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CMVAGROCRAG004/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:35 PM
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In short someone wrote a post that “it’s as simple as have a nice friendly talk about fun things with a girl, and if she’s enjoying it simply say let’s grab a bottle of wine and head to my place, what do you say?” Nothing fancy but pretty effective
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:55 PM
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Well would you put it like that seems like a dumb question lol
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:36 PM
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Marriage is crazy when you think about it...it’s a 1000% chance people change and grow over time. So how you can confidently choose the right person to grow that same as you is basically like predicting the future, blows my mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:05 PM
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needed that thanks
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:14 PM
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I think women WANT the happy medium. But when the option is guy who treats me like I’m disposable or guy who treats me like he needs me. 10/10 they’ll go with non clingy guy who treats them like crap as ironically he’s less threatening and won’t become a stalker
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:26 PM
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The irony is once you pass the courtship stage with flying colors and it become a LTR then that best behavior goes away and the bickering, saying shit that would have gotten you ghosted at first gets said, etc yet now you’re “in it” so both parties can be less perfect it’s kinda crazy lol I will say their are the rare LTR where things just keep getting better and maintain at that level, but most develop problems over time like “you were so great when we first met, what happened”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:57 AM
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Oh I’m wise enough to know chad treatment is reserved for rich, famous, pro athletes, rockstars, I’m a long way from that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:24 PM
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Well the should save a lot more Time and heartbreak lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:52 PM
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Lol believe it or not I get my fair share...this is just an overall let’s all take a step back and look at this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:51 PM
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Yeah but the guy who’s is perfect with no red flags there is a MUCH higher chance that guy studied women, dated for a while, and is just gaming you. So the women thinks FINALLY a real man with no red flags and now I’m swooning. When in reality you’re getting played and he’s gunna keep his perfect actions up long enough to sleep with you and then when you want more he’ll hurt you. There is no way in hell a genuine good guy doesn’t exhibit red flags In which case you’d move on to the “better” “hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:38 PM
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Good lord man! Yeah this is an extreme example but seriously ive been on dates we went from kissing all night to when she got home saying”I didn’t like that joke you made” I’m done ghosted forever. So insane lol the joke was just about how men are expected to pay for dinner and how’s its 2022 time for change lol I still paid of course as I was joking. Eggshells out there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:08 PM
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This exemplifies the root of my post lol thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:59 PM
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A what’s a needy vibe tell me I need to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:54 PM
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My point is showing your potential can take time...but time that you don’t want to waste on a stranger..so you’ll never give the time to see the potential
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:15 PM
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Right the attraction is based on a photo, yet the text game has to be perfect lol makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:13 PM
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But initial butter fly’s and spark goes sideways quick when you let the blind you and he’s a player...guess it was a fun experience I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:12 PM
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See this is what we need more of lol give it time look for the redeeming stuff not his dummy texts. Love whoa congrats haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:11 PM
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I mean that’s the byproduct problem of women not being patient. Now all they get are the guys who studied game and know how to not say the wrong thing and then they get played. Seems obvious to me but they don’t seem to care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:08 PM
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That’s the point “barely know” it takes time to get to know someone so that’s a paradox. “I won’t get to know him because I don’t know him” don’t you see the problem with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:03 PM
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Great advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:36 PM
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I like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:34 PM
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Because the guy that “gets you” could likely be just a charming handsome man who has figured out women and how to make you feel that way. The. You get used and hurt. The guy who stumbles along the way is genuine by evidence that he’s not being perfect and saying/doing all the things you’re hoping to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:33 PM
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Because people can take time to warm up...that click might just be a trap. Idk why women value that first spark sooo much. Yeah it makes for a good love story if it works out) but realistically people are nervous when they meet strangers and take time to feel comfortable so that “spark” that isn’t there right away has nothing to do if that is a great person for you in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:30 PM
