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ANGRY_ASPARAGUS/r/seduction18/05/16 08:18 PM
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Get them all excited and curious, then in the morning ask if they want to go with you to Tosche station to pick up some power converters.
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:28 PM
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I love this. It's refreshing to hear! When I ask my female friends if this is what they prefer from guys, they all say it absolutely is. It's almost like a lost art these days.
/r/seduction29/01/21 05:48 AM
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Dating apps aren't terrible to start off with. It can also help you practice your conversation skills. That said, I'm done with them. I have success on them and have gone on many dates from those apps, but there's something just refreshing and adventurous about meeting people in person more. Plus, apps feel commoditized; it's like shopping and I detest the swipe left / disposable dating culture. I'd say you're on the right track, but give the apps a try - but don't rely on them. I'm itching to g…
/r/seduction26/01/21 03:20 AM
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You should probably ask this question in r/relationships. This sub is about seduction, which is counter-productive to the answer you're trying to seek. That said, you may want to try looking inward for your answer, you'll likely find it there.
/r/seduction19/10/20 05:28 PM
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Didn't really date until 24, had my first serious relationship at 28, which ended when I was 32. Now I'm 37, and very much in my prime. I have an amazing girlfriend now, but it was tons of fun dating and meeting women in the last five years. I learned a lot about myself through heartbreak, and just general social growth. Being in your 30's, when you're young, fit, and confident because you know what you want in your career and in life, is very attractive to women. I wouldn't go back to my 20's i…
/r/seduction24/06/20 09:38 PM
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That's cool man. You do you and believe what you want. Whatever works best for you.
/r/seduction11/02/20 03:57 AM
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Well, I speak from direct experience as someone in their mid 30's, doing well for myself and loving life for a variety of reasons. A woman should add to your happiness; otherwise, you're pursuing the wrong one. Seems like you're not seeing the forest for the trees. But, good luck with your approach. I wish you the best.
/r/seduction04/02/20 03:30 PM
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This guy gets it. Point #3 is the most important. There's so much more to life than just girls, and if you build your life around this mantra and take time to appreciate and pursue what the rest of the world offers, girls see it and like it; it basically shows you don't depend on their presence or attention to be happy, which makes you look less insecure and needy. And it's true - there's more to life than girls, relationships and getting laid. Realization of this will, ironically, lead you to q…
/r/seduction04/02/20 06:44 AM
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This sounds fun and lighthearted... regardless of the potential outcome, I'm gonna try this!
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:51 PM
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This guy gets it. Should also add, don't be afraid to touch their knee, put your hand on their back, etc. while on a date, as the night goes along. Walking down the street? Make sure you stand closest to the street while walking (it's a underrated safety thing for women) and extend your arm for her to hold. Initiating touch is key; it'll show your intentions and show your confidence, which women love.
/r/seduction21/08/19 10:13 PM
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Go for it brother, just do it. You got nothing to lose. You have a much better chance in real life anyways, since you have more of an immediate opportunity to get their attention and keep it. Online, they can just swipe left on you / ignore you... in person, they get to meet the real, valuable you.
/r/seduction02/08/19 02:37 PM
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Are you actually going to compare "upvotes" when my OP has over 160 of them? You have your own experiences, I have mine. In my experience, talking to women in person, ACTUAL WOMEN, not only online ones like you talk to, works. Sorry dude, but the proof is there. You have no idea who I am, who I know, and who I talk to. But hey, keep making generalizations about me and excuses for yourself and not meeting quality women in real life. How's that working out?
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:52 PM
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Absolute bunk. You're defeating yourself before even giving yourself a chance. Guys who subscribe to this immediately set themselves up for failure. My own experiences completely prove otherwise. Dress well, be respectful, don't be an ass. It's not illegal to talk to strangers, sorry. If they're receptive, awesome. If not, wish them a good night and move on. It's not complicated. Read Mark Manson's Models for more information on negative / neutral / receptive women, if you'd like to learn more.
/r/seduction31/07/19 02:31 PM
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Harassment? Yeah, 100% no. Maybe don't harass them then? There's a difference between talking to women and being harassing.
/r/seduction31/07/19 02:28 PM
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Agreed 100%. You have a better chance approaching that 9 or 10/10 in person than you would have on Tinder. Just be confident, don't take things too seriously, make her (and her friends) laugh, and be that fun / leading guy that girls can laugh with and feel comfortable around. This is the approach me and my friends take, and it always works. Apps should never, ever replace real life. Too many guys fall into this trap. When one realizes this, they'll find their interactions and responses greater …
/r/seduction30/07/19 07:13 PM
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If there's one thing I've learned these days, it's that women actually do like being approached - in fact, they prefer it. In the age of social media and dating apps, it just happens more and more infrequently all the time. Women love it when a guy mans up and approaches in person - many women (friends and randoms that I've asked) have told me as much.
