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With a boss, it's way different. There's a job on the line. Actually that's a lawsuit waiting to happen. Easiest money she'll ever make especially if it's recorded and/or there is paper trail. In dating, there's no job on the line. Why can't she just tell the man to fuck off and leave that situation? Another analogy is someone pestering you to lend them money. If you really don't want to lend the money, you won't say yes right? Another is if a gay man keeps pestering you (assuming you're a strai…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:33 AM
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If she said yes, that's consent. No ifs and buts about it. There are women that love to be convinced first. Have you seen the Bill Burr bit about women saying no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:13 PM
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I'm not gonna be gaslit into dating trans lmao. I ain't gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:22 PM
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You don't have to filter yourself. You'll get relevant advice/discussions. You'll have similar hobbies most likely (enhanced enjoyment from these hobbies when you're with friends) , lots of more enjoyable stuff to discuss. Because fellow men are physically capable they'll be able to help with activities like moving, cleaning cars, etc. You can't downplay shared life experiences too. Dating advice from women will actively harm you. "asking fish how to catch fish". This goes beyond dating too. Wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:06 AM
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See. You get it then. Men have the same experiences with women when it comes to favors/activities in friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:46 AM
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Have you done a job or activity paired with someone who's not competent? Without that person you can do it by yourself more efficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:33 AM
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You can but it's not ideal. It might even actively harm those activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:24 AM
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You don't have to filter yourself. You'll get relevant advice/discussions. You'll have similar hobbies most likely (enhanced enjoyment from these hobbies when you're with friends) , lots of more enjoyable stuff to discuss. Because fellow men are physically capable they'll be able to help with activities like moving, cleaning cars, etc. You can't downplay shared life experiences too. Dating advice from women will actively harm you. "asking fish how to catch fish". This goes beyond dating too. Wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:16 AM
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Male friendships are beneficial. Female friendships generally aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:48 AM
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That's what men should do. Just say no to the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:16 AM
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I love his content. Just some minor disagreements.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:50 AM
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It didn't have a name before. That compilation of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:18 PM
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Red pill is sexual strategy. What you listed is 100% red pill advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:59 PM
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Post the Dr. Grande vid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:02 PM
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Don't women do the majority of slut shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:01 PM
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Women are not scared ex convicts/criminals but they are scared of paternity tests? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:26 AM
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If you're denying this, just watch the pranks where a man pretends to be with a (fake) woman to ragebait his gf. The woman hits the man like every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:21 PM
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Wait, do people really believe she wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:54 AM
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I'd rather these dudes talk to AI. It's actually fun, like interactive fan fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:18 PM
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The subscribers are actually talking to dudes from India or China lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:14 PM
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(higher) weight also masks a woman's feminine features.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:22 PM
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Oh I thought you meant women are filtering out men if they post on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:48 AM
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That's a much more niche case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:22 AM
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Women filtering out men but not the way they want to. Like, can you give specific examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:43 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:15 AM
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But those are tools to easily spot red flags. Just seeing the reactions to those tells you all that you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:02 AM
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Of course not. But they have the same responsibility for their own arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:30 PM
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Can't these women communicate? "Use your words"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:30 PM
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Imagine if you're a man and you can't cum for some reason. Who's fault would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:58 PM
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If you can't cum that's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:47 PM
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As a man you can still maximize your potential as you age. It's all about looks, money, status. It's still hard work though. If you don't work at it, you'll age like milk. As a woman? You can't get your youth back. You can't subtract bodies. You can't drop the baggage. You can't revert your body to before you had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:04 PM
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If women lose so much due to having children, why not just go child free?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:22 AM
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Do women crave slavery then? Because they're the ones looking to get married most of the time. If the man hasn't proposed after a while, they get upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:14 AM
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Definitely leaving and cutting her off from my life permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:00 PM
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If those shallow women want to use me, I'll use them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:17 AM
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Simping is completely different from treating women with kindness. I've never seen RP having an issue with treating your woman right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:43 PM
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Tell a man he's fat and he should lose weight vs tell a woman she's fat and she should lose weight, who takes this criticism better?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:21 PM
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Hell no. Women manipulate and lie all the time too. This is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:26 PM
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I'm here reading their suggestions and doing the complete opposite lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:46 PM
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Those are chubby chasers. It's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:58 AM
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getting mad at women who choose to be single and childfree I don't think that's a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:34 PM
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Not if taking illegal drugs and risky surgeries becomes necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:59 PM
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Unfortunate. Not a fan of Sharpe because he's a massive Lebron stan but you hate to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:25 AM
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No excuses. But you can see it as the cause. That's the "why".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:09 AM
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Just put the fork down. It's that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:46 PM
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You guys don’t see sexual strategies as amoral because you guys treat women not having sex with a guy she’s dating within 30 days as a moral failing Definition of amoral: lacking a moral sense; unconcerned with whether something is right or wrong. So it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong that we judge (I didn't even call it a moral failing). If it works, it works. That's what red pill says anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:36 PM
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Why do you care if we judge them or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:08 PM
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Red pill says sexual strategy is amoral
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:56 AM
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I mean that's fine that's a clear rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:24 PM
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But you're a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:36 PM
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Those men are less likely to be lazy when dealing with the prettiest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:39 PM
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You being pretty is part of who you are though That's not an insult. That's a fact. It's not that the guy might be going through depression, anxiety, whatever, no. If you believe this is the case with most/all men that flake on you then that's just delusional. The fact that that's the only possible answer is an insult to the woman and to all men in general, for painting them as shallow monkeys I never said that's the only possible answer. I do believe it's the most likely though. However there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:13 PM
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Wait, where's the insulting part?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:06 PM
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Of course they can be flaky but if you're a 10/10 wifey material do you think those men will act exactly the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:05 PM
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I'm saying that your looks is part of who you are. Hence, they are lazy or flaky because of you. It's like applying to a CEO role when you're under-qualified. If you get rejected, you're not a victim. It is what it is. Even if companies do have different personalities and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:00 PM
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You being pretty is part of who you are though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:26 PM
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You aren't a victim if men are lazy, flaky or not interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:06 PM
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Let's take a college-aged woman with a body count of two. She had one serious relationship. Her other count was a hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:16 AM
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I'd break up with her on the spot. Not tolerating bullshit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:15 PM
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"Women don't need no man" "Ok we'll stop protecting you" "Wait not like that" "Men aren't protectors, women are 😭"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:06 PM
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Zero examples of women doing the protecting in your post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:57 PM
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Nah I see similar behaviors from women that's not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:27 PM
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Take your time to text her back Better match her energy here. don’t invest a lot early Make her invest early as well, get intimate ASAP. make her earn your attention You don't need to do this. Most women won't do this anyway. don’t tell her where you stand and keep the mystery going. Completely true. Don't let her know. Have plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:43 PM
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“Women’s advice sucks. Manipulate her instead” Lowkey one of the best advice out there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:37 PM
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Is asking on the next date, pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:24 PM
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Where would you define pressure? Because if a man never asks, he'll never get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:05 PM
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You're not entitled to the defining the point of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:46 PM
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Debate Point 1: Caring about the sort of sex she has had before and probing about it is retroactive jealousy. That is, jealousy and insecurity over past partners. It is retroactive jealousy. Women aren't entitled to lack of retroactive jealousy. Debate Point 2: The woman is not a sex doll, a prostitute or a sex slave, she does not owe you sexual acts just because she has done them before, or because you want them. You are not entitled to certain sex acts. Of course. No one is entitled to anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:43 PM
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Yes. Red pill advice is still helping me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:11 PM
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Yeah it is. Stop caring about them. They're temporary for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:34 PM
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100% true. Women aren't romantic at all. They just wait for romance and they complain if they don't receive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:07 AM
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But it works. You can't argue with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:34 PM
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Why? Because it'll lead to rejection more often than not. Might as well ask women to say "I just want free dinners" or "I just want princess treatment without being intimate".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:24 PM
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saying that men have standards, and while they claim they are desperate they actually want young, fit, beautiful, not single mother, not x,y,z, woman. Some do, some don't. It's that simple. That's not a contradiction. Of course there's social media shaming men for not dating older women, fat women, single moms, etc. I don't judge them for it, but they do have standards, and that's not as desperate as they portrayed themselves be. Some men aren't as desperate as others. Men reacted as if i told t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:46 PM
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Come back when you've hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:25 AM
