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IntactivismAFuddyDuddy/r/MensRights18/05/15 06:49 PM
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AFuddyDuddy/r/MensRights18/01/14 09:01 PM
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How about this..... We just do away with selective service. Instead of harping on, "But.... But the wymyn don't hafta register, hur dur" how about, "Selective service is archaic and needs to just go away". And you guys wonder why the sub gets a bad rap. And now this post. Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 11:07 AM
10

Here's a solution: Tell them you are interested, and while sex is cool and all, knowing you are in it to actually spend time and enjoy the time we have is more important. Caveat: People still suck, and this isn't 100% bullet proof. But for myself, that conversation is kind of a no brainer. Same with the other side. "Hey, I'm just in it to cum, and you make me cum". Okay cool. At least I know where you stand.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 01:11 PM
27

Tropes and stereotypes.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 01:08 PM
24

Rule 1: Be attractive Rule 2: Don't be unnattractive. That's the blurred line criteria for the most part. At least in initial interactions. I'm pretty average as average gets. And I still hedge my conversations towards simple casual chit chat. Rather be known as the boring dude than the creeper.
/r/MensRights28/05/21 10:45 AM
1

At it's core, I don't see a problem with it considering the industry. What I have a problem with is the clear lack of aptitude of the resumes being presented. This leads to 2 possible conclusions: It is more evidence that job bias is real, and there are in fact jobs that men and women gravitate to. or, they were intentionally sabotaging by sending sub-standard resumes, evidenced by the immediate alignment of resume expectations when it was a Man. I tend to lean towards the former, and encourage …
/r/MensRights12/05/21 05:56 PM
8

No shit.... I spent 3 weeks doing interviews for a position, and kept getting sent underwhelming resumes. Now, this is an IT position.... Turns out, HR was forcing minority women down our throats. Which is fine. My team has several very capable minority women on it. They were expecting me to hire another for diversity. None of the resumes fit the position, and 5 interviews proved it. Told them to expand to men also, and within a week I got a handful of resumes that worked for us, and found a can…
/r/MensRights07/05/21 10:45 AM
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Expressed it after she got fucked in court, and realized that this happens to men all the time. So, she had to experience it to know it was bad. I've never been kidnapped and held for ransom, but I can say with pretty good accuracy, that it probably sucks, and I don't need that experience to be empathetic.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 12:12 PM
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Are you fucking high?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/21 12:37 PM
9

So....let's take this in hand. Manslaughter. Fleeing the scene of a crime. Insurance fraud. Yeah, 12 months house arrest seems appropriate. I fucking hate this timeline
/r/MensRights05/03/21 03:10 PM
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Um .... Yes they do.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/20 08:53 PM
11

No. No it doesn't. It never has.
/r/MensRights12/11/20 12:47 PM
5

When did the british courts EVER not take the woman's side in shit like this. Just. Fucking. Ridiculous.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 03:08 AM
5

Yes, but this really pushed it home Johnson has since apologized to his professor, his class, as well as the entire student body, claiming that his question came from a place of “subconscious misogyny” and that he won’t let it happen again.
/r/MensRights23/10/20 09:20 PM
105

This is the UK. There is ABSOLUTELY a special set of laws for women. And if you are a "Pretty" woman with a "Lot if potential" you can kill a mother fucker and not see one day in jail.
/r/MensRights23/10/20 11:38 AM
1

The legal system itself, around divorce and shit like, that is actually pretty damn neutral. The folks using that system in a biased way is the problem.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/10/20 04:01 PM
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Wow. Request a new judge. Bring it up to higher court, and I would consider filing some sort of suit for discrimination. Those interactions will all be recorded by the court, and if as described, is clear case of discrimination due to sex.
/r/MensRights13/08/20 11:19 AM
1

Outside of here, this sub is widely considered a hate sub. To be fair, there are some hateful, jaded mother fuckers in here. But not so much in the overall.
/r/MensRights17/07/20 11:34 AM
61

More like, she realized that testifying under oath would cause her to perjure herself and be convicted. My guess here, the lawyer said... "Don't. Don't even try it. We know it's all lies. You will be punished for it" EDIT: Ok, maybe not so much as I'm reading the actual case filed. I'm sure that was the principle of the conversation, but as this was a civil litigation case, not criminal, and she was a character testimony, perjury is a tough sell. Good on her for not doubling down. Hopefully that…
/r/MensRights02/07/20 11:07 AM
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I was 25, married, 2 kids, one on the way. In the Dr. office for a hernia repair scheduling. Me: " So, doc. While you're down there could you maybe, 'Snip snip'?" Doc: um. You're only 25. That's a big decision, and I'm not comfortable sayi........." Queue the very pregnant wife, and two toddlers walking in the exam room. Doc: "Hello FuddyDuddy family. Ok. So did you want the 99% we might can reverse, or the 100% no going back?" Wife: "100%" Me: "100%" Doc: "No problem. Well schedule it the same …
/r/MensRights30/06/20 11:53 AM
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Gotta be a troll account, right?
/r/MensRights30/05/20 01:47 PM
3

This ain't the system..... This is a symptom of those running the system. I had 50% legal and physical custody... Still got assraped on child support.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/20 11:55 AM
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This sub wouldn't exist if the justice system worked as intended.
/r/MensRights08/04/20 09:12 AM
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U.K. There is quite literally two different versions of Justice, depending on your sex, written into thier law.
/r/MensRights07/03/20 03:15 PM
34

Teachable moments are only good if the person wants the education. Unfortunately, most do not. Most are only interested in praise, regardless of how deserved it is. Personally, I'd rather be criticized than praised more often. It's hard to learn from praise, because it only re-enforces current behaviors. Criticism can be analyzed for improvements. However, learning the art of both is a grand thing. "You did a great job! Lets see where we can improve it to make it easier/faster/better/more fun/<i…
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/20 02:33 PM
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Oh man that sucks. Sorry to hear that. Changes the whole dynamic of things when that happens. Good luck, neighbor
/r/MensRights04/03/20 03:34 PM
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Those enforcing the laws, and creating new laws, are not.
/r/MensRights04/03/20 01:37 PM
17

This isnt the UK. That isn't the actual definition in the US. Seems to be the guideline though.
/r/MensRights04/03/20 01:09 PM
59

From an actual constitutional law perspective, "Justice" is blind to gender. Those enforcing current laws, and creating new laws, are the ones who are not.
/r/MensRights04/03/20 01:07 PM
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/r/incel ..... Jesus.
/r/MensRights02/02/20 11:33 AM
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And battery. And assault with a weapon.
/r/MensRights26/01/20 12:41 PM
6

Some posts are okay, but that sub in prides itself on emasculating men in general.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 05:34 PM
1

When the "Free" Lawyers have 150 "Clients", it's pretty difficult to build any sort of defense.
/r/MensRights28/10/19 11:54 AM
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"There is never, ever a reason to hit a woman" Reason #122 right here. "She was squeezing my balls to the point of damage"
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/19 01:12 PM
6

Or, you know... Just fucking stop and let me pass. Or cross the street. Or do whatever the fuck makes you happy, but doesn't impede my forward progress. Trying to get my steps in, godammit
/r/MensRights29/09/19 04:41 AM
1

She needs to be sure in civil.court also.
/r/MensRights24/09/19 09:14 AM
5

I went to work for a few days with a black eye. I was also arrested for that scenario. Oh.... She was too. One got let go on recognizance. One didn't. Take a guess. Who.
/r/MensRights02/09/19 09:50 PM
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He won the right to move the case forward. A judge recently ruled it can go forward, and will stay in virginia.. Heards lawyer was trying to get it tossed, or moved to California court. She lost this round.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 12:03 PM
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Hard to know what starving is, when you've never had a proper meal. Men's health and mental care have been akin to bread and water for sustenance. Minimum required. It's changing though.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 01:18 PM
4

Ever read a copy of Vogue?
/r/MensRights03/06/19 01:16 PM
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They will get charged if one of the robbers is killed, also. And yep... It's a murder charge.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 11:29 AM
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You don't read very well, do you You do understand that it's not about, "Being drafted", Right? This is about having to sign a little card, or LOSE YOUR FUCKING RIGHTS, and losing ANY AVAILABLE PROGRAMS YOU MAY BE ELIGIBLE FOR, FUNDED BY FEDERAL AGENCIES. SIMPLY BECAUSE WE HAVE A PENIS. Got that now?
/r/MensRights07/05/19 01:07 PM
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Yes. Go to your local post office and do it. While the penalties are rarely enforced, if you ever need federal assistance, they can deny you simply for that. You can do it until age 27 I think.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 12:44 PM
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Not the point. Point was well made in OPs post. It's not about the possibility of being drafted. It's about the fact that it's required to be considered a full citizen with voting rights.... But ONLY if you are male.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 12:41 PM
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Except it IS an issue. Don't sign? You don't get to vote. Dont sign before a certain time? Huge fine and jail time. Oh, you also lose any eligibility to any federal assistance programs. Almost like you aren't a citizen, unless you sign a card that allows them the right for conscription into an armed service.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 12:40 PM
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Not by a court of law. Neither was Depp. Seems to be Depp got shitslammed by media of all types. All she had was words... He has hours of video, and a re-attached finger to prove her abuse. All she had was words....
/r/MensRights09/04/19 11:46 AM
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Hours of video, and one particular video of him missing a piece of finger.... Due to a bottle being thrown at him and breaking. She was the abuser.... And cried wolf. To help her career. It worked. And she has had no backlash at all. Cardio B liked to drug, rape and steal from guys.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 11:42 AM
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But it is possible in the era of, "Equal-Employment" and diversity requirements. When you are clamoring to meet these standards, you'll start cherry picking applicants.
/r/MensRights08/04/19 01:17 PM
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No. but he aint wrong on that one either.
/r/MensRights04/04/19 06:16 PM
202

Linus Torvald: "Facebook, twiiter, and instagram are diseases that need to be eradicated"
/r/MensRights04/04/19 06:11 PM
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A.K.A. modern, first world feminism.
/r/MensRights04/04/19 11:01 AM
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And you should still always believe the accusers....... Because this was an exception to the rule. Last line of the article What rule? It's been proven that spousal abuse is a 50/50 street, leaning towards the woman being the first to physically and emotionally abuse their partner.
/r/MensRights26/03/19 05:16 PM
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Do NOT share that data with HR WITHOUT A LAWYER
/r/MensRights13/03/19 03:00 AM
12

Saw it yesterday. I thought it was a good movie. It was better than I honestly expected it to be. But am white male, so apparently I am not allowed to review it. Oh well.
/r/MensRights10/03/19 12:55 PM
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Ha. Ad blocker.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 02:19 PM
2

Garnishment:. Only if she work a regular job. Job hopping and not reporting make that difficult. Lock her up? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/MensRights25/10/18 10:49 AM
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Robin Williams. That is all.....
/r/MensRights25/10/18 10:48 AM
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"Prosecutors said Frances wanted to kill her husband’s longtime paramour for ruining her marriage but ended up killing her husband instead" That sounds like planned intent.... That's murder. Frances, 54, was accused of killing Bill by knocking his motorcycle off the road with her Cadillac Escalade, then hitting another SUV driven by his lover, Bonnie Contreras — all in a highway chase Oct. 10, 2013 Because she meant to kill the mistress, she ran HIM off the road, kill him and THEN slammed into h…
/r/MensRights16/10/18 11:20 AM
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Her? Pfffff... Them? This was huge locally. Now they'll need to close up shop, move, and try to establish somewhere else. Setting up a Dentistry isn't a small thing either.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 11:56 AM
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Let's just name ALL FOUR OF THE FALSELY ACCUSED, BUT PROTECT THE NAME OF THE ACCUSER!! Jesus fucking christ
/r/MensRights02/10/18 11:52 AM
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And the smaller dude getting the shit kicked out of him in that scenario is considered, "Justice". In this scenario, it's seen as abuse. Nevermind that it's been shown women tend to throw the first swing.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/18 03:25 PM
2

