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| 12 | Are men the most disposable sex ?But don’t you worry: if she doesn’t ask for help and you respect that, you’ll still be shit on! I mean, does she have to tell you everything?! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/26 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Jérémy Doku returns home for the birth of his sonIt is kinda gross. And in the grand scheme of things, that don’t matter 🙂 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/26 09:11 PM |
| 16 | Jérémy Doku returns home for the birth of his sonHis team, though … seems like those men supported his choice to go. Unsurprisingly, I might add. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/26 09:10 PM |
| 11 | "The war in Ukraine has become even deadlier for women and girls."Horrible, isn’t it? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/26 01:14 AM |
| 53 | "The war in Ukraine has become even deadlier for women and girls.""Women have always been the primary victims of war," didn't you know? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/26 04:57 PM |
| 32 | 'Men Need Just as Much Protection': Shania Twain Says She Is Not a FeministGiven how rare it is to get even that these days, I’ll take it and say “Thank you.” | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/26 10:33 AM |
| 2 | How come the "patriarchy" harms men but white supremacy doesn't harm white people or heteronormativity doesn't harm straight people?Did I say I agree with that? Don’t put words in my mouth. You can read, so read what I wrote. That’s what I meant to say. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 09:18 PM |
| 13 | How come the "patriarchy" harms men but white supremacy doesn't harm white people or heteronormativity doesn't harm straight people?however that’s a highly niche and novel branch of feminism Still feminism, though, no? Pretty near every mainstream idea began on the fringe. Feminism has never and will never be all women good and all men bad. Again, you're continuing with the appeal to purity. And yet there exists: Andrea Dworkin Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, Duluth MN the good - albeit nameless - feminists who made bomb threats against Erin Pizzey Charles M. Blow female separatism Valerie Solanas If I may borrow from a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/26 02:47 PM |
| 19 | How come the "patriarchy" harms men but white supremacy doesn't harm white people or heteronormativity doesn't harm straight people?True feminists don’t think all women are good/innocent beings … No True Scotsman fallacy | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/26 10:38 AM |
| 19 | How come the "patriarchy" harms men but white supremacy doesn't harm white people or heteronormativity doesn't harm straight people?No true feminist … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/26 10:23 AM |
| 9 | Why is SA and rape not so traumatizing for men as it is women?We are conditioned not to see ourselves as victims because women's victimhood is treated as what actually matters, not because men aren't allowed to be weak. Eh … As usual, the feminists have taken a truth and bent it into a lie. But there is truth there. You are right that women’s victimhood is treated as what actually matters. But many men - particularly men who’ve been victimized - do have an aversion to being seen as weak. Weak-seeming people, after all, are more likely to be targeted. They … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/26 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Why is SA and rape not so traumatizing for men as it is women?Why do you guys think this response is so much different from men than women? Why should we do anything which would lead us to ask for help, when we are so often told that not only do we not deserve it, but that what little help is available is not for us? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/26 03:30 PM |
| 5 | A genuine concern about the idea of a patriarchySo your suggestion is that the historical under-reporting of male sexual assaults, and specifically the fact that this under-reporting pre-dates the rise of feminism, is evidence of the existence of a patriarchy. Your reasoning - which I disagree with - is that it must have been men suppressing reports of male victimization in order for men, as a monolith, to not appear weak. Do you understand that sexual assault of women was also under-reported prior to the rise of feminism? And by "under-repor… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 02:10 PM |
| 11 | Does this Women’s Aid statement come across as dismissive of male victims, or am I reading too much into it?fun fact, about half of all hetero IPV cases feature bilateral violence. That’s why they keep the goal posts on wheels! When you point out to them how much ipv is bilateral, they will immediately shift in one of two ways: “The male is the aggressor; the woman’s violence was self-defense” and/or “The male’s violence is more likely to injure; the woman’s violence is not actually a threat.” Neither of which stand up to scrutiny either, of course, but that’s not the point. It creates another set of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/04/26 01:54 PM |
