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2

Most guys are terrible at giving oral, so the women don’t like it.
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:26 AM
1

Ah, the old redneck saying: "If she's old enough to bleed, she's old enough to breed." Not really. She may be old enough physically, but mentally and emotionally she's not ready.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 02:11 PM
2

Ever heard of abusive parents? They exist. They don't love their kids. Just being an egg or sperm donor doesn't give someone a free pass to do whatever they want to their kids and expect forgiveness.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:05 PM
7

"I hate you! Don't leave me!" The cry of the crazy you don't want to stick it in.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:23 PM
1

Well, if the girl is very cute and is used to having guys tell her this, then it's not going to be a very effective opener. But if the girl is less than attractive and has low self esteem, she will eat this up.
/r/seduction06/12/14 04:41 PM
1

This isn't going to end well.
/r/seduction23/11/13 12:18 AM
3

Head on over to /r/breakups and share your tale of woe.
/r/seduction20/01/13 10:01 PM
2

Just because she's hot doesn't make her a better potential girlfriend, and actually may make her less valuable because she's used to guys licking her feet and treating her like a queen. Is she nice? Is she honest? Is she reliable? Is she fiscally responsible? Looks fade, but character is what makes someone a good partner.
/r/seduction25/11/12 07:48 PM
1

Don't delude yourself. I would take her at her word until evidence suggests otherwise.
/r/seduction25/11/12 07:46 PM
3

He's either not that into you or he really does have some issues from the past with his ex. Plus, in my opinion a lot of really good looking people are shitty lovers because everyone gloms on to them for their looks and they don't actually have to follow through and put forth much effort. There are a million guys out there. Get one who doesn't come complete with baggage like this one does.
/r/seduction05/11/12 11:01 AM
15

Google "sunk cost". You keep investing in something that is never going to pay off, so your investment is essentially worthless no matter how much you keep putting into it.
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:18 PM
1

When I meet a guy I like, I don't start comparing him to other guys. So when you meet a girl, you're basically competing against yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/12 07:12 PM
2

You're overthinking this. Just do it.
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:12 PM
1

Then I don't think a prostitute is going to help you. Getting a girlfriend has to do with how to talk to girls and make them feel like you're into them in a nom creepy way. What do your friends say about your approach?
/r/seduction21/09/12 03:19 PM
1

Do you just want to get laid or do you want an actual relationship with a girl?
/r/seduction21/09/12 10:28 AM
-3

Winking is creepy.
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:07 PM
0

It doesn't look good on everyone.
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:39 AM
0

Try dyeing it dark brown rather than black. Nine times out of ten when I see dyed black hair it looks too dark and very fake.
/r/seduction10/09/12 11:13 PM
2

Sometimes dyed black hair gives off the wrong impression. Maybe you're coming across as a Goth, aka weird.
/r/seduction10/09/12 08:24 PM
2

This. As soon as they show interest then they are in your league. Start valuing yourself. There's more to love and attraction than just looks.
/r/seduction09/09/12 01:26 PM
2

Seducing a woman isn't about telling her how valuable she is, it's about making YOU seem of high value, and telling her she's beautiful won't make you of high value unless the girl isn't actually all that attractive. The hot girls won't respect you if you compliment their looks.
/r/seduction02/08/12 11:22 AM
1

Like bmduffy says, back off. You're taking advantage of a "friend" at her most vulnerable time. Shame on you.
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:50 AM
9

If she's been dodging your advances then she's probably not interested in dating you. Ask her out in a clear way and if she says no or makes lame excuses, stop bothering her. Don't let romantic comedies be your guide.
/r/seduction08/07/12 01:48 PM
3

No gimmicks like palm reading. Nothing creeps me out more than a guy who isn't confident. Want to hold her hand? Just hold it.
/r/seduction09/06/12 03:35 PM
1

When I was in my early 20s living in New York City, we had some pretty crazy parties. Those were the days!
/r/seduction18/05/12 09:53 PM
5

What's the hurry? Do you have to meet them right away?
/r/seduction13/05/12 05:16 PM
1

Becoming his fuck buddy is going to ruin your relationship faster than just being honest with him.
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:33 PM
3