/r/seduction30/07/19 03:39 PM
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If it's not a 'fuck yes' from her, 'it's a 'no'. Read this Mark Manson article, my dude, it's good advice: Fuck Yes or Fuck No
/r/seduction12/07/19 10:07 PM
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Who gives a shit about the age gap? It's just a date. That's the beauty in being in your 30's - you can date ages all over the map. Girls love older dudes too.
/r/seduction16/04/19 10:26 PM
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"Hey [insert name]! So how does this Tinder thing work, are we married now?" I always get a laugh out of this and it ALWAYS works as a conversation starter.
/r/seduction05/02/19 08:15 PM
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I don't think, I know, your hypothesis is right. I play the violin, and even just mentioning it is like catnip to women. If you can play a classical instrument, it means you do something most people don't, it's seen as a high-class / refined skill to have. Women absolutely love this.
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:03 AM
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This is actually really solid advice. I've employed these tactics for years. One thing I'll say is #7 is very important...... don't give them an 'option' to do something with you, phrase it in a way that you're already doing something together and what's more important is the specifics of what you're doing. Women love decisive men. One thing that also works, actually always works, is when you ask a woman on a date, and they say yes - plan the whole damn thing. Just tell them all they have to do …
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:59 PM
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I understand OP's message here, but I've always found that posts in this sub-reddit that use insults and swear words to get their point across are incredibly cringe-worthy. You can say the same thing without the alpha aggression.
/r/seduction27/11/18 09:54 PM
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I'm 35 (34 when I hooked up), but found that in SD, specifically, I just showed some confidence, combined with some of that good ol' Canadian friendliness and a smile, and it seemed to work really well. Granted when you're down there with your buddies and you don't give a shit, it's that much easier. I have heard similar comments for other dudes in the SD area though, that money does talk down there unfortunately. Come up to western Canada and try your hand here, Canadian girls, for the most par…
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:28 PM
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Jealous... I hosted a bachelor party down there last year, fell in love with the city. Went back last December to hook up with some girl I met at said party. Would love to move down there one day for the city / women, it's just tough to do as a Canadian!
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:22 PM
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I don't know why you're being downvoted. I also have more success in person. In fact, one's chances are higher since you can get their attention and keep it there for longer periods of time. All women I've been with / have had long-term relationships with, have been when I've met them in person.
/r/seduction29/08/18 09:09 PM
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This is actually good advice, I've been doing this for years. If you wake up in the morning, look in the mirror, and love what you see... that is validation. Another way not mentioned in the list, however, is to help people. Volunteer, treat people kindly, show leadership in the way you treat others... and it's addictive, and ATTRACTIVE, to people.
/r/seduction17/08/18 06:22 PM
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This is it in a nutshell, and in an easy to read format!
/r/seduction11/05/18 04:24 PM
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Why don't you just go and talk to him then?
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:03 PM
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Bingo. Take the high road.
/r/seduction06/04/18 08:00 PM
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I only had one meaningful relationship in my life (from 28 to 32), but even during then I continued to focus on getting my education, career, fitness and hobbies (I love traveling) set along the way. Now that I'm in my 30's and single again, the work I put in is finally paying off. That's why I'm enjoying my 30's quite a bit.
/r/seduction06/04/18 04:30 PM
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Not at all. Weak would have been to grovel and be the third wheel / dude friend with no guaranteed result in the future, which couldn't be a bigger waste of time. He was honest about his intentions and moved on, which is the correct course of action.
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:06 AM
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Exactly. This shows that you have options, and don't need her affection to be happy. This actually makes you that much more attractive.
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:03 AM
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I'm 34, just about 35. Let me tell you this - your 30's are your best time for women. It's like shooting fish in a barrel right now; as long as you invest in yourself (good career, keeping in shape, having hobbies, being confident), you'll see success. I wouldn't go back to my 20's if I had the option to. I thought like you, at 27, my best years with women were starting to fall behind me. How wrong I was.
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:00 AM
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This is hilarious, and accurate
/r/seduction09/03/18 09:22 PM
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Can confirm. I've gotten lots of my numbers / dates by simply making the right eye contact first, which sends the message straight to her brain. The beauty of it is you can do it from afar, you don't even have to open your mouth for them to know the intent. Just don't be creepy while doing it; just hold her gaze, show confidence, and smile at the right time. You'll know when that happens.
/r/seduction25/02/18 07:46 PM
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I'm absolutely slaying it in my 30's. Would never go back to my 20's, to be honest. It's way easier and more fun right now.