Jurors can reccommend within guidelines. they said, "Maximum, keep her there" Judge can make a decision otherwise though. Haven't found anything on a formal sentencing, but will most likely be next week. So yeah, there's a bit of "Journalistic Freedom" in this article too.
/r/MensRights29/08/18 01:35 PM
2

Because is not racist to be racist against the traditionally racist. Except it is...
/r/MensRights03/08/18 12:18 PM
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I did, and I have a 14 year old daughter who fits the "Standard of beauty" Again, not criminal. Asshole, yes. Not criminal
/r/MensRights09/07/18 02:10 PM
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A woldf whistle is not sexual harrassment. If it is, ya'll need to get your shit together. Again, it is being an asshole, but it's not fucking criminal. And what about the flip side. If I hear a woman say, "Nice ass" to me, is she a criminal? It's the same principle. And that's what you are arguing. MY answer? No. That does NOT make her a criminal. Now if the person continues the behavior in an aggressive manner, then we can talk about criminal action. Until then, you're just dealing with asshol…
/r/MensRights09/07/18 01:20 PM
9

Are you fucking serious. Yeah, those are assholes..... Not criminals.
/r/MensRights09/07/18 11:17 AM
9

Yes. For years He was very open about it.
/r/MensRights08/06/18 04:30 PM
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That's the same outrage of "1 in 4 women are homeless"... Yeah.... It's true, but that means 3 out of 4 are men. So, this one is just contextually true. While I agree a sex neutral message may be more appropriate, let's not kill ourselves with our own actions. Hypocrisy helps no one.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 12:26 PM
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She committed a crimes. Purjury. That crime ended up getting two men jailed for crimes not committed... Not only did she purjur herself, the whole courtroom convicted on zero actual evidence. Only "Victim" testimony. Yes, she should be tried and convicted for perjury, at minimum.
/r/MensRights10/05/18 08:11 AM
3

I already have 3. I do tell them that.
/r/MensRights05/05/18 02:48 PM
1

That's the idea.... Rarely is it reality
/r/MensRights04/05/18 12:11 PM
10

Got snipped more than 15 years ago. I keep the paperwork around with the evidence of shooting blanks. Twice I've gotten the, "I'm pregnant"... And twice they were a bit shocked when Introduced to that record, asked them to go talk to the real donor, and have a nice life. No. I don't tell the girls I'm dating I'm fixed. It's a good litmus test.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 12:09 PM
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Hey dude. You can be charged with drunk and disorderly in a bar. A bar is not a safe space for drunken antics. Also... Who hurt you? I mean damn son... All things considered, knowing the context, I'd say this played out fairly equally.
/r/MensRights27/01/18 01:12 PM
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Am cut.... Before actually understanding why, we had our sons cut. Here I am 20 years later wishing we hadn't.
/r/MensRights13/11/17 03:38 PM
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Probably
/r/MensRights29/10/17 03:16 PM
19

Are you kidding me? It wasn't a bit. She lied. And she totally ruined a guy for it It was just a coincidence, tee hee? Fuck off with that shit.
/r/MensRights29/10/17 10:51 AM
5

"BUT THE OVERWHELMING MAJORITY OF CEOs ARE MEN!!!!! WOMEN CEOs DESERVE MORE BECUASE THEY HAVE TO WORK IN A MANS WORLD!!!!!"
/r/MensRights27/09/17 12:34 PM
57

"dude. That girl is smoking hot. Nice tits, killer hips, and a dick bigger than mine. I'm gonna go talk to her" - someone, in some bar, somewhere
/r/PussyPassDenied13/09/17 04:06 PM
2

They generally pay higher, don't have the physical requirements of traditional "Mens Jobs", and are generally located in comfortable environments. Hell.... most of the reasons I pursued it.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 11:09 PM
2

Lying about 15 rapes. One of which forced a guy to leave the country to avoid prosecution from a false claim.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/17 04:58 PM
57

Some courts will rule on your, "Potential income". He made good money before divorce. He hasn't made that much since, but the ruling was based on that salary.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/17 10:17 PM
33

It's usually one of three reasons. Regret Revenge for being scorned For the lulz Generally in that order, I would think
/r/MensRights18/07/17 07:06 PM
7

did you just assume their gender identity, or did this person clearly state they were Male?
/r/MensRights10/07/17 01:48 PM
2

ROFL!!!! She might be the soul sister I never had then. My ex-wife used to get shitty with me when I did that too. So, it was my job to juggle the kids at the store. Kept me from wandering off... most times.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 06:21 PM
2

"I would like a room with the biggest bed, and the biggest TV"
/r/MensRights27/06/17 07:33 PM
70

I got lost in O'Hare airport when I was 6. I saw something cool... Went to go look. Suddenly, can't find my family,and I'm lost. It can happen that quick. To be fair though, this was not the first, nor last, time I wandered. I'm 40 now... And I still do it.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 04:10 PM
3

These are the same kindof people that will hold up signs and scream because churches want to continue, "Sexual re-orientation therapy" Whats the difference? Oh.... they are lesbians.. and a protected class. Rights for thee... not for me. It's all fucking disgusting.
/r/MensRights26/06/17 03:00 PM
2

Part of that, a lot, is because Jackman did severe water weight drop before these scenes. Much like fighters before weigh in. He said he hated it. Couldn't stand scenes that had him shirtless, because he had to drop the weight, and cut. Doubt he's juicing.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 09:50 AM
2

Been there, done that. Men's room gives no fuck. Everybody poops
/r/MensRights16/06/17 08:39 PM
2

Nah, just the final catalyst.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 12:13 AM
3

Edited with some juicy bits. Enjoy!
/r/MensRights09/06/17 12:13 AM
3

Edited for that little piece of it. You can pretty much take any cliche scenario about how a dude got completely life raped by getting married then divorced, and that's my life story. It also includes many chapters of, "Living 2000 miles away from my children so I could have a job that can afford child support and me support"
/r/MensRights09/06/17 12:12 AM
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Yes. Was not the first time.
/r/MensRights08/06/17 06:39 PM
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Haha, no. It was actually the 2 month old cookie box (with moldy cookies) and solidified milk in a glass I found under our bed, that finally pushed me over the, "Can't do this shit anymore" line. Granted, I probably should have seen them sooner, but this was a pretty standard "wtf". Wasn't so bad when it was just us. 2 kids later... no. Just no. EDIT: Was asked, will deliver as best as possible. I've posted a story about how I went to jail with a black eye, and had to go to work with it the next…
/r/MensRights08/06/17 03:34 PM
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Beat me to it. This little bit: Laughing and sniggering at these personal tragedies is a horrendous insult to the parents of young men who have sadly taken their own lives. This shaming of, and disrespect for, young men and boys is normal feminist behaviour. Is this what you want from your MP?” it reads. The society, chaired by Swayne O’Pie (the author of Why Britain hates men: exposing feminism), also claims that feminism “receives special legal protection to insult men and boys at will”. Neith…
/r/MensRights08/06/17 02:16 PM
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MY Ex-wife used to sleep with a piece of a soft blanket touching her nose. My daughter was doing the same thing not but a few hours after being born. She's 14 now, and still does it.
/r/MensRights08/06/17 01:45 PM
4

she didn't actually get jailed either. Just catch and release.
/r/MensRights08/06/17 12:45 AM
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Lol. Shit post is shit. Results showed what you wanted. More common search algorithm suggested, as Google designed.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 12:34 PM
1

In fact, more so... And more often.
/r/MensRights12/05/17 11:31 AM
2

But... But... they were broke when they left the white house! Not just broke, but in debt!! ...
/r/MensRights09/05/17 03:11 PM
1

That was apparent from the audience too....... I made it about 15-20 minutes before I decided that hearing the same joke about her dirty vag retold in different ways was enough.
/r/MensRights06/04/17 03:39 PM
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No, this is Shaun King being Shaun King. There are a LOT of details of this case that he chose to leave out. Such as, the road he was hit on was a highway that had a barrier he had to climb over. He was wearing all black. The driver tested negative for any drugs or alcohol only a few hours after. This is a tragic story, for certain. Given all facets of the case, she should have had some jail time, simply for the fact that she ALSO should not have been on that road, with a suspended license.
/r/MensRights16/03/17 03:44 PM
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For principle reasons, the comparisons are accurate. This is a principle bill, and while I'm totally against our elected officials using state time, and taxpayer money, to front these ridiculous bills, this one is kind of righteous in it's presentation.
/r/MensRights13/03/17 02:55 PM
2

Half the length of the marriage, or 5 years, whichever is lesser.
/r/MensRights06/03/17 12:37 PM
5

No. This is more equivalent to, "Making less in the same job because he negotiates, she didn't" Very few women who were the supporters will deny anlimony. Very few men would even consider taking it. This isn't judges saying fuck you. This is the man saying, "No, I don't want alimony" and the judge agreeing. Now, the conditions and reasons behind it, may be sexist as fuck.
/r/MensRights06/03/17 12:36 PM
12

Completely turn lives around by screaming the same rhetoric that gave her the justification to brutally torture and kill someone? Yeah... Sure sounds like she "Turned her life around"
/r/MensRights27/01/17 12:43 PM
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He can be on the hook even if they don't, as he provided a, "Fatherly Role". Pretty fucked.
/r/MensRights25/01/17 02:51 PM
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If it's signed by both parties, yes.
/r/MensRights09/12/16 10:21 PM
1

Running for Office
/r/MensRights24/08/16 05:12 PM
1

Lol. Did you miss the bit where she basically used his dick as a dildo while he was passed out? If a dude does this to a woman... crime. There was a crime commuter here. Now fuck off.
/r/MensRights20/08/16 12:29 PM
36

One was drunk, the other wasn't All things equal, that's rape.
/r/MensRights18/08/16 11:20 AM
11

Nope. I got a divorce, trashed credit, and limited access to my children.
/r/MensRights05/08/16 11:07 AM
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Can confirm. I was Arrested with split eyebrow and had to work with a black eye for a week. Even had a gun pointed in my face that night... by the cops. Because they showed up when I was finally restraining her. And had a witness that confirmed my story That was HER friend. And I was arrested, cause one of us had to leave, and I had no where to go.. and her parents house was 10 minutes away. I got arrested. But so did she, on paper. Never cuffed, or made to leave. I got a night in jail and ridic…
/r/MensRights04/08/16 10:02 PM
5

Teacher. Student. Why is that never considered, when she's attractive, and he's only a few years younger.
/r/MensRights31/07/16 11:35 AM
5

If you owe enough back support, you can't get a passport. Seriously. I think the ceiling is $5k. Owe more than that, and or not compliant... they won't issue you one.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 10:04 PM
6

And yet, she described the incident in which she raped a dude in gross detail. Interesting
/r/MensRights15/07/16 05:11 PM
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And saying, "Stop it" If you are conscious enough to say, "Stop", and your partner(s) doesn't stop..... well... that there is rape, son. I'm all for bringing false rape accusations to the public eye... on the surface, this looks pretty damning.
/r/MensRights05/07/16 09:57 PM
7

18 and 16 are closer to maturity levels. 28 and 14.... no. That's statutory rape. Where the fuck do you people come from?
/r/MensRights01/07/16 12:32 PM
4

