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| 1 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?Sounds great on paper but that doesn’t work, a woman doesn’t typically respect or look for a man who makes the same as her, research and studies have found that on average women are content with men that make atleast 27% more than them. That’s the average threshold for there to be mutual respect on a 2 income household, and I can damn sure say men’s respect towards women isn’t dependent on her income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | If a man has no right to care about a woman's past, then women have no right to care about a man's future.Both have a right to judge their partners past and future, since a rlp can have risks for both genders But the issue arises in the fact that if a man sets any standards, then he’s labeled “insecure” “threatened” or “small d energy” Whilst when a woman starts listing a laundry list of her requirements she’s praised for “never settling down” and “being a queen” It’s hypocrisy at its finest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.Women partake in sugar baby culture too which is also what allows successful older men to want younger attractive women either way the fact of the matter is that a mans value comes from his resources, and a collective of his wealth, status, and some looks features such as height, jawline etc. a womans value does not come from her resources, job or money, it comes from her looks, youth, fertility and femininity older successful women dont have the traits that men desire. And successful men also d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Men, what do you think women gain from being in a relationship? Women, what do you think men gain from being in a relationship?Both parties gain alot from a healthy relationship From most ideal healthy relationships: Men get a care taker, stable sex, someone who can bear their children, someone who can maintain the house, give them some emotional support, a companion and can also offer some inspiration. In modern relationships also take off some financial burden Women get a protector, provider, emotional support and emotional rock, most of the times a decision maker. someone who can take care of hard labor tasks, someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Men, what do you think women gain from being in a relationship? Women, what do you think men gain from being in a relationship?because men look for sex in OLD not relationships and most men are actually completely single and having no sex at all. Most women that are single however tend to be in situationships, flings, casual sex, etcetc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:26 PM |
| 5 | 80/20 rule and male attractivenessFor a man to be top 20% he needs to be above average as a whole and no less than average in any other metric So in your assessment Can one great feature automatically put him there despite shortcomings in other areas? For example if a guy had an average income, average face, average sausage size (and skill) and everything about him was perfectly average, is he automatically in the 20% because he's 6'4? He is still an average man, or maybe 6/10 because everything is average except his height Usua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 22 | What are the ways in which women enforce Toxic Masculinity?Ill add a few more: Weak man - whenever a man cant afford something. Somehow these days being an average earner through a good job is still not good enough in this materialistic society. Constantly hear women say "im strong and independent and dont need no man", but the second they have to share the payment responsibilities, it becomes as though the man is weak because he wants to go dutch. Hypocrisy at its finest Who hurt you? - constantly being used whenever a man gives his opinion about a wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 06:28 AM |
| 9 | "Who Hurt You?"And to add on top of that, we have people now claiming that the sole reason for men not being able to express their problems is "toxic masculinity" when you know good and well that the second a man expresses his emotions, it gets used against him, and he gets labelled a "loser" "weak man" "small dick energy" or "who hurt you" etc So from this you can do two things: Not express any of your concerns because it would only be used against you, but then people complain why you dont express anything. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 12:17 AM |
| 10 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?Good response but i will comment on one thing, and that is that your attractiveness still has a significant impact on your life, Based on research, as a woman the more attractive you are, the following happens: Your employability aspects actually increase and you are more likely to get employed if all things are equal with your non attractive counterpart Your romantic aspects dramatically increase. Your pool of options with men is alot more and generally speaking, higher quality of men would pur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 09:47 PM |
| 11 | Is hypergamy actually increasing? If so, is that bad?And if you as a man call this out You get the goood ol response “WhO hUrt YoUu!!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I think men are more accepting of womens faults than women are of mens.Being cool doesnt mean youre a good leader. Social status only means security if that said person actually has your best interests at his heart. Unfortunately, too many times i have seen women go for these "cool men with social status" and end up being miserable because they dont give a shit about them. At the end of the day its up to you, do you want someone who cares for you and would make sure youre happy, or do you want the cool guy who would give you short term happiness and excitement but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 9 | women on ppd: "wOmeN DO nOT fIND 80% of MeN t0 bE uNaTTraCtiVE tHAT'S jUST a myTH PeRPETUAtED By meN ON reddiT": also women on reddit:Contrary to the BS media narratives. Looks mean ALOT to women. We have seen time and time again, that women would tolerate terrible behaviours from good looking men whilst look down on an average man even if he is treating them right. Indicating a clear bias and preference. Hell just look at the emphasis on A mans height (which he cant control) means alot to women, with majority of women only going for men over 6ft (only 14% of men are that height or taller) I wouldnt look at what women say they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 02:40 AM |
