AFCdood Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
641	2 Years of RP: Lessons Learned	Field Report	AFCdood	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/16 06:28 AM
57	[FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I Eat	Field Report	AFCdood	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/15 07:13 PM
52	We Need More Women in Venture Capital!	Red Pill Theory	AFCdood	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/15 03:27 AM
23	Don't Forget to Have Some Fun in Life	Red Pill Theory	AFCdood	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/14 03:46 AM
20	Woman (45) Dating 26 yo Man- What does TRP think?	Red Pill Theory	AFCdood	/r/TheRedPill	19/10/14 04:38 PM
5	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality		AFCdood	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 05:47 AM
4	Went on date, need advice.		AFCdood	/r/trpGAME	20/09/14 03:09 PM
2	Girl is flaky, need advice		AFCdood	/r/askTRP	06/02/15 03:04 PM
0	Arranging a First Date		AFCdood	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/15 02:43 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	2 Years of RP: Lessons Learned Calories in > calories out = gainz. vice versa. Get enough protein and nothing else really matters.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/16 08:06 AM
1	2 Years of RP: Lessons Learned I understand the point- many of the guys here are pussies who lay all their feelings out via text. For them they obviously need to stfu. For everyone else "logistics only" texting is just a complete lack of game.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/16 08:03 AM
1	2 Years of RP: Lessons Learned 1 week of nothing = game over. Girl's lives move much faster than these guys really understand. They can literally fall in love and have their heart broken in a week.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/16 07:57 AM
17	Few Months out of TRP I rarely come back to this sub, but when I do, I realize how much of it is silly theory propagated by angry virgins with zero experience with women. The takeaways should be lifting, bettering yourself, and accepting failure as stepping stones to success. Most everything else is subjective (or entirely false). You will never get dates by sending 1-2 word replies via text, that's "boring". Being a prick 100% of the time will lose you every woman and friend in your life except your mother. Seeking …	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/16 05:26 AM
4	On the second day, he learned how to lift Why do people come here, literally on a post telling them what they need to do (lift), and ask what they need to do? BULK. COMPOUND LIFTS. IT'S NOT FUCKING HARD, STOP ASKING STUPID ASS QUESTIONS AND GO TO THE GYM. You have tiny abs so that's why they're not showing. No amount of cutting will help you, you'll just look like a holocaust victim moreso than you already do. The cortisol comment is BS also, a clear case of fitness hamstering. Don't worry about the .5 lbs of fat covering your tiny abs,…	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/16 03:00 AM
5	8 months from invisibility to magnet A quick look at some of OP's other post confirms that OP is full of shit! (OP in the linked post)	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/16 03:48 PM
5	Stories From The Nightclub: The Tiger Theory Normal guy here, never had this problem. You're probably doing something wrong.	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/16 06:18 PM
1	Video games are bad... are they? I would see if your school has a gaming/esports club. This would allow you to find buddies with the same interests and give you some IRL interaction. You would probably even be a mini-celeb in such a club. On the very off chance there's a single girl who's not obese in the club you will probably have enough status to lock her down easily as well. I definitely wouldn't quit while it's hot. I played an ungodly amount of wc3 without making a penny. Many years, recreational drugs, girls, and parties…	/r/askTRP	26/05/16 02:58 AM
2	How to deal with bipolar and histrionic women who will not succumb to you? I'm so alpha but the only chick I want to fuck just plays games with me You will never lose your virginity until you stop sucking your own dick while simultaneously repulsing your oneitis. Repeating how "alpha" you are in a story about your long-term obsession with some chick who blatantly rejects you reveals what an insecure scrub you are.	/r/askTRP	20/05/16 07:02 PM
4	How to deal with annoying, childish female roommate friends who take shots at my dates and my appearance. Step 1. I would first tell them my boundaries, ie "do NOT talk shit about my girl(s)". Make the boundaries things that any reasonable human would already know to respect. They will proceed to disregard these boundaries. Step 2. The next time they attack make a personal comment on the attacker's insecurities. Not a raging, vitriolic attack but a playful comment in the same vein as a flirt or A&A. Example: if she comments about your girl, something like "Well it could be worse, she could be x (fat…	/r/askTRP	20/05/16 06:04 AM
3	The Media, White People, and “Trump the Tyrant:” A TRP Analysis I particularly enjoyed this sound bit of reasoning: A lot of Trump's ideas about economics are wrong, and many of his statements are at odds with the facts. They just are. Prior to that statement he suckled Bernie's balls about how he's the only one who's against money on politics... Ignoring the fact that Bernie has taken >$100M in campaign donations while Trump has taken $0. It's amazing to me that someone can be blind to their own irrational opinions while accurately speaking to the exact rea…	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/16 07:27 PM