28 repeated, knowing it was both immoral, and illegal. Your voice of reason is flawed.
/r/MensRights01/07/16 12:30 PM
3

Neither of them can make "Adult" decisions about sex, because neither of them are fucking adults.
/r/MensRights01/07/16 12:27 PM
1

Whelp, that's a listing
/r/MensRights03/06/16 06:43 PM
26

Me too. I'd even let him slap me a round a little.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 11:26 AM
1

Hmm.... a history of violence, and jail, culminating in the stabbing of an unconscious person... in the face... with a broken bottle. 12 years wasn't enough.
/r/MensRights17/05/16 12:02 PM
2

And it's a felony! YAY 'MURICA
/r/MensRights11/05/16 12:49 PM
8

Half the length of the marriage, or 5 years. Whichever is less. alimony amounts are also adjusted based on current income, not what was the income at the time. We are no longer in an economy where a lost job is going to be replaced with a job of equal pay. That is extremely rare anymore for skilled workers
/r/MensRights03/05/16 08:15 PM
1

...1 year out in 9 mo. suspended sentence.
/r/MensRights02/05/16 12:48 PM
24

God help you if you have opportunity to make things better financially.... In another state. Going on 10 years now.... But my son came to live with me 6 months after he turned 18. So there is that. 1 down, 2 to go.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 10:28 PM
19

This isn't the US legal system at work. These are kangaroo courts colleges have started having. Many have already been sued over them. Yet, most continue to punish young men based on a simple accusation, which is often found to be false. Why we allow these, baffles me. These claims need to be are to a court of LAW. Not a court of SJW administrators
/r/MensRights06/04/16 04:25 PM
1

That's standard procedure. Anytime you have arrears, and a tax return filed shows money back, they will issue a request for it to be paid to the receiver of said child support. It's not what you always owe, but never expect to see a return if you even owe a single dime. This is why I'm very careful about submitting my w4 correctly. At the end of the year, I would rather pay a few bucks in, than see a grand in returns routed to my ex.
/r/MensRights13/03/16 11:17 PM
3

Because she wants her cake and eat it too. She knows another producer under Sony won't get her the sales she has gotten. Sony does too. She feels that's she could do better outside of Sony. Which is fine.... but she signed the contract. This is feels vs reals. I'm sure they'd be happy to let her out of her contract if she was to pay back all the production money spent on her.
/r/MensRights21/02/16 02:27 PM
9

"#slappedlivesmatter"
/r/MensRights19/02/16 05:20 PM
22

Agreed. Having said that, if he was that good, and stayed in shape, he may still have a legitimate chance at an NFL career. Even if it's practice/bench fodder.
/r/MensRights19/02/16 01:37 AM
1

Are you nuts? Child support is tax free to the receiver. The payer still pays taxes on those dollars. So not only does the payer have money leave they never see, they get the privilege of paying taxes on it. Additionally, there is no requirement to claim child support as income when applying for benefits.
/r/MensRights17/02/16 10:46 PM
2

Right. None of the above. Could you imagine the shitstorm?
/r/MensRights16/02/16 03:09 PM
-1

None of the above
/r/MensRights16/02/16 12:39 PM
3

Paywalled
/r/MensRights15/02/16 08:58 PM
5

Some number of us do. Then ask a question where the obvious answer goes against feminist ideology..... And get banned.
/r/MensRights14/02/16 11:48 AM
2

Dammit, replied to the wrong comment. But you are correct.
/r/MensRights12/02/16 05:15 PM
2

We're not rivals... We're a team. If Sally negotiated for less than I did, I should be punished?
/r/MensRights12/02/16 03:58 PM
1

Wat?
/r/MensRights09/02/16 12:34 PM
64

Politicians who manage to pass feel good laws for women. As sexist as that sounds, before you judge, go ahead and take a look at laws and programs specifically written to protect women, or force businesses and services to keep specific placement for women. Now compare those to what men have for the same programs and protections. It's mind boggling. Acknowledging that this specific instance is failing because women don't want those jobs, is seen as implying that women CANT do that job.
/r/MensRights05/02/16 02:02 PM
1

When your financial, "plans" start with "if the man...." Fuck you
/r/MensRights29/12/15 11:16 AM
3

You aren't very smart, are you? It takes two to tango, neighbor
/r/MensRights28/12/15 02:14 PM
5

Its called, "being a human being" It's not MRA, or feminism. It's respecting each individual as a human fucking being. Saying you are a feminist, and an MRA is jus PC drivel
/r/MensRights28/12/15 02:12 PM
1

I would think a lawyer would take this one on for no money down. This is like insta win.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 11:45 AM
2

The downvotes you are receiving is because you are contradicting yourself in the sense that you say schools should educate. But then you say schools are for conformity. Which is it? Conformity and education don't particularly play well together.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 06:58 PM
3

There's a difference between education and indoctrination. We are allowing our schools to lean towards the latter.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 05:02 PM
-1

Nah. They haven't changed laws as such, just policies in how they treat alleged criminal activity on campus, outside of the justice system. Which they have every right to do, until the policies become so oppressive that the persons accused of said crimes is assumed guilty before anything is determined. Which is where it is. That, And the supposition of guilt is based on so little evidence. EDIT: Downvoted for making sense? Any private institution has the right to dictate policy. That's the facts…
/r/MensRights10/11/15 05:00 PM
3

I just remind my mother of the first and only girl I married. She stopped asking
/r/MensRights09/11/15 07:37 PM
3

I feel that would be more than reasonable.
/r/MensRights07/11/15 09:56 PM
11

It's not even a pussy pass. Accidental vehicular deaths tend to have very light sentencing to begin with. With the conflicting facts, they are pretty lucky she got a fine.
/r/MensRights07/11/15 07:05 PM
20

Oh. I get it it. So it's not because of the career choices people make, it because of the role models involved. MAKES PERFECT SENSE NOW WHY I'M NOT A GAZILLIONAIRE!!!! I didn't have the right role models.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 12:13 PM
26

Man post = Shitlord Woman post = victim /r/relationships in a nutshell
/r/MensRights16/10/15 06:54 PM
52

I did! Several times apparently this was the comment they tagged me for. Hahaha.
/r/MensRights29/07/15 04:53 PM
57

One of the few victories I had was the judge telling my ex, "If you with hold visitation again, I will put you in jail and award him custody." That was a good day. All because I couldn't pay for three months due to being laid off.
/r/MensRights19/07/15 04:56 PM
2

Never said it didn't. Just trying to help the understanding that would create this scenario. Seems to be lost on most everyone in here.
/r/MensRights14/07/15 08:06 PM
4

Nope. Most times its simple robbery. These ladies come out with wads of cash from tips, neighbor.
/r/MensRights14/07/15 07:18 PM
4

If this is a bar, I can understand it. Generally, late closers arrive later, and parking options may be lacking. In this case, when they come out after closing the bar at 3AM, they don't have to walk across the parking lot. Instead, they go right out and 10' to thier car under lighted awning. Is it a little sexist, as in that should be available to all employees? Sure. Unfortunate fact is that these ladies get assaulted way more often in this scenario than men do. Mild sexism? Yes. A bad idea? N…
/r/MensRights14/07/15 04:21 PM
2

No. Child support is based on a percentage of your income, not her lack of it.
/r/MensRights13/07/15 08:07 PM
1

Depending on the study, and type of presentation, I could understand that. But as a standard oral presentation, thats fucking ridiculous.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 09:52 PM
-6

Not even a valid argument on this post..... If anything,. this MIGHT have gone into /r/pussypass but, it's not even that.
/r/MensRights10/07/15 10:06 PM
-2

Probably. A little tired of frothing mouths posting nonsensical shit under the guise of mens rights. It doesn't help, and makes the rest of us look like assholes...... but so does starting with "Fuck Off OP".... shit.... I guess I'll go fuck off now.
/r/MensRights10/07/15 10:04 PM
-5

fuck off OP Not a mens rights issue.
/r/MensRights10/07/15 08:44 PM
38

Most of them barely adults.... Let that one sink in...
/r/MensRights10/07/15 06:22 PM
12

You know, now that you mention it..... My health class was much the same when it came to those subjects. Also 20 years ago.
/r/MensRights26/06/15 06:39 PM
18

No and no. If there is one thing that whole crew loves, its massage a knee. And they tend to see it as any feminist would.
/r/MensRights23/06/15 11:46 AM
25

Apply this logic to daycare centers, and teaching. Suddenly, there are riots everywhere because massage a knee
/r/MensRights16/06/15 03:49 PM
9

But women AREN'T pursuing STEM fields. Okay, sure. More than in the past.... But overall, still not so much. EDIT: This is not condoning what he said. It was a stupid thing to say, joke or not. What I'm saying is that by using that as another excuse as to why women aren't going into these fields is drivel. If you are interested in those fields of study, man or woman, I would think that these comments would drive you into it even further to prove those who say stupid shit like that wrong.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 12:42 PM
23

These are the same women who take gender studies, and art literature courses.... And on weekends march with signs saying that fields like science and engineering are slanted towards men.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 09:11 PM
12

Ok.... Lets get into this on just this one fact. The biggest reason? Not because they are comfortable defending themselves so much, but because the classes also emphasize SITUATIONAL AWARENESS. Understanding that goes quite a long way to not having bad shit happen to you.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 08:23 PM
2

You have comprehension problems dont you. He asked what it had to do with mens rights... It has nothing to do with mens rights. The sub /r/mensrights may be a target though. How can you not realize one has very little to do with the other?
/r/MensRights11/06/15 11:40 AM
33

Nothing. However, mensrights is not viewed as a safe space. Given the new CEOs background and history, dont be shocked if this sub is banned sometime in the near future
/r/MensRights11/06/15 09:34 AM
1

Well, it appears she was on the crime show for close to 13 years. And only the past couple years, it doesn't seem she's doing anything. Wonder if that has anything to do with it..... /s
/r/MensRights29/05/15 02:00 PM
6

This is what I don't understand. she isn't a stay at home mom, or just your average Jane Doe who married into famous..... She is a primary actor in a long running, popular program. I'm sure she makes enough of a salary to handle any expenses incurred after a divorce. I'm sure that was the point of the pre-nup. Why he agreed to pay anything after divorce in that pre-nup also baffles me.
/r/MensRights29/05/15 01:48 PM
130

You only sound racist to those who think cold stats and numbers have feelings. If there is empirical data that most black homicides are committed by other blacks (there is), then I don't understand how that can be racist. They are provable numbers. That's it. Now, if you said, "I love black on black crime, because most black homicides are committed by other blacks" ........ while statistically true, you have also added the emotional point of view to it... which would make that a racist statement…
/r/MensRights28/05/15 04:31 PM
5

Ha! Its tax free to the receiver. I pay a shit load of taxes on it, being a single payer at just under 6 figures. So not only do I never see that money, I get taxed at 28% for the privilege.
/r/MensRights27/05/15 11:42 AM
2

While currently true from a statistical standpoint, you just triggered the sjw in some folks. How dare you bring fact into a conversation, you shitlord
/r/MensRights26/05/15 11:57 PM
52

Yep. I pay more to my ex than she makes at her part time job. Which she keeps on purpose so she can get that sweet sweet EIC at the end of the tax year. NM the fact that 5 more hours a week at work will make that money also.... but that's 5 more hours she'd have to work.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 09:05 PM
1

Awesome. OP came through. this popcorn is delicious btw..... I'd share... but can't seem to stuff it through the internet pipes.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 08:05 PM
1

