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| 321 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out. | Resources | ALitterOfPugs | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Trying to start a new conversation after a lady doesn't respond to the last message. | Conversation | ALitterOfPugs | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 06:23 PM |
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| 1 | 3 Ways I Got Better at TALKING - Without Leaving My HouseThats a little different, because most games that use a mic are goal-oriented. So only do that if your good or playing super casual. When I am trying to win and the dude talking about his Saturday is getting killed 17 times it can make other ppl on the team heated | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Are you TRULY happy single? I know that's part of the philosophy here, but I'm struggling to get there after a break up.People who are truly "happily single" have relationships with other people that are as deep as an romantic monogamous relationship. Thing is that the majority of people don't get that deep with others compared to the way they do with a person in relationship. But the thing is that being single is awesome, because life is awesome. Life is great even without a girlfriend. You'll feel lonely and stuff more often than you would if you were in a relationship, but it goes away and than your back to li… | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Most men and women who can get relationships both casual and serious, don't need to join r/seduction . So what happened that made/caused you to need/visit/join r/seduction?I'd recommend a therapist, but I'm sure you've heard many times by now. Sorry that BS happened to you | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Most men and women who can get relationships both casual and serious, don't need to join r/seduction . So what happened that made/caused you to need/visit/join r/seduction?Hi, I didn't see posts that address this kind of question when searching the thread. How can I word or ask this question? It doesn't seem board. I am asking specifically what motivated them to join and why. No assumption of any kind. The question is open to everyone and it doesn't fit into those questions that have been addressed before. | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 07:54 PM |
| 2 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!Frequency, proximity, familiarity and time. They aren’t “picking-up” their classmates. They just go over for a chat and whether it goes well or not they will see then again and again and again until they graduate | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Im grateful for the new luxury sports car I drive and amazing pay I get from a stress less job. Idk where you got money into your head either? But thanks for sharing your false assumption with everyone. You can have all this stuff without being a narcissistic predator. Also been a entrepreneur, but make more stress less money working as a high level employee for a company that needs me. Also grateful that I got a ton of cash exploiting the stock market right now. | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 03:04 AM |
| 0 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.You call this bitterness because it’s a couple thoughtful paragraphs? And are you implying resentment towards narcissism is bad thing? | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Why | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.What we want me to do? Post their usernames and post links to their threads to give them some reknown? Let them fall off our radars. If your implying I am making all this up participate read the comments on this thread and the many other posts of people asking for help. I'm not saying its 90% of the sub fall into unethical-PUA , but its more than a fair share. | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.^ Moral of the story ladies and gentlemen | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Pick up artist | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Lol its a book. Models by Mark Manson. Very good read. Its why its recommended alot. | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Confidence! When you embody the msg of your post it just comes down to having the confidence to do these flirting things and things you read. When your riddled with anixtey you'll forget the things you've read. But with confidence the simple "Hi" is 10x more attractive than a nervous dude with a scheme of a pick up | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Well, eventually you want to get to a place where game isn't needed. You never see a happy husband plotting game to keep his wife. They just flirt and be themselves. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Good description. The lifestyle change part is important. Its hard to bear for introvert like myself, but I hate the fact my # postings on social media and getting girls correlate. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.I'll be sure to check it out thanks | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Its that, plus PUA are more interested being known, building themselves up, or advertising rather than giving advice. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Psychiatric consular. Concerned with everything related to their psych history and reason for being at the center. Real psychiatrist in a hospital setting do very little consuleing. Its more about giving the right meds if needed to the right people for them, and for us is about the talking | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Agree. Bigger issue is how much and quickly they invest emotionally into getting a number or SC. I wouldn't say keep expectations low per se, but making sure all your emotional love eggs aren't in one basket is important | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.s that a criticism of my post or just people you've seen on here? A lot of you come from a background of video games , deep fantasy lore , and porn. With very limited social interactions. (ME included) That description literally encompasses 70% of millennial males if not more and more than 80% of gen x males and I don't think game is a generational problem | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Exactly, thats the message I want to get out there! Your game improves dramatically once your done with this PUA fluff. I saw r/seduction trending not to long ago. Newcomers should understand this | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 10:04 PM |
| 5 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.lmao. My bad. PUA - Goal: Get "x" from girl at any means, while maximizing chance of success. Usually the goal is a number or sex. Mentality is that dating and sex is a game and that analyzing and social engineering interactions and expectations with women will get you what you want. Lots of unauthentic behavior You don't need a real connection to get a girls number or get laid. You just need persistence, until one girl doesn't realize the game your playing or doesn't care. Dating - Goal: Is thi… | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.I am involved that's how I've come to learn this and how I realized most people posting for help aren't incels but just young ass people or people who ignored this aspect of their lives. Than you see comments that are like super anti-productive. And this post is a warning/description of what to be aware of not a advice column. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 09:40 PM |