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Of course. If the intimacy is great and she's GF/Wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:04 PM
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Men want to get laid. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:37 PM
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Sometimes you hear this bullshit from women "I want to be friends first"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:39 PM
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I don't think not having female friends equals social isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:36 PM
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Of course it is. She doesn't owe you a relationship. You don't owe her friendship. It's easier to move on too. Out of sight, out of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:34 PM
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Sounds like cowardice to me 😂. Shouldn't women strive to be as brave as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:31 AM
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If you give in that easily then I don't think your conviction is that strong. If he makes a scene that makes him a loser anyway so don't take no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:04 AM
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If you hate it so much, do you not take no for an answer? Or do you still let the man pay and judge him afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:55 AM
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Imagine thinking less of men who give you what you want. That's like an employee thinking less of a company for giving them a raise. That's like a man thinking less of a woman for having genuine desire for him. Such backward ass logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:47 AM
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I hope women get shamed into paying for dates lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:26 PM
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Somehow it's fine if women sulk about not getting a first date treat but if men expects sex it's wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:24 PM
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There's that woman who tried living like a man. Ended with her killing herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:12 PM
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This is like the first time I'm hearing of this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:28 PM
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I agree. Anecdotally, I enjoy intimacy more when I'm single vs committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:27 PM
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Yeah nice guys have covert contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:06 PM
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I meant it in a dating context.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:03 AM
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Doesn't everyone give to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:41 AM
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Both suck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:40 AM
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Yeah imagine if men only protected other men and let women fend for themselves. They'll turn feminine real quick. There are no feminists on a sinking ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:31 PM
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Not a fan of divorce rape
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:07 PM
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Sounds like basic bluepill bullshit to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:13 PM
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If you're not being valued for anything other than sex then it's completely your fault. It's on you to be more interesting, appealing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:24 AM
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I just avoid those women. It's a dead bedroom in the making.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:43 AM
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Completely true. Makes it easier to move on. Makes it easier for you to juggle multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:57 PM
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I don't seek out friendships with women. But yeah hypothetically they're not far off if it's a really good friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:44 AM
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Sounds like desperation/simping from the male side. In reality it's just friendship unless you're both waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:02 AM
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I'm not a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:28 PM
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That's more of Jordan Peterson's thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:12 AM
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I love this dude. I don't agree with all his points though but I do agree with the vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:10 AM
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Wife goggles is a common thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:42 AM
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Why should I? Women are gladly wasting men's time too. Just taking and taking. Even then, I treat women well. It's not just intimacy. I give women an experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:30 AM
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Why be honest with women if won't help you get sex? Better to just lead them on, sell em a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:13 AM
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Option 2 and I don't have to be monogamous you can't tell me what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:14 AM
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Plenty of people validated this with different dating app experiments anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:15 AM
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That's the first time I'm hearing "shared credit card" for long term relationships. Finances are generally separate until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:14 AM
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I chimed in because your first comment made no sense lmao. Complaining about how much it costs to "maintain" beauty in your POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:53 AM
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You don't hear me complaining. That's OP and you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:29 AM
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But women keep on saying they do these for themselves, not men? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:02 PM
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My comments are specifically about efforts MEN COULD TAKE to match effort. You commented on what you think women need to do after you said men just get haircuts every month and that's it. BTW, Asian women do the MOST skincare of the planet. Korean skin care, sunscreen, and med spa techniques, and makeup are currently the cutting edge technology everyone is trying to catch up with... They do it just to "looksmax". But they're perfectly fine as long as they stay in shape and avoid the sun. Korean …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:05 PM
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Besides hair cuts, you need to get it dyed, highlighted, or chemically curled or straightened. 5 hours a month, $300 a month. Style your hair daily, blow dry with products, curl or straighten, finishing products. 20 hours a month, $50 of styling products monthly. Do men really care about your hairstyle? About your dyed hair? Skincare, med spa, monthly to either treat acne or wrinkles. Or purchase devices for home use. Treatment time 6 hours a month, $200 in services or equipment monthly. Young w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:42 PM
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Yeah I saw it and experienced it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:51 PM
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That's the point. You don't control it. You just accept the possibility and brace yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:18 AM
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Even with long term she could go at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:09 PM
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It even includes long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:13 PM
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I help out other men all the time and I hesitate in helping women. Men help each other out all the time, formally and informally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:47 AM
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I didn't realize women have no choice on what to wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:59 PM
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Looking or giving attention is different from stealing, which is closer to assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:42 PM
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Women love to impress people and show off with their body then have the nerve to cry when they're assaulted. 🙄 Victim blaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:51 PM
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People mistake kindness for weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:08 AM
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If you're loved for who you are but who you are changes drastically, is that an example of highly conditional love? It's like saying you love steak, is it really wrong if you don't like steak when it's rotten?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:36 AM
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Do women hate sex that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:20 PM
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The same with women's toilets and dormitories I've heard the same thing too. Such filth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:29 PM
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Nagger please
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:58 AM
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Even that isn't guaranteed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:48 AM
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A chance to smash on the same day or in one or two more dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:20 PM
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What do ypu mean and? You're literally lowering your status by being a single mom. And your kid won't turn out well without a father. Are you saying you're only able to attract ugly men? You brought it up out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:45 PM
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But then you become a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:38 PM
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But then the majority of the time, the man makes more money. So it should even out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:58 PM
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Ukraine. Men have to stay behind while Women can do anywhere and party.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:48 PM
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Even top tier men get rejected more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:24 PM
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Never been approached at least. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:39 PM
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They can but they deliberately lie about it to support womanhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:28 PM
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Isn't this why Chris Brown punched Rihanna?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:44 AM
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Accountability starts with stopping the blame game. "It's everyone else's fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:59 PM
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They generally don't need to work out as much to have a decent body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:42 AM
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Women: "Sex work is real work! No, not like that"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:44 PM
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Exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:31 PM
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Red pill is optimal sexual strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:09 PM
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Nah even in social media seeing women in pickup games is incrediblly rare. because they’re only things you get away with for being a man and that usually is not a good sign… Lmao you're not gonna shame anyone into thinking male friendships are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:33 AM
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You're the minority. Women are generally worse gamers though, when I still played competitive games I've never had a good female teammate. Plus it's awkward with sports if you're against or teaming with a woman. Whether you play hard or soft vs a woman, it's a lose lose situation. Edit: Example of a meme of defending a woman in basketball https://www.youtube.com/shorts/tNTxKeVJ6JA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:53 PM
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Male and female friendships are different. You'll have to tone yourself down when dealing with female friends. They rarely have the same hobbies and interests as well. For example, I wouldn't be able to game competitively or play basketball with women (in general).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:44 PM
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All's fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:17 AM
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Yeah in my experience, it's always the men carrying the burden of romance. What exactly do women do that are considered romantic? Or romantic in their own words? Do women even consider themselves romantic? They just want a romantic guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:27 AM
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Yeah in my experience, it's always the men carrying the burden of romance. What exactly do women do that are considered romantic? Or romantic in their own words? Do women even consider themselves romantic? They just want a romantic guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:30 PM
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She was definitely feeling some type of way. She's becoming too clingy. If she just knew how to chill out a bit, they'd probably still be seeing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:01 AM
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Not gonna play another dude's save file. The drama is crazy too. There's always gonna be this other dude. Also, if you end up having children of your own it's not gonna be a good dynamic between your children and hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:26 PM
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Joining a church to just to get a girl really is dumb advice. You're there to practice your religion. Female friends are the worst friends. They'll just exploit you. Make better male friendships instead. Even if you followed those, if you don't have looks, money and status, you won't see much success. Any advice akin to "Just be yourself" is shit. There are "cheat codes" though. Passport bros have had great success, not that I'm advocating for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:39 PM
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Listen to women and do the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:42 PM
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I'd rather hear simp than incel. Shit's fucking annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:19 AM
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I'm happy for you m8. You're living the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:55 AM
5

