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If it's easier to have sexual/romantic success in another country then do it. There's no reason whatsoever to make your dating life more difficult for yourself when there are other options. You aren't more "chad" or "alpha" for snagging a woman with more difficulty than someone else.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:29 PM
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I don't know about this show but I've worked on a lot of reality TV in post production and they're often less scripted than you think. The outline is there, but mostly as a format, and certain moments are played up (mostly in the edit), but it's really not 100% scripted.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 05:05 PM
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Ah right, your existence is just a cosmic accident. Denmark is one of the best countries in the world by pure happenstance, it has nothing to do with your ancestors and their greatness. You don't have a people, and even if you did, you wouldn't owe anything to them, and they wouldn't owe anything to you. Typical Scandinavian cuck bitch attitude. It's really no wonder the West has gone to Hell when even the "red-pilled" guys think this way.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:33 PM
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The media they fill their brains with is far worse than TV ever was. Look at the garbage they read on the internet, the drivel that Snapchat posts on the media page, the absolute cancer that is Instagram, and the normie hell that is the Youtube trending page. Limiting access to this as much as possible is so important.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 02:54 AM
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Any time you wear a short sleeved shirt or roll up your sleeves your forearm size, striations, and veins will be visible if you have them, and people find this very impressive. I have consistently seen women point this out as a trait they are attracted to. As for your second question, it's both. The former comes from the latter.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 08:02 PM
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Hell of a post there. Sure it may be an unpopular perspective on a forum that is primarily centered around getting laid, but the last paragraph describes me very well. I feel so dirty and wrong plating girls at this point a couple years into TRP that I don't think I even want to do it anymore.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 07:46 PM
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Sure in theory, but not in practice. There are far too many players involved that all hate you and can shut you down or compromise the project whenever you try to make your own platform. The real problem is that these tech companies are far too powerful and unaccountable. "Make your own internet and financial system" is a ridiculous proposition.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/19 07:37 PM
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Gab has been forced by their domain provider to take down certain posts, they've also had issues with payment processors. If the site were ever to get big enough, it would be taken down. The "make your own platform" argument is bullshit and there is no safe place.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/19 11:55 PM
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OP, let me ask you this - what do you think happens when you meet your unicorn? You realize all the good girls respond to mostly the same tactics, right? Just because a girl doesn't smoke or drink and has little to no sexual history, doesn't mean she is attracted to betas. TRP is about understanding female psychology and how to apply this knowledge to enter and maintain sexual relationships with women. Most guys here are interested in using this info to have 5 girls on call to fuck whenever they…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 05:53 AM
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I'm with you on everything except don't vaccinate. You don't agree with getting the essentials? Could you explain why not?
/r/askMRP08/03/19 10:51 PM
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Recently went out with a chick who was being really standoffish and dry and not letting me escalate physically at all. I was thinking to myself the whole time, this is going to fucking suck and I should probably just go home. Later on that night she did reciprocate though, and we ended up fucking. Now she's always texting me looking for attention, to see me again, etc. I could have walked away and in the moment I would have felt good about sticking to my guns like that, but I wouldn't have gotte…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:27 PM
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I am not meaning to imply TRP is all nonsense because of this one instance of contradicting viewpoints. The last paragraph of the post is great advice, but the first one is not actionable advice in the real world. We're not movie characters whose only dialogue is sexy one liners. Sometimes you absolutely should treat questions as a shit test... other times you should just give an answer. If you demonstrate value and are respected, then your opinion matters to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 03:00 PM
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TRP: Women are indecisive and and appreciate a man who can easily take charge for them. Furthermore, women are not turned off by disagreement, in fact meek men who always go with anything they say are viewed as pathetic and lacking in conviction. Also TRP: If your woman ever asks for your opinion it's just a shit test, she already made up her mind, is dead set on it, and by disagreeing with her view you are failing the shit test. This is profoundly unattractive, so just autistically answer every…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 04:47 PM
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Most men are not really interested in raising another man's children, perhaps unless that child has lost his parents and is part of the tribe. I can agree that those who do are victims of social conditioning (and desperation for that matter). With that said, there is nothing a man, alpha or beta, can naturally feel more invested in than his own genetic legacy. The man cares for the tribe because it is, as you said, his extended family, but the notion that a man would care more for his cousins an…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 04:50 PM
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I see the modern man's preoccupation with fathering more as a compensation for their lack of a tribe, their lack of a belonging. What the hell? What do you think a tribe is? Do you honestly think men wanting to raise their own children is the result of some kind of social conditioning?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 03:26 PM
