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11

A chick once used that line on me, and I've been using it ever since with decent success. You aren't directly saying 'want to have sex?' but instead are talking more in the hypothetical, which gives a bit more safety. The trouble with 'netflix and chill' is that it is cliche.
/r/seduction27/07/26 06:11 PM
37

No, you dummy. That's what you say to her.
/r/seduction27/07/26 05:56 PM
23

"what's your stance/view on casual sex"
/r/seduction27/07/26 05:46 PM
0

I have no doubt that there is a ton of gaslighting on this issue and that it sucked to be a man 300 years ago. But isn't it true that women (for the most part) couldn't own property, etc.? And they were mostly excluded from higher education and positions of power (other than rare queens here and there). I don't know much about history, but it seems that women got a raw deal in the past. ELI5.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 02:43 PM
1

The fact that you're willing to lie says a lot about you. Just tell them to mind their own business.
/r/MensRights18/07/26 05:20 PM
3

And you make men very happy, right?
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:55 PM
0

There is a lot of wisdom here, young fellas.
/r/seduction12/07/26 02:52 PM
8

Social exposure: go to events, parties, coffee shops, hobby groups, cold approaches. Maintaining relationships: like follow up in sales you mentioned. And as you said girls do this well. Keep in touch, send texts, etc. And be the organizer - in a group of people be the one that keeps it going. I think the rest is just regular charisma and attractiveness - being someone that people want to be around.
/r/seduction07/07/26 01:10 AM
16

No, I'm talking about the flaw in your basic assumption that hot women are mean and bitchy.
/r/seduction05/07/26 03:30 PM
128

Error number one is thinking that 9s and 10s are mean and bitchy. They aren't. These are people that have been treated well their whole lives (and especially during their formative years), but who are also hit on a lot simply for their beauty. So they aren't bitchy or mean deep down. They are often very warm and kind people, since they have mostly been treated extremely well in life by others. But they also have their guard up. Understand that and their psychology will make more sense.
/r/seduction05/07/26 01:44 PM
-12

Lighten up. It's kinda funny.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 01:40 PM
1

If you say so.
/r/seduction05/07/26 01:23 PM
3

Sounds like people have 1000 reasons not to listen to you
/r/seduction04/07/26 06:55 PM
-47

I'm ok with a double standard here. Let her go free.
/r/MensRights04/07/26 12:15 AM
32

I mostly agree with this but you also need to make allowance for first date imbalances. You asked her out (most likely) so just accept that it's your treat first time around. But make it something simple - a visit to the park or an exhibit you want to see, an ice cream, coffee, etc. That's just common sense first date ideas anyway.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 11:23 PM
1

Your algorithm sounds like a hoot
/r/seduction01/07/26 06:08 PM
5

I don't know. The older I get, the more I become positively racist.
/r/MensRights01/07/26 05:55 PM
1

This general premise is hilarious.
/r/seduction01/07/26 05:47 PM
2

I agree with this - telling people the truth, even if it's painful, is helpful. I would tell her that I have a lot of empathy and tend to mirror the other person's mood, so for my own mental health I can't be with someone depressed or negative.
/r/seduction29/06/26 03:20 PM
3

The baby boom started after WW2, during a period of economic boom.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 03:07 PM
1

'have you been doing anything new lately'? Could lead to discussions about hobbies, planned trips, whatever she wants.
/r/seduction27/06/26 11:37 PM
12

The shit that goes in my mind isn't fit for polite society, so I keep the majority of my thoughts to myself, with both men and women. But yes, you need to be extra careful with women. This is nothing new. I'm 50 and I remember hanging out with my grandpa and his friends as a child, and the talk among just the men was very different than with their wives.
/r/MensRights27/06/26 11:33 PM
-3

Not a troll. I have kink interests, but not a troll in any way.
/r/MensRights25/06/26 11:34 PM
-5

That's a lot of ifs. And most of them aren't actually happening.
/r/MensRights25/06/26 11:34 PM
-15

They have a point. As a man, I don't fear women but I understand that women reasonably fear men. Men are more aggressive and violent than women, and women are weaker and more vulnerable - they basically have the fighting ability of a 10-year old boy. They are also way more likely to be raped than men (ignoring prison rape). Yes, men are still murdered way more, but it's mostly male-on-male violence.
/r/MensRights25/06/26 06:14 PM
16