9	Vice Documentary on Beta Males Trying to Redefine Masculinity I have a fat ex-body builder friend (6'3, ~270) who gets unlimited attention because his arms and chest are still fucking huge. Other than his arms he has very little muscle definition and a bit of a belly but it doesn't matter, raw muscle size inspires primal tingles.	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/16 06:00 PM
10	Vice Documentary on Beta Males Trying to Redefine Masculinity I don't know why this study is taken as legitimate here. You even contradict your only point by citing a study which is an aggregation of what women SAY they prefer. "Big muscles are gross! Until I'm near them and find myself dripping wet..."	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/16 05:00 PM
2	RP advice on finding a better job/internship with a weak resume? It sounds like you're selling yourself short. Working a shitty entry-level job is not a prerequisite for good jobs. You're gonna have a math degree with some coding sprinkled on top, once you have that degree you are qualified to go straight to strategic analysis roles and bypass shitty service jobs. Internship experience would be very helpful in allowing you to leapfrog over low-level service jobs. I would even argue that working low-level service jobs after graduating would make an employer th…	/r/askTRP	24/04/16 08:13 AM
1	RP advice on finding a better job/internship with a weak resume? I didn't do an internship. In college I worked in accounts payable and wrote articles on seekingalpha.com. The articles were really helpful in showing that I understood the financial side of business. I chose SQL because it is required for most financial analyst type jobs. You can probably get paid more with another language but you might also have fewer jobs to choose from. Another thing to keep in mind is you probably won't be writing very complex code in a data-analysis role, so there isn't a…	/r/askTRP	24/04/16 07:46 AM
3	RP advice on finding a better job/internship with a weak resume? The first thing you should focus is on is what types of jobs you are applying for and what skills they are looking for. If it is math-related (and given that your math degree is your most valuable asset, it should be math related stuff you are applying for) I would guarantee they are more worried about what math skills you have than how many years you spent slaving at a fast food joint. Look at the job description, look at the required skills, and put those at the top of your resume (just under …	/r/askTRP	22/04/16 01:31 AM
1	Do I acknowlege the compliment? "Thanks"	/r/askTRP	19/04/16 06:53 AM
2	Since my break-up over a year ago my world came crashing down. Every single person on this sub got here because they understand what that shit is like.	/r/askTRP	14/04/16 10:28 PM
11	Keeping certain hobbies to yourself I don't think it matters at all. Girls generally have absolutely nothing going on in their lives, and if they like a guy they will want to spend time with him no matter what he's doing. I have had gfs who would sit around and watch me play skyrim, with the occasional interruption wanting me to fuck em. I have had girls who would sit at my apartment while I studied for hours. They literally have nothing better to do; their whole goal in life is to spend as much time as possible with guys they are…	/r/askTRP	12/04/16 06:38 AM
2	So i organised a date with this girl but it's scheduled two weeks away. Do i make conversation with her inbetween or go radio silent? Thank you for saying this, it is good to finally see someone with an avatar call that bullshit advice what it is. I think that is perpetuated by a couple 50 yo dudes with no clue about dating young chicks. I wrote a little bit on what has worked for me, it's probably not perfect but it's better than the 100% failure you will get with just logistics: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3t0squ/the_girls_i_pick_up_never_respond_when_i_text_them/	/r/askTRP	12/04/16 05:47 AM
2	I need YOUR advice, do me a favour bro. Step 1: Recognize the problems you want to address. Step 2: Understand ways to address problems. Step 3. PERFORM ACTIONS THAT WILL SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS. I capitalized step 3 because that is where you are stuck. It is by far the hardest part, because it requires you to step out of your comfort zone and change. When you recognize that you need to study but still aren't studying, you need to study. It's that simple. No one can do it for you, and it's what separates the men from the boys. Embrace the…	/r/askTRP	10/04/16 08:55 PM
4	I need YOUR advice, do me a favour bro. You don't deserve shit. No one respects you because you're an egotistical child who can't handle criticism because it goes against the obviously false perfect image you have of yourself. He did tell you all your problems, and you just shrug it off because it goes against what you want to hear. This is what we call the "hamster", and it is the force that drives women and weak men to lead pathetic, unfulfilling lives where they blame the world for all their issues instead of addressing the real pr…	/r/askTRP	10/04/16 08:23 PM
1	How do I tell if my fwb is still interested in me? If you have a plate who's dtf whenever you ask her I don't see the problem. That is the ideal situation. If you're trying to LTR her then idk. I haven't tried going down that road since TRP.	/r/askTRP	08/04/16 10:14 PM
8	How do I tell if my fwb is still interested in me? I'm not gonna read this shit but if a girl is still asking you to fuck her she's still interested, if not she isn't.	/r/askTRP	07/04/16 11:28 PM
4	Approach anxiety so bad, too afraid to message on tinder filled with white girls who don't even like black people I think you'll be surprised if you ever grow some balls and send some messages.	/r/askTRP	04/04/16 04:59 PM
12	Reduce your misogyny by being manly I'm gonna go ahead and burst this made-up pity party and let you know this is how literally everyone in a first world country feels with all real survival related stimuli removed from daily life. That's why most people are out of shape lazy fucks and a motivated few are successful physically and financially. You aren't describing ADHD, you're describing life. You have even further convinced me ADHD is made up for attention-seeking crybabies.	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/16 06:56 AM