Yeah it's true. You don't own her. Just enjoy your turn and get ready to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:54 AM
2

Chances are, she will. Just hope that she won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:53 AM
4

Women don't do romance at all. They just love receiving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:49 AM
2

Should have protected himself beforehand. NDA, contract, consulted with lawyers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:09 AM
3

Yes. We share notes and we try to do what works for women in general. You said it yourself, women say things that contradict each other. We take note of the things that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:48 AM
5

Yeah I'd like to think we honestly say what we want. But when we speak the truth, we get bashed and called incels, misogynsts and toxic. Women aren't a hivemind, I agree. But ya'll say some crazy shit. Just check out "the guy with the ick list".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:16 AM
10

The idea is that you don't know what you want or at least you can't convey it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:21 PM
13

Listen to women and do the exact opposite lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:26 PM
6

Be evil, maximize your "bad guy" vibe. Listen to what women complain about and be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:49 PM
-1

Meritocracy. Aging like fine wine if you take care of yourself. Better friendships. Competition. Violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:55 AM
5

In some countries, children born out of wedlock have less rights/protection/security.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:18 PM
15

If you want kids, it's still the best environment for your children to grow up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:10 AM
8

Yeah no one's actually saying that. They're just trolling or just ridiculously exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:46 PM
1

These dating apps will ban you if you say you want a real girl lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:15 PM
2

No one's saying anything about breaking up with a woman after she's not in her prime anymore. "Husband goggles" exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:36 PM
3

I'm sure you get what I mean. If they're in their 30s they'll have fewer years of their prime remaining vs in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:29 PM
2