This isn't married men vs. never married men.
/r/MensRights25/06/26 03:30 AM
4

This sounds suspicious
/r/MensRights22/06/26 02:18 AM
5

The people who matter will respect you for even trying. No shame in it.
/r/seduction19/06/26 03:16 AM
2

Tell her and reschedule. It will be a red flag that you don't have other things to do.
/r/seduction17/06/26 06:32 PM
37

I was told white men are the cause of all the world's evils?
/r/MensRights17/06/26 04:55 AM
0

There's no single answer, and that's what is frustrating you. This is human relationships, it's complex. Suppose your question was: "I want to learn how to make friends with other guys, learn how to carry on conversations and be witty with my buddies". To be blunt, what you are asking is not much different. You need to do the same thing with women, but with eye contact and flirting.
/r/seduction14/06/26 05:11 PM
1

If multiple guy friends found you annoying and stupid, then you might have a personality deficiency you need to fix. And with that sort of personality deficiency, women will be even more cautious around you. Chase the wrong chick in a persistent manner and you'll get a restraining order against you. There are lots of fish in the sea - not worth it.
/r/seduction14/06/26 04:58 PM
3

I think that's his point - it's even worse.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 10:07 PM
30

Sadly, people like this are shooting their own movement in the foot. If groups are chosen in order to ensure gender parity or diversity or anything other than merit, racists and sexists (and even many fair-minded people) will assume that the black guy or the woman didn't really deserve their spot. That they got it in part due to DEI. It's better for everything to be 100% merit based.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 09:57 PM
1

How often do you see obese men with awesome faces?
/r/seduction13/06/26 02:01 PM
2

Facial features typically correlate with body fat percentages - people who have lean bodies have lean faces with sharp features, while fat people have fat faces.
/r/seduction13/06/26 01:54 PM
6

The analogy to street sellers in a poor country is very apt. Going up to someone randomly is unusual behaviour that puts up people's defences. As men, we need to do it, but it will always work better if there is a plausible reason for a conversation first (you're waiting in line somewhere, etc.)
/r/seduction11/06/26 09:24 PM
1

I think we're having a completely different conversation. Of course women treat men differently based on their attraction to him. But they also routinely test guys even if they like them, to see if they have the social skills their reptilian brains require. They aren't even aware of it, it's just natural for them. It doesn't mean they aren't interested in you; they simply have more biologically at risk so they need to test you to see if you're safe, reliable, etc. In OP's case, the girl was givi…
/r/seduction11/06/26 09:12 PM
2

Yeah, she's teasing you gently. So tease back gently. Your original Quasimodo idea works fine, so does the one you went with ('already booked...'). You're doing fine.
/r/seduction11/06/26 03:42 PM
3

That's weak. You'll end up in a relationship with some chick with zero self-esteem who doesn't even like you but goes along with it anyway.
/r/seduction11/06/26 03:40 PM
7

That's not an unpopular opinion.
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:04 PM
20

Sorry you went through this. The silver lining is that you aren't under the delusion that girls are sugar and spice. My thoughts for you: Average men (and even above average men) also experience this. Perhaps not as much, but it's a common enough complaint. You'll never avoid this completely, so don't expect to. Not all women are toxic. There are good ones out there, so be cautious but don't close them out completely based on the way some were bitches in the past. That just hurts you.
/r/MensRights09/06/26 02:35 PM
1

62% of women have rape fantasies: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/ 40 to 70% of both men and women have bdsm fantasies (men lean dominant, women lean far more submissive): https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31617765/
/r/seduction09/06/26 02:03 PM
3

I'm talking about real life women too, so we'll have to agree to disagree.
/r/seduction09/06/26 02:42 AM
7

Because in pretty much every situation, I flip the genders/race/situation and ask myself, "would it be fair if it was the other way around?"
/r/MensRights09/06/26 02:37 AM
16

Most girls are freaks. About half of them have domination or rape fantasies, sometimes very elaborate and explicit. They just are scared about being slut shamed and need to trust you.
/r/seduction09/06/26 12:26 AM
35

No, women should not be discouraged from pursuing learning and important work. I've met plenty of smart and capable women. If you haven't, you need to get out of the basement. The problem is when women are promoted or hired simply based on their gender, or when the work force panders to their emotional requirements.
/r/MensRights09/06/26 12:13 AM
9

I hope you mean extricate. Otherwise you're taking this shit too seriously.
/r/seduction08/06/26 06:21 PM
1

Women who are anxious / avoidant are lousy girlfriend material. Too many psychological issues. View her as a side piece only.
/r/seduction08/06/26 01:59 PM
2

