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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:29 PM |
| 43 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...Ugh, these tik tok videos never play the entire way through. The video keeps stopping and loading. Can someone tell me what she says? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Absolutely heartbreaking. This needs to stop.Slammed a cabinet door because I was "talking more than him" in a conversation. ??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 37 | I don't even know what to say anymore at this pointShe's right. If you have a strong stomach, google Pony the orangutan sex worker from Borneo. This shit is still going on today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:26 PM |
| 38 | HVM examples in fiction and irl?This was a surprise for me but after recently binge watching King of the Hill, I would have to say Hank Hill is definitely in the HVM realm like 98% of the time barring a few problematic episodes. -Hank was raised by a very misogynistic, hypermasculine father that was abusive to him but Hank vows to not treat his wife and children in that manner -is hard working, honest, dependable, always sticks to his word -takes the 'being a good neighbor' attitude to heart and is always willing to help someo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:59 AM |
| 254 | Anyone else notice when eldest woman in the family passes away the entire family falls apart?One of the emotional labors pushed on women is the responsibility of maintaining family ties. Ie: remembering birthdays, gift giving, organizing family reunions, holiday get togethers, sending letters, phone calls to family members, checking in. When these women die, rarely do the men step in to do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:48 PM |
| 19 | Excuse me WHATAs someone who suffers from IBS, NO ONE will dare to control when and where I poop. Any guy that dares to shame me will get kicked in the balls and a destroyed, unflushed toilet. I take no prisoners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:41 AM |
| 33 | It's almost as liberal feminism actually benefits men and that's why they like it so muchI read that my third year of college. Awesome book! Wish I still had it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:24 AM |
| 118 | It's almost as liberal feminism actually benefits men and that's why they like it so muchThis is truth. I could never do the casual sex, one night stand thing. Treating sex as transactional is extremely harmful to both sexes. People can't have meaningful relationships anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensI crushed on Piccolo from Dragon Ball Z! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 3 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensHe's an Animorph too? That's hot XD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensI'll have to look him up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 19 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensIf aliens ever showed up, see how fast Male religious leaders make sex with aliens a terrible sin and compare it to beastiality. Then be caught months later secretly hooking up with aliens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:08 AM |
| 3 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensWho is he? (Or she?) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:59 AM |
| 5 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensAnd I don't think it's weird at all. If you're beyond fed up with one thing, other things will be more attractive lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:56 PM |
| 6 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensThere's a Scifi show premiering in January called Resident Alien. Look it up and look at that alien :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:50 PM |
| 6 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensIf you want a few examples, look up Meruem from HunterXHunter, Garrus and Thane from Mass Effect, the water creature from The Shape of Water | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:40 PM |
| 5 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensThinking back to all of the non humans I found attractive in any sort of media, they would have to be hominoid shape (or else it wont work anatomically), face needs to have some humanlike features (mouth, nose, eyes need to be in the same place but they can be any shape; have multiple lids or whatever. external ears are not necessary). Taller than me, so over 5' 1, but not like gigantic. Muscly, or toned. He he. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:37 PM |
| 4 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensI don't want them to look and act like human males, that's the point of aliens! Lol. Thanks for offering though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 4 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensThey look human? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:17 PM |
| 16 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotalienspulls up chair, takes out notepad Yes? Don't leave me hanging! This will be a long winter. XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 33 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensRobots/AIs are on the table too! I agree, Genos is hot. Also Meruem from HunterXHunter. 10/10 would bang. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:08 PM |
| 3 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensJames?!? Bleeeeh! He annoyed me so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:05 PM |
| 5 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliens😆 oh I wish! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:49 PM |
