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| 3 | A true Red Pill Tale | Discussion | ARealHoss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 01:34 AM |
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| 13 | What Makes You a Top 1% Woman for a Top 1% Man?Facial attractiveness is important. Body type and fitness. Style. Any of the many talents or skills that people value outside of wealth? Intelligence? God forbid a decent disposition or personality. In general, people match up with people of comparable attractiveness. Considering that he is complaining about the lack of women meeting his equivalent top 1% value, is it possible that someone is evaluating themselves incorrectly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:22 AM |
| 9 | What Makes You a Top 1% Woman for a Top 1% Man?Man here. I care about wealth, or more specifically, a woman with a career who is financially stable. I also prefer college educated. Servant? Hard pass. I’m an adult, I can take care of myself. If I want someone to serve me I’ll hit up a restaurant or pay for a maid. A mutual partnership with someone I respect? That’s more my speed, but I must be crazy (considering you know so much about what all men want). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 05:52 AM |
| 10 | What Makes You a Top 1% Woman for a Top 1% Man?It couldn’t be his personality or wits, could it? Of course, being tall doesn’t preclude ugly. You can be tall AND ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?I’m under 35. Make nearly $200k annually, not including equity. In shape. Considered handsome. Average height. Never had dating difficulties. When I made <$70k, my dating prospects weren’t any different, and I haven’t changed much physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?I have all my hair and I’m doing pretty well down there 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:09 PM |
| 4 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.I’m not tall and never had problems. Even girls who clearly stated they wanted tall men still were happy to meet/date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyAppreciate it. Honestly - just regular workout routines, don’t over eat, use moisturizer/sunscreen, and get enough sleep. Easier said than done for a lot of people, and even I fall off from time to time. And you’re probably right, on average most people don’t keep up with their health as they age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonely30 isn’t even that old if you led a healthy lifestyle. I look like I’m 25 and still have abs. I can still pull 20 year olds - I just have no interest in chasing women with that age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?Yea - a lot of guys on here want to idolize the 60’s and old school gender roles. This mindset is more prevalent in conservative areas. Single income is much harder to support a household these days, and having two successful partners is a win win in my books. Easier to save, build wealth, and a family. Inflation has outpaced wages for a bit. Frankly, if my partner makes more than me, I wouldn’t give a damn. It’s another plus. More money for us. My masculinity isn’t so fragile and dependent on m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?I care. I’m college educated and in a good finance career track. I want someone in a similar ball park. I’m not interested in having someone solely dependent on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 09:06 PM |
| 4 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?Depends - if you’re not unattractive facially, can make a big difference. You don’t have to be ripped, but if you’re lean and have some definition you’re going to be on average more attractive. And if you’ve got a ugly mug, it’s still better to be ugly and fit than both ugly and fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 0 | What are your standards in a partner?It all seems like insecurity- they’re not able to easily have casual relationships. When dating, if the woman has prior sexual experience, they fear they won’t measure up. Need to find a women that doesn’t have enough experience to compare unfavorably against. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 05:50 AM |
| -2 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.This guy here knowing his game in bed is weak and overcompensating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Sen. Josh Hawley says liberals' attacks on manhood are driving men to pornography and video gamesThird world countries typically have much higher birth rates. Why? Because in developed countries cost of living is exponentially higher, and chid rearing costs can be prohibitive. In third world countries children provide additional support around the home / farm, and are not a significant economic detriment. Your logic is off base. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:35 PM |
| – | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.I’m 30 and more attractive now than 21. Of course, I’ve been fairly attractive for some time. I’m mistaken for 24-26 all the time, but I take care of myself. I’m in better shape than most 21 year olds, and have a a full head of hair. Mileage may vary. I have plenty of 18-22 year olds interested in me on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Should you ever eat out a woman?That was quite the homoerotic fan fiction you wrote. 9/10 cringe. Congrats. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Women indeed do not care about muscles, you guys are just too uglyExcuse me? Studies have shown that having a wider shoulder to waist ratio as one of the most attractive traits a man can have. Sure, some of it is bone structure, but adding muscle and definition (within reason) is definitely attractive. Attraction is multifaceted. A fit/strong handsome man is more attractive than an overweight or twiggy handsome man to most women. Strength isn’t the only factor, but being muscular doesn’t automatically offset the importance of facial structure. Sure. But it’s b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | If a guy can’t commit/be faithful to a girl, it doesn’t mean he’s out of her league; it means he’s a man with options that he wants to explore.I’ve never cheated in a committed relationship. It’s not for lack of options. When single, I can’t keep up with potential partners. I value aspects of a committed relationship more than sexual variety. I’ve been with countless attractive woman. Finding someone I actually connect with on multiple levels is rare, and that is preferable to a litany of hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 04:32 PM |