Are you a lawyer? So.... if that's the case, please point out where criminal charges have been pressed when a woman blatantly files a false police report of rape. I'll be here with my popcorn.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 07:15 PM
1

But the evidence is absolutely not there to convict her And this is where you are disconnected. There are no criminal statutes for false accusation. The accused is bringing her to CIVIL court for defamation and false accusations. Civil court has a lot lower standard of proof than criminal court. The reason you are being down voted is not for your statements specifically, but the misunderstanding those statements are coming from. Yes, a lot of us think there should be criminal charges for false a…
/r/MensRights26/05/15 05:42 PM
5

No. We call it lying because: The investigators didn't find enough evidence of a rape, and the case of conflicting stories led them to believe that it was not worth prosecuting. This in itself is not a full acquittal, but it goes a long way to show she was falsifying her report. She turned up pregnant, and denied any possibility that it could be someone else's. DNA tests showed that it absolutely was someone elses child. this also gives strong case that she was lying. I can't fathom attempting t…
/r/MensRights26/05/15 01:40 PM
8

So... Its totally okay with you that she was frothing at the mouth accusing, but was lying.... Both times.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 12:34 PM
9

Little more content in this article
/r/MensRights18/05/15 06:50 PM
3

Shockingly, people tend to forget where those slaves were sold from. And who sold them.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 08:25 PM
8

Mr Heslin even wrote a character reference for Stephens where he accepted responsibility for his part in the dispute and urged the judge to keep his partner out of jail. Mr Seaholme said Stephens had a criminal history but sought to have his client's sentence served in the community so that she could still care for all her children. Blaming the victim, and she has a criminal history. Judge Deborah Richards said Stephens had committed a "significant act of violence in circumstances where there wa…
/r/MensRights11/05/15 08:23 PM
-3

I like your optimism, and would absolutely love to see some test cases for this. As skewed as the courts are, I'm unconvinced that it would be treated the same in the courts if the detractor was female. sigh when there is dispute over these things, it gets settles in court. The federal government doesnt have carte blanche power over financial aid.
/r/MensRights05/05/15 05:50 PM
1

I'd just make a statement pointing out the hypocrisy. The teacher is not there to impart their political opinions. This one is clearly "Punishing" you for those opinions. I simply ask if he/she would feel the same way if you were wearing a shirt that said, "Feminist", or, "Infidel", or "Jesus Saves with Coupons"
/r/MensRights27/04/15 02:07 PM
18

I just love how she clearly lost, is getting ordered to pay court costs, and still clings to, "I hope things change due to this...." How can someone be so delusional?} Why would ANYONE hire her after that mess? She's a complete liability
/r/MensRights24/04/15 05:59 PM
10

This. All the reported, "Issues" are a direct result of poor hygiene, or bad decisions. Proper hygiene will prevent dickcheese
/r/MensRights21/04/15 03:35 PM
2

After many observations, she is a radfem sociopath. I think Jimmy Kimmel would agree....
/r/MensRights17/04/15 08:38 AM
7

His hell isn't over yet. Just this piece of it. Those charges, and arrest will still show up on his record, and he will be denied multiple opportunities because of them.
/r/MensRights02/04/15 07:00 PM
8

If you are distracted by the click-bait, and unable to see what the article is stating, then that's a problem you have. In the current state of, "Journalism" we very rarely see any sort of neutral bias writing. The trick is to pull out the important bits that can be corroborated. Which you have failed to do.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 01:38 PM
34

I work for MS, on a lvl 300 tech team. My team has a number of women who rock the socks, and believe me. They dont feel defeated. If anything, they would be embarrassed by this. But I doubt they are.
/r/MensRights28/03/15 11:35 AM
0

I'm so fucking triggered right now. Quit thought raping me.
/r/MensRights19/03/15 08:27 PM
7

I'm really sick and tired of the "feels" laws and censorship in this country. It's fucking disgusting. "What you say makes me feel uncomfortable. You can no longer participate" Well, excuse me for bringing your thoughts out of your, "Safe" zone. Fucking fuck.....
/r/MensRights19/03/15 08:23 PM
2

Joke or not, it only takes about 12% of the country to get her voted in. that's after you tally all who actually voted, and tallied where other votes win. If all was actually democratic, we wouldn't have had the presidents we've had.
/r/MensRights18/03/15 07:05 PM
2

The difference is the amount of money and social engineering in men's and women's "causes"
/r/MensRights14/03/15 10:47 AM
2

Conversely. My Ex chooses to work a shitty part time job, so she can stay under the EIC credit cut off. Meanwhile, I've had a fairly successful career the last few years, and am paying more in child support to her, than she makes at that part time job. And i am obligated to cover insurance. Yet, even though myself and my kids would be in a better position financially, and no loss of care to them, the judge refuses to even consider a custody change. Oh, and lump that with I'm single, and she's re…
/r/MensRights10/03/15 03:58 PM
3

"Yes, it's very clear that fathers owed support are not getting it at the rate mothers are. But that's okay, because it seems men make better job decisions that allow them more salary, placing them in less of a financial strain than women." This is essentially what I read out of this. it's some extreme mental leaps to reason one with the other.
/r/MensRights10/03/15 03:40 PM
3

And in the same paragraph admits that her mother was not the most fit parent under the circumstances. But you know what? Tough shit, because this is just payback for all the mysogeny done in the past.
/r/MensRights09/03/15 06:46 PM
4

Fat/slut shaming cislord you are. Why cant you handle a healthy, sexually free woman!!
/r/MensRights08/03/15 05:03 PM
3

He's terrible when it comes to finances While that may be, you described perfectly the trap men are in in this situation. Pay for kid that isn't yours. then pay for lawyer to go to court saying kid isn't yours. Judge says, "Interest of the child" Lawyer gets paid, so does mom. Courts get their cut. More issues raised by mom, have to pay more for lawyer to fight. After paying ex, and going broke paying the first lawyer. Meanwhile, having to maintain "Earning Potential" levels, and provide for you…
/r/MensRights03/03/15 07:03 PM
3

You lose any sort of federal help if you DONT sign up. Need that Medicaid? Nope. You didn't register. That social security you've been paying in to? Never see it, because you didn't register. See a government job posting that you are perfect for? Tough shit. No government employment.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 01:15 PM
20

Signing up for the military draft. If conscription is needed, the US has a handy list of almost all males over the age of 18. Where as, women are not required to register, and are explicitly disallowed to by law. It was also part of a womans right to vote requirement, that was repealed before passing due to the woman folk aghast at being told they have to register, and may get drafted.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 01:12 PM
7

Ist here an office for the status of women? If so, it stands to reason there should be one for men also. Or, how about simply an office for the status of citizens.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 06:54 PM
2

There are mechanisms in place to give up your parental rights. However, a judge is still required to make that decision. A guy I went to high scool with is raising his daughter, only because the mother signed away her parental rights. She doesn't have to pay one dime in child support, but she is not allowed any rights and/or privileges a non-custodial parent would normally have. Men can submit for it too. But, like I said.... a judge needs to approve it. I wonder how often they would.
/r/MensRights25/02/15 03:06 PM
2

sigh This is the core truth of it.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 08:10 PM
4

But the bars are real. Another thing is, when it comes to child support, 85% of those not paying, arent because they cant. Then they get sent to jail, and still have to pay. Its a vicious cycle. And wrong. No monetary debt should recieve jail time for failure to pay. Be it traffic ticket, child support, or civil judgement.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 07:43 PM
2

Punishement for not paying a fine, or fee. Which is a debt. In jail for not paying said debt. Debtors prison. It's not even a big stretch
/r/MensRights20/02/15 06:54 PM
6

i'm not straw manning anything. There are constitutional amendments against indentured servitude, and debtors prison. Failure to pay, becuase you can't, and recieving a contempt charge that sends you to jail for it is defacto debtors prison.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 06:53 PM
10

But it is not the practice.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 06:34 PM
6

While there is no law requiring you to maintain a certain level of income, the courts will award an order commensurate with your POTENTIAL earnings. So, If I'm making 100k in a job for a couple of years, then get laid off for any reason, and can only find jobs in the same field of work that are only paying 50k, the courts will still hold that my earning potential is at the 100k level, and enforce a child support amount on that potential.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 06:33 PM
3

this isn't just family court skirting that. this is all courts that aren't criminal. civil courts cannot sentence any jail, but can impose fines. however, disregarding a court order to pay a fine is considered contempt of court, and a jailable offence. BTW, there are no restrictions on hold times, and additional fines for contempt of court. It's all arbitrarily up to the judge who orders the contempt.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 06:30 PM
3

Defacto debtors prison..... under the guise of contempt of court
/r/MensRights20/02/15 06:28 PM
7

On the flip side, my ex refuses to get a real job so she can continue to claim that EIC at the end of the tax year. Add that to the fact that I pay her more in Child Support than she makes at that job.... we have a real winner.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 06:27 PM
-2

BECAUSE WOMEN MAKE 77% OF WHAT MEN DO YOU SHITLORD!!!!
/r/MensRights20/02/15 06:25 PM
7

I can't tell if you are an idiot or a troll..... Looking through your post history, I'm fairly certain it's a bit of both.
/r/MensRights17/02/15 10:48 PM
3

You just disagreeed with your previous statement. Completely. you cannot consent to anything if you are asleep. So, a wife giving a blowjob to a sleeping husband would fall under that category.
/r/MensRights17/02/15 10:34 PM
3

Advice? Maybe. Myself. I had to move 2k miles from my children to get to an area that had job availability in my skill set, in order to pay CS, and to be able to try to sock away for their education. Well, 8 years later, I've stopped the bleeding. I don't get to see my children often though. And when I do, it's an expensive procedure. I've missed 8 years of my kids lives, and now my oldest is graduating high school. I had to make a choice. Be around my kids, broke, and always looking at going to…
/r/MensRights16/02/15 03:14 PM
2

Sure they do. But then a judge has the right to determine on whether they are truly holding to their beliefs, or just picking up on the trending religious dogma to be assholes. Which is exactly what happened. You know what else? People have the right NOT TO SUPPORT THOSE BUSINESSES. And guess what happens when a place of business gets no customers?
/r/MensRights13/02/15 10:10 PM
5

Hahahahaha. Not quite buddy. They specifically called out not serving gays as part of their religious creed. And were then busted selling cakes for divorce/abortion/stem-cell research parties. Which are also very clear violations of their religious beliefs. So, them being fined wasn't persecution. It was a judge saying, "you are full of shit, and because you continued to cherry pick your beliefs, you can suck it."
/r/MensRights13/02/15 08:27 PM
3

No. It isn't. You have the right to refuse service. I, as an employer, have the right to fire you for refusing service due to your religious beliefs. You want to do that, go open your own business.
/r/MensRights13/02/15 08:11 PM
0

You are correct. The reason for the hostility is because we are an ever more educated culture. The more education one gets, the more they question things. Which is how it should be. Then what happens is you get the politicians and old boys and girls that vote, and have very fundamental christian views. Those politicians pander to those views, because those are the people at the voting booths. Because of this, there has been an increase of the public demonstrating that they are less and less tole…
/r/MensRights13/02/15 08:09 PM
-14

Wow. I cannot fathom the idiocy that you exude from your post. Apparently, it does take a genius to use proper punctuation and grammar.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 06:38 PM
-15

Jessica Valenti justifies her hostility to due process for men, with a rationale that doesn't hold water. Doesn't take a genius to use proper punctuation and grammar, jackass.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 06:23 PM
-18