| 2 | I think men are more accepting of womens faults than women are of mens.Except you are not looking for actual traits for men that will be good fathers, most women are only looking for the best looking or the “coolest” men regardless of how bad their character is; So while you’re saying that “it’s not hard” and that you’re looking for “viable reliable mate” your actions are completely contradicting that notion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:42 AM |
| 7 | I think men are more accepting of womens faults than women are of mens.That’s the problem You have limited time and are looking for perfection which is something that doesn’t exist nor should be the goal given you yourselves are not perfect And while somethings are red flags, Being under 6ft, not earning 100k or “having weird hands” are not it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 10:32 AM |
| 13 | I think men are more accepting of womens faults than women are of mens.Men only reject women or leave them if there are glaring red flags women on the other hand have rejected men, based on their "hands looking weird", or other BS superficial matter. Women expect men to be perfect but accept all their imperfections with open arms, then complain that they are single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 04:59 AM |
| 11 | Why has the amount of sexless men 18-30 increased more than the amount of sexless women 18-30?It’s because a small percentage of men are having sex with all the women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encountersyeah hell no, being husband material means youre paying a premium price for something the players get for free. it means you have to "prove" yourself despite you yourself being a prize given you actually have your life together. Being husband material in womens eyes is not the best outcome for men. The qualities that come with it? sure, it means you actually have your life together, but in terms of your outcomes with women, the Chad or the Tyrone gets much better outcomes. Men want more options … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Is there an actually effective strategy to know if a woman has had casual relationships in the past?- if shes in dating apps, she most likely has had bodies - if she claims to be "free spirited" and "carefree", she most likely has had bodies - if she claims to be single for a while, you better believe she has had bodies - if she claims to have a time where "she was finding herself", she most likely has had bodies these are some of the key words i would look out for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:27 PM |
| 4 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.Increased promiscuity actually hurts women more than men, because they then become ill equipped to be in a long term healthy relationship as they feel they always have something better on the other side. Not to mention that their past always does haunt them in the long run because they take their youth for granted and once that goes away, none of those men that were interested in her before even care about her anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datinghigh body count rude, disrespectful to people inconsiderate of my time ungrateful always complaining, or argumentative racist or discriminatory incapable or unwilling to do anything herself lack of discipline either from being an emotional wreck, unwilling to take care of her health and appearance, or incapable of controlling alcohol or drug use | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's preferable for a woman to act more masculine or more feminine? What's your personal preference?as a guy i would definitely not want a woman that acts masculine, major major turn off a woman can be feminine and still do well in her career, and be respected and admired. yu dont have to be loud mouth, argumentative and combative to be heard. and in terms of relationships and friendships its clear that a feminine woman would do better than a masculine one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women?its the latter, introverted men typically exhibit behaviours which are unattractive to women. women prefer men to be confident, assertive, and socially congruent. none of those tend to be how introverts come across as. Not to mention a big part of dating is the initial conversation and seeing how you "click" or "vibe" with the person. Introverts generally being shy can come across as either unwilling, uninterested or just boring to most women which is why they dont succeed as much its not that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 11:13 PM |
| 0 | [CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30.If women want to have a healthy family and relationships, then at the very least they should consider what men deem valuable. a logical man wont see the mother of his kids as useless if she is putting in the work at raising his kids. and its not that women are just not valuable past 30, its just that they are not as valuable as they were in their 20s since youth, looks and fetility are very important to most men. You can pursue your career and focus on that, but unless you plan to die alone and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 12:46 AM |
| 4 | [CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30.or maybe the big reason you have been successful, is because you both valued each others personalities and didnt care about the superficial aspects as much as most young people such as looks or money. You and your partner cooperated and worked with each other to help build each other up to a level which is above average unfortunately women and even men like this are rare in this day and age. young adults these days want instant gratification. and they dont care about the journey, they just want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 12:39 AM |
| 25 | The best thing a guy can have going for him to get a particular girl is to be her physical typeThe exceptions dont make the rule, there will always be some women who claim they themselves dont care about a man being tall and handsome, but the general rule of thumb is that having sharp features, a well defined physique and a height above 6ft will be considered attractive to majority of the women. A womans physical preference is very rigid, if she likes one kind of man, she is more likely to only focus on getting a man with those characteristics, i.e a woman who likes tall guys would only g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely RespectedFlawed assumption? Suicide is suicide, The amount of men committing suicide around the world is DOUBLE that of women, and in the west, it is around 3-4x that of women. and there are more women around the world, so this is even more alarming. As for men having harder lives, or not, that was something i never brought up nor would i mention it, but your initial argument is utter ignorance, because you refuse to understand that men even have problems to begin with, when