| 4 | CMV: If you are heterosexual and spend all your time trashing people of the opposite sex, you should not have any relationships with people of the opposite sex.Someone’s not very self aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't shooting out of their league; "Chad" is not hooking up with ugly women.As an average. Wealthier urban areas are not. Also, labeling either Baltimore or DC as “southern” cities is a stretch. Culturally they are different than Atlanta or the like. DC also ranks within the top ten fittest cities. The Deep South has the highest obesity rates - think Alabama, Louisiana, Mississippi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Women when faced with logicWhen the fuck did this Sub get even more overrun with this MGTOW and incel trash? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/19 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Short women don't deserve tall menThey don’t need to project, you’ve done a great job displaying that great personality of yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | PPD rateme/advice thread. Post your best photos here if you want to be rated and if you want to get advice on how to improve your look.https://imgur.com/a/kKOSy00 With a fresh cut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | The amount of guys complaining about not getting laid, without doing anything to better themselves, is too high.Being short is an obstacle, there’s no denying that. 5’6 and under is life on hard mode. Dating isn’t charity. Everyone is trying to get the best partner they can get, and you need to maximize your chances by investing in yourself. Life isn’t fair.... but you need to be someone that someone would want to date. Have interests and hobbies. Workout. Be ambitious. Present well. Don’t be a jaded ass. You may not land models, but I’m sure you’d be able to find a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | The amount of guys complaining about not getting laid, without doing anything to better themselves, is too high.This guy is full of it. I’m 5’9” and had several thousand matches on tinder alone. That’s not even including the other apps. I had no problem finding multiple woman a week for no strings attached relationships. I honestly couldn’t keep up. Height is a plus, definitely...but saying it’s “over” when you’re average height is such a pathetic cop out. These women were attractive. I’ve been with a slew of different women, ranging from wholesome girl next door to a porn star. You can be attractive, eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 11:34 AM |
| 1 | We live in a society.The dollar has been fiat for years. The US is still the largest economy in the world - the dollar isn’t going to collapse over night. Our frivolous spending has to be stopped, but if you’re concerned about increasing debt ceilings, thank our latest president for the largest budget deficit during a time of economic growth. The stimulus was largely successful, and can you please point to the hyper inflation associated with that bill? What has the inflation rate been the last few years? It’s also e… | /r/MGTOW | 31/08/19 09:35 PM |
| -5 | The wall cometh. Tom Cruise Baileth.Lol this sub is cancer. | /r/MGTOW | 31/08/19 02:40 PM |
| 6 | We live in a society.Or don’t invest in cryptocurrency...especially over unwarranted fear. For one, it’s not a few trillion dollars. Roughly, 1.3 trillion. Most proposals plan to scale the payback so it’s not an immediate trillion plus write off. Not to mention, the amount of debt relieved will be tied to current earnings: it’s not a 100% write off. Did the dollar completely collapse during the 2008 recession? Did it completely collapse after the nearly trillion dollar economic stimulus package? Did it collapse afte… | /r/MGTOW | 31/08/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't girls interested in me?If it’s not your appearance, it seems like your defensive and abrasive personality isn’t doing you any favors, either. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't girls interested in me?If it’s not your appearance, it seems like your defensive and abrasive personality isn’t doing you any favors, either. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 01:27 PM |
| -1 | why not just cuckold him already?Nice strawman. You’re mediocre and know you have no chance of being anyone’s best. Projection? I never addressed “real men” but it’s clearly not some bitter virgin upset that women don’t want to settle on him. Deep down, you know you can’t compete. You’re a loser. You know it. I know it. Instead of reflecting on your own shortcomings, you’ve decided to blame everyone else to protect that fragile ego of yours. I frankly don’t care, you’re nothing more than another failure whose genes will drop ou… | /r/MGTOW | 24/08/19 12:06 PM |