We like younger women because they're younger and they'll stay in their prime for longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:09 PM
5

Nah I ain't gay. I wish we could filter them out on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:14 AM
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There's some truth to this. Even billionaires and celebrities get broken up with. So why be loyal? You're likely to be betrayed in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:10 AM
0

You can work to get a great butt though. Plus your chest would be more complimented if you're fit because those don't count on a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:14 AM
2

That's why it's common advice to not compliment a girl on her looks. It's hit or miss. I just do it when we're smashing lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:26 PM
12

Well, hot face is a weird compliment though. Handsome is more straight forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:24 PM
0

Well, we have control over our bodies to a certain extent like fitness. I agree if it's regarding height though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:23 PM
1

Yeah if it's just a few months. It's fine. But if it's a year or more, it's not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:15 PM
1

Well, if you both don't particularly like physical touch then it's possible. But for the vast majority of relationships, if you're not connecting physically on a regular basis it's going to have major problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:27 PM
10

That distance took a toll on your relationship. He's dumb if he used RP tactics while not wanting to have sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:06 AM
22

He did the right thing. You were friends. Never even had sex. Long distance relationships shouldn't be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:58 AM
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That's blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:56 AM
1

I'd either leave or get my needs met elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:10 AM
5

Get a male family member to vet them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:17 AM
2

Yeah Bill Burr had a bit on this, roasting Coco Chanel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:40 PM
1

I disagree. It's a requirement for men to keep wonen around. Why would a man keep going out with a woman if he's not getting any? That's not all that she has to do though. She has to show that she's relationship or wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:41 PM
4

Because it's refreshing to not have anyone be offended when you talk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:00 PM
-7

Lock and key analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:08 AM
2

Yeah this is why you don't take women seriously until they give you a reason to. Keep smashing and don't take them seriously. You should have 3 other women yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:21 PM
1

If it's a patten, yes. "The first one's free"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:44 PM
2

I mean those examples you mentioned, they did something about it. They became red pilled. They regret getting married and focusing on women early on. They're educating others not to make these aame mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:40 PM
-7

The man earning more makes the woman's life easier. She doesn't have to work as hard or as many hours. There's less pressure on her. She loses her job? Cool. The husband's salary will keep them afloat. They lost 30%, they still can manage. He loses his job? They're fucked. Losing 70%? That leaves them with less than a third.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:42 PM
-6

Both working but the man generally makes significantly more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:22 PM
-5

Don't married men significantly out earn their wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:50 PM
1

In some countries, having a car is a status symbol. I wish I got one earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:28 PM
1

Might as well do both to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:56 AM
3

It's also possible if the baby got swapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:25 AM
1

Yeah it's pretty much what happened to that "how can she slap" vid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:39 PM
3

Way too many idiots calling the man a "coward".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:27 PM
9

That woman is fucking dumb. She's inserting herself into a dangerous situation. He did the right thing in standing by, he might have escalated the situation even further if he interfered. Someone might have been shot or stabbed, assault charges might have been filed, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:12 AM
1

He said it was a success but did he smash or at least kiss though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:18 PM
1

At least those dudes don't expect the rp creators to have sex with them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:12 PM
3

Yes. Ideally I'll keep hitting until I get my fill then she can leave whenever. Sometimes it sucks that I don't get to sleep with her more. Commitment? She has to earn that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:03 AM
1

This is why try to hide my niceness until after I've smashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:31 PM
1

Broke yes. In debt no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:14 PM
17

My dad never did. I had to figure shit out on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:22 PM
5

If you don't wanna follow the red pill, follow science.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:54 AM
1

Younger boss babe for sure. The older option is way too old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:26 AM
0

Bad date but still hit it? Dude must be like a 9 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:06 PM
1

Even if we remove the physical aspects, there's still intelligence, status, competence, finances. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:12 AM
3

Other than "playing another man's save file", having a child with another man is a physical manifestation that you're a woman that has already given everything to another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:04 AM
1

If she genuinely appreciates it. If she's not demanding it. If she's not feeling entitled to it. Why would I not enjoy providing? Men have dated, treated and provided for ungrateful women. If she's my ideal woman, it's a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:52 AM
5

It's literally the least relevant according to this study
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:20 PM
-1

I won't defend random people. I'll defend my friends and family though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:50 AM
1

Why wouldn’t people be entitled to other people minding their own business? Mine's just an extreme example to demonstrate that. She didn't have the right to complain tbh. OP does, because he did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:59 PM
0

Not doing anything is different from actively doing something. A similar example to yours is this: Some dude punched a woman. She shouldn't feel entitled to safety therefore he did nothing wrong. She feels entitled to her keeping his fist out of her face. Hear how dumb that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:34 PM
1

True. And that's fine. He removed himself from the situation. But then this random woman had the nerve to complain about him to his family. That's the entitlement here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:07 PM
0

If he said yes and didn't leave, that would already be him helping her. I guess your thinking of "help" as in him helping her by stepping in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:55 PM
0

She, with three open seats next to me, said very loudly, "Can I sit in this chair?" I said yes, then instantly got up and walked away from the situation. That's some involvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:43 PM
-2

See how this woman inconvenienced OP by trying to involve him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:29 PM
-6

You 100% did the right thing. Her entitlement is crazy. If you're trying to min-max your dating life, you can't be wasting your time being a white knight. Oh this random woman got harmed by a random man? Not my problem. Ask those other feminists to help you. If she's someone I'm currently with though, I'd do something for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:27 PM
0

The biggest issue is that guys will blurred out their preference when no one asked. Nobody: Men: I hate single moms! Nobody: Men: Younger women are better! Nobody: Men: I like (insert race)! That nobody is an old black single mom complaining on social media What should be said: I prefer not to date a woman with kids. What is actually said: Stupid bitch that fucked a loser and wants other guys to raise their burden. In the animal kingdom, lions would kill cubs that arent theirs. What should be sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:09 PM
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Yes. Men are generally more logical. If you just go out there and keep messing up without honest feedback, it's a waste of time. Science is a helpful tool for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:11 PM
1

