AMOist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Anyone on Unilad or The Lad Bible on Facebook?		AMOist	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/15 07:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Anyone on Unilad or The Lad Bible on Facebook? Agreed on all fronts. I remember reading those articles and thinking wtf? Did you go to the comments sections in the Facebook post for the kilt post?	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/15 08:57 PM
1	Anyone on Unilad or The Lad Bible on Facebook? Agreed that the blog itself is blue pill. But I think what's interesting is that it has retained a meaningful following of what seem to be guys who are BP only because they don't know what else to think. To us, yes of course most of the commenters on there are BP. But to the general population, they're all misogynist Bros, Lads, and Mates. I enjoy dropping some RP truths here and there and watching them eat it up. It's like throwing fuel on a dying fire.	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/15 08:01 PM
2	Overcoming the height issue Can not endorse this enough. OWN IT. A situation comes to mind that I may think applicable here. A business partner and I were pitching investors. After the official meeting, which involved a group pitch to many investors, we all went out for drinks. One of the investors, sitting next to me, was a white guy, I'm guessing 40 years old+, could not have been taller than 5'4". He was cocky and confident as hell. Granted, he was a potential investor and therefore presumably loaded, but the things he …	/r/askTRP	28/03/15 11:36 AM
1	How to tell what phase of the menstrual cycle a woman is in who has an IUD? I've had an LTR that had one. Her cycles were seemingly nonexistent. Perhaps it was just her, but it was almost as if she didn't have cycles at all. Agree with others here that it's more difficult to tell. In my case, much more difficult. But the flip side is that it seemed to matter less. Sex was constant, and tests were more aligned with the dynamic and stage of our relationship that it was her cycle (It may have been the case her cycles set the tests off, but the tests were coming regardless.…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/03/15 04:33 AM
1	Ethics in men and women Those are interesting observations with respect to women and men. However, I don't like these sort of ethics-from-emergencies situations for a couple reasons: First, frankly, it's a lazy approach to making any meaningful observation of one's ethics. Rarely, if ever, will you likely face such a scenario, and therefore one's actions in an emergency might be quite different than day to day life, in the normal state of things. Second, and this sort of builds on the first, it omits context. The point…	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/15 01:45 AM
2	18 years old, almost out of school, need advice I would say that the worst thing you could do is...nothing. Think about those things that make you happy, or you wish you could do, and go do them. Make a plan, and act on it. Like snowboarding? Move to a ski town. Want to live and work abroad? Find someone abroad who will pay you to work for them. Want to go to college but don't have the grades to go to a decent school right now? Go to community college, kick ass for a year or two, and transfer. Don't be scared that it's a "wrong" choice. I've …	/r/askTRP	25/02/15 01:36 AM
1	Looking for some help/advice Sure thing brother.	/r/askTRP	23/02/15 09:26 PM
2	Breaking Submissive Mentality/Porn Habits TheCrimsonSea is correct. You, OP, need this.	/r/askTRP	23/02/15 07:53 AM
1	Are first impressions everything with women? First of all, Outcome Independence. You're in college. I don't buy the idea that a "7-attracive, marginally feminine, non-bitchy girl" is a "rare specimen" on your campus. If I am wrong, then your college is lacking in female prospects, to say the least. Secondly, with respect to the second major interaction being too late: Absolutely not. These things can take months sometimes. But the important thing is you don't focus on her, and her alone. In this sense, think about it like sales. Especially…	/r/askTRP	23/02/15 07:06 AM
1	Breaking Submissive Mentality/Porn Habits Sure thing. Since you've acknowledged self-esteem as an issue for you, let me drill down a little deeper for the sake of clarity. Self-esteem, simply put, is an estimation of one's own sense of worth. This should be obvious, but when in the context of personal relationships, if you regard yourself as someone is isn't worth much, others will follow suit (which seems to be the crux of your inability to engage with women sexually). What gives rise to self-esteem is having taken pride in achievement…	/r/askTRP	23/02/15 06:31 AM
6	Breaking Submissive Mentality/Porn Habits I'm certainly no psychologist, but I'll give it a shot. First, stop doing things that promote this behavior. This means: No porn. It might be tough, but say no to drugs. And your drug is porn. I would say just stay away from the porn which propagates submissive tendencies, but for reason #2, no porn. Second, stop jerking off. I'd explain further but this has already been covered in other TRP. I'll just say quickly it lowers your T, and rewards the brain for, frankly, not having accomplished anyt…	/r/askTRP	23/02/15 01:14 AM