5	Are you fluent/proficient in any language? I am fluent in English, which allows me to communicate effectively with others who are fluent in English. It has been invaluable to my career.	/r/askTRP	20/03/16 06:12 PM
4	How have you used the 48 Laws to your benefit? For me all the laws can be condensed into one overarching theme: shut up. Listen to/watch others to figure out their true intentions, do not make your intentions obvious, and use both of these to your advantage. Most people just want to talk about themselves, so just let em do it and then react as warranted.	/r/askTRP	19/03/16 08:15 PM
16	Am I a slut? Not sure what fantasyland the guys saying 4 is too much are living in. Any guy will assume way worse than 4 if he wants to know and you avoid answering. Good luck finding a 23 yo with less than 10...	/r/askTRP	15/03/16 08:09 AM
1	Grad student but mostly all of the hot girls at the university are in undergrad and in sororities. Any advice or am I in a very rough situation? Coming from an admitted 25 year old virgin who does nothing but cry about being a virgin online... this is hilarious.	/r/askTRP	08/03/16 07:55 PM
2	Grad student but mostly all of the hot girls at the university are in undergrad and in sororities. Any advice or am I in a very rough situation? LA LA LA I CAN'T HEAR YOU BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO BELIEVE WHAT YOU'RE SAYING IS TRUE You think there's going to be a ton of hot, single, 18-25 yos at whatever boring job you end up in after school? Get real, dipshit. As infuriating as your incessant whining is, it is exciting that people like you will be my competition for girls as I am also a mid-20s person going to grad school in the fall. You will have no chance against guys like me (much less natural Chads) unless you listen to the advice he…	/r/askTRP	07/03/16 08:13 PM
1	Grad student but mostly all of the hot girls at the university are in undergrad and in sororities. Any advice or am I in a very rough situation? It doesn't mean shit what some people on trp think a mans prime is. Are you still on here whining and finding petty ways to discount good advice? Start lifting dude. NOW GOD DAMN IT. Seriously, you are very deep in sniveling beta-hood and it's disgusting. You have already decided it's going to be a rough time and are just crying about it, making more and more excuses for why it's going to suck (Greek life wahhh, classmates are 5-6s wahhh, college athletes wahhh). And you're not even close to bei…	/r/askTRP	07/03/16 02:41 PM
6	Grad student but mostly all of the hot girls at the university are in undergrad and in sororities. Any advice or am I in a very rough situation? It's obvious you haven't been lifting because you are asking a pathetic question with an already defeated attitude. So start lifting NOW! You have time before school starts to stop being such a vagina. Secondly, you missed the train on Greek life. It's not gonna happen and it shouldn't happen. The good news is there are many better ways to get involved in the community than trying to live the fantasized life of a frat boy. Become a TA for an underclass class, join clubs, hit the school gym (did …	/r/askTRP	07/03/16 12:09 AM
2	How to deal with envy betas? You're an idiot. You creeped the chick out and the bf saw you as such a non-threat he decided not to kick your ass.	/r/askTRP	03/03/16 05:08 AM
1	I get off on the attention from being the best, is that bad? What kind of hobbies are these? What can you just jump into and immediately be the "big fish in a small pond"? In reality you are probably slightly above average and reveling in the feeling of superiority you get by comparing yourself to average people. Mastering anything takes years of work, and by saying you don't put in that work makes me skeptical that you have or ever will master anything with this strategy. That being said, if doing new things and dominating the bottom rungs of competition…	/r/askTRP	03/01/16 12:05 AM
0	Attention all young and new Red Pillers -- frame is goals+perceptions (Part 1) You're very wrong about Frank. Frank left his frame shattered in a million pieces many years before that interaction even happened. Frank was in no way holding his own frame, rather he has adopted the frame of the feminists/SJWs who try so desperately to destroy the frame of every person that can hear them. One of the few universal traits of a straight male's frame is the primal desire for sex with women. If one is compromising on that most basic component of their humanity then they are living …	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/15 12:15 AM
3	The girls I pick up never respond when I text them I agree with the selfie analogy to an extent. I mentioned the point about her having to be several SMV points below you for a reason though- the "x place at y time" will never work on girls with your level of SMV. So even if you're an 8, it might work on some 5s and maybe an occasional 6, but why would you want to do that if you can pull 7s or 8s with a negligibly smaller amount of charisma? The traditional "texting rules" spouted here are just bad game imo. I'm certain that hot girls interpret …	/r/askTRP	17/11/15 01:19 AM
21	The girls I pick up never respond when I text them The transition from in-person contact to phone contact is one area where traditional TRP advice has proven to be garbage for me (and likely for you). There is a lot of BS about texting only for logistics, not texting too soon, being very curt, etc. The fact is once you leave their presence, you lose the advantage of them being able to gauge you as a person. You become text on a screen. You have to re-establish the rapport you built in person if you want them to respond. Remind them of who you ar…	/r/askTRP	16/11/15 02:59 PM