| 17 | Dear feminist guests: mainstream feminism is a hate group - If you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringeI honestly stand by feminist goals such as equality. I, too, stand by goals such as equality. But I would not characterize those goals as “feminist.” Most feminists today don’t even stand by gender equality as a goal at all. At best, they pay lip service to the concept. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/04/26 10:22 PM |
| 24 | Dear feminist guests: mainstream feminism is a hate group - If you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringeYou don’t even believe in feminism I don’t know about that. Her behaviour sure is consistent with a lot of feminists’. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/04/26 10:09 PM |
| 19 | Dear feminist guests: mainstream feminism is a hate group - If you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringeThere are a lot of subs I find icky. So I don’t participate in those subs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/04/26 09:05 PM |
| 9 | Feminist student organisation made SoCal gym inclusive - by banishing men - so that "women and non-binary students can exercise with a sense of ease"It's one, 800 square meter, 32 person facility, for one hour a day, one day a week. And? Try taking that same postage stamp facility and, for one hour of one day in a week make it make only. You know as well as I do that these same feminist activists would have a colossal shit-fit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/26 12:02 AM |
| 32 | How might you respond to a post from a friend who said "we need to teach boys not to rape?" SeriousBegin from the understanding that, to her, you are already the bad guy. Maybe sexist, maybe not; definitely a threat, though. She also does not seem like someone with whom you are especially close. Are you really that worried what she will think of you if you answer her? Do feminists actually want men to die or something? I don't think so. But I'm also not convinced that they particularly want men to live, either. It feels indifferent to me. But getting back to teaching people not to do criminal… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/26 02:57 PM |
| 17 | The Male Abortion: The Putative Father 's Right to Terminate His Interests In and Obligations to the Unborn ChildWomen don't have the right to a financial abortion. That’s the lie, right there. Once that baby is born, the woman absolutely does have the right to abandon responsibility for him/her. She can put the baby first adoption at birth or take advantage of safe haven laws. If she identifies the father, he has no such rights. In the event that he does want to raise that child, by the way, his very few rights to prevent that baby being given away are easily circumvented. There is a significant asymmetry… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/26 11:09 AM |
| 3 | American Nurses Association Recognizes Men’s Health as a Nursing SpecialtyI know. I wasn’t being sarcastic exactly, but not really being serious either. Kind of exasperated wishful thinking. Like “Can you just not?!” kind of feeling. If that makes any sort of sense. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 01:54 AM |
| 4 | American Nurses Association Recognizes Men’s Health as a Nursing SpecialtyCan we not just ignore them? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/26 05:27 PM |
| 24 | Time Magazine 2016: "6 Feminist Myths That Will Not Die"—Ten Years Later: Still Not DeadThe real war has always been the class war. The rich love feminism because it divides the working class and distracts us from the fact that they are fucking us all. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/26 05:10 PM |
| 69 | «The Male loneliness epidemic is a good thing because it means women's freedom» -Elizabeth Lemay, on francophone channel of the Federal state-sponsored radio-station.Feminists love to shout that “feminism is equality.” Some of them, I think, mean it: they feel (rightly or wrongly) that women have suffered greatly, and they genuinely wish for men to suffer equally. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/26 11:41 AM |
| 25 | «The Male loneliness epidemic is a good thing because it means women's freedom» -Elizabeth Lemay, on francophone channel of the Federal state-sponsored radio-station.It is. But feminists - shockingly - twisted the meaning in order to center women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/26 11:30 AM |
| 11 | How I avoid spiraling into shame when hearing feminist critiques of menThis is a repost. It is. But OP on this thread is the guy who wrote the article that was linked to, which could create an opportunity for interesting discussion. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/26 04:28 PM |
| 32 | Feminist's complete lack of empathy for intactivism is very offputting.No true Scotsman? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 03:14 AM |
