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| 5 | Nobody told me that 'no closure' also applied to the rebuilding of a lifeI have read your other posts mate. All the closure you need is in the realistic divorce papers. Loving is letting go. She was a part of your life not your whole life. You should have know that winter had come when the separation happened. Females do that as an exit strategy. Focus on being an excellent father to your kids and not fucking up joint custody. Her actions are fixed in time. They will not change. Meticulously document them and show them to your kids when they are 12 yrs old. Don't hol… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/26 08:38 AM |
| 19 | Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back inShe most likely had a relationship or tried to have a relationship that didn't work out like she thought it would. Respond to her with cold, icy silence. Nothing she says matters. She was a part of your life not your whole life. DONT GO BACK TO HER. SHE HAS SHOWN YOU HER TRUE COLORS. SHE DIRECTLY TOLD YOU SHE DIDN'T LOVE YOU AND SHE HIRED ATTORNEY(S) WORTH A LOT OF DOLLARS. Wishing you the best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 04:14 AM |
| -2 | Wife has moved on-big timeShe had probably been done with you before that month before she gave you the book. You ignored her last effort (the book) to make things work. You can't completely blame her for going for another person. What she did was wrong but you must owne your part. Just let go and speed things up. End it outside court. Get joint custody if there are young kids and offer 40% of assets. Please protect your house in a way that she can't go after it during the proceedings. It's important to keep a cool head … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 06:08 AM |
| -2 | Wife’s Having An Affair.1) She knows what she is doing is wrong, she still did it anyway. She knows how you will feel, she didn't care. 2) She is a potential DANGER. Don't ingest (eat or drink) anything she comes across. Halt all sexual interactions with her. She could get an S.T.D. Keep every other thing normal. 3) Collect evidence of her actions. A day when it is only both of you at home, sit her down and show her the evidences. Ask her if she still wants the marriage. Listen, don't argue. Put your emotions on hold. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Time for divorce?Hell yeah man. She is dead weight bro. She showed this before the wedding but you ignored it. Cut off dead weight. Protect your assets first though before slamming her with the divorce papers. Settle things in arbitration. Don't let it escalate to court. She clearly has a fundamental problem of thinking everything must go her way. She is also very manipitive. I know in the mist of all of this you never stopped providing snd protecting her. There is nothing to "talk" about. There's no "interventi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Could my wife and I work through these red flags?Run for your life bro. She can't be all the things you listed and be "caring". That is contradictory. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 06:44 AM |
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