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Oh. I thought I just picked a name that wasn't taken yet and since I'm an MRA and was going to do an AMA it seemed to make sense. So you're upset because of the handle I chose? Is there a place to clear those beforehand? Like are you part of a committee I could consult or something? Deeply offended seems pretty strong.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 11:29 PM
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You seem to feel pretty strongly about my original post. Can I ask why?
/r/MensRights11/02/16 10:54 PM
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For instance, National Organization for Women aggressively fights any family court reform for shared parenting after divorce. They also mischaracterize father's rights activists. Feminist domination of domestic violence resources makes it nearly impossible for men to get help.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 10:37 PM
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As a comparison, a few days ago a feminist put up a similar AMA. It was filled with goalpost moving, personal unsupported hypotheses, etc and not only did it stay up, but it was stickied. If I had to guess it was the menopause post that you pointed out that doomed the AMA, but not for the reasons you point out.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 10:03 PM
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Yes unfortunately no one else can see it. Honestly I thought it would be helpful for some younger folks and a view as to what's really going on with marriage, family and men's rights today. I wasn't trying to be a trouble maker and I'm not a troll. I only used a new throwaway because my usual handle has too much personal info associated with it. I messaged the mods asking about it, but I don't really expect a reply.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 09:58 PM
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Sorry if it wasn't as insightful as the post Don't Marry!
/r/MensRights11/02/16 08:59 PM
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So remove the entire thing because of one post. OK. When you hit about 50 you'll see.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 08:44 PM
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One thing I've noticed is that cyclists don't necessarily believe the rules apply to them -- rolling through stop signs, lack of signalling, going the wrong way on one way streets -- and I'm sympathetic to cyclists.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 08:37 PM
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Well that's pretty disappointing. I'm just trying to tell you guys a lot of things that your fathers can't for whatever reason. I never presented anything other than my personal experiences. There are several posts a day on here that are far worse offenders. There's one simply titled "Don't Marry" on there right now that doesn't even have anything else to offer. I didn't even get a message that it was being deleted. I wonder if it was even a mensrights mod that did it. If it was, that's disappoi…
/r/MensRights11/02/16 08:35 PM
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Is this AMA deleted? I don't see it on the feed anymore.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 08:30 PM
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Hey it looks like this has disappeared from the feed. Do you see it on there?
/r/MensRights11/02/16 08:29 PM
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She makes about 40% less than I do, so in my state a guideline similar to child support kicks in and I'd have to pay. Duration would be 50-60% the length of the marriage.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 08:18 PM
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There are a lot of myths about menopause and many of them are holdovers from when hormone replacement therapy was the norm. There was a cancer scare associated with it and most women today don't take any HRT. Most of the available info on menopause is euphemism and misdirection. I saw something a while back on the Mayo Clinic website that said there's no reason to expect a drop in libido during menopause which is absolutely absurd. It's like saying that just because your body doesn't produce ins…
/r/MensRights11/02/16 07:55 PM
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Yes over the years we've gone to several marriage counselors - 5 or 6 I think - just so people know, I've really fought hard to try and make it work. Marriage counseling is a disaster, for a couple of reasons. First, the double standards we deal with in the rest of society are not only present, but refined to a T. I remember the first time we went to one, I was sitting there on the couch with a black eye from getting sucker punched by her and the focus of the session was what I could do to not p…
/r/MensRights11/02/16 07:44 PM
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No. No sex at all in almost 4 years. That's another aspect of marriage no one will tell you. Most women are completely done with sex after menopause. So you're signing up for monogamy, but somewhere between the ages of 45 and 52, the agreement turns to celibacy. I think this is a very important aspect for younger men to know, because it's such a closely guarded secret. Most women don't even have any idea what's about to happen to them until it happens. I could talk at length about what I've come…
/r/MensRights11/02/16 06:33 PM
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Well that is the other aspect. My situation was different in that even though I was the SAH parent, I was also the breadwinner and there was no doubt that I would continue to do so once I found a new job. YMMV.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 06:19 PM
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Not sure I understand the question. Are you asking what sorts of strategies to use if you'd like to be a traditional family man, or something like that?
/r/MensRights11/02/16 06:15 PM
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As I said, in today's climate the lower earner really has a lot of power. I was a SAHD for a year after being laid off from a longtime job. I was lucky in that they were very generous and gave me full pay and medical coverage for a year as severance. After doing that I came to the conclusion that if one parent stays home, the family and the children can be much better off if it's the father who stays home. I think that women are much better suited to the typical office environment and men are be…
/r/MensRights11/02/16 06:08 PM
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That's complicated. When my daughter was younger, my now wife was pretty abusive. I had planned on it, but in doing a lot of research and consulting with 5 lawyers it became abundantly clear that divorcing my wife would mean leaving my daughter with an abusive parent. Add to that that the court would likely be a willing and enthusiastic accomplice with absolute power over my life, and the decision to stay became a pretty clear one. I eventually decided that no matter what, the one thing I would …
/r/MensRights11/02/16 05:48 PM
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Are you talking about marrying a man or a woman? If you're marrying a man, then marry with a prenup. If you're heterosexual, don't consider marriage at all. Marriage law in this country is really all about money. States - if they're not there yet - are all moving toward a model where the higher earner is basically responsible for everything, while the lower earner has their rights protected aggressively. If there's one thing you don't want to be in a marriage today, it's the higher earner. I fra…
/r/MensRights11/02/16 05:40 PM
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