| 3 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensI think you're thinking of salarians? They look very bug like. The Drell are reptilian in appearance. I love reptiles so I'm probably biased lol. Angara are cool, but not as nice looking imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 18 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensYea, not without some generic engineering. Unless it's a species like the Asari from Mass Effect who could take genetic information from any sentient species through melding when producing a child. But the child is always Asari. I don't want kids anyway so I wouldn't have to be on BC all the damn time so that's a bonus! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 83 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensI hope there is! If they did show up, men would be forced to shape up because they suddenly got competition. Hopefully these aliens aren't equally as sexist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 9 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensThat's funny! Though i personally find David Bowie ugly af but to each their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 18 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensHonestly if they looked like the Drell from Mass Effect, I wouldn't look at another human male again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 10 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensOh I know about the bed bugs shivers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 5 | If human males were no longer the only option? I'd do it. #hotaliensI'm gonna need that explained! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 18 | Magazine for TEEN GIRLS writes a sex article encouraging teens to send sexts, be handcuffed or blindfolded, not believe in cuddling, be spanked and have their hair pulled.Okay, I read the article and it's literally some stupid astrology predictions. It's not really 'encouraging these things' per say, rather telling girls 'since you're a Libra/Gemini whatever, this is what you like in sex.' Um, fuck you first of all because everyone is different and has different desires. Two, the 'predictions/ interpretations' are so OBVIOUSLY what's considered popular today. 50 years ago it would not read like this. Third, astrology is a fucking sham so stop lying to girls/ wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 11:12 PM |
| 14 | Why are women expected to change for men?It's a propaganda tool for the US Army. It's where original video games started out, as training tools for troops. Now they heavily influence and fund games like COD, Modern Warfare, and Battlefield as recruiting tools to make joining the army seem bad ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:35 PM |
| 14 | 😭😭😭😭Mine is having an IBS poop attack while giving a public presentation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:49 AM |
| 45 | File this under 'Things That Sound Like A Compliment, but Not Really. "That was my takeaway too. I was thinking, "Hmmm, what does he mean by 'beautiful' personality? Cute, helpful, never gets mad, always puts him before herself?" Everything you just stated probably. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:00 PM |
| 48 | The cesspool of online dating is pure male delusion, really dude???Worse are the pics where they don't smile, they look bored or pissed off. Women don't want to interact with a guy that looks angry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you?Okay looked it up. In 2004 there was a beta testing phase that required invites. Near the end of 2005, the invite spooler was deactivated and from then on, anyone could type in there gmail address link and get an account. I was able to get mine around 2008/9. Not exactly a lie but it wasn't true at the time and it certainly fed into his "I'm so important and everything I do is a gift to humanity hur hur I got an invitation to gmail bc I'm so important" ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you?I was able to get a gmail account that year so I don't know when that was the case. Would have to look that up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 01:52 PM |
| 11 | What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you?"Then you better learn because I'm not living in a filthy house and I'm not going to be your maid. " Is my go to response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:57 PM |
| 13 | What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you?My very first bf in college tried to tell me that that you had to be professionally 'invited' to use a gmail account. As in gmail couldn't be used by everyday citizens (this was back in 2008). The guy was a narcissist and a pathological liar. Lied to me about all kinds of shit, including his age. I was so young and naive and didn't know what to think until my general supervisor pulled me aside and showed his mug shot on the Megan's Law website. Convicted sex predator and absolutely full of shit.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 6 | The damaging myth of the 'Alpha Male'It's a staple of the Pick Up Artist handbook now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 15 | OLD is so effin grimI made a dating profile a week ago with a description of my likes, interests, career goals, and political leanings. Included a bit about what I DO NOT want and helpful tips on how to talk to me/good conversation starters (because I know it's hard to get a good convo starting online). Messages I've recieved. "Hey." "Wats up?" "Emojis" "Hey wyd?" "Stating how beautiful I am" Yea, I know. "Stating how sexy I am" I know this too. "Ur hot." Bitch, I KNOW "Asks me question that was clearly answered in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:56 PM |
| 8 | Well, since we can’t choose our sexuality, yes ladies we are raising our standards!Same! Seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 43 | Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!!Exactly. The only emotions I feel is in response to the discomfort and pain of menstruation. Who doesn't irritable when they're in pain but expected to work all day? The only mood swings I ever had were during puberty when your hormone levels are all over the place and menstruation was worse. When I hit 20, there was a noticable difference in how I responded to bad situations. The knee jerk anxiety freak outs weren't as bad and became less and less common. Now it's damn near impossible to get me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:14 PM |
