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Actually, I'd recommend fixing the diet first and then working out after a couple weeks of eating right.
/r/seduction01/09/14 02:39 PM
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Whatever you were doing when you met her obviously worked --keep it up!
/r/seduction23/08/14 03:48 PM
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Yeah, that's how I read it as well. lol
/r/seduction23/08/14 03:43 PM
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You're free to do what you want, but don't expect me to stick around while you take a vacation with another man.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:46 AM
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We're talking about a shit test here, and a shit test is basically meant to see what kind of character you're made up of. If she says No, and you get pissed off at her, you fail. If she says No and you react with charm and grace and then come over and fuck her, you win. So if she's throwing up obstacles, your goal isn't really to punish her as much as it is to successfully navigate them and make her want to have sex with you. IMO if a girl doesn't want to send me a pic, that's her right. I'll pr…
/r/seduction17/08/14 06:12 PM
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Absolutely spank her. The punishment is that you're going to come over there and fuck her... which really isn't punishment at all. What it is, is whether she complies or not, she's still going to get fucked because you feel like fucking her. In a very playful manner, of course (no rape).
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:52 PM
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There's shit tests and then there's being a bitch. You decide which category she falls under. Depending entirely on the girl, the established rapport, and how well she understands my sense of humour, I'd: 1a) repeat myself in a fake, stern tone and add a playful punishment. I.e. Send me a pic or I'll come over there and spank you. 1b) "Such a bad attitude. No reward for you." And then punish her by not doing something you said you'd do... like make her pasta. 2) Well, no woman is going to wreck …
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:40 PM
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Relax, man, you're nowhere near your prime. For men, 26-40 is your prime. You've got the next 20 yrs to meet beautiful women. You haven't missed out on a thing so stop panicking. You've identified 6 reasons why you think you can't get women, but they're all superficial, bullshit that won't make much of a difference. Based on your post, this is what I think your real problems are: Your priorities are completely fucked up. You seem to lack direction, focus and ambition. You reek of desperation. Th…
/r/seduction12/08/14 12:09 PM
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It doesn't change anything. Just remember to keep building attraction throughout the relationship... don't stop once you've got her.
/r/seduction09/08/14 09:53 AM
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I really don't think the bar is set all that high for most women. Why does everyone think they have to be a sex god? It's pretty straightforward. Pay attention to her body, ask her if it feels good, have fun and try not to come too fast.
/r/seduction07/08/14 02:57 PM
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Something to think about: People tend to polarize this topic... like if women don't want nice guys then their only other option is an asshole. This is not the case. You can find plenty of examples of men who treat women well and who are genuinely nice and yet they don't compromise themselves. I've found the big game changers are cultivating some self-respect (if you don't know how to do this, start reading up on it), deciding upon some healthy boundaries that, if crossed, carry consequences , an…
/r/seduction06/08/14 02:25 PM
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I think it was meant to be a wake-up call, and, whether you like it or not, this is the reality of the situation. If this struck home for people then that probably means they identify themselves as such which means they have some things to think about. Change isn't easy but nothing worth doing ever is.
