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Of course, but that wasn’t the point. Men don’t express their masculinity through make-up, but women can and do express their feminity that way. Don’t just cherry pick. That’s arguing in bad faith. Take everything I said as a whole. Pushing that further women pursuing that feminine form of peacocking is often memed that “We don’t do it for you!” And in kind has been co-opted by men in response to going to the gym. Any gym bro knows women aren’t the ones that complement them on their physique des…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:11 AM
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Maybe what wrong is the idea of objectification in the first place. A man that goes to the gym and lifts is bettering himself. A woman that reads up on nutrition and watches what she eats and masters her make up game (which is a skill that takes time) is objectifying herself? Or learning to cook is partaking in her own oppression not become a crucial family member? Empathizing with men is “pick me” behavior. As my friend said in frustration to current idealogies - Whatever happened to doing you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:53 AM
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Ehhhh. That’s not Purple that’s Blue. Same old “Man Up!” that’s always been. You come right up to the point and miss it in my opinion… Men would be a lot less frustrated if women were given the brutal often politically incorrect truth about female nature and male disposability. This is why female led RedPill content has been all the rage this year in the Manosphere with Trad Wives, PearlyThings, 8AtTheTable and a growing number of black female led RedPill content. There’s no coincidence that it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:12 AM
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Hmm. I respect that in the spirit of PP you’re trying to be even handed but I think saying one thing and responding to another is going to have a far longer list with women because men tend to be more direct and women more indirect. Women will say they want X but respond to Y. Men just don’t say anything at all. Self censury is an important phenomenon. So maybe - Women say they want a “sensitive” man, but they’re actions suggest they really want a man that’s sensitive to them, not a man’s own fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:29 PM
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Men want younger women, getting them is another matter. Otherwise this is pretty solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:22 PM
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Seems legit to me. But it’s a while before the tide turns. 50 years of lying to women isn’t going to unravel overnight. Pretty sure Gen Alpha is going to pus back on this, if you subscribe to Strauss-Howes “Fourth Turning” theory.
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 11:16 PM
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This isn’t just RadFems, it’s the post modernist woke left in general. Ryan Chapman breaks this down quite well. I noticed this Horseshoe Theory phenomenon and brought it up to a radfem queer friend once, they said they didn’t believe in
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/23 08:06 AM
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This reminds me of my Russian postulate. The reason there are so many gorgeous Russian women and dopey drunks is due to WW2. Russia suffered catastrophic loss to its young male population. In a turn of events most of the eligible bachelors in an entire generation disappeared so only the most attractive women passed on their genes and that’s why have so many knockouts today.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/22 04:18 AM
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You asked the question. That you seemed to already know the answer to so I’m not sure what you’re on about? I’m not that familiar with BlackPill but if it posits that looks matter above all that might be right. Apparently unattractive women are annoying to men and unattractive women don’t even exist to women… https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRax6NNp/ I can see why BlackPill is the way it is. Men take a lot of the blame but that just isn’t the case.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 03:22 PM
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All of those things are true. And younger generations are more isolated by the internet.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 03:16 PM
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I think the takeaway here is - stop reading black pill.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 03:00 PM
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Because young women want young looking men. Older women want older looking men. Albeit American men overdo the muscles a little.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 02:50 PM
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Bit of a silly question - Because men are doing the looking, at women. And all the status and money in the world isn’t going to make a woman more attractive to men, but it does so for women. It’s like saying “If status is more important to women, then why do men try to status maxx with confidence, cars, clothes etc” A man would care more about his looks if he were attracting the male gaze. And this is why stereotypically gay men are fit and attractive metrosexuals and lesbians aren’t.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 02:35 PM
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Dunno about that. But there is a marked decrease in empathy for men, we just aren’t real to them at the moment. Mileage may vary. The younger and single-er and immersed in Gen Z culture she is the higher chance she holds dehumanizing fear based views on men due to an ideology going around. The older and more married she is the less so.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 07:55 PM
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wut
/r/AntiFeminists19/09/22 04:31 PM
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Yup, agreed. She wants to shame someone for having a preference and avenge her rejection and “shades” is making the “hygiene” argument which is weak and unfounded. And I say that as someone who prefers natural armpits and loathes hairy legs and prefers groomed pubes. But it’s a preference. Just like clean shaven men was in during the 90s and isn’t anymore. ESH
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/22 07:36 PM
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Linky? Natural armpits are my thing.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/22 07:30 PM
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I can understand a matter of honor. But if you fight most understand what a “Fencing Response” is least of all her. She may have been turned off by what was an involuntary response. She in part seems to be acknowledging that. The take away here is how women say they want a sensitive man but can’t stand weakness in men in a core level. Her being a fighter herself only heightens that because most women aren’t fighters and she acknowledges that something that makes her difference. She needs to find…
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 05:54 PM
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Looksmaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:26 AM
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I’m moving there. But I’m not a generic Chad. Maybe I’ll need to get a haircut and dress preppy again.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 03:54 AM
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This is the interesting thing about current left idealogy. When it’s played through it comes back full circle - like covering up women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 11:32 PM
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Christ. He a job that he can come home early from so she can pretend to work for the sake of her own ego and keeping up appearances as an independent woman. It’s performative feminism
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 11:02 PM
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It’s societal because it’s economic. Rampant inequality, wage stagnation, etc. of course you’re going to see young broke women using what they got. It’s not complicated. The societal part is nuanced, but not the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:42 PM
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The answer is r/seduction. Or some variation thereof. Learn to be a better social animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:24 PM
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Yeah this isn’t quite the gotcha thinking exercise because context and modernity is everything here. You’re already loading with terms. The fuccboi metrosexual is a rather recent phenomenon… Does this fuccboi lie and spread trauma to get women into bed? Is he over 35? What’s admirable about that? What good is he for the community? The dad archetype has been around forever… Is this “beta dad” handy, can fix anything, self reliant and reliable, keeps his word, good to his kids, partakes in the com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:27 PM
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Just swing. Have a Ho phase within the safety of a marriage when it’s 20 years in and you wanna spice things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:49 AM
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Now that’s interesting. Chased a career she lies about? I’m wondering if knowing what she knows now she’d do the same. But also the last bit you said. I’ve had more experience with careerist women than not paying their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:19 AM
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That’s also in large part due to a “vibe shift”. Post pandemic is Gen Z’s era.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:46 AM
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{phew
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:26 AM
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Astrology too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:58 PM
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You’re autistic and a bartender?! That might be half of it. Women expect you to be naturally social, and what attracted them to you in the first place was what comes with being a bartender. So while your attempt to I assume - become a better social animal is admirable. You’re not what they’d expect. I’m into STEM girls myself, if I found out she was a drama Queen and believed in crystals I’d be disappointed. My friend is a current History teacher who’s found a home for his introversion in academ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:50 PM
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Gotcha. Maybe too nice? Maybe who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:40 PM
