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Same with Autism. I noticed that neurodivergent men seemed to get slapped more with negative stereotypes than their female counterparts. I think that it's a symptom of men's value only being derived from their productivity/utility. It's something I experienced myself as an autistic guy, when I was in between jobs I'd get support, but as soon as I find work, society acts as though I'm "cured". There's this tendency to view men with conditions that may impact their "productivity" as lesser.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/25 01:08 PM
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"Lonely men are more dangerous than ever" more dehumanising bullshit blaming lonely men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/25 04:24 PM
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Saddened but not surprised. I've been saying for years now that the normalisation of misandry in 'progressive' circles would end up backfiring by devolving in to the gender-essentialist thinking of anyone being born with a penis as akin to some form of "original sin". Nobody fucking listened.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/25 02:51 PM
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Unfortunately most of the popular subs are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 12:22 AM
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Most of the time, it's not worth replying; you might as well argue with a brick wall.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/25 12:21 PM
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A lot of people aren't ready for such conversations. I always try to talk about the topic in left-wing spaces and pretty much berated, called names etc. despite me always prefacing that I have largely moved away from the incelosphere and the blackpill. Most progressives don't want to understand the situation in such a way that might lead to some empathy for those who fall down the incel rabbithole, they just want an amorphous group to blame all of society's ills on, ironically enough, no differe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/25 11:55 AM
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I blame it on deliberately misleading people as to what a "patriarch" is. Patriarch is supposed to mean the male head of a family or tribe and so critique of "patriarchy" would have originally been a critique of those in charge at the time, the wealthy who were mostly comprised of men, hence the term "patriarchy". My belief is that with the rise of the Soviets and anti-Socialist propaganda, muddying the meaning of "patriarch" became a convenient way to shift some of the blame away from capital o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 12:08 PM
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Being a fascist is a pretty big, inconsolable difference if you ask me. Once again, they looked at their conditions and decided to vote for Trump, there's nothing to work with there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/25 09:24 AM
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Can we stop trying to run damage control for guys who are like "hurr durr feminism alienates me so I guess I'll become a fascist!". Any guy who's "anti-feminist" to the point of being on the side of Trump/Musk is genuinely just an asshole and I don't want discussion of men's issues to be associated with those pieces of shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/25 12:20 AM
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Yeah, maybe not broke. Moreso just concealing your hand and not playing all your cards at once.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/24 12:02 AM
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No matter how well you do financially, pretend to be broke. Nothing scares the ill-intentioned women away faster than a broke guy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/24 08:54 PM
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This is the exact moment Occupy really fell off a cliff, when they started tallying up "oppression points". Occupy Richmond 10/6/11 Intro to "Progressive Stack"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/24 09:40 AM
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Honestly, I don't know at this point. I think that the damage is irreparable. Progressives clearly don't want to meaningfully work with men in any way other than men being an "ally" (aka fight for my issues while I ignore yours). The men who went to the right as a result, I can't see coming back so long as progressives don't want to meaningfully engage with men's issues. I'm not feeling too good at the moment mental-health wise, but currently, I just think it's over and nothing can be done anymo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 02:09 PM
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Not just gambling, look at the amount of men falling for crypto scams and get rich quick schemes as well. There's still a lot of pressure on men to be breadwinners to "prove" their worth as men. But as the earning gap between men and women closes and the economy tanks, the pressure gets worse and worse resulting in men taking even more risky measures to "make it".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/24 08:34 AM
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It's brutal. I'm always alone and end up doing stuff by myself, and people just assume Im a weirdo or something because of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/24 12:48 AM
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This is why I largely quit talking about my dating woes and have given up entirely on finding a romantic partner for the most part. It dawned on me that I could follow all of the typically "blue-pilled" advice in the world and still get absolutely nowhere. While I disagree with the 'absoluteness' of the blackpill, centering romance as the be-all end-all of life, it does provide a dose of reality as to how truly shallow dating can be. Once I got over the "blackpill rage" I found a sense of tranqu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 10:04 AM
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This. What annoys me is that when someone points out that it is in fact class is the intersection within 'intersectionality', being the one oppression that 99% of people on the planet have in common, they get called a "class reductionist"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/24 09:48 AM
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"Breaking news: Middle-Aged white men like trains" I am shocked I tell you, shocked!