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Fathers often tend to be very hands off with their sons - they have a presence, and are there to discipline and support them when necessary, but few are really there to guide them and teach them everything. I think this kind of father is extremely necessary now. If you leave your children to their own devices, they will likely end up fully assimilated into this nightmare culture we're currently living in.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 03:58 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Political_abuse_of_psychiatry_in_the_Soviet_Union This is a driving force behind the "moderates" trying to link firearm rights to mental health in the US. Masculinity here is being labelled as a form of mental illness. Racism is next. Anyone who doesn't agree with whatever insane agendas the globohomos come up with is going to be considered unwell and put on drugs & have various rights restricted.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 03:35 PM
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I don't entirely agree with your first two sentences. Boys are very well served guidance from their fathers and other masculine role models, but don't forget we have such a massive cuck problem in large part due to the social engineering that starts at birth and continues ad infinitum. Boys are not just being left to be boys.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 03:27 PM
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Gay long post incoming. I tend to take charge in everything I do. In the context of hanging out with friends and especially girlfriends, I almost treat it like if I were alone, doing things I want to do, at my pace, making decisions for everyone before we end up in a circle debating what to do and where to go next for 20 minutes. People, especially women, usually appreciate this kind of thing. And our relationship had always operated well in this way. When we were in Europe it all kind of went o…
/r/askMRP08/01/19 06:58 PM
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I did admit to that in my comment. Definitely learned some things from the trip, but in terms of that particular relationship, I think we both sort of realized at that point, to quote a blue pill maxim, that it wasn't "meant to be"
/r/askMRP08/01/19 06:39 PM
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Seconded on the stress test. Last gf was the only kind of girl I'd marry - viscerally attracted to me, housewife type, Christian, would never drink or smoke or go out clubbing, etc. but we went on a trip to Europe and it just didn't go well. I partly blame myself for not leading as well as I could have, but she drove me fucking crazy. Relationship barely lasted a few weeks once we got back to the states, the trip just soured me on her. We had been together for almost two years btw.
/r/askMRP08/01/19 05:49 PM
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You're misunderstanding, by practice nobody means pantomiming in the mirror. Doing things is practicing them.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:19 AM
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The Church, and all other Christians, have completely and utterly failed in every single cultural battle this country has ever fought. In fact, lately we find the Pope and plenty of weird protty denominations outright joining the other side in the culture war. At this point I recommend the same thing to the trads - move to another country. But if you get married in a globohomo country like the US, consider getting married by the Church and not involving the government at all. You'll get 20 years…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:08 PM
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You may be taking this mantra a bit too literally. It is true that they naturally follow, but not solely by focusing on your hobbies and career. You still need to learn female psychology, how to game women, and how to seduce women, and then you need to actually put yourself out there. What people mean here when they say "focus on your hobbies/career and the pussy will follow" is that you don't need to spend your whole life orbiting chicks on social media trying to get their attention or going to…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 03:05 PM
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Why is there one of you faggots in every comments thread whining that the post is too long and that everyone should just write a thesis statement instead of elaborating on anything?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 02:48 PM
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This is a good comment. The important thing to understand is that these traits are only going to improve the odds, not guarantee anything. And you always need to be on your toes, maintaining those tingles via dread, being sexual, being dominant, passing shit tests, etc. However I always suggest to newbies that you try to just get some experience fucking around first. Work hard on your SMV, learn how to attract women, turn them on, and fuck their brains out. You can't jump right into hard mode be…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:42 PM
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Drastic situations call for drastic measures. He can return to video games after he has built himself up a bit.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:23 PM
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I remember when I watched Whiplash with my sister, the unbelievable psychological torment that the protagonist was going through under his teacher, struggling for greatness, that shit was intense. I found it to be a heart pounding movie. On the other hand my sister would laugh whenever the teacher would verbally abuse the protagonist. Zero empathy for male suffering.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:23 AM
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Listen to the guys who tell you to not jump into it right away. She has to earn it. My best advice for once you're in it, is to take a step back every month or so and self-evaluate in an objective manner with no male hamster. Women, as they get to know you better, will be more easily able to "betafy" you. You may, without realizing, start putting up with certain crap from her over time. This is why you need to take the time to self-reflect on your relationship - Is she still enthusiastically sex…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:55 AM