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Aussies call them a “starfish”, just lies down spwraled out like a Starfish and let’s it happen? No passion or reciprocation. Blowjobs are a chore, she doesn’t grind. That’s why the most important thing in a female partner is her desire for you. Listen to Patrice O Neal and seduction stuff and learn more about how to attract that. Why’d she bang you? Because she was lonely and gave you a chance but it wasn’t for there for her. Def been there myself. The best looking girl I ever dated was horribl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:50 PM
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Sounds like you’re blaming yourself for a girl that was a dead fuck, made you wait and wasn’t that into you. Having other girls you were taking to and her knowing that might have changed her mind. Regardless, it’s bridge-water now. Build, improve, do better next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:26 PM
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Were you a slut? The male version being an emotional slut - a man that gives a woman what she wants without having her work for it ie; Attention. No different than a woman that puts out sex too early you put out too early with all your love attention, all your love, all your devotion, etc. Sounds like the ball was in your court and you hit it back waaay to quick and way too hard my guy. We’ve all been there, just learn from your mistakes. https://youtu.be/DJlHDKbgi3M
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:55 PM
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Eh, disagree. My ex made me wait, weeks I guess? More than usual and it worked. But she was a skinny blonde 9 that looked like Claudia Schiffer and easily one of if not the best looking woman I’d been with. She also dressed the part, pearls and dresses. It had an effect on me. I wanted romance with her. Most women aren’t willing to put in that work and it’s the girls that aren’t or try to turn back the clock that are overplaying their hand. But there has to be some accountability and self awaren…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:35 AM
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I got that. 😆 Long time ago in my driest era i had a girl at the pet store near me ask me out. She mentions the threesome pics that may be floating around and ex with a dick “even bigger” than mine, a real treat. She was “born again”. I’d forgotten about Shanny until you mentioned it. Def a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:29 AM
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Sounds like “Reductum Ad Incel-um”. Ie; Anything that challenges Blue Pill thinking must be from Incels, which is lazy tired bs. On purple pill no less? What are you doing here then?Granted, the internets an anonymous place where that can be the case. But not here. Respectfully if you don’t know who Patrice O’Neal is, nothing said here is going to change your mind anyways. That man pulled more than you or I ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:16 AM
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Eh, that’s a lot of “why can’t men be more like women?” nonsense. Women say they want that until they get it, then it’s not attractive to them. Feminism should be the about equality of opportunity. But post modern gender feminism has metatisized into men being seen as deficient women. It’s ivory tower bs which is why people that speak the truth plainly (sometimes) had become such a boon for comedians and manosphere alike. Men that desire women to be like men only hot, are recognized as childish.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:07 PM
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Agreed. Once the sex is had then the balls in a man’s court. Mental not getting laid don’t see it this way or empathize with how fleeting it is that women have the advantage because those men don’t necessarily get that far easily or often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:57 PM
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Automod erasing anything that isn’t trying to change OP’s view? I’m not sure. But if that’s the case that’s a terrible way to go about things. I like if it’s agreeing with view, hearing things said in a different way certainly helps me clarify my own thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:33 PM
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That’s fair. Hinge seems to be an improvement. Long Term, Short Term or Figuring It Out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:49 AM
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“Cock carousel”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:52 PM
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I’m a tall emotionally investing/ masculine “soft top” with real estate, music talent and and it’s thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:23 AM
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No argument there! I speak for the Global North. The US is descending into its brand of Fascism as we speak. That return to harder times seems to be at the root a conservative desire for men to be more useful and appreciated again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:22 AM
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Yes and No. Expansion of options makes for big winners and losers, good point. But assuming men act out of jealousy is projecting what motivates women and what they value on to men. I’m inclined to side with the data and economics. Women are flourishing in the new economy model and men aren’t. Sometimes I’m not sure it’s anymore complex than that. Society has become safe, civil and technologically advanced enough that men are no longer needed right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:40 AM
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Identity as credential has its limits but who’s more qualified to opine on perspectives on dating than Bi-Sexuals? They need to take up more space in the general purple sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:15 PM
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That’s according to class. The bar for middle class to upper men is rising and for women it’s lowering. Of which we’re all a part of if we’re on here for the vast majority. With that being said there is a lot of low effort bitching. Hygiene, work out, and get a god damn personality. Being an emotionally limited nerd will get you nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:06 PM
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As it should be. I typoed. Young broke, attractive men have the same market value as older unattractive women with money. As young broke attractive women and older unattractive man with money have the same smv. The big lie is for young women that they can have it all and older unattractive women with money that it matters. There are exceptions but these delusions run deep until older women speak up and say it’s a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:53 PM
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Dunno about entitled 40 somethings. Women have more and want more. Problem is an older woman with money is as attractive to older men as a young hot bum is to younger women. Many women just seem “free”, and lonely tho. More women need to speak out and tell the truth before we get anywhere with that. Unless you’re really keeping it together and competitively attractive which is a thing in major cities with a minority of women. Mostly it does not serve a working class woman to be “independent” whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:57 AM
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I just saw a Hinge profile. She’s a little overweight as most American women are, average looking, etc Texts read… A random fact I love is : “All worker honey bees are female and a Queen will only mate once during her entire life and stores the sperm inside a special organ to be used over time” My most controversial opinion is : “Male birth control should be a thing and the only reason it isn’t is because boys don’t like the side effects” The one thing you should know about me is : “Not a fan of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:52 AM
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Eh, I don’t as the sensitive type that had lots of female friends because all that stuff came easy. It’s when you want to get laid things get confusing. You’re showing them how sensitive you can be and they’re not interested. That’s when you start getting the feeling that you’ve been lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:49 AM
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Thanks man. I come here because I just wanna be honest about it and it’s verboten right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:26 AM
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I mean, yeah, precisely. You need lots of men to run an industrial economy, which China still is. Supply goes up? Value goes down. Yes? Who’s values on a sinking ship? All those men in the engine room? Or women and children first? You need many women to survive the species, but only one man. If you want to split hairs on wording then men are “expendable”. But I think the reasoning still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:19 AM
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Amen Brother Past. Where’s your tithing this fine morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:14 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:13 AM
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Yes. It’s a waste a time to be in a committed relationship when you’re young and attractive. Y’all are just gonna cheat. Let’s say 18 - 25 at least. High school to college steadies don’t last as university years are everyone’s sluttiest years, then give or take a couple years going out running your own life after. But that’s even more compounded but the fact that so many live at home now which either stretches this farther or makes sense to settle down? It’s confusing. But. I remember a seeing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:08 AM
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😭🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:04 AM
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OG post is great but also this. There is ambivalence about what it’s like to be a man. And that’s male disposability. And here’s the controversy - I’d argue that’s more real and prove able than patriarchy. History is littered with the bodies of men that built civilization, did that come with privilege? Yes. But also responsibility, responsibilitys that women shirk. Feminism was about wives of CEO’s watching their husbands and thinking “I can do that”. But responsibility is the dirty jobs. True e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:44 PM
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Por Que No Los Dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:24 AM
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Ah, no. But I k Ie the type. Yeah, hot headed douchebags become cops unfortunately.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/22 07:24 PM