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:52 PM
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"So I am more dangerous than a bear? Hell yeah, that's cool as fuck!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 03:10 PM
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"For example, he says he feels empathy for incels. But only to the point they start hating on women or wanting to kill women." Which would be all well and good if the bar for what counts as 'hating women' wasn't constantly moving all the time. I have seen ordinary guys, not part of any incel group just say "I feel a little lonely and wish dating wasn't difficult" and people immediately jump down their throat with "oh, stop being entitled, you just want to enslave women, you hate women" etc. The …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/24 09:17 AM
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This. Women's hedonism will typically get called out by tradcons and the bar for what counts as "hedonism" is a lot higher. Whereas a man's hedonism will get called out by everyone due to a man's worth being tied to "productivity" transcending across political lines. Plus what's considered "hedonistic" is a lot lower for men; I see men getting hated on for even just playing a video game in his free time because he's not spending every waking hour on his "grindset".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/24 05:50 PM
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I agree. I'm a straight guy who thinks that the male body can be just as aesthetic as the female body. Although I do anatomical studies and life drawing as part of my studies, learning 3d character animation so it doesn't phase me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/24 03:03 PM
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Because Autistic men are largely at the bottom of the barrel socially. Men are expected to be forward, confident and ruggedly independent, autism makes it difficult to fulfil those roles and thus autistic men get shamed and hated on.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 09:38 AM
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Same here. Not giving a fuck is truly the greatest gift a man can give himself. I used to care about what women want but honestly it just ended up making me depressed because the goalposts are constantly moving so fucking much that it made me feel like I would never be good enough.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 12:07 PM
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Yeah, I think a lot of gender wars stuff is "grass is greener" effect. I think that women have a burden of 'looks' where, as you say, they are pressured into looking youthful. Whereas men have the burden of 'performance' where they are pressured into being a utility and being 'useful'. That's why women's beauty typically revolves around things that make them look 'youthful' whereas men's beauty typically revolves around things that make them look 'strong/useful'.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/24 08:38 AM
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For sure. I find that the kinds of people who'll tar a whole swathe of society with being the "cause" of a particular issue are usually completely unserious in solving that issue in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 07:29 AM
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Eh, seems like a femcel struggle session. I agree with the fact that people shouldn't harass others in public, that's just common sense but the whole "collective male species" thing is throwing up all kinds of red flags. Like, I don't see why I should be blamed because some other dude is a dickhead.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 07:15 AM
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The "just treat women as human beings thing" baffles me as most men aren't treated as human beings either. I think that it needlessly genders basic empathy that should be afforded to everyone and overlooks the constant dehumanisation and objectification of men in relation to class and capital. Simply just looking at how natural disasters are reported on, for example, completely destroys this notion that it's only women who are somehow uniquely dehumanised, it's all "X amount of women and childre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 10:00 AM
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It does exist in so much as there's distinct advantages men or women may be more likely to benefit from by virtue of their gender. But for the most part I think that people generalise way too much with the concept of "privilege" and misuse the term all the time. Like feminists will say that an example of "male privilege" is a man being able to walk alone, particularly at night and be safe from harm, or not be scared. What's wrong about this is that firstly it's factually incorrect, men are more …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/23 03:25 PM
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Yeah it went from "taller than me" to 6 foot and now 6'4. My theory is that, as the earning potential of young men goes down, the pressure on men to become hyper masculine in order to be "attractive" and have "value" goes up. It's why things really went to shit post 2008, with the financial crash and the rise of dating apps.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/23 12:29 AM
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I think that they used to but it's become very homogenized by social media and hollywood and peer pressure. Paradoxically, the masculine archetype has become ever more strict and restrictive for the average man. Something I have always said is that if doing things "coded as feminine" genuinely received positive attention from women, every single straight fella would be doing it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/23 10:03 AM
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Yeah, I don't think women realise how little fat it takes to cover a man's abs. A fella could have a low BMI yet still be seen as 'fat' for not having cut abs.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 10:33 AM
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Dr K is great! Sometimes the advice is a bit too boilerplate "just love yourself". But he's spitting straight facts in this video. "The world has changed but our expectations of men have not" is very true.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/23 10:17 AM
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It's simple, it's far more likely to be laughed at and/or rejected than be murdered on a date. Thus, such humiliating social rejection on a date is a far more rational fear than being murdered on a date. Day to day, social rejection is a far more likely "threat" to the self than physical harm from others yet we as a society scoff at the idea that social rejection causes harm in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 08:50 PM
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Even ignoring the blatant things like war, murder rate etc. and viewing the idea of "Misandry = annoyance, misogyny = death" or "men are afraid of being made fun of, women are afraid of being killed" etc. in the most charitable light possible,those arguements still fall apart when male suicide rates are taken in to consideration. I'm sick to death of people belittling the issue of social alienation and loneliness as though being excluded and treated like shit doesn't hurt or result in death. The…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/23 06:57 PM
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