The great sex relationship and I'll try and make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:01 PM
2

If my hypothetical son did get accused, I would support him 100% but I'd look at the evidence too. Trust but verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:25 AM
13

No. But they're for recreational use only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:05 PM
3

Scamming is illegal. And consumers don't choose scammers over legitimate options if they had a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:56 PM
12

If you're 1 they'll assume 2 as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:53 PM
1

Yeah. I wish someone told me when I hit puberty that you gotta be downright evil when dealing with women. Kindness will be mistaken for weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:48 PM
3

Toxic. Controlling. Creepy. Misogyny. Incel. More buzzwords
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:08 AM
2

The difference is RP accepts women's standards. They take advantage of it. They adapt. Those that complain and don't do anything about it, aren't RP. Women just complain and shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:20 AM
1

Why does everyone ignore that DNA testing can be used to detect swapped babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:40 PM
1

Apparently he has "tried everything" so that's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:24 PM
1

Yeah I'd rather those dudes find happiness elsewhere instead of becoming an active shooter, serial killer or terrorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:13 PM
3

Drastic times call for drastic measures. That's not giving up, that's finding a solution. The two choices are staying in your country but no women or leaving then getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:10 PM
1

Go ahead, be my guest. Anything for peace of mind. You won't be seeing shit anyway. I won't ever do that fucked up shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:03 PM
2

Shoes that add height (boots rather than elevator shoes) + passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:38 PM
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She looks 49
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:55 AM
-1

Not married or in a relationship but dating around. I pay for everything on dates like 95% of the time. Does your wife/gf buy you birthday or other holiday gifts? Has she ever bought you things randomly like a tshirt she thought would look good on you, or a morning coffee, or something else? Technically yes (for birthdays at least) but mostly no to the others. Are you happy in your relationship? Are you satisfied with her level of contribution? Ideally I'd appreciate more of the stuff in the las…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:44 AM
1

Yes for recreational use only
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:38 AM
1

Caleb. He's happy. Who would want your son to be depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:47 AM
1

I date them because they're more attractive, have less baggage and they're in their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:08 AM
20

Doesn't fully believe in TRP, isn't that Purple Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:21 PM
1

There's some truth to this but it isn't exactly laziness. I've dated women whose demeanors change but I'm not gonna ask questions everytime it happens. And I don't notice every change. It's subjective after all. The drama just isn't worth it. Why not use your words?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:05 AM
0

Imagine if the woman you told this information decided to fuck you over with another false accusation. You're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:19 PM
4

Chris Avellone too. https://gamerant.com/chris-avellone-accuser-allegations-retracted-video-game-industry-return/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:47 PM
1

Both are capable, it's just extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:50 AM
6

Love exists in different forms like your love for family, friends, etc. Real love in a romantic context exists but it's extremely rare. People on both sides get this fantasy ruined for them most of the time. Might as well accept this reality instead of getting your heart broken repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:32 AM
2

Of course not. That's a deeper discussion. Even some men might feel like a woman never loved him if she doesn't do the same sexual stuff she did with other partners. Cheating is even worse than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:26 AM
0

Men and women see it differently. If a man takes care, provides for and protects you. Isn't that love? But if your man lusts after or fools around with another woman, you'd feel like he never loved you. Hence true love doesn't exist in your POV. For men it may be like if she leaves him or doesn't have sex with him anymore, it can seem like there wasn't any love at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:11 AM
11

Nope. We know what's up. Women do stick around for what you provide. If it disappears, I understand why she'd leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:29 PM
20

Sex. I doubt most women are capable of real love anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:24 PM
5

He should swallow the red or purple pill. Ain't gonna sabotage that young man with blue pill gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:04 PM
1

The husband store joke is legit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:54 PM
1

Why not? It's not forever. It's literally a trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:52 PM
1

I personally won't and don't cheat but I get it if some others would. Somehow it's the cheating guys that women want to be in relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:26 AM
-2

Yeah with that last one, I'm thinking that my hypothetical son won't follow it initially but when he does experience getting fucked over by women, he'll tell me I was right and he should've listened. I don't get what's so evil about that? I ain't talking illegal shit, just maybe being thought of as an a-hole/fuckboy for certain behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:24 PM
3

Get fit. Get money. Don't take girls seriously, you're too young. Don't be a nice guy. Don't be afraid to fuck them over because chances are, they'll fuck you over too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:09 PM
2

Wear shoes that add height or go to a country with shorter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:13 PM
8

If he's ripped and not short, he'll be well equipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:43 PM
12

Nope. If he wants help I'd get him a great personal trainer and meal planner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:13 PM
1

Well some women use "Let's just be friends" or "I don't want to ruin our friendship" as their lines for rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:34 AM
1

Sandman is mgtow right? Not rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:39 AM
2

My best experiences with women are those types of women. As long as she didn't ghost me after, I'm interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:08 AM
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Of course It's wrong. Just try saying that black people are inherently dangerous or that muslims are more likely to be terrorists. But saying those stuff about men is somehow fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:03 AM
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I don't hear many women, if at all, disagreeing that they look good for themselves and not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:30 PM
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Lmao you got em
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:45 PM
0

If proven false, the accuser must be imprisoned for the same amount of time that the victim was supposed to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:57 PM
1

It just happened to a UFC fighter recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:57 PM
2

Yea this doesn't seem so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:40 AM
8

You're lucky. My dad and granddad never taught me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:29 AM
1

It means that we aren't picky in regards to those stuff. Her looks and personality are the traits that matter most. However if she doesn't have any hobbies, education, career, etc, it may be a dealbreaker for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:03 AM
2

Game theory. Some do, some don't. So why take that risk? On the other hand its a better bet if you don't. The vast majority of women might be fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:17 AM
2

Gonna piggyback. How do you respond to "incel"? Even though it's not true it's quite annoying.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 09:08 PM
-2

