AYWMS_NWiam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	is cool but...		AYWMS_NWiam	/r/seduction	17/12/11 01:51 PM

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1	My problem with Seddit Another option to consider is having an extreme but fragile ego. Putting yourself on such a high pedestal that you won't allow yourself to be in a situation where you can look stupid or lame. Fear of embarrassment is much more common than being introverted. I heard this redefinition recently and knew immediately I was not introverted or shy. People have just always told me I was so I went with it because it was easier to face. I am an alpha but I don't act like it because my ego is huge yet flim…	/r/seduction	06/09/12 03:45 AM
1	What cultural problems and issues do you see in the PUA community? The site doesn't tell me how to act but just informs me of what works. It's my choice to use that information. On that same note, I was a little concerned about seeing a post this evening directed at 13-16 year olds. This site is r/seduction so directing comments at youths about sex should be done in the context of our society at large and not about an individuals personal beliefs.	/r/seduction	03/09/12 05:35 AM
1	What am I doing wrong? First dates go well...but then no response or flake/ yes. I believe you can do too good a job. Is that your issue? I don't know but it's a different approach. If what you're doing isn't working then try something else. Another theory. Learned people gather more information faster. They enjoy the evening but don't feel there is much more to gain from the relationship. You can't be textbook with people who know textbooks. The information on this site is for the masses. And works for the masses. It's different if you're picking from a smaller pool. T…	/r/seduction	03/09/12 05:10 AM
1	What am I doing wrong? First dates go well...but then no response or flake/ You're an attractive doctor at a top university...I would probably go on a date with you just to see if you would call me back. Maybe you're doing too good of a job at leaving them satisfied. Don't contact them too soon. Let them sweat. You're a doctor for god's sake. You should be busy doctoring shit up and not have time for every coos that comes your way. It's worth a try.	/r/seduction	03/09/12 03:53 AM
1	Facial Expressions A rule I have a hard time following myself...quit thinking about it. Don't let the thought invade your mind even when you're alone. You're fine the way you are. Everything is great. It seems silly but that's what I tell myself when I'm analyzing myself. It could be better but maybe you haven't met those people that make you naturally relaxed. I was having lunch earlier this week with a new acquaintance and know I looked off. I didn't make excuses to myself or her, that's just how I felt. Not the…	/r/seduction	31/08/12 04:39 AM
1	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? It works but it's not something to build toward if you want to be more confident in yourself. You should always be self conscious and always get over it. The goal is to feel and act confidentially no matter what. Sunglasses are training wheels. Use them but know they hold you back from your full potential.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 06:10 AM
1	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? Smile back. even if you look like a 'madman'. The next time you feel more comfortable and look more comfortable.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 05:58 AM
2	Awkward silences 30 minutes in Silence isn't inherently awkward. I use it to collect my thoughts and bring up a subject I am genuinely interested in. It's always about the next thing you say not the last. The 'salesmen' attribute of being able to coherently ramble about what interests you is good to perfect but it gets old. I work on my ramble when I'm out with someone I'm on the fence about but If I'm genuinely interested then I will put it to them to impress me. You're the target of their affection too, so maybe you don't h…	/r/seduction	28/08/12 03:50 AM
2	"I have a boyfriend, but if i was single i really would give you my number!" - Shit test? I agree. It sounds like she's happy with what she has but wanted to let the OP know she liked him. He left the interaction in a good place for future conversations.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 03:16 AM
2	Is being a 'nice guy' really a bad thing? I think being confident in your actions is the difference between the two. Nice guy who is secure about being nice is a lot different then one who is furtive about it. Be nice, but do it gusto. Sincerity has a lot to do with it. Some people are assholes and some are nice but don't try to be one if you're the other. I had a problem with it when I was younger. ended up missing out because the girl didn't think I was interested. A lot of girls have been trained to respond to dog behavior so they ar…	/r/seduction	23/06/12 05:50 PM
7	My take on what to do when she doesn't text back. yea. text girl, no response, text her again in a day or so. If you keep it light and funny they will usually text back if they are remotely interested. Everyone likes positive attention, but don't sit around waiting for a text. Move on if they don't respond to a couple texts. I'm currently seeing this girl who wasn't very responsive at first because I gave her some secure/positive attention every couple of days...Now she gets concerned when I don't text her back quick enough. :p	/r/seduction	23/06/12 05:28 PM
102	I'm in my 20s and haven't had my first kiss yet, recently I declined an obvious proposition for sex. go get embarrassed.	/r/seduction	31/05/12 02:57 AM