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Yeah, I feel that. I've been out dancing solo before plenty of times, but without a group of people, my failures turn me into the security guard OP was talking about so I just leave. Or I latch on to some aquantince I met from the last go around and bug the fuck out of them.
/r/seduction15/04/18 11:28 PM
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With ya homie. All my sexual encounters have been with committed partners, and low-key have shamed people that have one-night stands as having less connection than I know is possible. Now I'm trying to have one offs and starting off like "so lets go camping with my family." /shrug
/r/seduction15/04/18 08:44 PM
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I get the feeling she is looking for someone to help her through whatever it is she's afraid of. Not a shit test on you, more she's looking for something. You didn't fail, you just aren't that thing right now.
/r/seduction14/04/18 09:11 PM
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I see you
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:32 AM
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My last girlfriends were out of... convenience? Not convenience, but out paths naturally crossed and I made something out of it. For once, I started looking to go out of my way to meet someone new. And I realized I wasn't 10% of the man I want to be, the man I know I can be. So it's been a few months of straightening myself out first.
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:08 PM
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Yeah, she was definitely low on self esteem. So I am, and it was something we bonded over. The relationship was founded on we both were going to help each other with that, be a guide and partner in helping the other open up to people, and flirt and be okay with receiving that attention. Quickly though her insecurities overshadowed mine, and our relationship was me fighting her insecurities for her while mine were allowed to fester. Wasn't ideal indeed.
/r/seduction03/04/18 01:57 AM
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I was just in a relationship that I tried to say that, and it would end up in her exploding in insecurity whenever I would go to an event or do something that would have an opportunity for me to flirt. Shed break into panics. At first, I was happy to stay in, or do go out and (not promise, but reassure that i'm not leaving her), but she would flirt with other people and think nothing of it, even if I told her it hurt me. This weird double standard has really fucked with me, even after the relati…
/r/seduction03/04/18 01:08 AM
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Explain the fusion dance to her
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:25 AM
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Well shit, yeah when you put it that way this whole game does seem easy. Thats the kind of perception shift I've been looking for, thanks my dude. I've been developing better self-care regimes, working on being my best self, but I still struggle with believing in myself that I am someone anyone would want to follow. Been a follower most of my life, and while I have experience leading people - its been a team where it was decided ahead of time that I would be the leader. Coming up to a stranger a…
/r/seduction30/03/18 02:11 AM
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Still trying to get over it. What was a multiple a day ordeal has become once every few days, with streaks getting longer. I'm horny all the time, and my focus for that energy is outward not inward, and I am seeing that energy come back. I'm more open to connect with people, sexual or other wise, and I just in general feel more attractive. But really horny all the time and not used it makes me uncomfortable a lot.
/r/seduction20/03/18 06:10 AM
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"Nah just someone who knows how to live in the moment". My heart raced just thinking that it'd take me a couple attempts to actually deliver that right
/r/seduction19/03/18 11:59 PM
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No that's genius
/r/seduction19/03/18 06:24 AM
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Yeh, this is different because I was definately feeling her. Though, I notice when I'm not attracted to someone but we still chatting, they always like to try to get my number but I'd rather say fuck it and walk away but I give out a number. I tested that out with a friend date I arranged last night too. Asked "What is your main communication channel? Snap, oldschool text, messenger, whats up" and it opened them up about the platforms they tend to ignore people on. Was a cool interaction
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:34 PM
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I feel it, thanks. While it worked, I can totally see it a total one off normally wouldn't if we hadn't built the connection we did over the night. My "Mind if I get your number" wasn't as non confident as it sounds on paper. It was a poor choice of words, but the intent was well received. I dont know if I'll roll the dice like that again, though. Will take your advice to heart though, much appreciated.
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:32 PM
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Iono, maybe could have walked her out or something. I have no qualms. Nah, just in general life advice, I need to give less fucks. My whole day leading up to the event and the gap between the event and after party I did little else but worry. "What of my hair, my clothes, how little i know about the world, how much my hip hurts.." Escalating a relationship like that, taking it away from a quick occurrence and offering myself up for a deeper connection, was the most terrifying thing of the night.…
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:24 PM
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Could have been. While we both were escalating each other over the course of the night, It was clear as day "Get my number I'm about to leave". I was totally teasing her though. I asked "Yah mind if I grab your number?" "Oh yeah" "Oh you do? Fuck it I'll see ya...." I gave her my phone to put her number in
/r/seduction18/03/18 06:38 PM
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Olive Oil. A while back I heard about how the ancient Greeks used olive oil as a moisturizer after baths. Being curious how it would look on my disgusting body, I gave it a shot and was not prepared for how awesome I felt. Everything about it. I felt like a God. I started becoming more attuned with my body, more aware of its muscles and lack-there-of. This was a driver to eating healthier and being more fit. Then I learned that I could treat my hair with it, which is rad because I want to grow l…
/r/seduction12/03/18 12:36 AM
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best advice. Grow shaggy mustache
/r/seduction11/03/18 05:17 PM
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Is everyone on this sub from Seattle now? Daymn
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:12 AM
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My city has bikes that everyone can ride for a dollar and after they're done they just throw them on the sidewalk. not sure how to process this
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:43 AM
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Huh. Is there a middle ground? A spectrum? Or is that black and white.