3	Breakup talk, advice needed. The cheating escalates this to a black and white issue: It's done. Now act like it. For your emotional sanity, I'll try to help. 1) If you're thinking about the other dude, don't. He is of no concern to you. Don't try to "win" or "beat" him by keeping your girl over him. Get him out of your head. Since you are making the rational choice to cut her off, as you should, there is no field upon which to play ball and thus impossible to win. Therefore, he doesn't exist to you and is of no importance t…	/r/askTRP	23/02/15 12:29 AM
17	What to do when your LTR says no? You're an alpha (assuming). Alphas don't talk, they do (and women know this). So, rather than verbally coax her through her insecurities which isn't alone going to work very well (perhaps some verbal supplementation in concert with action may help) show her you don't care. Take her, kiss her, and take her shirt off yourself (while continuing to kiss her). Show her you don't care, don't tell her. And certainly don't make a conversation of it. She'll believe actions much more quickly than she'll b…	/r/askTRP	22/02/15 11:50 PM
1	Looking for some help/advice I think you need to take a step back and ask yourself what you want out of this relationship. As is always the case, your desires and wants are the standard of value when determining a course of action. So you need to decide if you want to date this girl, or not. There's not a lot of context provided so it's difficult to suggest doing one thing or another on that front, other than that the decision is to be made for your own sake, not anyone else's, and most certainly not hers. So first, above a…	/r/askTRP	22/02/15 11:40 PM
12	What to do when your LTR says no? This is a vague question and it's nearly impossible to provide a meaningful answer without context. Please provide context if you want meaningful information in response.	/r/askTRP	22/02/15 11:16 PM
4	Contemplating Divorce: At What Point Is It Not Your Fault? Lots of good stuff here so I'll try to keep it short and get straight to what I thought was interesting about your post. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said you have a philosophy about relationships. You then explained how this has sort of shifted as you've discovered RP, and this shift has now raised additional questions. I have a philosophy on marriage. Every time shit goes down, I try to look only for what I could have done better, and work on that. This statement presupposes a…	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/01/15 07:15 PM
9	LTR Training tool - the Jellybean Jar Two points that need to be said, and then a bit on your post. 1) This is married red pill. While I'm not married, I lurk because I have an LTR, and want a lifetime LTR to raise my [future] children with. Since this is MRP and not LTRRP, I refrain from commenting too much. The guys here are in RP hard-mode, and they take this sub very seriously. 2) This builds on 1. The men here have serious fucking issues with huge implications if they don't figure it out. These implications include losing acces…	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/01/15 04:15 AM
3	Alpha Beta balance? Strategos pretty well covers it. Alpha/beta balance is certainly a 'thing' in the context of an LTR, and you need to be conscious of it. It's actually not counter productive or counter intuitive. They can function harmoniously, and in fact you can use one to afford more of the other. First, you must understand that you're operating from either an Alpha frame or a Beta frame. There is no "when" with respect to which frame you're operating in--it's ongoing. Depending on which you're in, you'll get…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/12/14 10:36 PM
2	[FR] Failing a Shit Test - Long Just hit NMMNG. You need it above all else. Treat that as your number 1 priority. Read it every chance you get. Internalize it. Live it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/12/14 09:54 PM
3	[FR] Failing a Shit Test - Long I think you need to remember this: You can not be afraid to defend or stand up for yourself, when and only when you know you are in the right. There is no other way. Well, there is, but you already know what that looks like. You are allowing yourself to be 'bullied', and you're afraid that taking corrective action will result in a worse problem. This line of thinking, though, leads to a lose-lose for you. You think that either: A) You continue as is, unhappy and frustrated. B) You take correctiv…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/12/14 09:09 PM
6	Pointless little shit tests - at my wits end. You should acknowledge that there is no such thing as a pointless shit test. You're just failing them. She's going to keep shit testing you until you start passing them. (long time lurker, first post).	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/12/14 09:53 PM