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I should do that more but get stuck on the first page. Yeah, we’re in the legal stage of Fascism right now. Perhaps the quip sticks because I fucking know that guy. I grew up around there and know the privileged preppy type. It really hit when I saw picks of him as a younger man. I guarantee people that knew him are aghast that he’s a Supreme Court Judge. Vonnegut said something about that, the terror of realizing you’re generation are the adults now and they’re in charge. That’s what Blazey For…
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/22 02:40 AM
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I was a very sensitive young man. It got me nothing of what I wanted from women. I’m a naturally emotionally thinking person, into the arts etc, once I started practicing a little stoicism is when women started being attracted to me. Then to them it feels like they found a Diamond in the rough or what have you? Dunno, but I’m not a dick and I care. I just dont go out of my way to show that initially, and it’s a display of value ether I agree with it or not. I wouldn’t do it if it weren’t hammere…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:57 AM
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Ha, maybe? How so? This was before Trump nominated a date rapey frat boy and Barnett, possibly the most unqualified Justice in its history? Certainly recently. But Kagan’s a proper nerd and Kentaji Brown may be one of if not the most qualified nominee in history. How did you find this? Growing the thread or searching SCOTUS?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/07/22 08:43 PM
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That’s a man understandably introverted reservation, but if you can get past the fear of rejection that’s where you reap the rewards and end up dating someone you never imagined you could. But it takes work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:18 AM
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Then take in what I’ve had to say. As well as this… https://youtu.be/hxDlup3I2sk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:21 PM
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No, it’s not. Three years is too long. If you’re not depressed you most certainly need to get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:52 PM
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That’s too bloody long bruv. It’s a common mistake men make but women have their besties circling the wagons and taking them out to chase dick in no time. Sounds like her words aren’t youre only problem. I can tell you as a dysthymic myself with crippling depression in his 20s that perhaps the only antidote for depression is action, unfortunately like many depressives I also suffer from sloth. But you’ve gotta to get up and get out. Endorphins via exercise, nutrition via nourishing protein and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:43 PM
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How long ago was this? Have you been with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:24 AM
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I know it’s a cliche but hit the gym and delete Socials if you haven’t already. “If you’re going through hell, keep going” - Winston Churchill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:25 AM
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{citation needed}
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:51 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:50 PM
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Good call. It’s so fucked. Women’s standards for attractiveness are higher as proven by OkC data yet the narrative is “beauty standards” oppress them and they blame men. Men are trying to make each other better and women are trying to be - satisfied with themselves? It’s self improvement vs self satisfaction. This persistence of twisted female values doesn’t seem to be stopping and it’s turning society into self absorbed, over sensitive, reactive children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:48 PM
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The more list is missing the biggest one tho... Their looks. Birth is hell on the body (and face, Google; Pregnancy Mask) Have you ever fucked a mom? Their tummy area is revolting. Sure there’s an exception but their gd unicorns before you even get to all that crap listed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/20 12:10 AM
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I’m inclined to agree. My sister refused to date a man that made less than her and that was a problem. She ended up with a doctor she’s incompatible with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/20 11:46 PM
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And while we don’t question a woman that doesn’t want dick pics. Feminism wishes to socially engineer and bully men into finding this woman just as attractive as her younger, prettier, less stressed out self. This is why feminists are so often neurotic, the double think takes a toll. My one point of contention if I’m to be completely Purple would be a man of low financial but higher cultural status. A talented artist/musician etc who’s capable of nurturing and willing to stay at home might be th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/20 11:44 PM
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She was, but kinda crazy? She'd been raped in college and confided that in me and kind of resented men at the time so it was difficult to get to know her. I had no chill with her though because she was such a knockout, she ended up getting married anyways. But sweet fuck yes. Women's insecurities are draining, that's exactly it. It's great to hear someone else say it. Also I didn't quite understand that when I was younger. That's why men that come on too strong are unattractive to a woman - who'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:53 PM
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There was one girl that was drop dead gorgeous but felt ugly. I fell for her because she's the only girl that made me laugh out loud. Or my ex that felt ugly and would was epic in bed because of it. But yeah, ugly women try harder and aren't as entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:51 PM
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Yasss. There’s definitely a strong bias for that here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:48 AM
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I never quite get why younger girls spend their best years looking like dirtbags. Hiding? Good on you for investing more time in your looks but the skin care industry is such bullshit. No amount of moisturizing will make ones skin taught and glowing like it does before 25, it just looks moisturized. I see older women walking around with shiny wet skin that's no better. They just look like older women obsessed with moisturizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:45 PM
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This is why I’m Purple. Red Pill exists for good and bad because of the internet’s anonymity. We can speak our truth without social backlash. But a lot of these ideas would be dismissed when you realize they’re coming from a 19yo, unattractive, articulate incel with no experience to back it up. TRP is solipsism and theory over practice incarnate. I'm speaking from my experience in a big east coast city. Working city women in their 30s have better style and the money to afford it too. They’re jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:06 AM
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Great observation but that just seems again like it makes it only harder for men. More guys, lower odds. And women just swiping away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:39 AM
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That's not necessarily another perspective but more proof. Just another facet of the end result, the symptom. Young boys failing in record number, American men retreating into porn and video games, Japanese men retreating into their rooms (Hikikomori), male suicide and depression is the symptom. It's men either giving up, or going their own way. It's all the same thing... A response to decades of telling men they're shit and that women are wonderful. Like any "disease", symptoms take time to sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:35 AM
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I completely agree. From what I remember of Red Pill even there was some awareness of that process from wonderful, awful, normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:10 AM
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/u/shithappenslol Late to the party. I don't always see Purple Pill stuff but I need to say that this is the most underrated post in this sub. /u/webernicke wrote : https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/dut75e/becoming_red_pilled_is_essentially_just_realizing/f7fwwto/?context=3 That, is the heart of Purple Pill to me. For once in my life I'm at a loss for words, I don't know what to add to what you two have said because I think you two have pretty much said it all. Now I just need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:07 AM
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Haven't been here in a while but I think this paints the picture brilliantly for Japan, US, et al. Better than I ever could. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/dut75e/becoming_red_pilled_is_essentially_just_realizing/f78pk0j/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:54 PM
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Agreed, jesus christ this is brilliant. I could never put into words how we got here. But OP paints the picture so bloody well. /u/webernicke are you a writer?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:45 PM
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Part of the problem is that they aren't given this answer. They are routinely given the wrong answer. Or none. I can't emphasize this enough. I spent my whole life internalizing that I was the piece of shit that was going to "love 'em and leave em" and alot of self hatred for horniness. My mother died when I was young so perhaps she wasn't there to warn me. And my Dad's only relationship advice was "No means NO". No one prepared me for the romantic dissapointment's in my late 30's. I was a lonel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:00 PM
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Easy, don't go off stuff posted and look at the real world? Ask friends. Meet people, ask questions, etc. Personally I never find anyone in the real world that is anywhere near the bitterness that i see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:50 PM
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You mean telling children to sit down and learn is......feminizing them.....? I mean we're medicating boyhood with Ritalin. To get them to sit down and "learn". Studies have shown girls adapt to classroom learning younger and boys are better at hands on sciences. Already to suggest this difference is an inconvenient, politically incorrect truth. We can't even agree on the truth anymore with gender and that's a problem. That's also a problem that didn't necassarily exist with 1st and 2nd wave fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:08 PM
2

