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He thinks he’ll be the lord. Mom and Dad are rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:30 AM
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You’re some spoiled teenager with rich parents in India. I doubt you’ve had any kind of experience in the real world to offer, any kind of educated opinion on economics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:20 AM
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Dude made his proposition to change society? He wants to get rid of child support and marriage courts, and alimony. So basically ensuring that no woman would wanna have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:18 AM
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By the way, dude. If you get what you want - financial abortions, no child support, no alimony, no divorce courts - you’ve just insured that no woman will have a kid with a man again. Women focus on career because they know they can’t rely on men to take care of them. Why the hell would theu saddle themselves with a child that they are 100% responsible for while he can just go fuck off? I sure as hell wouldn’t do that. I’d get sterilized tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:17 AM
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Remove all lopsided subsidies for social programs. Single men should not being paying for programs they themselves are not entitled to. Social programs are not gender specific, so you’re wrong. This is already been done. That women seem to get predominantly Help is because they are the ones that have the kids. A dad who has custody of a baby or child also has access to WIC and tanf. They just don’t because they don’t take their children. They dump it on the women. Stop shutting down male only sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:08 AM
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I mean the problem is is that you can find numerous “monogamous” societies that engage in lots of hook ups. Or you can have a monogamous Society that has polygamy. All of this indicates that there isn’t one “natural” way of being, especially since humanity and culture is interwoven. The truth is that people have engaged in multiple different relationship strategies and reproduction strategies depend, depending on time and place in their own culture. If there’s extensive evidence - and there is -…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:51 AM
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TLDR - you cannot claim that monogamy is natural, but hooking up is not when we have extensive evidence that humans have pursued multiple relationship strategies. In fact, the existence of hooking up side-by-side with monogamous relationships indicates that both are “natural”. You are the one who insists one man one woman pair bond in marriage for life is what is natural. But it is clear that NUMEROUS societies had different structures. And you are the one shitting on hook ups as unnatural and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:48 AM
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No they meet up at like 24/25, date several years, marry at 28. People aren’t marrying after dating six months (usually) because it’s unwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:32 AM
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I agree somewhat. I have teen girls. What strikes me is that teens have easy exits from the discomfort. I remember feeling like shit as a teen girl waaay low on the totem pole. I don’t want to minimize the pain involved for those who aren’t very attractive. But it’s like you have to go through that pain and get to the other side, accept where you are, and do the best you can. Now teens can avoid this painful process by disappearing into video games or porn or some “friend” on YouTube that shows …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:23 AM
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More of that personal responsibility, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:03 AM
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So wait, are you saying height is important to men too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:00 AM
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I mean honestly growing up I got a lot of advice of how I needed to improve to attract a man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:39 PM
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As I said, you’ve never read the Old Testament have you? Nor did you look at the Mosuo. Men and women don’t form a pair bond. Men don’t even live with women. They live in their own house. I’m curious, how many wives did David have? And how many concubines? How about Phillip the second of Macedonia? Seven wives. Oh, and he had a few bonds with some men too. There’s also a culture in China that had one woman with two husbands as the Bond. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyandry So where exactly …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:30 PM
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Bingo. And as awful as high school was, it allowed me to come to terms to where I was in the perking order although god I used books to escape. I feel like many boys don’t go through that anymore. Or it’s easier to run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:20 PM
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They aren’t Chad and they want to be treated as Chad and they hate it. All the while treating the Stacy’s like gods gift and ignoring Becky in the corner. They’ve never been able to process that life isn’t fair and we do the best we can with what god has given us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:17 PM
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That last phrase - exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:15 PM
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See, women aren’t allowed to mature or grow. They aren’t allowed to choose a less attractive man who is a better person because you’ll never believe that she’s as attracted to you as she was to some past boyfriend. People do get into new phases of life. It’s hard to go party and fuck all night and then get up, get the kids out the door, and manage to deal with a shitty boss. And maybe the woman tried certain type of sex (me and anal) and it fucking hurt and they don’t want to do it. Shit slows d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:10 PM
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But women do become less shallow. And then men get mad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:23 PM
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I don’t know. I only started hanging around the sub, probably six months ago. I’m not the most socially astute person, but it’s always been very clear that people prefer the most attractive. Men like the hottest women and women like the hottest and most charismatic men. I feel like that was the education that I received alongside calculus while I was in high school - we were all in the social packing order and being horrible to one another and that’s how we all learned really how the opposite se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:04 PM
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Well, it’s pretty toxic and is leading you to incorrect conclusions. For every DiCaprio out there, there are men who are marrying, even though they could have a dozen women on rotate. Somehow people like Jason Momoa, Dwayne Johnson, and Tom Cruise marry. Now sure some of them cheat and I think Tom Cruise is up to three marriages, but they still marry. So now I don’t think that just because a guy can have girls on rotating they don’t still fall in love and want to marry. That’s what you do. And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:50 PM
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Balance of lived experience is what I seek, I said nothing about purity or nativity. Please stop being disingenuous. You are completely transparent. The entire focus of your post is that women get to have noncommittal sex and that pisses you off. It pisses you off so much that you think we should get rid of “unnatural” medication’s, like birth control that allow women to have sex without being punished by pregnancy and to get rid of dating apps so that women don’t get to have the choice of many …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:41 PM
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Two parent cohabitation - ie man and woman for life (ie marriage in the sense you use) - is fairly new. If you’d spent a day reading anthropological research or the Old Testament, you’d discover there are many many many different family structures that have existed throughout time. And again I reiterate that there are societies where there is no marriage between men and women and there is no cohabitation: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mosuo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:26 PM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:18 PM
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Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:12 PM
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lol. Men have always talked and compare notes - ie locker room talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:12 PM
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“ The problem began in the 1920's and has gotten worse generationally since.” Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:09 PM
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Marriage is very unnatural. Lmao. That’s why it looks different in various societies AND doesn’t exist in some.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:03 PM
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I donno - because the man loves the woman? You all really reveal your toxic view of women- that we are all fungible replacements - Barbie’s that you pick off the wall. We aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:02 PM
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“ I cant say that I have any desire to settle down with a 40 year old woman whose lived experience is so diametrically opposed to mine.” Then I guess a woman’s “purity” and “nativity” is more important to you than marriage or kids. You’d rather Iive alone than the possibility that your wife dated a Chad or had sex with others before you. You are prioritizing something above marriage or kids. Fine do so. But why are you so angry that women are prioritizing financial security over marriage and kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:58 PM
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It’s absolutely unnatural that men have access to the internet and porn. Maybe they should be locked off the internet. You know what else is unnatural? Vaccines. Antibiotics. Agriculture. Jobs. The Internet. Cars. Heart transplants. Condoms. “ If you expect to do heavy exploring, dont expect to settle down and live that traditional life with a man who’s never left town.” What a self own. Is that you? Why the fuck would I want to marry some narrow minded man who lacked the intestinal fortitude to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:39 PM
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Guys have told us for years and marriage and kids are a prison. Guess so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:37 PM
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Men say it constantly here and have for years. Examples: the ol’ ball and chain; the stag party for a guy’s last moment of freedom. 1924: https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/431363/did-the-phrase-ball-and-chain-referring-to-ones-wife-originate-in-u-s-black There is ton of gag paraphilania for WEDDINGS. https://www.etsy.com/market/groom_ball_and_chain Stag parties as last moment of “freedom.” https://www.adventurebritain.com/origins-bachelor-party-called-stag/ And the number of influencer…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:36 PM
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I love sex at night. Go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:40 PM
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I donno. I can usually see one thing I find attractive about all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:39 PM
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No boss pays husband. Husband buys house. SAHM stays with husband. Now two people are dependent and submissive to one person - the boss. Or you can do what we do. We both have jobs. We work. Husband gets mad and quits. No one loses their house because my salary can cover it. Woot woot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:33 PM
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First in my job: My boss can be male or female. And, if my boss does something tomorrow that pisses me off, I can walk. That’s priceless. And the boss is legally required to pay me, there is no question the money is mine, and there are limits to what my boss can order me to do. I don’t have to do sexual chores. They can’t call me at 2 am. Btw plenty of my bosses have cared if I am sick or overworked…. Because they are human and they don’t want me to quit. Second at home. I’m sorry, where did you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:29 PM
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I could be wrong, but I feel like the men making those comments are probably much more on the margins of society than the women making similar ones. There is a logical fallacy that people commit - they assume that the horrible people on their side is “just a fringe“ but the horrible people on the other side represents the other side. Please note this is not gendered. In the same way, I don't think it's fair to compare comments made on 4chan with trending X/Twitter posts. We aren’t on 4chan. Redd…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:52 PM
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I’d love to outlaw circumcision
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:43 PM
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There has never been a moment in human existence where we haven’t had premarital sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:41 PM
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I ❤️ u
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:37 PM
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I’m a Harris woman and she’d been so much better for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:37 PM
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My kid is loving Silksong. I had ro kick her off at 9:40 last night. It’s a school night. No bueno. It looks fun tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:35 PM
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I want you to ignore women’s posts for a while and read what the men say. And ask yourself if you’d want your wife or daughter spoken about like that. I have to go away and remind myself that many men don’t think the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:33 PM
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My dad was a cheating asshole who blew up my family and was physically abusive - belting us kids. My first husband constantly was involved with other women and told me I was ugly and no decent man would want me if I left. I have never sought to restrict the rights of men. I have not sought to block men from colleges, from jobs, or strip them of their bodily autonomy. I never wanted to punish men for the sins of the few. I was just very careful around men. And I’ve had great men in my life. I’m m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:30 PM
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Lots of guys cheered for Luigi too, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:40 PM
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You all keep pushing this shit and it’s not supported
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:38 PM
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Woman. Wanted kids. Despite what posters may think, I actually like guys. I’ve had great guy friends. My husband is a prince. He gave me a hug this morning that made my day so much better. When it works it really works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:37 PM
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Ooo I agree. My hub and I had a minor tiff this morning. Then he came in while I was on a conference call, waiting until I paused, and gave me a huge hug and told me he’d miss me. He’s on a work trip. And I feel so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:23 PM
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Poor people are more careful about money
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:11 PM
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We aren’t your enemies. It’s the rich. There is no war but class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:00 PM
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They do this all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:30 PM
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That isn’t citing a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:30 PM
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Above it was 70%. Now it’s 97% Men receive affirmative action: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:29 PM
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Men receive affirmative action: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html Financial aid is not gender based and isn’t a grant. If women get better grades on average why is it a surprise that they get more federal grants?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:22 PM
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Men already receive affirmative action: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:22 PM
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Men are given affirmative action https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:21 PM
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Says the men who claim women never emotionally mature past high school. That is the type of unintelligent statements made by people who haven’t matured themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:08 PM
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No you wouldn’t. You say you would, but you’d also probably resent the hell out of the person who said it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:56 AM
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I think you are missing something - a lot of people react very badly to advice, including men. Why should I have to deal with an angry man (or woman for that matter)? I might be willing to carefully negotiate a good friend‘s feelings to give him or her advice that may be unwelcome or painful. Why would I do that for some stranger? Especially if they aren’t going to listen?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:55 AM
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Thousands and thousands of men would die without women. Hell, the human race would end since, men can’t replace female reproduction. Even if men could, men would still wipe themselves out. Right now, even with women still around, men here spend hours belly aching and whining and threatening to burn society down just as you’ve been doing this entire engagement, because men think women owe men personally sex. Imagine what men would do without any women at all. Assholes here claim they’ll NEET or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:49 AM
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And men are simply replaceable. We don’t even need you for reproduction. We have plenty of sperm frozen. In the long term, we can also train women for police, etc. and yes even working in the oils fields. Especially since men no longer exist in your world. I mean fuck, we’d need 1/8 the number of prisons or even less. 💅 you all cause the vast majority of the violence and war. I know you’d cry that women are just too physically weak but so are you without all the modern machinery. We’d just rever…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:53 AM
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“ People vote for the cool guy they'd more likely want to hang out or have a beer with just like how dating or making friends is about marketing/selling yourself.” So pure emotion. Lol. This is why I laugh over men insisting they are very logical. Neither gender is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:17 AM
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You are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:17 AM
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To reach that conclusion, you have deposited your analytical brain in the garbage can and are driven by nothing but emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:16 AM
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IKR?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:51 PM
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Irrelevant non sequitur. Men pay men money to repair the drywood. Men don’t get special perks for performing the same service for a woman. And tradesman get paid well: If you have to steal the valor of people like my husband that means you have nothing personally to offer of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:43 PM
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Let’s let the teachers, nurses, day care workers, child care workers, nannies, janitors (mostly women), cleaners, and food processors (including factory) take a month off and see how it goes. I know what happens in the court system - it screeches to a stop. In my job it is all women in supporting staff for the attorneys. It don’t run. Your grandfathers will rot in their beds. You men will discover you can’t climb poles with a kid hanging off your back. And all you small men, minor men, weak men,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:37 PM
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That’s because you are guided purely by emotion. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:30 PM
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Sorry the analogy flew over your head. Don’t brag about how you don’t give a fuck about a woman’s intelligence and then bitch when she makes stupid buying decisions. Smart women who are careful with money will research. I write out a check maybe once a month or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:29 PM
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I had no interest in changing for random men’s sake. In fact I became far less of a people pleaser and magically did far better in dating. Men shouldn’t change for “women’s sake.” Don’t lose weight to attract women, do it so YOU feel better. Don’t make friends to find pussy; make friends because it helps your mental health and improves longevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:09 PM
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Oooo, touched a nerve didn’t I? You just shat on your girlfriend publicly for picking out a car because it was cute and called it “woman brain.” Take a look in the mirror boyo. You are the one disrespecting your girlfriend’s intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:02 PM
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Absolutely would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:52 PM
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I think this is best for your medical provider. I was on antidepressants during my divorce and I successfully came off, but that was depression, not bipolar. Sending kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:51 PM
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No, this is why men are stupid (not noble) when they brag about ignoring a woman’s education, intelligence, or employment when dating. They snort, “oh it don’t matter what those girls do. Your education is worthless, women!” And then six months later, “why doesn’t she know how to balance a checkbook!” Boy math
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:50 PM
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Tell that to the guys who fucking buy raptors to go to their desk job in Peoria
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:48 PM
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Just because your girlfriend is stupid, don’t blame that on the rest of us. I always meticulously research cars before I buy. This includes costs of ownership, resale value, repair costs, and insurance costs. It’s why I’ve never had an audi despite being tempted. Recently I traded my Lexus (which never gave me one bad day in seven years) in on a Toyota Crown Hybrid. Toyotas know how to do hybrids. Before my husband and I married, we had long discussions on expenses and costs and managing money. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:47 PM
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Says the guy who can’t get over being turned down in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:38 PM
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YES!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:38 PM
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Once again, only men are allowed to develop, women must be perfectly exactly what they’re doing from the moment they start dating at 16. From my point of view as a good woman, a lot of you ““ nice guys looks right past me to the hot cheerleaders
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:37 PM
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Like how the “worst” are elderly, fat, and ugly. Sounds like they are looks matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:34 PM
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And every woman experiences a guy she likes picking the hot bitch over her. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:33 PM
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If you haven’t grown in the last ten years, I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:31 PM
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During the past, money was king. Most marriages were business relationships, not love matches. The concept of marrying for romantic love is a recent (like last 200-300 years) concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:22 PM
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During the past, more marriages were business relationships. The wallet was even more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:18 PM
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You people are crazy. If I date five guys, there is a chance one of them will be over six feet. That doesn’t mean that we are “taking turns.” You all are so bizarre. You guys will date a couple of girls serially before you meet one you want to marry? Is that taking turns? Or do you just assume the first girl you date is going to be the one? The other thing is genetics. I’m a white girl. I dated white guys and a Hispanic dude. The average height of a Caucasian male and black male in the US is 5/9…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:11 PM
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Women don’t like high promiscuity in men. https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/ I don’t give a fuck what some clip you have. There is no glory in partnering with a man who speaks about women like that, I don’t care how good looking he is. But hey, you wanna make yourself even more unattractive, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:35 PM
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Why be with someone who equates women to half eaten sandwiches. Fucking misogynistic thought
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:55 PM
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So in other words, you don’t give a shit about the woman. Why would they want a relationship with you when all you care about what other men think. Be miserable then. Waste your life seething over whether a woman fucked someone in two days and made you wait three.it isn’t like you like women or the woman involved anyway. PS, and enjoy being held to the standard of dinner dates, etc. after all if you gave another woman that, the next girl is right to demand more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:53 PM
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Do you think women get attention from every man they meet? Like what? Do you think that every man “accepts women as they are?” I have no patience with this stuff. Why? Because I was an ugly kid. And I’m crashing into invisibility for men because I am middle aged. I wish I was born a Stacy. You wish you looked like a guy from a boy band. We do the best we can or we wallow in misery. Which is the better option? “Instead what I get is a bunch or egotistical women that take me for granted.” not gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:49 PM
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It’s stolen valor. Stealing the work done by better more competent men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:36 PM
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Isn’t it interesting how these tradesman aren’t demanding special sexual favors from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:35 PM
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More stolen valor. The guys who say this are generally paper pushers themselves. Does an electrician demand a male home owner blow him for the privilege of installing a few outlets? No? He asks for money. Just like what the female home owner pays him. Why are you demanding something extra from women that you don’t from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:34 PM
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“ There is no glory in fighting for sluts who will never get over the hot guy that treated her like a cumrag.” There is no glory in partnering with men who look at women like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:30 PM
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He apparently was friends with some seriously hot guys and that’s the life he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:25 PM
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🙌🙌 sound like good dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:55 PM
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It’s called no birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:54 PM
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Uh… Firstly, the child can be his. Secondly, he can co-opt and develop a deeper and better relationship with that child. This happens all the time. The beta ends up with the son/daughter who looks up to him, helps him, takes care of him in his old age. Thirdly, he gets regular consistent sex and a wife that pays into the home etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:52 PM
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Twins girl, twins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:48 PM
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Watch it. They’ll call that simp behavior even though it led to nookie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:32 PM
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Why guys can see that Tinder and Match are set up to fail for most guys (and keep them coming back for more) but not the online grifter pick up artist just boggles my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:29 PM
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You aren’t rich then. Your mommy and daddy were the ones that actually made the money and had the merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:28 PM
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This is completely incorrect. Some areas like certain areas of Africa above replacement level are also dropping. Most of Asia is beneath replacement level. This includes China, which people suspect are cooking the books to make it appear as if their population is actually higher than what it is. There is thought that China’s population is already in significant contraction. Most areas of the Middle East are at or beneath replacement level Their numbers are also dropping. Afghanistan remains abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:24 PM
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In other words, you’ve given no thought to what happened if you died tomorrow. Whatever money you have even down to the last penny is unlikely to keep your wife and children out of destitution unless you’re making serious bank and have like a $5 million at least life insurance policy. my husband would probably give me every dime to his name to make sure I stayed under destitute and he do the same for his kids, but he also has confidence and knows that if he died tomorrow, I would have a financia…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:16 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:36 PM
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“ for it? Money? It's a means to an end. It's meaningless.” So you’re willing to live under a bridge and scrounge in garbage cans for food so long as you have a wife beside you doing the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:35 PM
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You waste your prime fertile years for an education and carrier Then I guess men waste their prime and fertile years slaving away for a corporation too. Ideally, one parent would stay at home and raise kids, rather than outsourcing this job to the state. are you agreeing to give your wife retirement funds? Are you going to invest into your 401(k)? If you die, how do you ensure that she’s taken care of and your children are taken care of?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:34 PM