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. As long as they aren't forcing you to give it up, I don't see the problem. I see how it can be annoying for you though. Ideally you should be telling them even before the first date so that you don't waste each other's time. If you're waiting until marriage, I can respect that. You're marriage material already. However I can't take "born again virgins" seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:55 PM
1

I've seen plenty of nice guys complaining but not many aholes complaining about not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:43 AM
4

Yea for example it's like a dude who wants a girl with big breasts gives a girl with a more petite chest a chance and actually enjoys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:59 PM
1

I don't hate high n count women. I'll keep smashing. I just won't ever commit. Duping? Those women are the one's worth commiting to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:11 PM
5

Being an asshole gets you women. Being a murderer gets you women (Wade Wilson as the most recent example). Being a nice guy keeps the woman dry. Even if you're genuinely nice, you'll be lumped in with the rest of those nice guys so don't be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:37 AM
1

I'm fine with it myself. I just accepted it. Men and women take advantage of themselves so OP shouldn't complain. Everything is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:34 AM
2

A significant amount of women have admitted to doing this. Yes I know that the sample size is small.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:42 PM
3

Nope. You'll be putting yourself at a disadvantage. Maybe it'll be a good plan once most women are upfront about just taking advantage of you for food on the first date. Plus it's not technically a lie. I'm betting most of those men will be open to an LTR with the right woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:41 PM
8

Proof that being a murderer is better than being a nice guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:25 PM
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It's just shit advice. If they followed advice from other men, they'd have better success.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:19 PM
1

I'm thinking it's more of an issue with intimacy down the road. Girls would freak out lmao. But that's an issue with societies everywhere.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 06:08 PM
1

I'm not. That's how we do it in the Philippines.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 05:35 PM
1

Philippines
/r/MensRights20/07/24 05:34 PM
2

Trans? That ain't a slumpbuster, that's a straightbuster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:03 AM
-5

I mean I'm fully aware at that time and I could've said no at any time. I agree that babies getting circumcised is fucked up though.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 08:30 AM
-19

In our country, we get circumcised around elementary school age. I don't regret it at all.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 05:07 AM
1

Smoker. Some do cover it up pretty well, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:53 PM
8

It's a pretty common sentiment in this sub and others like AITAH
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:41 PM
2

Yes. Been scammed for 18 years. Deleting that shit from my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:58 AM
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Genuinely nice guys get lumped into that pile of though. Women do like to get manipulated into sex, if it's Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:36 AM
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Genuinely nice guys get lumped into that pile of though. Women do like to get manipulated into sex, if it's Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:35 AM
4

For sure. There's this other post the other day about housework. Women reacted negatively to it. Seems like they want the man to hard carry the relationship while the only contribution the woman gives is companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:13 PM
0

Nice guys do try to add value to a woman's life but he gets exploited. He then turns into a bad boy and gets rewarded with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:10 PM
1

I'll tend to agree. She must be an amazing partner to deserve all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:11 AM
1

Companionship. Seems unfair. If responsibility for oneself is nothing, what excuse does he have to become a helpless slob? Dude's paying for most of the bills already. Does that not count? But women despise 50/50 relationships right? If all a father contributes to his children’s upbringing is money, what does she need him in the house for? She can just leave him and let him send money, since he clearly isn’t doing a goddamned thing except contributing to her workload. Being present is also anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:54 AM
-1

Dude was taking care of his job and domestic duties before she moved in. Yeah, a partner should add value. What value is she adding really? Responsibility for herself? So, nothing? Not fit to be a father? He's already providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:12 PM
-1

I mentioned him hard carrying the relationship (in terms of household contribution at least) if that's the case. Dude's basically doing the masculine and feminine gender roles. What does she bring to the household then? How would the dude even evaluate if she's fit to be a mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:04 PM
-1

Probably he was responsible for it. Either doing it himself or getting a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:43 PM
-3

Agreed. If the man pays most of the bills, the woman should do most of the housework. If it's an equal split with the bills, housework should be an equal split too. If the man is paying most of the bills and also doing half of the housework, he's just hard carrying the relationship at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:29 PM
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It's not for getting women, it's for you. Buying flowers and holding open doors? Anyone can do that. Barely any effort at all. Looking like you lift? Takes a lot more effort and people will notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:24 PM
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There's roids too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:20 PM
3

She just probably wanted that spongebob D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:41 PM
-1

Yeah look at actors and wrestlers. Lots of them look better in their 30s and 40s compared to their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:16 AM
3

Nope she's literally a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:11 AM
1

The odds of divorce were 1.31 times higher for women who cohabitated prior to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:33 PM
1

There's no one true RP advice. Though I've seen some that tell men not to get in relationships early, but still gain experience by seeing women casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:18 PM
2

The assets could still be split proportionally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:07 PM
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10% is still high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:59 PM
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If you can get divorced for no reason and she benefits by getting half of what you have (possibly alimony too), isn't that fucked up? Marriage should be more binding than just a relationship. You shouldn't just get married on a whim then just end it anytime. This is why marriage is a scam for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:50 PM
1

As a man, this seems legit. I won't keep seeing you if we haven't been intimate within 3 dates. However if we keep being intimate, chances are that I'll be attached to you and you have a chance to hook me in with value. This advice is more for women that are already sexually active snd it's just a counter to the usual strategy of delaying sex as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:04 PM
1

This advice isn't for you then. I don't think the typical woman is low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:01 PM
1

Well I'm not exactly 100% red pill, I use useful info from both sides and apply it accordingly. That's why I'm identifying as purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:19 PM
1

As a young guy, it stopped me from simping and having oneitis. It got me lots of sex. It led me to prioritize success and fitness too. Stopped me from prioritizing marriage, thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:02 PM
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If they never stopped trying to get girls while improving at the same time, it's almost impossible for that person to see the difference in how women treat him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:02 AM
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It's manly I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:57 AM
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I meant it like how dudes that the comment was referring to thought about 50/50. They'd be correct. But yeah I don't really believe in 50/50. 100/100 is where it's at. Both giving their best and not exactly being fussy about what each other contributes. It means both parties sticking to their roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:35 PM
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So a true 50/50 only holds if you're not living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:00 PM
12