If not women then feminism. https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=2&v=OFpYj0E-yb4&feature=emb_title The indisputable fact remains that boys are failing in record number. Who's to blame? That question remains to be answered. Because the answer may be terribly un-PC. Women. Our primary education system has always been, but increasingly so become feminized. If not Feminism, then then the Feminization of our education, therefore women, need to answer for this. And the self worth thing could be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:50 PM
1

Christ I went away to camp for two weeks with my best friend and we ending up beating the shit out of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:18 PM
2

Listen to you're mother /u/Truedemocracy4. For once in your godforsaken internet life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:08 AM
5

Agreed. This isn't complicated unless you're Blue Pilled and Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 05:00 AM
2

No. This is theory, and it's shit. It's why I'm purple. Because theory falls apart under reality be it philosophy or life. Based on practice - anal can be very intimate and hot. If it's discussed. The easiest way to get there is say "Anal can be hot, if you know what your doing". And then actually know what you're doing. Most don't. You can always learn to be a better lover and I would suggest you do so. Get a professional and ask for her to tell it to you straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:51 AM
1

Does South Korea or Japan work? I'm guessing "No" on China.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 05:37 AM
2

It's worth remembering. Don't get me wrong, Red Pill is necessary to a certain degree for any man (or woman?) to accept reality. But there is a certain myopia in this male dominated attitude of thinking. It's no different than applying Libertarian philosophy to politics. Logical sure, consistent sure, but human being's are neither. Not to mention applying theory to things in practice we've yet to experience. Or atheism. One cannot be 100% sure there isn't a god anymore than the deluded faithful …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:39 AM
5

I wish I could close the jaw I dropped. Edit : K. Used my hand and jaw is back to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:57 PM
2

What's OP talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:55 PM
1

Oh. I thought you were one of those people that think weed/psychadelic are the perfect the perfect drug for everything. Tones tricky on Reddit and those people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:52 PM
1

STill, they're not "more of a stimulant than coke ever would be" or the best drug to get laid with for that matter. They're spirtual drugs, not party drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:42 PM
5

I don't get that reference or more importantly why you had to be cryptic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:40 PM
1

Stahp. We get it, you prefer certain drugs, clearly. Psychadelics are great, and mentally stimulating. I too thought they were wonderful when I was new to them, but that doesn't make them an all knowing all seeing perfect drug - that's Dilaudin 😏. That doesn't classify them as a stimulant or change facts and they are not more of a stimulant than coke. Quit your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:32 PM
0

Seriously? Stimulants FTW by far. Just no one wants to be the coke guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:15 PM
4

Social conservatives defending women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:59 PM
1

At least you know. It's all about dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:03 PM
1

Preach. Porn is one thing. So is Pong. But UNLIMITED porn on your PHONE is historically unprescedented. Www.ybop.com
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:01 PM
1

Anhedonic or just depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:55 PM
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You're missing the point. Yeah, porns prob okay. But unlimited internet porn? Mans brain wasn't prepared for that prepared for that. Www.ybop.com
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:41 PM
1

Because they are? And theyre older and have opinions based on experience? I can't speak for them but based from experience - Internet porn is a problem we couldn't hv predicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:05 AM
3

Preach. These tech bros push Black/Red Pill narrative and perpetuate solipsism. Looks, money, AND personality. But they never work on the third. Because it's part of their personality. It's a circle. I reckon escorting gives you authentic perspective on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:04 PM
3

Nailed it. Up vote this man. Actually I'd ad a third factor - shy tech nerd males who date/socialize on line. It's a perfect storm of mutual involuntary celibacy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:58 PM
3

Fascinating. I'd always heard Vancouver was amazing. Now I'm almost more curious re; the social scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:56 PM
2

Yeah, I'm thinking about moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:54 PM
5

Our court system is broken.
/r/PussyPass13/10/18 08:50 PM
1

My diagnosis some co-morbidity of Cluster B personality disorder(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:12 AM
6

I reckon because RPs limited more with battle of the sexes than sexual harassment. I mean - what's the RP protocol for getting your ass grabbed by a male superior - be stoic about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:06 AM
5