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Not really. I don’t know anything about my great grandparents on either side of the family. Wait, dad told me one thing. My great granddad couldn’t read, but worked for the railroad.. my great grandma used to smoke like a chimney and use her cigarette to light fireworks to toss into the corn to scare away the crows. She also could pick up a chicken and swing it around and snap its neck. She sounds so cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:31 PM
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That’s called a strawman. No women make the argument the corporations are caring or compassionate. Women argue that it’s very important to make their own money so they can be financially independent just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:29 PM
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So they voluntarily entered into that relationship. And they probably use money to get a girl significantly more attractive. Welp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:27 PM
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Those marriages are becoming far more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:26 PM
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And yet, while the marriage rates have decreased, those marriages that are entered into appear to be actually more stable long-term. I think marriages are actually becoming less transactional rather than more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:25 PM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:24 PM
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It’s not about “ pissed off western women,” It’s about the very high likelihood that these women will be absolutely abused. https://www.fbi.gov/investigate/violent-crime/human-trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:18 PM
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Way too often it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:17 PM
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This is what OP is proposing. You are disgusting op. Trying to trap a woman here where they don’t know anything about the culture, how to get a help if they needed it, how to get a job, who to turn to for help, or how to get back home to their equally poverty, stricken family, who have no financial or legal ability to help them out. And I can’t believe how few people here are pushing back. https://www.aclu.org/news/immigrants-rights/behind-closed-doors-the-traumas-of-domestic-work-in-the-u-s htt…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:17 PM
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Why in the hell would a woman take all the financial risk? That’s all you’ve done. You’re taking her away from her family, her support system and any way for her to make any kind of salary and money to an entirely different country and you’re too cheap to even go through the risk involved to you to become married? Yeah, screw that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:09 PM
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Tell that to all the women who are invited the places like Netherlands to “” work and legit jobs only to have their passports confiscated and turned into prostitutes. This is disgusting what he is proposing is highly abusive to the woman involved. And yes, it happens to men too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:07 PM
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So what exactly is the benefit for them to come here? They can stay in Asia and actually get a husband instead of being someone’s live-in bang maid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:06 PM
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We hear about female solipsism but this is a grade A example of male solipsism. So you expect a woman from somewhere very poor to leave her entire support network, move to a foreign place where she may not know the language, has no friends or family, on the off chance you might marry her? I know how you think this benefits you but how exactly does this benefit her? You aren’t talking about giving her money. To the contrary, apparently you expect her to get a job. She may not even be able to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:04 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:18 PM
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This stat is correct but it misses some nuance. From IFPstudies: Using the SIPP, we estimate that just 15% of marriages formed between 2010 and 2012 were divorced after 10 years. And if you look at the graph IFP posts, at 15 years you ae looking at around 27% for those married in the 2000s for 15 years. That number is looking even lower for those who marry in the 2010s (we are just getting to 15 years now). The general divorce rate involves people married tow and three times not first marriages …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:17 PM
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Y’all are messed up. You can see Sweeney’s ribs. She isn’t fat if you can see her ribs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:04 PM
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So, today I discovered they have a professional pillow, fighting competition among men no less on ESPN the Ocho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:02 PM
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No, it’s hypocritical. You can have it as a preference, but it’s still hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:00 PM
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No, actually I think that’s sensible unless you yourself are a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:59 PM
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Depends. If he was offered a threesome, he would he it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:58 PM
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It isn’t. But I’m fine with Indians like you getting paid half the price of American workers over here. I mean, you know, since we are all ultra capitalistic, right? (or why don’t we simply support equal pay for equal work?)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:54 PM
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And lost thier jobs cause of dei? Considering you’re not even in this country, I doubt you have any understanding of what’s actually happening. But a shit ton of men just learned that they are the DEI that they hated. DI doesn’t just cover women. It covers race, which one is a whole lot of minority males just lost out. It covers veterans which are primarily men. It covers the disabled which are also often men. A whole lot of people just learned that they weren’t and the very special class. Numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:50 PM
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I’m sorry man. You sound like such a cool guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:04 PM
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Pressuring people to have sex they don’t want to have creates aversion and that is bad. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-natasha-helfer-podcast/id1455024792?i=1000591485878
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:01 PM
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I think mood impacts how we view our significant others more than we realize. This goes for men as well as women this I think is the source of wife goggles. I used to think my first husband was fairly handsome when things were going well. But I remember this moment when I’d already moved out and we were fighting: I looked at him and thought God you’re so ugly. The difference was how I felt about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:40 PM
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I think the analogy that works is that height for women is like boob size for men. So take me and a friend of mine. I prefer taller men but it’s actually fairly low and my preferences. I also significantly softened my preference in that regard. So when I was young, like 18 and 19, I really wanted a tall guy, but would never refuse to date a short guy. Why, well for Chrissakes I’m 5 feet tall. When I got older, I realized that my heavy preference on height was stupid. Other characteristics were f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:34 PM
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So privilege rich men even more. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:13 PM
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Oh well. Go live over there instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:11 PM
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So import sugar women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:11 PM
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Right now, men are having their foreign wives deported from the US (some women have lost husband’s too). Probably should have voted for the lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:09 PM
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I suppose the only example of that was putting big girls on the sports illustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:18 PM
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There have always been men who check out of marriage. Men have been trashing marriage for years and who tells them that they are going to be lonely depressed cat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:12 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:07 PM
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Ha, lady, we’ve seen those homes! My husband had his own home when we met. He was sleeping on a futon on the floor! I don’t go into his office because it is a disaster. It’s fine - it’s his space - but lord!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:05 PM
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“ No, men didn't use financial leverage to "force" women into marriage.” Only someone who has never cracked a book regarding the history of family could say something as utterly ignorant as this. Why else did men prevent women from entering high paying the high paying professional jobs like lawyer or doctor? Why did women have to sneak into schools as men? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Barry_(surgeon)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:01 PM
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Another burbnbougie fan!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:40 PM
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Living up to your name ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:37 PM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️ right there with you sister (or brother)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:36 PM
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He means that men have never wanted to marry, so why are women making a big deal about it. This is somewhat disingenuous because it is women who are told that they will die alone with cats if they don’t marry, not men, usually by men. So… it really concerns some men if women don’t want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:35 PM
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The Greeks had this right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:33 PM
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Sure. But men aren’t threatens with an old age of isolation and burial via cats if they don’t marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:32 PM
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Yah this is so disingenuous. My credit card is much larger than my husband’s. Why? Because it includes most of the spending for our kids and groceries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:32 PM
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Agreeing entirely with kooky. Don’t buy our mass media presentations of the past as accurate. There weren’t sharks or even naval battles in the Colosseum. Jane Austen had one marriage proposal, and she wasn’t unattractive and of good family. Also, the desire/need for men to marry has also slumped too, which is fine. I think we just talk about the women slump because the social narrative is that - 1) men really don’t want to be married and have to be pinned down or forced into it and - 2) women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:26 PM
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Not really. "hey you're cute and I like your vibe, wanna fuck?" Is how countless people meet. Smh. I’ve never done that in my LIFE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:21 PM
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“ Becoming a woman's slave to get what a sexually attractive man got behind a stinking garbage dumpster 10 mins after meeting her, is humiliating” Do you think women are out fucking Chad behind a garbage dumpster? And if that’s what you think of women, why would you want one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:18 PM
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You can do it, and then the remaining women will just leave. That’s why the app people don’t do it. Men are the customers. Women are the products. They can’t do anything to scare away women. It has nothing to do with feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:33 PM
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I read through their posts - they are dealing with those moocher friends who forget their wallets. The answer is you have to just fade on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:12 PM
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I just cannot understand this. I have gone back to my husband and asked him questions about some of the stuff you guys deal with. Like it just boggled my mind that men here have had women that they’re just dating. Ask them to pay for like a new carburetor or auto repair on new tires. Like just people that they’re dating not even like a serious relationship. I went back to my husband and asked him. He said oh yeah it was a significant problem, particularly among women like 22 or 23. He said I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:10 PM
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Look, all I can say is that those women are worthless. I see the poster below states that women don’t run into this so they don’t understand it. That’s not entirely true. We sometimes do have female friends who conveniently forget their wallets or ask for money or to borrow shit and never return it. I’ve always had to be really close lipped about our finances to avoid friend mooches like this. I think the only thing you can do as a guy is to dump them as friends. If I’ve been in your situation, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:05 PM
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Man, this was really fascinating. I have actually never seen a write up from the boyfriend’s point of view of an orbiter nice guy. This should be pushed to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:58 PM
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What? If he asked me to deliver a note too, I would. This is just low level reciprocity among friends and acquantenances. I opened doors for strangers, I hold elevators for strangers, I’ll return lost packages to my neighbors. It’s just low level reciprocity and sociability that foster good relations among people. It’s really good. The idea is is that they will feel willing to help somebody else out by opening a door for them. Or that if your package is lost, they’ll return it to you. From yeste…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:54 PM
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Ooof no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:51 PM
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Dude right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:49 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:46 PM
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Well, sure. I wouldn’t wanna date a man who said he hated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:45 PM
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You know what’s hilarious is that you think the baggage comes only from Situationships and hook ups. That is hilarious. The worst baggage doesn’t come from the one night stand, the worst baggage comes from discovering that your husband is cheating on you with multiple women. That happened to a friend of mine recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:43 PM
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First you criticize women for not being careful about who they date and that they deserve to be screwed over. And then you criticize women for learning from that, and being much more careful with the next person they date, because that’s so unfair to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:40 PM
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This is crazy making. Humans make poor decisions, learn from those decisions and then apply those lessons to new situations. This is literally how learning happens for human beings. It is absolutely the Hallmark of maturity. You want women to never learn from their mistakes. You want them to be naïve, childlike, and stupid because that makes it easier on you. Yep, being childlike and naïve is what allowed the previous guy to take advantage of her. And yet if she doesn’t learn from her patterns a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:38 PM
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I agree it’s no fun to date somebody bitter or suspicious. That’s said, a lot of guys here are mad that a girl doesn’t go balls to the wall for them immediately like she did it for her first boyfriend. That isn’t being bitter or suspicious. That’s realizing that it is really stupid to overcommit to someone when you don’t know whether that person deserves it or is a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:32 PM
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You probably need to vet a little better. You’re chasing women who date gang bangers. In my entire life, I’ve known of one person and that was over 20 years ago who dated somebody who was in a gang. They broke up. Actually he didn’t do anything bad to her to my recollection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:28 PM
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Yeah, and I guess if men vet wives perfectly, then they should’ve avoid ever being divorced and/or having a dead bedroom, right? So every man who ever gets cheated on by his wife or girlfriend, it’s his fault, right? Because if you had just vetted her, he would’ve entirely avoided it. And every man who gets “divorce raped”, it’s his fault, right? After all if he had done appropriate vetting, the divorce never would’ve happened. Men don’t get to complain about one thing that women ever do to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:26 PM
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I don’t think I mentioned anything about casual sex. That’s said, sex absolutely is experience. Why did I learn so much about how to make my body sing and how to make a man’s body sing by experience with a few different sexual partners. My husband now reaps the true benefit of the fact that I did have a bit of a past before I met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:23 PM
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Let me ask you a question. Say a man goes into his first dating experience. From day one he dumps money all over her, he takes her on a $300 first date, he takes her inexpensive shopping trips, all in the first three months of dating. He’s calling you telling you that she is the one. And then he discovers she’s seeing someone else on the side. Now he’s asking out a new girl. Wouldn’t you advise him to cool his jets, go on less expensive dates, and take it a little more casually until he’s gotten…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:17 PM
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I 100% agree. I hope you stick around. You bring a great deal of nuance. My only comment is that a lot of men here conflate the two. As an example, while I don’t have a particularly high body count, there are men here who think the fact of that I had several sexual partners between my two marriages means that I have baggage. In actuality, those experiences made me a much better lover for my now husband. I also attempted anal sex with my first husband and it sucked. There are men here who will cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:09 PM
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Who was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:29 PM
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Who was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:29 PM
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Barbie was SO GOOD. And it DID have a tremendous positive message for men. Ken was being friend-zoned. Ken broke free to be his own person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:27 PM
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Bruh that isn’t so simple when you’ve grown up among dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:24 PM
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So men who ask for prenups are distrustful and distant?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:14 PM
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Self awareness and self respect comes from experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:11 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:10 PM
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So guys are mad they just can’t abuse her like the last guy did. How sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:08 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:07 PM
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Then don’t. I have never asked nor had a male friend pay for dinner. Not that I can ever think of. Wait maybe once in college but he we were friends and he wanted more. And I didn’t realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:04 PM
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He thinks nice = romantic interest and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:01 PM
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Lmao. The victim complex you have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:56 PM
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Reality: Because women are responsible for the household purchases. https://www.bostonfed.org/publications/research-department-working-paper/2016/the-influence-of-gender-and-income-on-the-household-division-of-financial-responsibility.aspx It isn’t dad buying groceries or shoes for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:55 PM
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I think that’s healthy. I think we see eye to eye but quibble on the phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:53 PM
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Divorcing a husband is a lot harder, takes longer, and leaves us poorer rather than quitting and getting a new job
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:44 PM
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Are those single women single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:42 PM
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Jesus the shit you all down vote lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:35 PM
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They aren’t good options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:34 PM
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One of my husbands friends is an accomplished carpenter. He built our bed from reclaimed heart pine. He is very happily married. Competence is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:33 PM
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“The hillbilly with only 2 teeth can hunt, gut, and skin a deer and have enough meat for a year.” Lmao. look dude, that’s my dad’s family. And the second they could, they got an education stopped that shit because no one wants to be living off old deer meat in a shotgun shack with a broken down car and no access to fucking dental care. You going to want to marry Ruby with two teeth just cause she can break the neck of a chicken with one quick snap (my great granny was a fucking firecracker).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:32 PM
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Body positivity wasn’t about encouraging men to find fat women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:27 PM
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The majority of men aren’t in great jobs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:23 PM
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Is that what you tell your single male friends? Or is it only women who die of loneliness? Why can’t you comprehend that for other people being single is better than being married? You are not the same as others. Jesus, I am married with kids. I don’t sit here telling my single friends they’ll be miserable and die alone without kids or a husband. People are different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:22 PM
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But it’s not being married to Prince Charming, that you have to compare their lives to, it’s being married to the average man. You don’t know that they’d have been happier married to the average man. And many divorced women in their 40s swear off marriage. Divorced men don’t. Why do you suppose that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:20 PM
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“ Also, it's much harder for women to financially support themselves as they age.” Not anymore. That’s the point of women’s lib. Thanks for pointing it out. Men used financial pressure to force women into marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:17 PM
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Me. Twice in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:14 PM
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“…and your boss (that you didn’t choose) will be this great man?” No one thinks that. Women just know that the boss has to pay them and they can ditch him easily as easy as saying “I quit.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:11 PM
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No one gives shit to men about staying unmarried. You regularly see men telling other men to never ever marry. Ever. Does that mean love is less important to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:06 PM
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What the fuck man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:50 PM
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Ooof, nah man, this pill stuff long predates Tate and 2022. If anything it’s been dropping off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:50 PM
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It’s so strange how men immediately go running back into relationships on average even after divorce if their spouses are so awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:44 PM
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Yes, and who is perpetrating that? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:42 PM
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Fuck yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:40 PM
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Pedro Pascal is pretty fucking good looking if you like that lithe hawk-nosed Hispanic look.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:39 PM
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Adam Sandler is not that attractive. Now, Jack Black? I’d take Jack Black over Adam Sandler any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:36 PM
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Go on show me the ugly female movie star.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:33 PM
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According to my husband, he got more play when he was an auto mechanic then when he became a white-collar IT guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:32 PM
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And I really do understand the frustration. You feel like you’re talking to a brick wall. You point out the behavior, they acknowledge yes that thing happened as bad, and yet they still go back. But the individuals who are caught in the cycle of violence, have a marinating in it since they were tiny. It is the water they swim in. It is incredibly difficult to break free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:28 PM
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This exactly. I personally hate Fifty Shades of Grey. But considering my past, I’m pretty sensitive to psychological abuse, which is actually right throughout that book. But I and my friends used to joke that that book would be true crime if it happened in real life. Just like people can be titillated by playing call of duty and Larping as mass murderers, but never want to experience that in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:19 PM
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“Nearly 4% of men reported violent behavior toward an intimate partner in the past year. In unadjusted models, we found a strong association between childhood witnessing of intimate partner violence and adulthood perpetration (for witnessing any intimate partner violence, risk ratio [RR] = 2.6 [95% confidence interval = 2.1–3.2]; for witnessing frequent or serious violence, 3.0 [2.3–3.9]). In propensity-score models, the association was substantially attenuated (for witnessing any intimate partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:15 PM
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This is why people point out you yourself are a red flag: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27436859/ You don’t know shit about the cycle of abuse even though you grew up right inside of it. People who witnessed and experienced physical abuse grow up to be abusers statistically speaking and/or become abused. Why? Because it feels normal. I - just like you - came from a household like that. My first husband was abusive - not physically so much as mentally. Below I’ve copy-pasted from a comment expl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:09 PM
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I’d say that marriage is less about material demands now than before
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:44 PM
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Men have less friends than even women do. So what is this, “ Turns out women couldn’t have their cake and eat it too”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:42 PM
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Is that your view on prenupts Because men sure like them. My parents divorced. My now husband’s parents divorced. My brother divorced. I had to divorce my first husband because he was a dick. I always plan for rain. It’s why I am a solid insurance coverage attorney. My now husband and I aren’t fools. We sat down and discussed the what ifs of divorce before we married. We are still married 18 years later. I think one of the reasons we are is that we chose each other with our hearts and our heads.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:37 PM
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I’m not sure whether you’re married or not, but take this from somebody who has been married for quite a while. There’s nothing more corrosive than one party feeling taken advantage of. If one party is constantly picking up the slack, it’s going to build resentment and destroy the marriage. Usually, what happens is that a person will feel taken advantage of over an extended period of time. And then start to bean count. When that happens, you’re on a really bad road. So yes, it’s really important…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:24 PM
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as if men don’t keep score.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:18 PM
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Time has told.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:17 PM
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Do we really think TikTok creators are representative? If a woman cries that she’s not getting married on TikTok, you’ll post her and say oh look all women hitting 30 panic about how they should’ve gotten married. If a woman posts how she’s super happy being single and loving a single life on TikTok, you claim that the lady doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:17 PM
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Same same but you and I are professionals and run in professional circles. We don’t have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:15 PM
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Pass that on to the men and their fucking Raptors and video games
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:13 PM
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Uh, be able to leave an asshole husband? Be able to save for retirement? Be able to take care of my kids if something happens to my husband. Take my kids to Rome. Send them to college. Get healthcare. Have a pet cat. The same thing men use money for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:12 PM
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Course correctly by making measles great again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:00 PM
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Please note, I didn’t say anywhere the polling can be trusted. It just gives us some indications
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:59 PM
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Libs are armed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:55 PM
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Only if you rescued a kitten too. Otherwise fuck dem kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:52 PM
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That’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:51 PM
3