| -5 | why not just cuckold him already?Wants women to stay virgins because of his crippling insecurity. What a joke. Lol. | /r/MGTOW | 23/08/19 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Swallowing the pill caused the death of my social life.Basically, I’ve decided to follow a worldview that is unpopular, and now I’m upset because people don’t agree with me. Everything is made up. Society is a bunch of social conventions to help us get along. For one, the Red Pill is a lot of psuedo science and dogma that helps socially awkward men get laid. No shit women don’t want men who don’t stand for anything, don’t physically take care of themselves, etc. Being a “good” person is the bare minimum. Personality is subjective, but all else equal… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women are the greatest threat to society.Can you provide studies or research that indicates this? Because if it’s based upon your feelings and an opinion, I couldn’t give a damn about it. Opinions are a lot like assholes, everyone has them, and they usually stink. Humans are animals, with a biological imperative to procreate. It’s in our nature. In fact, pregnancy rates and unplanned pregnancies are declining, even in our “hyper sexualized”’culture. The places with the highest teen pregnancy rates and infant mortality rates are found i… | /r/MGTOW | 12/08/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Women are the greatest threat to society.If the right to life is so fundamentally important, why does that right to life cease to matter after the child is born? If right to life means, forced to be born in economic poverty and have no healthcare or benefits, you don’t care about life, you just care about some psuedo bullshit political issue. Crime rates, education rates, etc, improve in areas with access to abortion. If you want to keep forcing people to have children, but bitch when they are a “net drain”’to society you’re a hypocrit… | /r/MGTOW | 11/08/19 08:38 PM |
| 10 | I can only get girls by lying that I also want a relationship. But it makes me feel terribleAside from being a literal piece of shit, isn’t lying because you’re afraid of someone leaving you the antithesis of TRP? I thought it was about self improvement...or is it just a means to get whatever pathetic sex you can scrape up? Aren’t you supposed to be honest, direct, and hold your frame? Self value is evident. If you don’t have value, build it. Maybe, just maybe, you could improve your confidence if you actually earned something... Or continue taking shortcuts and using others. I’m sure … | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Reddit is mostly low SMV people, and this sub is no differentI’m a chad and liberal. We out here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Being hyper masculine is a lot more important than being cute/handsome/pretty as a man.For one, I’m not your “hyper-masculine” man. I, however, have a stereotypically attractive face and fall closer to the “pretty boy” persona. Body type similar to Brad Pitt in fight club (albeit a little wider). Results? I had over 3,000 matches on tinder alone - an app mostly focused on hookups and looks. I had no problem finding women who wanted nothing but short term flings. I matched and slept with a legitimate porn star from tinder. Pretty boy isn’t inherently effeminate. I’m not the super r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Saw this and figured it belongs here. AWALT brothers./r/Im14AndThisIsDeep | /r/MGTOW | 16/03/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about height in dating?There probably is a little selection bias at play here...being especially tall likely attracts more woman that prefer tall men - or filter for that trait. Being tall can definitely be an asset, but there are diminishing returns when you get over a certain height. Ideally woman want a tall man, but if you’re taller than your prospective love interest, extra height isn’t as beneficial. I am not tall but I had thousands of matches in just under a year using online dating apps. Even apps where I lis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/18 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you really all aspire to look like this?Yea, from my understanding this guy’s girlfriend has this niche where she photoshops him to have extreme masculinized features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | PSA- racists aren't ashamed of being racist so calling them racist doesn't bother them or change their viewsMan, let me mock the Autists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Have you had casual sex with a Chad?But your boyfriend is less attractive. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:27 AM |
| 8 | PSA- racists aren't ashamed of being racist so calling them racist doesn't bother them or change their viewsLol. It pisses off Republicans because they often aren’t aware of their own bias. That’s most people, frankly...but you act like you’re above cognitive dissonance. Let’s conflate the small subset of the population who are upset with “mistakenly” being called racists as the determining factor of the election. That’s certainly it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | PSA- racists aren't ashamed of being racist so calling them racist doesn't bother them or change their viewsCan you please point to one election that was decided the way you claim? Direct review and causation. I’m just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:06 AM |