| 20 | Do men think women find this sexy?I just checked to see if I did block him and yea I forgot to block him after the screen shot. He's blocked now. Never responded to him lol! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 6 | The Bar is LowYea I see article after article telling women to pee after sex and always wash up to prevent UTI's but not enough articles telling men to be considerate to their partners and wash their funky dicks and hands before sex. I've never had issues with UTI's or BV. Not until a few months after I was casually seeing a guy I ended up at the gyno with a smelly vag and a swollen, draining cyst on my vuvla. I did everything I was supposed to do to keep clean down there. No longer seeing the guy for other r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 5 | The Bar is LowI recommend getting bidet attachment for the toilet paper issue and a full detachment from non potty trained LVMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 4 | I was reading an article about 23 ways that exes try to Hoover you back in. My ex has done at least half of them just in the last few weeks. Sound familiar?You’re never going to forgive me or give me another opportunity? Insert Lana Kane's "Nooooooooooope!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:03 PM |
| 43 | A tip on vetting for political suitability in the U.S.Politics is also very important to me and I see it as everyone's civic duty to vote. It's one thing when they come out as the exact opposite of everything you believe in, but it's even worse when they are apathetic about it. It's usually white men because their rights aren't up in the air every few years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 11:40 AM |
| 6 | The Bar is LowIt's both. And the man would get fucking indignant when the woman calls them out on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 11:31 AM |
| 124 | The Bar is LowHave you read the countless horror stories from women who are married to men who don't wipe/wash their asses because they think it's gay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Dating as a DemisexualThat was me in college listening to my female peers kn how they couldn't wait to sleep with a guy. I thought maybe I was gay but I felt zero attraction to the same sex. Then I thought I was asexual, but I still got horny, still masturbated, still fantasized. I know it's natural to want to wait to get to know someone but this is another level of that and that's what many people don't understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a DemisexualDemisexual is an orientation, and it so far describes my me l my feelings. It's often mistaken for asexual because sexual arousal is rare. I still experience sexual arousal and tmi, I do masturbate but I don't experience any initial sexual arousal or sexual need until I'm really close with that person, even though I find that person physically attractive. Hell, I've even been romantically attracted to a guy I was seeing but I struggled to get horny for him. I've always felt this way and I'm in m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:50 PM |
| 89 | This is why we say no to coffee dates. Before finding FDS, I agreed to a coffee date. He was supposed to text me a time to meet but never did. The NEXT DAY he asked me why I didn't wake him up'Wow'. Like how dare you expect me to be a responsible adult? So offended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:12 PM |
| 26 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.People said I was 'overreacting' when I got my tubes tied shortly after Trump was elected... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Right now school and work is eating up most of my time but I try to squeeze in a couple of hours every other week on the weekend. I just got a new gaming PC. Never played PC before but I want to start modding games. Right now I'm replaying the mass effect trilogy with mods :). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Women would still be chattel with that mentally. Change is happening. Just because it's not as fast as you want it to doesn't mean we should just give up and not fight for equity in all areas of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 12 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Let's put the blame where it belongs: unhealthy, maladjusted men influencing the gaming and anime industry, as well as using them as emotional crutches because going to therapy is too 'feminine' and 'weak'. Women enjoy video games just as much as men, yes we are well aware of the sexism and other issues with games. That's why I'm part of gaming forum run by women who produce mods that eliminate sexist elements (modifying female clothes/armour to something that's practical, adjusting camera angle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:53 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020This had happened to me multiple times on dating apps too. It's like they get off on it. A few years ago, I was conversing with this guy and it was going well. We met and saw a movie together, really enjoyable, gave me a hug afterwards, kept chatting with me through text days after. We planned a hiking trip the next week and met at a restaurant 10 min from the trail we were going to use. We ate and chatted and I noticed he seemed kind of distracted but shrugged it off. We go out to our cars (dri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:49 PM |
| 10 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?That's what I immediately thought of when I read this post. I never found that video funny. It just highlights the amount of emotional labor women have to put up with because they actually give a damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Literally! They only say it so they don’t have to put in effort- this is coming from someone who used to think men saying this was a compliment !I had an ex that would use the line, "I'm sorry, I'm a monster. " with a look of absolute self loathing every time I got frustrated with his lack of attention and basic consideration. Looking back, I realized it was his go to manipulation tactic to make me feel guilty for getting upset and try to comfort HIM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:34 PM |
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