Women don’t threaten to take men’s rights away; men do threaten to take women’s rights away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:23 PM
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It’s funny. The other side never worries about alienating women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:20 PM
2

Well this superior, non-emotional, and bery logical commentator thinks screaming “commie” is erudite analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:14 PM
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You: Says something offensive to women and ‘queers’ People offended You: oh you are offended. I scored a point! Yes I am very smahrt. 🙄 Behold the “logical” sex everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:10 PM
0

Right… “queers…”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:07 PM
1

I am aware. I am merely commenting on GenZ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:04 PM
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Trump isn’t fucking it up. This was the plan - it is literally laid out in project 2025. He always intended to put RFK jr at HHS. He always intended to put tariffs on everything. He made attempts in his first term to take over Greenland. Now his admin is fermenting civil unrest there. He always intended to round up, incarcerate, and expel immigrants - legal or not. He always intended to fuck voting and entrench himself and the GOP. He tried doing it in my state. This was all clear as a bell. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:04 PM
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Well, if you voted Trump you don’t give one shit about honor, character, or integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:50 PM
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Laughing my ASS off on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:49 PM
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Considering the massive change in the polling of GenZ against Trump, we’ll see how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:11 PM
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I’ll give you the LTR - and this is for men and women. One’s spouse must be good enough so that the value of one’s life married must exceed that of one’s life single. Men have made this decision freely their entire lives for many years. Now women can do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:10 PM
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Did you see my comment “same for men?” because they don't realize that while they don't want someone who is subpar, they themselves are subpar. Which is why at best, they end up being only useful for sex by a top tier guy that you're sharing with other women, then replaced with the next I have a few comments regarding the biases you reveal in this. why do you assume that women don’t accurately assess their value as a relationship material? The study show that men are the ones with an inflated vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:05 PM
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Gotcha. Never forget, the US was settled by the fucking religious wackadoodles of Europe. And criminals… We never seem to have gotten over our puritan past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:36 PM
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The various studies done of this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:34 PM
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Are you for real? You've never heard to mothers pestering their sons to find a good woman and settle down? Mom is nagging you? Mom nagged me too. And you know who else nagged me? - my dad. - every preacher in every church I went to. - random men and women on the internet and in real life’. To this day men here constantly tell women they better settle down in their twenties right now or they”ll be old hangs at midnight on their 30th birthday. - constant RW think pieces saying we need to roll back…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:31 PM
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lol. The hypocrisy - “no we can’t pressure men! They’ll be even more resentful!” And why aren’t you concerned that pressuring women will make them even more resentful too? Why privilege one over the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:16 PM
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This is some crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:30 PM
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They do for generations, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:11 PM
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Considering women face high levels of intimate violence, it seems the ones who are nice to men are the ones punished
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:10 PM
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How exactly are women to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:40 PM
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No. To be honest, considering the risk that amend themselves face from other men, you think that men would be far more understanding of women and their concerns. After all you’re facing similar threats. Yet, men are actually very dismissive of women’s concerns, even though they themselves face heightened risks from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:34 PM
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“ Progressive women are screaming from the rooftops that is the last thing they want.” No, they want good husbands or long term companions but will stay single otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:20 PM
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“ There's no both men and women, women alone, solely by their own free will and volition creates the dating market via incentives.” Ah yes Schrodinger’s men - both super powerful builds society yet unable to say no to women. .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:15 PM
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Damn yes. I’d also include that women too get addicted to social media interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:12 PM
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I mean, why would someone date or marry someone subpar. If we don’t need to marry, why should we? Same for men btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:10 PM
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No. It isn’t the same now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:05 PM
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I lived in a progressive area of Va as well. My family was/is atheist. Nonetheless….
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:05 PM
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I’m sure they fuck with men also
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:01 PM
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“ It’s not trust issues, it’s clarity of just how untrustworthy people with that many options should be considered.” It always has been that way yet women cheat less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:00 PM
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I don’t think I can describe in simpler terms that I am not idealizing anything. I am also not arguing women shouldn’t marry. What I am saying is that a single woman won’t die alone in misery. What fascinates me though is how you ignore half of the equation. Do advise men they need to marry and have many kids for the good of society. See how that goes. I’m sure it won’t take very long to hear the comment “divorce rape.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:58 AM
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Let me know when anyone gets around to pressuring men to marry and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:50 AM
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nobody heard the term situationship a decade ago It was called FWB. And uncommitted fuck buddy relationships were around when my brother was in college in the early 90s. and women didn't complain about a lack of commitment nearly as much today. Oh yes they did. clearly there are a lot of women on the apps who are going for men they don't qualify for long-term and they're not doing it because they don't want relationships themself Most women aren’t on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:47 AM
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Because they aren’t pressured. No one is nagging my kids to date or marry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:44 AM
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Many women are avid hikers. You don’t actually hike or you’d see that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:42 AM
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No it isn’t. Anyone who actually hikes knows that women are avid hikers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:42 AM
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It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:40 AM
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Lmao it’s a fucking comedienne
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:34 AM
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The elites die without consumers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:29 AM
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The elites want people to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:29 AM
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Have you seen the birth rate in China? They actually are considered to have been lying about their population and are in free fall. And you want to live in Afghanistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:19 AM
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AI is absolutely failing at soft skills jobs. Shit it encourages people to kill themselves and others. It actually facilitates paranoia. L-M-A-O
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:18 AM
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You are so unconcerned you had to make sure you told me you are so very … unconcerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:12 AM
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How does it feel to know that cats are better companions than men? Women wouldn’t choose cats if men weren’t so useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:11 AM
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The oracle of Omaha disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:56 AM
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Yup!! Someone knows some history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:54 AM
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Lmao - the Amish
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:53 AM
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It t’aint going to work out well for men either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:52 AM
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Nah it is a SKULL issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:30 AM
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Hey that was shockingly good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:59 AM
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I love Bruce
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:58 AM
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Here and on Natalism, it turns into a discussion of stripping women of their rights or preventing their education. Men aren’t threatened. I’m sure men do get some static but the focus seems to always be on women. My point is that it’s both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:57 AM
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This I think is an ignored point. Everyone keeps pointing to women as the reason why we don’t have as many kids as we used to. I think it’s just women finally matching men. Lots of men don’t want kids. They don’t want the responsibility. And for years now it’s been a woman’s desire for kids that has driven to birth rate. That an unreliable birth control. Now we have reliable birth control, and women don’t really want kids as much. They have heard society say that being a single mother or having …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:35 PM
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It's insane that women believe a childless, solitary society of lonely geriatrics is a bright, progressive future we should be looking forward to. This is what is called a strawman. Nowhere did I argue that we should have a society without children. Why don’t you do me a favor and be honest debater - address what I actually said, which is that a single women dying alone in misery is simply your revenge fantasy and without evidentiary support. To my examples: My MIL: my point is that she has no h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:29 PM
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It’s weird, men have been told that for years. Why is it feminist messaging. We are just joining with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:15 PM
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Aw I am wishing you the best potato. I love a man with a sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:14 PM
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Sure sure right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:11 PM
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It is imposible for women to be having LESS sex and still be engaging in the cock carousel. The cock carousel requires many different cocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:10 PM
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Hunter gatherers are still around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:05 PM
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This was in Virginia
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:04 PM
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Because it’s just a link to an opinion piece on the study. When I try to click through, I get tons of warnings at the study is at an untrusted site. The psychologist that’s actually named appears to be legitimate and somebody who worked with Dr Buss. But I still not seeing the original study how it was conducted or the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:00 PM
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That (third) paragraph is such revenge fantasy. For years men have threatened women with the cat lady claim. But there is limited empirical evidence for it. It ignores the truth that women tend to outlive their spouses. Thus women are well aware that they are likely going to be spending many years alone and without a sexual companion whether they get married or not. My mother-in-law is a prime example of this. She has outlived her ex-husband, my father-in-law, by almost 20 years. She has outlive…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:59 PM
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LMAO. Have you studied anthro? I’m guessing no. All that shit about paternal certainty didn’t really kick in until the development of agriculture. Kids were considered and cared for by the tribe in general and any man that didn’t pull his weight was out the door. By whom? Oh the other men. And they knew who was fucking who. None of this secret shit because you are sharing houses with a lot of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:09 PM
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That doesn’t appear to be a legit study
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:03 PM
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remember back in the day when we teen girls were reading magazines about how to please a boy, how to become the perfect gf, how to find all the romantic love. We would all dream about being partnered up to our lovely boyfriends. Being in a relationship was absolute standard and everything else made you weird. My own grandma told me I need to pick a nice boy or I will be a lonely cat lady. I cried when I turned 16 because I didn't had a proper boyfriend yet. The pressure was wild. Oh yes. Those a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:00 PM
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Men are nothing but perpetual man babies whose only interest is lame video games where they larp as true chads when they can’t shoot a pistol or throw a punch. Oh sorry does the truth hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:14 PM
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“How about someone who enjoy hiking, when women apparently dry up and die once they’re separated from their cosmetics?” That says a lot more about you and the women you approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:11 PM
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Snork. The only reason the Amish or the religious Jewish community can exist is because the dominant liberal society cossets them. That goes away so do they. Won’t be so comfy. Every other society has cratering birthrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:10 PM
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Just admit you are incredibly ignorant of other cultures. There have been many societies that recognize a third gender and it has ZERO impact on family cohesion. And sorry, women aren’t going back to the kitchen and second class status.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:09 PM
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“ It's like the feminists said treat all guns as loaded.” Those are weapons safety experts not feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:13 PM
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In a small tribe of 25? Which is how we used to live for most of human evolution? Yes he would. Anyone who didn’t help out and tried to shirk his responsibilities was gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:04 PM
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I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:02 PM
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Yes it is entirely accurate. I was there. Being a single women from 16-25 and not dating meant you were a social reject. Shit my dad called me at college deeply concerned I wasn’t dating. We could choose our partners but we still had to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:01 PM
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That women aren’t riding the cock carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:59 PM
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And it’s backfiring. Birth rate cratering. Abortion rate even higher. Good job revanchists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:56 PM
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Yah this is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:55 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:54 PM
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👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:54 PM
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“ I’m fortunate enough I can be selective. As we all should, to a degree. Nobody should be forced to be in a relationship with someone they don’t like.” Then stop clutching your pearls and engaging in the typical misogynistic threat to women that if they remain single, they will die in misery and be eaten by cats. You know it isn’t true for you. And I know way too many single ladies who are doing great without kids or husbands. They aren’t noticeably more sad or stressed or depressed. To your ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:54 PM
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Why have men always been down on marriage and called their wives balls-and-chains?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:44 PM
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No but we lived in small tribes and men or women kicked out for abandoning ended up dead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:43 PM
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Both men and women date less, have sex less, and marry less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:38 PM
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“ Why would women not want a best friend who they are also romantically involved with to share life, household and basically everything with?” Because that isn’t how it works out often, as many divorced people will tell you. “The rest of your post is basically a kid who ate candy all day because his parent went away thinking "Do i want to eat vegetables or was it just pressure?". If dating is the same as eating vegetables, then maybe that tells you the problem. By the way, she’s entirely right. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:38 PM
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The surveys show that men and women in Gen Z are having less sex, so no women aren’t riding the cock carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:34 PM
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What you miss is that a lot of women are simply not dating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:33 PM
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You said this below: “ To be fair, I’d rather be single than partner up with 99% of women.” Are you concerned about isolation and loneliness or do you think only women are afflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:32 PM
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French prime minister
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:12 PM
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Two nights ago, I hung off the bed so my husband could throat fuck me. If you have a wife, I doubt she’s touched your shriveled dick in years. Poor woman, she probably has to take Xanax and whiskey to cope. I’ll say a little prayer for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:09 PM
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She’s not longing for the first guy. She’s remembering good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:37 PM
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Yah that is dead right. I’ve seen that pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:34 PM
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Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:34 PM
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I have two human babies and five fur babies and a husband. Tell me all about my bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:33 PM
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Or you know, we had bad experiences and want to warn younger women off. It’s hilarious. You shit on women for failing to recognize red flags but then shit on women trying to help girls to recognize those red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:27 PM
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More revenge fantasy. You should hit AO3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:25 PM
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One person. ONE. Most people like me don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:21 PM
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Lmao. That’s what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:18 PM
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My single friends were great and are great
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:13 PM
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Men turn everything into hypergamy. Marry a man taller, that’s hypergamy. Marry a man with a college education, hypergamy. It has no meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:11 PM
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Men lie about wanting a relationship when they only want a hook up and because of that, the advice they get is poor. That you spent paragraphs mocking Lilith without addressing her point is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:45 PM
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JFC, something is wrong with people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:36 PM
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There is probably a narrow set of yuppie social climbers or teen girls who do this shit. Otherwise, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:35 PM
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No OP slammed western women first. It’s amazing how passport pros can’t seem to ever advocate for their lifestyle without shitting all over western women. So don’t start none if you don’t want none
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:14 PM
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I need to look at it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:21 AM
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Men want to spread their seed. Women want to lock down one guy. nope. Women like to fuck different guys. Men want to fuck every woman. Women want to fuck ONE guy. nah dude. Women like diversity too. Otherwise they’d never cheat but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:18 AM
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She probably knows more about her parents that you do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:16 AM
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“ . With this in mind, I cannot be expected to navigate autism being linked to hitting a pregnant woman.” Yeah, I was expecting that reaction out of you. No this is what happens when somebody who was autistic, but never received the counseling that he needed, then completely fucked up, raising his daughter who was also significantly autistic. A whole lot of inability to appropriately process social cues and understanding when you come across as an argument with a bitch. My dad was never able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:05 AM
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Yes, because if your personality isn’t pleasant in a low stress situation where we’re just shooting the shit, why would I think it would be better if we got into in-depth conversations? I’m gonna be honest with you. I’ve already left this post elsewhere, but do your behavior and the comments that you’re making on this thread in an attempt to equate protesting and moving forward for improve circumstances for certain swats of society like the disabled to people personally benefiting you and you al…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:40 AM
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“ Does going on a few dates with a socially awkward guy require more effort than going to protests or voting? Yes.” You no longer have to convince me you are autistic. Jesus F Christ. There is no way in HELL I’d want to be married to you, date you, or have a cup of coffee with you. And I am right now MARRIED to a man likely on the spectrum. Let me explain, I want to go on a protest, even if it’s more effort than to go on a boring date with somebody I have no interest in romantically. By going on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:33 AM
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“… and women in particular are completely excempted from doing their share in solving the problem.” It is not women’s problem to solve your autism related dating difficulties - that is your problem. Holy entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:24 AM
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Awkward can also be difficult. To spell it out, though, you seem unable to understand why people who value personality are not willing to push through bad or uncomfortable personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:22 AM
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Not really. Our subconscious minds are deep and they can be influenced by things that have no effect on us. yes, our minds can be influenced subconsciously, but you posited something with intent - that women expect autistic men to be asexual worker drones. That requires collective thought. Dx of autism? I don’t know what you mean by that. I would like clarity on that please. Dx = diagnosis. When my husband was a kid, the smart solitary boys weren’t diagnosed with autism. Instead the focus was on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:18 AM
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Please let me know when wheelchair users get special dating privileges. Oh they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:49 PM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:48 PM
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Since I value personality highly, an abrasive or difficult personality is a turn off. Boy right here is an example of the theory of the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:47 PM
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May I ask why? (No shame) I could hazard a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:43 PM
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So we should go on a date with some one we don’t want to date? Why, just to hurt them when after three dates we say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:41 PM
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Many people don’t know someone is autistic off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:39 PM
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I am married to a very likely autistic man. My daughter is on the spectrum and my experience with her has opened my eyes to the fact that my sister and father are both likely autistic. Your comment is rather revealing: OP isn’t just complaining that dating sucks for the autistic. He is also demanding that women make special efforts for men who are autistic. That last part? That’s really offensive. Cannot you not see how that lands entirely differently than lamenting the shittyness of struggling …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:37 PM
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I mean I assume I’m fairly NT, but I too have to “mask” - ie be conscious of social cues and not be a bore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:11 PM
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Nope I did. But your next paragraph is frankly confused. It seems to be saying you should be treated just like a NT man, but you aren’t an NT man. And not all NT men are treated the same. OP is asking for special treatment, the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:10 PM
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“ Then autistic men can’t even say that we want to be romantically seen without someone saying that we want special treatment.” Because you are asking for special treatment. You want a girl, who is not attracted to you or your personality, to go on a date with you to see if on the off chance she might grow to like you. (And she doesn’t want to be accused of leading you on or just using you for dinner if no attraction develops).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:47 PM
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They really aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:42 PM
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Does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:42 PM
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This is really helpful and I’m sharing with my daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:41 PM
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This is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:40 PM
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This is why people try hard not to hurt others feelings when letting them down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:38 PM
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Clearly not everyone. I think it’s shallow, but I also don’t bitch at them for having those standards. And if the guy is 22 I get it. I won’t waste my time telling them to date someone older. In fact it’s a great way to weed out potential bad dates. We aren’t compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:38 PM
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It does. That’s the funny thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:34 PM
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If you want to compare racial minorities - we legalized marriage between black and white people in Loving. We did NOT compel or guilt trip people into dating across racial lines. Autistic people get job protections and can marry. We do not pressure people into dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:33 PM
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this but I do believe NT people (especially women) have a subconscious thought that all autistic men should be nothing more than asexual worker drones. Nah man, this is absolutely conspiracy level thinking. That women don’t want to date autistic men doesn’t mean that they believe those men should be asexual worker drones. It means that those women don’t want to date them, just like women don’t want to date short fat guys. And just as men don’t want to date really fat girls. They think, “not for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:26 PM
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Obesity is something which you can change for the better way easier than autism, let alone your height. It’s a bad analogy. Do tell me how one changes one’s height? Expensive and painful surgery? Weight is a perfect analogy. Most people fail to lose weight and often regain everything they’ve lost. It’s why it’s so important to avoid it to begin with, especially as kids. But with lots of hard work, one can lose it and keep it under control. Same for autism. One can work very hard, learn social cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:01 PM
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What’s good for the goose is good for the gander
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:50 PM
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Why do divorced men get remarried so quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:49 PM
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Yah, men do. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/mar/12/marriage-triples-obesity-men-women-study That’s fine if you don’t want to get married, but don’t blame it on women getting fat. T’aint women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:47 PM