| 12 | Has misandry ruined the left?I was referencing a line from George Orwell’s book Animal Farm: “All animals are equal but some animals are more equal than others.” Highlighting the hypocrisy of regimes which proclaim equality whilst bestowing special treatment upon a favoured elite. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/26 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Has misandry ruined the left?I disagree. And I hope I'm wrong. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/26 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Has misandry ruined the left?Notice that I didn't say they are there - I said they are tending rapidly in that direction. Give them time. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/26 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Has misandry ruined the left?The US is speeding toward authoritarianism and anti-speechism, and one could be forgiven for thinking that the [american government] current administration in america would prefer to make the US an ethno-theorcratic state. It seems to me that the three governments' values [seem to me to] align rather well. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/26 12:12 AM |
| 20 | Has misandry ruined the left?I'm observing that many on the left do not appear to distinguish well between Israel and Jews, or among Israelis. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/26 07:31 PM |
| 43 | Has misandry ruined the left?I’ve always understood right and left to be a political-economic distinction. Capitalism and oligarchy vs socialism, Marxism, and communism. I could be wrong about that - I’m an electrician, not a political scientist - but it’s how I understand the matter. Because of that, despite my increasing lack of patience with modern feminism, I still consider myself a leftist. I’m a socialist: where else on the political-economic spectrum should I position myself? It’s convenient for feminists to align th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/26 06:30 PM |
| 20 | Has misandry ruined the left?To be fair, hating Jews also seems to be fashionable on the left these days. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/26 06:19 PM |
| 46 | Has misandry ruined the left?plus the hypocrisy of saying everyone cares about all people who struggle but some people deserve I caused the friend of a friend to completely crash out over that. After she’d spouted a bunch of misandrist shit at me, followed by the patented “Feminism is equality” line, I called her an adherent of “Animal Farm feminism.” The ensuing meltdown was fascinating to watch. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/26 06:17 PM |
| 29 | Resources on men's issuesJust remember: “Feminism Is Equality”™ | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/25 09:34 PM |
| 12 | White Women’s Abuse of Black Men (and Women) in Slavery Is OverlookedThat user flair does not suggest good faith. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 10:42 PM |
| 7 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"I get the feeling someone got lost on her way to twox. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 12 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"I don't have to explain it. Your own source explained it for me: The earnings comparisons in this report are on a broad level and do not control for many factors that can be important in explaining earnings differences, such as job skills and responsibilities, work experience, and specialization. You have to read the text. If you only look at the pretty charts, you'll miss valuable information. ETA they actually said it even more clearly elsewhere in the report: For example, the overall ratio of… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 01:14 PM |
| 12 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"You're really sticking to your story, aren't you? I notice that you grabbed on to the rhetorical illustration I used (without ever suggesting was quoting you because it wasn't) but chose not to engage with the very next sentence. You position women in the passive role and men in the active one. You won't engage with that assertion. I wonder why? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 12:41 PM |
| 11 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"You ask me for evidence and I provide it You provided a cherry-picking of US Bureau of Labor Statistics numbers. It's data, sure, but as "evidence" to support your assertions it's pretty shit. It "controls" for full time vs part time in a way that distorts the effect of working part-time. It does not control for occupation at all. Doesn't control for hours worked. Doesn't control for leave taken or the effects of extended career breaks. Doesn't take into account non-salary benefits which are oft… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 12:37 PM |
| 17 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"Noticing that, for example, "did" and "was done" do not mean the same thing is not intellectually dishonest. Noticing when you position women passively and men actively is, similarly, not intellectually dishonest: it's just being literate enough to recognize what you're doing. But I suppose if you don't have an intelligent argument to make, trying to flip the script is the easiest next step for you to take. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 12:26 PM |
| 15 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"Nope I am not saying that. You are, though. Not as directly as I did, but the idea is there and can be seen in the words you choose. I'm saying women only affect themselves negatively and men affect themselves and others negatively. That’s fucking rich. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 11:47 AM |
| 31 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"Even as you try to argue with me, you're describing women as acted-upon and men as actors. It's the same shit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 03:46 AM |
