AITAanon1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
46	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting.	SELF IMPROVEMENT	AITAanon1	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 05:49 PM

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20	Am I really being abused? He wouldn't "allow you" to continue college and was displeased when you tried to learn some French. Good lord, what year is this?!	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/20 09:49 PM
3	Stressed out in relationship Sounds similar to my husband. Feel free to message me.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/19 01:25 PM
0	1 in 4 female undergrads said they were sexually assaulted on campus. At USC, it's nearly 1 in 3 Lol I'm dying "the pusher will not be fucked with" do you often refer to yourself in third person? O'Doyle RULES 🤣 This place is like a treehouse of a bunch of 12 year old boys with a sign outside that says "No girls! They're stinky and have cooties!" Rape and sexual assault are very common, wtf are you talking about? "Throughout history"...just read the Bible and the Koran if you'd like examples of how women were treated, and still are in places. You are an assumed white man given all that I've…	/r/MGTOW	17/10/19 11:40 PM
0	1 in 4 female undergrads said they were sexually assaulted on campus. At USC, it's nearly 1 in 3 Spoken like a white man. You are clueless. You seem to ignore the plight of women worldwide and think it's just "basic biology" that their life purpose is just to get knocked up and stay home and not complain. We are expected to mother our husbands bc they never truly grow up. Stay home, pop babies out, shut up, and smile. Yeah that's not how it works. Believe it or not, we are highly intelligent creatures as well, with emotions, goals and dreams. Men have been holding us down since.... literall…	/r/MGTOW	17/10/19 04:44 PM
0	1 in 4 female undergrads said they were sexually assaulted on campus. At USC, it's nearly 1 in 3 I hope one day you can forgive whatever hurt the vagina-owning person obviously caused you, and you can heal, bc you and all of the men in here all have a lot of emotional baggage to feel this strongly about a whole group of people, most of which you've never met, and most of which don't fit the stereotypes that are presented here. I wish you well, honestly. It must be exhausting to carry around that much hostility.	/r/MGTOW	17/10/19 04:18 PM
0	1 in 4 female undergrads said they were sexually assaulted on campus. At USC, it's nearly 1 in 3 🤣 is this what triggered looks like? Of course the gene pool matters. This is why we don't do incest. Well, most of us don't. You probably fuck your sister but that's NOMB.	/r/MGTOW	17/10/19 11:22 AM
0	1 in 4 female undergrads said they were sexually assaulted on campus. At USC, it's nearly 1 in 3 You and all the incels here won't reproduce? That's fantastic news! Please keep your DNA out of the gene pool. You're doing evolution a favor.	/r/MGTOW	17/10/19 01:12 AM
-1	1 in 4 female undergrads said they were sexually assaulted on campus. At USC, it's nearly 1 in 3 News flash, even a husband can rape his wife and likely leave no "evidence" or damage. You're an imbecile. I hope you never have daughters.	/r/MGTOW	16/10/19 01:12 PM
-2	Gentleman, we take care of ourselves, we cook our own meals, we make our own lunches, we do our own laundry, and We work hard. We do it for ourselves. My hat is off to this community. Stay on your own way. "then I've never had kids, so what do I know". CLEARLY. Good god this is a ridiculous comment. You do realize that many SAHMs have had real jobs/careers before, yes? We know what that's like, and so if we've done that and still say being at home with small children is more exhausting and harder than anything we've done, maybe, just maybe it's true. I'm not even going to detail the why's of that or break apart your entire comment. Just know that all of the SAHMs I know, have degrees, had careers,…	/r/MGTOW	14/10/19 05:41 PM
-1	Gentleman, we take care of ourselves, we cook our own meals, we make our own lunches, we do our own laundry, and We work hard. We do it for ourselves. My hat is off to this community. Stay on your own way. "Newborns are easy." Hahaha says men who have never birthed a baby, been hit with PPD, nurse almost constantly for the first few months bc baby is colicky or baby just doesn't sleep more than 1-2 hours at a time (if you're lucky), leak out of their ripped open and sewn up vagina for 6-8 weeks after birth, and still be expected to manage the house and any other children. Sleep deprivation, physical pain and exhaustion, hormonal depression and anxiety, and lack of support bc family doesn't live ne…	/r/MGTOW	14/10/19 05:31 PM
6	Theory about “Man Flu” - Aka how resentment manifests Lol maybe bc some of us have partners who would'nt be able to handle the household, children, and day-to-day like we do and have to. We have to. They don't. That's the difference.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/09/19 11:47 PM
5	Woman offers a threesome with my husband and I. Why did you invite her into your home? She sounds like a mess and obnoxious. Multiple baby daddies, doesn't have custody, hitting on you and your husband online without even meeting you...I would have cut contact immediately, much less invite her over. You need to get a better friend gauge.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/19 03:46 PM
1	Scared of Pregnancy Body Changes So you're talking about being "as overweight as we want" and being "very overweight", and also implying that my BMI isn't healthy. BMI isn't a good standard to go by for everyone. I have never been told by any doctor that I'm overweight or need to lose weight. My measurements are 38-28-39. Before kids they were 36-28-38. I've got boobs, hips, and butt. Think Christina Hendricks but not as tall and slightly smaller measurements . I weight train with occasional (not as often as I'd like admittedly…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/19 01:42 PM
15	Having trouble respecting my husband. Any advice would be appreciated. I would leave. He's unlikely to change enough for you to be truly happy. Life is too short.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/19 10:59 PM
36	Scared of Pregnancy Body Changes 1) any man worth being with would love his woman even more for giving him children. 2) your body WILL change. It has to. It's creating another human, and that is the biggest change a human can go through, besides death. I've had two kids, and my body isn't what it used to be. And I'm okay with that. I work out but I also eat what I want. I weigh 145, and I'm 5'3. I weighed 140 before kids. I just look a bit different, mostly a weak core with stretch marks, but mostly I'm the same. 3) my vagina f…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/19 07:18 PM
