made it any more awkward for the whole living situation thing.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 10:46 PM
39

The jakeface had a post, some long time ago, about fat being the root of western girl problems. He pretty much nailed it saying that when there is a low supply of attractive women, the demand just blows those girls egos out the water. If even a third of women are not desirable for mating (fat being just about the worse thing you can be for you and your children's health) that seriously skews the whole supply/demand thingy. He was saying that in places where most women actually look like women an…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 10:31 PM
1

If people want to walk around with their eyes on their feet, they are going to get hit with some boulders in the head. I won't drop the boulder, but I will sit at the top of the cliff and joke with your girl as she's throwing the rocks off.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 10:22 PM
1

probably how i'll go out
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 10:17 PM
7

BE MOTHERFUCKING HAPPY. Enjoy life's pleasures. Enjoy women for the imperfect mostly hairless little monkeys they are. Fall in love, have orgies, do whatever you think you might enjoy. As long as you don't neglect your long term developent or sacrifice your identity, you can do no wrong. You are so right. The way I see it, maximizing your happiness is the end goal of long term development. The only way to know what actually makes you happy is to try whatever you think might be fun and see how it…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 10:14 PM
5

Clubs are loud, deal. You're standing too far away all nervous and timid like. Get up in her ear, then take her to the dance floor. Dancing is not fucking rocket science. There are no 'moves.' Grab a girl by the waist, move left and right in time with the beat. It's that simple. If you can keep time you're doing better than most anyone. Let her do whatever she is going to do, you just move left and right with the beat. Method. Method. Method. Boom you've been dancing, she's receptive, she's show…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 10:00 PM
1

that doesn't mean he "deserves" it He probably doesn't deserve it. More than likely he is an upstanding guy that works hard and tries to please his girl. Thing is, I don't really care what he deserves. I'll take full responsibility for fucking the girl. It's completely on me that I seduce her, get her back to my place, etc, etc. Everyone has agency in this situation. The girl knows full well that she is stepping out on her dude for some NSA action. The guy probably knows that the relationship is…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 09:12 PM
4

facilitating infidelity is inherently dishonest There is no dishonesty on my part. So to say "sexual strategy is amoral" seems to me to be a cheap way to absolve oneself of any moral responsibility or agency when it comes to sex and rationalize one's questionable actions. I'm not here to say one thing is right and this other thing is wrong. I don't think there is any moral responsibility to uphold other people's relationships. Maybe that is a questionable position, but is one that I'm fine with …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 07:41 PM
1

There's no reason to carry on an action that leaves you mentally and emotionally drained, no matter how well it works to pick up chicks. Stoicism isn't about not having emotions or repressing the emotions you do have. More like when you have emotions you don't get caught up in them and allow them to dictate your decision making. It's attractive because it shows you can handle yourself and others. There is a difference between being in touch with your empathetic, emotional side, and being a guy t…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 07:23 PM
9

I agree sometimes it can be useful. The difference between you "shaming" your friend and the shaming IllimitableMan was speaking of is that you were trying to lift your friend up. Already out of the bucket and helping pull crabs out, sometimes you have to point and say look at the stoopid crab. That can help them realize their situation and actually do the real work it takes to get out of the bucket. The point is that you were never calling him Buddha just to make yourself feel better about your…
/r/AlreadyRed25/05/14 07:05 PM
2

Decide what you want out of the situation. She's probably not worth it as a plate, too much dramatics. She's probably not LTR material what with all the cheating and emotional instability. She's been stringing you both along. While you fight over who is going to give this girl commitment, she gets to play you off one another for validation. There's no real reason to let that go on. Find some other female company, they don't even have to be plates. This girl just reeks of toxicity, better to sepa…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 06:48 PM
3

Tell him you have an evil genius plot to get her back, but you don't want to tell him because you are worried if he follows it he wont' want her anymore. He will press you for the details. Feign reluctance before spilling the beans and explaining the plan below. Pick out a few girls at school that have nemesis potential. They don't necessarily have to be the cutest or the most popular, but they do need to have some aspect to their appearance or personality that will piss off his ex. It will also…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 07:54 AM
6

She wants you to pick a place. She can't say that because then the tingles she is clinging to would disappear. Tell her she should meet you downtown at the bar at 9. Let her know to wear that one black dress you like.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 07:28 AM
9

Shaming is just another crab tactic, keeping others down to try and lift yourself up. It' easy to see who's still in the barrel because once you're out you have a lot more perspective on the barrel-crab struggle.
/r/AlreadyRed25/05/14 06:28 AM
5