Time honored? I feel like it's completely new. I mean think about it, before revolution was male led. Now it's female led or at least influenced and that's how were getting this utterly absurd situation where there's aggressive action and crying over the consequences. Men know better - Talk shit, get hit.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/18 11:13 PM
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I don't think you really mean that. It seems like the kind of middle brow comment meant to please the impulsive american disdain for elitism/anti intellectualism that Asimov mentions. Not to mention choosing personality over character that plagues modern americana and our current white house. Regardless of politics SCOTUS are career intellectuals. In a sense you've got to be a dyed in the wool nerd and one of the most well read people in the judicial system. Ginsburg, Alito, Breyer, Roberts, Ken…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/17 09:19 PM
10

Yeah, I've shared the comic but cropped the watermark. The confrontational name makes it easier for the people I'm trying to reach to dismiss it.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 05:15 AM
1

You found two patterns I noticed too OP. The prevalence of psychopathy as virtue in Red Pill mentality. Also, I've thought for sometime that the Lizardman conspiracy theory was just a sort of visceral, uninformed expression of something that very well may be true - psychopaths are in control. I think you'd really enjoy this article. http://dissidentvoice.org/2008/05/beware-the-psychopath-my-son/ I also dismissed 'lefty nonsense' messages because of the messenger. Then I dug into Chomsky. Truth i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 06:30 AM
1

Just curious. Who do you respect and why? I ask because that seems to be where things get more complicated.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 05:02 AM
1

Oversimplification yes. But the help is out there. And red pill as a one stop shop is no better than any philosophy. And some treat it as such when you could just as easily get help from r/malefashionadvice or r/seduction. Not to mention you completely overlook the sociopathic element rp attracts and will always will attract by the very nature of its philosophy. I'd be a little more confident about those prospects if it wasn't anonymous. I present is blue, the Internet is red, but perhaps the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 08:27 PM
1

RP has it's place. But that place is only be the beginning of something and by no means the final word*. Right now it's the good and bad of internet culture. It's not coincidence that "male self improvement" in a post PC world didn't flourish until the internet did. It's also no coincidence that some of the most aggressive RP'ers we've never met in real life. Where one can be judged on their actions, and results, and not just words. Because all the theory in the world aint shit compared to pract…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 11:19 PM
1

Fascinating. PussyPass denied so she pulls the AutismPass instead? http://i190.photobucket.com/albums/z188/hobbes_08/autism-asshole-disease-moral-demoti.jpg Denied. http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wZPW18DoeCY/VUlMR1wnxnI/AAAAAAACvZs/LH3I-HIhdgI/s1600/1363460681285.jpg
/r/PussyPassDenied01/12/15 04:39 AM
1

Yikes, it's not that bad man. Like I said - your biggest problem might be location. DC's crawling with ambitious ladies that are about as jobbed as it get but it seems to me that is the exception to the Reddits rules or reality. I honestly can't relate to these scumbag stacey moochers you guys seem to be surrounded by. My sisters biggest problem is she makes more than every guy she's dated except for her current fiance. We tell them to "get a job" then some of us get threatened by her bigger pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/15 01:49 AM
1

My bad. Fast and loose replies don't make for easy reading sometimes. I should have said flaky and left it at that. In terms of RMP there's actually science behind that with Birth Order. Elder siblings don't mix (because you can't have two captains sailing a relation ship). And younger siblings don't either because two flakes don't mix - someone's got to be the responsible one. Middles go well with anything. And Only's go best with youngers siblings. From the sound of it you're an elder or only?…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 07:00 AM
1

Tall, been fitter, educated, and well off in savings, but a musician (for full disclosure's sake - how successful would RP be if it wasn't anonymous?) living in D.C. with more masters degrees per capita than anywhere else. Demographically I'm as blue as it get's - I worked with kids before taking time off and not only would I not mind raising my crotch fruit whilst SO works, but I'm confident I'd be damn good at it as well. Initially I thought I was worthless in the SMP but I never saw it from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 02:48 AM
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This is right (1,2,5) and wrong (3,4). Only assholes refuse to apologize or explain themselves. Learning how to make amends properly is essential in maintaining relationships and I'd like to hear from anybody that want's to work with a boss that never explains themselves.
/r/becomeaman22/09/15 12:40 AM
1

This is what depresses me. If most young sexually frustrated men went through the self improvement of seduction they wouldn't even need red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 09:59 AM
2

Ask the right question and get the right answers. Ie; What can a girl that's average do to make herself more sexually attractive to men? And then the answer becomes easy. Sex - Get better at it. Up your bedroom game - Enthusiasm - learn to love the weener, give sick head, take belly dancing classes, and watch the best pornstars for pointers (Jenni Lee off the top of my head because nothing's sexier than enthusiasm) Then if you want to learn a recipe or clean up a bit why not. But there's a reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 06:24 AM
1

I'm not sure I follow you? I did mention in another post I reckon this get's posted often. Personally what I'm addressing is a lot of the "man up" comments, "she doesn't get it", and down-voting anyone that has grievances outside of circumcision and child custody.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 09:32 PM
1

Downvote away I reckon... But all this "man up" shit? That's exactly what happens when a man tries to report a sexual assault. So while women have established impressive resources for endangered women, sexually assaulted men are not much more than a joke at this point despite disturbing numbers. And this is why I think Mens Rights will always be dead in the water. Women are better at empathy and cooperation - they banded together and got shit done. Whereas mens rights can't even agree on what a …
/r/MensRights14/08/15 06:29 PM
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I imagine this vid must get posted monthly here. But the take away is being overlooked and that is simple - empathy. Regardless of what she isn't getting in your opinion. How bloody rare is it for someone from the other side to walk in others shoes? Kumbayah as it may be it's what's sorely lacking from the battle of the sexes. Understanding women has so dominated the cultural conversation that this is a breath of desperately needed fresh air. Someone trying to understand us. And it perplexes me …
/r/MensRights14/08/15 06:24 AM
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Did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 06:58 PM
0

Why do I get so worked up about RedPill when that about sums it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 06:19 AM
1

Can a man's looks make up for his lack of status?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 03:06 AM
2

This is exactly why Red Pill thrives online - it's all talk no action. I guarantee there's some guy who's a force on that sub that no one would take seriously after taking one look at him - especially another red piller. You ever seen a 4chan meetup when all these edge lords and come out of their basements? My problem is a lot of the audience that genuinely needs some guidance could do with a healthy dose of /r/seduction (and a grain of salt to go with) and just general self improvement via soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 07:51 AM
1