| 45 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"“Internalized misogyny” and “toxic masculinity” is just the usual framing of women as having no agency and men as having complete agency. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/25 11:44 PM |
| 20 | Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schoolsAnd what I'm suggesting is that it's a reflection of the current narrative: men's sexuality is inherently dangerous, inevitably predatory, and needing suppressed, whereas women's sexuality is natural, liberating and a thing to be celebrated. Or, to distill it to the essence, "masculine bad, feminine good." I am deliberately not addressing the legitimate concerns about the treatment of actors in the pornography industry for several reasons. First, I think that condemning the industry because of b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/25 01:57 PM |
| 33 | Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schoolsWhat I don't understand is why there's this mainstream opinion that visual porn = bad and text-based porn = good. Who prefers visual porn? Who prefers text-based porn? Naw. It can’t possibly be that simple /s | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/25 01:09 PM |
| 5 | bit off topic, but how do you guys deal with socializing?how do you guys deal with socializing? Poorly. I’m super introverted and awkward af. I deal poorly with socializing. If people display values too incompatible with mine - assuming I even get to know them well enough to learn of their values in the first place - I just stop spending time with them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/12/25 11:47 PM |
| 9 | Does anyone else have a problem with the lack of epstimological rigor of feminist theory and criminology?Instant ban. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/11/25 03:03 PM |
| 13 | A man needs to emotionally support his female partner; but reciprocation is mankeeping, which is oppressive and misogynistic.Incels and red pill types also wear pants. Should I rush out to buy myself a bunch of skirts? Or could we exercise a bit of critical thinking as we read, and spend less time finding new terms for the language police to get uptight about? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/25 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Women surveyed in 2019 were 5x more likely to believe that men enjoyed being raped compared with women in 1984What you've spelled out there looks less to me like "the Amazon is being less deforested right now" and more like "now they're clearcutting in the south rather than in the west (and the rate of deforestation may or may not be increasing)." Am I being negative? Maybe. But look at what you wrote as your example of "progressive" thinking: women can force men into sex against their will, but the men is getting sex, therefore he will enjoy anyway Do you think women believe that an involuntarily celib… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/25 07:03 PM |
| 13 | Women surveyed in 2019 were 5x more likely to believe that men enjoyed being raped compared with women in 1984If that’s what progress looks like … I mean … I thought progress meant that the situation gets better. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/25 06:03 PM |
| 81 | Women surveyed in 2019 were 5x more likely to believe that men enjoyed being raped compared with women in 1984Only among the women. The men are becoming more understanding. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/25 05:58 PM |
| 17 | Mgtow and PatriarchyIMO “patriarchy” has no place in serious discourse. We can leave it for the feminists. That’s why independence matters. In the long run, it helps men live better lives That thought is complete at that point. So, is MGTOW the answer to patriarchy? At the very least, it asks men to step outside those definitions and find value in themselves — not in the roles society assigns to them. It’s a great goal but I don’t think MGTOW is the way to get there. MGTOW communities are some of the most woman-obs… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/09/25 01:51 AM |
| 19 | Men face a social conundrum. You have to prove that you're safe and if you are the safe fun loving type of guy You're kind of not taken seriously.It is. That said, I looked to MGTOW for community at one point in my life. What I found were a group of men who seemed to me to be totally fixated on women, just with bitterness rather than with lust. I had wanted to go my own way; I did not want to go that way with my eyes fixed firmly backward, resenting what I’d left behind. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/25 11:02 AM |
| 85 | Keep in mind that this is the only reason that men and men's rights are relevant again.Mental health services in general have seemed to now care about men and boys probably because of the 2024 election. The view is that the 2024 election was terrible for women. If they only “care about men” in reaction to something which was bad for women … is it really men they care about? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/25 11:16 AM |
| 43 | Movember rips off men's health dollarsI’ve never been a Movember supporter. I prefer to support causes directly. But this … it disgusts me that they are misrepresenting where the money is going. I’ll be yelling about this all through November. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/08/25 08:06 PM |