it is clearly backed up by th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The most I have ever gotten are some bjs from a girl who was a grade above me in school. Youre already ahead of most men at that age i wouldnt worry too much, if you improve yourself im sure your time will come | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Is cold approach worth the time investment?Just think of the people youre approaching as just people, and just yourself put yourself in their shoes and try and understand how you yourself would like to be approached. Then from that, adjust your methods to make sure you are coming across as someone trustworthy smooth and genuine All Ill say is that just start doing it, the best way to learn is to do things | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.Thanks, I think having that early childhood without phones has truly benefitted us, yeah we had some problems too but atleast we developed our social skills. I am truly amazed by people just a few years younger than me, have zero social skills whatsoever and these people are in university. Though tbh while the younger gens are more impacted, i would say melennials are impacted too, they struggle to have geniune friendships too because the media is pushing their BS narratives down everyones throa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.Mind you, im borderline Gen Z but i can see that back in the day your role models were people like Drs, lawyers, engineers etc that were hardworking citizens and caring parents. People making an honest living, contributing to society and making sure their children are practical and have good values. Nowadays, your "role models" for women are people like Cardi B, who was a stripper that has admitted to drugging men to steal their money, and "IG models" and "Only Fans strippers" that are about mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 9 | Is cold approach worth the time investment?This. You should see cold approach as just means to improve your confidence and social skills. If you come across as just confident and not overly "gamey" then you probably would have a better chance. Also it will make you more immune to fear of rejection. Gettign rejected is part of life for a guy, and no matter how attractive we are, you cant attract or be desired by every girl Just see it as a self improvement strategy and improve your conversation skills. These skills get you far not only ro… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.Agreed, id say all of this stemmed from hollywood and then passed down to social media and your average people. Being normal or just seeking a healthy lifestyle is looked down upon. Hell even 9-5 jobs are looked down upon, we live in a world where honesty and innocence are seen as boring or weak Women are trying to seek unattainable figures which is mostly through plastic surgeries, which is making your average woman feel more insecure and trying desperate measures to seek validation men on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 0 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.Ofcourse not all women act like this, i am just trying to explain the reasoning behind why some women choose this lifestyle. some people just think more in the moment whilst other women understand the long term effects of this lifestyle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:45 PM |
| -4 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.Because women at that age want to enjoy their previleges as much as possible. i.e hot girl summer, getting flown out to trips in miami or dubai, extract as much resources as possible etc etc the minute they fully committ in a monogomous relationship, they wont be getting the same previleges, atleast not to the same extent, and then they consider that lifestyle "boring" And this is without even accounting for monkey branching this is sad though, because the early 20s is the best time fr women to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Men have more options for dating than women doIf by options you mean women only like a small pool of men, then that suggests that women are being way too picky. An average woman gets approached by many men but just because she doesnt like an average man, that doesnt mean she has no options. Shes just shutting down all her options. I dont feel any sympathy for someone who turns down several men and then complains shes single. A man preferring different kind of women doesnt mean shit if none of those women like him, that actually suggests he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do men see Hypergamy as a horrible evil that destroys the face of the planet?Ok here’s my response. This is my last comment because I have things I need to get done that have nothing to do with Reddit. Ok When women complain about men’s expectations, double standards, hypocrisies, and general shitty behavior, women get told “it’s your fault for picking shitty men/Chad.” “It’s your fault for not being HV enough to attract better men.” “You wanted equality without accountability.” Etc etc. Actually thats because most women have unrealistic expectations of men, you want a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 01:40 AM |
| – | Why do men see Hypergamy as a horrible evil that destroys the face of the planet?except majority of women that are with the top top men do. its not pathetic if she is getting a lifestyle that most women yearn for, and she stil has a status of a wife and not some side chick. It would be pathetic if that man is giving the other woman the same status as her. >a man can still love a woman but have sex with someone else. >a woman would never cheat on a man she loves. Sex is very different for both genders. if women want a really loyal man, then go for someone average, but yall do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 01:28 AM |
| – | Why do men see Hypergamy as a horrible evil that destroys the face of the planet?if the man has still given her the status of a wife and is still providing her that lifestyle then he hasnt just tossed her aside. sex for men is alot different than how it is for women, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 11:44 PM |