You don't need looks to pick up girls, you need game, What I never understand is why more guys don't realize that most of their problems would if they just read Neil Strauss. It's such a rare source of self help that actually helps men. If you take away the best parts it's bound to inform your relationships and so on. RP seems to be coming at it from the wrong damn direction and it baffles me how it's become a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 01:47 AM
1

He kind of assuelted her?
/r/PussyPass25/06/15 01:25 AM
1

Yes. I agree that RP can shed light on holding frame but it goes overboard as many if not all exclusive belief systems do. RP never see's the other side of the story when countless girls break up with men for being "controlling assholes".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 09:20 PM
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That's what /r/seduction is for - getting girls. Read The Rules Of The Game and do everything it tells you. Seduction/PUA is for getting girls. Red Pill is for 'keeping them'. However PUA at it's worst is for attention needy narcissists that can never be satisfied by how many sluts they bag. And the pill at it's best is how to maintain frame and be a man in the relationship. At it's worst it is a means of control for frustrated chauvinists with shitty personalities that refuse to work on said pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 09:08 PM
1

I think you just helped me condense my issue with RedPill - working on controlling ones 'relationship' rather than ones unattractive personality that threatens ones very 'relationships'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 08:59 PM
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Christ, do people honestly talk this way to each other on facebook?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/15 02:42 AM
1

(I think we can agree that women get away with being quite solipsistic more easily than men). Dunno if I can. Human beings are solipsistic - period. It's not that men are less solipsistic. It's just that they're only one of the two that had their solipsism challenged (via feminism). Now men are starting to quietly via the internet inform females of what it's like to be men. The "masculinist" movement, or "mens side" movement whatever you wanna call it just seems to be starting. Hell gay men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 05:15 AM
1

Not exactly. Psychopathy is being confused with Narcissism as is often the case. The term get's overused on the internet. Think of the ability to feel guilt as a continuum. With too much guilt at the left (Neurosis) and too little on the right (Psychopathy). Narcissism would be farther to the left with actual Psychopathy being a pathological, often neurological absence of guilt and empathy. Women are actually highly empathetic. Moreso than their male counterparts as conventional wisdom suspects.…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:49 PM
1

I often wonder how many guys indulge in too much RedPill when what they really need is just some game and they'd be pretty well off. I'm just not sure it's about reigning in beta tendencies. Just don't be one in the first place. And being a person who honors their responsibility for another persons feelings is just being responsible. With all due respect it sounds like you have far more experience with dating than relationships. Because it's really about picking your battles. But it's not a war.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 07:24 PM
2

Ah, yes. Well, if you can't win the argument you can always be a dick. I did overlook what you're saying didn't I? Guess that makes two of us. Another succesfully fruitless reddit exchange...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:40 AM
3

Am I? You're applying one subs rules to another sub. I'm not sure I care enough at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:41 PM
3

All human beings are terribly ugly on the inside... 'People = Shit' Really? What is this /r/IAm14AndImSoMetal ? That's just plain immature and predictable neckbeardery and I really don't have a lot of patience for that crap. It's not that simple. Most importantly - it's solipsism and projection. Then you'll be damned. Because you have, you just didn't know. Because the internet is honest. People lie in person. Do you always tell perfect strangers what their life is like? No. I don't have friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:30 PM
3

Huh?! So referencing cancerous self pity to make a point is the same as posting a self pity itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:24 PM
1

Y'know. I understand exactly what you're talking about, so I can't say your wrong - in the context of a short term relationship or hook up you're on the money, but of course I was talking about marriage, therefore long term. A rather different ball game. But you misunderstand empathy and emotion. You can empathize with a woman whilst still holding your frame - that would be exactly what a good guy does. In fact confusing empathy with emotion is very dysfunctional and the sign of dysfunctional ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:01 PM
3

No actually. For what? Personal attack? It was a general observation not an individualized attack. Otherwise I don't understand what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 09:56 PM
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"Marriage is about learning to think for two people" was the best advice I ever heard on relationships. The crucial element to a healthy patnership is empathy - the thing most lacking on the outskirts of this battle of the sexes that dominates the internet (TRP vs Tumblr/SJW). Think about that for a moment - it's hardly a coincidence. Because the fact is - the majority of us are just in the middle trying to get by. Find love, family, and a little happiness. TRP/SGW dominates the internet not rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 02:04 AM
3

Blue pills on to something - even if they most likely take the ball and run too far with it as many a social sub does. Because the prime thing the internet thrives on is anonymity. That can be a both an advantage and disadvantage. It democratizes our ideas which is great, but it also democratizes experience, which bloody well isn't. Therefore a fundamental value in real life disappears online. You could be getting financial advice from a Wall Street banker with 20+ years in or a 14 year old with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 09:02 PM
1

I don't think there are very many good women. Based on what? Is the big question worth as much energy (and self actualization) as you put into red pill. The crucial word being "think" and the missing word being "american" or "swedish" - bastions of liberalized feminism. Then you'd maybe have a point. But at face value it implies your youth, inexperience with women, lack of options, and most likely travel. Furthermore, it can never be said enough that although the anonymity of the internet provid…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 11:50 PM
14

As usual with Red Pill. I agree with about 75% and then it goes off the rails and contradicts itself. Perhaps the one fatal flaw in RP is it's oversimplification of a rather complicated nuanced subject - relationships. Because as it stands, many times on /r/redpill Alpha is mistaken for what amounts to a domineering, emotionally constipated, jerk. Which any women of genuine quality sees right through as the "controlling asshole" cliche that all women have experienced, and talk about, and were to…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 11:38 PM
2

TL;DR : " No Respect = No Blowjobs "
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:17 PM
2

I agree, but I just don't like the idea of someone's needs dominating then switching, that's not symbiotic. Rather, both should never be concerned with what they're getting, but what they're giving. The dial should be always on "Give" - just sometimes if you're beat down, it's dialed down. Y'know?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:14 PM
0

Redpill has it's truths. And it also makes dressing up cliched adolescent urban myth an artform. Very reasoned (sounding) treatise amounting to nothing more than "dude, i bet she's loose".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/14 03:40 PM
3

It is true we don't exactly have in everything the same mindset as in the US or UK... we are kind of more hardened by the harsher realities of life, less sensitive, less "entitled", just accept tough shit the way it is. But it is not the same as traditionalism. This. With the force of thousand suns. Nicely as /u/GoLokiGoGo tried to slip it in. Many redditors, hell americans, are woefully undertraveled, amused to death, and pontificating about things we have more opinions than experience about on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 02:56 AM
1