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Hard to tell from this post but it seems like your mother is a good woman and if you resent her, you shouldn't. She cared about you enough to try and manage every single aspect of your life as though you were a baby forever. The problem was A. your dad not offering a counterbalance to this and B. you never taking charge of your own life despite whatever resistance she may have offered. Congratulations on your realization and good luck moving forward. Many never reach this point, probably most.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 01:51 AM
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The "party years" are not all they're cracked up to be for a lot of guys. Casual sex with strangers doesn't do it for me the way being in a committed relationship and having sex with someone I love does. Women with lower n-counts are less likely to want to leave their partner. If she is expressing regrets it is because you are not high SMV enough to make her satisfied with you and only you.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 08:23 PM
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This is what I hate about this sub and these posts bashing tradcons. First of all they are well aware that monogamy is hard, it involves resisting natural sexual urges, but as Christians they must resist them in order to live a godly life. Second of all the point is not that marriage 1.0 is not the "best" system for the individual man (although it is for the bottom 80% of men, which will ALWAYS EXIST even if every single man on Earth followed TRP) but that it is the best system for a functional …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 01:39 AM
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I agree, I typically just use tinder when I'm single because it requires almost zero effort on my part. I don't understand how people here are (apparently) picking up and fucking a new girl or two every week, that would be such a waste of time for me.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 12:15 AM
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Bawl in private. Some light crying, keep it to close male friends and a girlfriend if you have one. You should not be in hysterics in front of either, especially not the girlfriend. Plates and acquaintances you don't know that well? Definitely not. Hell, I barely divulge any real personal stuff about myself to plates, so at least in my experience crying in front of one about something like this would be extremely awkward and off-putting.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:38 PM
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I cannot agree with this post at all. The overwhelming majority of relationships are intraracial even in hyper globalized cities. People self-segregate. They typically prefer their own kind. It is just flat out not true that most girls are actively seeking partners of other backgrounds.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 04:13 AM
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I agree there's a limit, you can't be socially retarded and expect to succeed well with women or in anything else for that matter. Stepping out of your comfort zone is always important. But at the same time, our personalities are "set" to a degree, and IMO it's best to become the best version of yourself rather than to try and be something you aren't.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:33 AM
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You don't have to pretend to be the kind of guy that you know girls are attracted to. If you don't like to party and drink and be loud in social gatherings, then don't pretend to be. This is a losing strategy for two reasons: A. it is mentally exhausting to put on an act all the time B. it will never work in the long term especially in an LTR because you will not be able to endlessly maintain a facade. The answer is to be the most attractive man you can be within the existing framework of your p…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 11:14 PM
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Who is blaming anyone for anything...? Read the comment I'm replying to. He is presumably making some sort of reference to global warming, pollution, and overpopulation. The prime drivers of all 3 of those things are nonwhites. When you write "don't have kids" on reddit it's not the Somalis and Arabs flooding Europe who read your comment. It's a mostly white audience of men intelligent enough to unplug from BP thinking. You're encouraging them not to reproduce while the shittiest people on the p…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 08:16 AM
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Way to miss the point dumbass, nobody is saying wypipo are perfect, but the imbeciles telling a mostly white audience not to have kids need to be called out for being the retards they are. With no white people the world would be more of a shithole than it already is. Do you think the Somalis and Arabs flooding Europe or the central Americans flooding the USA will be able to maintain white society, let alone improve it? Will they be the next generation of neurosurgeons and tech innovators? And ne…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 08:08 AM
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Yeah intelligent white people in the West which has had stagnant or sub-replacement birthrates for decades should not have kids, while Africans and Indians continue exploding the world's population, that'll save the world! How can you be "redpilled" when you believe retarded goober shit like this?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:59 PM
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Anecdotally I can confirm that lots of the natural alpha guys I know hook up with really hot chicks but when it comes to finding an LTR it's usually a really timid and sweet girl who might not be as hot as the others but sure as hell is a way better companion.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:44 PM
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I don't think there is anything unnatural about this at all. Men do cool shit in search of glory. We want to be admired by other men and attract unicorns with which to birth our children. The question is how much of your motivation comes from this desire for external validation vs. internal desire for self improvement and fulfillment. I'm not sure exactly what practical advice I can give you for that, but I know that when I got in an LTR with a quality woman and she told me she was already happy…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:27 AM
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I think I know which guy you might be referring to. What a strange coincidence that he has become the Satan of the secular world, eh? Very strange coincidence indeed.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 02:15 AM