| 8 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.1) People who are new to dating, talking with the interest of romance or sex. Seems mostly like teenagers, college grads, kids who have moved to a new city, recently divorced ect. Usually not expressing signs of insecurity, but many signs of inexperience or ignorance to the topic. 2) People who have enough confidence in themselves to be taking steps to solve their problems. Require more than just fundamental advice. And its important for them to share their success or failures with somebody as a… | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 09:36 PM |
| 3 | How to win a guy's heart after the first date?Your overthinking it :) If you want to rev his engines, say something flirty and promiscuous. Careful cause he might respond like a creep or most likely he won’t. Other than that talk about anything your into. Beer, weed, sex, rap music, games, cornovirus, politics anything. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Warning to the newcomers: Heres the ironic thing about this sub....and why "professional PUA"s need to be phased out.Pick up artist | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | My girlfrend doesn't wanna have sex with me, should I break up?Go for the neck and then work your way down on her next time. I think ora sex is just as awesome if not better than regular. Just me. Sounds like it’s heading to sex. If you really like her no reason to break up or cheat on her. She’s going slow to not get hurt. Good luck | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 3 | My girlfrend doesn't wanna have sex with me, should I break up?What about eating her out...relieve *some* of your tension and ease her into opening up that part of your relationship. Just say u need it, esp. at this point. Idk why this incel recommends cheating. Don't do that. But express your needs bro. You haven't told her yet. Its important you do. If she can't reciprocate. You got to make a choice. | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 07:42 PM |
| 0 | so this happensThat doesn't matter you dumb fuck. You can't get the the pawn without killing the knight and you can't kill the rook with the knight. You fukin idiot, chess isn't that complicated. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 06:18 PM |
| 4 | so this happensPawn can't move diagonal. So unless rook decides to smash your face instead of watching pawn, knight won't be safe to take pawn. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:12 AM |
| 10 | Don't kiss her on the lips. Instead..The neck is the clit of the upper body, but even then I wouldn't suggest using a kiss on the neck to greet someone. If your making a move or trying to put them in the mood, sure. Otherwise the cheek or lips is fine. Also this post spent 2.5x more words bashing people than giving advice. Good advice doesn't require a disclaimer to filter out your targeted audience. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | On a date, do opportunities for escalation come by organically or do you have to create them?Both. Problem is that organic opportunity comes, but you need to do 2 things 1) Identify it 2) Engage So its going to bring a similar nerves and skill as a created opportunity. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingI didn’t think any good would come from my comment but it needed to be said, thanks | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 04:57 AM |
| 3 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingIt would represent half only if the amount of trans men is equivalent to the amount of trans women. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:13 AM |
| 5 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingSo to to comment on your "warp my [your] head around" gender being a social construct and to answer the hypothetical scenario:: Here's the jist I believe. Sex is the biological differences - primarily genitalia, which in turn has a significant affect on what your particular body decides to produce in regards to hormones, biochemicals, muscle development ect. Easy to define, easy to identify, except in situations like ambiguous genitalia (i.g. XY (male) chromosome but undeveloped sex organ that l… | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Texting Game & AdviceI don't believe in playing games. I like the mentality approach instead of trying to find the right times to text. You got the number, you got her replying. She is replying and having a convo with you. Sounds like a typical Not much to talk about. See her in person more and text less imo. I am a little older, with a office job and stuff so maybe its just me but I don't like having 3 day convos. Don't ignore, but don't become to infatuated where cause yourself stress throughout the day over someo… | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Stop the negativity!Seems like your not making an argument against the direct approach with exception to saying that being direct ("showing your cards" )leads to rejection faster. So 2 things on that. 1) Lets say rejection is the end result regardless of what you do; In this case the time between rejection and the beginning of your 'approach' is a lot longer if you do the indirect route. Whereas being direct the rejection is immediate. Making direct better 2) However, if your saying being indirect significantly inc… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | My two approaches today, how can I improve?'but maybe I’m overestimating myself. ' - Self defeating talk. No evidence to support this doubt from the details you've shared. Second approach doesn't sound good or genuine. Computers are so good, 1st graders are using them. That wouldn't have led to a convo whether she knew how to fix it or not. If she was coding or something that you can turn that into something, but most people don't want to talk about software bugs and computer troubles. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 09:36 PM |
| 5 | A Girl said 'I don't know you' when asking her out?I feel like Valentines day is more for couples, people with connections, and not really for first dates and strangers to meet. Like in movies yeah, but I think generally its not a first date holiday. Technically, a rejection I guess. I think you should have either continued convo or left it there. Idk about giving your number to her without her asking. She'd likely never hit you up. Thats my guess though | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 4 | With girls I really like and/or are in my social circle, I freeze up when a closing opportunity is basically handed to me. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.... Anybody have tips to get over this?I think the problem is that you aren't experienced in a exclusive physical and emotional relationship. Why else are you nervous when you know you'll see them again? My guess is that its because your your anticipating the awkwardness or shame you might feel (but shouldn't feel) when you ask someone out and it doesn't go your way. That feeling might be multiplied because you see her many times. Is this person also someone who wants a relationship with somebody or likes to hangout with people with … | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Insecure about my height.5'5. Anyways your insecurity is either coming from a different source, you truly don't understand how others perceive you, or a doubt/self-esteem issue is holding you back. Honestly, people can't tell the difference of 5'11 vs 6'0 without 2 things of that size standing next to each other. And communicating in person really decreases the negative impact of height...which again you shouldn't be worrying about at 5'11. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 11:36 PM |
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