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Men abandon their own children. Taps sign of passport bros fucking and moving on. https://medium.com/pixel-magazine/the-forgotten-americans-meet-the-abandoned-children-of-u-s-military-servicemen-abroad-3fc54f8cd8f3 https://www.theguardian.com/world/2012/dec/31/amerasians-philippines-american-army
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:38 PM
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Not that many. Some.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:32 PM
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Most women don’t think about autistic people at all unless they are related to them or dating them. It’s not some conspiracy. (Autistic men do get married - my husband is very likely autistic). You could easily replace “fat” or “short” or “ugly” in your statement. Should men give fat women extra chances to see if she has a great personality? No? The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:09 PM
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Because he doesn’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:03 PM
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Men are superficial. Women do care about personality more - that’s why autistic men struggle but a NT man will date an autistic woman. The NT man just cares about her body. The woman cares about body and personality. (Obv generalizing, many men care about personality too)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:02 PM
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“ What is the benefit having "social skills" if you aren't social?” If you are dating that is social.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:58 PM
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Men openly claim that women are past the wall at 30 all the time, long before menopause. Never been here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:56 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:52 PM
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You are missing my point - men in their 20s want to pick hot girls and regularly tell us that her career, her stability, and her education is irrelevant. Men are shallow. But then men want women to choose them for their career, stability, and education, and minimize stuff like personality and looks. If you want to be valued for stability etc, you need to find a girl that feels the same and she might not be the hottest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:00 PM
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the birth rate is quite low or lower than the US in all those passport bro locations in SEA. Most countries are below replacement rate. “…and here are two annoying kids that will drain your pockets” I appreciate your willingness to recognize men’s roles in declining birth rates. It’s so nice not to hear women blamed for once. - “Gen Z just watched a generation of men who “did everything right” get passed over because they weren’t Chad…” but they weren’t passed over by your own telling. They were…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:51 PM
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“ . No "HOT GIRL Summer", No throwing it back. No hoe phase..” There is a guy below saying he regularly gets ONS and hook ups with Asian girls. Sounds like the women have hoe phases and aren’t traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:19 PM
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EU women are western
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:17 PM
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Below he does hook ups and one night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:15 PM
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“ News flash, people don't want most western women.” This right there. You just have to slam “western women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:11 PM
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Those are two different things. Women are also engaging in sex tourism (gross). But tourists (male and female) have been preyed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:08 PM
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Reading the summary of that book indicates that the women are looking for money and love. But also money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:06 PM
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I’m related to several “passport bros.” My step brother is in Switzerland married to a Swiss lady. My cousin is in Japan married to a Japanese lady. My dad had a taste for the foreign as my mom is Cuban and my step mom German. Love is where you find it. That said, passport bros get a lot of hate for three reasons. First, men regularly trash western women but then go to play the same games. They bitch that women are too transactional and whine about beta buxxing but then run to poor countries to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:04 PM
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You know men gain more weight than women, right? After marriage/ltrs?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:19 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:13 PM
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Child support is for your own child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:11 PM
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Yah men sucked abandoning their children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:02 PM
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Early societies were not monogamous. How many wives and concubines did Solomon and King David have?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:02 PM
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“…and matching politics (ideological transaction).” This is about values not a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:56 PM
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There are more and more women breadwinners each year
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:53 PM
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I mean, I tried to go Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:52 PM
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Yea, if your grandma had nothing more to offer than being a domestic servant, I’m sure she has that view. It’s sad she was raised during a time when women were deliberately excluded from higher education and more remunerative employment. My husband recognizes the time value of money, and it makes far more sense for me to make money than house clean (same for him). We hire people. We both cook because we are both capable. We work together to raise our children, save for retirement, and keep the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:47 PM
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Nope. All you need is a woman’s consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:27 PM
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The eternal double standards - men who are primarily offering stability, reliability, and financial security in their 20s want women who value that over looks and charisma, but those same men won’t value women for stability, reliability, or financial security. Instead, those men want to have a really hot woman. In other words, he wants to be shallow and value a woman primarily for her looks and her agreeableness, but he doesn’t want her to be so shallow as the value him by the same metrics. As a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:22 PM
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And yet, still boring. Weird how much you guys hate dancing. A woman who can dance is good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:21 AM
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Normal women don’t think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:20 AM
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So, your interests are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:05 AM
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She should get her own young stud.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:02 AM
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Don’t blame you one bit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:01 AM
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You did. Your word games obfuscate nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:00 AM
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And that excuses you using another person? Have some fucking intestinal fortitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:58 AM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:37 AM
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Nah he’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:36 AM
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Raises hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:36 AM
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I also have had my own dogs. Norwegian Elkhounds aren’t personal protection dogs. Quick refresher: from Oxford for analogy. a correspondence or partial similarity. a thing which is comparable to something else in significant respects. You analogized getting a young wife to a puppy. You also said, “Way too much time and hassle to mature a new woman out of pure solipsism and into a human being with whom it is pleasant to be in an intimate relationship.” Ergo, wiggle as you might, you’ve made it cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:48 PM
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Lmao, “I love using other people for my own ends - why won’t hotter people let me use them?” Exactly why it’s bs men here claim ugly men would be so loyal. I hope your girlfriend gets on Ozempic and dumps your ass. I hope she leaves her shoe prints over you as she walks to the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:37 PM
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Way too much time and hassle to mature a new woman out of pure solipsism and into a human being with whom it is pleasant to be in an intimate relationship. But everyone, when he refers to women as 12 year old puppies, he doesn’t really mean he’s going to train her or mold her to his personal desires. (Even though that is exactly why dog trainers select puppies at around 12 weeks of age), he wants to “mature” her out of her selfishness. Buddy, you ain’t as smart as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:34 PM
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Aw glad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:31 PM
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“Spinning plates.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:31 PM
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I try to take pauses too but some of this shit is so infuriating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:30 PM
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How many men are falsely accused of sexual assault and lose everything? Oh you can’t quantify it? Why are you complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:30 PM
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I find old men worthless like old horses. They just can’t be broken to the bit. Oh I’m sorry, was that offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:22 PM
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You did. But a woman’s “value” in a relationship increases substantially as she matures out of pure solipsism into the true fullness of womanhood. If a mature woman is valuable in a relationship as she matures out of selfishness, why would you go after a younger woman? The reason we select puppies is that they are most amendable and open for training at that point. Yes I am a dog person. That is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:20 PM
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Am a dog person. My husband is a serious dog trainer with his own malinois in personal protection. The cops love her. The reason one goes after a puppy at 12 weeks is to establish a stronger master-subordinate relationship when the puppy is highly impressionable and also before its first of several fear periods. And note it says nothing about trainer’s age in this analogy. We go after young animals for their receptiveness to training and that is damn well what you meant about women. Why? You gav…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:15 PM
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lol right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:24 PM
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Boy gotta name or is it Boy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:18 PM
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I’m happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:18 PM
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Interesting weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:17 PM
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YUP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:16 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:13 PM
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No, most common is that man gets tired of the hard work involved in family and kids. Then he has an affair because it’s all easy and light. Then he cries ugly tears when wifey finds out and divorces his ass. It’s why men cheat and don’t leave but women cheat to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:04 PM
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Yah, fair. I feel like your circumstances are different
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:01 PM
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There is some jerk here who periodically tells me my husband is sleeping with a young nubile intern.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:58 PM
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“ that when you bring a new dog into your life it’s optimal to start forming that relationship when the dog is 8-10 weeks old, maybe 12 at a stretch. Translated to women, that’s 20-25 years old.” W-O-W. So women need to be trained at a young age to be subservient pets? And you have to get them young enough so they will mold to you? u/burbnbougie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:56 PM
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“ Men don't do that.” yes, a portion of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:52 PM
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“ Harem of rotated replaceable fresh and perky meat is women's perception of what men want.” Based on the actions and statements of many men. Women pay attention to what men say and do. Don’t imply this is all in our “perception,” as if it has no legitimacy. “Not every man is a nomadic warlord from the middle ages.” But many would live as one if they could, at least as far as sex is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:50 PM
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I’m heterosexual and not asexual. I somewhat agree with the OP’s take. And I came to that based on having two children. I was shocked how much work - and I was not naive - kids have placed on me and my career. And I have an excellent husband. Before kids keeping it 50/50 was easy. Afterwards it was difficult. And men really seem to discount that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:04 AM
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You don’t have to fight it out in court
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:45 PM
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No the state doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:45 PM
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If it keeps happening, stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:41 PM
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They all want to pretend ugly guys are good. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:39 PM
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Irrelevant “whatabout argument.” Women aren’t lying to get sex; men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:38 PM
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Running a train is a lot different than having many sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:36 PM
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Just remember, he himself is very well educated. I think his wife is as well, and I bet he’ll be sending his daughters to college as well as his sons. So much for iNdOcTriNaTiOn. It’s stretches credulity to think that living in a rural monoculture exposes one to more information or knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:59 PM
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Industrialization and urbanization. That is the most convincing explanation I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:54 PM
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I found the titanic love story boring, Rose annoying, who ever deCaprio played annoying. I watched for the special effects and recreation of the sinking. I highly recommend all the ocean liner designs on YouTube with amazing discussions of the events as it unfolded. And shout out to the hero Captain of the Carpathian, who steamed through a fucking ice field at night to rescue everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:49 PM
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You should ask a middle aged guy about his ex wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:43 PM
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And how many men call women sluts and whores for having too much sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:39 PM
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Then the guy should move on rather than pretending to keep liking the woman for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:38 PM
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So pretend to like someone for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:38 PM
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Yes we should trust none of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:37 PM
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Women do learn. And then men bitch that she fucked some guy in three dates but made you wait five.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:04 PM
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“ Because it increases his chances?” User. Don’t ever bitch about being taken advantage of for dinners. “Scammed” “ But the woman in this scenario tried to use sex as a bargaining chip to get something from a man, who is more or less a stranger usually.” Lmao. Meanwhile men bitch she won’t give sex on date 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:01 PM
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And if they glow up, they dump you. And lord, these guys are the biggest misandrists
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:00 PM
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My dad??? Lmao. I was living three states away in my 20s when I was looking for a husband. You expect to have my dad, a cheating SOB, to figure it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:58 PM
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No it isn’t an equal exchange of value where she only has sex in a committed relationship and you don’t. But don’t ever bitch about being an orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:55 PM
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“Spin plates”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:47 PM
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I put all my time into education (and some into staying physically fit). I make six figures and have for years as an attorney. I’m married to a dude that does well. Those who put all their efforts into looks, especially women, are fucked. They find themselves out on their ass in their mid 40s with nothing. Happens all the time. Happened to my SIL. Super cute. Dumb as toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:39 PM
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That attitude shows you are of poor mate quality and will make a terrible father.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:35 PM
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Uh huh. Guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:32 PM
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Holy hell, yes. I found all these men positively desperate to marry around 30 A majority of college graduates between 28 and 33 are in their high-commitment years and likely to propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:18 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:15 AM
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Love your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:13 AM
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“ frankly women’s interests and humor sucks.” The casual misandry there. “Men ares better because I say so” /s Or maybe men are very juvenile and immature and their humor never got past seven grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:11 AM
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Again, why assume that the next woman would be so much better than the last that he’d wife her up? Date x 6 years. She’s not good enough to marry but good enough to live with? Have kids? Then he’s out the door. And grabs the next woman. Why assume that woman is so much better or is really the one he wants to marry. I mean, if he had high standards? Wouldn’t he be expected to date a bunch? I guess I could see it both ways. I’ve seen the time waster who wasted a friend’s time… and yah I always fel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:21 PM
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“ It's very hard for women to acknowledge this, since it essentially happens because the man you were with didn't consider you attractive/good enough for marriage, but it's the truth.” I don’t entirely disagree BUT why do the men magically find their most attractive option six months later
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:40 PM
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This is a remarkably ahistoric view
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:25 PM
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I hate that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:16 PM
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You want your wife to dress in a mou mou?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:14 PM
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My husband lived part of his life in Philly working for the mob. The Italians and the black men know how to dress. Brrrr. RIZZZZ And I enjoy the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:13 PM
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You should.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:12 PM
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Men look so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:09 PM
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Women are expected to be providers as well. Women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:03 PM
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Well that I agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:20 PM
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I am going to support workhouses for men who become in arrears in child support. You get behind, you go to a work house until you work off your debt. All men also will need their dna taken so we can make sure all deadbeats who run off get brought back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:14 PM
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I look forward to all men in non abortion states being sent to work camps the second they get in arrears on child support. I also look forward to mandatory blood donation, liver donation, etc. since bodily autonomy is irrelevant doncha know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:06 PM
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This is pathetic. God damned, imagine being this privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:54 PM
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I’m an attorney. If you are trying to opine on reproductive rights without reading the foundational cases (add Griswold v Connecticut), I will mock you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:51 PM
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This is a public sub. I don’t think you know what the word “spy” means
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:15 PM
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Are you fucking kidding me? Alcohol?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:54 PM
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Feminism doesn’t have a war on marriage. That is so tiresome. I am a feminist. I have always been a feminist. I am also married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:52 PM
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Or men self medicate with alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:49 PM
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Goddamned this list 🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:48 PM
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I donno. I think of my closest two female friends and I - I never got their taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:45 PM
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Sex crispies usually has good things to say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:42 PM
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So you want to be lied to? Or alone? Because you aren’t Chad? I’m a basic Becky. I’m attractive enough. I know my husband loves me and wants to sleep with me and vice versa. Why would I want to hurt myself by forcing him up admit I’m not a 10/10 in looks? As long as I’m the best for him, good. As long as he remains grateful and happy to be my husband, good. This goes the other way. And looks fade boyo. You are going to be a 2 in a decade or few.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:36 PM
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Bullshit. A big chunk of this is male driven
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:59 AM
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And you claim men are logical???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:04 PM
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No they can’t, anymore than fat women can blame men for not finding fat attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:02 PM
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Many commenters here regularly want to ban dating apps, ban BC, and remove women’s right to vote
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:01 PM
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“Logical. Women (and men's) attraction standards changed dramatically even since the 90s and 00s.” Nope. They haven’t changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:58 PM
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Men do tend to have beautiful voices
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:47 PM
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Definitely with you on the filtering
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:47 PM
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Ah sending good vibes lady
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:45 PM
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I like men’s raunchy humor. They tend to be a bit more laid back. And they are usually easier to socially navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:44 PM
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Men tend not to want to be teachers, although they are good at it too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:39 PM
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Women did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:38 PM
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More personal responsibility I see
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:38 PM
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I am a woman and I really agree with this. It would make it so much easier for me to know who truly is interested in me as a person beyond those who are just looking for sex until the one he wants comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:37 PM
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No, most men really can’t just go to a poorer country. Stop treating women as a commodity that you can go to Walmart for. Compatibility should matter. But yes men are human and want a good match too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:35 PM
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Go get it short king. (I’m married to a 5/7 man)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:33 PM
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🙌🙌🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:26 AM
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“Women that don't have a husband and kids often end up alienating themselves from their social networks.” Uh no, it’s the opposite. Women- married and single - do a tremendous amount to maintain far more extensive social networks than men. It’s been studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:25 AM
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Ok gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:23 AM
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You would be entirely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:22 AM
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Your wife or girlfriend doesn’t much like you I guess. I ride reverse cowgirl all the time and suck his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:20 AM
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I have a husband and he’s pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:18 AM
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Squeallll!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:18 AM
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Hope you get your house
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:15 AM
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Well and that is the point. It is a reversal of a lot of the very shitty posts aimed at women. But you are right - the answer is to date better men. Me, I’ve got a great husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:14 AM
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Good don’t date a woman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:12 AM
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MEN are also supported by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:12 AM
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Lmao. You’ll be hurting too boyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:11 AM
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Sure sure sure dude. Can’t threaten us with Muslims if you are already threatening us with losing our rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:11 AM
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“The opposite, of men loosing rights to women simply cannot biologically happen.” My daddy has a saying - god said men were all equal. Sam Weston made them equal. As soon as you open the door to stripping other humans of their rights, you lose yours. A hundred years ago? Watch what happened to the Roma and the Jews. Men too. You sure you want to threaten to burn it all down? All those laws, they protect you, too. You all think you’ll be head warlord with a harem. Instead, you’ll be marched to an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:09 AM
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And what you don’t understand is that you are one turn away from losing your rights too. As soon as you decide might makes right? That’s the day you’ve signed your life over to a stronger man to take every thing you own. All you libertarian testosterone fueled men think you’ll be at the top of the cock wall but then you get old and sick or ambushed. It’s like you’ve never bothered to crack a book or learn about theories of government. Why the fuck do you think the most prosperous countries have …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:07 AM
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Baby doonttt hurt me donnttt hurt me no more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:59 AM
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Same same for women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:58 AM
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Then why is red pill man so surprised he hasn’t heard women do it? Why would he have heard that. I sure have heard men say it:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:58 AM
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Isn’t she a call girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:56 AM
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“ I'd wager ​more older men warn against marriage than older women” You’d be incorrect. Many older women strongly encourage younger women to be independent of men. I’m glad you are happily married. I am too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:54 AM
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I’m fine with men losing their rights. If you don’t stand for equal rights unless your dick is wet, then you don’t deserve them yourself. And before you get all puffy, ask yourself if black men had equal rights in the 60s. Not that long ago….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:53 AM
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Behave like ladies? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:49 AM
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Yes, older women warn young women away from marriage and kids all the time. They also warn young women away from old men’s you all call us bitter. Lol. Marriage only makes sense when there are kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:49 AM
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I don’t see how that is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:17 AM
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Nothing. He can’t admit that average men can be asses too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:15 AM
3