Commas are fucking important. That title gave me brain cancer.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 05:50 PM
4

where in the fuck did get the 1-3 women die of it though. Man, with all the ratios of women dying from specific diseases, it's a wonder there are women at all.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 05:48 PM
5

Nope. Yer fine. There are assholes in every thread, neighbor. The biggest thing I have a problem with feminism is that they consistently portray women as the victim. It doesn't matter what the situation, if there is a female involved, she is going to be the victim. Then they talk about empowerment. Usually attributed to sexuality. But here's the thing.... those same women who talk about empowerment through sexuality are also the same people who do look down on promiscous women. They say men over…
/r/MensRights06/02/15 06:41 PM
5

Bookmark this..... She won't see that sentence. My guess is she'll get a reduced charge sentence, with some rehab, and a "Poor girl" pat on the back.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 03:40 PM
1

Right there with ya brother. I'm 38. My oldest graduates High School this year. I've been dealing with this for years. At this point, I've resigned myself tot he fact that nothing is going to change until they get old enough for me to have support stopped.
/r/MensRights23/01/15 06:33 PM
3

Oh yeah, forgot to add. Seems to be the father is the one always responsible for insurance coverage. So I'm paying another $550 a month for that. Texas support calculator shows that for one child, at a 22k net anually, and a $400 a month insurace premium (this is cheap for dependent insurance) shows that your monthly payment should be ~$281 Pro-tip to those men who don't have kids. Get a fucking vasectomy. Adopt if you ever get in a position that kids are an acceptable risk.
/r/MensRights23/01/15 06:22 PM
4

What was your total before taxes. Courts are so fucked up that they base their percentages pre-tax. I'm basing this off the 652 before taxes. Assuming thats weekly (Doubtful, but that's what we'll work with) that puts you in the high end (~28%) tax bracket with a single file, and no deductions. doing the math, that shows that you are paying ~29% of your total pay to child support..... which is high. Baseline I believe is 25% for one child. You are doubly fucked becuase you have to pay that pre-t…
/r/MensRights23/01/15 06:12 PM
8

That happened
/r/MensRights15/01/15 01:31 PM
3

I could've sworn is was all about getting to know your date. Making a connection, finding out if there is a possibility of a continuing relationship. I guess it's all about men giving free meals to women who said they'd go on a date.
/r/MensRights13/01/15 10:31 PM
11

Im not sure taking on that responsibilty was ever a question. The problem is being lied to, and then becoming an ATM to someone elses child.
/r/MensRights06/01/15 01:39 PM
1

Might be a toss up on which is cheaper. But a Medical degree will always be useful.
/r/MensRights29/12/14 11:52 PM
2

Yep. I was 27, and initially the doctor balked at my request. Queue my very pregnant wife and 2 small children walking in the room.... he had no problem with it after that. So.... if you are under 30, expect to be talked to about not doing it. Some docs may even flat out refuse.
/r/MensRights29/12/14 10:39 PM
2

First: Paternity test. Nothing and nothing until that is done. Secondly: Despite. I've seen it misspelled twice now.
/r/MensRights29/12/14 10:36 PM
2

If you got leave, that would mean the 33% pay gap closes by quite a bit. Can't have those sound bytes and click baits going away now can we.
/r/MensRights04/12/14 03:52 PM
10

Tattoos are not a protected class. Yes, businesses can turn away folks for showing tattoos.
/r/MensRights20/11/14 08:41 PM
3

The one shining light in the whole mess I went through was when my ex with held visitation. It took a couple instances, and a couple of court appearances, but the judge looked at her and said if she does it again, she will award custody to me and put her in jail under contempt of court order. She never tried that shit again. I tried not to smile about it, but I just couldn't help myself.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 02:59 PM
0

Because men have zero choice in the matter. The only thing I recommend to men in this situation is a paternity test
/r/MensRights21/10/14 06:39 PM
4

I'm not so conflicted. The judgement should be for a custody change.... but it probably won't happen. I don't blame her for asking for a reduction. I'm in the same boat. I pay more in child support per year than my ex makes in a year at her part time job. She's also re-married to a dude who seems to refuse to work. So, in my mind, it would be financially better for all involved if my children were with me. Courts only care about financials in the sense of what THEY can process, because they get …
/r/MensRights16/10/14 06:08 PM
3

It's really the only appropriate ruling. This really is a non story. IF there was a judgement for future earnings.... that's worth arguing. However, in this case there doesn't seem to be, so there should not be any of that money changing hands
/r/MensRights14/10/14 09:17 PM
2

That's just it. The law states that consent cannot be given at that age. Hence, rape.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 06:29 PM
10

Is it rape if it was a 13 year old CONSENTING girl?
/r/MensRights06/10/14 05:35 PM
1

You are absolutely correct. We can point out the scale of difference here though. Where most are contrite for what was done, this instance opened realization of issues that were larger than the individual instance. I think this is an important distinction from the typical abuser cycle.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 04:20 AM
1

You have a valid gripe. The reason for it is the recognition that op shows. The epiphany she had after the fact is more important to what happens in the future, vs. an assumption that she will continue the aggression.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 04:15 AM
18

This sounds like, "So what? So women are making up for lost time. Get over it" Equality. Only achieved after men have been equally oppressed.... and then some. Makes absolutely no sense.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 10:15 PM
-1

So close to getting it right...... So close.....
/r/MensRights21/09/14 07:44 PM
1

26 years worth of alimony. In what world does this make any sense.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 03:31 PM
3

sure they can. treatment is generally being arrested, jailed, abused by the system, corrections officers, and other "inmates"
/r/MensRights08/08/14 03:49 PM
25

Two working partners in a marriage affords a better quality of life than when just the husband provides the income. this is an economic need.... nothing to do with feminism. Two working partners is almost a requirement for the last 25 years or so.
/r/MensRights08/08/14 02:56 PM
2

Keep an eye open for crazy shit happening around him, to him, and to his stuff.
/r/MensRights19/07/14 02:40 PM
1

Sounds like you need a divorce, and a custody awarded. Your wife is fucking crazy......
/r/MensRights17/07/14 04:17 PM
1

Shit, busted....
/r/MensRights23/06/14 01:33 PM
45

No. Everyone is Anon. And then there are "FemAnon" Which, by default, isn't Anonymous. It's a cry for attention. Which is where, "tits or GTFO" came from. We don't care if you have tits, or a dick. If you are going to out yourself as other than Anon, tits or GTFO. And I agree with it....... You don't see faggots posting as ManAnon. oh, and everyone is a faggot. EVERYONE..... especially OP. you have to understand 4chan to understand 4chan
/r/MensRights20/06/14 06:33 PM
1

Where the fuck are these titles coming from? For Shit Sake..... take the suggested, and throw in some appropriate punctuation.
/r/MensRights18/06/14 03:17 PM
1

Of course you are...... Because you mentioned that minorities are arrested, and convicted to longer sentences. Racist mother fucker /s
/r/MensRights18/06/14 03:09 PM
14

None of what you just said was comprehensible in any manner........
/r/MensRights18/06/14 01:36 PM
8

Tis quite intentional....
/r/MensRights18/06/14 09:45 AM
1

First world feminism is a joke.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:50 PM
72

I'm a human, not a dog. If I have no need to follow you, I won't. if you wanted a dog, you should have gotten a dog. Not a Man. Why are you hanging up on me, with a need to finish a conversation? Grow up. Real men don't deal with immature shit, and real women don't hang up Why would I hug someone who just punched me? I'm more likely to pack your shit and escort you out. Real women don't think it's okay to hit. Why are you nagging? Real men take care of their shit. Real Women take care of their s…
/r/MensRights05/06/14 01:26 PM
4

fuck yeah..... Shout out to metal dads everywhere. funny thing.... My oldest is 17, and were swapping records, (Cds, tapes, MP3... wtfever)
/r/MensRights31/05/14 03:52 PM
7

You are absolutely correct. It really doesn't....
/r/MensRights31/05/14 03:18 PM
3

Maybe he's gay?
/r/MensRights31/05/14 03:09 PM
22

Standing up and saying, "I am not this type of man, and neither is the vast majority of men." is considered the equivalent of being a rape apologist at best. Stating facts about abuses towards men, and the disparity of available resources for men, makes me a misogynist because men have had so much privilege for so long, that we don't deserve these resources. A.K.A. "Man up" Anytime we mention that there is no good reason that men lose their children in custody cases at the rate of 85+%, we get t…
/r/MensRights29/05/14 01:22 PM
2

I like the little sub sections Interesting that the author went into it with a skewed veiw, editor says, "tough shit... go forth and learn" And comes up with the worst of the worst..... funny how that happens
/r/MensRights28/05/14 05:03 PM
11

There was recently an article that compared American police killing americans, vs. Soldiers killed over seas. Our cops killed more americans in 10 years than all soldier deaths in that same 10 years. So.... there is that.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 04:01 PM
9

Are you shitting me? This is about the purist form of sexism there is.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 03:24 PM
2

And he will probably never see a dime of that money....
/r/MensRights21/05/14 05:00 PM
1

While he is using it as an example, it only shows that the inequality in both issues sides with the woman. That doesn't make my statement any less true. So, in the court, they are separate issues as one does not require the other for a judgement to take place. It just so happens that both are biased towards the woman in the vast majority of cases.
/r/MensRights17/04/14 08:12 PM
2

I'm simply stating that as far as child support/custody judgements, and marriage dissolution with splitting assets are two different things. The core of this is that marriage is not a factor. You only need to be deemed the father of the child..... Often times even after its been proven that you are not the biological father. The courts will lay the fatherly role burden down. So, while the article does speak to it as a single entity, the judgements concerning child custody and support do not requ…
/r/MensRights17/04/14 06:45 PM
5

Being married is not a factor when it comes to child support and custody. Marriage is a completely different issue.
/r/MensRights17/04/14 05:22 PM
8

The ultimatum of, "If you don't, I'll break up with you" doesn't fall into any of those categories. As there is no threat of violence, or anything of the sort. In these cases, it's simple enough to walk away. If your partner is presenting you with ultimatums of any kind really, its a relationship breaker.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 12:47 AM
10

if this is the case, I was raped so many times when I was married, I lost count.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 12:40 AM
22

Wow.... Way to generalize a whole state.
/r/MensRights14/03/14 03:19 PM
14

It's not a rejoicing. It's a fact. Instead of recognizing that hundreds of thousand of men are held to the same regard, and that it's expected, she bitches about oh poor me...... It would have been more useful to society had they actually recognized that the divorce laws are broken all around. Additionally, they are especially canted towards the woman.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 10:29 PM
171

Ha! So, when equality works, women don't like it? Who would have thunk it?
/r/MensRights01/03/14 04:13 PM
2

A suitable alternative to a glock 19? Even the subcompacts have the same grip dimensions, and trigger pull. So, now were talking LCR territory...... which would be something along the lines of .380. I don't know that ANY police force would consider a .380 caliber an acceptable alternative.
/r/MensRights19/02/14 08:39 PM
1

No, they aren't. They were training for special duty. Not general policework. In the madate of that special duty, comes with standardized equipment. Yes, there are size differentials, and the like.... but if you cannot perform the tests required for said special duty, you should not get a payout. There are some jobs where physical stature does matter... this was one of them.
/r/MensRights19/02/14 08:33 PM
20

It's this bullshit right here: "One more thing: I have talked about violence perpetrated by men in this piece. Yes, I know women are violent and women do kill their children. But as a woman, I don’t apologise for focusing on men given that women are three times more likely than men to experience violence by a partner. Fact is, Men are subject to just as much violence from women, but 3 times less likely to report it. A slap is a slap is a slap. It's a violent aggression..... and I've seen women s…
/r/MensRights18/02/14 05:10 PM
7