This is red pill nonsense. We didn't used to have birth control, now we do. Men and women both prefer less children - how many guys do you know who talk about wanting to have 8 kids?
/r/MensRights08/06/26 03:34 AM
4

Fair enough. I'm surprised. Many (if not most) women think they are oppressed, so I would assume that anyone who loudly takes the counterpoint would be villified. Good to hear that hasn't happened.
/r/MensRights07/06/26 03:25 PM
3

I have trouble believing you get positive receptions on this. I reject most of the feminist nonsense and agree that men are being sidelined, but even with that mindframe... if I saw some guy with a 'mens rights activist' shirt, or a 'red pilled man' shirt, I would think they have a few screws loose. Maybe I just dislike activists in general.
/r/MensRights07/06/26 03:16 PM
3

I'd prefer to send them to Venus
/r/MensRights07/06/26 01:59 PM
1

Whatever hobbies you have, join clubs for them. Take it from there.
/r/seduction06/06/26 07:42 PM
1

I turn women down all the time. They are usually just subtly flirting, but I still bat them away. Most women aren't all that attractive.
/r/seduction06/06/26 07:02 PM
1

No, it's never OK and it's rude. Keep in mind that you were 'invading' her space to begin with by approaching. Yes, it's fine to approach and even necessary for us men. But we're still doing something that can be a bit off putting to some women. So understand that you might get disinterest and even rude rejections. Take it in stride and exit graciously.
/r/seduction03/06/26 03:45 PM
98

Condoms won't protect you too much from genital to genital herpes or warts. Those can be anywhere in the genital area and you're bumpy uglies and so you're making contact. If you smash without testing you are taking risks.
/r/seduction03/06/26 03:30 PM
7

You just need to be 100% forward: "Tell me Megan, what's your stance on casual sex?" and roll with it.
/r/seduction02/06/26 06:55 PM
6

This is already the law. What are you going on about?
/r/MensRights02/06/26 03:35 PM
1

No one is going to care about men's mental health in June when other priorities are in play: Pride month, National Indigenous History Month, Juneteenth, Immigrant Heritage month, Caribbean Heritage month, and Employee Wellness month. Even Cataract Awareness month will take precedence.
/r/MensRights02/06/26 03:24 PM
1

Weird analogy. You won't get a girlfriend from a single arm curl rep, but you might get a girlfriend from a single approach. But if you want to get weird and talk workouts, view it as 2 to 3 heavy squat workouts per week. After a year of steady heavy squat workouts, you'll be a beast.
/r/seduction31/05/26 02:52 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction30/05/26 11:27 PM
1

The previous dude's advice is solid. You're setting yourself up for failure by randomly approaching everyone walking down the street. You're no different than a beggar asking for change or a street evangelist seeking converts. He's not saying to avoid them on the chance they are busy or have a boyfriend. He's saying slow down, approach women when you'll have a better chance such as at lunch spots or coffee shops, make eye contact first, etc. Pick your spots instead of trying to ambush whoever is…
/r/seduction30/05/26 07:23 PM
14

Those men are suckers.
/r/MensRights29/05/26 03:12 PM
1

The women are in the same situation. You need to get to know the women you like, but you have to do a soft approach - very light flirting, meeting through friends, meeting through clubs, taking it slower to avoid a 'player' reputation. It's a better spot to land a high quality woman for a relationship due to less competition, but a much worse spot if you want lots of random sex.
/r/seduction29/05/26 02:51 PM
16

Yep, too many guys think they'll be accused of being creepy, etc. As long as you're respectful and have some charm, no woman is going to be offended. Unless she's a professional victim, but the purple hair advertises that in advance.
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:39 AM
0

He did it again!!
/r/MensRights29/05/26 01:29 AM
0

How can a single sentence make someone seem like such an obnoxious twat?
/r/MensRights28/05/26 11:10 PM
66

The other guy kept touching him.
/r/seduction25/05/26 04:30 PM
3

You've got a huge battle ahead of you, so time to focus on positive thinking. You will indeed find kind strangers in the health care system, men and women, don't doubt it. And with a bit of luck, those strangers are going to save your life.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 03:00 AM
12