12	How do you guys deal with post-wall women trying to make your life more difficult? Does your town have like 500 people in it? This does not happen to real people in real cities.	/r/askTRP	06/11/15 07:43 AM
1	Are you Sub 15% body fat? No? First things first. This is true if you are already somewhat muscular and your goals are not strength related. I don't think it applies to beginners or people trying to build strength. I was skinny-fat (6', 175) before I started lifting . I did a hard bulk (up to 190) for about 8 months then a cut until I was 170-172 lbs with 14%-15% bf. The cut took a little over 3 months. What you said about girls noticing is definitely true, but it just wasn't enough for me because I was still small. I kept thinking about how ev…	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/15 03:59 AM
6	Choose one of these degrees or don't go to school You're completely wrong on this. You are severely underestimating how difficult it is to get any cert that will get you to the $150k+ range. The 3 years experience required are highly specialized and technical- they aren't giving these out to 21 yos who worked as admin assistants at a tech place for 3 years. You need a degree and years of quality experience to even apply for the jobs that will begin to count towards your 3 years relevant experience. Come on, man.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/15 07:48 PM
11	Gaming Girls In College Classes Don't wait until the end of the semester lol. Terrible advice that will lose you some of the easiest lays of your life. Girls in college have tons of options (just like guys) so 5 months of hesitation (orbiting?) with any girl will result in them fucking someone else, every time.	/r/askTRP	02/09/15 02:04 AM
1	Can you use operant condition (reward good behavior, punish bad behavior) on men the same way you do on women? Girls can do literally anything and guys will still orbit and try to fuck. Being a cunt will just ensure that no self respecting man will ever wife them up. Interesting to see a gay dude on RP though. What are you trying to get out of it?	/r/askTRP	23/06/15 02:51 AM
1	Can you use operant condition (reward good behavior, punish bad behavior) on men the same way you do on women? Posted by "StarDestinyGuy". I can't imagine this being effective though.	/r/askTRP	23/06/15 02:21 AM
1	Can you use operant condition (reward good behavior, punish bad behavior) on men the same way you do on women? This is retarded. If a dude is a shithead to me all the time (or any time I haven't earned it) it makes me want to beat his face in with a bat, not fall into some gay fantasy for him.	/r/askTRP	23/06/15 02:14 AM
1	Is online dating worth a shot for a 20 year old? Online stuff is great for hookups but definitely not for LTR. The girls who are willing to meet are hoes and the ones who aren't are attention hoes. All these posts about only older/ugly chicks using it just isn't true. There are plenty of 18-25 yo babes on Tinder and other apps but given their options they only pursue top 5%+ guys. If you aren't an 8+ with an attractive face it really can be waste of time. If you are it can be an easy source of pussy but I'm not sure about the LTR potential of …	/r/askTRP	31/05/15 04:21 PM
8	Reddit CEO Ellen Pao: If I’m in a room with 10 white men, it doesn’t make sense This sounds like a good reality TV show.	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/15 04:03 PM
5	29, jobless, living at home -- what to do? First off, your post is whiny from start to finish. You blame every problem on external factors and refute legitimate points simply out of laziness (the job fair). If you want a job you need to give employers a reason to hire you. Telling them you got fired and then blaming the employer because "you did nothing wrong" shows how immature you are. You had a fucking easy job and you blew it by being a lazy asshole, get over it and learn something so you are more than a waste of space to employers.	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/15 04:07 AM
2	I sat and watched my Female Roommate and Neighbor plow head first in to the wall, it was gruesome and glorious. It seems that improving one's writing to a coherent level would be a part of self-improvement. Can't believe stupidity is being defended in this sub of all places.	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/15 02:38 PM
4	I sat and watched my Female Roommate and Neighbor plow head first in to the wall, it was gruesome and glorious. I couldn't get past the first paragraph because the writing was awful. Oh well.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 08:43 PM
18	Just said "screw it" and started asking out girls that I think are far above my SMV. how to proceed? My advice for the date is just have fun, do what you feel like. If things are going well escalate. If she gets skittish against escalation you've already lost (contrary to what many people say more escalation is not the answer). Don't allow yourself to treat her differently because she's cute or whatever. Don't over think it. What I really wanted to say after reading your post is that "most guys" on here do not have multiple 8+ plates. Most guys on here probably do not have a single plate (that …	/r/askTRP	15/05/15 02:15 AM
9	How I landed a job in finance and how it's done wonders for my SMV and - ultimately - life. You should write a follow up in a few months. I'd be curious to see if some time in reality (ie not college) changes your perspective.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/15 12:24 AM
1	[Fitness] Skinny guys, how did you up your calorie count This is a better answer than I could've given. I didn't count calories at all, just enjoyed the freedom of eating everything in sight and making sure I got tons of protein. If I had to throw out a guess it would be 3500/day, and some weeks with massive binges could've been more like 4500. It should be noted that I only cared about raw mass gains (which translated into strength gains), muscle definition was not on my radar in any capacity.	/r/askTRP	01/05/15 12:37 AM