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:12 AM
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Yeah, the distinction makes perfect sense. Got a lot of personal shit to work through, I'm hesitant to try to "lead" women. I dont know really where this is coming from, guess I may be worried that a woman will be offended if you try to lead her, when in reality ya'll should be equals? Like trying to lead someone you dont know is just relegating them a position of lower power. If that makes sense.
/r/seduction04/03/18 09:22 PM
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There is a large distinction to how I've been wording this play in my mind. Been thinking about asking a random person next time I am out "hey want to grab lunch?", but "Wanna tag along" is giving the interaction a different context. The former seems more passive, while the latter is more active. The former says "I don't have plans, or may not grab lunch if you don't say yes" while the latter says "I'm eating, join me or not"
/r/seduction04/03/18 08:38 PM
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Holy shit. I did this today without even thinking about it. Man, you have no idea the amount of anxiety I have being the first to break the touch barrier. That was is just like putting your hand up and saying "Hey, you break it" But here I did it without even thinking. It was over the smallest dumbest matter, and I had a split moment after I put my hand up of like "who the fuck high fives for this" but she was all for it.
/r/seduction04/03/18 08:34 PM
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And then just chill and watch them to come to me?
/r/seduction03/03/18 04:32 AM
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Hah, the post did sound directed at that crew. Either way though, grimy or not taking a shower and oiling your body and donning a robe will make you feel like a 10 Adonis I don't care who you are that shit works.
/r/seduction03/03/18 12:49 AM
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I know
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:32 AM
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I am working very hard recently to not cope. I fall a lot, still have my escapes, but the time between falls is growing. Learning to stand on my own. I fell you mate, wanting to walk into a bar and have a girl walk up and court you is dope fuck, and it'd be a fun life to have it happen all the time. It really, really hurts when you realize that it isn't happening to you and the awareness that it's because of the mixture of being born to a fucked family and fucking yourself with pointless Vic....…
/r/seduction02/03/18 09:40 AM
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Every time you are alone and those feelings come up, do something to better your appearance. Take a shower wash your hair clean your face. Go work out, go for a jog, do some sort of physical activity. If you are in a group, remember how you feel so you can use it as motivation fuel when you are alone.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:19 AM
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Pay for your drink with a $20, and say "Pay for the drink behind me, rest is yours" And walk to your seat and do some work. Get up to chat her up when its time for you to leave. I have no idea in case you can't tell
/r/seduction28/02/18 03:29 AM
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My brother, 5 years my junior, is very unambitious. No job, lives off our parents, watches streams all day, hygiene embarrassingly off point, two kids and a failed marriage...yet he getting laid on the regular. And the girls are cute a f too. Blows my mind man
/r/seduction27/02/18 08:50 AM
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Insane? Youre breaking out of your established ways to find new exciting events, and are enjoying the process. That is the exact opposite of insanity I think. Man, did you ever struggle with your lack of experience starting off? I just turned 30, and while I've had a couple long term sexual partners, I don't know how to be ok with how inexperienced I am. I see sex/hookup culture being a group that you need to be introduced to, and I never have been. My first partner took my inexperience as a jok…
/r/seduction06/02/18 03:34 AM
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Eh, If youre rolling you aren't gonna hesistate to dodge someone with the slightest bit of anxiety or hesitation or inhibition. So while it may be easy to get someone, its also really easy to get flat out ignored if you express what most people here struggle with. Good on you OP don't falter
/r/seduction06/02/18 12:53 AM
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Build the tension. I kinda get it. Instead of turning a movie on as a formality and jumping right in, this is a process. Watch the movie and as soon as it's over turn and look at each other and "aah finally". Pick a super good movie that neither of you have seen and want to see. Make subtle advances but then playfully punish him for paying attention to you and not the film. Move closer, rest a part of your body on his, strike an obvious pose. When he notices, (I don't know, with a smirk?) take i…
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:05 AM
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This probably isn't the place for attempts to grab attention like this.
/r/seduction02/02/18 03:55 AM
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So let me disarm you There's an army I'm fighting around your heart Let me disarm you Cause baby I just want to love who you really are Who you really are So let me disarm you Let me disarm you
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:17 PM
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Sorry if this is a stab, but that sounds selfish? That true happiness is not a factor, just what you get out of it. It's short sighted. I'll admit my level of self-righteous selflessness has just ruined relationships so my view may not be the best. And I also go for the moon and not quick on-off relationships. Which I'm trying to break out of.