Child support is not there to pay rent, pay bills, and all the things one would expect a working adult to pay for. It is there to supplement the extra costs for the children in question. I'll tell you, in my case, I pay more to my ex in child support than she makes in a year at her part time job. Financially speaking, the children would be better off with me as the custodial parent. There would be very little difference from a stability and emotional care standpoint if I did have custody. But, t…
/r/MensRights12/02/14 02:04 AM
177

to avoid giving that site any traffic... here is a transcript: "I believe her. Always. 07 Friday Feb 2014 Posted by feministborgia in Uncategorized ≈ 2 Comments TagsI believe her, rape, rape culture So, here we are again. Another ‘high profile’ rape case-and by ‘high profile’, I mean involving someone the media can get plenty of column inches out of. Another acquittal. Another round of calls for anonymity for men (and let’s be clear, the vast majority of cases involving sexual violence have men …
/r/MensRights07/02/14 03:36 PM
17

Sure..... Sure.... You ever run over, say, a 2x4? Even in a truck, you know you ran over something. Running over two kids..... You know Damn well you ran over something. She wasn't disassociating, she was denying.... That's a huge difference. The minute news hit and she heard, she should have turned herself in...... She didn't. She went and got ice cream. I'm sorry doesn't cut it.....
/r/MensRights02/02/14 01:28 AM
-2

Admittedly....... That is chuckle worthy. EDIT: Odd.... This comment was supposed to be a reply to a comment that said something about queefs being funny. He'll, I'd down vote this comment too under the circumstances. But, queefs are funny. Right in line with fart jokes.
/r/MensRights19/01/14 02:22 AM
4

Don't know when, don't know if real..... but the fact that it was posted to /r/funny with ~300 positive upvotes and counting is both disappointing, and disgusting. Because, it's always funny when a dude gets racked in the sack. Oh, and the accused was, "Cited for harassment" wat? Just in that one picture, I see indecent exposure to a minor, and assault. should probably cross post to /r/pussypass
/r/MensRights18/01/14 09:05 PM
2

Get out. Get out now. It has escalated, and will continue to escalate as long as you allow it. On top of that, call the police, get a report filed. While it may not do any immediate good, there will be a paper trail for future litigation. If you have marks and bruises from the latest incident, get photos... now. If there are children involved, do your best to get them out of that situation too. Unfortunately, the deck is stacked against you on that one. When/if you do call the police to make the…
/r/MensRights18/01/14 06:19 PM
-6

The feminist movement at the time refused the initial proposal that they could vote..... as long as they registered for selective service. Dem Fems said hell no....... Equality. I'm looking for the source link.....
/r/MensRights01/01/14 07:45 PM
6

Modern feminism has nothong to do with equality. It has everything to do with providing programs and reparations driven specifically towards women, while at the same time lowering men to nothing. There is no equality there. And the fact of the matter is, in this modern time, women have MANY more opportunities to advance than men. There are hundreds of womens benefits, where men are left flapping in the wind. I like women.... I really do. I don't like selfish motherfuckers with a sense of equalit…
/r/MensRights14/12/13 10:08 PM
9

Yes. If you can establish proof that your daughter is with you that 90%, and has been... it really shouldn't be an issue. I say that with a grain of salt.... I have no idea how NJ judges are in child court. They may just burn you alive........ But they shouldn't. Get a good lawyer.
/r/MensRights14/12/13 06:38 PM
9

Ah. TIL!
/r/MensRights27/11/13 04:39 PM
7

"the" Front page of what? Everyones front page is different, if you are logged in and have set up subscriptions.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 04:20 PM
12

Yep.... I went to jail with a black eye thanks to the ex. She was arrested... on paper.... never went. But they took me because I held her back from continuing to hit me. Penis privilege To followup on this.... quickly. I was charged with DV, fought it and settled no contest for "disturbing the peace" She had court same day. They hit her with aggravated assault / DV. thanks to the pictures I took for evidence. Funny thing is, she NEVER ONCE saw the inside of a jail cell. She was fined and put on…
/r/MensRights26/11/13 08:10 PM
9

It's also about negotiating salary. Men tend to be more aggressive in negotiating a salary, where as women tend to shy away from it. Interesting read on the phenomenon. http://blogs.wsj.com/economics/2013/04/01/negotiating-tactics-play-role-in-gender-pay-gap/
/r/MensRights26/11/13 02:14 PM
14

But it's become the Mane theme!
/r/MensRights17/11/13 05:20 PM
7

It does not count towards income. The receiver does not need to claim it for tax reasons, and is not required to claim it as income for audit purposes. It can be used, as you correctly put it, as a source of income when showing ability to pay. think of it this way. The supporter pays taxes on all income, including what is never seen through child support. Often times the supporter must also pay family insurance coverage for the children. It is also required that the payer have adequate residence…
/r/MensRights16/11/13 05:10 PM
1

relevant
/r/MensRights10/11/13 05:34 PM
4

You are correct.... Now look at the enforcement numbers...... Men are put in jail on a daily basis for not paying child support.... and sadly, the majority of men that do go... generally WANT to pay it. Women very rarely are ordered to pay child support, even more rarely pay it... and even MORE rarely are punished for non-compliance. I'm not talking about numbers directly... I'm talking percentages.
/r/MensRights26/10/13 03:37 PM
2

What I think would be even better? A median percentage based on the custodial parents income. sliding scale, 15% 1 kid, 20% 2 kids, 25% 3+ kids. Unless the custodial parent makes say, 30% over the non custodial parent, then CS should not be granted, but certain responsibilities would be required. Half of medical bills, insurance, etc.... So, if I'm married with 2 kids and make 100k a year, and my S.O. makes 50k.... then get divorced, and my S.O gets physical custody, let's just say 85% which equ…
/r/MensRights26/10/13 03:33 PM
31

Breaking and entering, pre-meditated, and multiple attackers. Why aren't these fucks in jail for YEARS!!! Oh yeah, it has a vagina.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 04:23 PM
1

Shelling out more for sure. I've gotten a job that pays pretty well, so economically speaking it's about the same, I can even say I'm doing better because I now run in the black, instead of robbing peter to pay paul on occasion. It hard dollars though, I'm paying quite a bit more. I still pay for all the insurance, medical and school. I do but them clothes and goods (10-16 years old now... getting more expensive) and I shell out ~$2000 a month for support. More funny story. I shell out more in c…
/r/MensRights17/09/13 01:05 PM
-1

That's fine. I'm not exactly worried about downvotes, as I hold to my statements. While you provide a wonderful opening for debate, I don't feel that it was an incorrect charge. Consider this, if she had been charged with manslaughter, or even involuntary manslaughter, I would most definitely be up in arms about it. Heres the thing. A charge of first degree murder would most likely not gain a conviction in this case, based on the short blurb of the killing. So the DA did the right thing in charg…
/r/MensRights11/09/13 06:08 PM
-2

No story here. the charge is correct under law. kthanksbai!
/r/MensRights11/09/13 04:24 PM
8

No mention of a name of the alleged rapist. Are we gaining ground? Isn't SOP to name the alleged rapist 16 times in an article?
/r/MensRights11/09/13 03:50 PM
2

Wow, you have a strange sense of reality. Yes, I was getting them all but one weekend a month, and I would be there once or twice a week after school, spend time, make dinner, and put em to bed so the ex could get her spin down, and I could spend time with them. I still paid ALL the bills for them. School fees, insurance, medical, dental, clothes, etc...... Even though we made around the same amount of money, which was very little at the time. It originally came about because neither one of us m…
/r/MensRights11/09/13 12:57 PM
12

Any judge can take those papers, notarized, and wipe his/her ass with them. Source: I had a written, mediated (outside of court mediation) agreement for visitation and no child support originally. All signed by me, her and witnesses (Lawyers) Now I'm paying 1800 a month, and get to see my kids over the summers. Mostly because she decided that wasn't a good deal anymore, so the judge said, "Okay, pay her. Fuck off"
/r/MensRights10/09/13 06:30 PM
6

8 years in warehouses. 5 of them in cold storage. Never, in my 5 years, did I see a woman working full time in there. All men, dressed in severe weather clothes, working in sub zero temperatures (in the freezer) and just above freezing temps. They would walk through with clipboards on occasion..... on the dry side, never pickers. Always wrappers and form fillers. Same pay rate... and often promoted before the cold room grunts.
/r/MensRights28/08/13 05:29 PM
1

Fact is rarely nice..... but it would never happen as it would take away the competitiveness...
/r/MensRights26/08/13 09:49 PM
9

Ummm, there is already caps in place based on a percentage of income. So, if I make 100k this year, having 2 kids in divorce, my "cap" is 25% of my income according to WI. This would give my ex 25k per year, in which she does not have to claim as income, and is untaxable. Now imagine she works part time as a secratary making 12 dollars an hour. I would be (and am actually) paying more in CS than she makes in a year. How about, give me custody, and I'll use that 25k for day care if needed. She ca…
/r/MensRights06/08/13 04:27 PM
1

I would like to address this as a people issue. The words, "I'm sorry" are essentially used to make the offender feel better for screwing up in some way. Oft times it is over used in an inappropriate way. Step on someones foot, "I'm sorry" is the polite thing to say to someone in recognition of the accidental contact. Acceptable. You fuck someones shit up, "I'm sorry" is unacceptable to me. A REAL apology is learning from the mistake, and not letting it happen again. Repeated instances of said m…
/r/MensRights30/07/13 06:15 PM
1

Ah, but we can. Without sperm... no baby. When they start makin babies without sperm, then we can talk.
/r/MensRights10/07/13 06:32 PM
3

I feel so much rage at those fuckers...... This is why we can't have nice things.
/r/MensRights01/07/13 09:43 PM
4

hahaahahaahahahaha.......... Attractiveness goes away when the attitude comes about. Who wants to sleep with an entitled, snotty woman? No matter how good she looks. Oh yeah.... idiots.
/r/MensRights01/07/13 05:05 PM
2

This was Illinois, of all places. I'll be damned if I can remember his name right now. This was over 10 years ago. But I remember having the biggest shit eating grin on my face when it happened. And, btw, she hasn't fucked around on visitation since.
/r/MensRights30/06/13 07:48 PM
8

In the specific case of paternity fraud (particularly in the U.S.), the vicitm (supposed father) will almost automatically be ordered to pay child support based on the word of the mother. If that happens, and it comes out he is NOT the father.... guess what..... he's got years of child support to pay anyway, and/or lots of lawyer costs to get that support stopped. the courts will order support without the father present, but the father must bring any inconsistencies to court to fight it. the cou…
/r/MensRights26/06/13 05:36 PM
22

I do have 4 day work weeks. Officially.... that are 10-14 hour days.... And often turn into 5 days a week.... It's my privilege
/r/MensRights25/06/13 09:32 PM
1

My ex tried this. The judge looked at her and said, "If it happens again, I will put you in jail and award custody to the father" Request a change of venue, or a transfer to a superior court if you have proof that she is denying court ordered visitation time. Visitation time has absolutely nothing to do with Child support. They are separate issues and really should be treated as such. Deal with that part first. If you are overpaying for support, request the courts to modify the support order to …
/r/MensRights25/06/13 08:20 PM
-8