That's nuts. At first I thought maybe it could be explained by people retiring earlier, but nope: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/LNS11324230 However, there is an interesting correlation: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/LNS11300002 . I've got nothing against women working, of course. Everyone should have the freedom to work if they want. But on equal footing.
/r/MensRights23/05/26 07:27 PM
2

lol, no
/r/seduction22/05/26 05:28 PM
9

I think it makes a huge difference. Men who hang out in bars by themselves are often viewed as sketchy alcoholics. Men who are out with their friends for a 'night out' are demonstrating that they have social skills - they are fun guys with friends. Find a couple of wingmen.
/r/seduction22/05/26 05:20 PM
38

Body language and preening - touching her hair, showing her neck, mirroring your posture. Eye contact and smiling - especially when she looks away and looks back. Genuine smiles. Conversational - she extends the conversation, seeks to keep it going with dumb questions, laughs at your jokes even when they are lame. Physical proximity - she sits or stands closer to you than necessary (I've had drunk women literally push their tits against me in a bar), she touches you.
/r/seduction22/05/26 05:02 PM
-4

Keep in mind that many women have the same attitude, 'how do I not hate men?' and women have some legit beefs against men. Bottom line is that men and women are different, and we have different mating strategies and priorities that clash. So it's normal to have a battle of the sexes. There are a lot of good women. Lots of lousy women too - probably even the majority are worthless. But if you hate all of them, you'll miss out on the good ones.
/r/MensRights21/05/26 03:56 PM
4

Just all week? I've heard guys talk about that time a woman complimented them back in 2015...
/r/seduction21/05/26 02:19 PM
3

You're going to get rejected 9/10 times, so don't sweat it. Main thing is that you were polite and gracious, so you did nothing objectionable. Saying that she's cute immediately like that is a mistake (imho). Look to create tension and add some humour if possible. Asking about the book was fine, and when she responded, 'time travel', you should have kept the focus on her instead of talking about your own book. You could have said something like, "Oh good, I'm so glad it's not a self-help book or…
/r/seduction20/05/26 07:03 PM
0

This is wallowing self-pity. Live life, take chances, have fun. Work on yourself, get some skills that pay well. Life is hard and easy at the same time, depending on the choices you make. I don't know how old you are, but start a retirement plan - sacrifice a bit and invest $10,000 each year into an ETF. If you earn 10% on it, after 30 years you’d have approximately $1.7 million, enough to retire and live decently in many countries. And if you say that's not enough, then save more per year or el…
/r/MensRights20/05/26 01:38 PM
1

It's not manipulation. It's a reaction to their (somewhat justified) understanding of male psychology. Many women have been dumped by a guy for being too easy, putting out on a first date, pumped and dumped, etc. and they fear that might happen with you. Hence, if they like you they don't want to lose you by being viewed as too easy.
/r/seduction20/05/26 01:06 PM
1

Mods - please kick off any OF girls from this subreddit.
/r/seduction20/05/26 01:01 PM
2

There's a reason the Brits used to nickname women 'birds'.
/r/seduction20/05/26 01:00 PM
3

I think it's the sort of environment that you need to wait for women to flirt first. I've done yoga and had flings with multiple women in the classes, but waited for them to chat with me. Be very, very subtle if you flirt. The women in those environments are sometimes hypervigilant about 'creeps' coming to class to pick up women. But if they flirt first, they no longer view you as creepy even if you sleep with the entire class: female logic.
/r/seduction20/05/26 12:57 PM
0

He'll like you better, since you are a facilitator of his sexual fantasies. Who knows if it will help the relationship... that depends on your maturity levels, your inclinations towards hedonism, your general sexual openness, etc.
/r/seduction20/05/26 12:50 PM
1

He said it a lot quicker.
/r/seduction20/05/26 12:45 PM
10

Those guys are morons with body dysmorphia. They smash their noses and cheekbones to break them, hoping they will heal in a more masculine way. They are just as delusional as chicks with lip filler and fake eye lashes. Why would you expect any sort of logical thinking from them?
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:31 PM
17

When chatgpt has more game than you
/r/seduction18/05/26 02:03 AM
31

Never have the conversation. Just tell her that you're looking to see what develops but actively keep it casual and make no commitments. Most women aren't really into casual sex or FWB; instead, they use sex to catch a guy. It sounds like a sexist and dated opinion, but it's the truth. If you want to be "ethical", you better be a 10/10.
/r/seduction17/05/26 09:36 PM
6

You guys who are being bitter need to grow up. A simple reply takes 5 seconds and is basic courtesy. There are two consideratons for you here: (1) Reputation matters - she might be friends with someone you come across in the future. If you're in a super large city, that doesn't matter as much (or at all). But if you're in school or a moderate sized city, don't be surprised if you get a reputation as a jerk by being bitter. On the other hand, a polite acknowledgement makes you 'safe' in women's e…
/r/seduction17/05/26 09:26 PM
112