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Some people want families instead of muh dikking until you're too old to muh dikk and die with no progeny.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 11:30 PM
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Wanting every plate to be a virgin is pure autism, but L.O.L.ing at the idea of wanting a virgin wife is a whole new level of stupid. Good luck with your divorce rape goals of 2018
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:51 AM
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Because they're often more outgoing and masculine than the white soyim running around campus. Either way, no way I'm going anywhere near a girl who likes to hook up with black men.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:11 AM
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>thinking women will get horny for you once you start "meeting their needs oh boy
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:09 AM
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good luck with your divorce rape goals of 2018
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:07 AM
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I couldn't retract it until I was almost 14 years old. I remember being afraid of what was happening lol
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:13 PM
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Circumcision is not an inherently Catholic thing. It is pretty specifically an American Protestant thing.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:11 PM
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You misunderstand AWALT, sure some women are more moral and decent and traditionally feminine than others but their brains are still wired pretty much the same way as Slutty Stacy.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 02:45 AM
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You're not wrong really, but we live in the #metoo era and you can get fucking destroyed over this.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 05:59 AM
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As for the article itself - it's very unfortunate that men are choosing not to have children, but who would want to get married and have kids in this day and age when they will probably just be taken from you along with half your net worth by some spiteful whore?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 08:44 PM
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What does them being Jewish have to do with anything? It's not like Jews are extremely over-represented in feminist circles as well as all other leftist movements...
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 10:43 PM
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Damn man, nice. This is such a great comment and I've never looked at it this way. We still bear the responsibility, by and large, to maintain civilization, but lose more and more power by the day on every level. Cultural, institutional, governmental. I am a humble man and don't want to involve myself in the MRA movement trying to change things on a societal level. Most of us are not built for that, others can bear that burden. But the average guys among us can make the necessary changes in our …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 06:19 PM
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This is why we need to spread RP teachings to our friends my dude. My bros take my words on women & relationships seriously because they know I'm more successful in this realm than they are. Take a stand and lead by example so that we may begin to restore proper gender roles.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 07:04 AM
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This is common in the beginning. When I first discovered RP over two years ago I broke up with my gf of almost 3 years within a month. But eventually, you may realize relationships are still very much doable. I very often see guys complain about how girls are no longer feminine, and how modern dating culture is extremely degenerate, and yet every post is all about how many girls I'm fucking bro heh smashing all these hb10s bro and I don't even give a fuck bro just fuck bitches and lift heh. You …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:45 PM
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Try telling that latter bit to all the dudes on this sub who are still screeching about avoiding marriage and even LTRs at all costs. I used to feel that way when I first learned about TRP but I grew up, feels like most here have not yet.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:20 AM
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The federal reserve has been propping up this phony economy for a long term, and by letting the market do its job, there would be a crash but likely recovery within a few years
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 09:18 PM
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In a way this would be fucking awesome. I hope if it happens that it does so in our lifetimes.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 07:40 AM
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I believe in love and it has not affected my post-TRP relationships. I will tell a girl I love her if I really feel I do, but I don't pour my heart out and tell her a bunch of shit even if deep down I truly want to. I do very much feel that after you embrace TRP you can't really be 100% open with your girl. If you want to smother her with kisses and hugs and all types of affection, you really need to hold back on it. Only show a bit, this will be effective because women like knowing that they br…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 08:34 PM
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Really annoying how it's removing the "last online" thing. It was a good tool to see who swiped me just for validation because they clearly don't plan on replying, or who just hasn't been online for a while. This entire update sucks balls. I feel sorry for the guy who forgets to remove his workplace and gets his life ruined by some cunt.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 03:27 AM
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The best suggestion I have is to train both. BJJ is all about ground game which can is useful for sport fighting and can even save your life in a street fight (many fights go to the ground, and the vast majority of people will have no idea what to do). But it will not teach you how to fight standing up, which is where Krav Maga comes in. It's all about practical self defense and I'm sure the basic techniques are applicable even in a sport setting. You can't go wrong doing both.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 06:21 PM