"I'm not advocating violence, But why don't we have the right to two fist someone like that in the cabbage" nope.... pretty sure I caught it all. Talking about wanting to do violence based on emotional reactions, and then saying, "But I don't advocate it" is like saying, "I aint racist, but fuck niggers" .......... See, you still look like an asshole...... but you feel better about yourself because you're not advocating it.... but... still an asshole.
/r/MensRights12/06/13 06:12 PM
-4

sigh He was doing good until advocating violence with violence.... Yes, that song is fucked and probably created a whole new slew of criminal destruction of property.
/r/MensRights12/06/13 04:19 PM
1

If it's only a moral obligation, Why isn't she dating a woman? She's basically saying that because you are incapable of emotion. she's dating you for what? Moral support? Personal vindication? Drop her.
/r/MensRights19/05/13 04:04 PM
1

Poes law.....
/r/MensRights31/03/13 12:05 PM
1

Yep, and because she went public instead..... she lost her job. I'm not white knighting here, she is a real piece of work. Every employer has protocols and policies regarding behavior while on company time. While normally handled in private, what choice was left to the company? Not much in my opinion. Again, two idiots made inappropriate comments. One idiot took it to a public forum instead of going through her employer process. 3 idiots got fired.
/r/MensRights24/03/13 06:52 AM
-7

Who fucking cares...... seriously. This whole thing needs to leave the MRA sub.... it's a non story. Two idiots said some things that may or may not have been work appropriate..... an offense nazi reported it, they all got fired...... End of story.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 01:21 PM
1

One crusty, old, shell of a man who's time was most spent on a bar stool reeking of old milwaukee.... And I'm not positive he wasn't trolling......
/r/MensRights19/03/13 08:43 AM
7

and quite ignorant.
/r/MensRights09/03/13 11:27 AM
6

Front of house? Probably a bunch. Back of house? Probably none. 10 years in the business (back of house)
/r/MensRights06/03/13 10:11 AM
1

Of course in anecdotal.... Is there hard stats on that? Your experience may differ. Bitter? Nah... Though in comparison to some that are, I would certainly be more justified in being bitter. However, any entitled snot, talking to an unknown in a certain matter does give the right to agree with them being called cunt bags, and immediately form opinions on said persons past based n my anecdotal evidence. Cynical? Most definitely.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 09:16 AM
25

And then I get some middle class white cunt telling me how easy I have it while sipping a latte, texting on her iPhone 5, and shopping online for a new car with her Mac. That her daddy bough for hert..... Most likely. I find very few feminists of this type actually support themselves.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 11:48 AM
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My whole paragraph could have been about a woman, and still relevant as I think it is. Great, he came here because he won't get laughed at.... Or belittled for his situation.... Neither of which I did. I questioned the reasons and thought processes, but never belittled. Basic human nature maybe, but it ain't basic human nature to stay with something that causes physical pain. 6 times? Damn right how dare he. How dare he think so low of himself that he felt he needed to sick around that for 6+ at…
/r/MensRights21/02/13 11:09 PM
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Half a dozen times since That's 5 times too many to stick around for Ive picked a few women like this and get way involved..... And what have you learned? According to your post, not much. Start thinking with your head when you meet someone new. This is obviously not happening. You've spent your life without said new interest, there is no reason that the feeling of, "I must spend every waking minute with x" should be present. If it is, there are other issues that need to be addressed.... co-depe…
/r/MensRights21/02/13 01:39 PM
3

Remember, it came from the Internet.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 02:40 PM
4

Then your dads needs to file for a change of venue. I wold highly recommend you talk to him, and that he lawyers up. I would also be very vocal about how much of a piece of shit human being your mother is regarding this issue.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 01:25 PM
1

You are asking the wrong questions.... the right question is, What does the MRA "movement" mean to you? Answer that, and you'll have an answer... My answers: Chivalry? No. The expectation of it? Yes. "Female" rights activists. Not inherintly.... not until their battle cry over equal rights stomps on my rights as a human that just happens to have a penis. For me, it's about true equality. In order of importance to me Courts equality Child care Reproductive decisions ending the idea that men are p…
/r/MensRights17/02/13 01:09 PM
3

You NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER (Is the point gettingthrough?) NEVER give your Ex cash without a court order, and a reciept. that 1k is a write off and counts as nothing. you CAN make a case that support has been made through those clothing and life purchases. I would personally make the case for Full Physical Custody, with joint legal custody.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 12:56 PM
2

Lawyer up, Divorce out man.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 09:17 AM
2

wat?
/r/MensRights30/12/12 10:29 AM
15

I refuse to date any woman that doesn't have a career path. I date to enjoy each others time. Not to take care of you.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 12:56 AM
1