Women (and Beta males) prefer pretty lies to potentially toxic truths. They will conceal and dress up the truth to make it more attractive and tasteful. They will sacrifice truth to maintain social and emotional balance. It really is surprising the lengths a woman will go to preserve their reputation. It would seem like after awhile a reputation for being a utter liar would lead her to tell the truth, but no, never be surprised by how long a woman will try to bend reality to cover her misdeeds.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 09:53 PM
-2

Never underestimate the lengths a chick will go in pursuit of some first class tingles.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:42 AM
59

People generally present a rather bland and boring facade because they are afraid others will judge them for being different. Letting people let out these hidden parts of themselves is a fine art. Once they get started talking about their inner crazy, they will find it hard to stop because they rarely get a chance to let that side out. There are more interesting stories in people than you likely give them credit for. It is a matter of getting them to let you in on these stories that is more diff…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:41 AM
1

Most people are losers, men included. Loser peoples love structure. Give a girl a solid workout routine and a basic understanding of caloric maintenance, they turn into a nice little kitten. Give them basic structures for orbiter rent extraction with some girl game and send them out to the world to wreak havoc on poor little loser boys.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:33 AM
9

The male version of a shit test is a compliance test. Does she follow your lead? Does she do the random things you ask? A shit test is a woman's way of checking to see if you have frame. Flip that around for your purposes: see if she will submit to your frame.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 04:18 AM
4

The manly thing to do is whatever you want to do. You seem to have a solid grasp on the things you might want to do, now it is time to actually try those things out. Feel like hitting the town on Thursday? Do it. Feel like staying in and laying down some new tracks? Do it. Feel like bringing musically inclined chicks back from the local bar to record the harmony? Do it. The only thing that can make action unmanly is not taking it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:35 PM
3

Finding, seducing, and molding women is a large component of my mission. If people would rather sit with their dick in their hand to focus on empire building, it makes it easier to build my harem. I consider that an important part of my empire.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:20 PM
27

You cannot let her take your commitment for granted This is my main problem with marriage. It seems like there is no way for her to avoid taking your commitment for granted. Worst case scenario for women in marriage is leaving with a sizable chunk of your resources. I don't see the long game for LTRs solving this problem, because no matter how much dread and good sex you can provide, the option of peacing out with your stuff is just too good of a backup.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:14 PM
0

Life would be boring if as soon as you got something you were able to keep it forever. There would never be an incentive to improve. Instead we have a beautiful system of checks and balances that ensures that you always get better, or you get tossed to the side.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:10 PM
2

What was your end goal for this interaction? To get her number, get a meetup, get the bang, to troll? Impossible to tell because you let the conversation run around in circles. Have some kind of direction and you won't get caught up in meaningless banter. She seemed mostly receptive, but you never took her cues to escalate. Always be closing. A girl gives you an in, you better jump on it because waiting will only kill the tingles.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:07 PM
3

You'd do well to spend less time trying to divine what drives this girl's attraction to some dude you barely know. Better to find ways you can get other chicks to find something attractive about yourself.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 01:56 AM
12

Facial aesthetics may be a luck of the draw thing, but almost every other aspect of your appearance can be fine tuned. Focus on the things you can change. Maximize your assets to minimize your faults.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 09:31 PM
1

the social checks My social check for a woman is you get less of my time if you're trying to get other dicks. This only works if my time (ie the rest of my life) isn't already signed over to that single woman. Marriage as it currently exists is an agreement with a person who is highly unlikely to adhere to the rules of the contract, and where the consequences if/when the relationship is dissolved are heavily skewed against me. Maybe that will change, but for now the situation for pair bonded soc…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:28 PM
5

Women in Love by Rollo Tomassi Men are the romantics forced to be the realists, while women are the realists using romanticisms to effect their imperatives (hypergamy). This is a heaping mouthful of cruel reality to swallow, and dovetails nicely into the sixth Iron Rule of Tomassi: Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:45 PM
8

Stick to your guns. She leaves, you're done. She stays, you should take a hard look at the relationship still.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 06:33 PM
5

Well thought out post. I think this kind of male romantic mentality was on full display in the thread the other day about cheating. Men are fiercely loyal and devoted when they find a woman they want to give their commitment to. Women, not so much. All the talk about monogamous honor and faithfulness being a necessary part of LTRs smacks of male hamstering. It's great that we feel these kind of ways, but it is naive to think women feel the same way towards commitment as we do. It is a beautiful …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:17 PM
1

Some don't. NAWALT? there's no incentive for other party to follow them There was never an incentive to follow them. Women love you for what you represent and what you bring to the table, they can't love in the way that we idealize them to. Isn't that what hypergamy and Briffault's law are? I'm not as bad as women, I'm worse. It seems that is what it takes these days.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:47 AM
2