2	[Fitness] Skinny guys, how did you up your calorie count I was the same body type/size as you (6' 160, now 185) and it was difficult. It took about a month of eating an uncomfortable amount of food before I could even achieve a calorie surplus. There were two keys for me: tons of whole milk and not skipping meals. A large glass of whole milk will be 300+ cals so have one or two at every meal. Once my stomach adjusted to increased food/milk intake (this was amplified by lifting and proper hydration) I started to get seriously hungry. Then the fun began…	/r/askTRP	30/04/15 05:54 AM
5	How to avoid becoming beta while working with a lot of women and gay guys? I'd get the hell out of that career path if at all possible. Customer service is like HR in that it requires no tangible skills, therefore it will be populated by women. Since you are a man and have the ability to acquire some skillset, I would suggest doing so. You will quickly find yourself in a more masculine environment and probably making a lot more money.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 12:16 AM
5	I am tired of people lying to me, stating red pill truths but somehow hamstering that the sub itself is horrendous. I think I have a slight idea of what the question is that this incoherent babbling was meant to ask: Why are people accepting of TRP truths but not TRP itself? TRP truths are pretty obvious when you strip out all the bullshit that women, society, media, etc constantly feed us. Most men at some point see through the bullshit to some extent, which is why they agree on TRP truths. There are plenty of reasons why they might agree on the points made but still not like the sub itself. First, most peop…	/r/askTRP	12/04/15 07:13 PM
1	[LONG] Think I need a TRP perspective, getting stuck at times moving on from interest that didn't work out. First off, read the sidebar material. You lack the basic fundamentals of TRP that allow you to analyze male/female interactions. Now to the post. It's way too long and detail oriented. You need to learn the difference between what matters and what doesn't. Some chick from a message board who you never met does not fall into the category of "things that matter".	/r/askTRP	22/03/15 04:34 PM
3	Online Dating: When they don't want to exchange numbers before meeting. I don't know why you're trying to rationalize her reasoning as if it could make sense. It doesn't at all. She's not interested enough. I would never trust a girl to meet me without having her phone number. It makes it too easy for her to flake. Unmatch, don't show, done. The same is true with a phone number (most of them have iPhones where you can block any number at any time), but girls don't see it that way because they're stupid. Somehow having the number makes it more "real".	/r/askTRP	21/03/15 03:55 PM
1	How many guys a girl has slept with... how much til it becomes a red flag? I'd love to think girls like this still exist, but I'd be very surprised to find many chicks at all with a partner count <10 past age 21 (I've often seen access to alcohol/bars open the door to sluttyness for previously prude women). I guess that's the point of these unrealistic standards- you filter out all the trash, even if it leaves you with nothing. You would almost certainly suffocate if you tried to hold your breath finding a girl like that in this age. Foreplay doesn't even register in g…	/r/askTRP	20/03/15 12:28 AM
6	Neat Little Video Showing The Existence of Leagues Based On Appearance. I lol'd. An econ minor really puts you in a league above everyone else.	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/15 01:44 PM
1	What career/major should I pursue? How do I find a life partner? Like beer said, no one here is going to know what it's like to be a hot 19 yo black chick. If you are attractive you can do whatever you want in the dating world until the wall. Being a unicorn would be a noble pursuit; one a good man should respect. That being said, if you want to make a real difference and accomplish big things, DO NOT get a degree in liberal arts (sociology/anthropology/ethnic studies/politics/etc). Unfortunately these are the only things I've seen black women study and they …	/r/askTRP	03/03/15 02:05 AM
1	[FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I Eat I think you might have misinterpreted (my fault, ambiguous writing). I meant I thought she wasn't a slut because she possessed qualities that "most sluts" do not.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/15 02:41 AM
2	[FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I Eat Thanks, I'm pretty sick of those. I know there are more people like me than jacked PUAs on here, that's why we're here.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/15 02:38 AM
3	[FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I Eat I've realized that emotionally, I'm the male equivalent of a fat chick right now. My confidence has bottomed and I am desperate. In short bursts I can "fake it" but over prolonged periods of talking to people it shows. My social life went from 8/10 to 0/10 overnight 8 months ago and I haven't figured out how to recover past like ~2/10. I'm a mess and I know it. The only thing keeping me sane is the idea that the future will be better.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/15 11:36 PM
1	[FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I Eat Yeah that's the only part that worries me. If this was some chick off the street I wouldn't give two shits, I just would take my lesson and move on. I think and hope some people here are overly paranoid about getting fired for just asking out a girl from work.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/15 11:25 PM
