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DATING ADVICEANameOnFire/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 09:01 PM
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DISCUSSIONANameOnFire/r/RedPillWomen18/02/19 12:41 PM
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Pharmacy student here! I don't know what kind of antidepressants are available in your country but increased appetite is a very common side effect of SSRI's and SNRI's (these are classes that doctors usually prescribe first in America). There is an option out there that actually supresses your appetite, so I would let your doctor know ASAP!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 06:18 PM
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Sorry for late response- I sorta forgot about this after finals week. But my personal theory is that in order to make something stick, I need to have a decent variety of study tricks to... like, engage different parts of my brain? Or at least not get bored studying. Sometimes I read the notes in a quiet part of the library with earplugs in. Sometimes I read the notes aloud like I'm giving a lecture. Sometimes I rewrite some parts of notes so that everything is arranged in a way that makes sense …
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/19 06:47 PM
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Also kinda random but my best investment was probably a slow cooker... save time and money by (a) putting chicken or pork with bbq sauce for 6-8 hours (b) putting chicken with red curry sauce for 6-8 hours or (c) cutting chicken breast into bite size pieces, mixing it in a tablespoon of margarine and 0.7 oz packet of italian dressing dry powder mix for 5 hours. Not real cooking, but it's better than having to eat out. Save "real" cooking for weeks that are less busy! When considering expenses in…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 03:43 PM
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I am also 22! To me, your life plan seems quite reasonable. You will pay off your student debt within a year, and once that is done and your life is settled, you say that there are plenty of part time opportunities that will allow you to spend more time with your future family along with your higher hourly salary and more intellectual stimulation. What more can you ask for! :) To compare, I am in pharmacy school and even though I probably chose something that was a bit too competitive, I am happ…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 02:29 PM
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which is hard to do whether or not you live together. Which is also why steadfastness is a good skill to develop for... literally anything haha I think the reason living together puts such a strain on many relationships is that it magnifies all of your incompatibilities, but I want those incompatibilities to surface sooner rather than later so I can be sure this is the man I can spend the rest of my life with. I think this is the one sentence that swings me most to the pro-living together camp. …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 03:15 AM
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I believe the theory that couples who have relaxed views towards cohabitation will also have more relaxed views towards divorce, carries more weight than your theory about vetting. Huh, that also makes sense. Perhaps there are confounders- that there are two extremes (extremely unwise people who you mention here vs very traditional people who won't cohabit or divorce) and that skews the divorce stats for the middle group of people, who behave more rationally than the unwise people you mentioned.…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 02:57 AM
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These all look like good goals! Except for this one, maybe: . Buy a house (live in it/rent) Don't get me wrong, buying a house is a good investment for many people, and I used to want the same thing. At the same time, I'm not sure if it's the best idea RIGHT now, when you're single. By buying yourself a house, you are restricting yourself to one geographic area. This also means this might keep you from dating guys who live further away since it is A TON of work to sell a house. Are you sure you …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 07:30 PM
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the benefit in that area is there are alot of conservative men in the metro area looking for wives. That was a sneaking suspicion of mine but I could never tell for sure. Maybe cause PGH has more rural outskirts which influences it conservatively? Perhaps the well put together men are snatched up quickly? Anyway, good that you found yours! :) Now you don't have to worry about the endless search so much.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/18 01:24 AM
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Nice! I grew up an hour and a half away from Philly. I go to school in Pittsburgh. I think that part of the problem if we're in urban areas might be the geographic area. We are in close quarters with many people, and many people who are the urban poor often stay poor for a reason imo. Many websites seem to only filter out for geographic area. I wonder if people who live in the suburbs tend to find more success.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/18 01:00 AM
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What city do you live in?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 11:54 PM
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I used to do the eye contact and smiling thing a lot. Even if it doesn't lead to anything, it makes me feel nice and a bit more extroverted/confident, especially if he smiles back. Which is good, because it seems that both of us are natural introverts. In short, it's the least you can do. If I could compare it to something, it would be like passing an acquaintance on a crowded sidewalk and silently meeting eyes and smiling. Except maybe taper down the smile, depending on the situation. I've neve…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 11:49 PM
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Most men will put up a front online to get into your pants. I feel comfortable in my ability to vet on that level I think. If your a 5 in person your personality and feminity can shine and you can attract a higher value mate. Online you handicap yourself for convenience. Interesting, hadn't thought of that before.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 11:27 PM
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Interesting. These caveats feel like something that I always knew but never could articulate. I'm not sure what I'll end up deciding because I admit that I keep on swinging back and forth on the issue of waiting for marriage. I think that the best thing for me at this point is to wait for my compass to stop spinning so much so at least I'll not regret whatever I end up deciding. Perhaps the most important thing, like you said, is to be consistent. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 11:22 PM
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Emphasis on the error. Ha! I thought I had never heard of Coffee Meets Bagel until I saw the Shark Tank picture on their website! <3 Seems like it might be a decent place to try. Thanks for letting me know!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 11:13 PM
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Yes, actually one of the people I knew who found a really good guy was in a grad program for civil engineering so that def matches up with what you're saying. And from you and what other people are saying, I'm starting to agree on the priority of dating sites.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 11:06 PM
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I understand your plight with thin hair :/ I noticed that stress makes mine so bad that I can't have it much further than shoulder length, aka what I am at right now. It might be an unpopular opinion, but for me, I think it's better to have shorter, healthier looking hair than to have it be visibly thin. In the meantime, I also agree with those who say to keep your natural hair color, esp since it will make it thinner. BTW, what shampoo and conditioner do you use? Just curious :P
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 10:26 PM
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Thanks for your advice. Do you by chance know of anyone specifically who has achieved this through OKCupid?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 10:11 PM
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Wait a sec, maybe I should clarify in my main post. I am NOT interested in a fling. I am interested in sex ONLY after several months AFTER commitment. I am not interested in doing anything for the sake of "gaining experience." I hope to marry the man who takes my virginity as well, and part of my general pickiness is because of that. I have simply realized that no LTR is gonna wait till marriage for me. Sooo bottom line, I take it that the dating apps are still a bad idea, yes?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 10:07 PM
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I am in pharmacy school right now, and I'm going to to stay in my university city (Pittsburgh) over the summer for an internship. Any suggestions on how to find guys who are already out of school and working, without using a dating app if possible? I will finally have time to date, but I'm discouraged by the motivations of many college-aged guys that I tried to talk to before. Or is there no magical way to meet people? I am from a small-ish town so I think that being in an urban center can make …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 12:20 PM
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