| 8 | I think it's okay to catcall womenThis is some of the most pathetic shit I’ve read. This guy is the opposite of confident. He has limited control in his life, so he likes to pretend he has “power”. He’s basically just upset he’s a loser, and attacks others to make himself feel better. Instead of actually improving himself, he just opted out and complains about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Chads: Is this how being a chad feels like? Mogging everyone all the time? It feels good man.10/10 would recommend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Questions for all: Height and age differences.Male. I'm roughly 5'8"-5'9". My partners have ranged from 5'3" to 5'11"ish. I've been intimate with women ranging from 4'10" up to 6'0". Height is generally irrelevant to me. It doesn't impact my attraction to my partner. My partners have never expressed that my height is a turn off, but I'm sure they wouldn't have been upset if I were a few inches taller. I'm an outlier, I'm in the top percentile of looks, so the height issue hasn't been an obstacle aside from a few particular women. If you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There is no such thing as toxic masculinity.The problem in communicating these terms is that both sides have a completely different understanding of these terms. Conversation breaks down because each side is arguing against these ideas from their experience. An example would be the word "Socialism". A conservative's definition of the term is entirely different than a liberal's definition. To have these discussions, it's important to frame the subject in terms that the other party can understand. Otherwise, you end up arguing about two ent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Are you attractive enough to inspire dread in your relationships?This man is woefully insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/18 04:25 PM |
| 15 | Are you attractive enough to inspire dread in your relationships?Yes. Easily. But my partners are also attractive so it’s a net wash. We’d both know we could cheat if we so desired. Neither of us would flaunt that because we don’t have toxic relationships. I also select for partners who feel as if they’re not settling on me. Since we both feel like we’re getting a good deal, dread is counter productive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/18 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: In your experience, how often will a "Chad" actually fuck a stranger (or recent acquaintance)?.30 is killing it when approaching in real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | A true Red Pill TaleThat’s my vibe as well, honestly, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Are attractive people better or worse in bed? What does logic suggest? What does your experience say?I'm a late bloomer. When younger, I was insecure and focused on learning to please. Now I'm sexually experienced, dominant, and still have a strong kink for female pleasure. I don't see what's inherently submissive about giving your partner mind blowing orgasms. Dominance and focusing on her pleasure are not mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do women date assholes and then complain about male assholishness being a systemic issue?Women don't date assholes because they're assholes. Women date attractive men. Attractive men have an abundance of choices, and therefore, are less likely to put women on a pedestal. They come off as less needy, which in turn is a desirable trait. It's also scarcity economics. People value things that seem unattainable more, whether they have actual increased value or not. They've also done studies on unpredictable rewards. When knowledge that a certain behavior always elicits an expected respon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.Chemist is right, it's his responsibility to communicate. His wife appears to be making changes to lose the weight. If he had communicated sooner, she may have made the changes necessary to prevent gaining that much weight in the first place. Reverse the genders. A women is constantly fed up with her husband for not watching his diet. Weight begins to add up while resentment builds in the relationship. Rather than her addressing the problem and communicating, the husband is suddenly blindsided b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 09:12 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.Seriously, that guy is damaged. I feel bad for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there is a reason why almost all of r/tinder posts are from males.I never implied that women like that are the sole reason men turn to MGTOW. It’s just an example that affirms “female hypergamy”. A lot of TRP and MGTOW are former “nice guys” who were hurt or unsuccessful with women (for whatever reason). Often times it is their fault. They may have unrealistic expectations themselves. No one is blameless, but someone objectively unattractive is likely more successful than them. That breeds resentment. I appreciate your concern. However, I’m not a sob story. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there is a reason why almost all of r/tinder posts are from males.It’s a matter of hypocrisy. She’s entitled to write whatever she wants, but being so openly shallow, she’s bound to be judged. If an unattractive man had a similar bio, I’m sure he’d receive his fair share of scorn. Imagine him listing weight requirements, cup size, and vaginal tightness. Whether the person is attractive or not, both are frankly disgusting. If you’re willing to be so openly shallow on a public platform, expect backlash. Everyone has preferences, but no one needs to outright obje… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upI don’t think I’m that attractive to be honest. Im on the shorter side of average. I think a lot of men are bad with their profiles. That, or facial aesthetics are much more important than people think when compared to height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 04:29 AM |
| 1 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upHeight is definitely important...but it’s not required if you’re especially attractive. I’m around 5 8 and never have issues. If I was 6 foot I’d probably try to model somewhere. Oh well. In my experience, women do care about dick size. My dick size is in the top 88 percentile and women don’t mind letting me know they appreciate it. There are a lot of women who claim that average is best, but I haven’t met one who acted unhappy with my size. I imagine it would be no different if I were even a li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 04:25 AM |
