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| 1 | How many dates before you invite a girl back to your placeI'd say after 3 dates or meet-ups, but play it by ear. Don't put too much stock on the typical "pull/kiss her by X time or you'll fail" advice. There's no magical number of dates or meet-ups you need to pull the trigger by. That's not how it works. Sometimes, it would take less time for me. Sometimes, it would take longer. It depends on your circumstances. Sure, you should try and pull the trigger (kiss/sex) ASAP, but that doesn't mean you have to force it. It's only a problem if you wait too lo… | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 07:31 PM |
| 3 | When asking out, should I always go for specific time or can I let it be arranged later?You're overthinking it. Also, you're building yourself up just to get her number with your long speech. So don't. Phone numbers really aren't a big deal anymore. Especially nowadays, where women just press the block button. It happened on Friday, when I met a new girl that was into me. This other guy tried to hit her up in the same bar, but she showed me his messages and pressed the block button in front of me. Meanwhile, she was begging for my number (I made her sweat a bit, hehe). What you sho… | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | If you had no more than a minute to approach and try to get a number how would you go about it?Don't. These are the reasons why. If you had no more than a minute, that's not enough time to build comfort. Comfort is important so that they don't flake on you. It takes about 20 minutes to establish comfort, so they don't feel on edge with you . If you don't get to that point of comfort, you'll be placed into the "yet another random creep" category, instead of someone of real interest. Even if you somehow get her number (believe it or not, it's not that hard), they will flake on you and/or bl… | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?I'd honestly not answer. It's no one's business. If they want to find out, they're going to have to earn it by earning their place as a girl of my interest. Some phrases to use as a response. Of course, always deliver it with a snarky humor: Wouldn't you like to know? Why? Are you already thinking of marrying me? Damn, you're trying to move too fast with me. At least wine and dine me first. Sorry, that's something I only talk about with my girlfriends. You're still not close to that. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:40 PM |
| 7 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?Don't feel too bad. I lost my virginity when I was 27. My recommendation is to lose your V-card ASAP. I remember that my V-card would get in my way often during pick up. I'd meet a girl that was really attractive and really great. But then, I'd get in my own way. I'd be freaking out because I was a virgin. I was worried about what would happen if she took my V-card, and things wouldn't work out. I'd always have that anxiety so of course, I'd self-sabotage myself and I never wound up with anyone.… | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:19 PM |
| 7 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...Very good basic advice. #1 used to be my sticking point, and then of course, women would get bored with me. Funny, because they would often approach me. Yes to #8. They think they know how to flirt. I always ask them "if flirted the same way to you, would you go out with me?" Their silence always tells me the answer. For #5: Women don't even have to be that attractive. Even the relatively "ugly" ones will have a line of men they can talk to at any time. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:12 PM |
| 3 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?Basically, keep it a mystery (regardless whether you are a virgin or not). You'll have to frame it so they have to really work to win you over in order to find out. Some phrases to use as a response. Of course, always deliver it with a snarky humor: Wouldn't you like to know? Why? Are you already thinking of marrying me? Damn, you're trying to move too fast with me. At least wine and dine me first. Sorry, that's something I only talk about with my girlfriends. You're still not close to that. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:50 PM |
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