Leaves you when he realizes he's with a girl, and not a woman.
/r/MensRights21/12/12 02:03 PM
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We have Movember teams at work..... We encourage friends and family to donate "To our team"... which goes to cancer research. so far our teams have raised over 26k.
/r/MensRights15/11/12 11:49 AM
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Nope... no apologies needed man. I will tell you, it doesn't get any better from a support standpoint. the more you make, the more they take. However, it does get easier if steps are made to attempt to cut some costs. It's daunting, but not impossible. I've been essentially broke for 10+ years now due to that same type of situation. Working through some frugality throughout the years, a lot of it becomes habit. /r/frugal can give you some great money saving ideas. I also tell myself and say, "It…
/r/MensRights22/10/12 01:55 PM
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That's ridiculous. That is 28% of your monthly pay, and I'm guessing that 37k statement is BEFORE taxes. that percentage is also BEFORE taxes. I am paying the same amount on much the same salary...... for 3 kids.
/r/MensRights22/10/12 01:13 PM
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Intellectually I know you're right. The feels though..... ugh.
/r/MensRights08/10/12 09:20 AM
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No, not sexist conspiracy...... Sexist denial of the facts, and exaggeration of fiction.
/r/MensRights07/10/12 12:38 PM
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Pretty damn common.... I went to work with black eyes twice.... Both times I was arrested..... with the black eye..... And no marks on her.... because I have a penis. She was arrested once, and only because there was a witness to the abuse. this was the second time I was arrested..... with a black eye. Usual divorce story. I got my ass handed to me, even though she was the aggressor... I always told myself I'd never hit a woman... but at this point in my life, if that shit happens again, I will …
/r/MensRights07/10/12 12:35 PM
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No joint accounts Don't get married Don't date crazy If you did any of the above, don't get a girlfriend until the above criteria is met.
/r/MensRights15/09/12 12:58 PM
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Dude, you have video. I would suggest calling the police. If she has created that mess, she needs to be the one to leave and you need to be adamant about that. whining and complaining and doing nothing is just plain doing nothing. You need to prioritize what you don't want less. Get her the fuck out. Or leave yourself, but with a terrified child there, being left with the antagonizer is just a bad, bad idea. You said you have video, I'm assuming that has audio also.... use it.
/r/MensRights27/08/12 09:15 AM
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Ha! I am the, "Nice guy" But I also live by the motto, "It's not your fault I was nice. It is your fault you expected it all the time"
/r/MensRights12/08/12 12:49 PM
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Generally, Joint Legal custody allows for all medical, school, birth and other important documents to be managed and/or requested by either parent.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 10:18 AM
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visitation and support are two completely separate issues. One has no bearing on the other. To compare, "I shouldn't pay because I don't get to see" is going to do nothing but frustrate you and piss you off when the judge says the same. As such, treat it as two separate issues. Your daughter is 17, I don't know that there is a court in the land who would not ask for her opinion and preferences of living situations. That doesn't mean that it'll happen legally, but the judge should take her opinio…
/r/MensRights11/05/12 12:45 PM
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Why not? Do you not think that if I was wearing an apron showing an enlarged female genitalia, in public mind you, with a sign that says, "DOES MY PUSSY MAKE MY CUSTODY RIGHTS MAKE SENSE?" (or some derivative), I wouldn't get arrested? You bet your ass I would. Same principle bud.... Equal rights man.... Just sayin.
/r/MensRights05/05/12 02:37 PM
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Unfortunately, most of what is discussed in here is NOT situational..... Biggest issues, equality in the courts and family services. None of that is situational in any state in the US. It is pretty much universal that the man in divorce and child custody situations must prove that the mother is a MONSTER in order to have any shot of having even an equal chance of custody, support, etc..... Violence against men is another..... It is universally ignored as, "Not a big deal" Welcome to a little bit…
/r/MensRights28/04/12 07:47 AM
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you know what really drives me nuts? The fact that one of the biggest reactions is, "This is war on women" That statement is so prevalent that there is still no question that we have made very little headway in changing "By default, custody goes to women." We need to worry about that more than drug testing the recipient of said support.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 01:30 PM
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This shit, this shit should be followed by a call to the cops, an arrest and charge fro destruction of property. Doesn't matter what someone did to, "deserve this".
/r/MensRights05/04/12 06:07 AM
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Misogyny is misogyny...... whether its female or male. there does seem to be a larger percentage of banning over a discussion that "Wasn't appreciated" in /r/feminism though as opposed to mensrights Historically, women wanted equal rights in the workplace and society..... well, we want equal treatment in society and the courts first and foremost. Speaking as a divorced father...... who basically has to catch the ex smoking crack to get any kind of custody judgement.... even though I make more mo…
/r/MensRights02/03/12 02:50 PM
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1/3? Why isn't she required to pay half of the college expenses? This had already been determined at support orders when my kids were young... I onyl sya this because I once had a college savings account in my oldests name that I regularly put into... I was told that because in his name, that 50% of said funds would be considered hers, even though I put 100% of those funds in. Shortly there after, I closed that account as a guardian (She was nowhere on the account) and now have a nice little sta…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 03:31 AM
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It was hard for me man. I did the daily for a few years after the divorce... dealing with the BS. I finally made a long term decision to go where my skill set would advance me, there by advancing my chances to improve my kids' futures. Basically, I gave up one life... one of struggle, next to no prospects and the continuance of seeing my kids quite often. To take another, which is now allowing me financial "freedom", future growth in my field, and more opportunities I can provide my children mov…
/r/MensRights05/01/12 02:22 PM
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I'm 1600 miles away from my kids, so I don't really deal with that stuff anymore... but the one thing I clearly recall being in my favor, in the kids eyes, was being the calm one as much as possible. there is no excuse for that shit to be done in front of the kids... she's digging her own grave. It sucks now... remain calm... remain optimistic... the kids get older.. they start thinking for themselves... things change. My oldest is almost 15. While our relationship is rough at times, it's only b…
/r/MensRights05/01/12 01:35 PM
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Happy birthday to us man. Was my birthday yesterday too. I tried calling my kids most of the day.. finally got a call back when I was at work... Rough days get better, neighbor.
/r/MensRights05/01/12 01:06 PM
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After we had Number three (I'm Now divorced), my father asked, "Have you considered a vasectomy?" "I had it done 4 months ago pops." So now, no. I don't tell anyone unless asked. And if I do find someone, well.. they have to understand I've already got 3 kids. I don't need any more.
/r/MensRights03/12/11 02:30 PM
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Yep. I was 26 and getting a double hernia fixed up.... I asked the doc during the consult... "So, since yer down there anyway..." He immediately went into a canned spiel about how I'm too young... I should have kids first... or wait to decide. right about then, my seriously pregnant wife came was ushered in with the two young 'uns.... immediately the doc stops... looks at me... looks at the fam... "Sure, no problem. I'm gonna be down there anyway."
/r/MensRights03/11/11 04:17 PM
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She has a net worth of around 100 million. Why was there even a court order for payments? Shit like this is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 12:19 PM
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And this proves you can't take a counter-point without personally insulting someone and being an all around disgusting human being. I am confident in my manhood, my father hood and my Humanity.... I this subreddit is only a small portion of Mens rights, neighbor. The real mens rights is out there, in the courts, on the streets and in our daily actions. Good luck in your life sir.
/r/MensRights06/07/11 12:34 AM
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you're* And no... actually.. I'm not... Both of you make me sick.. And if this is truly the direction of mens rights. the Right to make excuses, and the right to blame a woman for getting pregnant... then I want nothing to do with it..
/r/MensRights05/07/11 12:20 PM
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to okcupidthrowaway6 and antifeministmedia.... This is Mens Rights.... Not "Mens Rights to make excuses and run away". Come correct or get the fuck out.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 02:39 AM
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And we are fighting for the equality rights to RAISE OUR CHILDREN. Not the right to run away because we consented to an act, but did not consent to a pregnancy. i've gotta tell you dude... the more comments of yours I read the more pissed I get at the audacity of your statements. With that attitude, you sir have no business procreating. And as you've mentioned you have had a vasectomy.... I am certainly glad you won't. We're not here to run away from our children. the majority of us in MR that d…
/r/MensRights05/07/11 02:34 AM
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Consent to sex, is in fact, consent to 18-25 years of support if the act produces a child. If you aren't smart enough to realize that ejaculating into a woman can lead to pregnancy... then you have no business having sex. I hate to say it man, but you are taking the Mens rights movement back a few paces by posting such drivel.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 02:29 AM
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No. It takes two to tango. It is not only the responsibility of the woman to plan ahead with these things, it is also a mans. Regardless of the circumstances, they CHOSE to procreate even if that wasn't the intention. There are shady circumstances behind it sometimes, but that does not excuse the act and does not provide an excuse to run away from the responsibilities. If you choose to act like an adult and have sex, then you also choose, consciously or other wise, to bear the consequences of th…
/r/MensRights05/07/11 02:25 AM
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I cannot refute this. I will say that thos "Loss of my financialprivacy" in my case is rather moot due to the fact that they are my children, our marriage didn't work out and I did take a job opportunity 1600 miles away from my children. I do not hesitate to say that they deserve the money. It does create a burden on me, but it would be more of a burden to them if they did NOT get that money. I do have to sacrifice quite a bit of personal "Wants" in order to afford the support, but I am doing no…
/r/MensRights05/07/11 02:20 AM
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Ummm.... what? How doesn't that sound like a good idea? Personally, as a child support payer, I appreciate the fact that they garnish my wages directly. Less hassle for me, and if she doesn't get her money the state is to blame. not me. All I have to do is show my check stubs. (U.S.)
/r/MensRights04/07/11 10:23 AM
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"The Crazy"
/r/MensRights03/07/11 10:43 PM
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we have a policy of no Sandals or flip flops..... everyday I see women at work wearing sandals or flip flops. Petty.... but I also saw one of my male co-workers get sent home to "change" because of it. also, a buddy of mine has an HR crew (all women) that gather to wear shirts saying, "Men are pigs"..... No backlash. I'm fairly positive if he wore a shirt stating, "Women are pigs" he would be fired.
/r/MensRights01/07/11 01:37 AM
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Listen, I don't watch "Days of our lives either" Let's not turn this into a soap opera.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 02:00 AM
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Why is it I'm seeing all kinds of bullshit come out of Wisconsin lately. Have those people just gone retarded? This is just another thing on the laundry list of stupid.... And yes, it can be a violation of equal rights. If the legislation was to drop the women.... all hellfire would break loose. I'm not hatin. It's just the truth.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:16 PM
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Never happened again. I keep my court orders in my car. She screws around, I call cops.. show orders.. they take her.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 01:57 PM
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I do want to comment on this part of it... no enforcement is provided for the meager visitation orders fathers usually receive I had a "fair" judge. the ex withheld visitation from me. the judge told her directly at the next court appointment, "If you deny visitation again, I will award AFuddyDuddy with custody and put you in jail" I've been fucked on everything else... but boy... I had a smile that would not stop that day.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 12:09 AM
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In that sense what I mean is that in past history (and I'm only talking modern, industrialized history... pre-industrialization history is pretty abhorrent as far as womens rights go) Women have been passed over for positions, jobs, opportunities etc... simply because they were women. Not ALWAYS... but often. Even if they were just as, if not more, qualified than their men counterparts.
/r/MensRights29/03/11 02:12 PM
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Why downvoted to oblivion? I don't understand? It was a perfectly logical response to a comment. And swashy is correct. While certain people go to extremes, feminism was never about anti-male. It was more about introducing the fact that women can (for all practical purposes) be just as socially productive in a traditional sense as men . Proving it, then fighting for equal "compensation". Whether it be monetary, or other. What comes along with that is the OTHER side of the coin... Men can be as s…
/r/MensRights27/03/11 10:03 AM
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People are people. Both sexes have a population of those that thrive on conflict. I'll never understand it. I get the feeling you won't either.... Upvote for you.
/r/MensRights27/03/11 09:45 AM
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Phone locks... Facebook changes... etc... Then tell her to gtfo... Oh yeah... this should be in /r/relationships or /r/advice
/r/MensRights26/03/11 11:29 PM
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Condoms "Playa" Number one.. you are an idiot and I'm ashamed of you for being, "a Man" in my world. Dwonvote away people... but two weeks, he gets herpes... and she's pregnant... that's not a "Man". that's a little boy and a little girl propogating the insanity and being completely fucking irresponsible... and aside from this little bit.. I'll have no part in it. And it sounds like that child has a ride to go through in his life. Fucking assholes... fuck you... Fuck her... You're so goddamn con…
/r/MensRights05/03/11 10:56 PM
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Does that include all other assholes who act in this manner? While this may be posted as a "Black vs. White", the ridiculousness is that it's an idiot who was probably raised by other idiots who taught this particular idiot that behavior like this is ok in society. So when you say, ahem... animals... in this context, it comes across to to me that you mean, "Black people acting like this"... which in my experience is just a more pleasant way of say, "Niggers". I mean dude... Adjust your way of th…
/r/MensRights09/01/11 04:23 PM
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Or the judge, your lawyer AND her lawyer have to be in the same room as the mother while shes smoking crack..... And ONLY if the child is present during said crack fest. I think that MIGHT get the father custody in some states.. It's still a coin flip though. And, and even if the father does get custody..... he'll most likely have to pay support to the mother for her crack habit. I was a stay at home dad for 2+ years... the judge wouldn't even consider custody of them to me because I have a peni…
/r/MensRights07/01/11 04:48 PM
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the best rule of thumb I've come to consider is, the more processed it is... the less you want to give it to your kids. Make some crazy fruit salads with your toddler... he'll love getting his hands in there, squeezing, tossing and mixing... great fun for kids... tasty too. Little things like that is what get's kids eating healthy and continuing to eat healthy. good luck OP. You are doing it right.
/r/MensRights01/01/11 06:43 PM
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Being a daddy, but not a nutritionist, I am extremely proud to say that my kids, ages 7, 11 and 13, do NOT like McDonalds! that's not saying they don't like burgers and fries... but I've been lucky at acclimating them to properly handled and cooked food. So instead of McDonalds, we go to the local burger joint... or we make our own burgers and fries at home.. and that's always fun. Pizza! a true treat... even better when it's, "Make your own pizza!" night. I'll make up a few personal sized dough…
/r/MensRights01/01/11 06:38 PM
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Would you please define, "Proper baby food"? I'm curious..... Because this one is a toddler. Cheese and mustard sandwiches, fruit and a small handful of chips is a proper lunch as far as I'm concerned. Healthy components, and some treat like chips. all kids love chips. Small edit: As the bio dad you need to get some legal things in place, to limit the amount of harm she can do to you and your kid. She might accept $x now. What happens tomorrow when she decides she needs three or four times $x? T…
/r/MensRights01/01/11 06:29 PM
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I wouldn't sweat it man. all three of my kids are used to cheese, crackers, fruit and occasionally chips for lunch. all of em love the "Lunchable" style lunches. so I make em a big ol shared plate of munchies. and there really is no difference between a handful or two of shredded cheese and those cheese sticks they sell. And dammit... Doritos are tasty at any age. Moderation though.
/r/MensRights01/01/11 06:25 PM
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Hey jackhole.... Kids at that age can't exactly tell you whats wrong. they only know somethings wrong and it sucks. Contrary to popular belief, we parents are not telepathic. Nor is there a service manual for toddlers. We do the best we can, and sometimes the best we can is late night comforting of a child who is not feeling good at all. and it sucks to be the parent KNOWING that something is wrong, but you cannot make it go away... all you can do is give love and comfort. OP did just that, and …
/r/MensRights01/01/11 06:20 PM
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If I had to make a guess.... Little toddler got into a bottle of garlic pills. They probably tasted okay to him. but I bet they gave him one helluva tummy ache later on. You, sir, have an odd situation on your hands. Tread carefully.
/r/MensRights01/01/11 06:16 PM
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I'm waiting for the day. I got snipped after my daughter reached second trimester. divorced 3 years later. I don't tell any of my dates I'm fixed. My friends know.... to date, I have yet to get the "I'm pregnant" talk. dammit! I mean, it's a good thing... completely.. and truly hope I never hear it... but hilarity will ensue if I do.
/r/MensRights01/01/11 06:11 PM
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Not if they have a, "Who's-making-the-sandwiches" rotation and the Men are exempt. I think that would be about as equal as what is being portrayed. amiright?
/r/MensRights17/12/10 05:35 PM
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No, I don't keep people out of my house, nor car... And yes... I do have locks... for when I'm not in my house, or using my car. Because it's still MY shit. I freely invite people over for food, drinks, conversation, bad movie... etc... Unless I get a bad vibe from you... then no.. you are not invited. But then again, I'm not paranoid, I trust my instincts with people, I know how to protect myself and I am not afraid to tell someone "no". Having said that, if that is what you do... that's what y…
/r/MensRights31/10/10 07:14 PM
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This is a ludicrously paranoid view of people. On the whole, humans are a good species whose inherent instincts are to socialize and help those around them. In the process gaining something for themselves. You are basically saying, "Don't do that because .5% of people are crazy/dangerous" Be discerning about whom you let stay in your house without a doubt. But to live by your terms is just ridiculous to me.
/r/MensRights31/10/10 06:47 PM
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If it's simply because they are black... yeah... that's kind of fucked. Assholes come in all colors. Other than that..... it's completely fair to be pretty careful about whom you let couchsurf. You are fine.....
/r/MensRights31/10/10 06:39 PM
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Why is there even debate on whether or not to prosecute? It's on film, blatant abuse... Arrest, charge, convict. Fucking people..... My ex wife punched me in the face for no reason.... I called cops, she continued to attack.... I restrained her on the ground until police showed up..... And got a fucking gun in my face... arrested and charged. Thanks be to witnesses..... She was then arrested and charged. I still got stuck with a county disturbing the peace.... she got hit with a domestic battery…
/r/MensRights23/10/10 05:08 PM
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Agreed, This should not have been posted here. While your intentions are very noble, there are formats for that. And with the wave of "HALP!! PLEASE DONATE!!" posts, I start to skim over these. I've donated to a couple posts from here, and regularly go out of my way to help individuals, "Just because". They are getting a bit ridiculous. While I have empathy for the child in question and her family, there are many thousands of seven year olds dying of one thing or another.
/r/MensRights09/10/10 04:46 PM
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hmmm.... interesting.
/r/MensRights08/09/10 01:15 AM
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Precious? Or precocious? Either way... I don't think that's what you mean. Pretentious maybe? Its the difference between English and American English. Or, as a few of my buddies across the pond say, "Proper English".
/r/MensRights07/09/10 02:02 PM
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