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:00 PM
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As long as it's a group photo and not just the two of you. Seeing 'coupley' photos on that app is just awkward. Also, why do you still have pictures of your ex? Delete that shit! :)
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:08 PM
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His definition of vulnerable is putting your ass on the line and being honest about your intentions, regardless of the outcome. That means just being yourself, and be honest. Don't employ Fake Confidence, as he puts it. Believe in yourself, what you stand for, and employ True Confidence. Rejection will just help weed out the ones you don't want to waste your time on anyways.
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:40 PM
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New message from Vinny: Hey stud, you free tonight for a drink at my place?? winky face
/r/seduction17/03/17 05:56 PM
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I've gotten great results making eye contact. The key is to see if it happens a second and third time. If it does, that'll be your indication. Don't discredit eye contact at all, it's a fantastic IOI.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:55 PM
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I agree with this. I've gone on one date on Tinder in a year of having it; the most success I've had with women is in person. All my previous GF's or girls I've dated have been met through real life interactions. I've removed Tinder from my phone and couldn't be happier. Your chances are so much higher meeting people in person. It's scarier, but so much more effective. Tinder is a wasteland of men. Not the place I want to hang out.
/r/seduction14/02/17 09:01 PM
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One thing I've never understood about this terminology is that being out of someone's league means you aren't good enough for them. I've always thought that it should be backwards - when someone isn't in YOUR league, that means they aren't good enough for you, since I associate league with (for lack of a better sports analogy) the BIG LEAGUES, which is what you are in - so when someone is out of your league it's a bad thing for them, they're in a lesser league. I digress, however.
/r/seduction07/02/17 08:57 PM
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Wearing a nice suit, especially a classy one like a three piece with a pocket square, is an instant confidence booster. It's amazing what wearing a nice suit can do for your game on any given night. In my city people don't wear suits that often, so you're instantly ahead of the game by wearing one in the evening. Bonus points if you're in shape and the suit fits even that much better.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:08 PM
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"Hey baby, do you like bad boys?" "Yeah" "Good, cause I'm bad at everything"
/r/seduction07/11/16 07:50 PM
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If a vegan does Crossfit, which one do they tell you about first?
/r/seduction07/10/16 05:09 PM
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Armani Mania. It's not made anymore, but if you can find a bottle (they are out there), it is a guaranteed panty remover. Trust me. This shit is like a liquid orgasm for chicks.
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:06 PM
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I find it's much easier to talk to women. They can smell maturity, and if you have yourself together (great dresser, fit, confident) it's like shooting fish in a barrel. Typically guys in their 30's know what they want. Women just want a real man, that's all, and in your 30's, they can more easily sense this.
/r/seduction30/06/16 10:06 PM
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This doesn't answer your original question, but Armani Mania is like the key to a women's lock. Every single girl I have dated or been in a relationship with said the scent is insanely attractive. Hell, women have approached me based on my scent alone. Obviously the key is not to wear too much, but this cologne is absolutely solid.
/r/seduction24/05/16 03:19 PM
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Dude... you look way more bad ass now than you did before. That looks 10x better. Based on your pics alone, your game will not suffer - probably improve.
/r/seduction04/04/16 10:13 PM
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I find conferences and work events better than other social settings, because you can approach easier knowing you have at least something in common - your work. It's really the perfect conversation starter in situations like these, and you can be natural about it. I've been to many events over the last several years and have snagged at least 1-2 numbers when I was single. These types of events really are hidden gems for meeting others.
/r/seduction17/03/16 04:15 PM
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I'm 32 and just came out of a 4-year relationship a couple months ago. When I'm ready to get back into things, I'm hoping my 30's is the golden age of meeting women. I've heard and read good things about this decade.
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:38 PM
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Me too, GF of 3.5 years broke up with me too... that was five months ago and it doesn't get easier. It takes a while, but that depends on how connected you were. I'm not ready for the dating scene yet at all, and its easier when you can admit that to yourself and others.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:19 PM
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This is a great post. Almost ready to get back into the game after my four year relationship ended almost five months ago, so I'm psyching myself up to dive into it head first and just be the confident guy I know I'll have to be. It's scary and exciting at the same time!
/r/seduction12/01/16 06:46 AM
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Way to go man. You did everything exactly right here. You're not going to win them all, but this experience is incredibly valuable. And to top it off, you don't seem phased by it - this is key. Again, from one bro to the next, well done. Don't stop now. You're on the right track to success.
/r/seduction09/12/15 04:25 PM
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Armani Mania. Been wearing this stuff for ten years. Women LOVE this scent, I literally have girls that just bury their face in my shirt and moan.
/r/seduction08/12/15 05:40 PM
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That's an awesome mindset, dude. Well done. I like that you bailed when you knew you had to instead of gravely dragging it out. Lots of people don't have the confidence to do that. Seems like your pick-up game is top notch too, so good work!
/r/seduction24/11/15 07:04 PM
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