| – | Why do men see Hypergamy as a horrible evil that destroys the face of the planet?The issue comes in the fact that despite women now earning money in the same range as some men, they still expect the man to pay for everything, so from a mans perspective whats the point? You want to keep doing what you want, yet expect a full list from a man while not really supporting him in things that he is unable to take care of And the even bigger issue is that a woman who earns lets say $80k looks down on a guy who earns the same as her, she is now looking at a man who earns atleast $150… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Men having a harder time on OLD follows from simple mathematics because of the gender imbalance.Tinder had a stat that women only swipe right on 1 in 100 men, not sure whether that’s true or not but if that is, and then you consider that women don’t even respond to most of their messages, the. Then that is pretty alarming g | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Men having a harder time on OLD follows from simple mathematics because of the gender imbalance.Not to mention you have a lot of risks in approaching her too, You can be labeled a creep in front of everyone, be humiliated if you’re not her type, and it can hurt your confidence Inb4 I hear some nonsense that this is just complaining and whining, which is a classic denial on what reality can be for some individuals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Men having a harder time on OLD follows from simple mathematics because of the gender imbalance.Ask a woman when was the last time she approached someone and she’ll either have some bogus example of some “signal” who no normal man would’ve picked up, or she would have never done it at all Yet they desperately want good quality men to approach them in bars so that they can turn them down in front of their friends to feed their egos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Men having a harder time on OLD follows from simple mathematics because of the gender imbalance.Bumble is literal trash, you get profiles saying “don’t be boring” yet most women only say hey and then expect you to be some magic entertainer or they just ghost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Men having a harder time on OLD follows from simple mathematics because of the gender imbalance.Approaching people is easier said than done, y’all women don’t understand how many times men get rejected and sometimes it can really blow on your self confidence with the way women turn some men down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 12:09 PM |
| 10 | Sex for Guys Living W/ Parents?or if he is really willing, he would need to book a room somewhere, lol | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 6 | Women act like men when they switch seats at speed datingLol, I have a good counter argument to being picky a Study was done where first men were asked, what would you think if a woman checked 80% of your boxes. Nearly all men said, that would be amazing and they would happy to be in a relationship with a woman like that, The same was asked to women then, and majority of them said that they would have to "settle" for a man who met 80% of their criteria. 80% of their things are met and they still saw it as settling and majority of them were unwilling t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationThey only want equality when it benefits them, thats the new wave of feminism. They want equal outcomes without deserving those said outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 11:27 PM |
| 9 | Why do women want to get married?Because marriage offers security to women, and should be essential if you want kids. You do also realise that most women dont necessarily want to be wives, they want to brides, They want the big wedding where all the attention is on them, they want the ring, they want the honeymoon Reason why women want it more than men, is because they are on the recieving end of gifts and special treatment, while men have to give give give | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?We have already heard that women are now "dating down" in this day and age because they are with men who are in the same or lower income bracket as them. The increase in college educated women would result in the dating market being more skewed than it already is. The economically successful men would have even more options than what they have now, whilst the average man would have even lesser options than what he has now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:46 AM |
| 13 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationThis pretty much. Women are taught from a young age that men are evil, and just want to use you whilst you are perfect and deserve nothing but the best. Women are told to focus on your career but also make sure the man pays for everything because if he doesnt, he is not a man Men are taught from a young age that all women are angels, and to make sure you have emotions and open up to women even though it leads to the worst outcomes for men. So what does this cause? It results in men being weak an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Validation/comfortRed Pill coaches tend to bring resentment and hateful attitude towards women as these so called coaches are exploiting the bitter experiences of most their target audience. The most ironic thing is that most red pill coaches have zero credibility as they live under complete hypocrisy Validation, being romantic and being the emotional support towards women is something that is still critical in any relationship. Red Pill nonsense is the male equivalent of the very thing they complain about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 3 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?Attractive, Kind, Feminine, Trustworthy and caring Pretty sure majority of men would be into a girl like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 10:57 PM |
| -1 | Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely RespectedLife as an unattractive or overweight woman is exactly how it’s like living life as a man The only thing is that men as a whole don’t complain about their struggles that much despite what BS media narratives are trying to skull down our throats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely RespectedThis is so ignorant. Have you maybe thought that the reason more men commit suicide is because their lives aren’t so easy and privileged as opposed to what BS the feminists and media narratives are trying to push down our throats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | One Sided?she got bored, got all attention from you and now shes onto the next play this by moving on | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Actually contrary to mens opinion that taller the better, this is false research has suggested that ideal male height desirability for most women is from 5'11 to 6'3'' This is without women knowing the numbers, just through eye test. Oddly though, this is also the height requirements of male models, they have to be within this threshold lol | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?You’re a wise man. You basically put a lot of depth into what I intended to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 5 | Why do we villify wome for only being pyshically attracted to the top portion of men?correct me if im wrong, but is it because women dont correlate physical attractiveness with wanting to sleep with the guy, it takes more than just looks for a woman to really desire a man sexually, as they have to be socially congruent, confident and have a certain charm rather than just be tall and attractive for them to sleep with them, there is also a need for an emotional stimulation on their end with men on the other hand, if any girl is hot, he would immediately want to sleep with her, he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 02:47 AM |
