ARTHERIA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. I'm free to do what I want and I excused myself in the nicest way I could have. This comment of yours wasn't any less useless, but I guess that being rude to women online is a pleasure to you guys. No wonder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 11:40 PM
6	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. My comment wasn't adressed to you and I have no desire to keep talking about this topic, I already left the sub. There's a lot of other people here you can discuss this with. I apologise for any annoyance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 11:33 PM
4	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. It would be silly and not at all what I think, you just assumed all of that 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 11:20 PM
1	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. Whatever makes you sleep better at night 🫰🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 11:14 PM
3	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. You're so right and I always try to be gender neutral in these cases because I hate double standards. More often than not it's not even about gender. It's how people behave, whether they're men or women, they both can act in similar ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 11:13 PM
1	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. You're so funny, let me show this to my boyfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 11:01 PM
5	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. Damn. You really came to say that when the opposite here is happening? Weird choice but okay. I'm really not into these gender wars based on hurt feelings so yeah, believe what you believe in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 11:00 PM
–	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. Yea 😁 you too! You clearly need it more than I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 10:53 PM
–	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. Exactly 😐 good luck dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 10:48 PM
4	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. Differently than you I'm not saying your experience is easy either. I understand it must be hard, I mean it clearly is seeming that so many men on this reddit respond in such a rude and dismissive tone to every women that comments. Maybe you could try and be more empathetic when other people talk about THEIR difficult experiences. Compassion, empathy and kindness is something a lot of women out there appreciate and look for in a man, btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 10:43 PM
6	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. Not when the market is full of rotten fish my guy. If only you had the chance to experience being a woman for a day, then you would finally believe what women say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 10:35 PM
–	Yes women are attracted to hot men, just as much as men are attracted to hot women, stop being hypocrites. I'm so tired of reading this comment over and over. The reason most women could have sex if they wanted to even if they were below average is because every dude in the planet is willing to have sex with whoever. Is that... better? To not even care if you like the person or deem that as attractive? I don't get who you're helping with that comment quite honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 07:11 PM
1	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. You either stop with the bs or I'm blocking you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 01:08 PM
1	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. Lmao 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 12:56 PM
1	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. Peace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 12:48 PM
1	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. You see it as a metric, I see it as a pattern. I'm not saying that if a parent can't remember a teachers name they're immediately a bad parent, but more often than not it shows they're not as involved as the other parent who knows all the teachers names. I choose to believe in the experience of someone who literally worked at a school because it matches my experience as the kid of a parent like that who never knew my teachers names, doctor's names and so forward. He was never involved in anythin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 12:33 PM
2	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. That wasn't what was said. Not by me, not by other people here. What was said was that, generally speaking, when parents don't know their children's teachers names it's a sign of lack of involvement in their lives. 5 minutes ago you knew what we were talking about but now you wanna twist the narrative to make me look bad. Good luck with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 12:14 PM
4	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. What you're saying is theorethical. I talk from experience of having a father who was rarely involved in anything despite living with me for most of my life. He doesn't remember my birthday, only gives me happy birthday if my mom asks him to and sometimes not even that. Now as an adult he never calls or texts, my mom does. The woman that has worked at a school knows what she's talking about. You're just being defensive for the sake of protecting your gender lol. Downvote me all you want, it won'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:32 AM
2	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. They show how much you are involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:18 AM
5	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. Just because they aren't important to you doesn't mean they're "arbitrary" and "irrelevant". They're important things to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:15 AM
–	Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thought 🤭👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 03:33 PM
–	Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thought Gotta go tell my unemployed partner my love for him isn't real and neither is my attraction, I'm just really into financial instability and future uncertainty. 🤣🤣 I don't know what human wrote this but damn, you really know nothing. It's enough to ask, "who hurt you?" Good luck, truly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 03:30 PM
2	Sexual Shame in Women I apologise. I made that conclusion after you responded to the OP comment here but I now see with that explanation that that isn't what you think or were saying. My comment was rushed and I truly didn't appreciate the way you were addressing her. Thank you though for explaining and clearing my confusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 06:07 PM
1	Sexual Shame in Women I apologise. I made that conclusion after you responded to the OP comment here but I now see with that explanation that that isn't what you think or were saying. My comment was rushed and I truly didn't appreciate the way you were addressing her. Thank you though for explaining and clearing my confusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 06:06 PM