/r/seduction06/08/14 02:02 PM
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I'm sure we've all managed to stumble into "the zone" once or twice, where everything was said or done perfectly and you got magical results. That zone is obviously where you want to be all the time, but it's hard to maintain. This is why inner game is so important. When everything is congruent in your life, and you're living the life you want to live, your smile is naturally warm and inviting and your eyes reflect the good vibes you're feeling on the inside. Conversely, when you're feeling like…
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:45 PM
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Yeah, its hard to talk to pretty women and there's no real magic cure for it-- you just have to nut up and do it. It'll get more comfortable the more you do it. You can try the same technique --start small, knowing you can eject at any point, and build your way up to the point where you're comfortable having a convo. It also might help to let go of the outcome. Rather than getting her number, make it your goal just to say hi and ask her 3 questions. Once you do that, mission accomplished. Anythi…
/r/seduction31/07/14 03:12 PM
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You can do it. You just need to practice. Start small. Get used to talking to people --say hi to everyone you meet for a week or so. Once you have that down, add "what's new?" to your repertoire. Listen to what they say and either ask another relevant question or say "cool. talk to you later." Then just keep asking questions and let them do all the talking. If they ask you a question, answer them. You can eject at any time. Make a game out of seeing how long you can keep the conversation going. …
/r/seduction31/07/14 12:48 PM
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This is not really that big a deal. I lived at my parents for a year when I was 29 and it didn't phase the girls at all. I didn't have a car or a job, plus I was divorced w a kid. Girls can be very forgiving so don't be hard on yourself and don't take yourself out of the game. Go out and start meeting people now while you work on getting your life together. If your current living arrangement comes up when you're out w a girl, you don't have to tell them the whole truth; just say you're living wi…
/r/seduction31/07/14 05:46 AM
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And it's important to note that what you take away from a real life approach is going to do far more for your confidence than 5 online interactions. Real life approaches are like climbing a mountain just because it's there, rather than taking the gondola.
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:10 AM
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There are no rules in pickup, only principles that may or may not work for you. Its great to educate yourself and keep up to date with the latest ideas and techniques but it's also important to pick and choose the right combination of things that work for your personality. If you're feeling conflict, try something else. Calibration is a key component of PU. The whole point of all this material is help you gain confidence --so if you're doing something that is making you feel awkward or uncomfort…
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:57 PM
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Go for a walk. Sit in a park. Watch a movie at home. Attend a street festival. Meet for a yoga class. There are plenty of ways to hang out that don't cost money. Of course in this day and age you can opt not to pay for her, but the bottom line is a lot of women appreciate and like it. It's a nice gesture. most women I've dated find a way to return the favour where they'll try to pay the next time.
/r/seduction22/07/14 05:39 PM
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You're the only one making a big deal out of your experience level. No one else gives a shit.
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:04 PM
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Im probably the wrong guy to ask. I tend to go for the number close. When I have f-closed it's because I'm completely in the zone, the jokes are flying, the chemistry is blowing the lid off the place. I've never really thought about logistics... I'll just hail a cab for us, and ask her where she lives. If she's not letting that happen, I can backpedal by saying I was just getting the cab for her because I'm sick of her face (jokes)... and ask for her number if I don't already have it. but there …
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:48 PM
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Oh, I got the impression you were out w a group of her girlfriends. I find the best way to deal with an AMOG is to just walk up and talk to him. Ask a lot of questions, be friendly, and look him right in the eyes the whole time. Everyone knows you're marking your territory, but you're not being rude or ignorant, you're actually being quite charming so no one can get mad at you. It'll disrupt his game, put you in a great frame, and he'll probably wander off as soon as he's lost momentum.
/r/seduction13/07/14 10:51 PM
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I'm the reverse. I have trouble getting girls out on dates, but no trouble keeping them interested afterwards for as long as I like. I can tell you what seems to be working for me: I consistently hear that I'm very genuine, down to earth and trustworthy. I make them feel safe, like they can open up to me and not feel like they're going to be judged. I also call them on their BS (jokingly), survive their shit tests, and am light on the compliments (saving them for maximum effect). Ironically, i t…
/r/seduction13/07/14 10:30 PM
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Any one of her friends would have done the trick nicely.
/r/seduction13/07/14 10:13 PM
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check out sasha day game. It's all about chasing up behind women with no prior eye contact. There are no rules in pickup, only principles.
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:55 PM
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I know a shorter (5'2"), balder, fatter guy that has no problem picking up decent looking women -- women that most would consider way out of his league.