/r/seduction12/01/18 06:02 PM
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Can't it be both? If someone's in a committed monotonous relationship, but won't leave out of fear of being alone, that's a perfect opportunity to be that help dealing with her shit and leaving a toxic relationship. Of someone was truly poly or comfortable with open relationships then they'd be with men other than someone that's controlling, and wouldn't need someone to come between them. I'm talking about coming at the situation with a "be with me, I won't lock you down we will just have fun to…
/r/seduction12/01/18 05:59 PM
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I feel you man, but at the same time doesn't that sound like a woman's choice of whos she's with is yours to make, and that's wrong. Thats the kind of thing that makes me want to get in between two people. It's not everyone, but a shitty man can hide behind bro code and treat his gal like shit
/r/seduction12/01/18 06:57 AM
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Been thinking this for the last few weeks. Attention is powerful, especially in today's world saturated with cool shit to do and look at. It's part of what is creating this "attractiveness wage gap". Attractive people get more attention, and so they feel encouraged and also ported doing things hat will make them more attractive, while unattractive people don't get attention and are left to their own devices to cope. I've taken extreme note of the power my attention has, but often find myself giv…
/r/seduction12/01/18 06:15 AM
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Been telling myself that. We're all just people. As I'm riding the bus home to my shit apartment out of town. It's clear that we all just people, but some have and do spend more time working on themselves. Been having a very hard time telling myself I can be one of those people, and not one that has spent 10+ years not working on myself
/r/seduction12/01/18 05:57 AM
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I've not been self-improving because girls are the only thing worth being motivated over and I'm afraid that it's a bad thing. If you been improving yourself it really can't be worse than bring stagnant. Some lucky ladies are going to get to have a better man in their life
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:32 AM
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From what everything I have experienced so far and with the way the universe seems to go, interactions like this need to happen to us if we are to grow stronger than our fears. Mad respect that you approached at the gym, even if it was once. I'm in the same boat. Approaching at a gym, making small talk while dressed down and already half sweaty, is awesome. But the image fo approaching, making a fool, and hearing some guys in the back go "What a fool did he seriously think that would work?" and …
/r/seduction22/09/17 04:32 PM
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Events. Of any kind. Events that are attempting to have some sort of production value. my speculation
/r/seduction16/08/17 10:13 PM
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You can FAKE your confidence or demeanor, but you are right there is no way to actually show it. So what you get is a bunch of people that are going to fake having confidence or fake demeanor, but then you meet them in person and they are hollow and surface.
/r/seduction13/08/17 01:14 AM
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" It's quite shocking to me how few women on Tinder actually seem like they want to date or meetup." Yeah dude, thats how things seem to go. Starts off everyone using a new tech/going to new meetup spot / partaking in a new activity are there to actually connect over it. eventually, most of the people that were a part of the original wave made their connections and are moving on, meanwhile a second wave comes in of people that knows the level of connection people make but expect the "vets" to ta…
/r/seduction13/08/17 01:13 AM
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You are you, this is someone else.
/r/seduction23/07/17 12:41 AM
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But but but Swagmeister7, thats really scary. Being horny in public is creepy right
/r/seduction22/07/17 04:35 AM
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This doesn't leave a whole lot of room for homosexuality. Though, i believe that like everything in life masculine/feminine is a spectrum. The more feminine you are, the more you crave masculine to balance out. If you are on the more masculine side, you will crave a partner slightly more feminine. Doesn't matter what ya pipes are.
/r/seduction22/07/17 12:26 AM
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There are three things extremely hard: Steel, a diamond, and knowing oneself.
/r/seduction20/07/17 08:52 PM
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I love you
/r/seduction20/07/17 08:32 PM
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I'd rather be a better me, no offense. You make life seem so simple. Really life isn't about much more than eating and smashing, but you know how loads of folk call the alpha douche lifestyle "shallow"; "anyone can get swole and act like a dick just to get laid". Those same people are the ones that do a billion different dances to try and smash while trying to make it seem like they're above it all. They also go home alone, and usually think that as soon as the last song plays that the nights ov…
/r/seduction20/07/17 08:26 PM
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Are you white? Either way, why is moshing a white person thing? There's gotta be something in white culture (Maybe just western? Not tryin to be racist) that makes moshing like sloppy fucks an appealing release.
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:22 PM
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Zero judgement here homie There is a hierarchy in life that I don't fully understand, and if you are able i'd love to hear what you think it is I don't understand. Being a titan that can pull the highest stock just standing in the back looking good seems fun and all, but I've never been to a party where that was the highest point of the hierarchy. Most of the time they sit in the back and look good because that's all they've got. The true alphas are in the middle of the club dancing the hardest.…
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:20 PM
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lol, yeah you'll be alright. Have fun mate
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:06 PM
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If its a classy "we play EDM because its in vogue" club, expect people to stand around with their drinks looking at each other between head bobs. Find someone and talk to them, while everyone else makes eye contact with everyone but doing the "Nah I wont talk to them, I'll wait for someone better" bullshit. If its a true get funky electronic dance club, just move your body to how the music sounds. Even if it is non-human grinding sounds that make you move your body like you have boneitis. The mo…
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:27 PM
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I believe the follow up of "and then go to a place where people dance" is required. You can't just walk up to a gal on the bus and start salsa dancing and expect shit to work.
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:05 PM
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