Aw you are pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:14 AM
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God this sounds so depressing. If I was the woman in this situation I wouldn’t want sex either. I just don’t think she’s that into you. This sounds like a drive mismatch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:11 AM
1

Happens in UK. And honestly it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:58 PM
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I’ve had two kids. And I didn’t have an epi for one. I’m sick and tired of men minimizing how difficult pregnancy is. This country gives shitty maternal health care, no paid time off after birth, post birth care, and now you men are trying to engage in some kind of hazing to convince women they are cowards for not wanting to do it:
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:54 PM
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Fuck the emotional roller coaster
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:14 PM
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They don’t consider that a win. They want to be Chad, pump em and dump em. They don’t want a devoted wife. Or the want a devoted bang maid AND women on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:13 PM
4

Same feeling about Cera
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:12 PM
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FWIW, I’d love to go out on a date with Cera far more than DiCaprio. DiCaprio wasn’t attractive to me even in his prime. Now. He looks… unhealthy. DiCaprio looks too slick. Cera would make me laugh and he’s cute. He has a nice face. I loovvveeed him in Scott Pilgrim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:12 PM
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Neither can men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:38 PM
2

LMAO. Suuuuurree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:38 PM
-1

No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:36 PM
4

Yup. That too. I give a lot of young women advice on this, especially career consequences. It worked out for me, but that’s because I found a rare one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:34 PM
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“If a woman is making 50k and a man is making 100k. Instead of the assets being split 50/50 in a divorce. I think they should be split 33/66. ” This is literally how it is done in most states. Maybe you should stop talking out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:31 PM
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Bezo’s wife is a cofounder of Amazon. Of course she’s super rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:29 PM
1

Fine. No kids or expect to truly do 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:27 PM
5

Not that easy, no matter what the internet lawyers here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:25 PM
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Gotcha. And I didn’t mean to imply that I thought you weren’t telling the truth, but rather the law is different here. (There are) ways of assuring any assets coming in from certain sources remain segregated and separate property. Inheritance are often separate. Edited because Jesus grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:24 PM
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It’s not 50/50 in most US states either. I don’t know why everyone says that. They think Cali or Texas are the only states and Cali at least has a ten year trigger before it’s 50/50. But don’t practice family law. Not barred in Cali.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:17 PM
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I find it odd. Know nothing about Aussie law but isn’t there a way to maintain the business as separate property.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:15 PM
4

I support prenups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:14 PM
2

Prenups can be used very effectively to protect the woman if she’s a professional. I don’t have a prenup with my husband. Neither of us insisted and it’s fine. But I would have drafted it to get baby bonuses and to equalize the negative career hit that having kids cost me but not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:14 PM
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Rural America is rotting. Most people live in cities/suburbs and that trend is going to accelerate at least in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:41 PM
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I donno but gross
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:32 PM
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Or men are simply less pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:29 PM
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Ah, that’s sad. Maybe you can get help for your literacy skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:26 PM
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Consider what’s happening to the fools who gave their dna to 23 and me, it’s smart not to hand over one’s DNA to third parties
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:02 PM
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Divorce rates are dropping. Edited to add: “ Anyone with ample experience with women, do not really wanna be too much around one.” Divorced men are more likely to remarry and remarry faster than divorced women. And that’s after divorce. That tells you right there that men want to be around women more than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:58 PM
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I mean what's worse, Raising someone else's kid with a cheater for 2 decades or having to clear yourself off forever of infidelity? But it doesn’t clear you for life of infidelity. There's very little harm to the women compared to the men. You only say that because you aren’t the one going through pregnancy. I’d say if you want to check paternity, you better have a reason to more than insecurity. Otherwise, I’m leaving. You’ll bitch about 18 years of child support, but you are ignoring the physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:56 PM
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It isn’t easier to be a girl than a boy, but hey that’s an opinion. I just get frustrated when men don’t acknowledge that the rules of civil society protect them as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:39 PM
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It’s sometimes hard to tell. I don’t find you misogynistic at all and I understand your point, but sometimes it can be hard not to react because some men here and on other subs do advocate for women losing rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:36 PM
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You’re the guy who wants to pretend that women having access to a bank in San Fran means that women had the same rights as men? L M A O. What about the women in Alabama? I wonder why black people in the south got so mad about civil rights? After all, they had access to their own schools and colleges and water fountains. … 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:29 PM
1

Not in the US. I don’t know what happened in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:26 PM
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“ Back then there weren’t armies of simps throwing attention at every girl online.” no, there were armies of simps chasing the sorority girls and cheerleaders IRL. Now, most women aren’t posting internet thirst traps. Sure the very pretty ones will, but that’s because they can make money at it. Basic Betty gets ignored. You sound like those who insist every woman is on OF. That’s what you see and that’s what you assume. “ Guys actually had lives outside of video games and social media, and they …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:22 PM
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What the fuck? I never gave oral to someone I didn’t sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:51 PM
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Yes, they get druggie girlfriends, part time prostitutes or women who are just as violent as they are. They aren’t people you’d want to raise kids with. You aren’t getting high quality women. When you say stuff like this, it’s clear that you only care about a vagina, that’s it. You don’t give a fuck about the woman it’s attached to. Women are nothing but NPCs with organic parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:48 PM
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“ A lot of said "bad men", like me, do not even want to be that way, we are forced by women's actions, if that is what will get us sex and relationships,” Nope, you are and were always a bad man. Or I should say, a spineless and very weak man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:44 PM
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I respect that. Sending you good vibes, dude. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:41 PM
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“ Yeah, I'll date a girl who's less attractive but more attached to me/more "nice " Still weaseling and won’t admit it. You’ll date a “less attractive” woman, not an ugly one. Even you admit a woman can be too ugly to overlook no matter what. Well guess what, women feel the same. “more attached to me.” That has nothing to do with being nice, being good, or having good values. A woman really attached to you could slash tires, she could cheat (of course she could), she could deal drugs or shoplift…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:06 PM
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Gimmie puppy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:36 PM
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Ooo I did this: Meet up groups for hiking, volunteer work at the river watershed, and writing group. Joined a soccer team.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:34 PM
1

Then you are shit out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:31 PM
1

This is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:27 PM
4

God what an empty way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:21 PM
1

But men’s market also expanded, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:19 PM
1

Find a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:17 PM
2

No women only want to have sex in a committed relationship. That’s not shitty, that is having a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:14 PM
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If I don’t want to have casual sex then that is my choice. If you lie to get sex, that is your lack of morals, not my fault. No one made you lie. That is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:13 PM
1

How do women bare any responsibility if they don’t want to be in a casual relationship or a one night stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:12 PM
5

“I’m single.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:09 PM
1

“I’m single.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:08 PM
1

An attractive guy who is married or in an exclusive relationship would be a no go for me for casual sex. Men do lie about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:07 PM
1

“ being gaslit into believing that the most desirable men achieved it through kindness.” Only if you live under a rock would you think this. Did you look up at Brad Pitt on the screen and say, “wow, he must be so kind?” Jesus Fucking Christ. Do you play DnD? Have you ever set up a character on DnD? You roll separately for stamina and charisma and strength and wisdom, etc. some people get high rolls on all. They are handsome and tall and born rich and are nice. Fuck they hit the jack pot. Some wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:04 PM
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“ Women's ability to get a partner is not contingent on their looks, only their ability to land a partner they consider attractive.” I don’t know if this is entirely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:50 PM
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“ Not call men who date younger women or aim for younger women pedophiles?” Nah, I’ll keep calling unhealthy age gap relationships out when they are, thanks. Nothing says he can’t find a gal his age to have casual sex with. It’s probably more likely. “ Most women had the option, he didn't.” So? I didn’t get to go to prom. Due to poverty, I didn’t get to have trips to Europe as a kid. I didn’t get to have people send me roses in high school like all the other girls. C’est la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:45 PM
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I don’t see women being mean to men who can’t get casual sex. I see men being mean to men who can’t get casual sex. Women are fine with men getting sex in relationships. That’s generally how women like it. Wait, if your friends are scoring casual sex, why don’t you ask them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:43 PM
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I’d say it’s two things (works on both genders) don’t confuse nice with doormat. don’t confuse nice with desperate. People like a little bit of a challenge. Yes women too. Don’t be a golden retriever. Be friendly and open but not desperate. Don’t always return the calls immediately, don’t come at the drop of a hat, be busy (or look it). Have a life. It’s like fly fishing. Dangle something attractive and then snap it away but not too far away. So as an example, at the gym. I walked up and smiled …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:40 PM
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There are plenty of lovely women who never make it like Taylor Swift made it. Stop dismissing her talent and her business acumen. What a perfect example of misogyny. The scion of an insanely rich father is “successful” but not the self made billionaire who leveraged her talent, looks, and creativity to build a global empire. Trump actually was decently attractive as a young man, but no, I guess he didn’t have pretty privilege. Just a multimillionaire father who swept in and saved his failing cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:25 PM
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She wanted him to call but didn’t want him to call. Normally one should respect the “don’t call,” but this was a nuclear bomb of undisclosed information and I was there hearing her side of it and gauging her feelings. Sometimes we need to have uncomfortable conversations even if we all want to avoid it. I told him he should call. They talked it out. But my brother man… Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:12 PM
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I’d say that your hang up on “reward” is more ND. Sex is a conversation of mutual pleasure, like playing board games with friends or DND. It’s a mutual exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:06 PM
3

Yah don’t like Chore play
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:30 PM
4

Right? Have they seen the birth rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:28 PM
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Grooming helps. Get a gay guy to help out a little. Gotta put the goods on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:27 PM
1

Chud is a great slip up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:26 PM
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No doll. There are just too many men on the sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:26 PM
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All I know is that I went back on the market at 29 after a bad marriage. No kids, no debt, finances in great shape (bought a house in a year), size 8, worked out three or four days a week. I was shocked at the number of eligible men online. I lasted six weeks and met my future husband. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:25 PM
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I think that’s a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:17 PM
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Damn - two kids by two different dudes? I’d avoid Jesus himself if he had kids with two different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:16 PM
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I agree. Men are blamed when women cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:13 PM
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Yes and no. Men, just like women, are on a spectrum. Some people are just not assertive. Then life happens and in the cauldron of middle school and high school, kids adopt certain social strategies. Some guys buy into the crap pushed in rom coms that being funny and sweet and nice will get you the really hot girl! Revenge of the nerds really will happen and you’ll have the Delta Delta Delta hot sorority chick. It doesn’t help that their moms will say “oh just be nice.” Being nice means you get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:12 PM
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“ I had been with all of like maybe 5 or 6 women by the time I was 28.” This was not unsuccessful at least compared to the guys posting here. Glad you found your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:04 PM
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It’s a mix of characteristics - looks, charisma, values, money, and status. For the DND nerds, just think of it as all the throws to set up a character. Better looking with lots of charisma and you can be the beach bum in your car. Good values, good job, decent looks and a Christian girl looking for a husband will look at you, but not a party girl. And then there is compatibility. The girl’s throw needs to match yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:01 PM
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He didn’t treat me and a long line of people well. He treated me, who worked hard to get him help for years, as a servant. And it led to an early grave. Colon cancer is one of the most easily prevented and treatable cancers there is. But you have to get regular medical care. You need people in your life who are there looking after you and you them. I mean, my husband developed some weird gastrointestinal issues and like all good wives I was there to get him to the doctor and ultimately a colonos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:55 PM
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Where did you read that I went to his funeral? How odd. I didn’t go to his funeral. Neither did his other ex. We contacted each other through Facebook. I visited his grave the next time I went home to visit my family. For his ex, I carried a photograph of the dog she shared and I brought flowers. She was too poor to travel. As I said, “I went to pay my respects to him, his dead father (my ex father in law) and to our complicated and painful past.” It’s very interesting tho - you think it’s sicke…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:47 PM
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No, dear, I left him. I divorced him. He isn’t the one who wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:33 PM
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I am a woman but.. “ the heavy lifting when it comes to regulating (her) feelings and bad habits that can’t be called out otherwise you lose the relationship altogether.” In discussions with my female friends and my own experience, I’ve watched wives and girlfriends try to tip toe around men’s anger and annoyance and de escalate situations. I also have seen far more women encourage good habits in their husbands/bfs like reducing alcohol, getting sleep, going to the doctor, not playing games 24/7…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:31 AM
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Yup same same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:29 PM
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“… and worked for it.” Yup, the kind of person who want beside you building a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:26 PM
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“ No as a job doesn't define you as a person.” But it sure says a hell of a lot about financial literacy, intelligence, problem solving skills, and yes what that divorce is going to look like. A man who wants smart successful kids picks a smart successful wife. But enjoy your barista.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:25 PM
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Roided up huh? Yah enough said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:21 PM
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Sorry, dude can’t read shit. But exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:16 PM
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You have poor reading skills and, frankly, don’t know shit about long term relationships or marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:13 PM
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Look, I get that you are immature, but I was married to my ex for six years, we attended the same uni and came from the same small town. Our families know each other. That’s how I found out he’d died - the gossip network. I hadn’t seen him in twenty years. I went to pay my respects to him, his dead father (my ex father in law) and to our complicated and painful past. He’s buried in my home town. But the one who won is of course me. I soared after I left him. My career advanced. I met lots of gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:11 PM
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Yah, my ex was all about negging and treating me as a second class citizen there to serve him. Problem? It wasn’t true. I woke up and left my foot prints over him as I walked out the door. He cried a lot and begged me to come back. I remarried a great guy who treats me as his equal. 18 years boyo and two kids. As a very fucked up and broken gal, sure you can keep a woman for a while like that. Damaged people - and I was damaged - get sucked into bad situations. But then, one day, she looks in mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:18 PM
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Men should have standards and not be a doormat. But that’s a far cry from treating his wife as a second class citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:07 PM
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“ Men could care less if you work at McDonald's or a CEO.” stupid immature men who then whine and cry about divorce rape and how she’s useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:06 PM
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“ That makes zero sense, because fat women have the worst personalities.” Lmao. Perfect example of pretty bias and halo effect. “Being fat in itself is a character flaw. A person that doesn’t respect or care about themselves, won’t respect anyone.” If it is, then both men and women have it. That rules out a lot of the ugly guys here too. And we were talking about morals. “I can’t speak for him, but I would 100% date a butterface if she was a virgin and actually loyal.” So you won’t date a nice a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:34 PM
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Still trying to shuck and dive? Just answer the question - are you willing to date and marry an ugly girl of good character? Yes or no? If the answer is no, sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:25 PM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:32 PM
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Good idea girl. I made sure my kids could swim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:31 PM
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This comment and mine have nothing to do with sex being a reward. It’s about dating good people. I’ve got news for you, dating Stacy the druggie who can’t keep a job old real fast after you come home and find her stealing your shit for another hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:28 PM
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What? Why would any woman listen to what some random asshole on the Internet says? My kids can at least have faith that my advice is for their benefit. Some random? Hell no. Falls under Greeks bearing gifts. I live in a world where strangers are danger until they prove otherwise, especially if that stranger is a man trying to give a young woman “advice.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:26 PM
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“ A lot of these men have sex and even get LTRs with endlessly faithful and loving partners.” Ooo boy no they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:24 PM
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“can (women) be upset that men’s dating choices are creating an incentive structure that doesn’t reward pro social and good behavior and instead purely rewards women that won the genetic looks lottery regardless of their goodness? Thereby destroying an incentive for women to be pro social and good?” So it is entirely men’s fault that women are graspy gold diggers and demand all sorts of money and expensive dates, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:22 PM
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“ The way where there is this societal ideal where young men base a large part of their self worth around if they get, or don't get, it” You guys should change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:18 PM
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I do take responsibility for myself dear, I just reject your hypocritical attempt to saddle me with responsibility for shitty men. You want women to “reward” good men with sex tokens? Fine, you first - wife up that 35 year old land whale. She’s a sweetheart and very moral. Go on, show us how men are more moral and superior. We’re waiting. PS - married and happily so. I won.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:17 PM
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Ooo ooo, I’d love to - because these work for men, too. never ever date someone who won’t take no for an answer. I don’t just mean an asshole dude who keeps pushing for sex. My mom as an example is a jackass that tried to sell my dad’s prized convertible after he told her no. match energy for energy. This keeps boys out of user friendzone relationships (versus real friends). This keeps girls from chasing guys who want to string them on. no covert contracts. Use clear explicit language and only d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:05 PM
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You are the one who thinks kinky sex is all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:20 PM
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I just do not see this in my day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:12 PM
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When it works, it really works. Five kids is a lot. We stopped at two. I would have had more but my body couldn’t handle it. I said the best advice I had for young couples was the love is a verb cliche. We turn towards each other. We are there for each other. My brother did something insanely stupid and dickish to his wife that nearly landed them in divorce. It was a weird situation where we were skiing with her but he was at home. She said he didn’t want him to call. It was awful. She was cryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:10 PM
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We do. Jesus, I sit down and tell my girls how to watch out for bad patterns etc. Fathers tell sons to avoid sticking their dick in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:46 PM
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We do. There is a reason why the birthrate is in the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:44 PM
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Once again, men demand that women meet standards they refuse to impose on themselves. Men don’t police other men for lying, cheating, or pumping and dumping. (Some) Men cover up for their bros cheating. Men don’t date an ugly girl because she’s sweet and good and loyal. So look to yourselves boyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:43 PM
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Dude needs a glow up. He’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:40 PM
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The bailouts are for children. And that is the fault of both parents. Why you refuse to hold me dumping their responsibilities accountable, I do not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:39 PM
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You are not a bad person because you can’t get laid. Wishing you the best
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:38 PM
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Fuck that shit. My ex husband loved to play footsie with all these girls. I had a few show up and try to be a dick to me. He negged and claimed no man would want me and he was far more desirable. He was the one begging me to come back. Sure my husband could get other women. He was dating other women when he met me. He made it real clear that I am the one for him. And that’s what he gets back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:34 PM
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You all date idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:34 PM
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You apparently think being “nice” or “good” requires you to be a doormat or yes man. Drawing boundaries isn’t being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:32 PM
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I donno. My husband isn’t nice per se. But he is competent and ethical. I felt safe with him. Having someone who could be strong for me. Damn. I could trust him. That’s catnip. It’s why I invited him over to my apartment on the fly at 10 pm at night after two dates. I still remember that night. He btw is 5/7. So yes, being responsible and ethical was an absolute turn on for me. Granted he could also do pushups with me on his back, but I didn’t know that. There is this wonderful feeling - I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:30 PM
1