"I'm up for the first two things but I'm not into that third one. Hope that's not a deal breaker." Just SAY it.
/r/seduction06/05/12 12:54 PM
50

Have fun, but remember: if she does it to him she'll do it to you.
/r/seduction01/04/12 10:17 PM
1

Haulover Beach in North Miami. Clothing optional!
/r/seduction30/03/12 01:20 AM
3

When will that time come? What are you waiting for?
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:01 PM
2

Too slowly.
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:00 PM
3

Internet busybodies know no subreddit boundaries ;)
/r/seduction11/03/12 01:18 AM
3

Why am I the last person?
/r/seduction11/03/12 01:11 AM
20

Don't make her your sole reason for existence. Maintain your separate interests but be there for her. Learn how to talk about your feelings and needs openly without seeing this as a "confrontation." Remember that most women need emotional connection to get them in a sexy mood as opposed to simple visual or physical stimulation.
/r/seduction10/03/12 09:45 PM
1

Why not? It's a date, not a marriage proposal. Go get your hair cut, see if you like her. If so, ask her out for coffee. But explain to your dad ahead of time that if there's no chemistry you aren't going to feel obligated to continue dating her, though. Just so he has no expectations.
/r/seduction22/02/12 11:34 AM
1

If she's always "busy", it's possible she's trying to let you down easy. If she was interested in you she would suggest an alternate time and place. Ask out another girl who has more interest in being with you.
/r/seduction12/02/12 07:44 PM
2

"You're acting like a dick. Cut it out" or "Next time you flake on me, we're done" (and mean it). You can let her know that you won't stand for her behavior by ... not standing for it! Don't stick around for someone who treats you badly.
/r/seduction12/02/12 02:38 PM
1

So be busy yourself. Don't ask her to hang out so often. Find other things to do.
/r/seduction12/02/12 02:37 PM
2

Dates don't have to be dinner/drinking/movies. What about a date during the day on Saturday? You can do anything from a hike, a game (bowling? mini golf? batting cage?), the mall, or a cultural or sporting event. Choose something that will give you material to talk about. What are your interests? What are her interests? Even if this is just about sex, you can get laid when the daytime date turns into dinner and then who knows?
/r/seduction11/02/12 09:53 PM
1

Tell her that you can't go through life avoiding pain. With love comes the risk of pain, that's just the way life is. Play it safe and go nowhere.
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:06 PM
2

Is there some indication that this girl would stop flirting with multiple guys and cheating on her absentee boyfriend to enter a monogamous relationship with you? If all you want is to bang her, go for it. But if you're expecting a miracle, good luck to you.
/r/seduction04/01/12 05:09 PM
1

Go to the ra subreddit and look through the posts.
/r/seduction02/01/12 07:11 PM
1

You should read some of the posts in relationship_advice from people who are in this situation.
/r/seduction02/01/12 02:05 PM
1

The difference is the possibility of pregnancy. Birth control doesn't always work and some people would rather wait until they're in a more secure position to possibly breed.
/r/seduction01/01/12 02:10 PM
2

One or both persons does not enjoy the sexual act or aspects of it and/or doesn't want it as often as the other person, or wants it way more often. Happy orgasms are not had by either or both parties.
/r/seduction01/01/12 12:32 AM
2

What if you get married and find out that you are incompatible sexually with your wife? Sometimes even a fervent faith and lifetime vow isn't enough to fix this. Then what?
/r/seduction31/12/11 10:50 PM
0

If she would do oral and hand jobs and everything but intercourse, couldn't you get a pretty good idea of how she is in bed?
/r/seduction31/12/11 10:49 PM
11

Why can't she ask them out? "Hey, wanna get together on Saturday night and go out to dinner?" I asked my ex-husband out on our first date. He later told me that he was too shy and probably never would have done it himself.
/r/seduction17/12/11 01:58 PM
4

There's nothing wrong with not bringing people around the house if your mother acts truly crazy. Make it a goal to move out and distance yourself from your family somewhat. Therapy might not be a bad idea either.
/r/seduction11/12/11 02:21 PM
1

Yes! It's all about romance with a large majority of girls.
/r/seduction07/12/11 11:11 AM
1