3	[FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I Eat That's exactly correct. A "trust but verify" of TRP principles. I am still at the stage where most of this stuff is theory because I have not had the opportunities to test it on real women (moved to new city, social life still dragging rock bottom). There will probably be a few more similar educational failures before everything "clicks" and the TRP mindset is truly internalized. Regardless, I'm confident I'm on the right path and making progress in all aspects of life. I think this will provide…	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/15 08:57 PM
12	[FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I Eat You are totally right. I know I have a ways to go. I'm certain I will not allow myself to have a beta-meltdown like this again (at least not so ridiculously early), so I feel good about that going forward. I am really sick of the shit you have to deal with to get anything from women as I try to make the transition from betahood. And that fact suggests I'm still taking girls way too seriously. Baby steps, for now.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/15 08:27 PM
6	[FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I Eat I think I needed a reality check to prove AWALT and dispel my oneitis. I was almost certain of the outcome even as I was sending the "Are you seeing anybody else right now?" text. It was like laying in a coffin and hammering in the nails all in one fell swoop. I will keep it as a valuable experiment that does not need to be repeated.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/15 07:48 PM
16	Frustrations from a self-perceived top 10%er. I'm not near where you are physically or career wise but your problem was pretty obvious by the time I got through 1/3 of your post. You're personality is shit. Like, it's so strong I could smell it from the post and it made me want to vomit. You're a massive fucking douchebag, and not the kind bitches like. The kind who talks about himself incessantly and puts others down to mask his inner insecurity. Didn't mean to be harsh, but after one "that's not all" the memories of 100 identical doucheba…	/r/askTRP	03/02/15 03:36 AM
2	Arranging a First Date Update: We went on Sunday and it was fun. She was in feelz city for the whole day. Only shitty thing was we got stuck in traffic so we had more conversation time than I would've liked. She was talking about all the shit she wanted to do with me (concerts, casino, etc) but I know I need to be very careful to avoid the friendzone with talk like this. I am planning on setting up a more intimate date now that will decide whether we fuck and do all that stuff within the context of a sexual relationsh…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/15 01:28 PM
1	Arranging a First Date You guys are idiots lol. I didn't pay for her shit and it was more fun than a shitty bar.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/15 01:21 PM
2	Are sluts happy riding the CC? Is the CC intentionally ridden? It's not as if they are forced to by some insurmountable biological programming. Some girls don't open their legs at any opportunity for alpha dick, despite what some Chad Thundercocks on TRP might suggest. The most hardcore CC riders I've ever met (girls who were 20-21 with likely a triple digit partner count) weren't trying to lock down alphas, quite the opposite actually. They were looking to get as much dick as they could while they can. Women know riding the CC is bad for their long term re…	/r/askTRP	25/01/15 01:05 PM
1	Are sluts happy riding the CC? Is the CC intentionally ridden? I have no clue where you could even get the idea that hoes do not intentionally ride the CC. Of course they want to, that's why they do. It seems you are getting confused by diluting the obvious truth with BP-garbage about women being little angels.	/r/askTRP	25/01/15 12:35 PM
1	Arranging a First Date Well she is busy with no good reason this weekend so there's that. I generally don't listen to people when they give some nebulous time in the future, but she actually seems intent on going next weekend. I guess it's a wait and see at this point	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/15 07:56 PM
1	Arranging a First Date If you got the epic local I'm down haha	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/15 07:48 PM
2	Arranging a First Date Your positivity is a nice change from the norm here haha. She gave some crap about being busy this weekend but maybe we can next. I'm going to let her initiate anything going forward to avoid becoming an orbiter. I did a fb creep and saw a jacked older alpha dude she's almost definitely getting railed by. The lessons to take away: 1. Lift 2. AWALT 3. Next	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/15 02:03 PM
2	Arranging a First Date Re-jected. Good things to note for next time though lol	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/15 06:42 AM
2	Arranging a First Date Haha thanks. Obviously I want her to say yes but if she doesn't there will be no harm done to my psyche. I would prefer a "no" to any boring/awkward date she doesn't want to be on.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/15 03:25 AM
1	Arranging a First Date That's what I was thinking. I'm not as bad as I used to be in the forced situations, but I don't want the risk/reward to be that high with this chick. Skiing seems pretty risk free. I live in CO and have access to the Vail resorts. The snow is shit and they will all be packed with it being a holiday.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/15 03:15 AM
7	The Love Experience I disagree with this. Society as a whole was more RP; the gender roles that TRP endorses were simply "how it was". While men of the 50's and earlier may have been "gentlemen" towards women it doesn't mean they would take an ounce of the bullshit modern women try to pass as "sass". There were not fat sheltered boys whose only responsibility in life until age 22 was to not fail out of school. Men of old had to actually work and I think that gave them a self respect that is long lost now. Self resp…	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/15 06:18 AM