Careful though. "Not giving a fuck" is a terrible mantra that is part of this 'cult of self esteem' that is misguided, and I hear it alot. Not giving a fuck about what people think? Maybe it's because you're intolerable asshole that refuses to take responsibility for your action. Not giving a fuck about others feelings? Empathy is what makes us responsible human beings and a real man is responsible. Nuance is important and "not giving a fuck" is a shibboleth that doesn't do justice to just how g…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 08:25 PM
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An old person, that isn't related to you, has alot of knowledge to drop. That's how I learned about the regrets of working too much, not loving hard enough, and the perils of being too concerned with what people think. Old folks are a priceless forgotten resource.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:07 AM
2

Well said - This is the aftermath of de-industrialization. Best part of the article in my opinion : Nobody trusts the police any more; nobody wants to join the army because no one believes in its wars; traditional industries have been decimated and the only thing to replace them are stifling, mind-numbing positions in service and retail.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 10:21 PM
4

No, I didn't notice that. Just like we all haven't noticed the lack of acceptance movement for broke chicks driving shitty cars - there's no need. They still get laid like fat rich men. Society doesn't "care" about cute poor women just like they don't "care" about fat rich men - because they're elites in their own gender hierarchy. Women value status. Men value looks. Period. No need for victimology here - there's obstructive bitching on all sides and this smells like it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 06:25 AM
1

TRP isn't about making women change, men have tried that for millennia and it hasn't worked. It's about getting rid of the feminist bullshit clouding everyone's vision so men can start being men again! 10/10
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 05:24 AM
1

I respect your respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/14 03:13 AM
1

Agreed 100%. And I didn't click the 5 Stages till after posting - that says it all. And many men are dealing with different levels of unexceptionality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/14 09:13 PM
2

First I was confused but then it made me see that RPW might answer why feminism truly objects to porn - correct me if I'm wrong. Isn't the point of RPW to raise the price of pussy again? Give it back the value that feminism devalued with selling sluttiness as liberation so to speak? The only other way I can see it would be it further separates the wives from the whores like back in the day? And "liberated" women would have to get more RPW to compensate. Which might be the real reason why feminis…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 08:59 PM
1

Which brings us to the biggest problem of /r/redpill. Lack of "5's". It's a demographics thing though. Reddit is mostly school aged white males. What is really needed is more 30+ something's that bring leadership to this. And that leadership being comprised of actual average guy experience, not just some seduction "expert" trying to promote his 'system' and wares.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:50 PM
1

Yeah. Like, another method might be to find some friends? Or a good woman? Nothing takes the taste of a bad ex out of your heart like someone new. Women know this, men struggle to achieve this - because we've been lied to granted. But at least /r/seduction is pro-active about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/14 08:18 PM
1

Sounds to me like OP is a positive well adjusted guy on the self improvement track and needs those kind of tools. Reddit isn't perfect and not everything can be found here. I would highly recommend "Rules Of The Game" by Neil Strauss. It avoids the narcissistic players and frustrated misogyny that comes along with seduction and redpill and focuses solely on self improvement - it's about getting out there and improving yourself socially, with step by step assignments - not bitching, just doing. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/14 10:10 AM
1

Is it weird that the only thing I disapprove of is her Libertarianism? I mean, that's just gross.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 07:01 AM
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/r/thathappened
/r/MensRights16/02/14 05:05 PM
2

Amazing how all you really need to know about these kinds of things can fit on a business card? I can assure you as an older guy, that ultimately, this fish metaphor is all you really need to know about how things work. That and be mindful that women make men miserable occasionally to test wether he cares. Just bear in mind that men's rights and women's rights are both fertile ground for narcissists looking to qualify their selfishness. Take everything with a grain of salt and remember what O'Ne…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 02:46 PM
1

Dun-dun-duhhh! But I think the more interesting thing to erode in that case would be nationalism, stateism, etc. US vs Russia/Iran/N.Korea? Japan vs China? Pfft. Nigga - it's humanity vs martians now. We could so do with a good alien invasion...
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 11:06 PM
7

I've thought about this from time to time. In the sense that if things went tit's up - feminism disappears overnight. I wonder if the only time that will ever get challenged is if/when we colonize Mars or some post apocalyptic Lord Of The Flies to straighten stuff out right quick.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 08:48 AM
2

Yes, and to add to what Dr. rrr said if I can. Many of you guys aren't old enough to have an opinion truly seasoned with experience on this matter. And all the theory in the world is only second best to practice. That means {gulp} diving in, loving, leaving, being left, and learning. Thus each year your opinion is given new information (not that everybody uses new information properly and openly) Because, there are good women out there. I have loved them - good ones, bad ones, and one near gangb…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 10:37 PM
1

Uh. It takes a lifetime or a very special kind of crazy bitch to fuck me right. So I don't know who you're laying but your standards for good sex sound a helluva lower than mine. Which is fine actually. There are most likely other standards you have that I lower in kind.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 10:13 PM
3

Make it part of the kissing if you want. Obviously don't ask her "How am I doing?". Ask her how she likes to be kissed. "I'm going to need a demonstration, y'know, ferscience? {smile}" Provided you aren't initially aggressive I wouldn't worry about it too much. Either way the aforementioned can be used to find out and game - win/win. As for the actual kissing. I'd say feel free to pull back then to keep her on her toes. "Oh my gosh why'd did you kiss me? I'm not that kind of boy. Mother warned m…
/r/seduction25/08/13 03:14 PM
3

{shrugs} Neil Strauss - Why learn from one when you can learn from the one that learned from them all?
/r/seduction07/07/13 06:27 PM
8

A) She's a co-worker B) She's a fucking 6 dude... C) " Well, when you want your next date..." A + B + C = AFC
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:24 PM
3

You're gonna be fine lad, just fine... Just remember. You can know this, but you won't KNOW it until repeated experiences drill it into your very core. Then you no longer have to remember what to do, you just do. And you'e had enough success to know that failure is only part of the tide. The student has become the teacher, he now has - Natural Game.
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:49 AM
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Yeah, this is 1st world teenager problems and being awkward with your body. The answer is to go for it. But that's hard to do when you never have. Either start taking chances or be miserable - that's kind of how life works. Again, DO IT. It's not fear of failure. It's fear of the unknown. The more you do things the more you realize the worst that could happen was far from worst. Or at the very least an awkward memory that turns to a hilarious story a decade after.
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:49 AM
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Hmm, yeah. Off the top of my head I'd have to say... "Cocky/Funny" It's the Tao of Game - Natural Game. That Flirting is about TEASING. You treat her like your bratty little sister. Refining Cocky/Funny is learning how to be so without going overboard into arrogance, or hurtfulness. But, the only way to refine it is to do it, and you will go too far. You should go too far. It's highly educational. In fact I'd reccommend letting the brakes off and releasing the goddamn Kraken. Say whatever, the f…
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:46 AM
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"Assume Attraction" Funny how anything you really need to know about game could fit entirely on a business card - the rest is actually DOING it.
/r/seduction03/06/13 08:20 PM
8