Cheating is considered a breach in a relationship, but it is up to the party damaged to forgive/break it off. To say that men and women cheat when in supposedly stable relationship makes the very notion of relationship contrived is to say that the very notion of laws is contrived because supposedly good people break them. Sure, in a relationship where sex is contractual. The notion that there can be a breach in the relationship assumes a relationship has laws and the people in the relationship p…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:43 PM
5

Sense of stability Clearly this sense of stability is contrived, because both men and women cheat when in supposedly stable relationships. Superior environment for child raising Pair bonded couples may raise better children, but the idea that the pair bond needs to be mutually exclusive doesn't seem to have validity. every civilization (worth of mentioning) had a form of marriage Every civilization had a form of marriage. For most of human history this marriage was understood to be largely for r…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 09:26 PM
6

Blah, blah, blah. I don't see one rational argument for why not to cheat. There is a bunch of great shaming language and a general attitude of trumped up honor. If there is any utility or sense in the idea that faithfulness means taking only one partner for the duration of your life, I would love to see it. From where I stand there is none. All is fair in love and war.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 09:06 PM
-3

it's all a game And I didn't even have to buy a next gen console.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:29 PM
5

Tell her if she's not content with the situation she can walk. You have to mean it though.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:22 PM
4

Be the cock carousel and forget relationships beyond that... or Ensure that you get to women before they get alpha widowed. Her past will absolutely change her, and it will have an effect on whether or not she can love you at all. I agree. It can be a very effective strategy to combine the two. Be the cock carousel, and simultaneously work to create as many alpha widows as you can.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:19 PM
9

Girls don't argue to get their point across, they argue to win. You're trying to make her see your side, which is always, always going to fail. They will get you wrapped up in the emotions of the argument and beat you with experienced cunning, not with logic. The end result is that you walk away feeling like maybe you did do something wrong, and she walks away satisfied with that outcome. The only way to win is to not fight, which means telling her when she is out of line and then not entertaini…
/r/askTRP20/05/14 08:42 PM
7

"Let me get your number" Don't overthink things OP.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 08:36 PM
5

No matter who is pregnant, or who you are talking to, it is all about them. It has everything to do with what they would do in the situation, or how they feel about it. [Everyone sucks. It should be all about meeeeeeee]
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 06:11 PM
3

He'll find out soon enough on his own. If people want to drive drunk, the best you can do is visit them in the hospital after they crash. Getting in the car is a bad idea.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:08 PM
1

Giving her the 'cold shoulder' is just another way of trying to get back... Follow the blood captains advice.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 05:24 PM
4

You're suffering way more than they are by feeling all guilty. Women love being an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 04:59 PM
3

As long as she knows you'll keep coming back, she has all the power.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 04:56 PM
0

Learn to negotiate. Tell your parents you need to be closer to school, to focus on school. That you would be able to focus on your education better if you were closer to school and out of the house. Give them a total budget. Emphasize how you will be taking care of 95% of the expenses and they only need to help you with the 5% for a few years. Work something out where you pay as much of rent as you can and they help you with the rest. Getting your own apartment just to bring home chicks to bang …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:37 AM
3

Please OP, sell me more.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:09 AM
1

Instagram has some kind of picture messaging thing that I've never used but seems perfect for this. Send funny pic, laugh, get her number. If you have to make elaborate schemes and plots to just get a sit down with a chick, it's probably more trouble than it is worth.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 07:16 AM
5

If you value honesty, just tell her you don't want exclusivity anymore, because reasons. Prepare for your new plate to stop spinning real quick. If you don't care about moral high ground and whatnot, just start talking to other girls. A girl is a plate if you are spinning plates, which means having more than one at a time.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 07:03 AM
2

I've restarted week old convos where I messaged last and ones where she messaged last. Generally if she never responded, I don't put much investment into the restart, but I have had success with everything from misc's "please respond" to joking how they are slow to respond. If I never responded, I'll just pick up the conversation where it left off. Also remember that girls are getting hundreds of messages on Tinder, your stuff can get buried under a bunch of crap openers and hi/hellos from the g…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 06:59 AM
2

She saw right through OP, which admittedly wasn't very difficult since his cards were on the table from the start. OP, it's not manipulation if you don't get what you want. You wanted a fwb, you certainly didn't get that. Then you try and hamster all that rejection away. You're so far gone you think you were in control of the whole conversation. In reality, when she said jump, you asked how high. Take notes OP, she pulled some serious Machiavelli shit on you.
/r/ThankTRP20/05/14 06:51 AM
2

I'm pretty sure I know where I'm at with this one and what I should do next
/r/askTRP20/05/14 05:35 AM
5

This. Responding seriously to these questions is submitting to their frame. It is agreeing that they have a point. Jokingly deflect them with agree and amplify, or better yet ignore these kind things of completely.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 04:38 AM
2