| 1 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upWell, according to that study...I’m much more Chadly than I thought. That’s a confidence boost. I didn’t know others had it so much tougher on that app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Are fat men unattractive because of how they look, or because of what being fat implies?Its definitely an appearance issue. I don’t understand why people argue women aren’t visual creatures too. As a fit guy, the visceral gasp from women when I take my clothes off likely doesn’t stem from her thinking “this man must have strong impulse control, is dedicated, and ambitious “. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated a practice or placeholder girlfriend? What was it about her that made her just temporary?No? Those are synonyms to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated a practice or placeholder girlfriend? What was it about her that made her just temporary?I've had several FWB type relationships, but I've never been dishonest with my intentions. I'm always upfront with my expectations, and if they are not in alignment, I move on. I respect myself, and I respect other people. Unfortunately, not all men are like this. For a truly committed romantic relationship, I do not settle. Of course, I have options and do not feel the need to settle. Some men may have trouble securing affection or more casual partners, and may settle on someone they are not tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Toxic feminity: female-on-female incivilityI earnestly believe it depends on the woman (like all things). Men and women tend to be equally aggressive, but how that aggression manifests itself varies between the sexes. Men tend to be more overt with their actions, while women are conditioned to be more subvert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: “I don’t need a man” versus Vulnerability. Would you rather a woman “need” you for something and risk feeling used, or that a woman not need you for anything at all?I much prefer independent woman. I don't believe people in a relationship should be dependent on each other for security or happiness. I'm secure in myself, and I expect my partner to be very much the same. I don't have to feel needed to have my own self worth. I prefer my life partner staying with me because I enhance her happiness, not because she is dependent on me. I'd rather my partner be a complete person outside of a relationship, and stay with me because that's her choice. I want my part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP can improve a guy relatively, but it cannot make an average man into a chad.Chad is a made up term, and subjective. If your threshold for a Chad is Dan, then you're correct - the Red Pill, or any self help strategy, will not give you the status needed to pull like Dan. He's rich and famous, which completely changes his SMV. He is attractive and fit, but he's not elite in looks. He's also 5'8"-5'9". It takes a great deal of luck or skill to reach those levels. The RP isn't about being Chad anyways. It's about being the best version of you, sprinkled with some misogyny. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP can improve a guy relatively, but it cannot make an average man into a chad.I'm 5'8"-5'9", and I've had a similar transformation. I was a late bloomer, and timid around women (much like TrueD above). I only began to have success with women beginning in college, and looking back, I greatly underutilized my potential. Being a late bloomer, my confidence was low, and that held me back more than anything. I didn't consciously follow RP ideology, but my own self improvement process was similar to what the RP teaches. Working out. Style. Confidence. Etc. That being said, I am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Different priorities and different types of disgust.Is it not possible the woman believed that having sex with men was a viable way of keeping them interested in her? She may have found those men attractive, and was interested in more, but found if she slept with them it didn't guarantee commitment? As she matured, she valued commitment more, and made sure the next guy was willing to wait for sex to ensure he wouldn't just hump and dump her? Not to mention, the girl may find the guy sexually attractive AND a potential long term partner. She may h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How will the obesity crisis effect relationships and dating? What impact will it have on the future?I always mentally ask for consent before fantasizing about others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How will the obesity crisis effect relationships and dating? What impact will it have on the future?How short is too short? I'm not tall and I have no problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/18 06:23 PM |