You guys are getting a bit too serious by objecting to this. You're starting to act like humourless feminists.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 08:10 PM
-1

To each their own. My kids are the best part of my life.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 04:35 PM
29

If you can find a good woman, you can create a life together. Pursue common goals. Have a mutually satisfying sex life. Build a family together. It can seem difficult and elusive, and many women aren't worth the effort. But be smart and it can be done.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 08:36 PM
6

I've met so many men who were raised by feminist mothers who were taught to feel guilty about normal feelings. Many women would rather raise their sons to be the image of what they want men to be, and in turn their sons are chewed up and taken advantage of by the women they date.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 01:27 AM
1

Face tattoos get all the chicks, OP
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:18 AM
9

Go to clubs with a higher cover charge.
/r/seduction10/05/26 11:47 AM
1

Getting a date for every 1/3 or 1/5 approaches is fantastic. You could have a date every couple of weeks and meet a great girl. How do you think men and women met before apps? I'm GenX and I can tell you that chatting up strangers was part of growing up. Yes, we also met via friends, at school, at parties, etc., but there was also mall culture, roller skating rinks, etc., where you would get your courage up and talk to a girl.
/r/seduction08/05/26 07:12 PM
2

Good luck!
/r/seduction08/05/26 04:58 PM
4

Women rarely approach men. They might flirt to signal openness, but you need to approach. Make eye contact first, then approach. The only way to get better is to practice. Start small. Start with little old ladies in the grocery store - ask them how to cook a vegetable and make small talk. Be charming with them, make them feel good about themselves, make them smile. Then move on to middle aged women and do the same. Then chat with women in your age group that you find unattractive. And make sure…
/r/seduction08/05/26 04:23 PM
9

I'm happy to walk hand in hand with you in this fight... Wait a second!
/r/MensRights08/05/26 03:59 PM
2

Being fat is mostly a nutrition/diet issue. Honest assessment: do you drink soda or alcohol? Eat junk food or processed foods? If so, you're getting tons of empty calories. Cut all that shit out and walk 45 minutes a day and you'll see major improvements. It will change your life.
/r/seduction08/05/26 03:56 PM
3

You've got a LOT going for you. But you lack some level of killer instinct - if you had that, you would find whatever sort of relationship you want.
/r/seduction08/05/26 03:50 PM
10

It's not a swamp and men aren't gators and crocs.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 02:58 PM
7

Multiple elite bodybuilders have been vegetarian. Chick peas, etc. You're creating excuses and then wallowing in it. You have more pull than you can imagine being an MD. It's your attitude and mindset that is holding you back, and you seem to be actively looking to reinforce it with confirmation bias.
/r/seduction07/05/26 03:59 PM
1

These rules aren't realistic. I see it in the sidebar, but damn. Age matters: an 18 year old is young and won't have the options of a 30 year old, and a 75 year old is also out of options. Physical appearance and limitations both matter hugely: Brad Pitt vs. some fat guy in a wheelchair? Inborn qualities? Those are huge.
/r/seduction06/05/26 04:01 PM
1

Fine. Black pill 101.
/r/MensRights06/05/26 03:46 AM
1

Black pill 101. Relationships are hard work, dude, for everyone.
/r/MensRights06/05/26 03:43 AM
4

In Canada, first degree murder has an automatic sentence of life imprisonment with no chance of parole for 25 years. It's very strict.
/r/MensRights06/05/26 03:37 AM
1

This seems weird - you're going to invite a bunch of people you don't really know to your bday picnic, including potential hookups from apps? Random conversation: person 1: 'how do you know shyphone?' person 2: 'I don't really... we texted back and forth on tinder and he invited me to this' person 1: 'OMG, me too' person 3: 'I couldn't help overhear...'
/r/seduction05/05/26 07:00 PM
1

You are thinking in black and white. At a bar, all the guys are there to pick up women and the ratio favours women. At a park, no one else is trying so you're the only game in town from her point of view. Plus she might give you points for having the courage to approach outside of a bar scene and be more open to chatting. Big bonus: your quality of women at a bar or nightclub is often lower.
/r/seduction05/05/26 12:03 AM
2

That's a clever opener. You could even follow up with, 'did you get a drink for me yet?'.
/r/seduction04/05/26 03:20 PM
1