Women like 9 times out of 10
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:56 PM
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Sounds quite tame to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:59 PM
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You found out your dad has red pill beliefs and your first instinct is to exploit him for the college money? Shit's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:58 PM
0

Dude should learn game. And it definitely is a numbers game. Tell him to keep shooting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:16 PM
2

They look fine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:26 PM
3

Can you show an example? Large frame, like Rhea Ripley?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:03 PM
0

I remember that Bill Burr bit. Women be like:"That's what the law says"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:41 AM
3

Isn't it normal to be horny AF in your teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:45 PM
5

Just keep trying bro Be a kind/nice guy Wait for sex Marry her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:28 PM
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https://www.koreaboo.com/lists/kpop-girl-group-visuals-look-without-makeup/ https://www.kpopmap.com/10-female-kpop-idols-who-look-the-most-beautiful-barefaced/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:28 PM
1

Nope. In that situation I'd be cool with it because I'm not entitled to his house. I'd just ask another friend. If it's something much more urgent and I literally didn't have a choice but he still said no, then he wasn't really a friend at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:49 PM
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I mean, 2 words? That's an exaggerated case. Or that she's literally mute. A more realistic scenario is that she's quite introverted. Doesn't speak much. Maybe even a bit awkward. Clothes? She can just wear whatever. Just an average fashion sense at least. If she's beautiful, she'll look good in anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:57 PM
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Attractive, fit, beautiful yes. Social, not really. Mute handmaiden? Sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:46 PM
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We wanna just fuck those girls, not wife/gf them. That's not gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:40 PM
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I think that's what inspired this post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:38 AM
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https://ifstudies.org/reports/whats-the-plan-cohabitation/2023/executive-summary It's possible that it's not causation. Still a significant correlation though. That's why I haven't cohabitated with any woman lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:16 AM
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Cohabitation before marriage leads to a higher chance of divorce though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:42 AM
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Recreational use only
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:15 PM
6

Off the top of my head: Bad breath. Really hard to set dates with. Didn't wanna smash in a timely manner. Had a feeling she was a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:47 PM
1

Lot's of men don't wanna date an "old hag" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:28 AM
2

Yes. All is fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:46 PM
12

Of course they're lying. You don't exactly see women demanding virginity from their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:47 AM
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Can confirm this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:05 PM
12

You’re not ready for a relationship if you go out? Yes. You're not ready for a relationship if you go clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:36 AM
4

It's not. That's your boundary for the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:32 AM
1

They just feel personally attacked it seems like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:48 PM
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Yeah what's so controversial about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:53 AM
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Just reply "Ok". Then she's single now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:39 PM
1

It is but what else can we do as men to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:20 PM
2

The participants comprised 120 volunteers (60 males and 60 females) between 19 and 22 years old from native Chinese Han in a university. "Stimuli We collected 845 photographs of unfamiliar Chinese female faces (approximately 20–30 " Also this "On average, friends-first initiators were friends for 21.90 months prior to becoming romantic partners " I ain't waiting 22 months to fuck. I'll look over all your other sources later too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:59 AM
1

Divorce fucks over men harder than cheating does to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:41 AM
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Because best pussy is new pussy. We love variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:20 AM
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Y'all be saying this but be in full support of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:04 PM
1

Once again, behavior according to replicated research, does not matter for short-term mating. So "game" is irrelevant. "Not being a bitch" is irrelevant. In the link you cited in your main post, I don't see it? Just compare what beta and alpha approaches would be. If you were beta, you wouldn't juggle multiple women would you? Like I said, muscles may get you laid in the short-term. Money may get you laid in the short-term --- it's probably the only way to guarantee that result via sex workers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:05 AM
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Thankfully trp does teach that. Money, muscles, game. Alpha behavior might fall under game. Well, I personally look at alpha behavior as basically just not being a bitch. Also, I don't think being kind and respectful has ever gotten me laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:21 PM
1

I mean, racking up by body count has made me more confident. If tons of women desire you sexually, it's a great feeling. Do you think having sex makes you more of a man? It makes me feel great, personally Do you think a male soldier deployed for a year is less of a man compared to a civilian man going through a dry spell? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:05 PM
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What would having a body count mean to you? More is better for men. Are you okay with women who have a body count or is it only acceptable since you’re a man? Latter. But then again every woman has a body count nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:30 PM
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Nah. Being beta won't rack up my body count, being alpha will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:36 PM
10

Maybe he transitioned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:39 PM
3

This is an example of exactly why I avoid friendships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:41 AM
1

Yes. I've done the same with some girls but they're actually better looking in person. It's like a reverse catfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:16 PM
13

She's 38? She looks 48. The wall hit her hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:21 AM
3

Nope. Reality sucks but you can't deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:05 AM
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Do women not want the man to lead? Don't women hate being in the leadership role in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:51 PM
1

It's not that. We just can't help but hear these complaints for women. Boo fucking hoo. Why don't they just STFU?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:34 PM
10

Who decides if it matters or not? Did you just randomly come up with the idea that it doesn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:24 PM
5

Because she does. That's reality. Why would women in general be ashamed to share their body count then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:18 PM
9

Revenge of course. Keep fucking over women. Master the art of lying to them. Create more single moms. Remember that woman who friendzoned you? Sleep with her daughter and get her pregnant. Not your style? Pay it forward then. Help men, don't help women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:12 PM
8

Another example of men's preferences being shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:06 PM
0

Don't women initiate 70% of divorces?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:19 PM
0

With any discussion about paternity tests I always say that it's also a test to confirm if the baby has been swapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:02 AM
10

A paternity test can also save the parents from having a swapped baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:35 PM
2

You can do this a limited amount of times a year. You can't do it every day and expect to be employed still.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:55 PM
1