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I know she has that right. My point is those kind a women who turn down men for any silly reason should re-evaluate that part because a silly reason is not even on the radar if that man is a really a great guy for her. Basically it’s axing guys too soon and they might be hurting themselves more than they think with the petty stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:28 PM
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Yeah women are honestly looking for red flags to find and so if ANYthing other than perfect (which doesn’t exist happens) you’re done. They need to be looking for all the GOOD qualities he has and red flags need to be more severe like abuse, drug addiction, etc Not he ordered “2 cokes with dinner” he just HATE all things healthy red flag alert!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:08 PM
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I don’t disagree with that. I’m just talking more about the initial stuff. First conversations...a date or 2. Women be out here thinking a 15 minute text exchange and one date is enough they need to say man this guy wasn’t a perfect James Bond. Nope I’m out. When there are WAY more reasons he could have been nervous, could have been a bad texter, etc but you won’t know if he’s actually an awesome partner because he said one wrong thing at dinner...the ironic part is when couples to go long terms…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:00 PM
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Point is that’s the goal but a good first impression may be a bad one to someone else. So I’d argue take a little more time than a first impression if you want to really see who they are . First impressions are way more deceiving than taking time and let someone make so goofs until they become more comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:43 PM
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Lol but the guys that are smooth and can attract women typically hurt them along the way...so id argue you waste more time getting used by the playboys than if you just spent a few months being patient with the genuine guys and if still no good after that ok you actually tried, but this send one wrong text the first week talking ghost forever is so counter intuitive to getting what most say they want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:39 PM
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I will say for all the initiation and work the guy is expect to do quite flawlessly at first. I do find it quite lame that women don’t leave more room for guys who make some goofy mistakes here or there...we get nervous too. We are infallible. Trust me ladies if the shoe was on the other foot it would not be so easy to get all the things right you expect us too out the gate... Double text gone, text too long gone, don’t text enough gone, said something off the wall gone, didn’t make a move gone,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:27 PM
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Really? I would think it’s harder to convince your main girl you can keep sleeping with side chicks? At some point wouldn’t she say that’s enough? What makes the main chicks put up with that for any extended timeframe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:53 PM
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Well I need to find a way to get famous quick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:52 PM
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Thanks for the insight! That makes sense. It’s mind blowing to me if you’re a high enough status guy you can have the wife you love and the permission to have side chicks whenever...geesh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:12 PM
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Do the guys you work with that have the crazy options actually take action and take advantage? Or are they like a hot chick...so easy and so many options it’s not even a big deal so they do other things? Lol curious since it seems rare to be or actually know a guy with the same options as a really attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:59 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:53 PM
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This is a great point, everyone now knows what’s good to bad to great treatment. Back in the day someone might have been treated mediocre, but didn’t know any better thinking “oh wow I met such a catch”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:52 PM
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Sorry you had bad experiences, but this is a slippery slope. Now if a genuine guy does want to treat you right comes along you’ll be inclined to be looking for the first sign of a mistake or imperfection to write him off as “all me are the same” mentality can be a trap. Imo you have to keep trying and not give up hope because all it takes is the one special someone to change your entire view.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:49 PM
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Although not a complete deal-breaker it’s also not exactly a plus or turn on lol I’ve missed out on a few really attractive girls due to this. On the other hand I figure if you meet a girl who believes in you now, then when you do make it she deserves all the shared success for sticking with you through the lows on the way up.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:59 PM
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This. Doing what’s best for your future now is sooo much more important than improving your short-term dating odds. In fact I could argue if you meet a girl now, then when you do make it she deserves it since she believed in you when you didn’t have it all
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:53 PM
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I think you fail to realize when you meet the one or someone you cannot live without and the feeling is mutual games won’t matter anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:17 PM
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I don’t think you HAVE to reserve your emotions if you meet the right women, but I will say if you are the rock and find other people like friends or family to vent to it does make you far more attractive to your Partner or women in general as you can be that solid man in their life and hold it down for them as women by nature in general are far more emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:44 PM
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