It’s called matching energy with energy boyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:21 PM
8

This should be its own post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:20 PM
0

You aren’t dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:19 PM
3

Must be why they have a trashed birth rate, high levels of domestic violence and abuse, systemic depression, and massive alcoholism…. And now they are sending their young men into the wood chopper. And I like Russia. Their fucking literature hits, and their artwork is spectacular.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:17 PM
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Oh YES. I went nuclear with that shit at school when my oldest was harassed by a boy for MONTHS. She is really attractive but also on the spectrum and really struggled dealing with unwanted sexual advances. And he would not listen to the word no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:14 PM
1

So love bomb. That works on men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:09 PM
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Considering it’s very difficult to screen for the likable through photos… This is why meeting IRL is better for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:09 PM
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Yup. The number of times I’ve heard that women shouldn’t have the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:08 PM
4

Making her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:06 PM
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Bingo. I do more traditional emotional labor in my house (I mean the actual definition) such as fostering friendships, keeping the relationships going, even with his family, scheduling appointments, kids’ extra curriculars. I am his venting place (rare) and have provided emotional support like when his dad and best friend died, but also rare because he’s stoic. But he always appreciates it, listens to me vent far more, and gives back every which way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:04 PM
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Men can’t distinguish between a stupid joke that harms no one and a rape threat. Sounds like they can’t be taken seriously or be given power.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:56 PM
1

So one is a silly and impossible hypothetical question that your lover will still love you even if you became far less desirable (the Beatles asked that question in a song “will you still love me when I’m 64?”) The other is a rape threat happening at the same time women’s reproductive rights are rolling back. And you think it’s the same? What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:55 PM
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Did I say I hate doing emotional labor? Does Lilith? No she said being taken for granted, which is slightly different but a related point to mine- the need for parity. Again, what is the big complaint of men in the friendzone? That they provide all this effort and solicitude and receive none or little back? I’m sure men have had bad experiences sharing with women. Some women are dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:46 PM
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lol. If she’s nagging, you aren’t listening. That’s the point. God I’m so glad I have my husband. If I have to have a discussion with him - which is very rare - he turns to me, puts down all devices, ignores his computer etc. and focuses on me - his entire attention. And we have one discussion and that’s the end. It’s very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:45 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:27 PM
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W-O-W.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:23 PM
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Bingo. Everyone thought Jeffery Dahlmer was a nice quiet boy next door. There are religious leaders and preachers who get caught having sex with underage teen girls. Everyone thought they were good Christian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:22 PM
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This white woman sure as fuck didn’t support that bastard. And I’m quite enjoying my fellow rural white cohort getting their asses handed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:20 PM
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“ And yet the majority of women are complaining about dating psychopaths, abusers etc.” Maybe in India, but your country has a major problem with men ganging up and raping some poor girl on a bus. That isn’t such an issue here in the US. The majority of women are not complaining here about dating psychos
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:17 PM
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Not maybe. It was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:10 PM
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We get it. Sex is all you value of women. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:09 PM
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I think you are smart enough to know that when one’s efforts - even if done originally out of love - can turn to resentment if they are not appreciated or reciprocated, as any man in the friend zone will tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:01 PM
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Sorry wrong post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:00 PM
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“ Women inundating men with idiotic questions like “would you love me if I were a worm”” Never heard of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:52 PM
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“… and then when people start telling all their problems to AI, call them out on that too.” Because AI is TOXIC. Ed- to add. There are many studies that support my position that AI is toxic for mental health. It’s part of my job keeping abreast of this shit. Downvote me all you want, but the internet is considered one of the causes of the drop in mental health (how many people here bitch about dating apps?) and AI is the internet supercharged. It is horrible for mental health and should not be u…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:50 PM
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We want parity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:49 PM
1

The reason old men and male children and weak men flourish is those same rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:47 PM
3

No normal men still have the cheat code.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:46 PM
2

I get your point. Losing a privilege is still losing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:45 PM
3

No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:42 PM
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I was a teen before social media. It was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:41 PM
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Lmao. India with a massive rape problem. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:38 PM
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“ least useful people in society shouldn’t vote…” Let the birth rate go to effing zero. The casual misogyny of it. If you don’t think raising kids is useful, I’m fine with you never procreating. “ But the barrier to entry was higher when most men were working physically demanding jobs that women couldn’t do...” But women were out there doing jobs like picking cotton. They were also in the factories etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:35 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:31 PM
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I’m married and I think a lot of the regular women posters are married or in LTRs. We aren’t lying to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:22 PM
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He literally is contradicting your argument- men reward men for behaving in a shitty manner. Thus all the insults over being pussy whipped or attacking white knights
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:35 AM
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So men reward men for shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:34 AM
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I was a SAHM for about six months. I took over all household chores in and outside of the house. I cooked, cleaned, painted the walls, mowed the lawn, everything. I consider that egalitarian. If I worked and my husband didn’t, he’d do the same. Sex is NEVER a duty or a chore with us. Never. That’s a fast track to a dead bedroom. Pressuring someone into sex will result in aversion - you want your wife to loath your touch or do you want her to actually want to fuck you? If you are open minded, lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:46 AM
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Rough man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:29 AM
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Good luck Lily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:28 AM
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Marriages for convenience is the historical norm. I think we are getting away from it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:27 AM
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I think the problem is when it’s not equal. That counts for people too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:25 AM
6

Bang maid, in living color.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:24 AM
3

This cannot be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:23 AM
3

My dad was an amazing cook. He’s like 86.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:21 AM
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Bubble and squeak?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:21 AM
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Yes I do. And it’s none of your business. You do you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:21 AM
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Pretty hilarious you don’t know how to fight yet. Mike Tyson has a saying - they all have a plan until they get punched in the mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:19 AM
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“ Sure I can be a traditional man but you can work 20-30 hours and cook.” Nope, you aren’t a traditional man - you expect the wife to monetarily contribute. “ I as a man can work and fight and go to gym it’s not that deep.” I also work, go to the gym, and did martial arts. I carry a gun and pepper spray.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:17 AM
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If I don’t want to do it, it’s a chore. It is also a skill, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:16 AM
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In my nearly fifty years of life, I had to defend myself (as a teen). My husband has never ever had to defend me, though he would. My daddy put a pistol in my hand at age nine. He bought me my walther at age 21. You don’t offer shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:15 AM
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Nope. Meant it seriously. You are made different, that’s all. And that’s fine. It takes all kinds. One of my friends only ever wanted to be a mom. She’s married with two kidlets and really happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:27 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:34 PM
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You are made different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:33 PM
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Haven’t seen a stolen valor post in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:30 PM
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28-29 seems the ideal age to marry so mid twenties is when you look to settle down with a good marriage partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:28 PM
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When it comes to relationships I probably have same experience at 28 as a 18 years old girl. this of course is untrue. You will have years on her for understanding how to navigate adult life. After all are you the same person you were at 18? Though yeah, you are right, 18 is too young, but going for 23-25 when I am 33-35 sounds fine. glad you have some good sense, but you see why that 23 year old might not have dated you at 23 right? If every male is going after a 23 year old even a decade older…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:27 PM
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She has amazing skin. Is that a filter or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:43 PM
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Wool is amazing - still keeps you warm even when wet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:40 PM
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Love cashmere
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:39 PM
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Dems are screaming about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:38 PM
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This helps men too. Men are developing body dysmorphia at alarming rates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:31 PM
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Should do it for men too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:29 PM
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Gambling apps are the devil
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:26 PM
2

I hate mariachi
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:48 PM
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Why would I date religious or conservative men when I am neither? If men want to change the dynamics why don’t they do the right thing? Stop worshiping Chad, shame male users and cheaters, stop valuing women on looks only?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:47 PM
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Because you like many men confuse fucking with a relationship. OP is taking about relationships. Women swim in dick because men will fuck anything. They fuck people they hate, they fuck ugly people, they fuck people they never ever would date. Marriage doesn’t matter. The number of married men who have taken a swing at me 🙄. But they won’t date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:25 PM
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Your first example is not an example for this discussion. Of course not. It doesn’t fit your facile narrative that women are stupid people led around by their genitalia tingles that just have to fall for bad men despite swimming in fields of eligible bachelors wanting to marry them. You however. Proved my point. And think just because you only dated one. That there wouldn't be more because you met your husband. And I question the other good men you were with now. Suddenly from good guys....then …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:18 AM
2

Sending you good vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:34 AM
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“ Regardless, with the abundance of options they have.” Women do not have an abundance of relationship options. Why you keep saying this horseshit. Women have an abundance of dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:33 AM
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Yes they can. And they do all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:32 AM
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Right? They always give themselves away
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:31 AM
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“ One side has an abundance of options.” No, women have an abundance of sex options, NOT relationship options. A woman has to be very careful the guy isn’t married or has a girlfriend. Plenty of men would love to hit it and quit it. I mean think of it logically - men and women are about equal in number. If we are pairing off one to one, then the “appearance” of options is actually a mirage caused by the fact that one guy will hit on 12 girls and a girl might hit on one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:31 AM
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Women couldn’t easily complain back in the day. We didn’t have massive websites like Reddit to discuss AND cops used to not intervene in domestic violence cases. No they didnt. It was considered a family matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:25 AM
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This is crazy making. Many guys are just fine. I know a bunch. But they get married or LTR and they are off the market. A tale of three girls - me and my closest two friends. J dated a nice guy in college. He was fine but they broke up. Had another LTR with a guy. He asked her to marry, she said no. Nice guy. They broke up. She had another LTR with a guy. They lived together. I thought he was an asshole but whatever. They broke up because he asked her to up end her life, move to Europe but would…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:23 AM
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And plenty of you guys ignore red flags in women. It’s goddamned human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:09 AM
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This is f-king crazy making. Why do you all think we have an abundance of options??? The gender ratio is 50/50 dude. We have about the same number of options as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:09 AM
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“ Women are the ones who spend their whole lives playing with dolls and pretending to have a baby.” I didn’t. Neither of my girls did either. Or my sister. It’s pretty heavily socialized behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:22 PM
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I actually agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:21 PM
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“ studies show that women in supposedly more progressive countries are requiring more masculine men to satisfy them.” What studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:20 PM
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Average men trying to steal the valor of better men. Never gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:18 PM
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I look forward to the coming population crash where men discover that all the work women do to keep society running that is unpaid is actually essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:16 PM
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“ more than girlboss pretend-to-work corporate "jobs" and that income is far more important than feminist-inspired ungratefulness and whining about "domestic and caretaking duties" (whose difficulty is basically always exaggerated by women)….” This is so tiresome. I am an attorney. My job is not “pretend.” You are the fool who shat all over secretaries didn’t you? Let me tell you how much secretaries make or break our jobs. Edits to add this - your argument is incredibly disingenuous. You are ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:59 PM
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Why don’t men give birth? Huh? There are certain physical standards. More men than women meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:56 PM
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… why there are more divorces than ever, and why the birth rates in some areas are plummeting. There are not more divorces than ever, at least in the US The only place birth rates aren’t plummeting is Afghanistan and Nigeria. And they are dropping there too. A lot of men have learned to cook and clean and perform their half of the chores in the house Yes because most women, even mothers, also work. and be gentle and emotional and obeisant, Really? If you say so. Men have always been emotional - …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:54 PM
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Here is the issue though - women do have to do something to have kids. Sure they are born with the equipment but they have to stay healthy and in shape. They also have to do A LOT after the baby is born and it is not automatic. It isn’t all instinct. And there are some very bad mothers out there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:38 PM
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Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:30 PM
1

I have guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:28 PM
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I am well aware other countries are different - which is why I specified the United States. I believe Canada still recognizes common law marriage. I’ve heard they have some crazy laws like parental obligations to step kids. I haven’t confirmed that, though. I know you want to make me out to be a stupid self involved American. I’m not. My family is rather peripatetic. I wish more Americans were.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:25 PM
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I ain’t a touchy woman but I’m also broken that way. I hug kids and my husband and that is about it. Don’t fucking touch me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:45 PM
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Please link. I’d love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:44 PM
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Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:44 PM
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“ I suspect that what men want is for women to give more guys a go, and see if romantic feelings develop, despite them maybe not meeting a woman's physical standards.” But then they post screeds here about how those women are horrible users.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:41 PM
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If she doesn’t feel physical affection, it isn’t withholding. If she’s honest (no bait and switch), he goes into ir with open eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:40 PM
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I agree Keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:38 PM
2

Do you mean that married men are favored over singe?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:33 PM
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Not in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:32 PM
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“ the treatment of men is so typically unfair….” The stats don’t back you up on that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:31 PM
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Moana made a huge break from that!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:30 PM
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I had to log on to laugh at this. It is clear you have never been in a long term relationship with this energy. You actually think having a woman brag about her husband’s sexual prowess is c-k behavior. If you do manage to get into a LTR, you’ll be bitching on the deadbedroom sub wondering why she never wants to fuck you anymore. And then you’ll wonder why she has all this sexual energy with a new guy. The answer is simple - he gives her screaming orgasms. Let me spell it out - a man who wants l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:27 PM
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There you go, @u/former_range_1730
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:19 PM
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See a man that gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:17 PM
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Do you believe that all women with partners who don’t do chores started the relationship by doing all of those chores? I don’t think so. This is called a strawman. I never referred to all. If you read what many women say, the man will be fine, keep his own house fine, and then there is a creep where she finds herself doing more and more - the frog in boiling water. The real disparity happens when kids enter the scene, which is usually long after they’ve already married. Kids represent a new and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:12 PM
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Common law marriage is outlawed in most of the US
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:53 PM
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Mothers discuss it with their daughters. There are also studies such as the mother penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:51 PM
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That has markedly changed over the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:47 PM
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That has markedly changed over the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:47 PM
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“ worry because they usually are the ones who have everything to gain by breaking the marriage contract rather than keeping to it.” How are women rewarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:47 PM
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The stats disagree, at least in US, when measured by happiness, health, longevity, and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:46 PM
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Morals? What does money have to do with morals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:45 PM
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Tell me how you get “spineless and unfulfilled” out of this description? My husband is pleasant company who doesn’t demand submission and likes to make me cum. why would a pleasant person be spineless? what makes a man who doesn’t demand submission spineless or unfulfilled? Do you demand submission from your friends? No? Does that make you spineless? Are you unable to fathom a relationship of equals? makes her cum. I’d say that means he is fulfilled. Really this says a lot about you, none of it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:44 PM
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We do. It’s the kids part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:38 PM
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It’s the risk of having children
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:38 PM
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Except marriage is sold on women from the time they are little - remember the old cat lady narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:37 PM
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Aren’t you in Europe? They have an amazing social safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:34 PM
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Because people don’t stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:33 PM
2

I thought divorce rates were lower for your generation. :/.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:32 PM
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Do you really believe this concept still applies today? Not as much with GenZ. But it was still hammered into me as a Xennial. My mom specifically raised me to appeal to a man and to land a husband. She said word for word I needed to learn to play golf to spend that time with my future husband. I was like 12. It takes time for these narratives to go away. If so, how do you explain that abortion is so defended? my mom also is staunchly pro choice as am I. Because there was nothing worse than bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:29 PM
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Is he a millennial? I hear millennial guys are much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:19 PM
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That has happened…. Maybe one time in 18 years. My malinois however did protect me once.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:18 PM
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Honestly you put your finger on what confuses me with the “narrative.” Are men having problems or are they not? Generally I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:17 PM
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This is it. I never would have married except for having children. And I’d never remarry if something God forbid happened to my husband. Especially for high income earners, children can have a long term financial and physical cost to women. Being married to a decent man benefits the mother. Whether it is as much as it benefits the husband, is arguable. Marriage does benefit men, but the social narrative is the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:14 PM
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People say many things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:39 AM
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My grandma was happy with her marriage to my granddad. They both divorced their first spouses to be together. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:39 AM
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My grandparents and parents encouraged me to have a career. I’ve done the same for mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:38 AM
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Not if they are left out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:35 AM
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Actually agreed. And it would help the family. What happens when you send dad to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:35 AM
1

Sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:20 AM
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Because single moms aren’t out there murdering people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:18 AM
5

Because of children
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:18 AM
12

You mean absentee fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:18 AM
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You mean absentee father
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:17 AM
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But she didn’t get to enjoy yours either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:16 AM
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Not in the midlife years. That is majority men. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:15 AM
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“ But the shock for wall women comes from not having to face a normal level of consequences for over a decade, and then having to face reality feels like a horrible unfair shock, when it's just normal.” None of this makes sense. Life deals out consequences. If she didn’t experience consequences, that’s because there are no consequences. “ Hitting the wall is about the consequences of a decade or more of shitty decision making and childish priorities catches up, with little time left on the biolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:08 AM
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Sure. I sometimes think men and women are a bit more alike than we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:47 PM
1

