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It’s hard, The dr already discussed this with him. He knows it’s a problem but he does have an addictive personality so it is hard for him. I’m at a point where I tried everything and nothing has stuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:19 AM
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He is capable of being physically attractive to me. Basically obesity is not a trait I would consider attractive, and he is in the obese category. I don’t mind a little extra but at this point I just feel disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:43 PM
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1yr and 7yr. We have a long way to go lol Thanks for the recommendation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:41 PM
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That’s the hard part, I like sex. But yes that’s the only solution I have right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:49 PM
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However way you feel comfortable. A way you feel safe. Men generally don’t like rejection, they can start getting pushy or see it as a challenge to change your mind. You don’t owe him anything, this is just a guy you were taking with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:36 PM
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Yeah, I’m 31 and rarely fake laugh. I laugh when I feel like laughing. No laugh lines here. I’m also not overly expressive with my eyes, no frown lines and no forehead lines. I do have crows feet which I think add character. A lot of women, as a way of being pleasing to men, laugh and try to make themselves more expressive then they are. Forcing yourself to laugh and smile causes more tension in your face than smiling and laughing naturally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:18 PM
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My husband doesn’t have an instagram, Snapchat, TikTok or any of that. Has a Facebook that is minimally used. Personally, I don’t think overactive use of Social media is a good sign. Unless they have a business reason, someone who lives by social media is a sheep and easily manipulated. Men used to ask me if I had a WhatsApp? And I never entertained it. Like, why don’t they just text me with their actual #? It was kind of fishy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:56 PM
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Just block him. Also why are you sharing your Instagram handle with strangers? I think that would invite stalking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 10:25 PM
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They were both in the final 2 he proposed to her before he knew whether he would win or she would win. He was willing to share the money if he was the winner. If they were smart they would get a prenup. Anywho they are still married to this day and have 4 children. Didn’t seem like his proposal was inauthentic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 08:08 PM
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I could totally live a frugal life My husband, however, is more particular and I think he is too accustomed to the comforts of having things first hand, and eating out occasionally, and going to the arcade with our daughter. Id really need to talk it over, because it doesn't seem that we can have it both ways
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 03:51 PM
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Thanks for the advice :). I will definitely look into that
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 05:34 PM
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Also the benefits of an organized, well run household with well rested parents out weighed everything. That's exactly what we need to aim for, thanks for your advice. I think it's more about trusting my Husband to be the sole provider that I'm also getting used to. I need to have a little more faith in him. My maternity leave will be coming up soon and I'm going to really focus on what the costs will be if I stay at home full time and see what I can do, it could be a good test run.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 05:03 PM
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It's gotten so complicated but we live where we live to be as close to MIL as possible, she helps with child rearing. Not a practical solution long term but it helps a lot during this time when we're still building ourselves up. I work 1.5 hour south of where we live and He works 1 hour north of where we live so there's just no way that I can change the logistics right now. Commute time is mainly due to traffic, NYC metro traffic is a bitch! I've looked for work closer to home, within 30mins, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 04:42 PM
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You should meet your partner whom you view as marriageable materials no later than 25. That will give you enough time to marry by 30, 3yrs dating,2 year engagement. If you meet this man, when you are 20, good for you. Marry him when you are 25 and maybe hold off on children if you're not ready. I never understood the whole, "I still need to date many guys in my 20s to understand myself" lie of feminism. Chances are you'll miss the bus and end up settling for less later.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 06:28 PM
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