64	I came across a TIFU post. Op was friend-zoned for the last 10 years and recently won her over. Wanted to share and hear your thoughts. Seems like classic AF/BB where a woman hitting the wall settles for her most loyal BB orbiter after many years of riding the carousel. In the follow up the orbiter even makes reference to his jealousy of past BFs and "etc" (beta code for AFs). Same ole story.	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/15 04:41 AM
1	About to enter the game. Looking for advice on having sex. You sound just like me a couple years ago. I would say things like I wasn't interested/purposely rejected women/just wanted to party with my friends or other BS but it was because I was a pussy and scared to make moves because I had no idea what I was doing sexually. That's what you are doing. I'm not a player or anything close yet, but I have come a long way from where you are/I was. Here's what I wish someone had told me: Making out is scary for newbies because people talk about being good/bad…	/r/askTRP	18/12/14 07:31 AM
1	Establish Your Frame of Your Reality to be Amazing with Women The concept of “frame” is widely discussed in the community. Many people throw the term around but few can explain it when asked. Someone new to the community recently asked me: “What is frame?”. Frame, in short, is the structured belief system that informs a person’s reality. It dictates what we consider normal and acceptable in any given instance. This structure, contrary to popular belief, is fluid and temporary. Depending on who we are interacting with and our relative status to them, what w…	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 01:08 AM
1	Don't Forget to Have Some Fun in Life I assume this was a reply to the first comment?	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/14 06:10 AM
2	Instant Success Is Bullshit Good post. I was just considering posting a "FR" to counter all the casual "I'm a mangod" FRs. It would detail how my life has become a grind of work, gym, learning, with some fun times on the weekends. There is no pussy to speak of, there hasn't been for months (save for a ONS with a ~4, but I could have easily done without), and none on the immediate horizon. This is coming from a somewhat socially competent person who has probably physically been a ~6 throughout life with zero effort. I can o…	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/14 05:23 AM
11	Friday Night Fail Report. aka strike while the iron's hot I agree. A lot of these appear on /r/asktrp and generally don't get much attention/credible replies. I think they're more helpful than the "I held frame and finally got laid" FRs that show up every day.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/14 07:16 PM
3	[FR] Interesting change of game with close to wall chick I feel like if you arent getting anything from tinder you're doing it wrong This is pretty easy to say when you're going after post-wall trash, lol. I'm not sure I would consider a night where I settled for a 29 year old off Tinder, ate her out, then didn't have sex to be a success but to each their own I guess.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/14 04:59 PM
9	Army female decides she can outbox any USMC man. Why do they do this to themselves? Video included. That was incredibly satisfying. I imagined the "you can do anything men can do" bullshit she's been fed all her life being beaten out of her with each overpowering blow to the face. Her best was about 10% of a man's best. If only all feminists could experience such an organic display of reality.	/r/TheRedPill	19/10/14 09:57 PM
11	Woman (45) Dating 26 yo Man- What does TRP think? I was hoping this would be the takeaway here. I think people missed the point of my post. I was more asking for opinions about the dynamics behind this situation rather than an analysis of the situation itself. I can see that she looks old. I would love to have a 40+ yo buy shit for me in exchange for my time/dick. It would be taking such a massive shit on feminist ideology that I would revel in the irony. A woman who has worked so hard for everything feminists want (equal pay, careers, independ…	/r/TheRedPill	19/10/14 09:35 PM
9	Woman (45) Dating 26 yo Man- What does TRP think? Yeah I assumed he was there for the novelty of banging a cougar or her money since he looks good enough to get girls his own age (ie not completely desperate for any female). If he's serious about this it turns from interesting to pathetic imo.	/r/TheRedPill	19/10/14 05:10 PM
3	Am I just crazy or is my "paranoia" justified/expected? This. It sounds like you're just physically there and easily forgettable. How can you be in a group with your friends and not be in a picture taken of said group? You don't have to be obnoxious for attention but at least get in the picture lol. Man up. This stuff happens all the time even with best friends (if you're in large groups), especially with alcohol involved. It probably means you valued the event more than they did, or they were focused on a hoe, or anything, whatever. It doesn't matte…	/r/askTRP	19/10/14 12:02 AM
138	I flat out insulted a woman and nothing happened. Starting to learn to speak my mind. Nothing happened. I've found this is sort of a pillar of RP ideology. Men accepting they can do what they want and nothing bad will happen. Even if the dumb girl with the personality of a rock gets offended, nothing bad has happened. It is her problem. While nothing bad happening creates a low risk, the rewards of acting in this manner are far greater. I see RP ideology as a no risk/high reward strategy to live your life- in the worst case you do exactly what you want, in the best case you do wh…	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/14 10:18 PM