Why don't women just suck it up and do it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:53 PM
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Okay? Do you think men are seeking you out? Thanks for leaving the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:27 PM
2

Get your dad/brother to vet the man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:57 PM
3

I won't. It's not her job to entertain me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:51 AM
0

Of course the woman should have an education and have a job. However, if the woman ends up being a boss girl then that's a turn-off. Aside from a more masculine attitude, the woman would also have higher standards in terms of what she wants the man's status/earnings to be. He has to earn more than her already high salary which will shrink her dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:45 PM
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Oh. I just answered the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:36 PM
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Yes. Women complain about the lack of romance while not providing any if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:42 AM
1

Are you really comparing frequency of sex vs number of children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:55 AM
1

Why every time? What about getting tested regularly? Seems reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:51 AM
1

I agree. What if your baby got swapped? It happens, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:50 AM
4

Tried it once with a girl with a bit extra pounds on. I could barely get hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:15 PM
1

Money and status
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:15 AM
5

Nah. I ain't no simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:53 PM
2

Wouldn't you still have loose skin and stretch marks still?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:36 PM
0

Female because no one can define woman nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:26 AM
8

Fuck. Imagine getting expelled for approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:27 PM
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Recreational use only
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:43 AM
1

Why do we have to convince you? Do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:26 AM
4

Proof of violence, not just rough sex. Proof of threats, drugging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:39 AM
1

A lot of preferences are hypocritical. Women want men that are stronger, make more money, taller. Are they shamed for it? Me personally I want a virgin if ever I'm going to marry but I'm also grounded in reality that it's like winning the lottery nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:57 AM
1

A reverse image search should suffice. AI's accuracy might be iffy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:08 AM
2

Most girls do this. I urge my fellow dudes to not pay if she's being uninterested in the date. Let her pay for the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:22 PM
1

Shit's useless. For guys, it's looks, money, status. It's a much better suggestion. Be yourself? Identity the best parts of yourself and highlight that. Identity the worst parts of yourself and improve or minimize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:03 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but that woman apparently was faking it. It was an allergic reaction, not actually a brick hitting her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:08 PM
4

Single digits still. 7 or less. Hopefully in the context of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:38 PM
3

Ideally single digits. Less than 5? Depends on age too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:32 PM
2

First vid. If there's no sex then the other stuff doesn't matter. Sex plus there's other stuff? That's good combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:19 PM
3

I'd fuckzone any woman as long as she's attractive. I wouldn't mind a high body count then. I wouldn't be in a relationship with just anyone though, you have to bring more than just sex. Low body count is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:17 PM
1

21 year old. No brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:24 PM
1

Just agreeing and disagreeing with the statements and not necessarily from experience 1 Yes. Expect lies and find the truth yourself. 2 Yes. But then again they'll leave for any number of reasons. It's almost guaranteed 3 No. It's still possible to get a supportive relationship 4 Yes and No. Sex and looks and personality 5 Yes. My money is our money. Her money is her money. 6 No. They do try to be reasonable. Key word is try. 7 No. The value of sex has gone down because of an oversupply 8 Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:56 PM
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Because if the husband ever fucks a younger woman, he'll still go home to the wife. The wife still gets the benefits from a husband like protection and provision.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:52 AM
2

Play the game or get played.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:41 AM
12

They probably want the attention, benefits, etc that orbiters bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:58 PM
6

Males are much better friends than females anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:24 PM
10

If your best friend was gay and suddenly ghosted you because you didn’t want to have sex with him would you not feel a bit offended? Nah. I'd appreciate it even. Can't have drama with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:21 PM
6

This just happened to me lmao. I matched with someone then later on she asked me, what would happen if we don't end up together. And it sucks if we don't at least be friends. I was like, nah I'm good. I don't have female friends. She freaked out, calling it sexist but then still tried her hardest to convince me that I should have female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:16 PM
2

She's a 5? But then with make up, working out and better fashion she could be a 7. Hell yes. She could be wifey material.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:43 AM
2

Of course it does. I want an intelligent woman as the mother of my children. But if she's too career oriented, it's a turnoff. The bar isn't that high though. She just needs to be employed in some kind of job that can be perceived that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:28 PM
1

Not necessarily biggest compliment, but it is pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:35 PM
3

Simping and White Knighting is a losing strategy though. Correct me if I'm wrong but being a "pick-me" should get you a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:53 PM
1

Imagine treating a woman to 3 nice dates and she still doesn't wanna have sex. What a waste of time and money. Women be using men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:24 PM
1

You can't even filter out trans in dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:20 PM
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Lisa Bonet looks great for her age (55). She's probably one of the best looking 55 year old but she's definitely mid or even lower if we're looking at the 18-55 range. Pierce Brosnan and Keanu Reeves also have "mid" wives. It's not uncommon with celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:42 PM
1

I always pay but if she's being bitchy (being on the phone a lot) I split the bill. If eventually we don't at least fuck later on and I'm feeling toxic, I'd ask for the money back. Fuck them foodie dates. But yeah being realistic about it, always pay especially if you're being intimate anyway. If you aren't, there's no reason ko keep going out and paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:03 PM
1

I mean I already laugh when I see any single mothers around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:46 PM
20

I don't like any overweight woman. But that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:41 AM
2

Yeah. It's cool. The relationship ends there. No harm, no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:22 PM
1

Double down? Have her sign an NDA?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:15 PM
0

Women demand 6ft, 6 inches, 6 pack and 6 figures but god forbid a man wants a woman not to post ass pictures while in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:12 PM
2

Be fit. Don't be fat. Take care of your looks. Don't be a single mom. Be feminine. Be pleasant. Have realistic expectations. Handle your emotions and outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:24 AM
1

Most girls are already doing that with their friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:22 AM
1

Yes. I'm not attracted to obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:01 PM
1

But will it be someone good? Or is it some single mother and/or older woman who's settling for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:14 PM
4

As a man, agreed. The earlier you know about the red pill, the better. If you date in 2023 without a red pill lens, you're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:12 PM
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