You have to understand women. Most of them aren't thinking about the evening the same way you are. You want to get laid, they want romance. They don't want to end up in a borderline date rape situation if they decide they don't want to proceed with the sex, and if they don't know you that well, how will they know if they can trust you?
/r/seduction07/12/11 03:04 AM
6

Take it from a female: the bedroom is the worst place for the first kiss, because she knows that if she starts kissing it will be difficult to slow things down because it's the obvious place to have sex. If she tries to back off, now things are awkward. Girls don't like to think that they're going to your house for sex, because that's slutty. They want to be seduced. They want to pretend that they're being swept away and "it just happened". If you're going to invite her over to watch a movie, wa…
/r/seduction07/12/11 02:51 AM
3

Avoid drunk texting with pointless messages. Avoid drunk texting altogether. Wait until the next day or the day after and then ask them out to something appealing, like that party of yours.
/r/seduction05/12/11 11:40 AM
3

Never beg someone to be with you or try to cajole them into a relationship. The more you try to change her mind, the more she'll feel pressured and the more obvious it is that you're too needy. I'd go with the "no worries, ring me up if you're available" and off you go to enjoy your life and meet other girls.
/r/seduction22/11/11 12:10 AM
2

Bed is not a "comfortable setting". The connotations of sleeping with someone are such that it should be reserved for sexual activity, not hanging out. As someone from an older generation, it baffles me that kids hang out in bed together in the dark and watch movies when they're not in a romantic/sexual relationship. No wonder you kids are always so confused about relationships. Your boundaries are all messed up. Edited to add emphasis.
/r/seduction20/11/11 01:49 PM
3

Based on all the stories by women in /r/relationships who are in love with less than successful guys, I'd say that you are your own worst enemy.
/r/seduction19/11/11 03:46 PM
3

If you're giving her the silent treatment then why are you flirting with her? You're kind of a ass behaving this way.
/r/seduction15/11/11 11:02 AM
10

She's not interested in dating you but doesn't want to be "mean". Talk to other girls. This one is not worth the effort.
/r/seduction06/11/11 04:57 PM
11

Please post this in /r/relationships and/or /r/relationship_advice!
/r/seduction24/10/11 09:34 AM
1

You can't tell the good from the bad right away, but you have to keep your eyes open and be willing to dump someone fast if the red flags go up rather than stick around trying to fix her or the relationship.
/r/seduction03/10/11 11:45 PM
5

Love is always a crap shoot. Either you're willing to take some risks and accept the bad with the good or you aren't. If being alone is worth giving up intimacy and love then go ahead and avoid taking a chance. And maybe you should try meeting some more mature girls.
/r/seduction03/10/11 10:11 AM
1

Often it does.
/r/seduction01/10/11 08:37 PM
3

Are you sleeping with them the same day you meet them (i.e., one night stand-type hookups?). Try developing a relationship for a few dates before going all the way.
/r/seduction01/10/11 09:58 AM
6

Maybe he's doing it badly. Honestly, I'd rather have no oral than bad oral.
/r/seduction01/10/11 09:57 AM
9

For that to work, HE would have to be the drunk one.
/r/seduction22/09/11 10:09 AM
5

Maybe she was really, really drunk?
/r/seduction22/09/11 09:25 AM
5

You're that girl's worst nightmare, and your lack of empathy is disconcerting. You used her and now you're worried that she might want something from you. I think an apology to her is in order.
/r/seduction20/09/11 10:15 AM
2

The 9s and 10s complain that no one talks to them. If you can get over the intimidation sometimes it's an easy win. Just don't treat them like a goddess.
/r/seduction17/09/11 09:35 PM
2

I'd go with the eyepatch. Then when you meet a woman, say, "I'm taking a survey to see who can make up the funniest story about why my eye is like this. I'm buying the winner a drink."
/r/seduction04/09/11 06:18 PM
1

It's mean to neg someone for a small penis, because there's not a damn thing the guy can do about it. Same with a girl who's not naturally pretty.
/r/seduction27/08/11 06:32 PM
3