4	How do I get more in touch with my femininity? Cross post / someone told me to try this sub. (FWIW I'm new to this sub and I don't know much about RPW.) I have a lot of your traits as well, except I have always been fairly sexual and I "look the part" as in long blonde hair, short, curvy hourglass figure, pretty. I think bc I look the part, I have always combated my looks with trying show that I have a brain by proving people wrong, arguing, not showing emotion, and focusing solely on logic and not intuition/feelings...these traits become obnoxious to others (like my husband, who is ver…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/19 01:24 PM
1	Do short girls have higher SMV? "Normal weight" is overrated. I've always been 125-145 at 5'2. I have an hourglass figure and lift weights, and have had no problem having male admirers. I'd look sick at 110 lbs.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/07/19 10:11 PM
1	Mommy issues I have most of your traits except: I have trouble respecting men, and ironically, I'm attracted to strong, masculine men only. All the rest fits, buuuuut I have daddy issues.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/19 06:58 PM
1	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. We have different sex drives. Men have easily 10x the testosterone women do. We have sex usually at least every other day, but frequently every day, and occasionally twice a day.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/19 05:54 PM
1	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. Thank you for your thoughtful reply and advice!	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/19 02:36 PM
2	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. Being a SAHM doesn't feel like a luxury, it feels like my best option at the moment. I've worked since I was 15, never not had a job, until motherhood, and this is the hardest thing I've ever done. My kids are amazing but drive me insane. I haven't gotten more than 3 hrs consecutive sleep (and currently only 2 hrs) in years...I'm so sleep deprived my brain barely works and holding a "real" job seems impossible.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/19 02:36 PM
1	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. I'll check it out, thanks	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/19 02:33 PM
1	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. I appreciate your honest review. I need to come to terms with my bullshit. I'm a product of my upbringing (as is everyone, including my husband, who blows up like he does probably because his dad did), and I need to sort myself out. I actually had an old fling tell me I hated men. I adamantly argued against that, of course I don't hate men. But looking back, I think he was onto something. I don't truly "hate men", but I've for sure got some daddy issues.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/19 02:32 PM
1	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. I say yes several times a week, sometimes twice a day. I have my limits.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/19 02:29 PM
1	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. I'm sure, which sucks (for him). I'm also bad at words of affirmation, so I probably don't do much to build him up either, but I try occasionally. I just don't want to come off as insincere.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 09:41 PM
8	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. How do you deal with resentment? I never saw myself not working, much less being a SAHM. It's sort of a necessity at this point in life, with little kids and the cost of daycare and moving every few years makes it hard to keep a career that pays well. I've found myself stuck in a marriage that's unstable, no financial means for myself, and unsure how to proceed, whether it's to become submissive, keep going to counseling without my husband, or leave. I feel like I can't leave, and I'm not sure I…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 09:37 PM
0	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. Private session. He would ask about my appointment, and I would tell him bits that I thought might give insight to our situation (the Dr. suggested he sounded controlling and paranoid), and he would get pissed that I spent my session talking about him and all the things he does wrong, and I should instead be working on myself.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 08:56 PM
0	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. I went alone to a lady with a PhD. Then we both went to a marriage counselor, a man. We have an appointment tommorow. He isn't coming unless I "convince him" to do otherwise.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 08:42 PM
2	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. He's mean when he explodes but otherwise he takes my feelings into consideration (but I on the other hand tend to nit pick him and correct/criticize him on the daily), he is a great dad, and tends to do all the work when we have sex. I think a lot of his "bad" really stems from my actions, which is a hard pull to swallow. I don't accept, however, take his response to me (by blowing up) is because of me, because ultimately he controls his behavior. He blames me for his blow ups, and I know I cont…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 07:07 PM
8	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. A lot of great insight here, thank you! I think you hit on a lot of things very accurately.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 06:37 PM
3	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. He thinks love languages are stupid and claimed to have tried it (mine is acts of service). In reality, he saw helping with the kids as speaking my language (it's nice when he does, but I see that as mandatory and not extra, he's their father), not helping with housework or cooking or making me coffee for a change. I spelled it out for him. He has made breakfast for us a couple times, but he didn't see an immediate complete change in me (aka I wasn't sucking his dick at my first chance after he …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 06:34 PM
3	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. Hi, thanks for responding! I stumbled upon the red pill men page, which suggested this one. He's in good shape, he has to be bc of his job. He could lose 10 lbs of (beer) belly, but otherwise he's got big biceps, strong legs. He's over six feet tall, about 210 lbs. I also work out but could stand to lose 10-15 lbs. I'm 5'3 140ish pounds depending on the day. I lift weights, so I've got muscle, I'm an hour glass shape, boobs and butt. I haven't read the surrendered wife. I'm agnostic though, so i…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 06:22 PM
2	How to stop being controlling and become more respectful and trusting. I'm not sure much has changed, but I think I've always viewed myself as smarter than him, which he'll say himself. He's in a high ASVAB field, he's not stupid by any means and is smarter than myself in many ways, but the fact that he's not a reader, he doesn't research things ever unless it's job related, he doesn't come across as very smart conversationally, he's not book smart or well read, etc. I think I've always valued intelligence and always dated smart men previously (law school guy, abst…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/19 06:08 PM