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I'm a simple guy. If an attractive girl can fuck me good cook and clean well, shares similar interests/hobbies as me, and isn't stupid or has a bad attitude, I have no need to go elsewhere. I can feel comfortable being with this person, legitimately enjoying all the time together, unlike dumb broads you can barely tolerate but who you put up with to get sex. The important thing is that even if you're in love, you can't slip up. Don't act like a beta, don't fail shit tests, apply bits of dread ga…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 05:41 AM
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I can personally vouch for this comment... When I have trouble getting it up its usually because I'm too focused on the quality of my erection. If I completely relax, try my hardest to focus on the sex (it's very hard to stop focusing on something by focusing on not focusing, but try to lose yourself in the moment) and just have a good time, i usually don't have a problem. I also stay hard if I talk dirty to her. Fuck her like a god damned jackhammer on max setting and call her a fucking slut wh…
/r/askTRP06/10/15 05:45 AM
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I like the part where you described a woman's ideal man. Too often on TRP we are told you're either a Machiavellian asshole or beta cucks. I try my hardest to be in between those sort of like how you described. All the good traits assholes have, without actually being fucking rude or mean to people.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 11:09 PM
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I turned 20 recently, and I would love to have kids early. I want to raise up a little alpha male, make my grandparents great-grandparents, and my huge extended family would have a new cousin. But it's not economically feasible at all, I live with my parents despite having a pretty well paying job and until I move up the ladder it's going to stay this way. And like you said, there is social stigma associated with having kids at an early age, especially for women. My current girl feels the same w…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 04:21 PM
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Betas will do anything to get this girl, but she will be annoyed or even disgusted at all their compliments and heart emojis on her Instagram photos. Alphas will stay alpha and the girls will go after him, or he may go for her and not give a damn if she isn't receptive.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 06:31 AM
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What? Red Pill isn't revolutionaries, it's a community of likeminded people who share stories, advice, and commentary. Am I misinterpreting you?
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:46 PM
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It's funny that the OP of this comment thread called the user out and told him to read the Sex God Method, when anyone who has read it will know that the author suggests lots of rough extended fucking to give vaginal orgasms, and domination with manhandling, commands and verbal abuse, which are all very common elements of most porn. Perhaps HE should re-read the book?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:25 AM
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I agree with this actually, I didn't mean for my post to come off as something suggesting robotic behavior.. I tend to disagree with posts like that too, I have never known women to be attracted to someone with no personality. "Aspie" like you put it lol
/r/askTRP22/08/15 02:57 AM
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I'm not as experienced as other members so I cannot give advice with certainty that it will be 100% correct. But I can say with confidence that in my experience, it can be good to communicate your honest attraction with things like compliments and sweet words, but like I said earlier, things women claim to want have to be sparse. That shit is like drugs to them. In your case, say you hung out with a girl. Once you part ways don't send her messages about how you had such a great time and can't wa…
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:43 PM
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The mix between the two. A girl you can go out with sometimes, have tons of sex with, but not introduce her to the family/friends and not have to stay monogamous. This has been without a doubt the best arrangement for me.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:38 PM
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This. I've found that in the past, if I would grow too emotionally dependant on a woman she would lose attraction to me. Sure she'll hold me while I cry about my deepest insecurities and shit but there's no way they can look at you the same after that. It's a good way to go from alpha stud to beta bitch in their minds. Being mostly stoic when it comes to emotional matters, but occasionally being open, is like crack to women. Too much of the things they think they want is ALWAYS bad.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:20 PM
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Update, read the book after you suggested to me and thought it was great. I then went over and fucked her like never before and now she treats me like a god again... she cooked me dinner, gave me a massage, washed my hair, everything. Now she's begging me to come over again. 10/10 would read 20 more times.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 05:49 PM
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Something to do with my ex. We did recently break up and it was like 2.5 years long, and I was upset because she deleted all our pics off social media and cut me off completely so I was ranting and saying some mean things. This was like 2 weeks ago or so. Beta as fuck, didn't specify in the OP out of embarrassment/shame tbh. First time since we started fucking that I had slipped up at all. I remember during the rant I realized it wasn't something I should be doing (showing so much vulnerability)…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:08 PM
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Yeah I'm going to see how it goes when we're together a handful more times using the Sex God Method knowledge but if it's clear the attraction is gone I'm going to go with this suggestion. Sucks, but gotta work on the abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 05:25 PM
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I suppose you're right, it's just jarring because prior to the moment where I slipped up, she was fuckin' crazy about me and I barely had to do anything. How do you manage to keep initiating but not seem desperate or needy? Edit: Just downloaded the book too and it looks really promising. Thanks a lot for the suggestion!
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:52 PM
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