1	Escaping Beta tendencies Well, it's the same contradiction I pointed out earlier. If you're bad at picking up chicks then don't claim to be some faux-PUA. Just admit it and examine the way you've gone about it and why it's failed thus far. If you think something isn't broken you are less likely to fix it. I see other random justifications that serve to blame shortcomings on things other than yourself, like the ethnicity of girls. It just sounds like you are trying to make excuses for things rather than swallow TRP and b…	/r/askTRP	21/09/14 11:49 PM
1	Escaping Beta tendencies The point of TRP is to become more manly so that you don't have to fake being manly... you just are. Then all girls will respect you for being manly (not just latinas lol). I haven't been here long enough to tell you exactly what to work on but it seems like you haven't read much TRP stuff. At least do that. Also, I think you need to evaluate your strengths and weaknesses more realistically.	/r/askTRP	21/09/14 11:01 PM
1	Escaping Beta tendencies I think everyone will be confused about your claims of transforming into some sort of PUA-stud at night. It doesn't make any sense and it's really not believable. A "quiet, smooth player" who "girls don't take seriously"? Like the guy below me said it seems like you are trying way too hard to get validation from others, which indicates that you do not feel validated with yourself. Like, what does a car have to do with anything? Or how will a job transform your personality to be more attractive? …	/r/askTRP	21/09/14 10:32 PM
1	Went on date, need advice. Yeah I think I came off as a pussy. I've nexted her in my mind and written it off as a lesson learned.	/r/trpGAME	20/09/14 10:26 PM
0	Went on date, need advice. It was a Friday after 10 p.m.	/r/trpGAME	20/09/14 03:56 PM
1	Went on date, need advice. Looking back this is probably right. I was hesitant for several reasons and over thought it. My biggest hurdle is definitely escalation. That was part of the reason I wanted to go out, I'm much more comfortable in "party" situations where things like touching and flirting come a lot more naturally (which still isn't very natural yet, I am still trying to shed the heavy beta tendencies I have).	/r/trpGAME	20/09/14 03:54 PM
1	Went on date, need advice. Yeah I was trying to make plans otherwise but I don't have a ton of friends in this city yet (read: I strike out after texting 2 people). I don't mind a dinner once in a while and we split the bill. You're right though I was a big pussy.	/r/trpGAME	20/09/14 03:43 PM
1	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality I'm stockpiling matches and I will begin testing game on the ugly ones until I improve enough to approach HBs.	/r/askTRP	02/09/14 06:33 PM
2	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality I see. I have been cramming on the RP theory and it is definitely congruent with what I've seen and what you're saying, however unpleasant at first. I'm glad I'll be able to avoid any major mistakes going forward (marrying as a beta). I have seen the light, and it is bright.	/r/askTRP	02/09/14 06:32 PM
1	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality Yes I've already been doing this as much as I can but I'm having trouble going from casual conversations or group events to individual friends who I can go out with or just chill with. I suppose that will come in time.	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 04:59 PM
1	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality Point taken. I was just disgusted reading "The Game" that all the PUAs had to make routines and all their social interactions were programmed. That's not remotely appealing to me. But I think every other aspect of game would benefit me.	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 04:56 PM
1	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality I think the first part of your post is wrong (about religious/ugly chicks being the only ones to fit my criteria), read what I said to the other guy: I don't know if I can completely dispel the idea that such "snowflakes" exist. Two of the girls I had as FWB were ~7s who had slept with < 5 guys. I know they weren't lying because they were as strange as I am and were awful in bed, truly the only reason they slept with me was because I am different and they thought they were in love. I am more con…	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 08:50 AM
3	RP for being friends with a girl I've had some female "bros", but only one of which I stayed bros with while we both went in and out of different relationships. It is possible. The chick has to be unbelievably cool though, because most will stop talking to you once they get into a relationship.	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 07:56 AM
1	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality As in the writing or my thought process? I know I edited a lot without a final proofread so it might be jumbled.	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 07:16 AM
3	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality I think you're completely right. I have been too focused on the picking up chicks part of TRP and not the self improvement. ♂	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 07:14 AM
-1	I've hit a crossroads in my sexuality I don't know if I can completely dispel the idea that such "snowflakes" exist. Two of the girls I had as FWB were ~7s who had slept with < 5 guys. I know they weren't lying because they were as strange as I am and were awful in bed, truly the only reason they slept with me was because I am different and they thought they were in love. I am more concerned with the idea that I don't know how to initially identify and attract these women outside the setting where we had somewhat forced contact. Als…	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 06:48 AM