Shit test that you could have nope'd past by saying "Cool I got episode 1 up and ready." The long time before replying was her putting this golden opportunity to showcase your shit test defeating skills closer to booty call hours.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 04:27 AM
3

Luckily violent criminals aren't the only ones with status. I learned game by watching my friends who are naturals work their magic. Imitating successful actions is a fast track to success.
/r/trpGAME20/05/14 04:05 AM
2

You're throwing yourself on your sword and then wondering why your guts are all on the floor. If your parents are willing to solve your problem, and you are refusing, that's not much of a problem at all.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 02:36 AM
7

Relying on a girl for validation is the first step on the slippery oneitis slope. You seem to think that because this girl is not a club slut, the sex is more than sex. Hint: it's not.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 02:34 AM
3

If you're failing to hold composure in these situations, which are essentially shit tests and good natured joking between friends, who knows what you'll do when a female tries knocking your frame. This post is so bitter that you calling everyone blue pill and beta is probably projection.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 02:29 AM
23

You'll be looking for awhile if you're trying to find it on the sidebar. Thread 1, Thread 2, Thread 3, Thread 4 The Book of Sneaks Once you've read all 1000 thread pages, sit back and revel in your text game godhood.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:41 AM
2

"I'll be at [coffee shop near her] till 5, come keep me company" or "I have a meeting at [coffee shop near her] till 4, meet me after" Girls that want you will go to the ends of the earth and survive the zombie apocalypse to meet you for coffee.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 12:13 AM
6

Literally a gold mine of text game that took me from 0 to 1 message number closes in a day. Sneaks is the real deal and the thread is full of nuggets of wisdom and generally hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:49 PM
0

I've had good success getting the number close quickly, running a tinder-text transition joke, and then going cold. When I am in their area doing something, I invite them to join me. They are often excited and willing to meet up because they think I had forgotten about them. I frame it as a chance to finally meet that interesting guy, and don't revolve my plans around them. Flakes still happen, but the downside is being at the bar solo, which I would have been doing anyway. 'mirin your same day …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:45 PM
2

You need to redirect that resentment at the way you used to be instead of at a woman acting how women are supposed to act. OP doesn't really resent his wife. He resents himself and his years wasted in ignorance. Every shitty thing that OP's wife did stems from his actions, and he knows that.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:32 PM
2

Emotions are cocktails for the brain. Heightened emotions are cocktails with extra shots. Woman, emotional creatures that they are, have a lower tolerance than us for the brain's version of a drinking game. If you've been conditioned to get your fix from arguments, that's what you're going to do. As is typical with substance users, woman seek stronger and stronger fixes. It is a win-win situation for them. If you stoop to their level in an argument they can escalate and get even more emotional, …
/r/askTRP19/05/14 11:16 PM
2

You are Alpha fux in this situation so you can't really push too far. She already has her provisioning, your relationship is the opposite of that. She will want to be as crazy as she can with you, and I'm sure you've noticed through her text escalation. You get to lead the wild horse, so lead her. Ask her about what she finds attractive in a woman, hit the bar with her, have her choose a girl, and then run tag-team game until you get the MFF.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 10:59 PM
12

Asking "May I kiss you tonight?" is a sure way to kill any and all tingles she has for you. The reason you're even taking her on this date is to lock lips with this chick, so just kiss her. Thinking about it too much will crash and burn this ship before it ever launches.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 10:49 PM
1

Dread game is just intentionally representing to a woman that you have options other than just her. Knowledge of your options makes her work harder to stay at the top of your roster. Pretty much anything can instill dread, but I've found it works best when it comes from a source outside yourself. When the waitress smiles at you, or the girl on the street is giving you eyes, your LTR is going to think "I better work extra hard to please peaksandpow tonight." Heatiste (in the main sub sidebar) has…
/r/askTRP19/05/14 10:44 PM
0

Your son will be better off without a woman turning you (and by extension him) into her new boytoy. Spin plates, keep your kid separate from them while he grows up, and maybe find some womanly friends you don't sleep with to bring around. 31 is a prime age for men to capitalize on their value, and your son will benefit from having a strong father figure in his life. Compare that to how he would feel with a new step mom that makes his dad feel like shit. For me the choice is easy.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 10:37 PM
2

this. OP fell into her frame with the first response and then kept falling down the well screaming as he went.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 10:28 PM
0

Sneakyninjapants tinder game all the way. That thread inspired my tinder shenanigans. I like OPs twist to go for the meetup, I usually push for a number. Might have to try this version.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 10:23 PM
8

Check the bodybuilding.com forum threads. Can confirm sneak's text game is super efficient.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 10:22 PM
3

You say you want to quit then spend a half post vomiting words, waxing poetic on your oneitis. Move forward with [your] life
/r/askTRP19/05/14 07:58 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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