| 9 | Why do we villify wome for only being pyshically attracted to the top portion of men?Statistically speaking you are wrong here, Research has already stated that women find 80% of men unattractive, and below average as per OkCupid And tinder has already stated that an average man only has a 1 in 100 chance of getting swiped right by an average woman. this can mean one of the two things that the boundary between the average and above average starts at the top 20% men which on a normal distribution scale makes no sense an average woman thinks shes well above the average man, becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.In this day and age, I would say it’s the women that have an inflated sense of self worth due to social media and dating apps. If a girl thinks that acknowledging a man who has also acknowledged you, would only lead To him having. A big head. Then that suggests that maybe he was actually better than her, and she doesn’t want him to know because in her head, the second he does, he will leave her for someone better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.While I agree that it’s “safer” to compliment other women, it’s not always genuine on women’s end, I have been around plenty of women to understand that they don’t mean a majority of their compliments which is why women devalue them as a whole, but then they complain when they don’t get them Men do compliment each other, and when they do, it tends to be genuine Never said that you go around complimenting random dudes on the street, obviously friends and acquaintances are mostly in question, or s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.My take on this is that women don’t necessarily care about the quantity of compliments but rather on who it’s coming from. If a woman gets a compliment from a guy she’s into, or the fashionable “it girl” she’d be much happier than recieving it from dozens of average strangers Funny thing is that women compliment each other as a form of ice breaker whenever they go out, (even if they don’t mean those compliments half the time) which is why I find it almost improbable that a woman doesn’t get comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.I think the lesson we all should have, and what I said earlier was the validation should be from within and not from others The only issue is if your only source of validation is from yourself, then you would have. A really delusional view of yourself too In your case though, I’m sure you’re ok, and in a position most ppl would want to be at, it’s better to not be desperate from others attention at all, than to want some of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 11:18 AM |
| 12 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.I have stopped caring but it’s in our human nature to want to receive some sort of validation, no matter how much we try and deny that we don’t care about it alll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.This is why when a girl says she hates arrogance it’s abit false, because quite often women correlate arrogance and confidence, it just depends on how she scales it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 06:09 AM |
| 14 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.And this is why it’s so hard for us to understand our value because no one acknowledges us, While I do think it’s not worth dwindling over and validation should come from within but you can’t help but feel taken for granted when you’ve done so much and not even an average woman thinks you’re on her so called level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 06:07 AM |
| 35 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.Not trying to be up myself or inflate my ego, but I am relatively decent looking, In good shape and I’m doing well my for myself Yet I can’t even remember the last time a girl outside of my ex complimented me Just like you, I stil cling on to a compliment I received from an old lady like 2yrs ago I must admit This shit is sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 06:04 AM |
| 4 | If men had more self respect, dating wouldn’t be so skewed in women’s favorAnd all of this is men’s fault, don’t validate people that don’t deserve your attention, If you have many people advertise a ferrari for $500 then the general public will perceive its value as exactly that much You are what you market yourself as, and you can’t expect women to respect you if you don’t even respect yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 06:01 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Long Term Relationships are hard to find because society has become too selfish and shallow.There is no such thing as a long term relationship because with those you can never truly know someone, you just know a version of them that they are trying to show you. There is very little left for your interpretation and for all you know, they can live a completely different life, while seeking an emotional connection from you, It’s a recipe made for disaster under most circumstances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?Yeah attraction is everything for women too, Contrary to what the BS media pushes down on our throats, these are the factors on how they decide whose attractive or not, How their friends judge the man means everything to them, even if she finds the man attractive, if the friends find him below average she would change her mind too There are standard features most women find attractive such as height, sharp features and jaw line etc generally speaking women’s attractive scale is seriously skewed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the good men?An average women is not satisfied by even some above average men (top 40%). Average woman still looks down on a dude earning around (say ~$80k annually), being around 5’10” , relatively fit, and being reasonably attractive, not a lady’s man but certainly not bad looking It honestly baffles me on how openly they look down on men, and this is obviously due to their inflated egos through dating apps and social media I keep hearing I don’t want to settle I would never settle, but As far as I see it,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 12:47 AM |
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