That's true, because being pretty is really something that you're born with. Luck of the draw, but some pretty people act like they deserved it more than the rest of us.
/r/seduction27/08/11 05:21 PM
30

As a woman who was not a pretty girl, I can tell you that when the girl doesn't usually get compliments on her looks and has even had people make fun of her for being ugly, fat, whatever, negging just comes across as another insult in a long string of insults, and her self esteem is already in the toilet. She may not know how to flirt and just assumes that guys think she's unattractive. With the less attractive girls I would do the opposite of negging. A nice compliment to a homely girl might pu…
/r/seduction27/08/11 11:19 AM
6

If a guy said "Let me eat you out" or "give me a blow job" followed by pulling down pants, I would get up and leave. That's so crude.
/r/seduction16/08/11 09:32 PM
2

This whole story sounds shallow and pathetic. You're both playing games. Either go out with her again without all the BS or stop dating her. It really is that simple.
/r/seduction09/08/11 10:53 AM
1

Legal or not, if she has to sneak around behind her mother's back, then she's not really old enough mentally to consent to a sexual relationship with a supposedly mature adult. In other words, if this is something that needs to be hidden from her parents, it's probably a bad idea. Not to mention the risk of getting her pregnant - girls her age may not be responsible enough to ensure that they practice safe sex and pregnancy prevention.
/r/seduction05/08/11 09:22 AM
1

The age of consent in his state is 16. She's perfectly legal.
/r/seduction05/08/11 09:18 AM
1

Yes. Why not look into it? Ask around - maybe your friends can recommend someone.
/r/seduction30/07/11 12:35 PM
2

The mistake is thinking that the moment has to be perfect. That's silly. Any moment is a good enough moment. No wonder he's single - his head is way too far up his Disney movie ass.
/r/seduction26/07/11 12:41 AM
1

Honestly, you don't see her response as a polite way of saying "I'm not interested"? There's no door left open.
/r/seduction17/07/11 01:55 PM
3

You didn't necessarily do anything wrong. She just isn't feeling it. You don't fall for every girl you date, do you? Don't beat yourself up.
/r/seduction17/07/11 01:54 PM
7

They're just as scared as you are.
/r/seduction28/06/11 08:56 AM
1

Don't be a jerk. Leave the first one before you start hitting on other women. And if a guy asked me out while living with his girlfriend I would conclude that he's a cheating asshole and not go out with him.
/r/seduction24/06/11 11:09 AM
1

Nice try, Rheago.
/r/seduction24/06/11 10:09 AM
1

Wouldn't you rather be with a woman who likes you just the way you are? Why should you have to change?
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:16 AM
1

Or /r/relationships.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:15 AM
1

Just because she's emotionally attached to you doesn't mean she's proper girlfriend material. Is she willing to go for therapy NOW?
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:14 AM
1

Date someone else and have a real relationship with them, not with this broken chick.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:11 AM
1

No, no there isn't. If "She has some issues around the idea of sex because of an ugly history, and she's not physically attracted to me" isn't enough to convince you, I don't know what is. You're up against longstanding psychological issues. Cut your losses. It's only been three months. She needs therapy and you need to find a girl who has her sexual act together.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:11 AM
33

If you like her at all, call her and ask her for a real date. At least that way she'll think you didn't just use her for sex and she'll be less likely to accuse you of something you didn't do. Next time, don't ever bang a drunk girl that you don't know well.
/r/seduction08/05/11 05:12 PM
1

Well, the alternative is you'll never see them again, probably.
/r/seduction06/05/11 10:42 AM
1

Was there some way that I could have handled that situation in such a way that they would have suggested that I come sit down with them? Should I have just faked it till I made it and risked embarrassment by doing an FTR and saying "hey I have to go soon but I've got ten minutes, could I join you to hear a little bit more about your work?" You could have said, "Hey, I've got to run, but I'd love to continue this talk sometime soon ... would you ladies like to get together for dinner later this w…
/r/seduction05/05/11 01:47 PM
-1

1 - be attractive. 2 - don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction24/04/11 09:29 PM
3