| 6 | Is there anything that makes you feel you have a male/masculine identity?I haven’t, though. It wasn’t a general population question or a hypothetical; it was what makes me feel like, and in the condition in which I currently exist, it’s that simple. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything that makes you feel you have a male/masculine identity?My wife loves Motörhead. I love to play with kids. Yet despite the fact that metal is usually coded masculine and enjoying interaction with children is coded feminine, she is the woman here and I am the man. The things you’ve noted are irrelevant. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/25 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything that makes you feel you have a male/masculine identity?I’m not confusing anything; I’m addressing OP’s statements from his post. I know the difference between male and masculine. That’s why I dropped “masculine” from the quote before saying it’s my genitals that make me feel male. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/25 03:16 PM |
| 13 | Is there anything that makes you feel you have a male/masculine identity?Is there anything about you that makes you feel you have a male identity? Yeah. It’s between my legs. All the stuff you itemized is really just preferences. Listening to Motörhead or playing with children are not things only one particular sex is allowed to enjoy. Women and men have equal access to all of the preferences. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/25 02:44 PM |
| 10 | Seen in a restaurant this evening (see comments for details)Ironic, given the state of some women’s toilets I’ve had to clean. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/06/25 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Why men don't follow feminism (as a male feminist)To be a "dictionary definition feminist" one only need to support equality of rights for women. The problem is that while the dictionary is static, language itself is a living and changing thing. That word - feminist - has continued to evolve since the dictionary was written. The more time passes, the less feminists resemble that outdated dictionary definition. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/06/25 01:48 PM |
| 22 | If women ran the world, there would be no wars. A comforting myth or a subtle essentialist trap?It seems like you're devaluing women's independent thought here. They're just looking for a man to blame, that's all. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/06/25 12:56 PM |
| 3 | "Murdered Indigenous Women And Girls?!"They do and they don’t. The issues of physical isolation are the same on rez and in far-rural communities. But there’s a whole catalogue of issues which are unique to the rez: - chronic underfunding of social services - chronic underfunding of health care services - chronic underfunding of schools - generational trauma - incredible rates of substance abuse - poor experiences with police leading to broken trust between police and community - compassion fatigue and racism among police and service … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/25 07:22 PM |
| 4 | "Murdered Indigenous Women And Girls?!"Not gonna argue with anything you’ve said. I stress “yes and” because … well … there is a danger, if we do what comes naturally, of simply exchanging one set of injustices with another. That’s been done before. I think we can be better than that if we try. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/25 07:10 PM |
| 7 | "Murdered Indigenous Women And Girls?!"Are you Canadian? There’s a lot more at play in this issue than just male vs female. This is absolutely a case of “yes **and*.” We do need to look at missing and murdered Indigenous women and girls here. We also need to look at missing and murdered Indigenous men and boys, but it needs to be done separately. The societal and systemic factors driving the problem among women are vastly different than those at work among men, and in both cases there are unique factors affecting Indigenous people (p… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/25 03:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about this post on a male advocacy subreddit?It's not hidden: they are very transparent about their agenda. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/25 03:42 PM |
| 8 | How do you feel about this post on a male advocacy subreddit?MensLib ... does address some issues that men face. Mostly by accident, it seems. And even then, only when they can see a way to blame men themselves for those issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/25 12:18 PM |