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:53 PM
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Great advice. I actually like being single --Im forced to reflect on myself and grow as a person. I have time to develop my own interests and focus more on my friends. It's pretty good once you get into the groove.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:22 PM
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She may look like she's going out and having fun, but that doesn't necessarily reflect how she feels inside. Some people go out to distract themselves from having to deal with their feelings. Most women can find a hook up in an hour if they wanted to, but not many girls seem to be that eager to hook up with random strangers. At any rate, I think it's important for anyone who's broken up to begin getting over it. Go out with your friends, get involved in things --sitting around moping is bad for …
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:19 PM
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Nice work. Let go of the outcome and just enjoy yourself. There's no reason why you can't talk to whomever you want to talk to. 1) lengthening a conversation: be curious. ask her about herself. ask open ended questions and keep the focus on her. Don't talk about yourself unless she asks. 2) compliment her style, her shoes, her hair. if you talk to her for a while, compliment her sassiness, humour, or intelligence. 3) ask for her number as soon as you're ready to eject. You want to eject when the…
/r/seduction22/06/14 12:21 AM
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First, always trust your gut. Were you suspicious he might be cheating before you found what subreddits he's subscribed to? If everything was a-ok before then it might benothing. At least not enough to convict him. Second, if I was actively fooling around on you, I would be very uncomfortable about letting you browse through subreddits that might incriminate me and I'd probably have found a reason to log out. That said, having just checked out Gothamseddit for the first time 3 mins ago... yeah, …
/r/seduction20/06/14 05:51 PM
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You're 22. You have a long time to figure this stuff out. Im 40 now and only started learning about seduction and self improvement 7 yrs ago. So by the time you're 40 you're going to be a master. Your fetish isn't all that uncommon. There's a cuckold subreddit. Check it out if you haven't already. The best thing you can do to create confidence is to sit down and figure out what your boundaries are. For instance, deciding not to take back cheating ex's (or any ex for that matter). Deciding how yo…
/r/seduction20/06/14 05:07 PM
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This is like saying my car is almost out of gas, should I fill the washer fluid or change the wiper blades? Neither will solve your gas problem. You're going to have to start practicing talking to people. And then talking to girls; then talking to hot girls. Once you get comfortable with that, you can ask out any girl you like without lowering your standards.
/r/seduction25/05/14 01:23 PM
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Always plan the first encounter over a coffee. you can be out of there in a 20mins if she's a dud, or, if its going well, you can suggest drinks or dinner and continue the date.
/r/seduction02/05/14 04:29 PM
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All of this material we consume, reflect upon and try out is only meant to be used as training wheels until we figure it out for ourselves. Once it's internalized and becomes a natural part of who we are there is no need to worry about approach vectors and when an appropriate time to text is and what line to open with.
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:50 PM
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I'll be 41 in a couple months. I feel like most of the issues you've listed can be solved by simply going to a gym 3-4 times a week. or Yoga, or cross fit. You'll feel/look better, have more energy, have more motivation, and have more confidence. I can't comment on the arthritis but Im sure you can find a trainer who can help you with that. Eating well also does wonders and might be more important that the gym.
/r/seduction21/04/14 01:44 AM
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Definitely hug her when she gets there. you want to establish touching ASAP. Put on a movie, dim the lights, have wine or beer handy to offer her, sit close to her, every time you or she makes a joke, touch her arm/leg and let your hand linger. She'll probably be helping you out. Lean in for the kiss. after you start getting hot and heavy lead her to the bedroom. Don't say anything to mess it up - just take her hand and say "follow me".
/r/seduction19/04/14 06:55 PM
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I always respond with something like (obviously joking) "Whoa, whoa whoa! What's this "Love" crap? Im just using you for sex, baby, you know that... In fact, Im thinking about using you again right now..." Then start with the sex. If she asks again, tell her to remember what happened last time she asked that question. Then start with the sex again.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:40 PM
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When you run out of things to say ask for her number. Done. If you're talking about when you're on a date, don't be afraid to take a moment, or a pause until something else comes to mind.
/r/seduction09/04/14 11:58 AM
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"Bartender! this one is still showing some resistance! We need another round!"
/r/seduction06/04/14 02:11 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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