If you're good looking women will do their best to not let you know. I wouldn't know I was lookable if it weren't for observant wing men or vocal gay men.
/r/seduction26/05/13 07:09 PM
5

Yes. And, it's human nature. By nature of being attractive, people are rarer than average. So the instinct is "don't fuck this up, because it's rare". However the cure is easy - the one way to NOT make it rare, is to do it again. "If all goes well sweet, if not, it's totally not a big deal. Because their are other fish in the sea" The more you fish the easier it is. Much the same as the way to get over an ex is to mingle. The way to get over a 10's rejection, hit on another 10. Then the numbers …
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:48 PM
2

This - best comment in thread. The happy medium I found was Denver. City with small town feel. However the appeal of the "Southern Gentleman" is real. Be it a certain sociability and emphasis on small talk and niceties or it's the accent that stands one out in a big city - prob a little both. There is something there.
/r/seduction06/04/13 11:02 PM
0

Yeah. Don't give yourself a handle like "puaAthens" when you can't even handle a girl TALKING to you.
/r/seduction22/03/13 07:13 AM
1

I know that feel bro... Closed a hard 9 and lost my shit. Ruined it with excessive post-coitus contact. But, go on... Tell us about "Texting Game". What did you use to do versus now? What is the one thing you know know that you didn't before regarding texting? What are the biggest mistakes in texting, or any general rules you have?
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:11 PM
6

At first I was like "Fucking a girl in your car is 'Game'?". But then I was like, "Yup".
/r/seduction16/03/13 03:16 AM
1

Almost, almost A+ advice... Until here... DO NOT OVER TEXT. It will only push that girl into thinking you are completely nuts and needy and you can guarantee she will never want to meet. And on the other spectrum don't always wait three hours to respond every time she texts you because that also says you're not that interested. That's borderline "Fish telling how to catch fish"/What women want vs What they respond to. Chronic neglect should be an obviously bad idea. But if a guy's established in…
/r/seduction05/03/13 08:16 AM
1

This is why we broke up in the first place, you're just no fun. Later...
/r/seduction31/01/13 10:57 PM
1

Lighten up harvard.
/r/seduction31/01/13 09:48 PM
2

Cheers. Makes the fist itch but I try to remind myself that for every 25 guys you get looking for genuine self improvement you get a legit sociopath or narcissist looking to better learn how to manipulate people. Pisser is some of these guys are at the very heart of the seduction market. This a-hole wants someone to control, not love. The only person compatible with a jerk like this is victims. Anyways. So is it just coincidence that we both live in the D.C. metro or do I have another stalker?
/r/seduction31/01/13 02:44 AM
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First of all, this isn't the thread for this. Second of all. Bro, do you even love? Have you had a series of serious girlfriends? Though this isn't as bad as those old "List Your Ideal" on 4chan where a bunch of neckbeards say they want a chick who "plays video games, gives bj's, thin, etc". It's still annoying. Just a couple years older at most. But still young and self absorbed. Granted, not as bad, but it echoes of solipsism, entitlement, and idealism. What your asking for is yourself. Too ba…
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:04 PM
7

...nothing makes me wetter faster than a tall, muscular, confident, intelligent alpha male being dominating, charming, and witty - but those guys (who are like that naturally) typically exist without certain qualities that we women do honestly know are more important to living a happy life, like empathy, forethought, insight, being nurturing, etc... Yes. But as a tall, brighter than dark, and handsome male my problems were that I was empathetic, insightful, nurturing, etc, and too eager to show …
/r/seduction13/01/13 07:26 AM
1

30+ Sedditor, this was me at 25. So... No. Then Yes. Then both. What you have is an advantage if you learn how to invite attraction, which might be against your best instincts. Let me explain. FLIRTING & COURTSHIP: Is about social domination and proving you're a man worth her attention. What you're also subconsciously advertising is that you're your own man, and won't take her shit. LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS: Is about thinking for two people. And there's the rub. Rarely are any of us good at both. Th…
/r/seduction10/01/13 02:30 AM
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You stop looking for Ms. Right and fuck Ms. Right now. I reckon there's a lot of things that kind of go without saying from my perspective but that's the rub with experience - we only know that which we discover for ourselves. Ask yourself what your expecting to get out of seduction. Love? Bro, we're all looking for that. That is the WRONG reason to be here then. This is about becoming kind of person that's ready for it - confident, experienced (and with options, so when you find a girl she resp…
/r/seduction04/01/13 04:39 PM
2

Right on. And hat's off to the guy who called out the misguided sexism. So, pardon me for pulling rank here, but raise your hands if anybody in this thread is older than reddits demographic 18 -28? Because I am. And with that comes a little perspective. Ie; The good ones are taken. Women say this all the time in regards to men, but vice-versa? Because there's a lot of residual nice guy syndrome in here - white knighting protective instinct basically. But there's also some good guy principles - l…
/r/seduction04/01/13 12:18 AM
3

Dude. Walk. Away. As hard that is to bear. This is just typical One-Itus. Freshman mistake. Hurricane broke it down best. I've plowed through a litany of "indifference flags" assuming they were 'shit tests'. No, it was indifference. And you made the same mistake I always made, you assume you're being confidently persistent when you're actually being desperately persistent. Think about that. There is no such thing as alpha chasing. You were in the one-itus hole the minute you started working for …
/r/seduction20/12/12 01:17 AM
2

Nice Guy's are sackless boring betas that make zero impressions on people and blame women for their failures. Their fear of rejection dominates their social instincts and makes them completely forgettable. Good Guys however - are confident, alpha-gentleman and the cream of the crop to women. He's polite, but picky. "Nice" but hardly a pushover. Congrat's you're not a Nice Guy. You're a Good Guy. But don't take my word for it...
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:44 PM
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Women are the new commitment phobes.
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:35 PM
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