| 30 | How do you feel about this post on a male advocacy subreddit?You are describing menslib as a male advocacy sub? Interesting. Or are you asking how we feel about the post on this (male advocacy) subreddit? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/25 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Good Reading for Men's Rights 1So before hearing the person out, your first instinct is to check if they are in the club. Well, you're consistent. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Good Reading for Men's Rights 1Focusing on the author is nothing more than a lazy way of judging the work without engaging with it. It leaves you susceptible to propaganda from authors you like, while encouraging you to potentially enlightening work from authors you don't like. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Good Reading for Men's Rights 1If you're hung up on looking at the author, you're doing it wrong. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Good Reading for Men's Rights 1If you think knowledge is only valuable when it's accompanied by a prohibitively expensive set of initials, you should probably stop cosplaying as "left." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 03:25 PM |
| 0 | Good Reading for Men's Rights 1Is English a second or third language for you? In how many languages are you fluent? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Good Reading for Men's Rights 1the author of The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Woman lists tour guide experience and a museum membership, but actual educational qualifications. So … it’s your position that the author’s ideas are invalid because she lacks letters after her name? Post-secondary education is the playground of the wealthy: are the thoughts of the poor irrelevant because they did not have the forethought to acquire rich parents? Elitist nonsense … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 01:39 PM |
| 38 | Lost boys report: Young men are in crisis due to fatherlessnessas with all attempts to help men and boys, it’s always prefaced with apologies to feminists and women who are outraged that somebody dares focus on issues affecting anyone other than women. And still, we can be thankful that the organization is led by a woman: her apologies are more likely to be heard. I’m not convinced that a similar initiative, led by a man, would have even get the initial start-up grant. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/25 03:00 PM |
| -2 | Feminism is a spectrum*Yawns in profound indifference. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/25 10:10 PM |
| 52 | Feminism is a spectrumMisandrists aren’t denying feminists rights, so they have no reason to expel them. These are the same people who expect men to expend their own social capital to stand up to people who aren’t denying men’s rights? Weird. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/25 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on Andrea Dworkin’s view of leftist men?I don’t even know if I was lied to. Maybe there were lies being told and I just didn’t encounter them. I was a feminist about 25 years ago. I feel like what has happened is that feminism now isn’t what it was then. It used to be sensible, something that felt like it was bringing good things; i’s become a thing I can’t support. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | A longer paternity leave after the birth of a child can improve the co-parenting relationship between moms and dads, a new study finds. When dads take more time off after the birth of their baby, moms relax unrealistically high standards for fathers’ parenting.There can always be an excuse. But I’ve also heard it said that your intentions don’t matter, that what matters is the harm your actions have caused. I’m pretty sure the people saying maternal gatekeeping is well-intentioned, and the people saying all that matters is the harm you’ve caused, are the very same people. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/03/25 07:31 PM |
| 4 | A longer paternity leave after the birth of a child can improve the co-parenting relationship between moms and dads, a new study finds. When dads take more time off after the birth of their baby, moms relax unrealistically high standards for fathers’ parenting.I’ve experienced it as a father! I never knew it had been studied, though; this is the first time I’ve seen it acknowledged. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/25 10:41 AM |
| 2 | A longer paternity leave after the birth of a child can improve the co-parenting relationship between moms and dads, a new study finds. When dads take more time off after the birth of their baby, moms relax unrealistically high standards for fathers’ parenting.Holy fuck! What a dumpster fire! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/25 01:23 AM |
| 35 | A longer paternity leave after the birth of a child can improve the co-parenting relationship between moms and dads, a new study finds. When dads take more time off after the birth of their baby, moms relax unrealistically high standards for fathers’ parenting.moms engaged in discouraging, or gateclosing behaviors Holy shit. Saying the quiet words out loud. Nice. Reading that makes me think of one of my cousins. He wanted so badly to be an involved father. Loved his kids to pieces. He tried to be there, right from their first day. But it seemed he couldn’t do anything right. He got shit for how he put diapers on, for how he held the bottle, how he burped the baby … the baby cried it was “what did you do to her?” and she’d take the baby away from him b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/25 07:10 AM |
| 6 | “this could help women and minorities” included in many unrelated grants requestsAll of the animals were equal, but some were more equal than others. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/02/25 01:37 AM |