Slow down and breathe. If you're asking for her number after 20 seconds, you're rushing it. Imagine you play basketball and you're wearing a basketball t-shirt. Some guy comes up to you and says, 'Oh my god, do you play basketball', you reply 'yes', and he instantly wants to exchange numbers to make plans for you to come play at his weekly game at the YMCA. You'd be cautious and decline - you don't know this guy, you don't know his level of play, you don't know if you want to get involved in his…
/r/seduction04/05/26 02:54 PM
1

No, I don't think she was flirting. I think she was just being goofy and had a dirty mind when you said 'benefits'. But I would have tried to flirt anyway with a reply, 'It can't be explained with words, you'll have to experience it to really understand', and then laughed too.
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:55 AM
1

Playful banter can totally express sexual interest. One example is to flip the script on her. If you've already been a bit flirty (mutual) and she says something complimentary, you playfully say "you're just saying that to try to pick me up". It's playful banter but hints at sexual interest. And innuendo is simply a comment that could be interpreted in two ways - one innocent and one that is more suggestive. I can't think of an example off the top of my head, but just pay attention in conversati…
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:07 AM
1

I think a key skill is being able to express sexual/romantic interest in a way that is non-threatening and somewhat subtle. Playful banter, innuendo, well-placed compliments and flattery, especially when genuine. By not being overly direct you allow her to flirt back and it escalates naturally in a way that is comfortable for her.
/r/seduction02/05/26 02:32 AM
8

I agree. This sounds like what a dweeb thinks a sexually aggressive woman would say. And lol @ calling his wife a fish head.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:23 AM
1

She's just compensating: https://media.pitchfork.com/photos/6849e175cbfa215d84092588/1:1/w_320,c_limit/Sabrina-Carpenter-Mans-Best-Friend.jpeg
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:46 PM
1

You keep mentioning health care workers. What did they do to you? You've achieved freedom, you just don't realize it yet. Many people are slaving away thinking it means something. You're past that. You've seen the truth - we're conditioned to be consumers and marketed to want things we don't need. You're already saying, fuck that. Now you just need to start living selfishly and having fun. There are awesome hobbies in the world, cool experiences, great projects to do. It takes work, but man up a…
/r/MensRights28/04/26 11:56 PM
1

Wait for eye contact, then approach and chat. You can be super direct in bars. For some reason that women can likely explain without a trace of irony, being super direct is socially acceptable at night but not during the day.
/r/seduction24/04/26 01:40 AM
1

This is good advice. It might be too slow and conservative for some people, but the advice is basically saying you are trying to go from 0 to 100 right away. Aim for smaller steps - try simple conversations with attractive girls without trying to actually get a number. Just a conversation. Then eventually you'll be comfortable to escalate. Baby steps.
/r/seduction23/04/26 11:07 PM
4

That's very brave of you to admit.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:45 PM
1

You're doing fine. You're way ahead of other guys just by being forward enough to start a conversation in a day time setting (i.e., not a bar or club at night). Add some simple escalation or flirting to make your intentions clear and the world is your oyster. Just don't get bitter or resentful at rejections - you'll still be rejected 90% of the time. That's just how it is. And eye contact! Maintain eye contact!! Chicks love it for whatever reason.
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:01 PM
-4

It's reality. He unfortunately chose a woman who is a lazy couch potato (his words) and who doesn't seem to care that it bothers him. That's a bad choice of a life partner. The real issue is the age of the kids. His happiness is secondary now that he has kids.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 02:44 PM
2

Cold approaches are way, way, way better than dating apps. Just carry on a conversation while making your interest clear. This idea of "game" is marketing bullshit. A successful approach is mostly just good social skills and emotional intelligence - it goes better if you're interesting, witty, clever, and of course, good looking. Work with what you have, look for opportunities, read her reactions, judge the situation to avoid being intrusive or creepy, and get some practice. Getting a date 1/10 …
/r/seduction23/04/26 01:48 PM
-10

You need a time machine, my friend, to undo your poor choices in life. How old are the kids?
/r/MensRights23/04/26 01:41 PM
13

Sorry dude. You're a weirdo with this one. This isn't a 'typical male hobby'. You're free to talk about your hobbies, but bringing in a plate of raw meat to the office for show-and-tell is autistic behaviour.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 07:00 PM
0

You think a million years of evolutionary behaviour is gone in a single generation?
/r/seduction21/04/26 12:20 PM
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