That is oddly comforting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:45 PM
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“ Do you really think the average man wouldn’t want to date a woman who is homely, feminine, chaste, nurturing, caring, etc.?” No I don’t think men want to date a homely woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:44 PM
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Clearly not anything long lasting. From you, above: “ I'm quite successful myself and regularly choose hassle free, at least 10~15 years younger (I'm 44), attractive and devoted women with no kids from previous relationships because I value my peace of mind.” Replace em as they get old, huh. 💅 long lasting…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:09 PM
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The contents of her skull is really really important for the long run. You're lucky that's not the case, no woman would ever get married otherwise. *** So, you are saying men are intimidated by intelligent women and are very insecure? Well, luckily, I met a man who is not intimidated. Unless of course, you are implying women are stupid. It’s odd how men have to have affirmative action to get into college if women are so unintelligent. I'm quite successful myself and regularly choose hassle free,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:07 PM
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Thanks for owning this as something some men will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:16 PM
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No they aren’t. That’s most women. Now since they work, they expect men to also cook and clean too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:16 PM
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And you see how that’s a bad result for her right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:12 PM
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Gee, where is the “men are gatekeepers to relationships?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:11 PM
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Because he doesn’t treat his beta girl well. She’s just a choir hag until a better looking one comes along
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:11 PM
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And the second he can cheat, he does
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:10 PM
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Because you don’t value her as she is now, only as she was. SMH. God can you imagine your spouse saying, “nah I wouldn’t marry you if I met you today.” (Married 18 years myself) I’d marry him again today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:03 PM
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All of this proves that women should NEVER waste any time on the ordinary or average man in her 20s at her highest value. She needs to shoot for the stars. Hope you ordinary guys are good with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:58 PM
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You can disagree all you want. It isn’t true. Most states are equitable not equal. That latter occurs in common law states for assets during marriage and often doesn’t kick in until the marriage is ten years old (Cali). https://www.divorcenet.com/states/nationwide/property_division_by_state Just because you have a dick doesn’t mean everything bought during the marriage is owned entirely by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:56 PM
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And yet, it’s men cheating in later years, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:51 PM
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“ If women can divorce men at any point for no reason, taking half his shit, his kids, and his house and that men's suicide rate goes from 3.5x women's suicide rate, to 9x women's suicide rate post divorce.” Men are free to divorce at any point for no reason. Men also take half her stuff (actually most states don’t do 50/50 but equitable so the higher wage earner walks out with more: Men get shared custody of their kids. So no she doesn’t “take” his kids. As to suicide rates - sounds like men ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:48 PM
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“ The older you get, the harder it gets to form a bond” Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:45 PM
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“ Since I don't get to bring anything except my best to the relationship she does not get to either.” You are getting older too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:44 PM
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They don’t take half his stuff. “ But hey, if you want to die alone at the age of 80 in a house with no husbands, no kids, and no grandkids, knock yourself out” Same same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:41 PM
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Women don’t take half his stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:39 PM
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God I feel bad for your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:34 PM
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Aw sweet. I feel like I have that with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:34 PM
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Very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:32 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:30 PM
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It’s fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:30 PM
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No it means I spent those years in college and at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:30 PM
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And of course, she has no agency either - maybe she decided none of the men were worth marrying either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:29 PM
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“ I wouldn't have married her if she were older because i would question why no man bothered to lock her up.” Feel so bad for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:28 PM
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And let’s talk about nurses, the backbone of all medical care…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:19 PM
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Keep that energy for some of the men here please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:17 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:16 PM
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I work my career, I have two kids, and a doting husband. Tell me how I’m used? 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:15 PM
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There are several divorced Mormon Ladies who do content on YouTube pointing out what a bad deal it is. And that trad girl - I forget - who had to divorce her abused husband and ran off to Canada. She’s been in the leopard eating face sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:14 PM
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Unless they know she’ll move on right now. Which is what he is thinking of - his penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:11 PM
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“ of income could better lead to divorce imho.” College educated women have the lowest divorce rates
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:08 PM
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Why do you all continue to exaggerate. It is not 80%. And answer this - if your wife cheated, and you filed for divorce, who destroyed the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:07 PM
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Yes. It’s like everyone thinks they live in a community property state. Even so I don’t think 50/50 kicks in until after ten years (that’s Cali).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:05 PM
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Thank you! Maybe these guys are young or got burned, but my now husband absolutely considered my debts and assets when he married me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:03 PM
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You have a bunch of guys disagreeing with you, but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:01 PM
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Nice shift in the goal posts - “oh they change careers!” So has my husband. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:55 PM
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If you say so. If that’s true, I wonder why so many men spend so much energy telling women that if they don’t settle down as soon as possible, they are going to be lonely and sad with cats. Why would they need to do that if women are so desperate to marry. Sounds like they aren’t. I see a whole lot of men (and a whole lot of articles in news) that women are spending too much time on careers rather than marrying and baby making. I think while men are fine just dating, women are dropping out entir…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:53 PM
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It is still a choice. The men here really are passive and somehow think they shouldn’t have any negative consequences for their decisions. It’s pretty distasteful. I had very little male interest in me before meeting him. It’s one of the reasons I felt like I had to marry him - no one else would love me. But I still had the choice - both to marry him and to divorce him. And I absolutely knew that there was a chance - considering how little success I had previously had - that no man would want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:42 PM
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Fair enough - I don’t know much about European divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:39 PM
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Sounds like he made a poor choice. I hope you learned from his mistake. Personally, I’m compassionate to people who are betrayed, but most men here have no mercy on the abused women trapped with kids, so why should I feel compassion towards the trapped man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:36 PM
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Where did the men gatekeep relationships go?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:32 PM
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“ You have to take what you can get or stay single forever.” So you do have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:31 PM
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Exactly. They all think they are Bezos divorcing a waitress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:29 PM
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That isn’t how it happens though. In a 50/50 relationship with 50/50 custody, there is no child support. You will need to split the assets accumulated during marriage. You all really should talk to lawyers who practice family law.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:28 PM
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Men are able to focus on their career - late nights, work trips, with a woman at home taking care of all the chores, house, kids. You think you’re spending a week in NYC at that big deal if Johnny wakes up sick and needs someone to take him to the doctor? Nope. You think you are working six days a week? Who is taking care of the kids on Saturday? Grandma? Hope she doesn’t get sick. Ooo, kid acted up and needs someone to drop work and come in. Better get off the job site. I was offsite at a confe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:25 PM
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Actually it shows they are not marrying for life - but only for tomorrow - when they prioritize looks and youth - things that ALWAYS fade - overbuilding a long lasting and economically sound marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:14 PM
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“ If anything it speaks volumes about men unmaterialistic tendencies since they don't care about how much a woman makes.” Actually it proves that men are shallow and short sighted, valuing women only for the size of their boobs, not the contents of their brains. And it also proves men can’t see into the future that she won’t stay 22 with a 22 body and that marriage extends over decades. The contents of her skull is really really important for the long run. Luckily many men don’t think like you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:12 PM
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“by not marrying at all.” Sure. And women are doing the same. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:08 PM
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Hi! I am a career woman. I know a shit ton of other career women - attorneys. They don’t quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:07 PM
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Let me know when someone holds a gun to your head and forces you to walk down the aisle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:06 PM
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Men choose. You aren’t required to marry. No one compels you to marry. Where is all the male chest beating over “men gate keep relationships?” You can insist on a prenup. You’ve decided you’re a slave to your genitalia just like a common Chad-chaser. That’s still your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:05 PM
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This is so odd. I have a significant career. I am married to a man with a significant career. We never complete
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:51 PM
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“ a) Don't get married. The legal risk is catastrophically asymmetric. The government is a hostile third party in your relationship. Cohabitate. Have a family.” You’ll need to find a woman willing to do it. In addition, if you break up, get ready for child support. That has nothing to do with marriage. But sure you are free not to marry. 🤷‍♀️. Just like women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:48 PM
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You said it right here: “ Men are trading resources for reproductive potential. They are investing in what they value.” You deliberately made a trade for a younger hotter woman. You got the you got the younger hotter woman. Now when the partnership breaks up, you want to bitch about the terms of you trade and say “oh I should get the lionshare of the assets earned during marriage.” Nope - as you admit you went into it knowing you were paying more in assets for her youth and beauty and fecundity.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:46 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:44 AM
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That isn’t what the stats say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:43 AM
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Women pay child support. Single fathers have a woman in the house in about 43% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:42 AM
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“ An app that’s basically “free gigolos in your area that will definitely fulfill your every sexual fantasy in real life tonight and probably pay for your dinner too” is so much worse than porn” And app that women spurn and don’t use
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:40 AM
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It started with industrialization. It predates reliable BC. The baby boom was an anomaly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:39 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:38 AM
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No, because she won’t engage in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:30 AM
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“ Try that with race, ethnicity, body dysmorphia, bipolar, depression, anxiety, etc.” Happens all the time. I’ve known people to say this among their friends. I’ve said I won’t date a person with severe depression. Not again. “ Yet, you will get perhaps career ending backlash for truly embracing a laissez-faire mindset when it comes to who one wants to date.” You shouldn’t be talking about this at work. It also is in how you phrase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:26 AM
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women’s sexuality is made out to be this virtuous, logical, unquestionable phenomenon. women’s sexuality is not made out to be virtuous, logical, or unquestionable. You are confusing narratives - often used as a method of social control (woe be for a woman who doesn’t act as pure as driven snow) - with reality. In addition, you are confusing the true human desire to impose “logic” and order on what is an illogical concept - sexual attraction. I’ve known two Chads. One was a friend in my husband’…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:23 AM
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Ok, but your experience doesn’t preclude principled autistic people from existing. You are the one that made the generalized statement that “how in many ways, autistic people see things more clearly, they are just a minority.” You weren’t limiting your statement to you or *principled autistic people.” You made a generalized statement and I responded that in fact no I had direct experience that conflicts with your statement. Thus, telling me that my experience isn’t of all autistic people is irre…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:11 AM
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I said the woman was at least broken. It also says a lot about at least one autistic man that he still wants to date a woman so fundamentally broken. Imagine risking making a baby with someone who hangs around with a child rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:03 AM
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Considering I’ve said none of that, who are you talking to? Some imaginary strawman feminist that turned you down when you were twelve. Your emotions are so in control of your thinking, it’s rather sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:00 AM
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But he's right. Even you know a woman who is like that even though you don't run in criminal circles. I know one woman who did something stupid in her youth. That was 20 years ago. A huge minority (if not an outright majority) of women absolutely would rather date violent criminals before ever considering an autistic man. I’ve known far more male abusers and cheaters, so by your analysis “ A huge minority (if not an outright majority)” of men are cheaters and abusers right? So that’s how I shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:59 PM
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That woman has something really wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:51 PM
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You're asking me to deny the things I see every day in my life. women not wanting to date you does not mean they hate you. I have several male friends I wouldn’t date. One is just too young. The other smokes like a chimney. One is an emotional mess. I like them. I don’t hate them. Girls ignoring you isn’t hate either. Hell one girl I work with literally dates a guy convicted for raping a child. Not even joking. And what, you want to date such a fucking train wreck? At the very least she is very …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:49 PM
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“ You can examine how unnecessary many social graces are and how in many ways, autistic people see things more clearly, they are just a minority.” LMAO. GodDAMN the lack of self awareness. I am surrounded by those on the spectrum and let me tell you, they will absolutely get butt hurt if you fail to comply with a social grace they find necessary but expect you to just shrug it off if they don’t comply with a social grace. And they’ll criticize the hell out of you - “I’m just telling the truth” b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:40 PM
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Autistic people can have a very novel and insightful view of human interaction when they turn that intelligence to studying human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:36 PM
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If you steered clear of those circles and yet you still have one close friends who did date criminals, gangbangers or drug dealers, this effectively makes u/Luminous_Face_42 's point. Lmao. No it doesn’t prove Luminous’s point - he says women - not some women - but women generally want gang bangers, drug dealers or criminals. If in my lifetime I’ve run into one woman who fits that description, that supports my point - that it isn’t a general attribute of women. Yes one close friend of the many I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:34 PM
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Damn the ND were right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:11 PM
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Very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:10 PM
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And that’s the kind of extremists thinking that will not help you in the future - at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:09 PM
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Improved counseling and interpersonal building at school level but that’s woke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:07 PM
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Some women. SOME women have terrible taste. That is your problem. You scream that you want to be seen as an individual and yet you cannot recognize that women are also individuals. Most of the women who are close friends of mine - but one - never dated criminals, gangbangers or drug dealers. We didn’t run in those circles. We steered clear. I am fully capable that some men are broken and date shitty women but many men are not. I’m not mad that trad men over look me or frat boys did. Men are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:06 PM
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Dependent is autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:59 PM
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Autistic women more often suffer abuse than NT women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:54 PM
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That’s really insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:52 PM
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“ and the fact that autistic people want to be with other autistics…” Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:49 PM
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“… lot of autistic men I know seem to want the world to adapt to their quirks and views rather than having a willingness to adapt to what others expect and are less responsive to social shame than autistic women.” God damn it hits
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:41 PM
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My sister is autistic. No men would tolerate her long term. My daughter is also, but she likes women. She has a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:59 PM
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Nope. Because unlike Nazis, I’m not forcing anyone to abort. You however sound like an enslaver. Robbing people of the bodily autonomy and forcing them to breed more children against their will. Slaves used to regularly abort their pregnancies as an act of defiance and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:30 PM
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They were against it for the aryans
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:28 PM
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Most societies consider it just a clump of cells and always has
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:27 PM
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Really? Does that men the girl involved gets to mandate he get a vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:23 PM
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Awwww yessss you are going to do this. LOVE it. so William wasn’t a king, he was the illegitimate son of a duke. He was the son of his danish wife/mistress. See despite being Christian, the Normans were allowed to also have danish “wives” unrecognized by the church. And yes that was all Normans. bastards were so common that English common had to deal with their legal an inheritance rights. That common law wasn’t for kings but for the population at large, so no it wasn’t some special law for “kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:21 PM
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Brava
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:24 PM
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I guess. My husband still remembers me texting that I love the caulk when we were dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:22 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:21 PM
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Love Teddy Roosevelt. Absolutely my favorite president
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:20 PM
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Trump is making the economy worse pookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:20 PM
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That shit is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:19 PM
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Breaks my heart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:18 PM
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He’s a swarmy asshole. I like that sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:17 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:13 PM
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Hey I’m sorry dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:08 PM
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Sounds like most men are pathetic if they are abandoning their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:41 PM
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Canada?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:40 PM
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Doctors often neglect to warn women that certain medicines and even certain foods like grape fruit can interfere with BC effectiveness.TYPICAL effectiveness in the real world - not a clinical trial - is 91%.Ever looked at the risk profile of young male drivers? Think we should just keep men from getting their licenses until 25 or should we recognize that humans aren’t perfect and will fuck up? So your answer is that I should risk a felony and incarceration, destroying my livelihood and that of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:36 PM
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Down voting me doesn’t change the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:24 PM
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“ such that women are the primary caretakers in the majority of cases, even though the language of the written laws are gender neutral.” You are bitching about having to pay child support. Are you honesty going to be the primary care taker or a kid you didn’t want? In the US; it is generally 50/50. The man usually gets time with kids if he wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:38 PM
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I’d like to see proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:36 PM
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Try 10 months of pregnancy and 18 years or financial responsibility and the hands on caring for the woman. You pay a check. She pays a check and gets up with the kid at 2 am in the morning. She picks up the kid from school. She has to turn down dates and trips and put her life on hold. Men don’t. Do you have kids? I’m curious. Had I come to this place, I’d never have bothered dating or sleeping with a man again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:35 PM
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“ The issue is that allowing financial abortion will bring the responsibility back on to women that they have been able to skirt by falling back on child support as well as societal welfare and assistance.” How exactly are women “escaping financial responsibility” by abortion? They have to pay for it. And if they are pregnant and stay pregnant, they and they alone carry all the financial obligations. That’s NOW. Men have no financial responsibilities to the pregnancy until after birth. And now y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:30 PM
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“ Its irrelevant whether I see it as a bad thing, the majority of human history saw it as a bad thing.” Absolutely FALSE. It frankly boggles my mind how men can state such absolute truths without one iota of evidence to back it up. Ben Franklin literally published an abortion drug in his newspaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:24 PM
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I faked being asleep as I held my husband as he cried over his dad. He loved his dad so much. We are still married and still fuck 18 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:33 PM
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There is such an obsession with those things. My kids love them. I guess they smile a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:32 PM
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Gay men are a lot more tolerant of non monogamous relationships (which is fine)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:30 PM
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Lol. Education, law, and medicine would screech to a halt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:11 PM
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Yup. The least bit of pushback and they are folding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:09 PM
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Birth rates began to drop with industrialization and urbanization, not with feminism. The baby boom was an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:07 PM
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“ The concept of having no choice is beyond me. Say a woman went to the sperm bank for a donation, no one would ask the donor for child support. Why is it any different when a sexual intercourse is involved? Both women know EXACTLY what they are getting into.” When I got knocked up accidentally, I was using birth control. So no I didn’t go to a sperm bank to deliberately get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:03 PM
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I know two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:56 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:53 PM
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No they were legally kicked out of and kept out of jobs or education. Feminism removed the legal barriers, but didn’t legally mandate that men stop being lazy at home. Ruth Ginsburg graduated first in her law school and didn’t get one job offer. She had to go work for the government. There are no legal barriers to keep men from staying home. In fact SAHF get alimony! They get child support! And societally it’s becoming more and more accepted. A lot of women had to forgo marriage and forgo childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:51 PM
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Show me the law that makes men stop calling women fat sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:43 PM
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Society only moves when we each decide to make it move. The Lovings went to jail and then the Supreme Court to marry each other. And even afterwards they experienced all sorts of negativeness. I’m sure he was called a “n lover” a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:41 PM
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And women received negative consequences as second class citizens and negative consequences when they fought and achieved equality. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:39 PM
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Then he's gonna be the neglectful husband Not if he agrees to take on washing the dishes instead. It’s about balancing chores not the chores themselves. I take out the garbage. So does my husband. and in a divorce case he's gonna have to pay alimony. Do you know whether his wife works or not? Alimony is awarded only in 10% of divorces, some of those are men receiving, and alimony is often for a limited period. You seriously think this would work? World would implode over a movement like that. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:36 PM
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“ It used to be men were bound by a legal contract called "marriage" before having the opportunity to plant their seed.” Only someone who has never cracked a history book would say something as ignorant as that. You know what William the Conqueror’s nickname was before he conquered England? William the Bastard. A ton of Popes have had bastards. Stop blaming feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:28 PM
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Women want to have sex but fear pregnancy so contraception is pushed, even abortion is legalized. complete logic fail. Abortion and BC was done to benefit both men and women. Something men seem to forget. Do you think men get vasectomies to help women out with their careers? Or as a favor to women? My husband was pretty glad to have lots of sex with me without another dangerous pregnancy. A whole lot of men would murder their girlfriends or wives or end up with way too many mouths to feed in abj…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:23 PM