| 26 | I talked to the DEI officers at work about men's issues - Part 2Well, I’ve gotta hand it to you: you have much more guts than me. There’s no way I’d have the stones to try what you’re doing. I like my job and I need my job; I’d be scared that the DEI officers would react from a vindictive spirit and I’d end up unemployed. I’m glad it’s going well for you. I’m relieved for you that their response was not punitive. I’m encouraged by their words - it sounds like they’re not being dismissive. I’ll be anxious to learn if they follow their nice words with action. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/25 05:29 PM |
| 6 | I know this has been asked several times but...Class first. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/25 10:20 PM |
| 6 | I talked to the DEI officers at work about men's issuesLikewise | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Are attitudes towards abused men this bad across reddit?I will, thanks. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/25 08:17 PM |
| -9 | Are attitudes towards abused men this bad across reddit?Opinions vary. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/25 01:38 AM |
| -10 | Are attitudes towards abused men this bad across reddit?Ok, you do know where you were, right? For buddy to make a post like that, in sub like that ... it's like he'd walked into the TD Garden in Boston decked out head to toe in Habs regalia. And you're genuinely perplexed as to why he's getting hostility. No, attitudes are not like that site-wide. But from one sub to the next, your mileage may vary. Like any other social setting, it's important to read the room. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/25 10:07 PM |
| 9 | AdviceI'm inclined to just defer to the concept of self-ID: if she says she's a feminist, then she's a feminist. I'm not going to start applying purity tests to adherents of an ideology I don't align with. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 10:11 PM |
| 12 | AdviceProper feminist theort really doesn’t though. Far be it from me to decide which is the True Scotsman. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 07:00 PM |
| 8 | For the feminist guests in the audience21 percent of all mothers were single mothers in 2023 Thank you! That’s the number that gets at the point. Don’t get me wrong - knowing how many kids are born “out of wedlock” is a useful measure. It’s good to know how close we are to being rid of this idea that a relationship needs the blessing of the state. I know I’m not the only one who does not want the government in my bedroom. But when we talk about the state of children, how many are with single parents is the informative measure. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 05:20 PM |
| 11 | For the feminist guests in the audience“Out of wedlock” specifically means parents aren’t Married, though, right? As in, didn’t say the magic words to a priest or a judge. That measure is misleading. There are a lot of dads like me out there: present and very involved with their children and doing a good job by them (trying to, anyway) but whose kids are “born out of wedlock” because mum and dad didn’t feel the need to ask “May I?” to the government before starting a family. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 04:21 PM |
| 15 | Are you Men’s Rights or Men’s Liberation?Feminism has no (singular) goal and no framework to unify its many goals; it has an array of goals, many of which are incompatible with others. It’s a big tent: there is room for people who want actual equality, people whose first priority is equal suffering, people who want equality in the way of Animal Farm (“All animals are equal but some are more equal than others”), white feminists, terfs, radfems, female separatists, and Valerie Solanas. My rejection does include philosophical grounds. Bec… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/12/24 10:39 PM |
| 51 | Are you Men’s Rights or Men’s Liberation?False dichotomy. Why do you suggest that one must be in one of those camps? It is entirely possible to be neither feminist nor mra. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/12/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | The pink taxGroceries and stuff like toilet rolls are not taxed where I am. Neither are adult diapers. Babies’ diapers are taxed, though, and so are menstrual products. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/11/24 01:05 AM |
| 66 | The pink taxI think that sometimes it could be real, sometimes it's a lot of horseshit, and sometimes it's a mix. Women's haircuts as an example of pink tax is something I'd most often consider to be a lot of horseshit. Yes, my wife pays about four or five times for a trip to the hairdresser than what I pay for a trip to the barber. She's also only there every three months whereas I'm in there every other week. And she's having them cut and style her long, coloured hair; I'm a clippers job with scissors at … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 01:20 PM |
| 5 | I father of 2, got called incel at work here is whySay hi to HR for us when they call you in. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/11/24 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?In the past we have referred to intimate partner violence as violence against women. That wording ignores the fact that sometimes it’s the woman inflicting violence on the man. That framing helped bring us the Duluth Model. Words matter. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 03:55 AM |