Time to stop the emails and meet in person. Move things along - you may meet in person and have zero chemistry. The whole point of dating online isn't to have an online relationship, it's to MEET PEOPLE. ... and she may have her shit together personally but not when it comes to relationships. How would it hurt for her to just have coffee with you without worrying that you're "too young"? This implies that she can't just go on a date without becoming somewhat attached. There's no risk in just hav…
/r/seduction16/04/11 03:19 PM
2

If you haven't even met in person yet, how do you know you're even compatible enough for a second date? Also, if she's 40 and this clueless about dating and relationships, then it doesn't sound like she has her shit together (I'm a 52 year old female, so I have some life experience in this arena). IMHO at 40 she should be the one driving her choices in relationships and making well-thought out decisions. If she;s worried about the age difference based on nothing but a few emails, then she should…
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:11 PM
2

Sometimes you can do everything "right" and it still doesn't work out. Don't kick yourself about it. Move on and live to love another day.
/r/seduction31/01/11 01:55 AM
3

I would say "I guess you're busy. Give me a call when you're free" and just leave.
/r/seduction29/01/11 11:25 AM
2

Don't feel bad. For some reason bars and clubs make me clam right up. That might not be the best place for you to try and meet women. Better to join clubs and activities where you're engaged in something you like doing.
/r/seduction23/01/11 02:30 AM
3

When you canceled you should have immediately suggested an alternate activity. "Doctor says I need to stay out of the sun, but how about going <someplace else>?"
/r/seduction18/01/11 11:29 AM
9

All you want is sex? No relationship, no love, no affection, no dating? No spending time with a woman while she has her clothes on? If you don't want any of those things, your options are either drunken bar sluts or pay for it, probably.
/r/seduction09/01/11 01:17 PM
1

I found my awesome boyfriend on line. You have to look past the profile and go straight to getting to know them.
/r/seduction09/12/10 01:49 AM
1

Stop all this nonsense and just be honest with her. "I broke up with <main squeeze> today. It wasn't expected, but it just wasn't working out ... I hope we're still on for getting together!" Let her decide if she still wants to date you, but let her make her decision based on honesty and reality.
/r/seduction06/12/10 12:13 AM
3

I'm surprised you were downvoted. You're right.
/r/seduction05/12/10 03:31 AM
-1

If this girl has a grain of sense she will avoid you like the plague.
/r/seduction29/11/10 12:28 PM
2

Or live next door to those controlling parents.
/r/MensRights27/02/10 05:57 PM
1

Forced? He's a pussy, that's why he's living like that.
/r/MensRights27/02/10 05:57 PM
-4

I suppose so.
/r/MensRights07/02/10 10:41 PM
1

I made my comment because it seems like many of the threads in MensRights seem to be about a castrating bitch who's getting away with screwing up the life of some poor guy (which is often true). But in this case the women in those fundamentalist compounds are being oppressed just as much as the poor teenage boys who are being thrown out. The only ones benefiting are the older men in power.
/r/MensRights07/02/10 10:38 PM
-3

Interesting that the oppressors of these boys are ... other men.
/r/MensRights07/02/10 10:31 PM
7

Sorry to hear this. My boyfriend's former girlfriend has been emailing and calling him for about a year and a half, although the frequency has drastically declined because he NEVER responds to her, never picks up the phone, nothing. Let the cops know that she's stalking you and would they please keep an eye on your house. You may want to consult your lawyer to see if there's any way to get her to cease and desist other than a restraining order. Maybe you can sue her for harassment. Are her paren…
/r/MensRights15/01/10 06:38 PM
6

Jamaica Plain is a well-known gay neighborhood in Boston. If the attackers don't like seeing gay behavior, maybe they should move to Topeka, Kansas and join the Westboro Baptist Church. PS: this is less about men's rights than it is about the stupidity of the Boston Police Department and district attorney.
/r/MensRights10/01/10 03:02 PM
11

My son's condom broke. He took the girl to get Plan B ... she took it home but never actually took it. Now there's a baby.
/r/MensRights10/01/10 01:32 PM
5

I saw them on the show "60 Minutes". He forgave her, they became good friends to the point that their families regularly visit each other, and the two of them travel around the country educating law enforcement about the need to correctly interview eyewitnesses.
/r/MensRights03/09/09 01:19 AM
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