| 2 | How relevant height in males is for hook ups?This post hits close to home for me. I earnestly struggle with the voice reminding me that I'm not "ideal". I stand at about 5'8-9". The internet will tell you I can't be successful with women online. I will tell you that, in my experience, that's bullshit. My biggest problem in dating isn't my height, but my limiting beliefs around my height. Height is important to most women, but at 5'8" ish...it broaches on average. They may prefer taller man, but it's not an immediate deal breaker. I am, how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/18 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Let's talk about homemakersYou cannot force anyone to behave in any manner. You can merely have your own boundaries, and if others do not follow them, you have the option to leave. Is it forcing someone to be monogamous if you are willing to breakup with them over infidelity? People rush into things without determining long term compatibility. I think each individual should openly discuss their deal breakers from the onset to determine if they're compatible. Otherwise you run into issues. It's not forcing someone to do so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Have you ever had sex with men shorter than you?This is a question for women, but I'll provide my two cents. Yes, of course there are women who will have sex with a man shorter than them. I've been with at least 5 women who were taller than me (roughly 5'10"-6'0"). I'm approximately 5'9.5". I'm not particularly short, but by no means tall. They were probably 7-8 on the scale of attractiveness. I find that women in that height range are more willing to see a man slightly shorter than themselves (probably because they are about as tall as most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Is black pill just a type of red pill for incels?Ironic that you just cried out sophism. Continue with your straw man arguments. I never once stated that I fully believe everything is predetermined. I merely shared some ideas and studies on the subject matter. It's up for interpretation. Even if I did believe in predetermination, that belief can't be extrapolated to mean I hope everyone is going to act in accordance with how I'd like them to act. How fragile is your ego that you have to insult random people over the internet who have different… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/17 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Is black pill just a type of red pill for incels?Your insecurity is showing. I'd apologize for triggering you, but I couldn't care less. If you can only resort to ad hominem and straw-man arguments, you're a waste of time. Please tell me you understand how "retarded" the drivel you thought up as an appropriate response sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Is black pill just a type of red pill for incels?Thanks for the paragraph suggestion. You're not wrong. The conclusions of such studies are up to interpretation. Not to mention, how do we even define "Free Will". That lends itself to philosophical debate. I also don't want to delve into pyrrhonism. The end justifies the means. Whether or not we have free will is irrelevant. There have been studies that indicated believing we have free will is beneficial for society. If we believe we have control of our life and actions, we'll make the most of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/17 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Is black pill just a type of red pill for incels?There is a lot of science behind this. There are plenty of scholars who believe we have the illusion of free will. Our brains are essentially very sophisticated computers. Our physical bodies are merely the peripherals. We do not determine the actual hardware. Our brain makeup is based upon genetics/epigenetics. Many of our personality traits are innate. They may change over time, but their starting points are fixed. Another variable is the hormonal/chemical composition of our brains. We don't a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Explain to me the problems of Red PillYou're conflating gender roles and having a strong parental unit. You can have strong parental figures without them adhering to traditional gender norms. Single Mother families, especially those in impoverished areas, are not comparable to traditional nuclear families or gay parents. You're not accounting for a slew of outside factors (namely cultural differences and economic class). You're using anecdotal evidence for your argument. If you want a logical argument, please see this link from Colo… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/17 07:18 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The 'sexual liberation' only benefits women and top-tier men.Not necessarily. Individual preferences vary greatly. As hinted earlier, there are plenty of women who are not interested in casual sex. Women, in general, tend to bear a disproportionate amount of risk when mating. If there are more and more women becoming "sexually liberated" it increases the pressure on women to have sex sooner than they may be otherwise comfortable with. If a women is interested in someone, but otherwise isn't ready for a sexual commitment, she may have to change her behavio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/17 09:35 PM |
| 2 | (Q4ALL) Give me your objective HB valueI mean, I’m single. 😂. I don’t prescribe to either pill in particular, I read both sides and pick what I like. Either extreme is ridiculous. I just work on my own self improvement, do what makes me happy, and surround myself with people who I like. I don’t care too much for the extremes. If people don’t treat me the way I want, next one up. No one owes you a damn thing in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 11:33 PM |
| 7 | (Q4ALL) Give me your objective HB valueI've been a lurker here. I'm around an 8.5. Give or take a point regarding someone's preferences. I did a r/rateme and scored around an 8-10. Previous relationships were with women in this range. White Male 26 / 5'9"-5'10"/ I lift and run consistently/ 175 lbs. 10-12% body fat/ Visible abs and vascular/ Very strong facial aesthetics - Dark hair, Chiseled jaw line, symmetrical, and prominent green eyes/Sizably above average dick/Solid career and income working in Corporate finance/Genuinely intel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 06:56 PM |
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