| 11 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?feminism again with different terms And ... ? Terms matter. We define our world, our relationships, and ourselves, by the language we use. Quick example: "violence against women," "domestic violence," and "intimate partner violence" are all terms for describing more or less the same thing. Some allow for a much more thorough understanding of the problem than others, though, some evoke less unhelpfully-emotional responses, and - crucially - some suggest different solutions than others. The words … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 25 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?I just want a place where guys can say "Feminists and feminism have failed men in multiple ways, but I think there are good ideas from them that we can use to change how society sees us and how we see ourselves." I don’t understand why the choice has to be between “feminism is good for men” and “feminism has failed men.” Why not simply “let’s talk about ways we can change how we see ourselves and how we move through society?” My problem with menslib, and this sub, and what you’re suggesting is t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 10:14 AM |
| 2 | What's the deal with r/menslib?What can I say? They are what they are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/24 01:53 AM |
| 12 | What's the deal with r/menslib?Well, to be fair, they’re pretty open about what they are. “We consider ourselves a pro-feminist community” is right there on their About page. It should not come as a surprise when they act that way. Some of their regulars are a pain in the ass, obviously just there to stir shit up. There’s one I’m pretty sure got lost on her way to r/twoxchromosomes. But every sub has trolls. Don’t feed them. Despite its failings, I still find it to be useful. Like with most subs (this one included) you have t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/24 12:12 AM |
| 9 | Several questions I have for this subThoughts on women as a whole? Humans not so different than men. What kind of answer were you expecting? Do you think about an all-male society or is that insane? I don’t think about it. Do you believe feminism has run its course? do you still believe some areas need it more than others? I don’t think about it. I believe many areas are unequal on one axis or another, in one direction or another. These are problems that needs fixing. Do you believe women have the right to choose? (I'm trying to av… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/24 06:26 AM |
| 17 | What did y'all do for men's mental health month?Oops. Sorry. Was I supposed to post the charitable donation tax receipts for your review and comment? Does someone need to approve the charities in question for it to count? What about my schedule of appointments with my therapist - should I have posted that, too, or would it depend on the substance of our discussion? What about time spent walking outside, or playing with my kids? Those things are great for my mental health but it never occurred to me that anybody else would find them interestin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/06/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | If you were a lawyer, what kind of clients would you represent as a way of advancing male advocacy?Nothing that comes out of Trump’s mouth surprises me. He’s very good at manipulating a crowd. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/24 02:33 PM |
| 1 | If you were a lawyer, what kind of clients would you represent as a way of advancing male advocacy?I’d have to look it up. I don’t keep current with what goes on in the US. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | If you were a lawyer, what kind of clients would you represent as a way of advancing male advocacy?I’m not familiar with that one, sorry. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/24 01:25 PM |
| 5 | If you were a lawyer, what kind of clients would you represent as a way of advancing male advocacy?The perfect job for my ideals would be policy and public interest type work, with interest in labour rights and consumer advocacy. Fits with my Marxist, class-first view of socialism. But I’m not OP. You didn’t say they don’t deserve a defense. You did make it clear how distasteful you find “them” to be. You did characterize OP as “sleazy” in the context of wanting to defend the accused, and you did argue that he should “think about [the victims’] stories” when he considers defending the accused… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/24 11:50 AM |
| 10 | If you were a lawyer, what kind of clients would you represent as a way of advancing male advocacy?In my relatively small country a man was convicted of raping and murdering the nine year old girl who lived next door to him. They put him in general population in one of the toughest prisons in the country. Nobody but his sleaze-bag lawyers gave a fuck. We’d prefer that convicted paedophiles were just shot; it’s a shame we outlawed the death penalty. There was only one little problem: when the technology for DNA testing improved and his sleaze-bag lawyers forced the government to re-test the sa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/24 10:40 AM |
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