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Are those real quotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:01 PM
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“ feminism and specially the first two waves did a decent job but after that it did become worse and worse... today modern feminists push equity and not equality because they do not understand statistical parity” I guess men just don’t have what it takes for college then huh? 💅 or should we work on why men have lower scores and more trouble in school. You tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:59 PM
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Why did you leave out that men get affirmative action into college - and yes that includes white men? https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html https://www.ivywise.com/ivywise-knowledgebase/the-truth-about-the-gender-gap-on-college-campuses/ https://www.thenation.com/article/society/college-admissions-gender/tnamp/ https://www.thenation.com/article/society/college-admissions-gender/tnamp/ Of course men get the lions share of sports scholarships - which is obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:57 PM
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Child marriages are legal in a bunch of southern states
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:03 PM
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Lol. And lots of women voted for Trump. So fuck your election.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:02 PM
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And that is the problem. You think that all a woman offers is sex. My husband gets a fuck ton more out of a supportive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:01 PM
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Men want boobs! And they don’t have boobs! How hypocritical!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:10 PM
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The hypocrisy of promiscuous men: I never contributed to men being short, but you guys go out of your way to fuck (and thus raise) the n count of every woman you see that is moderately attractive - and then bitch about wanting purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:41 PM
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“ average girl spends her 20s being chads play thing on tinder.” Not really. I mean some do. Most don’t. Most women are in LTRs by their mid twenties. That’s why they are marrying at 28
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:34 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:32 PM
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And? Sounds like they are looks matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:31 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:19 PM
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There are more examples than height. Women tend to want 6 figure earning men even though they don’t earn 6 figures. Men were fucking thrilled to learn I made six figures and I never had one man turn me down (to my knowledge) over my salary. My first husband sure loved it and loved to spend it. My second husband has always been fine with me making bank. Most intelligent men know having more money makes life easier - including for them. You can see this pattern in history for YEARS. The poor lords…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:17 PM
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If you are going to cite biology, then you must acknowledge that men ate highly collaborative and always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:58 PM
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Lions do not hunt alone. Jesus. You don’t begin to understand the basics of the animals you are discussing and think we should believe you about humans? Humans aren’t even close to felines. We are deeply social animals as are our closest relatives - chimpanzees. Men aren’t “lone wolves.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:57 PM
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“ so they can afford to be lone wolves…” No men can’t. A man left alone in the wild without social support is on the fast track to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:45 PM
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Homosexuality is entirely natural. It has always existed among men. It has also been seen in other animals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:42 PM
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My husband is in interviews right now for a c suite position (and fucking good for him. He has long deserved it.) I am an attorney. While he has been fine with me being a SAHM (I couldn’t hack it), there is no lie that he liked and likes that I am strong minded and independent. Not dom either but this idea that strong men need submissive wives is silly. I often think it’s the reverse - it’s weak men that need submissive wives. Not that he was a model husband in any way, but the CEO of Astronomer…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:29 PM
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One of my kids is dating another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:19 PM
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Yup. Resulted in even lower birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:12 PM
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“ Why would a man want just someone instead of women they are actually attracted to? The bar isn’t someone, it’s someone they want…” From logos below. I don’t think we can link.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:10 PM
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They think history started at 1950
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:02 PM
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I always wondered about this. I’ve made over six figures for most of my life. I don’t get a special deal on buying my house or my taxes for women only. I don’t get a special number to call for government save-a-hoe. I’d never get alimony. I might get a tiny bit of child support. I think you guys mistake support for children as support for women. but that continues to ignore men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:01 PM
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I’m in his age range. If for some reason I lost my husband, I won’t be looking to date. I have a demanding career, two kids still at home, and limited time. I don’t have time for a relationship. I still love sex but it isn’t a need like these guys claim. I sure won’t do one night stands with my kids around, and frankly, men have made it very clear how much they hate our kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:55 PM
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I’m sorry you’re having a hard time. I know you wont believe me, but most women outside of that 18-28 range are pretty invisible to men, especially if they are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:42 PM
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“ A lot of these men are and continue doing those things though. Yet they’re still getting no romantic attention from any woman...” Men who post what OP posted are not nice, kind, or funny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:41 PM
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Lmao. More of that “logical” thought from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:28 PM
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You guys really think you don’t get anything from society, don’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:27 PM
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“Passively search….”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:19 PM
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The hypocrisy of promiscuous men: I never contributed to men being short, but you guys go out of your way to fuck (and thus raise) the n count of every woman you see that is moderately attractive - and then bitch about wanting purity. That would be like me cutting a man off at the knees and then saying he isn’t marriage worthy because he’s short.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:12 PM
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Lots of short men get really pissed when a short women wants a tall man. I know, as a five foot woman. And yes, it is hypocritical and also a stupid standard, which is why I never ruled out short men. So yes we get to call you guys hypocrites. I never contributed to men being short, but you guys go out of your way to fuck (and thus raise) the n count of every woman you see that is moderately attractive - and then bitch about wanting purity. That would be like me cutting a man off at the knees an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:09 PM
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If you give a man the option of a rich hot girl and a poor equally hot girl, the dude will pick the rich hot girl usually. Men aren’t seeking out uglier, fatter, poorer, stupider, weak women. This is tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:06 PM
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Not a study of any kind but dominetrixes say they get captains of industry all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:01 PM
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Who says that isn’t a “natural” preference? It’s existed since Rome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:59 PM
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Women get crucified over 6/6/6 even when they don’t state that’s their presence. Men just assume it is and crucify them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:58 PM
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Damn straight dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:56 PM
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“ There are a lot of posts in social media with young women complaining about their situationship or being a “side chick”…” Come on, you know this isn’t representative at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:54 PM
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Women aren’t on dating apps like men are, though. Isn’t the gender significantly skewed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:52 PM
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I’m all for men being less desperate for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:51 PM
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I see your point. I suppose I was thinking “all women” and “all men”rather than those still dating. Had I stayed married to my first husband, I’d have an n=1. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:50 PM
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As a white professional woman, most are married and the one or two that aren’t seem pretty happy like that. So if you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:13 PM
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“ I know many women who settled down immediately after high school, who are included in that median lifetime %. But they might never going to be in the dating pool again.” They should be included, though. That’s the point. Just like their husbands should be included.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:10 PM
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This is pretty funny. Good luck in Europe (serious).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:18 PM
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Exactly. I’m half Cuban. And my father is married to a German. I have a cousin married to a Japanese girl in Japan and a step bro in Switzerland. I was open to dating men from other cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:16 PM
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So you’ve got nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:14 PM
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I don’t respect the practice. Why should I? Especially when those guys shit all over western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:09 PM
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They deliberately go to far poorer countries
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:07 PM
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I had friends with that arrangement a long time ago. Worked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:04 PM
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Hey everyone, slaves were the major winners in the south over the common free white man! When the old Sultan died, the new son rose to prominence and his soldiers strangled every male child from baby up. Polygamy is awesome! I don’t need to be with a man for his resources. Bye boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:57 PM
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“ Why change when I can go to another country and find someone else who accepts me for being me?” Yes, i know men hate the fact that they have to now work to keep their wives rather than treat them like an appliance without consideration for their humanity. Do you know how this hits to me? Yes, I too initiated my first divorce and he didn’t want it. Was I supposed to put up with his philandering, his female “friends” calling me the “warden,” being locked out of the house, telling me that I shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:43 PM
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She’s married dude. Her standards aren’t bs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:11 PM
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Do you understand we live in a consumer driven economy? So far btw I’m the only one citing any evidence, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:10 PM
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Same for teachers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:05 PM
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Your mom is awesome. Tell her that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:05 PM
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Until I know a woman’s standards, I won’t be able to say whether they are inflated or not. “ . He's painfully average, he's the guy you aren't paying any attention to who doesn't register on your radar.” And most women don’t show up on men’s either. At least women consider men their own age attractive. Meanwhile men are hyper focused on twenty somethings. It always cracks me up when men get mad about behavior they themselves engage in. Don’t like being completely ignored? Welcome to reality, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:58 PM
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There was no context. You made a random comment under the automod that “ When was the last time you told a woman to lose her entitlement? This feels like something that is exclusively told to men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:52 PM
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She doesn’t need accountability as long as she’s upfront about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:46 PM
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Right? I had a high sex drive on BC. And off BC. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:43 PM
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I get that you are obsessed with gigachad but not everything is about him. They are idiots because most men aren’t six feet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:37 PM
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If one isn’t looking one is likely celibate. You think single men just fall from trees? If I didn’t put myself out there, I’d rarely run across an available single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:34 PM
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Crushes isn’t someone one is actually dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:26 PM
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By that standard, EVERYONE wants to be in a harem. Men all chase the same women. I guess they love being in a harem too for some high n count party girl. Guess they love being an orbiter. Attractive people are attractive. And no you aren’t going to shame women into focusing on fugly dudes with shit personalities any more than you are going to force men to chase some ugly “land whale”. Women don’t chase men just because they have twenty other girls chasing them. Tom Cruise is attractive, even at …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:10 PM
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I love how I got down voted. Dudes, didn’t your parents raise you to be independent, self sufficient, with a job? At least I’m raising my girls to clean up after themselves and other life skills…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:03 PM
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I love how utterly emotionally manipulative you are being? Oh some random woman says she doesn’t want to date anyone (men say it all the time) and it makes you spiral? Anywho, men constantly shit on single moms here, especially red pill men. Single moms are trash. Anyone who dates a single mom is a cuck. Single moms are just looking for some beta to take care of Tyrone’s spawn. Single moms are just looking for a daddy and a wallet for their kids. Single moms are sluts or made bad decisions. Do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:59 PM
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Note, the guy would be the same way. And considering I’d be a widow, he wouldn’t be some thirty year old gigachad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:46 PM
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Marriages are meant to last until death, yet they happen 50% of the time, and women initiate them 80% of the time. false. First marriages fail on average 40% and if you marry a college woman, it’s lower. false. Women file the paperwork with the court a little less than 70% of the time. That does not indicate that the woman wanted the divorce or caused the divorce. Let me ask, if your wife cheated on you and you fall for divorce, who broke the marriage? You or her? Often, the divorce is mutual an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:10 PM
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The person who initiates the divorce is not always the one who broke the marriage. I really don’t understand why you guys keep repeating that when it doesn’t show what you think it shows? Would you stay with a woman who cheated on you or would you file for divorce? And if the answer is yes, you’d file for divorce, do you think that means that you’re the one breaking the marriage? Or did she by cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:01 PM
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That’s great advice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:58 PM
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Watch the honeymooners - that hate on your wife humor long predated women trashing their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:56 PM
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The olllll ball and chain, amirite???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:55 PM
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I speak glowingly about my husband here and one of the jerks told me I must be trying to convince myself he’s good. A lot of men who come here will spin everything into the most negative light in order to stab themselves with it over and over again. That’s on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:54 PM
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“ Men aren’t picky about whom they are sexually attracted to at all.” You literally went to a different country to find what you want because you couldn’t get it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:48 PM
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“ I'm simply saying why it is more difficult today.” It isn’t. The flaws in your analysis: women may complain they have trouble finding a good man, this does not mean that they say it was easier in the 1950s to find a good man. those women who grew up back then, like my mom, don’t consider it worse now even though one of her daughters never married. - whenever one makes a choice there is always trade-offs. Do tell me the trade offs men made back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:44 PM
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And guys who tell me I should be forced to marry someone whether I like it or not to be his sexual servant isn’t exactly encouraging
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:32 PM
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We had societal guard rails designed for efficiency to make sure women were coupled up at an early enough age to start a family and to relieve their parents of the burden of having to continue to support her. My mom hasn’t supported me since I went to college. The end. This leads women to choice paralysis. Having too many options of anything makes it difficult to pick one and it also makes whatever choice you do make less satisfying and always questioning whether it was the right choice when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:31 PM
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But the ugly men weren’t really going for the ugly women right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:50 PM
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god that sounds stressful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:49 PM
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Interesting. I grew up in part in the Shenandoah Valley in that tip. Think Winchester-ish. My family is now down in central Va. My brother dated fifteen years ago and was rocking it in DC. Lots of smart educated attractive women. A lot of women he dated said it was awful. He snagged a doctor. My sister dated up in DC and … it was not great. She was reasonably attractive. Small delicate features, very slender, athletic, and smart. She is also a nut job, though. Re late bloomers. I agree I don’t r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:37 PM
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Right. Men regularly say they are mostly attracted to 23 year old women and that they will sleep with those they don’t find particularly attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:47 PM
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You know they’ve done research on this. Allowing women to work didn’t lower wages. Mainly because demand didn’t stay static. I doubt you’ve ever taken an economics class. https://www.goldmansachs.com/insights/articles/how-women-in-the-workforce-are-reshaping-the-global-economy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:28 PM
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I guess the question is whether they want what is available. If I am in a market, and all I am offered is shit sandwiches, I have two choices — buy the best shit sandwich or just pass.* A woman may have standards that are too high for the type of man she can get. So she has two choices - either forgo or lower her standards. Now were her standards too inflated? Maybe. Maybe not. I think this is in part what is happening in Japan - although it’s more a guess. The society requires women to do a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:17 PM
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Unrestrained capitalism. Businesses will always squeeze more and more out of workers for less and less. That’s just their nature. It’s why we needed child labor laws. I’m not saying we go as far as Europe, but they have a lot more mandated time off, great social safety net, etc. and that leads to a different work balance and also dating culture. They regularly go Dutch and there is less pressure on men to be uber providers. I base this off comments from euros that come here as well as my step br…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:04 PM
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I see it as a bit more active than you because it takes effort in laying the ground work. Picking your battle field, picking the right clothes, and closing the deal, but yes it still relies on the man approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:55 PM
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This. I work on my kids to have life skills as girls and how to be “good roommates” (which will work for being good wives if they choose to marry) - clean up after yourself. Do laundry. Be helpful. Honestly I’m more concerned with their college roommates. Edited to add - I’ve been far more focused on their independence as adults, not getting married. My mom once said to me she hoped to get us girls “married off” so we weren’t her problem anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:51 PM
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Boom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:42 PM
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This hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:38 PM
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I was friends with a gorgeous Hispanic woman. Think classical Spanish model tier beauty. No one would take her seriously. I think it’s better to be a 6-8 woman than a 9-10 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:37 PM
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That isn’t feminism’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:27 PM
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How would they know whether or not the women posting here have unreasonable expectations that are preventing them from getting the man that they want? It’s very rare we get a woman here who is single and is bitching that she can’t get a 6 foot tall, Adonis and trust fund man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:23 PM
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The point is that your statement - “This feels like something that is exclusively told to men” is wrong. If you were asking whether a woman will tell a female friend to drop their entitlement, it really depends on what that friend is saying. If I had a friend who actually claimed to want a 6/6/6 I’d probably tell her that she’s not likely to score that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:22 PM
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I don’t know why shit is double posting 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:16 PM
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I disagree. Perhaps because I myself was a late bloomer. Sometimes we come from dysfunctional backgrounds (that was my issue and one of the reasons for that bad first marriage). Sometimes people are in careers that interfere, like long haul trucking or the navy. Or maybe they had a major economic setback in their mid 20s. Or if they were raised in deep poverty and they are digging themselves out. We also tend to underplay the importance of location. A woman dating in DC is gonna have a hell of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:14 PM
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Your cousins are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:06 PM
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I’ve had the exact same conversations with my friends. If God forbid something happened to my husband, I wouldn’t be that interested anymore. I might have a gentleman friend to do a few things with, but that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:05 PM
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I don’t know, maybe because my mom was pretty traditional in certain respects, or maybe because I grew up in the south, but there was a lot of focus on how to catch a high-quality man. A big part of it was knowing and being available where high-quality men were - like college - and having the right look to attract them. Also, once approached, there’s a lot of focus on how to act in such a way to pull them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:03 PM
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“ A lot of us are shit (not like the women are much better, frankly, but not the topic of discussion) and women can easily life a VERY fulfilled and meaningful life without having a man anywhere in the picture.” Agree entirely. And, here’s the kicker., the good ones tend to be taken off the market quickly and held onto. This means that when a lot of guys here are dating, they’re dealing with people who haven’t been able to get into establish relationships. Now that could be that they’ve missed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:00 PM
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You know this isn’t entirely true. All that’s happening is that men are using the exchange rate and the power of the dollar to become comparatively very wealthy in comparison to the native population. They also tend to be slightly taller (depending on the country) and of course exotic. This is why people who go to other countries aren’t targeting places like Scandinavia or the UK. They are going to places that are substantially poorer. And considering how many women are in long-term relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:54 PM
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Men here constantly tell us that women have overinflated egos and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:50 PM
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This isn’t true at all. Again you guys confuse sex with relationships. And you better believe women have to work hard to get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:50 PM
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Woman here. First, there actually has been significant discourse where women discuss how to “ catch a man.” I’ve been off the market for quite a while, but various magazines like cosmopolitan and their online variants used to consistently carry articles on how to attract and keep men. There are podcasts that discuss it currently, but I doubt it really pops up on your algorithm. I don’t think it is quite as prevalent in the online space as what is for men, but I think that’s more about the differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:48 PM
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I donno. I married a deeply introverted man. I’m fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:35 PM
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It’s incredible. I want to send these posts to a sociology professor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:33 PM
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“ Hell, why even women avoid most women because they are such a burden they can't even like each other if they are not exactly the same thing in everything.” I think you need to confront your deep antipathy against women. All the objective evidence show that women on average have larger social networks and more friends than men do. That is direct evidence that more people (male and female) prefer being friends with women than men. In fact that deep life long social network is one of the reasons …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:31 PM
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“…. not about reciprocity or equality.” Bull. That is the type of horse manure that explains why men are “blindsided” when their wife or girlfriend walks. It always is the same story. He isn’t putting in much effort into the relationship or shared responsibilities. Instead he is off pursuing his own interests and ignoring her. And then she leaves. Not always, but often enough to be discussed extensively.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:57 PM
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“Only 70% of all women in the US take some form of maternity leave.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:49 PM
2

I disagree. This is a very reasonable concern. It’s why we have less and less babies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:46 PM
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So leave the country - cause that is where we are heading
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:44 PM
2

If “everyone needs to be a lot more careful about is who you have children with…” Then, op needs to keep “scaring women with this…” So do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:44 PM
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Without society you wouldn’t get a salary. Libertarians really are nothing but pampered house cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:55 PM
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We don’t make that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:51 PM
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Who benefits more from social services, poor people or rich people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:50 PM
6

Why should rich people have to pay more taxes than poor people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:48 PM
4

Take it up with the men who don’t support their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:47 PM
3

So your beef is with shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:47 PM
1

They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:45 PM
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Thank the US government and taxpayer for the internet that allows you to post. It all started with arpanet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:43 PM
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Because of kids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:40 PM
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Don’t use roads I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:37 PM
5

With everyone else, not him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:37 PM
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Right? They just want to be the ones to ruin them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:34 PM
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