0	Sexual Shame in Women Kinda undermines the fact that I read it and understood it till the very end. Just because I disagree doesn't mean I didn't understand what you said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 04:57 PM
2	Sexual Shame in Women She's basically saying that if a woman doesn't like casual sex or doesn't participate in it she's been conditioned that way. Like, I'm sorry but that's insane. I tried casual sex before being in a long-term relationship and it definitely isn't for everyone. Doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman. I'm sure there's men who also aren't into casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 04:09 PM
4	Sexual Shame in Women I understand where you're coming from but women aren't all the same. As men aren't all the same, either. I have depression and that decreases my libido, does my partner treat me any different? Absolutely not. Sex is an integral part of a relationship (not every relationship but most), for both parties. He has a higher libido than me (whenever I'm depressed and lower in mood which is more frequently than I'd like) and I never felt used. In fact, I have forced myself to have sex with him sometimes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 03:20 PM
3	I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent women ✌🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 04:41 PM
5	Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex? A decrease in rape is different than "preventing" rape. I may have taken it too literal as I tend to do but that's what I was defending.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 06:00 PM
3	Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex? What other things?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:51 PM
8	Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex? If that was true then rape crimes wouldn't be so high worldwide. Prostitution has always existed and rapes have always happened. Rapes don't happen due to the lack of sex otherwise every man lacking sex would turn to rape. Rape is a sick thing that is only enjoyable for the abuser if the person doesn't consent to it. Regular sex wouldn't satisfy these sick people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:49 PM
12	If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women. Thank you. Literally never met someone who said that women who rape are just not as bad as men who rape. We almost never hear about it happening. When we do it's just as horrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 10:18 AM
7	If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women. Omg dude obviously! Women do it for fun!? Of course they do it too and it's equally bad, what is your point? Do you think the majority of people excuses that behaviour?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 10:16 AM
9	If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women. I don't get your point. Statistically women are indeed the gender who most gets raped and statistically men are indeed the ones who most rape men and women. Women rape and that's equally bad even though it doesn't happen in the same consistency (as far as we know). Obviously, it's equally bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 10:15 AM
2	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships If OP had chosen a bigger age gap like 21-45 he would look very silly giving those same arguments, that's why 💁‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 11:37 PM
30	Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner? It's always gonna be weird to see other couples having interactions we wouldn't have with our partner. I feel like very specific personalities and how they engage can result in silly things like that, it's normal to think it's weird but the other commenter seems very happy with their partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 07:47 PM
1	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics I am the woman in this conversation and I can tell you that is not true for most. You cannot call me an anomaly and totally invalidate what I'm saying in order to prove your point. You're ignoring major points I'm making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 07:17 PM
1	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics I'm not undermining men's experience. At least in my life I see quite the opposite happen, women give their partner emotional support but don't receive the same treatment because men never learned how to do that. I don't have to ask women, I see it happen. My mom comes to me for emotional support because my dad won't. My MIL constantly supports my boyfriend's stepfather both emotionally and financially sometimes because he's addicted to gambling. My grandmother killed herself when my mother was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 07:02 PM
1	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics You too! And if you ever need it and feel comfortable you can talk to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 06:40 PM
1	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics I could say the same about mine. The only time I saw him cry was when my brother was born and even then I swear he was trying so hard not to idk how he didn't shit his pants. 😅😅 I know this is a big problem and I've said this many times, if I felt like I couldn't talk to anyone idk if I would still be here. But don't think it's perfect for women either cause it's not. The amount of doctors who have treated me poorly and the family members who barely did anything when my mental health was declini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 06:34 PM
3	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics I actually am very open to these types of conversations with men because I'm a curious person and an advocate for mental health issues so I have talked to different men about this a lot! That is why I said what I said in my first comment. Men don't have the emotional support around them like women do. Even if they have friends it's not often that they even feel comfortable enough to talk about their issues. Things that come from living in a patriarchy. "Men must be strong"; "men can't cry". Some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 06:26 PM
2	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics Seems like we uncovered your problem. You're the problem because that's absolutely not true. Not most. Absolutely not most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 06:12 PM
3	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics Emotional support. May I say more when so many men lack emotional support in their lives? They're the ones who kill themselves the most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:59 PM
4	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics Have you ever been in a loving relationship? How can you say sex is the greatest thing a woman can provide? You're kinda telling on yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:46 PM